blackcatcabaret Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now? Girl you need therapy. My mom is 65 and still has men pawing after her...and she's married and looks her age. Some of the men going for her are attractive even for my metrics at age 26. Get off the internet--the majority of men find women their own attractive. Plus, the ones who don't are the ones you shouldn't waste your time with anyway. Why do you care about attracting the eye of men who will lose attraction after a few short years? The trash will take itself out as you age honestly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 08:39 PM
2	Q4W: Do you believe/know/think that your grandmothers have never loved your grandfathers? If you're seriously saying women being able to leave/avoid abusive and unhappy marriages is an "unearned privilege" then you need more help than this sub can provide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 04:53 PM
1	Q4W: Do you believe/know/think that your grandmothers have never loved your grandfathers? Why does this question bother you? You're underestimating how many women are the way they are today because we grew up learning how awful our parents'/grandparents' marriages were for women. My entire childhood my mother and grandmother were strict with my education because they wanted me to have the opportunities and future that they didn't. My grandma confided in me after my grandpa died. She said she has so many regrets about having to live her life only for someone else, but during her time …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 12:59 AM
1	If hypothetically, female participation in the Job market drives down the value of male labor- creating an economy requiring Dual income households. Why do SOME women get upset about splitting bills or going “50/50” ? Going to be honest my guy, this is a mess -- like a drunk rambling all over the place. I can barely follow what you're trying to say here. Maybe rephrase without all the run on sentences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 11:42 AM
1	If hypothetically, female participation in the Job market drives down the value of male labor- creating an economy requiring Dual income households. Why do SOME women get upset about splitting bills or going “50/50” ? I, and the majority of women, have no issue paying 50/50 for life expenses so long as the higher earner is reasonable about quality of life and expected expenses. That being said, if I'm paying 50% of the bills I'm expecting my partner also does 50% of the household chores. This is the main reason why so many women are against 50/50 because in practice it never happens that way. We're always the one taking on the burden at home. If I'm going to have to clean up after you like a child then you'd …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 01:20 AM
4	What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology? In the post she made where does it say ANYTHING about the statistics on women not making an income and not contributing at all? In her literal comment you replied to. “Economists at Boston University found that dual-income marriages are more secure, and couples are less likely to split than those in marriages with only one working spouse" Take your time, and sound it out. Read it reeeally slowly if you need to, but I believe in you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 11:11 PM
3	What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology? I hate the r word but, my guy you are literally retarded. Dead serious, can you not read? Wtf do you think a "dual-income" household means? Please tell me English isn't your first language and I'll apologize promptly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 10:56 PM
1	Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands? You need serious help, I'm not just saying that to be snarky. 99% of women are sexually harassed in their lifetimes so because it happens to all of them it's trivial??	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 04:36 PM
2	Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands? Groping is sexual assault and has been considered so for a long time. And broadening the definition of "sexual assault" to include relatively trivial things like unwanted touching is semantic bleaching. Unwanted touching is...trivial? Are you fucking serious? Not all men, but definitely this one here 👆🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 04:27 PM
1	how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you? Men might not understand everything that went into a women's makeup but women certainly do. We can very obviously tell what's "underneath". There wouldn't be as big of a shock for us because we can see clearly the difference between makeup to accentuate features vs change them. I'm also a bisexual women. We appreciate the duality of women more. When I was dating, (I'm in a relationship now) I knew which girls were going to look drastically different without makeup. But I can also see their featu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 08:30 PM
1	Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised. Yes, but why is that? It truly is something fun to do for most of us. I said why it is for me: it's a moment of calm and concentration before a stressful day. For me, doing my hair is stressful so I don't. If I cared about some "competition" then my hair wouldn't be in an onion looking bun on top of my head lol. Makeup is fun because I can play around with a bunch of different colors and techniques that men don't even notice anyway. I like painting too for a similar reason. There's an artistry t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 07:15 PM
1	Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised. You've ignored everything I've said. How would myself and the many other women who genuinely enjoy the act of applying makeup (and sometimes do it without leaving the house) be doing so because of some "subconscious competition?" Who am I competing with in my own home? My cat? And applying makeup before the day is ritualistic for me and most women. It's some extra time I take to myself to chill with some music and coffee before a hectic day ahead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 07:00 PM
1	Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised. I think a lot of men don't understand makeup is something women can just enjoy on their own. It's not about competition, consciously or subconsciously. The act of applying makeup for many women is a fun form of self care.There's something therapeutic about slowing down during your morning routine and doing your makeup. Many of us enjoy the process, and even play around with different looks/colors yet never leave the house wearing it. Most of the makeup looks I create are never seen by anyone, or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 06:37 PM
1	Q4W: Do you like being held to a lower standard even though it is sexist? Yep. Which is really frustrating as a woman. As a man, you can be below average in your male-dominated field but no one thinks that reflects the abilities (consciously or subconsciously) of your gender. It's a shared frustration among women that we have to be one of the better ones in this setting or women as a whole are doubted. I think that's a major reason why education has shifted to women at the top recently, ie women are increasingly outpacing men in college graduation. Our mothers/grandmo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 10:22 PM
1	(Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.? Because legs grow stubble literally the next day and the hair is visible by the second day. So if you want non visible stubble, you'd need to shave at least your calves every other day. If you want completely smooth/soft legs to the touch (which some women do) you'd need to shave them everyday. That's why the only equivalent I could think of is instead of going every 2-4 weeks, men keeping the hair on their heads shaved before the stubble even grows, which would be only a few days. Not every man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 08:32 PM
1	(Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.? The only thing I can think for men that would not also apply to women is maintaining hair and facial hair much more routinely than most men do now. To have a fair equivalent to how often women are expected to maintain their own body hair would mean men need to either completely shave their face everyday, or at least shave everyday to maintain a clean shape. Women tend to have longer hair that doesn't need cut very often so another male equivalent would be getting a haircut multiple times a week …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 08:01 PM
3	if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ? All that being said, if your weight is fluctuating that much regularly, you should maybe get it checked out. You know a woman's weight can fluctuate 5 lbs a day? Hormones my guy. 15-20 lbs fluctuation is not usually concerning for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/22 12:26 AM
10	if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ? Yeah this commenter has no idea what 15-20 lbs can loos like. I'm 5'11 and my weight fluctuates regularly around 15-20 lbs and guess what? I look no different. My clothes don't feel tighter or looser anywhere either. My weight changes but I stay the exact same size.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 09:41 PM
5	Is crying a turnoff for you? I'm a woman and his response to you was spot on and most other women would agree. There is not some formula or exact amounts where crying is too much. Same if your female partner was crying everyday over insignificant things, it's a turn off. There's no perfect scale, but a man who never cries in my opinion is a red flag. He's crying everyday for weeks because his mom died? That's normal. Crying everyday because of minor life stress? Less so, and indicates a deeper problem which applies to both …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 05:41 PM
8	Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender roles Or very obviously had zero partners. You can tell which generalizations are by people who have clearly never had a meaningful romantic encounter/relationship. And unfortunately, they are over represented on Reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 11:19 PM
8	What argument here has changed your mind? Yep it's true and the same for me too. I'm only 23, but I got cat called and received waaaay more inappropriate comments when I was 13-16 than I do now. And people say I look 16 now, so I don't even want to think about how young I actually looked at that age while men made those comments...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 09:31 PM
13	Straight men will not spend a significant amount of time/are not close friends with a straight woman in whom they are not sexually or romantically interested. There is no such thing as "emotionally weak men" and this article is discussing the dangers of that belief. Everyone has moments where we need others to lean on emotionally. We all have bad days. Never discussing these issues is not mental stability, it's the exact opposite. Men have better emotional health when they are encouraged to stop repressing their emotions and build meaningful relationships to work through them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 05:55 PM
5	From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.” Some yes absolutely. There's way more of a mental aspect to sex for women. MANY women cannot orgasm at all from casual sex. Building trust with a partner can make a huge a difference and that's the point. For women sex isn't always better than no sex. Not only are so many left with zero pleasure, many feel worse afterwards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 01:30 PM
2	From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.” There are a lot of women who do this. Especially going for walks or runs out in public. It's so much safer and people don't harass and cat call you in the streets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 01:22 PM
5	Do women have completely different standards of what's appropriate and what's not depending on how attractive a man is? No. I don't care if you look like Zac Efron, don't fucking touch me if I don't know you. In fact the men who usually grab my waist in public places are men who aren't unattractive. They think because they aren't ugly it's okay. In my personal experience and in my friends, it's guys who have the mentality of "if he's attractive it's okay" and assume women feel the same way. It doesn't matter what you look like, unless she's giving you clear signs she's into you, you're going to make her extremely…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/19 07:00 PM
4	Sex issues with my fiancé 33M You might find better help on r/DeadBedrooms	/r/RedPillWomen	20/10/19 12:51 AM
64	29 year old woman and her "Five year life plan" I honestly think trying to put a time frame on these things isn't going to make you more motivated, I think it's going to discourage you. Five years is a very short span of time for all of these things, not impossible, but difficult. Having children requires finding a husband first (in your life goal). Including children in this goal may result it you settling down with the first guy you form a relationship with, and he might not be the best for you. If you're seriously looking for the man you w…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/09/19 07:43 PM