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Again “women do it all the time” - maybe women you associate with. You cannot make declarations for all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:10 PM
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You’re making a lot of generalisations and speaking in absolutes. Impossible to make these kinds of declarations over an ENTIRE gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:27 AM
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This is it. Super simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:25 AM
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Why are you yelling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:18 PM
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Honestly I don’t believe this is true. But.. if you say so!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:12 PM
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“Maintenance” of said relationship works both ways. I noticed in your comment that you placed the onus on the woman in the hypothetical scenario..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:11 PM
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How bizarre. I don’t see how not liking children makes someone trashy but to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:46 PM
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Sure. I believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:53 PM
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It's NOT subjective, it's factual. Source? Genuinely curious to see
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:53 PM
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I just know your dick stinks and is itchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:35 PM
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That was just hyperbole. I meant a high amount of trivial relationships. and what’s “high”? Incredibly subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:50 PM
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Interesting. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:27 AM
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What a cute story!!! Are you guys monogamous/exclusive? and (if you’re comfortable answering) how would you describe your feelings towards him and him to you? Do you guys love each other? Love each other but not IN love? Love each other but platonically? Im so fascinated by how organically this came to be
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:58 AM
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Birth control failures happen and abortion services aren’t readily available to all individuals in all circumstances. All you’ve done is raise a series of moot points because what that Poster was talking about (when they mentioned husbands placing birthing trauma on their wives) was instances where the pregnancy is anticipated and wanted. If 2 people are trying, yes he definitely is nutting inside her and no, they aren’t considering abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:15 PM
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it would have ultimately been the woman's choice to get pregnant PARDON? 😂😂 is this not an activity that requires participation from 2 people?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:46 PM
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I have very serious questions about #2. In any case, anecdotal evidence =/= data. That woman you know is a MASSIVE anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:20 AM
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LMAO I picked up on this too! Weird fucking guy man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:16 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:06 AM
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I can smell YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:32 PM
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I believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:24 PM
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they complain when we don’t want them past age 30 as if it’s not a huge red flag Lmao do THEY want YOU?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:23 PM
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Don't really understand how anyone could reject the offer tbh. Have you ever had good sex? Emphasis on “good”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:25 PM
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Female and fuck no. No amount of money is worth the closeness and intimacy you get from having a sexual connection with your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:22 PM
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I don’t think the men that poster described are getting “that much love and encouragement”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:09 AM
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RIGHT!? Same shit different day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:10 AM
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I think the issue here is you’ve highlighted two, extreme ends of the spectrum and aren’t acknowledging that a middle ground exists. Majority of men don’t fit neatly into either one OR the other these descriptions you’ve laid out. There are plenty of men who match descriptors from both of these groups, and STILL considered “HVM” eg he may “only be 5’9” but runs his own business and takes care of himself. It’s a much greyer area than RP’ers make out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:08 AM
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You’re arguing against a point that wasn’t made. None of the women I talked about (the women who raised me) are mediocre. So I’m struggling to see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:52 PM
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There is a reason older women tell younger women to find a partner and settle down. They've seen what crippling loneliness does after you have lived a life of entitlement. Speaking in absolutes. What else is new on this sub. Don’t know which older women you’re referring to, but I come from a line of successful, fulfilled and happy women in my family. Some are married with kids, some are married with no kids and some are single. I’m talking lawyers, doctors and business owners. I have grown up wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:21 PM
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Difficult to “engage the argument” when the person hurling insults around in the first place is failing to recognise that THEY are the ones for whom such disparaging things can be said. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:25 PM
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Well, it does. It’s a waste of energy being so staunch about not wanting to sleep with “sluts” with high body counts, if this is not a problem you have ever or will ever face. It’s a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:38 PM
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I don't shame sluts. I wouldn't personally want to sleep with them but I don't shame them. Do THEY want to sleep with YOU? Asking genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:28 PM
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I’ve seen some of your other comments under this very post. Yes.. you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:39 PM
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Your post history is.. um.. Anyway. You’re one to talk about being driven by emotions and insecurities..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:35 PM
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Literally. Like where is it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:30 AM
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I always offer when the check comes, regardless of whether I want to see him again or not. If I’m not interested, I insist (quite hard) on paying for myself. If I like him and want to see him again, I’ll allow him to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:37 PM
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bro what
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:35 AM
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Not all high earning women have a work environment such as the one you described. I run my own business and work from home (on days that I don’t feel like going into a co-working space, hotel or cafe) You’re also assuming the reason all high earning women will inevitably eventually want to bow out of work is to stay home and take care of kids. In my experience, these women are much more likely to outsource to cleaners, nannies and other such help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:02 PM
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she really helps out for utility bills/food As in, she pays a higher (proportional) share of the bills than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:59 PM
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women that make a lot of money are more willing to get a partner that’s not on their level who is willing to grow. This is it & it’s certainly true for me. You don’t need to have money when I meet you/we get together, but you do need to have a vision and plans for your future.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:56 PM
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Yeah.. you. Getting heated over Reddit comments and resorting to personal attacks. Get a grip. From your post and comment history, I can see you’re a sad sexless loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:43 PM
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And you’re an unattractive, uninteresting and unintelligent piece of dog shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:39 PM
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Yikes. I am a woman, so my response is based on my own experience and that of the women around me in my family and friendship circles. Maybe take your statement and re-direct it at yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:05 PM
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?? Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:44 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:28 PM
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So ignoring a woman who's already interested in you is a good strategy Not if she’s secure enough in herself to not care for your attention/validation. She’ll either go for the guy who shows genuine interest, or happily keep solo until a better situation presents itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:37 PM
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Goodness me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:04 AM
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Jesus there really is someone for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:46 AM
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The girl he wants is easily 1/10000 and he's just some average dude. This is not even counting that the girl needs to like him back. Damn 😂 you right. My guy needs to be brought back down to earth and fast!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:38 AM
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All good, I clocked your other comments and you hit the nail on the head. Damn. Wish I was a lesbian sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:10 PM
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Most orgasms come from fingers and hands and mouths!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:53 PM
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You edited your comment after posting. Initially, all you had was the top line and I still stand by what I said. Doesn’t make sense. I’m a what-er? You boldly and authoritatively telling internet strangers things about them and their personalities is so embarrassing man. Like, I’m physically cringing at this. Maybe focus on self improvement and addressing whatever insecurities are preventing you from getting women, instead of picking fights with them online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:09 AM
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? Your comment makes no sense but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:01 AM
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Again, do you know me? The fact you’re basing my entire personality (and proceeding to tell me who I am) off the back of one Reddit comment makes me think you don’t have any friends, you don’t leave the house and you definitely don’t understand the complex nature of personalities and identities. To clarify: one Reddit comment =/= someone’s entire identity. Hope that makes sense. Let me know if you still have questions :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:52 AM
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Sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:21 AM
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Because you know me and my “entire identity” do you? Lol. I can tell it takes very little to trigger you. That’s funny to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:27 AM
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Damn. That is really sad. I’m so thankful to have been born in this era & on this side of the equator. Ownership and autonomy over one’s own fucking womb shouldn’t be something one has to acknowledge and show gratitude for but what can one do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:26 AM
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Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:00 PM
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You’re discounting other factors that play into the modern day decision to have kids - factors that didn’t exist for long prior to invention of birth control. As another commenter said, the (modern day) decision to have kids may more so be a product of your environment as opposed to some innate desire to continue your lineage. Having more kids way back when was advantageous because it meant more resources to hunt, gather, sow crops etc etc. It was a form of / fed into your trade. Nowadays it cos…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:39 PM
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Not opening that but thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:20 PM
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That’s not the only thing that matters, you’re being obtuse on purpose here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:51 AM
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the real solution is to stop giving a shit about finding women and do everything else that will compound into attracting women UGH finally. I’ve been yelling this til I’m blue in the face. This guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:49 AM
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because you want to feel the effects of a sizeable difference Point me to where I said this? You’re doing too much. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:31 AM
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You really need to go outside 😅 or pick up a dictionary
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:38 AM
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Shoulda got a prenup. I don’t feel bad for those fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:42 AM
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Divorce rapes are ridiculously high Excuse me? Divorce what now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:15 AM
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The longer I look at this the funnier it gets
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:03 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:02 AM
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That was fun as fuck. The best part was getting attacked by bitter little boys who didn’t know who the fuck they came for. Probably made a few grown men cry but that’s a purge for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:41 AM
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Please god not more purges. Please
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:39 AM
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it was nice to insult people FUCK ME was it a rush!! Triggering little boys will forever be my favourite sport. Back to civility now I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:38 AM
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red pill is a handful of easily meme-able talking points This is exactly it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:12 AM
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This was actually kinda funny. Richard Ramirez had alllll the girls tingling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:10 AM
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Hahaha!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:09 AM
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AMEN!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:04 AM
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Broke. Bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:54 PM
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This doesn’t get funnier the more you do it. Fucking loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:37 PM
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Please read the rest of the thread. Once you’re done, butt the fuck out of the conversation. Everything I had to say to your broke friend is everything I have to say to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:57 PM
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The only funny post to come out of purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:12 PM
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Darling. I know it’s extremely far out of the realm of your reality, but there are financially successful AND generous men out there who happily have a set up like this. OP themselves (presumably a man) has explained that he’s talking about a similar set up, where they are happy to pay for the upkeep of the wife and the kids. It’s funny to me that you’re whining about 5k that no one is asking you to pay, even if you had it. Relax. If you cannot or do not want to meet the criteria, step aside. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:17 PM
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In my experience the overlap isn’t massive. I’m not talking about men who watch porn yet say they “could never” date or marry a sex worker. For this camp of men, yes, I’m sure the overlap is massive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:14 PM
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Ew. You sound like the kind of broke, tit-for-tat, tally up everything kind of person I’d stay the hell away from. Friend, colleague, boyfriend, anything. You sound miserable and cheap as fuck. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:12 PM
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Obviously this is 2 distinct and separate groups of women. It’s along the same lines of the argument that “men enjoy porn and subscribe to OF but at the same time say they hate women who do sex work.” The group of people for which the first statement is true is different to the group of people for which the second statement is true. Some sex-deprived and lonely creatures on this sub are so stupid man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:51 PM
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Maybe you grew up being short Well I certainly didn’t grow down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:35 PM
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Surely not. 6ft? That’s barely noticeable! Personally I only start to feel the effects of a sizeable difference in height once the guy’s at least 6’4
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:19 PM
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i’m not a horse Hahahahahaha!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:02 PM
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Hahaha. What the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:45 PM
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Did you not hear her? Her partner can easily pick her up. Please use your imagination to think about how he feels about the height difference. I’ll give you 30 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:40 PM
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Thank you sweetheart :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:20 PM
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I already told you about yourself yesterday you invalid. Stop following me around this fucking site. Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:11 PM
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And you’re mad because you’re short, broke and have zero luck with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:58 PM
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Crawl back into your incel hole please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:50 PM
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Agree, those men are total hypocrites. My N is 7. I don’t have a specific criteria for the N count of my desired partner, but I am not interested in a harlot who has slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:19 PM
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Hahahaha! Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:50 PM
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Loooove to hear this!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:26 PM
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I could say the same for you 😂😂 the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:13 PM
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You have only been given a glimpse into one instance of them handling (or rather, trying to handle) a big financial decisions. It’s not enough for you to pass judgement on how poorly unified you believe they are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:07 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:48 PM
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Love to hear it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:09 PM
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doesn’t want much out of life Interesting. I don’t mean that in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:09 PM
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Gross. You want an STD-ridden dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:08 PM
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Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:06 PM
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Sorry but I just know that sex with you is gonna be so, so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:05 PM
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Make sure he’s paying all the bills but it doesn’t stop there. Make sure you’re getting a FAT allowance and make sure you invest that shit in a little nest egg of your own or a lil Fuck You Fund in case y’all ever break up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:00 PM
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As long as he gives me a 4 figure allowance (monthly, minimum 5k) I’m cool with this. I know how to manage money. Should shit ever hit the fan or should our relationship ever end, I’ll have made my own investments and be able to get back on my own 2 feet regardless of him no longer being in the picture. PLUS - I’ll know how to do basic survival shit like cook and clean. The set up you’re describing is a win win win for me, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:55 PM
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What’s that in ft? I am genuinely 5’3 and typically end up with 6ft+ dudes. I didn’t plan it that way! It’s just how things happened. I love a big height difference. It’s so sexy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:46 PM
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Haha! Ignore that. That was sarcasm. As it’s purge week, I’m finding an embarrassingly huge amount of joy triggering the people posting hate-memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:39 PM
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The last year made me grateful for my physical health and ability to walk, run and lift heavy things without my joints screaming in protest. This year I have a couple of fitness goals I’d like to achieve. I also want to build my strongest body yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:37 PM
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What! Why do you feel it’s too short? Genuine Q. Is it back pains, hard to reach down for a kiss? Hard to get the logistics of certain positions down? Like what is it? My ex used to whine about the constant bending down to kiss me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:34 PM
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Ask them again!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:26 PM
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Oof, perfect. My minimum is 6’2” but I’ll take 6’1”. I’m 5’3”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:25 PM
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There is no one size fits all approach to marriage. You may not understand marriages like that, and that’s fine. Just because you don’t understand it, it doesn’t mean that couple is not “truly unified”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:05 AM
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Honestly!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:01 AM
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This “always” happens? This scenario is pretty specific. What alternative fucking reality are you living in???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:00 AM
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“Reality.” Of course. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:06 AM
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Mmhmm. All believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:01 AM
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LOL. It ain’t me who posted this, is it? If anyone is mad (for no reason) it’s OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:01 AM
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Don’t need a degree in psychoanalysis. All I had to do was look at your comments on this thread, as well as your comments generally. You’re bitter as fuck. Probably because you’re struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:06 AM
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I’m a woman. Funny your mind automatically went where it went. You’re bitter, insecure and overly concerned that other men are faring much better in the dating game than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:58 PM
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You’re a bitter loser for posting this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:05 PM
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Amen!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:00 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:32 PM
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Or he ain’t worth sticking around for. Miserable, mood vampire like this? I’d be outta there so fast too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:02 PM
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I don’t know you but I think I’d be able to accurately guess why you’re single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:01 PM
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Last line is 100% accurate. Sick of the daily fucking pity parties on this sub that are completely detached from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:00 PM
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Everyday I come to this sub wanting to understand and feel empathy for the troubles men face in the dating world. Instead, I’m confronted with insufferable insecure men who, if this was the vibe I was getting in real life, irrespective of how attractive I find you I’m getting the fuck away. Energy vampires. Damn. Y’all are just SO miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:47 PM
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Why the fuck are you chiming in completely off topic to respond to something I did not say?? Crawl back into your miserable incel hole. Arguing against imaginary points. What a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:43 PM
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I hope to god I don’t fall into that tiny proportion you deem worthy of hitting on. You sound fucking insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:50 AM
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… it took you this long to learn this..?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:42 AM
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Yes. The answer is yes. He is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:41 AM
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“Nasty rag” took me out 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:38 AM
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Sure. It’s the “same”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:34 AM
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So choose your fucking complaint. You cherry picked an example to show that your gripe was height. When you were rebuffed using Kanye as an example, the gripe changed to dick size. It seems you’re only concerned with finding reasons to complain about women having standards that you don’t meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:28 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:25 AM
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Exactly. Bunch of short bitter children wallowing in self pity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:24 AM
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Y’all just be short and bitter on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:23 AM
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It is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:43 PM
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Hell no. What is that thing? Kill it with fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:12 PM
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Shame then. Because what functioning adult and member of society (irrespective of gender) doesn’t have a job, the ability to manage their own bills and an interest in taking care of their health and well-being? If you don’t have those basics down, you have bigger issues than dating to tackle. You need to get your basic survival needs met first. THEN think about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:02 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:14 PM
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Which bitch? Yo mama? I agree. She is a fucking bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:05 PM
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K. Obviously I touched a nerve. And, looking through your comment history, you have a habit of trying to gaslight and guilt trip people into coddling your suicidal tendencies. Sorry I didn’t have the time or patience today. Better luck tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:02 PM
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No one said it was your responsibility to do that.. wasting time arguing against imaginary points no one made. Go back to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:59 PM
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Look, I don’t know you and you don’t know me. But each time I come across a comment I strongly resonate with, it’s you, and I just wanted to tell you that I love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:57 PM
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“Used up single moms expecting us to save them” lmfao who is this “us” you speak of? Sit down. You ain’t saving shit. Go masturbate (again) and jizz all over your pitiful stomach (again).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:55 PM
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It isn’t the responsibility of internet strangers to bear your problems. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:51 PM
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LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:50 PM
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You are conflating dating standards and things that make someone an attractive prospect with basic things that signal that someone is a functioning and adult member of society and the productive economy. I don’t class having a job, a car, the ability to pay your own bills and the wherewithal to exercise and look after your physical health as “high dating standards” and I therefore don’t factor it into my personal definition of bare minimum. Putting gender and dating aside, these things don’t mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:39 PM
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Did I ever say it was “on” anyone else? Silly response.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:33 PM
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Yes.. obviously.. a respectful approach will make a woman feel desired. You didn’t say that to begin with, though. Your original comment was “any approach by guys makes a women feel desired.” So don’t try and backtrack now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:33 PM
1

LMFAO ASK HIM AGAIN! LOUDER!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:54 PM
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Loud and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:37 PM
2

Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:35 PM
-1

I’m a woman and I’d disagree. Disrespectful approaches and outright unsolicited filth in my texts and in my inboxes does not make me “feel desired.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:33 PM
1

Please cite your references. I’m open to my perspective being challenged objectively. Also, I get your point RE the books and the ability to manipulate the data to fit the narrative. And I agree. BUT, you can head directly to their bibliographies and read through the specific study(s) yourself. You can say fuck the book if you want to - but, if you do that, I’d expect you to challenge the direct reference or study or data point the book uses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:43 PM
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Sorry if my reply comes off negative, it’s not. Your reaction didn’t bother me and you’re welcome to your opinion on my standards. I will say though, your last sentence is incorrect and there is observable data (as recent as ~5 years ago) to show that cohabiting women in hetero dynamics DO do more work around the home than their male partners. This is getting into the whole productive vs reproductive labour discussion. I don’t have any studies to hand but 2 books I read recently that quantify th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:47 AM
1

I don’t know how to do the quoty thing on Reddit but I’m not saying “working hard” and “earning minimum £70k” are mutually exclusive. I don’t dispute that men who earn below this amount work as hard as I did to earn what I do. The question asked me what my standard is - that’s my standard and I’m not willing to lower it. There is a similar question in this sub posed to the men instead, and many of those responses had at least one standard which men categorically said was non-negotiable for them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:50 AM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:46 PM
2

cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:05 PM
1

Out of interest - what age range are you interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:04 PM
1

You didn’t need to give it. We just knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:56 PM
1

Purely just curious - why would it turn you off if she outearned you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:40 PM
2

And that’s absolutely fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:00 PM
1

Your whole reply, ironically, stinks of projection but I hear you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:19 AM
1

When you say “men are willing to sacrifice their whole lifestyle” - do you mind giving some example scenarios? I can’t picture any and I’ve never seen this play out in my own life either with my own relationships or in the relationships of the people I’m close to. Also, I don’t see why this is something I or anyone would need to budge on. It’s taken a lot of hard work for me to get here. I grew up poor, cold and hungry. I’ve sacrificed enough already in life, and don’t see a need to budge on rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:13 AM
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I think arguing it is “entirely” dependant on age is naive and reductive. Age is not the only factor that plays into a person’s stance on whether or not they want kids. I’ve never wanted them. I’m 29 now and that is as true as it was when I was 25, 21 and 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:52 AM
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My ranges aren’t driven by cost of living/location, i said £70k because I don’t want him to earn too far below what I currently earn. I’d like us to have a similar idea for the kind of lifestyle we want to enjoy. My ideal scenario is a DINK situation. If kids happen, they happen. But I’m not bothered if they don’t. Edit: ideal scenario is actually a DINKWAD situation. (Double income no kids with a dog)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:47 AM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:43 PM
3

Interesting. WOC colour here (with a preference for biracial dudes but curious anyway) - what makes you think of it as a red flag? No animus at all, genuinely wanted to hear your perspective on it. I have a number of WOC (black predominantly) friends who have a sole preference for white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:40 PM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:11 PM
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Height: 5’6 to sky’s the limit Income: £70k to sky’s the limit baby! I tend to like entrepreneurial men Race: all exes have been mixed race. Bi/multilingual is a plus Body type: don’t care if you have a layer of fat sitting on top of the muscle, but you must be active and in a healthy BMI range. Must eat reasonably well and care about all aspects of your health, not just physical health, so dental health, skin health, sexual health House/no house: don’t care either way Kids/no kids: kids are a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:54 PM
2

He’s a narrow minded moron
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:54 AM
1

Excuse me what.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:36 AM
2

Goodness me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 07:25 PM
1

Fuck my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 04:19 PM
1

Oh fuck my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 04:17 PM
2

Actually there are two theres in there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 04:02 PM
1

What’s MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:54 PM
5

What’s waatgm?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:53 PM
11

Fuck. So we’re being THIS blatant now with the scroter-y? Cool. Saves me time anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:36 PM
8

Wait am I missing something? Is he a bad person/did he do something bad? I barely know who these 2 are but I’ve seen her YouTube channel before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:25 AM
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Yasss queen, welcome to the fam. And congrats on your new pursuits!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:12 PM
1

Hahaha your response. Fucking love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 10:46 PM
1

Damn. This was a great read. And exactly what I needed. You truly do know this intuitively - if not confirmation that he’s the one, then confirmation that he isn’t or at least isn’t displaying that he is capable of being the one. “Your future husband is NOT someone who makes you feel confused — in any way, about any matter.” Too fucking true. One of my main actionable and practical takeaways from the book He’s Just Not That Into You was around being fucking honest with myself about ain’t-shit me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:19 AM
20

Taste and class left the chat a LONG time ago for this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:24 PM
34

Dying lol! Fucking ditto.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:22 PM
14

My thoughts exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:17 PM
73

Girl, yes! That is exactly the kind of numb-dick shit a porn addicted LV dog would do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:03 PM
11

Hahaha!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:01 PM
3

Beautiful message and she is stunning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:01 PM
3

Yasss, love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:56 PM
39

Lord. This is a lot to digest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:54 PM
69

Lol! Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:51 PM
5

Yeah she needs to let that MANGO asap. What a piece of shit. Her baby deserves a better example to look up to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:11 PM
22

It makes me sick. I’m well and truly over this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:37 PM
6

Say your ex was the equivalent of McDonald’s, you just got an ihop meal and you’re acting like it’s Michelin 3 star quality. Want more for yourself. Fucking love this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:12 AM
7

Ugh. Been pondering this one for a lifetime. My time is precious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:10 AM
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He manifested exactly what he believed about women and it came back to him in spades. A-fucking-men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:54 AM
8

Bruh. It's fucking shocking how many of them there are crawling around though. It's like, who let you out of your hole?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:18 PM
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Wow the majority of those commenters are trash. Especially the one that was like "get the morning after pill if you fEeL yOu NeEd It but as for STDs don't worry, mOsT oF tHeM aRe BeNiGn and EaSiLy TrEaTeD" really dude?? Really? Smh. 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:51 AM
3

Understand & agree on amoral. I'm not coming from a rightness vs wrongness angle on this, just don't see how you can value and respect yourself and recognise the importance of vetting to ensure only deserving men enter your space, whilst at the same time exhibiting some of the very qualities you are weeding out in a man. Bit of discordance there to me but overall totally agree with everything you're saying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:15 AM
2

I say it’s fine if it’s on your terms like that! Really? My personal interpretation of the standards advocated by this sub don't necessarily translate to 'don't let him be a shitty person to you but if you want to be a shitty person, go ahead'... not trying to come at you but very much disagree with this sentiment. This is a LV quality in anyone regardless of gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:58 AM
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he was promptly blocked on and unfollowed on all social media platforms with no explanation. Yaaasssss fuck it up sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:50 PM
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No u chill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:45 PM
12

So then the question to ask is not do you want to be in a relationship with him (it's obvious that you do), the real question is do you want to be in this relationship with him? Men don't respond to words. They respond to action and no contact. Remove yourself from him and just observe. His actions will tell you whether he truthfully wants to do the work necessary to get you back and keep you, or whether he was just keeping you around simply because you were willing to stick around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:57 PM
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but I told him I’d talk to him later. I decided to not text him, wondering if he’d reach out. Understand your frustration at not having your needs met and I'm all for women standing firm by their boundaries in relationships but this sounds a bit to me like you have your standard with regards to a level of communication yet sometimes you yourself aren't meeting this standard with him. Obviously I don't know the relationship or the situation outside of what you've posted here but as someone who's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:34 PM
3

I hope this means she's going to be writing more empowering songs now instead of crying about LVM Yasssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:54 AM
4

Haters gon hate, potatoes gon potate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:30 AM
5

Fair, I understand where you're coming from now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:35 AM
10

Do I feel better now that I am 30kg lighter? Nope. I lost so much weight because I got an Eating Disorder I understand what you're saying but I fail to grasp your reasoning by the example you used. Of course you don't feel better if the means whereby (in your individual case) was an eating disorder. I can empathize on that front, they are fucking debilitating. However to then categorically say that losing weight is not and will never be a level up? That's using spurious and anecdotal evidence to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:16 AM
4

Absolutely!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:36 AM
169

Agree, she's absolutely stunning regardless. I will always be a fangirl for her haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:39 PM
10

This was an amazing start to my morning haha endless giggles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:55 AM
45

She really does, love her YouTube channel (School of Affluence)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:39 PM
4

"what should I do" lol sis let that MANGO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:09 AM
2

Yaaasssss 👏🏾 this a WHOLE mood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 09:36 AM
17

LOUDER for the people in the back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:15 PM
63

Trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:21 AM
1

Trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:55 PM
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