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So... lambskin condoms
/r/askTRP27/10/19 01:03 AM
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I second climbing. Another add on to this would be cycling. My roommate used to climb and got me interested in climbing, I cycle and got him interested in cycling. Yin + Yang. Also, music. I'm getting picks today and trying to re-learn guitar basics.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:59 PM
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If she’s a plate, this doesn’t matter
/r/askTRP07/01/19 09:51 PM
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TLDR, radio silence or bust homie. One-itis sounds like what I would diagnose you with. Get new options asap. What the fuck are you doing with your life.....?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:06 PM
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There’s lots of BP philosophy behind most recovery material, which isn’t necessarily bad, but just eat the fish and spit out the bones so to speak. This is exactly what I started to predicate this post on, but it didn't make sense to stress that once I gave it some honest thought. I expected that, and I can discern what is and isn't bullshit/wont work for me. I've had this pervasive fear in the back of my head leading up to it though, that I could spend so much fucking time hearing it I get brai…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:14 PM
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This is the first post on TRP that really rang bells for me in a while, fuck..
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 06:17 PM
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This. Times a million. I'm recovering after several years of literal celebrity level chemical dependency issues. Like, outside of probably 70k+ spent on this-and-that in 4 years, I had a period of just under a year where I was handed prescriptions like candy. Fistfulls of pills, blacked out all day, every day. Amost 200 full prescriptions in 10 months. That was the worst, second only to having the ICU calling my job to tell them I couldn't come in, because I'm on life support. Now Its a struggle…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 10:26 PM
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Dude if they're your ex it doesn't matter, go hang out with (fuck) someone else. They can get blown out by whoever the moment you're out of the scene (or out of sight really don't underestimate anyone) and usually they're on the way to branch swinging anyway. The point it it doesn't matter go listen to run the jewels and lift. Get a date, live your life. You internalize it through repitition. Action kills doubt. Keep grinding it out. Consider checking out GLL'S Approach anxiety program or taking…
/r/askTRP27/05/17 11:08 PM
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Almost identical situation give or take here. It sucked for bout 12 hours while I had to process it. it's for the best and I'm getting it sorted out tomorrow, do it and get it done. I will say though, when I realized the passion and spark were gone cold and she wasn't "tiffany" anymore, it was sad but it only confirmed that the sell by date had passed. It's a sad thing to realize you're never going to be on the same terms with someone you genuinely care for (and have neural pathways associated w…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 05:31 AM
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Kill yourself
/r/askTRP07/05/17 09:38 PM
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Dude, get back to cuddling your anime body pillow and wash your cum crusted sheets. The only thing making your dick crawl back in is your small dick barely being able to make it out in the first place. I'm working on myself, I'm in a better position than I've ever been, so I don't know what bullshit you're on about. More power to you for not wanting thick broads tho. I motivate me, my wants and desires motivate me, women are the last thing im pressed over. I dont even want a woman per-se, I enjo…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 12:24 AM
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I wouldn't smash until she lost the bulk of her weight if you read that. You call her weight into question but first; I'm proud of her for losing that weight because I really would like to see her become a better version of herself. She's got a lot of potential as a human and she's honestly cool. Have done a fuck ton of things together and had a lot of fun. Ill always be grateful for that, I wasn't into her but she decided to jump through a million hoops, enter my frame, brought to the table thi…
/r/askTRP06/05/17 07:50 AM
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Edited for less paranoia inducing languages how's it going over with ya now. And their therapist thinks it's important for her to have her needs met and it's only healthy that she does if she wants to. He's so fucking clueless he can't grasp that if he got a life and started blowing those walls out their marriage would be fixed. Instead he doubles down. He's been told that, presented with bare bones explantions, solutions, plans of action, factual to the T shit, etc if he wanted to really get it…
/r/askTRP06/05/17 05:42 AM
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Word
/r/askTRP06/05/17 05:13 AM
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Thank you. I never entertained the idea of saying any heinous shit like that to anyone face to face but I'm learning that when I don't stand in my own way, I can cruise right past and pretty much pull whoever/do whatever within reason.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 03:31 AM
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Everyone says no, so take the fact that I've only got this anecdote to go off of with a grain of salt; I've been fucking with a chick for 2 years. She was ~250 lbs and I wouldn't fuck her. Got to be close friends, she started losing it and got a little more shape to her so I hit and slowly she just got badd. My "weight limit" is 165 (unless the thirst is real I like skinny little broads I can accidentally break, it's like a challenge). At least homegirl told me that's why she started working out…
/r/askTRP06/05/17 01:46 AM
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Different strokes. I've got a thing for spinners I can break, so you're not the special red snowflake. I'm not into big chicks either. Some might be a little ugly or fat but i screen and run game on a larger scale sometimes it's bound to happen. If she doesnt do it for me then I've earned the luxury of picking and choosing and so I do. You're not going to start positioning yourself above me however subtly it may be, sunshine. I'm not LilBroTM
/r/askTRP06/05/17 12:00 AM
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Hey man thanks for the feedback, I'm grinding this out and have been making progress lately. It really is like living in two different worlds. I can't wait to make it through to the other side full time, but I'm having a fucking blast in the mean time My game needs overhaul and smv is doing all the work right now. Time to fall back on more textbook hours. Hundreds eventually screened out and more on ice. 7+ is a pipe dream right now. Will follow up on GLL's AA program and keep truckin.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 11:40 PM
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Thanks, and nah actually not much but some. I lost 110, she lost 100, leftover skin it doesn't show much on either of us.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 09:55 PM
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Yes I do, I've already got a busy life and a few alright chicks in the stable. One married one ive had around for two years, she's 26 & lost 100lbs/got kinda badd because of me. Was a co-worker. I don't tinder, no facebook IG or anything. In regards to my smv it's not low it's just not where I want it yet. So anything 7 and below I dont have trouble with, they're usually estatic to be linking up with me. Like everyone else though my game is on fire some days and other days I'm off or anxiety blo…
/r/askTRP05/05/17 09:00 PM
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Dude it's just what i call "apocalypse game" Game is all numbers anyway. Toss out a line to whatever could pass on a really fucking dead Tuesday night in a dark backseat. Maybe she has hot friends and is down for a 3some, you never know. I'm assuming you know something I don't and since this isn't the bread and butter for me I'm not pressed. It's copy-paste-pimpin no need to think that far into it. I'm definitely listening though, go on..
/r/askTRP05/05/17 08:57 PM
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"Hey it's Blackballed_ from x" and picture. Let reply bake and "hey" again when I want to move on it or I call when they hit me back and tell em I'm off (? day) and I want to see them, if it doesnt work I'll call another night I'm free. If they're down and want to meet up then Ill talk about vague logistics. I'll Smalltalk occasionally if I'm bored or trying a new escalation strategy/line but those ones I've already screened out.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 08:52 PM
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www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3l310a/the_red_pillers_guide_to_online_dating www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/online-dating/roosters-guide-to-plenty-of-fish Go apeshit, in a few weeks these have turned my dating life around and my phone is exponentially busier now. Copy-paste-pimpin this morning with "Hey doll how does getting tied up and stretched out by a young stud sound? I'm blackballed_" got 4 bad responses out of dozens of milfs. YMMV
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:10 PM
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GLL's approach anxiety program is great
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:09 AM
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The edit was basically /thread
/r/askTRP26/03/17 06:47 AM
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No need to down vote my dude here. He's got a point and I agree pretty well with it. Except, be open minded to seeing it through the eyes of someone well known in the scene, then apply what you objectively find to fit better. Edit: as another poster mentioned, purplepill is probably your speed. If Chad is doing measurably better than you, take notes. Theory can't usurp experience as the ultimate teacher but they aren't mutually exclusive. Rather, they're pretty close on the libra scale.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:22 AM
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TL;DR Stay woke fam. Taking 100 dicks and getting down with an orgy on the reg are usually far fetched, take that with a grain of salt. Something that is totally plausible but outlandish in day to day life being expressed like that is usually flagging the underlying pathology that is exploitable. Either that or warped perceptions of reality are really that real. E.g. Married and "good girls" are my thing (I swear to God no humblebrag) because I always get a kick out of the ratchet shit I get int…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:16 AM
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Dude I'm just saying, I wake up dumb early and get food first thing if I was fucked up the night before. Its just SOP, get the hangover/"party" out of your day and the 23 other hours you've got left go so much smoother. Am known to walk into the store and load up for the week, or squad up and hit the diner, while still smashed from the night before too. Winds up being a bi-weekly occurance, and doesn't hold us back any. Don't paint a turd, dude. Whole foods hipster/valley girls are just as quick…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 06:59 AM
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@OP FWIW It's been nearly 3 years, finally in the stage 4-stage 5 transition. Stage 3-4 took forever because I wasn't really working towards it. Mostly absorbing the theory as much as possible. GLL's AA program started to show me the light and snap me out of that "depression due to acceptance of reality" shit. Edit: absorbing theory is just shorthand for "not really doing anything about it, but still lurking because I'm lazy". Didn't realize I still had that much chump in me ;)
/r/askTRP18/03/17 03:09 AM
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Where's my bleach?
/r/PussyPass15/12/16 08:49 PM
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I'm not into the push/pull dynamic, if she shifts to where I'm woking to get her then I'll next in a second. I will be straight up, however, I am into chicks who can make it interesting and trigger my primal side, ones who naturally play a role complementary to my masculinity without taking much time up and playing games.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 07:42 PM
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I'm actually kind of blown that you read straight into that, but yeah, it's been rough at work lately, and I'm working my way back into good standings. Will take a while. Advice is much appreciated, trying to monk mode again, as per my understanding of the sidebar, but shit's such a wreck that I've got to take an extended leave of absence from life as I know it to get myself back in order. Being the dude that racks up a 100 dollar bar tab getting sloppy and then acting a motherfucking nut is hei…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 07:59 PM
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Petition for this, because it really seems like this idea slowly faded away when it used to be an accepted fact, and we need someone to bring this back at the very least as a talking point for the new kids.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 02:34 PM
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Tl;Dr's TL;DR: Don't be a cunt, have manners and be a gentleman as much as you can successfully mix into your personality. Being nice, sociable with everyone, and abiding by some of the rules of yesterday can and do still work and even beta things aren't actually beta when applied PROPERLY and with congruency to whom you so happen to be. Shit takes skill, tact. Tl;Dr it's a bad example of abundance mentality but if you've got a bomb girl in the sac and you two are cool, but you can tell she's an…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 05:24 PM
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Pardon me if it's been said, or if I'm less than helpful, but. SIDEBAR, SIDEBAR, SIDEBAR, You clearly haven't read it, if you have, read it again. Edit: is this an elaborate troll?
/r/askTRP07/11/15 02:27 AM
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You're right, and I appreciate the feedback brother. I guess I needed to hear that. I wasn't thinking far enough ahead and simply jumped to "dad is 10/10 miserable, how can I help him?" trying to do a favor for family, but you're right. I'll do my best to disassociate from the issue, and live my own life. Working in nursing, savior schema is embedded into me, and it's my default for everything but women, which I clearly need to work on. Again, I appreciate the wake up call.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:57 PM
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I'm on Maryland's eastern shore, I'm very interested
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 12:13 AM
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I go to bars multiple times a week alone, and I've gone to multiple parties solo. I just walk in, get a drink first and foremost. Find someone to talk to, maybe someone random with something interesting going on, or I scope somewhere to park myself until I can feel out the scene. You belong there as much as anyone else, what can anyone else say?
/r/askTRP25/04/15 09:45 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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