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lol you like that look too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:00 AM
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what are the -kun and -san endings?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:42 AM
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Who has been sending this message, and what public discourse? This is not representative of most normal women...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:39 AM
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Yeah, this is the friend zone perfectly explained. I was so frustrated as a teenager that girls would tell me they just got friend vibes from me - I finally realized I was SENDING OUT friend vibes because I wasn't comfortable with my sexuality, and worked on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:38 AM
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Kissing them, trying to undress them, touching their skin all over
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:36 AM
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Yeah but that aesthetic is SUPER HOT. So if you're into it, you have to hit on people who look like that, and hope some are into guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:36 AM
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I'm sorry you had this horrible abuse growing up. Reading about this kind of thing interests me. The public comments are not from everyone and are more about signalling and trying to portray an image.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:35 AM
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It honestly seems that the more effective strategy is to establish a sexual relationship first then build more of a friendship. Yes, this is the way to go. You absolutely have to have sex with them early on. Relationships start with sex, then you build a friendship while having sex, and then the romantic stuff comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:28 AM
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Interesting about Caplan! I'm a fan. Do you know for sure he is ND? I read a post of his on his blog where he somehow thinks it's a good idea to ask a girl if you can hold her hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:35 AM
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mmm pussy is so magical it's all about pussy!
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 05:45 AM
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Is the octopus supposed to represent pussy? lol
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 05:50 AM
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I don't understand why on earth you have a problem with someone dating younger women.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 01:00 AM
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Do you consider yourself demisexual?
/r/seduction20/04/21 05:54 AM
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Interesting, but why wouldn't you text them again after for more pussy? And why would she be disappointed?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 06:19 PM
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I don't understand the thought process - why would she be disappointed and who cares? You got nothing to lose and you might get more pussy. If she wasn't interested what difference does it make and why would she care? I don't think the girl was in "bad emotional trauma" she was just horny and looking for a guy she clicked with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:10 AM
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Yeah I think that's right. I also think guys don't usually lose interest for that reason either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 10:32 PM
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To clarify, it was not mutual loss of interest. I would always wanna fuck again (because hey, it's pussy) but a lot of the times they're one and done. And yes, some of the time I would have been open to serious relationships with them, or at least exploring that possibility, but I never heard from them again. It happens a lot. I don't think the problem was that we fucked on the first date - I think they were looking for something specific and the chemistry just wasn't there, but they were still …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 09:52 PM
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There’s a reason why the whole “toxic masculinity” theory (which appears to be more or less what you’re getting at) is more commonly believed by women than it is by men: not that many men actually relate to it. Despite its name, it’s a female-centric perspective on gender. No not at all - toxic masculinity is like how if a guy gets bullied or abused people will tell him to suck it up instead of taking it seriously. The rest of your comment is 100% correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 09:17 PM
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At least I have never heard of a guy saying that he got sex on the first date and then the girl lost interest in him. Not saying it never happens but probably not enough to be concerned Are you serious? Probably half the girls I have sex with aren't a match or are just looking for a one time thing and I never hear back. Not everyone clicks. That doesn't mean I should have waited - we just weren't a match. But it happens all the time that you hook up with a girl and she's not interested in more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 09:15 PM
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Well yeah obviously you gotta make sure you like the restaurant also - why go somewhere you don't like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 09:12 PM
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Nope, they just use them for money while banging the guys they're actually attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 09:10 PM
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Are you still seeing and fucking other people during those few weeks? You always have to be seeing a few people or you end up depending too much on one. Just understand that people pleasing or being agreeable is the biggest turn-off there is. Be aware of it and make an effort to stop by focusing on what you want.
/r/seduction31/12/19 01:41 AM
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Haha, thanks for the support. I appreciate it. I'm not sure what's happened to this sub...
/r/seduction04/12/19 10:10 AM
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Maybe she likes you. Just try to kiss her
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:53 PM
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What was that text in response to? What were you surprised she said? Just don't panic, it's not a big deal. Honestly, the anxiety about her seeing you as desperate and needy is way worse than actually being desperate and needy. Like, stop worrying so much how she sees you! It's just a drunk text. She's been ghosting you anyway so it's not like it really makes a difference. Most people you start to vibe with will end up ghosting you - that's just life.
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:52 PM
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context, noun con·​text, ˈkän-ˌtekst 1 : the parts of a discourse that surround a word or passage and can throw light on its meaning 2 : the interrelated conditions in which something exists or occurs : environment, setting
/r/seduction27/11/19 01:23 AM
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No - a judgment is "I'm bad" whereas an assessment is "I think I made a mistake when I did X and I want to develop my skills in that area." See the difference?
/r/seduction27/11/19 12:30 AM
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How is that postmodern? You practice talking to girls and hitting on them, and assess your skills and your results. You can tell if you've improved by your results - just look at whether you are getting pussy and how attractive you find the girls.
/r/seduction26/11/19 08:23 PM
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Practice. That's not the same as judging yourself which doesn't help with any of those things.
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:50 AM
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Oh wow! That's amazing. I'm jealous. Have you fucked any of the others?
/r/seduction25/11/19 11:07 PM
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Why couldn't you keep seeing her just one-on-one? How did you ask the other waitresses about her? Like how did that work?
/r/seduction25/11/19 10:30 PM
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What did they warn you? How? Why wouldn't you just keep fucking her?
/r/seduction25/11/19 08:00 PM
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I don't know, I think young girls have a lot of power with their beauty. What about men under a certain age?
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:20 PM
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Kiss her at the minigolf course!
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:16 PM
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I wonder which came first
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:16 PM
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I always do. It's super common in the US, though some guys seem to assume they should pay
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:15 PM
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It's more than that, though. It's reminding yourself that you don't know her and she doesn't owe you anything, so you should lean back and not get attached.
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:13 PM
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Yeah, it's even 16 in most US states. This society is extremely age-segregated in a way that most other societies in human history were not. We're raised with people our exact age all through childhood and taught that people of other ages are so different. People get really hung up on age.
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:11 PM
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Wtf why would you say that? At least have sex with her. Why are you talking about "being together" with her already?
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:08 PM
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I don't understand. What guy? What do you mean defeat?
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:06 PM
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Even if you go dutch?
/r/seduction25/11/19 09:04 AM
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I agree about authenticity, but that doesn't preclude staying neutral and not overinvesting in someone you don't know. It's not about being disingenuous, it's about being realistic.
/r/seduction25/11/19 09:04 AM
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You're still so young too - only 24. A 6 year age difference is nothing. There's nothing predatory about it and it's ridiculous that you would let that stop you.
/r/seduction25/11/19 09:01 AM
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What was the weird shit she was into?
/r/seduction25/11/19 09:00 AM
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So ask her out. What's stopping you? She probably gets hit on by half the guys there so it's not like you'd be barred from the gym.
/r/seduction25/11/19 02:28 AM
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Lol. I don't want to ruin my universe so I only date fictional characters.
/r/seduction25/11/19 01:01 AM
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There are so many gyms out there. I wouldn't consider that shitting where you eat. What's next, not wanting to ruin your grocery store?
/r/seduction25/11/19 12:18 AM
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Doesn't matter - she wasn't into you, so don't let it worry you.
/r/seduction25/11/19 12:17 AM
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Why are you so worried about it? Like what exactly are you worried about happening?
/r/seduction22/11/19 11:59 PM
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I know, right?
/r/seduction22/11/19 10:49 PM
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Yeah, I was really sad about that pinned comment as well. That mod has his own viewpoint on game but it's counterproductive to be discouraging cold approaches. I'm really worried for all the guys with social anxiety - the world constantly tells them not to talk to anyone, and we're supposed to be the lone voice of sanity.
/r/seduction22/11/19 10:47 PM
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Well OP had already had sex with her so that's what he should have done! I'm saying you need to take them and just go at them but I got accused of being a rapist for saying that :(
/r/seduction22/11/19 10:29 PM
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I'm generally pretty forthcoming and aggressive about my intense need and desire for them (once we're in my bedroom or have had sex already, obviously) and I've found that really gets them going.
/r/seduction22/11/19 10:04 PM
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Definitely stop drinking! That'll kill your game. Liquid courage isn't real lol
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:28 PM
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You will come across as creepy or invasive sometimes. You will make them uncomfortable sometimes. That's unavoidable. No way to do this without making mistakes sometimes. You just have to give yourself permission to escalate and be sexual. Make a conscious effort to try it, and just understand that it's part of the process if you make a mistake - that's the only way to learn. The better you are at this, the more mistakes you've made. So give yourself permission to try and experiment even though …
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:26 PM
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You have to balance that with showing them that you really want them. The girl might have let him leave since he wasn't showing that.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:21 PM
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Like, uncomfortable being sexual with girls, uncomfortable hitting on them, uncomfortable making moves and escalating, uncomfortable with the fact that you want to fuck them.
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:50 PM
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I've seen this a lot and my guess is you're holding back because you're uncomfortable with your sexuality.
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:34 PM
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Try reloading it? Give it a minute to load? Here's what it says: Hi, I think I've become very good at approaching girls and flirting. However it goes bad as soon as I'm actually attracted to them. Give me any average-looking girl, a semi-empty bar and I have an easy time. I even enjoy it just because I love flirting. I can fake an interest in them, make entertaining conversation and I feel like I'm in control of the situation all the way. However, as soon as I start caring, I'm being too nice, I…
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:22 PM
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Why? How did you make it easier?
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:55 AM
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That's funny, because the darkness and music make night game so much harder and more intimidating for me.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:51 AM
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https://www.removeddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dziued/how_to_not_care_about_the_people_youre_attracted/ They're all saved on Removeddit.
/r/seduction21/11/19 08:58 PM
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Yes, exactly. This is why I disagree with the stickied comment. The only way to learn calibration is to practice and make mistakes a lot. Better to do that in a cold approach where you don't know anyone and you can just move on without consequences if you fuck up.
/r/seduction20/11/19 09:51 AM
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Thanks again for your detailed response. b.) And then responding according to what you have observed B is the hard part. Responding appropriately requires good calibration. Without that, you might think a response is appropriate when it isn't. My point is that you're going to build this important skill up faster by using it. By observing. Not by repeating cold approaches Don't cold approaches involve practicing skill B? This is the biggest adjustment you could make today: stop trying to joke sex…
/r/seduction20/11/19 03:36 AM
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This is exactly my experience as well. When I look for relationships I get nothing. When I look for hookups I get relationships. All my relationships started with sex. It's just how women are. Sex bonds people and creates relationships. Taking it slow pushes women away. They think you don't like them. goes against what most women say they want Pay attention to what they do, not what they say. People don't know themselves that well. As someone else on that other sub I just got banned from said, y…
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:26 AM
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Social circle game: I have repeatedly seen guys coming in and fucking it up for everyone at a bar or club. They're doing their approaches and their calibration is off. The girls close up and then they're not giving ANYONE the time of day. They're rejecting people preemptively. This is why I keep saying that cold approach is not a beginner technique. If guys keep looking at cold approach that way, it contributes to less fun for everyone. That doesn't really seem fair. How else are we supposed to …
/r/seduction19/11/19 12:17 PM
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Thanks for the detailed response and sharing your experience. the main thing is physical escalation and calibration during that process, not how "direct" the words were in your opener... if the guy physically escalates in a well-calibrated way, he's going to come off direct, confident, and savvy. Agree completely. You're talking about a compliment opener. That's not direct. It's over-assumptive, and a wasted opportunity because there is often more than enough information lying around to come up …
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:15 PM
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Fair enough. Personally, I love taking a woman and just going at her. If that's not your thing, I understand.
/r/seduction18/11/19 07:20 AM
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No, it's pretty much the opposite - you want to make a move, make a move. Don't worry about what other people will think. In this context, she was testing to see if he really wanted her.
/r/seduction17/11/19 11:04 PM
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Like if she says she’s gonna sleep why the fuck would I persist in sex with someone that doesn’t want it? Especially imo if she says I should leave and I persist I feel like I’m chasing her which I wouldn’t want to do. Because she does want it. Because she wants you to persist. Because she wants to feel needed and desired. Because she wants to be taken. Because she wants to be chased. Because it works.
/r/seduction17/11/19 10:57 PM
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I don't even think he had to go along with the whole nap pretense. She wanted to be taken and to know he wanted her. He could have just started kissing her and going at her and she would have responded eagerly.
/r/seduction16/11/19 03:16 PM
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Yes. She wanted him to go for her and didn't want to have to say it. I don't even think he had to go along with the whole nap pretense. He could have just started kissing her or pulled her to the bedroom.
/r/seduction16/11/19 03:10 PM
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She wanted to be taken and she was testing how bad you wanted her. You were supposed to just escalate at that point rather than make it into a test.
/r/seduction16/11/19 11:37 AM
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Doesn't seem like she needed much convincing. She said that because she wanted to know he needed and desired her.
/r/seduction16/11/19 09:34 AM
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Right - she wanted to be taken. He didn't need to do anything but that.
/r/seduction16/11/19 09:23 AM
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Thanks - starting to think I was going crazy
/r/seduction16/11/19 08:25 AM
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Yeah, there are definitely advantages to indirect style. The direct vs indirect debate is eternal. I think either can work and there are some advantages to each. You're right that a direct opener doesn't give girls something to respond to or directly lead to conversation, doesn't show you're paying attention, and isn't specific. It's not supposed to be any of those things. It does have other advantages - it shows confidence and dominance, directly communicates interest, sets up a frame of man/wo…
/r/seduction16/11/19 07:13 AM
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I explained in more detail here https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dwz6jx/hilarious_reaction_from_this_girl_when_i_didnt/f7n4w3x/ Hopefully that will make more sense to people.
/r/seduction16/11/19 06:10 AM
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I explained in more detail in this comment https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dwz6jx/hilarious_reaction_from_this_girl_when_i_didnt/f7n4w3x/
/r/seduction16/11/19 06:07 AM
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I think another way to handle this would have been to just start escalating. Like when she said she was going to lie down you could have just walked over to her, held her head in your hands, and leaned in to kiss her. If she responded positively to that then you could just continue escalating as normal.
/r/seduction16/11/19 06:06 AM
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Obviously escalating is not rape, wtf
/r/seduction16/11/19 06:04 AM
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That's bizarre but what can you do. I actually wrote in another comment that he could have started kissing her and that is also currently negative. There's no way that could sound bad. And my reply to you above that she would have been receptive to escalation is at 0. Weird. Do you agree he could have just started kissing her?
/r/seduction16/11/19 05:56 AM
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Why? I'd rather post helpful things. I don't care about karma; it's a meaningless number. But for real, she would have been very receptive to escalation then. No idea why anyone downvoted this.
/r/seduction16/11/19 05:42 AM
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I'd have just jumped her as if she didn't say anything
/r/seduction16/11/19 04:08 AM
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You know you could have just started kissing her when she said that, right?
/r/seduction16/11/19 04:08 AM
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And how do you improve your game? Lots and lots of practice.
/r/seduction15/11/19 02:36 AM
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Another common problem is that a lot of guys think that it's a great thing to open with some variation of telling the girl that she's cute. This is an unconventional statement - direct openers like that are commonly taught by a lot of coaches and I find they generally work well. Why are you totally against them?
/r/seduction14/11/19 08:33 PM
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What do you mean? How is it not a numbers game?
/r/seduction14/11/19 08:28 PM
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in real life, if the girl loves/likes you, you don't have to worry about assholes chatting her up while you take a piss. She's not your property anyway, and if she doesn't love/like you, the you better let her go to the other guy in any case That's the whole point of OP's post!
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 01:30 AM
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Why do you think that? They're simple and common interactions.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 01:15 AM
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That had nothing to do with the post. The post is literally the exact opposite of what you're saying... the whole point is to NOT try to be macho, just walk away.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 12:56 AM
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Why does he need a good punching? This post is right on.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 12:48 AM
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Why? What's wrong with this post?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 12:40 AM
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I'm in the same situation. One thing that helps me is to step away and meditate for 15 minutes. When I get back I'm much more focused.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 06:43 AM
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Ha, I can't think how someone can be good at night game but not online game. Online is so much less intimidating, you can go through 1000 girls way faster, you can take your time to think about responses, you don't have to worry about friends or groups or logistics, and you can block anyone who's mean. A lot of it is practice - I've been meeting girls online for 15 years now and I'm still pretty new at RL game. I like to think I'm very good looking :) I'm short which I guess some girls don't lik…
/r/seduction16/03/18 11:08 PM
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Like what do they do specifically? How would they even get a chance - aren't they too busy working?
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:02 PM
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Why, what do the bartenders do? I haven't run into that problem yet
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:01 PM
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So what if you drop the "cute" requirement? I'm in LA. What number of new girls a week in person is attainable with a little / some / lots of effort if you're not concerned with their looks, lol?
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:53 PM
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How about a few new girls a week from in-person gaming in a big city? How attainable is that?
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:23 PM
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If you have, then you a bigger problem, you might just be an asshole or hideous. Based on only 100? It takes a lot more than 100 approaches to build skills and get results. I'd like to know your take on this: I've approached maybe 500 women in the last year with no results, but had sex with 50 or so women I met online. What's up with that? Seems to me online is way easier.
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:19 AM
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It's all about developing the skills. Each rejection gives you a little more skill and eventually you have enough skill to get pussy. Why? Because pussy is so good. It's the best thing ever. I'd rather not prove how defective and low value I am taking this "approach 1000 women to get one makeout" stuff, I think even that estimate is generous in my case. All you're saying is you don't think the effort is worth the result. It's your decision. Maybe the rate at which you gain skill is so low you do…
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:14 AM
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Yeah, it's 16 in most US states for sex, but even then, you still can't take dirty photos unless they're 18. So arbitrary - sex is fine but pictures aren't. I was thinking 18 because it's 18 in my state. I only mentioned it to ward off smart remarks in response to "age is just a number." I should have said "as long as they're over the age of consent in your jurisdiction."
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:32 AM
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How? What happens?
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:33 AM
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Yeah it's hard at first. You just have to practice touching and kissing her.
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:09 AM
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As soon as she's at your place you need to be touching and kissing her. You say "nothing happened" but what you mean is "I didn't do anything." Why didn't you? You just need to touch her, kiss her, start undressing her. I know it's not easy at first... there's a barrier there you have to break through. But you just have to do it.
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:24 AM
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Why do you find it easier in real life? I've met a lot of people online but I really struggle in real life.
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:22 AM
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Why do you find it easier in person? I find it so much easier online and I'm really trying to get better at it in person.
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:22 AM
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I don't understand this perspective. Why wouldn't they still be there? Where would they go? Maybe they're having fun meeting people and having good sex.
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:21 AM
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Why would it be sad? We've been on for years and met lots of great girls and had fun, why wouldn't they?
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:20 AM
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High volume, super direct, super sexual. I swipe right on lots of girls and see who's open and interested and get them on the phone or text and then just invite them over.
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:17 AM
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Wow really? Why? What's your experience? Online you can just be super direct and see who's looking for sex and into you.
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:16 AM
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No, not at all. Don't ever let age stop you from doing anything (as long as they're over 18 that is). It's just a number.
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:04 AM
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I'd love to hear more examples of not giving in to their frame.
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:58 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:53 AM
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Can you use Hinge without having a facebook?
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:52 AM
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Girls-only gyms are also illegal in general, but some states have passed special laws allowing single-sex health clubs - these laws don't apply to bars: https://fitnessmarketing.com/2011/04/are-women-only-gyms-guilty-of-discrimination/
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 08:52 AM
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Well don't make her cum - you gotta leave her hanging
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 06:51 AM
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This is ridiculous. How would a bouncer even tell if someone is gay, bi, or straight? I also live in a big liberal city and it's never been an issue.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 06:50 AM
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The "logic bomb" might make more sense if girls-only clubs were legal. They violate US civil rights laws. Public accommodations can't discriminate like that.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 06:50 AM
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They're illegal (at least in the US) - public accommodations can't discriminate by gender.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 06:49 AM
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Do you think anything has changed in the last 15 years? Strauss wrote that book for a mainstream audience, so he wrote it to read like a romantic comedy - a guy gives it all up for the girl he loves. I don't even think game has changed that much, though I haven't read that book for a while - the only difference I can think of is that people used routines a lot more then.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 06:46 AM
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Why not? He has nothing to lose at this point.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 06:34 AM
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Can you elaborate on the supplicating guy? I don't understand the thing about cuddling his dog.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 09:55 AM
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Harrison Ford comes off as weird or awkward?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 09:54 AM
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It's sarcasm - you're saying the opposite of what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 09:52 AM
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So what is real? What would you suggest?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 08:06 PM
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It has never been a problem for me and my approach makes more sense to me and works well for me. Why should I pay for them? We're two adults. Shouldn't they pay for me? They get to be with me.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 09:56 PM
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That's a false dilemma - leading doesn't mean letting people freeload on you. It means valuing yourself. Why should you pay for someone you don't know and who hasn't earned it? Not to mention that you are much less likely to get sex if you pay.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 09:04 PM
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Wait what? How is that something trp women would say? You'd think they'd realize...
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 09:02 PM
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No, humans evolved to want multiple partners. If a woman has multiple partners, each of them could be the father and she won't lose paternal investment. Which is why sperm competition evolved.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/17 09:24 PM
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Xoxohth? You mean the law school admissions board, or does that mean something else?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 07:03 PM
5

what's wrong with period sex?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 06:58 PM
1

Be careful, recording without consent is a felony in a lot of states.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 06:56 PM
1

even asking whether she was sure she wanted to get married was probably a mistake... don't even start going down that road.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 06:53 PM
3

Can you elaborate on the "lightswitch" change in attitude? Was it realizing you don't need to put women on a pedestal?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 05:53 PM
1

Can you elaborate or link to more about the protocol you used?
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:18 AM
2

I did read that - that's why I asked if they were saved or archived, obviously
/r/seduction13/03/17 03:56 AM
1

I would love to read those posts - were they saved or archived anywhere? Do you remember the username they were posted under?
/r/seduction13/03/17 12:53 AM
1

So it's just the connotation of the word that bothers you? And you think "seduction" is better? I would think "seduction" has more negative connotations.
/r/seduction13/03/17 12:52 AM
1

This sub has always been a legit pickup forum with pua references... I haven't noticed a change.
/r/seduction13/03/17 12:50 AM
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Girls still do post here a lot. And what do you mean "it's essentially a game forum"? what else could it be? Seduction = game. Game is just a slang word for seduction.
/r/seduction12/03/17 07:10 AM
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Saying hi doesn't advance your goal? Of course it does - it's the first step in a conversation.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:35 AM
1

Being short.
/r/seduction24/02/17 06:43 PM
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You're the mod - it's your call on that one.
/r/seduction24/02/17 08:41 AM
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Trust me - we have the advantage for being short. Don't ever doubt that.
/r/seduction24/02/17 07:16 AM
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Thanks - I reported DJGammaRabbit's post so hopefully you can delete it.
/r/seduction24/02/17 07:15 AM
1

If she says something like “you do this to a lot of girls” give another pithy response and don’t let her dwell on it (“I am flattered you think girls want to fuck me. Not every girl makes bad decisions like you do.”). I don't understand this part - why are you saying it's a bad decision to fuck you? Get her number. After you leave, text her something later that night like “great to meet you tonight, let’s hang soon!” Two days later, text her about some random thing you guys did or talked about, …
/r/seduction23/02/17 04:34 AM
1

This is great. I really like the gas/brakes stuff. Your rational words should show interest and enthusiasm but you must communicate the “emotion” of “I’m just talking to you to be nice, I would maybe rather be somewhere else.” Take the pressure off of her and just allow HER emotions to grow by not getting emotionally invested. And until she emotionally invests, DO NOT STOP YOUR MISSION. She should feel like you might walk away at any moment. Disinterested interest, however, does not mean be low …
/r/seduction23/02/17 04:29 AM
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Everything he says about the neurochemistry is complete pseudoscience, also.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 11:50 PM
1

Well, ego is a confusing term that can mean many different things. It can refer to ego strength, the ability to deal with and handle difficult situations without taking them personally, or to self-confidence or self-esteem - this is a good thing. It can refer to the part of the mind that balances your desires (id) with your self-control (superego) - that's also a good thing. It can also refer to taking things personally, arrogance, or being full of yourself - generally things that get in the way…
/r/seduction09/02/17 06:37 PM
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Yeah, a lot of guys seem to be like that, which I find really strange because it doesn't matter much to me, but everyone's got their own preferences though. For me weight can only take a couple points off and it's mostly about facial features, hair, eyes, voice, and I also care a lot more about sexual compatibility than weight. I'm happy as long as I have pussy all the time.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 06:22 PM
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You're confusing social monogamy with sexual monogamy. Social monogamy refers to a male and female pairing up and having offspring - many animals are socially monogamous, including humans in the short-term. Sexual monogamy means turning down all other mating opportunities - DNA tests have shown no animals do this normally. It only exists in humans and even then it doesn't work very well.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 10:05 PM
1

And why are you "genuinely baffled"?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 08:56 PM
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Yeah, that's fine. I don't like restricting what people do when they're not with me. I don't believe humans are programmed to be monogamous, however I would love to find a man who changes my mind on this I thought you said it was a "higher value"? I just don't see the point of restricting yourself from having sex with new people. Sex with new people is good for you.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 08:55 PM
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Yeah, I'm fully aware that most of my partners would be judged as a really low number - I just don't really care, especially if they're cool people. Pussy is just so good no matter whose it is.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 08:50 PM
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No, it's not about one-upping other guys at all - I feel like we're all on the same team and should try to help each other. It's not like I'm better than a guy who's been with 50 girls or worse than a guy who's been with 300. It's more about the excitement of meeting and having sex with a new girl than it is about the total number. It's the act, the experience, and the process that's the point. I don't count anyone I've paid as part of my number. Paying for sex doesn't make me feel dirty or not …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 08:40 PM
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Some guys like really skinny girls; other guys like more curves. And preferences in facial features are incredibly variable. I don't find Asian facial features attractive in general; a lot of guys do. Some guys like rounder faces vs. wider vs. narrower. If you showed me 5 faces that met your ideal of perfection, I'd probably think at least a couple of them didn't grab me, and vice versa.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 07:07 PM
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The number of sexual partners a woman reported nearly doubled when women thought they were hooked up to a lie detector machine. https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn3936-fake-lie-detector-reveals-womens-sex-lies/
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 06:58 PM
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Especially the fourth or fifth time
/r/seduction06/02/17 01:25 AM
1

Now I'm really curious what happened.
/r/seduction06/02/17 01:25 AM
1

You really find 8s are smart and 9s are stupid? That's bizarre. Do you just go for 8s or how else do you filter? So putting all your numbers together it sounds like you have about a 10-15% conversion rate (6-10 approaches for sex). does that seem right? Do you think that's about the limit?
/r/seduction03/02/17 04:23 AM
1

Fair enough, but I'm curious what conversion rate people actually can get. And one of my goals is to increase my rate.
/r/seduction03/02/17 04:19 AM
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Why is target selection so important, and what do you look for? IOIs, look, their mood, who they're with? The way I see it - say you meet a girl who is exceptionally awesome, just your type, whatever - your percentage is roughly your chance of getting her. Obviously there are many other factors that could radically change this, but without knowing anything else, that'd be the best estimate. What I think is interesting about your range (3% - under 20%) is that there isn't much room for improvemen…
/r/seduction03/02/17 04:18 AM
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Oh, I agree as far as my own goals. I'm just trying to reconcile the different things I've heard and get some sort of benchmark or understanding about what's reasonable or believable, and trying to compare online with in person. I'm not saying I personally would go along with having 0 standards. So would it be about right to say 10-15% is a high rate that's possible if you're an expert with a lot of practice? And 5-10% is reasonable after putting some time into it and having decent skills? And d…
/r/seduction02/02/17 10:47 PM
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If he were looking to talk to girls for a relationship, he would be respecting his own and her boundaries, but showing small interest in her lifestyle and keeping in gradual touch while building signs that you're interested in being more than just friends (which by the way also does NOT mean you try slipping in sexual hints as soon as you can, girls just think you're only interested in hooking up which if that's not what they're after you're basically history to them.) See, that kind of negative…
/r/seduction02/02/17 08:03 PM
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Not OP but if you're willing I'd be interested!
/r/seduction02/02/17 07:48 PM
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So there's three different conversion rates: approaches to conversation, conversations to dates, dates to sex. What would you say is an ok rate for each of those? What would you say is a really good rate? Are the examples you gave (30%, 20%, 20%) reasonable for a beginner? for someone with a little experience? For instance, is 40% approaches to conversation doable? 50%? Is a 30% conversations to date range ok? good? What about 40%? For dates to sex, is 40% or 50% possible?
/r/seduction02/02/17 07:32 PM
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Can you give me ballpark ranges for what % is ok, good, or great? I'm just talking about % of all girls you talk to. I've heard other people say 3% is high or about the best you can do. I bet they don't even sarge honestly. Probably an incel or a MGTow larping. They hate people like us. Elliot Roger came from a PUA Hate website. They shut the website down after he shot up that school. People love to hate us man, feminists and guys alike and the guys troll our forums a lot. No, these are coaches,…
/r/seduction02/02/17 07:27 PM
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you're saying cumming inside 3% of all the girls you approach is bottom of the barrel? For real? I'm pretty blown away at that. I've heard other people say 3% is high or about the best you can do. So for real, you can go approach 33 girls (doable in 1 night) and cum inside 1 on average? I guess I have a lot of room for improvement at least :) So what's decent, good, great? That seems crazy for in person - I have a much higher rate with online but in person is hard. I mean, most of the girls you …
/r/seduction02/02/17 02:10 PM
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Is 1 in 500 "bad at daygame"? what success ratio is decent/good at daygame?
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:44 PM
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Link to the book?
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:34 PM
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The whole point of the program here is to stop worrying about all that. Just do it and you'll see it's not an issue.
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:34 PM
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How could you know it? She doesn't even know it. She's got to wait and see how she feels. It's not like she has a strict plan ahead of time.
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:32 PM
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That just silly. It doesn't mean "no plans all weekend" it means "I'm trying to shuffle around a bunch of tentative things so which times are you free so I can fit everything in" - how do you communicate that? Agree about weekdays though. So what's your answer to OP's question?
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:30 PM
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Last point confuses me - why?
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:23 PM
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Are her friends really gonna notice which people she was kissing and which ones she's going to the diner with? Why couldn't she say she was going to the diner anyway?
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:22 PM
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It's more like, nothing you do on the dance floor counts. Kissing a little can help build up tension, especially if you pull her off to the side a bit and are talking privately. Getting her turned on is a good thing but if you do it too early it'll backfire. Build some rapport first.
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:21 PM
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Awesome! You did great. Just do that 100 more times and you'll get better. Just assume she's comfortable - don't ask if she's uncomfortable. Switch your perspective from "imposing on her" to "rewarding the girls who like me by stopping by and chatting for a few minutes." If you don't talk to them, you're rewarding the ones who don't like you and the ones who miss out are the ones who do like you. If you talk to them, you're rewarding the ones who do like you. And making people uncomfortable happ…
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:07 PM
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"success rate" as in you have sex with 50% of the girls you talk to? That seems extremely high. Are you serious about that? What % of the girls you talk to do you end up cumming in?
/r/seduction02/02/17 12:42 PM
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Frame isn't necessarily immature or about controlling. Frame refers to the beliefs and viewpoints you enter a situation with. So for instance, having the frame "I'm out having fun and talking to people, and if someone isn't into me, that's about them" will color your experience positively and help you be outcome independent.
/r/seduction18/12/16 01:10 AM
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I think it's very relevant. A big part of the game is your attitude towards sex - so if you think women aren't very sexual, that will be reflected in your interactions. Women are very sexual.
/r/seduction11/12/16 08:09 AM
1

Can you link to the video or explain more about what you mean about digging into a topic?
/r/seduction02/12/16 11:20 PM
1

Are you bipolar? This sounds really manic.
/r/seduction02/12/16 08:47 PM
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How do you think you can get friends or a social circle or an active social life without practicing skills or meeting people? Just go out, be social, and try to meet people and have fun. Even if no girls are interested. It's still practicing your skills. It's still better for you then sitting at home. What you're saying really makes no sense. Approaching is a skill. The only way to improve social skills is to practice.
/r/seduction02/12/16 08:38 PM
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No, putting work in means approaching a lot of women. Since you currently don't have to work a job, you have more time to approach.
/r/seduction02/12/16 07:28 PM
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Ok, a couple more questions: (PM me answers if you want) When you were online for a month or so on okcupid - how many girls did you message? What is your ideal outcome - daily sex, weekly sex, sex 3x day, one partner, many partners, love, relationships, friends with benefits... what do you actually want? What turns you on the most - what kind of girls do you like, what fantasies or kinks do you have, what do you think about when you masturbate? I'm guessing you're going to say the problem is mor…
/r/seduction02/12/16 07:10 PM
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I promise, I would never make fun of you or manipulate you. I felt exactly how you feel now for a lot of my life - I thought I was a loser, autistic, and incapable of getting girls for years.
/r/seduction26/11/16 07:16 PM
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I mean the first, in combination with attitude, flirting, teasing. As I think you yourself observed in an earlier comment, you have this fixation on job status that doesn't really make sense. It's one of the most basic observations of the seduction community that girls go for the unemployed guy with good game over the wealthy doctor with no game. You also seem to have this belief that there are different "types" of brains and that because you have an "autistic type" you are incapable of learning…
/r/seduction25/11/16 06:18 PM
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I don't understand. You'd turn down sex just because of how someone looks? Most men would not.
/r/seduction21/11/16 06:23 PM
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Also I looked at a few of that guy's posts. He's saying the same thing I am. https://m.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/57hhx7/comment/d8s58ie https://m.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5cgpk9/comment/da0ur1o All he's saying is that you might not have sex the same day you meet her.
/r/seduction21/11/16 08:43 AM
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The point of greater quantity is to improve your skills as well as find someone who's attracted to you. You keep saying it's impossible because you're not good enough. Well do you want pussy or not? Even with all your flaws, you have to admit that there is at least a possibility you can improve your skills to the point where out of thousands of people you can find someone to fuck. And yes, girls don't need to do anything to get sex or relationships. But you're not a girl, you're a guy. As I'm su…
/r/seduction21/11/16 08:07 AM
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Seems like you're past sex for the sake of sex and now you're wanting something more, like someone who's really compatible with you and who you find really intriguing.
/r/seduction21/11/16 02:37 AM
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If people aren't replying, it's probably because they sense your negativity and stubbornness and have given up, not because you're right. I'm not going to give you bullshit or lie to you. You face challenges that most men don't. It's going to be harder for you than it is for most men. That said, I've read some of your previous posts and it's clear to me that your biggest problem by far is the way you think of yourself as a loser. For instance, when that one girl said "I'm not just looking for so…
/r/seduction21/11/16 01:59 AM
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Huh? You were the one who suggested helping out at a homeless shelter rather than going and hitting on girls.
/r/seduction21/11/16 01:42 AM
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Not the person you asked, but I can tell you how I broke free. "ego" is a very misleading and confusing term and can mean many things, some of which are good and healthy and cannot or should not be destroyed. The main idea here is disidentification. None of this stuff is "you." There is no stable consistent thing called "you" that can be good or bad or have any attributes whatsoever. This can be realized and experienced through specific types of meditative practices. It's not that you are actual…
/r/seduction21/11/16 01:39 AM
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Skills can be learned, correct? There's no way you can possibly see the future and know for a fact that you'll never develop sufficient skills to attract a woman. Also you have things backwards... relationships start with sex and sexual attraction. You have to learn to develop sexual attraction in women before you can have a relationship. I'm not trying to lie to you or give you fluff. It may be true that you face hurdles many people don't in getting vagina. But there's just no way you can say t…
/r/seduction19/11/16 11:11 AM
1

Also autism isn't real. It's just an insult. Don't insult yourself. You're a person just like everyone else and you deserve pussy.
/r/seduction19/11/16 01:07 AM
1

Well pussy is everything in life, so don't give up. Skills can be learned.
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:58 AM
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http://masculineprinciple.blogspot.ca/2015/02/women-choosing-losers.html
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:54 AM
1

You mean much more, right?
/r/seduction14/11/16 06:33 AM
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Don't say that - there's a lot that can be done. Skills are practiced and learned.
/r/seduction09/11/16 05:53 PM
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I agree with this most recent post - but from what you wrote originally, I could see some low self esteem guy thinking "I want a girl like X, but she'd require a guy nothing like me, so it's hopeless." What you wrote originally sounded more like you were talking about what you'd think the girl wants, not whether you genuinely want or share values with the girl. Also, not everything has to be about shared values - sometimes guys are looking for a deeper connection involving shared values, and som…
/r/seduction08/11/16 08:07 PM
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Does she want a man who's anywhere in the trajectory of your life? If she'd require a man who's nothing like what you want to be, then you need to go back and rework what kind of girl you want. That seems like a limiting belief that's just going to get in your way. I don't think you should ever think that someone is out of your league. There's no point in making up that she'd require someone way "better" than you. Even if you knew what someone like her would want on paper, what matters is how yo…
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:46 PM
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Yeah, I think going at closing time would be a good strategy. Where I am bars close at 2am, so I guess you'd want to go at 1-1:30? How likely is it that you'd be able to get one of the leftovers, do you think?
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:40 PM
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I was hoping to hear how easy or difficult people thought this goal was. From what you're saying, if you go out 2 hours a night you can expect roughly a 20% success rate. I had figured it would be a lot higher as that seems disappointing. How long have you been practicing? Do you see that rate as being able to get significantly higher?
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:39 PM
1

Had you kissed her on the first date? What was your move when you were at her house watching the movie? Did you kiss her when you first walked in her house?
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:35 PM
1

Ok, say we're just talking about meeting someone in person, not online, and say you only have a few hours. Then what? Do you think you'd need 10 min to talk to each one? And why a toilet? Just bring them home.
/r/seduction08/11/16 07:12 AM
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Oh I agree. Men shouldn't be expected to have to date down. Everyone has different goals at different times. Sometimes you want to find one awesome girl who meets your high standards, sometimes you want a few friends with benefits who meet your standards, and sometimes you just want as much random pussy as possible and you don't really care who you're fucking. It's all ok. The point of this post was just to ask about sex success rates if you were to throw standards out the window and just want s…
/r/seduction08/11/16 07:11 AM
1

Yes, you are running game. Experiment with flirting and push/pull, but it's not essential. Kino and escalation are near essential - you have to be moving the interaction towards sex.
/r/seduction08/11/16 04:49 AM
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How do you know they want a relationship with you? Relationships start with sex, so how are they not having sex if they want a relationship? I don't understand what's actually happening. Have you tried just moving on if they don't want sex? Are you in a conservative area or something?
/r/seduction08/11/16 04:46 AM
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Which parts have resonated with your own experience? For instance, it's definitely true that being a friend to a girl, paying for a girl, or seeking a girl's approval won't get you fulfilling sexual or romantic experiences. So don't do those things. You're young - you still don't really understand relationships. And there's so much bullshit in the media. So many people are judgmental of both male and female sexuality.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/16 01:45 AM
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With women, I can't help but think of the whole alpha-beta thing when interacting with them (doesn't help that it gets results too). With guys... when I see a guy act "beta", it lowers my opinion of him, even if he's a perfectly good fellow. Whereas I seem to respect someone who exhibits "alpha" traits, even if he's a complete scumbag I'd probably punch in the fact if they were near me. Let's forget about the words alpha and beta for a minute. Let's talk about approval seeking vs. confidence ins…
/r/ExRedPill22/10/16 01:42 AM
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I didn't say that mindfulness is part of Christianity - I said the word was taken from Christianity. It's a terrible translation of sati.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 07:35 AM
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The word mindfulness is terrible. It was taken from Christianity and misapplied to Buddhist concepts, and lately it's been totally ruined by commercialization. "Cultivate mindfulness with this $90 meditation pillow!"
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 04:15 AM
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Serious question: How can you not? You use email, read webpages, go on reddit, and text people, right? Why are you mystified? I wish I weren't constantly distracted but it's hard in this world we live in. But sure, if I really need to I can put my phone away.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 01:01 AM
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Well I'm a kinkster and have done a lot of BDSM activities so it's normal to me to play rape and then have loving aftercare. And I'm fulfilling my own rape fantasies, not the girl's!
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 06:23 AM
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However, like you, I am fucking pissed off at the "men are pigs and women love pigs" facts of life. You can be a good person, make people better, and still stand up for your needs and desires, be dominant, and be in control. That's what being a man is about. What's with this idea that dominance and strength require making people worse off? I think it might help to unpack the word "pigs" here. What exactly is a "pig"? I'm guessing you might have some negative ideas about sex, dominance, assertive…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 12:32 AM
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I don't understand why you can't be respectful, kind, and dominant.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 12:17 AM
1

It's totally believable. Not sure why you feel the need to insult him - he wrote a good and helpful post.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 05:16 AM
1

Better sex education would have helped... virgins do not feel any different. It's impossible to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 01:17 AM
1

You can get to that state permanently through meditating..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 07:33 PM
1

You can get to that state permanently through meditation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 07:33 PM
1

But how is the sex... that's the real question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 07:29 PM
1

Yes of course, but my point is that many people try to get rich and don't succeed. It's competitive and difficult. People who started businesses and then had them fail have motivation, don't fear failure, work hard, but still aren't rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 06:57 PM
1

What I'm saying is that there is absolutely nothing stopping anyone from taking that risk and putting that work in except their own internal limits on their behaviour. True, but that's not enough to make you rich. The vast majority of new businesses fail, even when their owners take risks and put work in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 06:38 PM
1

I guess you haven't talked to many kinksters. The words have a special meaning within the kinky (BDSM) community, for both women and men. Some people really like to be controlled. Some people really like to control another.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 05:30 PM
2

This really depends. Are you having sex with them or not? I'm baffled at people's answers. They seem to be assuming that the girls aren't into you and aren't having sex with you. But if they are having sex with you, it means they like you and want to stay fwbs.
/r/seduction21/10/15 06:13 PM
1

Another possibility is going online to get girls. It works pretty well.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 07:51 PM
1

Elaborate on the dialogue tree and how you give options? Do you actually list out all the options?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 06:30 AM
1

I met almost all of my partners online. will you elaborate on the social circle? they friends of friends, regular friends with benefits, new people you meet? how do they throw themselves at you? Do you start out initiating or let them come to you?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 06:11 AM
1

Alpha is indeed just not giving a shit what people think about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 02:34 PM
1

Wow. That's a great analogy. And they totally missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 02:31 PM
1

No, that is not accurate at all. You don't understand. Girls see a hot guy and think he's attractive, and he approaches her, or she starts talking to him, and sometimes they end up dating or having sex. She doesn't need to escalate to sex. Guys see a hot girl and think she's attractive but are too scared to talk to her, or talk to her and don't know what to say, or talk to her but just end up friends. Then, guys learn that the only way to have a relationship is to escalate to sex. We don't start…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 02:28 PM
1

I support the ev psych / realistic approach, which is why I like this subreddit and game in general. But ev psych is about understanding the general structure of our brain and how it came to be, and general tendencies, not about saying how things should be or making exaggerated statements about how everyone is without any room for human variation. Like you said, virtually everything you read on there tells you validating is the quickest way to get friendzoned. Virtually everything on there is a …
/r/seduction07/02/14 11:15 PM
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:) but for real, it's a huge mass of anger, spite, and bitterness. That's the essence of the whole thing. Who wants to be a part of that?
/r/seduction07/02/14 07:53 PM
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All three of them?
/r/seduction07/02/14 07:44 PM
2

Being a kind and loving person is what pickup is really all about. I hate all the cunning and manipulative crap also because it's just not worth it. Just remember you don't need to do any of that shit and you can filter it out of anything you read.
/r/seduction07/02/14 07:30 PM
5

Do the people on Red Pill seem like they're happy and having a lot of sex?
/r/seduction07/02/14 07:25 PM
1

Here's an analogy that might help... Have you ever watched a scene in a movie where someone has some intense emotion and does something completely crazy, and found it relatable, not because you'd do something crazy, but because you've felt like that before? I'm going to assume you're sincerely asking about the article. I'm a good person to answer the question, because I'm a feminist, I think the red pill is generally stupid and misogynistic, and yet I still find it relatable. We've all felt the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/13 05:04 AM
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No, you get better through experience. You don't have to consciously reevaluate everything, though it's good to do that sometimes. By practicing approaches, you automatically learn things and grow and develop your skills. You're not doing the same thing over and over, because every approach is different.
/r/seduction05/08/13 11:45 PM
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Yes. This is why college sucks and life gets so much better afterwards. Also, get rid of Facebook. You'll be so much happier. That thing causes insecurity and depression because you're comparing yourself to other people. In the words of Ben Folds: There's always someone cooler than you.
/r/seduction05/08/13 10:09 PM
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As an experiment, try going for it more/sooner. Might be worth doing to see what happens and see what you learn. Once you get more used to kissing girls it will be more normal and less of an adrenaline rush... This ain't skydiving, just kissing some girls.
/r/seduction05/08/13 06:43 PM
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That hasn't been my experience at all. You don't need to harden yourself up to the point where you can't relate to someone. You just need to accept that most people won't be into you, and find the ones who are into you. Some random girls not being into you isn't a big deal. I don't know your history. I don't know what you've been through or where you are now. If you feel like you've been hurt to the point where you can't relate to people, that might be something therapy can help with. This is a …
/r/seduction05/08/13 06:08 PM
1

Why only "several"?
/r/seduction05/08/13 05:45 PM
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You can do that, and it helps. But what I meant is that you don't even need to think about or wonder whether someone is attracted. Focus on whether you're attracted and what you want. If you feel like kissing her, kiss her. You've heard the saying "What other people think of you is none of your business," right? It applies to whether they're attracted. It's low-value and needy to be worrying about whether they're attracted. If someone isn't interested or doesn't go for you, it's their loss. It h…
/r/seduction05/08/13 05:38 PM
1

Wtf. No, every single rejection does not warrant reevaluation. No matter what you do, most people will reject you. You should take time now and then to reevaluate and try new things, but getting 1000 rejections is par for the course...
/r/seduction05/08/13 05:34 PM
1

Can you get a friend to help? She or he could shove you in front of girls and make you talk, or use the classic "my friend's really shy" line. Or just say hi and introduce you.
/r/seduction05/08/13 05:32 PM
1

Start with girls you're not that interested in, and work your way up.
/r/seduction05/08/13 05:30 PM
1

You may not be clicking with them enough (that is, creating attraction, building comfort and connection, demonstrating value). You can go up to random girls and ask for their number right away, and they'll give it to you. But that doesn't mean you're in. I found online dating really helpful for this.
/r/seduction05/08/13 05:29 PM
1

How you gonna get a gf without going through all those rejections? You can't.
/r/seduction05/08/13 05:27 PM
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Don't bother reading it. It's so hit or miss that you'll just frustrate yourself. Over time, you'll naturally and unconsciously develop a little better read... but even so, there are so many times when I thought girls weren't into me and I went after them and kissed them anyway, and it worked (and vice versa of course). You just won't always be able to read people's attraction. There are actually studies that show neither men nor women can clearly distinguish and identify attraction signals: the…
/r/seduction05/08/13 02:06 AM
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Talk to your girl about this. Have a strong frame and tell her what's important to you. Personally, I love meeting and dating new people so I tell people upfront I'm not monogamous, and that's important to me. Don't let someone trap you or force you into their ideas of what a relationship should be. You get to decide that.
/r/seduction05/08/13 02:03 AM
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Lol, if it wasn't for black people!
/r/MensRights22/06/13 11:45 PM
1

Yeah unless you say it like it's a joke
/r/seduction09/06/13 04:59 PM
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It's really important (and attractive) to have boundaries and be able to assert them. I hate being tickled, so I do exactly what that girl did if someone tries to tickle me. Boundaries. Self-respect. You're right about the actual "play your cards right" thing. It's just a silly joke, so you should respond in kind.
/r/seduction09/06/13 04:00 PM
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This. Exactly.
/r/seduction09/06/13 03:57 PM
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I would love to know more about some of this... how can you find night game easier than day game? Night game to me is terrifying. I hate bars and clubs. They scare me and make me feel uncomfortable and intimidated. It's almost impossible to talk to people because of all the noise. Everyone is drunk and I have to deal with a bunch of drunk idiots. I'd love to learn night game -- it's a goal I have and it's probably the next logical step for me -- but I have no idea how to even jump in. It's so fa…
/r/seduction29/05/13 08:41 AM
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My own experience is that lots of girls are up for a one time thing, but very few are looking for a relationship. Make of that what you will.
/r/seduction15/02/13 12:23 AM
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I understand... you want to know that a girl is "picky" about who she fucks, but if you were willing to fuck on the first date, that means you didn't take the time to get to know her or be picky about her. So it doesn't really seem fair to hold it against her (heh) for fucking you right away, when you did the same thing. Also, I don't really get why 2 dates is classy wooing while 1 date isn't. I could understand your point a little better if you wanted to wait months to get to know someone, you …
/r/seduction13/02/13 09:00 AM
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Ok, I thought you meant you were focusing on one girl the whole time, without sex. Could you explain how you see the difference between "dating" and "relationship"? I just find it odd that you would rule a girl out if she has sex with you at first, or that you think of it as the girl giving something up. She's getting something good... your dick. ;) I hope you realize there are a lot of people who say "if she has sex after a couple hangouts, clearly she just wants to fuck and she's not long term…
/r/seduction12/02/13 11:11 PM
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"I'm not really looking for anything serious now," "I'm not ready for a relationship right now," "I'm seeing a few girls at the moment," "I'm just looking for a hookup right now," or anything like that. Remember, most girls aren't looking for a relationship either. A lot of them are just looking for hookups as well.
/r/seduction08/02/13 11:49 PM
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Really I think what it is, is many Sedditors actually need to try dating a very very hot woman or two. So they live through the needy behavior, the bitchy/entitled behavior, the manipulation, the low-self esteem, the gold-digging tricks, the sexual/jealousy games, sometimes even the downright crazy. You think very hot girls are more likely to be fucked up? What about someone who's very hot and has a good personality? I'd love to try dating a very very hot girl sometime. I've dated and banged a b…
/r/seduction08/02/13 11:46 PM
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Obviously looks aren't the only important thing in a relationship, whether you live together and use the toilet with the door open or not. But they are one important thing. No one said they would cancel out any negative personality trait, just that they are important in a relationship.
/r/seduction08/02/13 11:43 PM
1

what smiling thing?
/r/seduction08/02/13 11:30 PM
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I never had the intention of dating a girl that gave it up so easy WTF? Why? That's kinda fucked up. You want to date someone for months without sex instead?
/r/seduction08/02/13 11:29 PM
1

Which, pro-honesty or anti-honesty?
/r/seduction08/02/13 11:28 PM
1

I think you misunderstood. It's not as if you're going up to total strangers and saying "Will you have sex with me" out of nowhere. But in the context of hooking up with someone, then yes, you are wrong that honesty is creepy or not working.
/r/seduction08/02/13 11:28 PM
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If I understand correctly, you're asking about the level of friendship with a friend you're having sex with. This can be anywhere from just meeting up for sex and not really talking much other than that, to being best friends who talk on the phone every day. An analogy is that I have friends who are poker buddies. The only time I see them is playing poker, and I don't know very much about their lives. They're just people I play poker with. Sex is very much the same. If you start having sex with …
/r/seduction28/01/13 10:58 PM
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I like what you wrote. For me, I really enjoy the variety, and I had sex with a lot of people because it was what I wanted. It's also a good way to get better in bed, learn more about women and dating, and to have good sex while you find someone you really want to get close to. So in your candy analogy, I'd say get 100 chocolate kisses and see which one turns into a giant chocolate sculpture. I find it odd that you think society tells you that you should be having sex with lots of people. Societ…
/r/seduction25/01/13 05:37 AM
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I love smileys. I use them a lot and they're part of my personality and who I am and how I communicate. They work for me. I also flirt over text a lot, because I love it. Some girls love it when you use them, and some hate them. I've talked to girls who are totally turned off by them. I see it as a good way to weed people out, just like not paying for girls. Personally, I've only had the opposite problem: people thinking I was serious and getting mad or not being interested.
/r/seduction25/01/13 05:28 AM
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Well, it's like I said, seduction was a good investment for you because you were/are in a prime position to make use of it. You had strong potential and were probably just DLV'ing yourself. This is probably true. All it took for me was to start meeting new girls and having the confidence to make moves on them. For each guy, there's going to be something that makes the biggest difference. For some people, that's about looks. For others, it's about behavior. And for others, it's about your beliefs…
/r/seduction25/01/13 03:06 AM
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You're right that people will still want the most attractive people more, but the alphas won't become the new definition of betas because they are attractive. Being attractive isn't a relative thing: there can be situations where everyone is attractive, and situations where no one is attractive. Obviously, if everyone is attractive, that makes the competition that much tougher, but it's not going to change the fact that the lowest person on the ladder in a room of 100 super-attractive people is …
/r/seduction21/01/13 08:04 PM
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Women's standards would just increase to meet the new "supply" in quality. Why do you think this? The things that attract people are biological and part of human nature. The reason so many guys aren't attractive is just lack of knowledge. The 80/20 thing isn't a law of nature; even if it's true, it just means that 80% of guys don't know how. Thought experiment: imagine a room with 100 women and 100 guys who aren't good with women. No one is having much sex; yes, some of the girls might get despe…
/r/seduction21/01/13 07:46 AM
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I strongly believe that humans are still pretty much nothing but animals, and that the laws and social factors that relegate the natural kingdom are still perfectly in play in modern society. Well yes, but humans also have the capacity to analyze themselves and their environment and make changes. Which is the whole point of seduction. So I think the closed-room example is somewhat silly, since if all 100 guys learned game, they would all get more sex. As far as the 80/20 rule goes, I mean, it's …
/r/seduction21/01/13 07:06 AM
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"Natural law" is a term often used by Catholic philosophers and often refers to a sexually conservative ethic; at least, that's always how I've heard it. It was the first association I had in mind. What did you mean? I'm not sure how natural law applies to the 80/20 thing (which I doubt is statistically accurate anyway).
/r/seduction21/01/13 06:30 AM
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I've had to learn that just because I know and trust someone doesn't mean their judgment of me is worth a damn.
/r/seduction21/01/13 05:40 AM
1

Natural law absolutist? Does that mean you think oral sex is wrong?
/r/seduction21/01/13 03:49 AM
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I'm really happy for you. Congratulations on winning! And I'm so sorry she hurt you like that. Did you tell her what you wrote here? Did you tell her how much she hurt you?
/r/seduction21/01/13 03:43 AM
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That's a really good way of putting it. I agree: if it has positive effects, why not pay a few dollars? I don't generally have hard and fast rules either, but one advantage of not paying is weeding out people who expect you to. I just feel like in general, paying at first sets the wrong tone for the future of the relationship. This could be someone I'll be with for years, so I want to start it off right.
/r/seduction12/01/13 02:10 AM
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I bought your book after a guy I was planning a date with seemed ridiculously awesome, but couldn't set a date like a normal human being ("Come hiking with me on Saturday." instead of "Is Saturday good for you?") Wait, what? How is that not like a normal human being?
/r/seduction11/01/13 11:52 PM
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I'd agree that the mainstream snaps up ev psych to reinforce stereotypes, but true, solid ev psych science is definitely falsifiable.
/r/seduction11/01/13 11:51 PM
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I know this is old, but: ev psych is like anything else. There is solid science, and there are crappy sloppy popularizations. There is a lot of ev psych that is real falsifiable science, though, so don't fall for the stereotype that it's all just so stories.
/r/seduction11/01/13 11:51 PM
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Why? I'm pretty sure this is a mistake on your part.
/r/seduction11/01/13 11:38 PM
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The problem here is the "arguing about getting out of it." That's the wrong way to think about things. I usually go dutch at coffeeshops. I just treat it as the normal way adults do things, which it is.
/r/seduction11/01/13 09:15 PM
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Don't pay for other people.
/r/seduction11/01/13 09:14 PM
1

How much are you spending on dates? You shouldn't be paying for people. I don't ever spend more than $10 or so on a date, usually for my own food and drink.
/r/seduction11/01/13 09:13 PM
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It is not hard at all. Go online and schedule dates.
/r/seduction11/01/13 09:13 PM
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He didn't "do anything" to another guy. If a girl wants to end her relationship with her BF and start one with you, and use cheating as a way to do it, that's her choice. It's unreasonable IMHO to expect most people to end relationships in a mature way before doing something with someone else.
/r/seduction13/12/12 12:37 PM
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Did you read the report? It was a crappy relationship, the guy was on the other side of the planet, and they broke up anyway. Relationships end. It happens. If you personally refuse to talk to girls with BFs because you don't want them to cheat, that's your choice, but it's not your job to make sure girls don't cheat. A lot of the time this is how one relationship ends and another one starts, especiially when the relationship is dying already, like this one. Context matters.
/r/seduction13/12/12 12:33 PM
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This sounds like pseudoscience to me. Is there any evidence for this at all?
/r/seduction25/11/12 11:25 PM
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please do, because I think this is complete nonsense.
/r/seduction25/11/12 11:24 PM
1

As in the Barry Neil Kaufman book?
/r/seduction18/08/12 02:04 AM
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I have the same fear as he does... can you elaborate? How does mindfulness meditation help?
/r/seduction18/08/12 02:04 AM
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When I lived with my parents, I'd bring girls back there all the time. It's just not a big deal. It's just like having a friend over, except you're also having sex. Stop worrying about it.
/r/seduction18/08/12 02:03 AM
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To bulk, you need to eat more. Like, a lot. Don't worry about the weight you gain. Most of it will be muscle and after a while you'll lose whatever fat you gained at first. You should be gaining a lot of muscle and a little bit of fat.
/r/seduction18/08/12 01:58 AM
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I'm not sure how that's possible. If it's someone you're attracted to and interested in dating and spending more time with later on, you're supposed to just pretend you don't?
/r/seduction17/08/12 09:22 PM
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How do you do that? A lot of people just seem annoyed or uninterested.
/r/seduction17/08/12 04:43 PM
1

Just make sure to commit your capital crime in Washington, Alabama, Florida, South Carolina or Virginia!
/r/MensRights16/08/12 12:14 AM
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According to that article, you can choose hanging in Washington. Oklahoma still allows the firing squad to be used as a secondary method, though it's not clear if the executionee can choose that at will or if it's reserved in case a court finds lethal injection unconstitutional. And four states -- Alabama, Florida, South Carolina and Virginia -- allow the option of the electric chair.
/r/MensRights16/08/12 12:12 AM
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For most people, a romantic relationship is a basic need. Some people don't seem to need one though. Everyone is different.
/r/seduction28/07/12 04:17 PM
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Agreed (unless you're gay or asexual/aromantic). For most people, relationships are a basic need.
/r/seduction28/07/12 05:20 AM
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That really isn't true. There are all sorts of losers with boring lives who still get girls. I agree that it's great to improve your life in the ways you talk about, but that shouldn't come before women. It goes along with dating.
/r/seduction28/07/12 04:30 AM
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When you do get a girlfriend, you'll realize that they're not sufficient for happiness.
/r/seduction28/07/12 04:28 AM
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It's more that sex is probably my favorite thing ever, the thing I love most and am most passionate about. Of course you should work on being happy with yourself but it's a process, and in the meantime it's great to enjoy life and the happiness that other hobbies bring, including sex.
/r/seduction28/07/12 04:27 AM
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Not at all. It's great to talk about your passions.
/r/seduction28/07/12 04:26 AM
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It's both. It is true that testosterone affects sex drive, so that part is oversimplified. It's wrong to say that testosterone is "the hormone" that makes anyone horny, because it's much more complicated than that. It's completely wrong that guys are always super horny all day long, and it's even more wrong that girls are never that horny. What is it you would like a better explanation of? The effects of hormones on sex drive?
/r/seduction25/07/12 01:41 AM
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You say that like it's a bad thing. If only every idiot who lifts weights would listen to Mark. He knows what he's talking about.
/r/seduction23/07/12 09:14 PM
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Sex drive is way more complicated than that. It's not directly related to testosterone. This explanation is oversimplified and completely wrong.
/r/seduction23/07/12 09:13 PM
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Because this isn't nofap.
/r/seduction23/07/12 03:07 PM
1

Married to someone who doesn't cancel on you without a really good reason, I assume, which is great! But most people are not like that in my experience.
/r/seduction23/07/12 03:56 AM
1

Yes, I feel the exact same way. How the hell do you make guy friends? Making female friends is much easier.
/r/seduction23/07/12 01:09 AM
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I don't want to be a doormat. I'm not ok with being treated that way. It's not that I'm disappointed, it's that I feel disrespected and I don't like that. I mean, if an emergency really did come up, that's one thing, but that's not what we're talking about. Maybe we should ask a woman about which reaction she would appreciate more and we can end this argument fairly quickly Yes, let's gear everything we do to what women say they would appreciate more.
/r/seduction23/07/12 01:03 AM
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It's completely ridiculous for males as well. Everything Nofap says about neurotransmitters is completely wrong and pseudoscientific (that's just not how the brain works). Nofap makes sense for an extremely small (but very vocal) proportion of guys who have problems with compulsively viewing porn. It's a motivational technique in the sense that "I'm on my computer for 12 hours a day, so let me take a break from my computer" is a motivational technique. For the vast majority of guys, you're compl…
/r/seduction22/07/12 09:33 PM
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I don't really understand this. If someone makes plans with me, whether it's dating a girl or meeting with a friend, I'm setting aside that time for them instead of planning other things. If they cancel on me, that's disrespectful of my time. I don't like when people disrespect me. That's why I would be upset.
/r/seduction22/07/12 08:56 PM
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Well, that's a case where you weren't honest in the beginning, if I understood you correctly, so it's a little different. It is weak to be dishonest from the beginning and then be honest about it when you feel guilty later.
/r/seduction20/07/12 11:03 PM
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My problem is that I do want more than that with girls. I like the sex but I also want romance, close friendship, love, and so forth. But a lot of girls don't believe me, or they think that wanting more means I want monogamy (which I don't.) How do you handle it when you do want more? How do you stop yourself from wanting more?
/r/seduction20/07/12 11:01 PM
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Every time you find yourself asking "Does she like me?", think to yourself "If I knew without a doubt that she was totally into me, what would I do?". Then do that. Assume Attraction. Ok, but here is my question. How do you avoid being too needy or calling or texting too much? If I knew without a doubt that someone was totally into me, I'd text and call and stuff all the time, and probably seem way too available.
/r/seduction17/07/12 02:31 AM
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I have a finely tuned sense of social awareness from almost a decade of going out though, so I know immediately whether a girl is being rude or if I did something a little odd, and I know the best ways to respond to most situations. God I wish I could have that. That's exactly what I want. How do I know whether something was my fault or not? How do you develop this?
/r/seduction17/07/12 02:30 AM
1

Holland? And how is beer thought of in the land of wine?
/r/seduction06/07/12 11:34 PM
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Drinking beer is unattractive in Europe? WTF? I thought Europe was the land of beer. I think here bragging blatantly is also seen as unattractive, which is why we usually tell people to be subtle. I guess things like grabbing girls, making out in public, and so forth are also frowned on? I'm surprised about your last point as well... why is there so much discomfort about flirting and innuendo? And I thought we were prudes here in the US.
/r/seduction06/07/12 08:40 PM
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Yes, exactly. A lot of people make the mistake of dividing things up into "how women are" and "how men are" when they should say "how people are when I try to date them" and "how people are when I don't." All this stuff is the exact same for men. Men are just as oblivious and emotional; it just doesn't come up as much for straight guys, who aren't trying to date other men.
/r/seduction06/07/12 08:08 PM
3

Why would it offend western europeans? I thought they were supposed to be less hung up about sex there?
/r/seduction06/07/12 06:03 PM
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Because the rest of it is good. Thanks for raising that point about having a heightened sense of discomfort and the stereotype of being creepy. So what would you advise? Should people be looking for discomfort? How do you fight having a heightened sense of discomfort? How do you stop worrying about the "creepy" stereotype?
/r/seduction06/07/12 06:01 PM
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You're overthinking it. If a girl says she wants you, and you want to hang out at the party a little more, then do that. If you want her then, leave and take her then. Do what you want and don't worry about whether you'll look too eager. You're not doing what she tells you; you're going with what you want.
/r/seduction05/07/12 07:02 PM
1

What makes you say that? Why? Seems unlikely.
/r/seduction05/07/12 06:40 PM
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Because they are AWESOME.
/r/seduction05/07/12 06:38 PM
6

What is it with you and getting dicks shot off? That would be a completely psychotic reaction.
/r/seduction03/07/12 07:48 PM
1

Agreed, yes. It's very difficult to meet people in activity groups.
/r/seduction27/06/12 04:09 PM
2

Does she know? If not, tell her and ask if she wants one... then kiss her neck as you massage her back. Then trail the kisses to her mouth as you move around to her front. If she does know, you can just say "hey, you remember I'm trained in massage therapy... what have you been waiting for?" then proceed as above.
/r/seduction22/06/12 08:44 PM
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From what you've written, she is clearly into you and feels the same way. So you really should just give her a hug, hold her close, look into her eyes, and just kiss her. What exactly are you scared of... there isn't anything to be scared of. Just think how amazing it will feel to hold her and kiss her. You could also test the waters a little bit by asking her for a massage, giving her a massage, stroking her neck, and leaning in and smelling her. I may get downvoted for this, because the usual …
/r/seduction22/06/12 07:59 PM
2

hahaha. Yes, of course most guys do! Did you really think they didn't?
/r/seduction22/06/12 07:52 PM
1

He is in one with her. They're friends with benefits / dating casually.
/r/seduction21/06/12 07:03 PM
1

That's what I meant! :)
/r/seduction21/06/12 02:18 PM
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That's exactly what he's doing.
/r/seduction21/06/12 12:47 AM
1

mid or late 20s is actually when a lot of girls start developing schizophrenia or borderline personality disorder
/r/seduction12/06/12 05:51 AM
1

I wouldn't do cargo pants, personally. You're 40+, not 22. Explain?
/r/seduction10/06/12 09:29 AM
1

Awesome. Glad to hear. Just don't be afraid to kiss and touch people. It'll get easier and more natural. Remember, if she doesn't like something, it's ok, just step back a little and don't panic.
/r/seduction10/06/12 09:26 AM
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I know going out by yourself can make you seem creepy. Don't be ridiculous. Not at all. It's all in your mindset. You're just going to have fun and be social and meet some cute girls. People go out by themselves all the time.
/r/seduction10/06/12 09:23 AM
0

What subreddits banned you? That's so dumb.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:47 AM
1

The ideal of a girl being a virgin sandwich machine is kinda nice. I really don't understand this... explain what this means to you?
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:46 AM
3

I see a lot of it as less about changing yourself and more about being a better communicator and expressing the qualities you already have. I don't really think any of it is fake.
/r/seduction07/06/12 08:19 PM
1

Yes, exactly. I don't like to use those terms, and usually just call it dating and relationship advice, for that exact reason.
/r/seduction07/06/12 08:15 PM
1

I doubt the basic structures have changed much over thousands of years. Are there other books that have similar ideas?
/r/seduction06/06/12 02:32 AM
2

There is a big difference between caring and being needy. The person who is less needy has more control, but you can care a lot and maintain healthy personal boundaries -- that's the ideal.
/r/seduction05/06/12 08:11 PM
3

Awesome. Why did your friend get disturbed?
/r/seduction05/06/12 08:10 PM
1

That book ("games people play") really creeps me out... I hope most people aren't like that. Have you found it helpful?
/r/seduction05/06/12 08:09 PM
2

or give a lot of fucks... ;)
/r/seduction01/06/12 02:27 PM
8

This is generally really great advice for life, but I have to disagree with Make sure you are happy and content first before dating. If you wait till you're perfectly content, you'll be waiting a long, long time. Look at all the crazy, dysfunctional people out there who manage to attract girls/guys. Not that you should be like that, but having good sex and good dates can help you feel better and happier. It's a gradual process. One step at a time. You don't need to wait to start.
/r/seduction01/06/12 04:32 AM
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Well, there's a big difference between being lonely and wanting someone else in your life. Loneliness is being unhappy about being alone, which means you're not happy about your life, as opposed to just wanting someone in your life to make it better. Don't confuse wanting something with being unhappy. (This is the central mistake of Buddhism, for instance -- eliminating desires just makes you bored, boring, and depressed, but learning how to keep your unmet desires and still be happy with what y…
/r/seduction01/06/12 04:27 AM
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Are you talking to me? That wasn't my comment that was deleted. I don't think it's especially noble that I am sometimes attracted to other things than just looks. I think that's the norm. What idea shouldn't be controversial?
/r/seduction29/02/12 04:39 AM
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A man's attraction buttons are pressed when he sees a good-looking woman. That's it. OK, I guess you're probably a woman, but for men, things are quite straightforward. We see a woman we like, and we're willing to have sex with her. All the relevant buttons have already been pressed at that point, just by seeing her. I'm male and this is 100% false for me. I believe you if you say it's true for you but I think men are complicated, just like women are. If we're interested in a relationship, then …
/r/seduction27/02/12 10:04 PM
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Oh, yes, if you're under 21, I think almost every state and province has "zero-tolerance" laws.
/r/seduction26/02/12 09:20 PM
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Then you should be fine with 1 drink/hr.
/r/seduction26/02/12 09:19 PM
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From context it's pretty clear that's not what's going on
/r/seduction26/02/12 09:14 AM
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Keeping them as friends is no problem as long as you're fucking a bunch of other people.
/r/seduction26/02/12 09:13 AM
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And of course if you're swerving and stuff they can always get you for reckless driving.
/r/seduction26/02/12 09:11 AM
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What's the legal limit in your province?
/r/seduction26/02/12 09:10 AM
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"Is this how you wanted those girls to feel?"
/r/seduction26/02/12 09:09 AM
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This interests me. Why? And how would you do it? Do you disagree that people will respond and relate differently to men than to women?
/r/seduction20/02/12 09:37 PM
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Seriously, how is that a "negative context"? Sex is a win-win situation. You can either have a broad definition of manipulation and say it can be a good thing sometimes, or you can have a very narrow definition of manipulation and say it's a bad thing. Dating/relationship skills can be used to influence people, but they're only a bad thing if they're used for bad purposes. And having consensual sex is not a bad purpose.
/r/seduction20/02/12 09:33 PM
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Why? If she's not ok with it she's obviously not going to be compatible.
/r/seduction20/02/12 10:09 AM
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Solid post, but gym work is good at increasing your testosterone and it's good for your overall health, as well as your confidence.
/r/seduction29/01/12 06:27 AM
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Height is irrelevant... it's more likely to be the way they smell, or the personal preferences of the girls they go up to, or something completely random.
/r/seduction29/01/12 06:26 AM
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Yeah, I read the comments you've gotten, which is why I posted what I did. I think you should ignore those comments. I think it's better to outwardly approach "like a creep" (which you're not doing anyway) than to worry about whether or not you are (which makes you more tentative and hesitant and actually makes you come off more like a "creep").
/r/seduction28/01/12 11:26 AM
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I think your biggest problem is that you're overly worried about being "creepy" or seen as a "creeper." Don't be so worried about what other people think: I know easier said than done. But you come off as worried about coming on too strong, worried you'll be misinterpreted. Go to a club or dance floor and just watch people sometime to get a feel for how aggressive you can be... I think if you see other people do it and look good, you'll be less worried about seeming "creepy" when you do it.
/r/seduction28/01/12 11:07 AM
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