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There were two different people saying that men should reconsider their decision to get a vasectomy. I was merely responding to those but go off.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 03:31 AM
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I wasn't talking to OP, I was talking to the other person who kept doubling down and insisting that they should reconsider their decision to get a vasectomy. You should really pay attention to what you're reading before you make comments like this.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 03:28 AM
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Normally I would agree with you. However, a lot of these men seem firm in their decision and it is wrong for other people to tell them that they are making the wrong decision. This would be like a woman wanting to get an abortion and people telling her that she should do her research even though she's firming her decision. It's their body and their decision. That goes both ways, you know. That's not just for women. I'm sorry but it just seems suspicious to me. It seems like the kind of thing a w…
/r/MensRights26/05/24 03:25 AM
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No, it's not that I think that everybody who's against them is a woman trolling. It's just that it seems that people have disagreed with those comments and they still keep doubling down insisting that they're right. You're less than for the day should be, you can listen to and absorb someone's point of view without adopting it as your own. Someone disagreeing if you doesn't make it a personal attack.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 03:23 AM
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No, I'm saying you're a woman trolling on here. Why else would you be arguing against vasectomies so hard? Reading comprehension is a great thing.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 02:07 AM
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Found the actual lady. You wouldn't be arguing against it so much otherwise.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 01:55 AM
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Lmao
/r/MensRights26/05/24 01:54 AM
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Ignore them. It seems like they're actually women in here trolling. They do that quite a bit.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 01:53 AM
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Are you actually a woman trying to convince men not to get a vasectomy? We get it, you had complications and while that sucks, it's pretty rare. Stop trying to tell other people what to do with their body just because it went badly for you.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 01:51 AM
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This is sad but funny
/r/MensRights26/05/24 01:47 AM
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Exactly. It happened and I gave him the choice to be in her life or not and he chose not to be. I left it alone. I don't care what people think, I'm not going to be bringing that drama around my daughter. To be honest, I don't think his parents even know about her and I'm okay with that. I don't want them involved either. If I'm being completely honest, a big part of it is because I hardly know them. I met them a few times and that was it. I'm not going to let my daughter go with people I hardly…
/r/MensRights23/05/24 08:23 PM
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Exactly. I'm glad you have a healthy perspective too.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 08:19 PM
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I will admit that I hope one day he pulls his head out of his ass and decides to have a relationship with his daughter for her sake but honestly I'm kind of hoping he stays away. I told him from the jump that I was not going to tolerate him popping in and out of her life because it would just hurt her. This isn't to say that I was trying to be like I'm not going to let you see your daughter. I just did not want him to hurt her by doing that. So I gave him the choice. You can walk away now or you…
/r/MensRights23/05/24 08:08 PM
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Thanks. I just believe it should go both ways. No one should be forced to parent if they don't want to.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 08:07 PM
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I'm sorry because it's a serious subject matter but I lol'd at this. It's true but it's absurd.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 05:27 AM
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This. My daughter's father decided he doesn't want to be involved. People told me to take him for child support. I told them I'm not going to. The women inevitably called me stupid for nOt mAkiNg HiM pAy. He said he doesn't want to be involved and I'm not going to force him to be. If women can get abortions, men should be able to financially opt out. Of course you know the same women saying I should make him pay are all, mY bOdY, mY cHoiCe. Well then why can't a man say, my life, my choice? They…
/r/MensRights23/05/24 05:21 AM
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I laughed at that first part and thank you. I just believe in thinking objectively. Just because a few bad apples exist, that doesn't mean I'm going to let them spoil the bunch in my mind if you will. I'm sorry, it's been a long day lol. I'm not sure how else to phrase it. I just don't go around thinking that all men are the enemy because a couple have hurt me. That's like never eating food again because you got food poisoning a few times.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 10:48 PM
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Exactly
/r/MensRights22/05/24 08:41 PM
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This reminds me of Family Guy where they did a cut away to Alien vs Predator. I wanna eat em too Get back down inside me little mouth, I'll get you when we's eatin em. 😂😂
/r/MensRights22/05/24 08:39 PM
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DoN't sAy tHaT! YoU hAte wOmEn!
/r/MensRights22/05/24 08:36 PM
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Man, fuck that. Stuff like that is why I left when women refuse. I merely pointed out that men are DV victims too and I was jumped all over. What's the point of saying that if you're going to say XYZ but? But nothing. XYZ the end.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 08:35 PM
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Man, fuck that. Stuff like that is why I left when women refuse. I merely pointed out that men are DV victims too and I was jumped all over. What's the point of saying that if you're going to say XYZ but? But nothing. XYZ the end.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 08:35 PM
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All of this. This is basically it in a nutshell.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 07:26 PM
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Of course. They want things to be equal but they expect a man to pay for everything. How dare she be expected to even offer to split the check? Don't men know that they are supposed to provide everything? /s Edit: Meanwhile, they scream about how they're oppressed. You should pay for everything for me but while you do, I'm going to scream about how you're oppressing me. Then when they say that men ain't shit, they don't realize that there are the ones who are actually being oppressive. Go ahead …
/r/MensRights21/05/24 07:22 PM
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What's the matter with you? I say you he dead.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 07:21 PM
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LoL 😂
/r/MensRights21/05/24 07:20 PM
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Exactly. I was in the sub, when women refuse and last night, I pointed out that men can be victims of abuse just like women can. They were like, this is not the sub to be pointing that out. There are subs centered around men, why don't you go there? They got butt hurt about me pointing this out simply because the victim that they were talking about in that particular case was a woman. I got jumped on by several other people and I was like okay, this is not the sub for me. If they can't live with…
/r/MensRights21/05/24 07:05 PM
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That part lol. I just can't believe that she is gloating about the fact that she took all of his money. Basically she's using his kids as a pawn because she's mad at him for cheating on her. It's obvious.
/r/MensRights19/05/24 10:39 PM
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I'm a woman and I agree with this. Never ever, will I entertain the idea of getting married now. I have been burned too many times to even consider it.
/r/MensRights04/02/24 07:09 PM
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Yes, they do. At the end when I left him, the mask really came off. It was quite bizarre. He stole money from me and somehow turned it around to make it my fault. He said that I went into his accounts and made it look like he stole money from me in order to set him up. I was like okay, dude. Whatever. Just send me the fucking money back. I threatened him with legal action and so I guess it's scared him enough to send me my money back. I wouldn't have cared either, if he had just asked me if he c…
/r/MensRights04/02/24 07:05 PM
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Oh wow, I'm sorry. However, I don't blame you. I'm very aware of how men get the short end of the stick and family court.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 02:57 AM
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Trust me, I know all about that sub and I don't like it either. I don't understand how people think it's neutral.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 09:45 AM
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I was angry reading that. I'm sorry that that happened to you. I hope you dumped her immediately. At least that's what I said well I was reading this. I was like, I hope he dumped her immediately. I've never understood things like this. Why is it that when men are harassed and sexually assaulted even in public places, they are ridiculed and treated like they're the ones to blame. I have personally seen this happen. I've been in bars where women would hit on men and despite being told that the me…
/r/MensRights06/01/24 05:03 AM
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But yet if she had gotten pregnant, you would have been forced to pay child support of course. I'm sorry that happened to you. All of it.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 04:58 AM
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As a woman I want to chime in and say I'm sorry for that. I know that happens to you guys a lot and I know it makes it hard for you to trust women in general. It's sad because I think a lot of men understandably believe that there are no good women left. I'm sorry that women like that have caused you to not really trust any of us. I promise we're still out there even if we are far and few between. I hope you're having a good weekend so far.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 04:54 AM
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I've never been against it but I started speaking out about it because I just saw the toxic feminism. They talk about wanting equal rights but yet they really just want all rights and want men to have none. Yet they think slapping the fancy label of equality on it is somehow okay. It's not. Equal rights means just that, equal rights for everyone. It doesn't mean we get all rights and men get none but we're going to say it's equal rights. I'm all for men and women being equal, don't get me wrong.…
/r/MensRights05/01/24 05:08 PM
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Oh yes, common law marriage.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 03:20 PM
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I agree with this. There needs to be monogamy but it seems like people don't want it anymore. It seems like even the people who say they do really don't. Like they'll start out being monogamous but the first thing that goes wrong in the relationship, they'll drop you for the next person. At least that's what I've experienced and frankly, I'm done putting myself through that. Nobody wants the same things I do anymore it seems.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 03:19 PM
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That's it, to live by somebody else's standards. If he thinks I'm the problem for that then oh well. At least I'm not having to put on an act in order to make somebody else's parents happy. If they can't accept me for who I am then it's better that I didn't marry into that family anyway.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 06:11 AM
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You're welcome. To be honest, I think that people who get married are not really thinking things through. I just don't see why people are in such a rush to do it. Also, I've always thought that weddings were a giant waste of time and money. The biggest thing for me was I can't understand why a woman would spend thousands of dollars on a dress she's going to wear once for a few hours. It's like, why don't you use that money on something that you would actually use everyday or something like buyin…
/r/MensRights04/01/24 06:06 AM
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I'm a woman and I have to agree with this. I have never seen any reason to get married. Why, so you can have the government tell you that you're together? Why when you already know this? A marriage is not a piece of paper and a file box at a courthouse. I will never get legally married. I just don't see any reason to. If you ask me, people who do aren't thinking about the bigger picture. If things go south, it's a lot easier to break up and walk away than it is to go through a divorce. I'm never…
/r/MensRights04/01/24 05:21 AM
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I'm not worried about it
/r/MensRights01/01/24 03:09 AM
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It just makes me realize how stuck in the hive of mine they are. I've gotten older and I've stopped caring what people think about me. Even when I was younger I wouldn't have cared about something like that. I just support what I think is right and I don't care what people think about that.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 02:44 AM
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The only two things I can say to this are WTF and I'm sorry. Hugs 🫂
/r/MensRights01/01/24 02:35 AM
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Yeah I know it is. I just ignore them. I actually kind of pity them but internally. I'm sorry you got called that. People are ignorant.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 02:33 AM
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They ought to have called this book, how to guarantee he'll get tired of your shit really fast and leave you anyway.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 04:35 AM
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I have an idea, let's pirate it so we can get a bunch of copies. Then we can burn them in a bonfire.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:50 AM
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Somehow that doesn't surprise me
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:48 AM
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I wish awards were still a thing because I would give this one
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:47 AM
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I was about to post this here until I realized it was already here. That's not funny, that's just terrible. Anyone who thinks that's funny has something wrong with them upstairs.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:47 AM
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I can't tell you what to do here. All I can say is that as a woman, I support you and I'm sorry that you even have to ask this question. The double standards sucks. If you were a woman, they would be screaming for you to be believed right away. I stayed in a domestic violence shelter for a few months in 2020 and let me tell you, I could tell who the aggressor actually was in the relationship with some of those women.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 11:33 PM
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I go to those subs and read them when I need a good laugh. I'm like, are these women living in reality or what? It's because of the things I've been saying for years. They seem to hate all men because a few have hurt them. What they don't seem to realize is that it's their attitude that's keeping these men away. But no, it's never their fault. It's always the man who wants nothing to do with them because of their attitude. So they call women like me pick me girls because we actually know how to …
/r/MensRights30/12/23 10:07 PM
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My initial response to this was to say out loud, oh my God! Let me guess, now he's going to have to pay child support? Of course there's going to be those people who say a woman can't rape a man but obviously they can. This is as bad as those people who say that men can't be victims of domestic violence.
/r/MensRights25/12/23 01:14 AM
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That's exactly it. The problem with feminist is that they want to slap the fancy label of equality on their agenda. What it really is is they want men to have no rights and call it equality. It's not equality if both sides don't actually have equal rights. Try telling them that though and they get mad at you. If I had a dollar for every time I was called a pick me girl, I'd have at least $100.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 09:58 PM
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I'm a woman and I want to chime in on this if that's okay. I think it's a complex thing. Personally, I grew up in a household with traditional gender roles. However, I see a relationship as a partnership, it's teamwork. I see so many women who want to be stay at home wives or mothers and complain when they are expected to contribute financially. It seems to me that they just want a man to take care of them and feel like they should get a free ride. They don't want to support a man emotionally or…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 09:53 PM
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Because, don't you know? Only men should go off to war and possibly die. Men are scum and should be treated like a pebble in our shoe. Men are bad and will hurt women so the more we can get rid of, the better. /s I find it so funny that women want to complain that they're oppressed but yet they never think about things like that. I'm sorry but even as a woman I don't see how staying home with the kids and taking care of the house is being oppressed. I've done it and it's actually a pretty easy l…
/r/MensRights21/12/23 12:08 AM
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I'm a woman and I'm sick of it too. Men are doing more around the house and frankly, if men are working more outside the house then the women should do more inside the house. It balances out.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 10:43 PM
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I know that the term gets thrown around way too loosely these days but trust me, he is. He makes himself the victim no matter what.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 03:25 PM
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And oh yeah, I'm definitely at least going to take a break for a year or so. I don't believe in jumping from one relationship to the next. It's not healthy. Even though I checked out of my last relationship long before I actually left, I know that I'm not completely over it and it wouldn't be fair of me to drag somebody else through that with me. Far too many people don't think about that. Thank you though, I'm definitely going to keep that in mind.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 03:25 PM
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Thought about it. I thought to myself, maybe I just need to get back in the church and maybe I'll find a good man there. However, I've heard that they come along when you stop looking. Also, you have to be careful as well there because there can be people who are playing church for lack of a better term. It's definitely crossed my mind though. I'll keep it in mind.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 03:23 PM
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That's basically what made me leave the church. Not so much the religion itself or the people, it's more the leaders. The people who are supposed to be the guidance are lying to people. Keep people afraid and they'll keep sending money. I just don't like how they lie. I wish you the best as well. It's been nice talking to you.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:36 AM
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You know, I think you're on to something. I'm not a Christian anymore but I don't immediately dismiss people who say those things. I also think that you're right, the only reason they got together was because of sex. That's basically the only reason why people seem to get together these days anyway. Well, it seems to be the main reason anyway. I agree with you that we might be about to witness the second coming because things are just getting worse and worse. Like I've been saying, no one values…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:33 AM
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You're absolutely right and that's an interesting way of looking at it. That's the problem, nobody really thinks about relationships anymore. No one wants to put in that hard work. Like I said, the first second something goes wrong in the relationship, they want to jump ship and go on to the next person.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:22 AM
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I'm a woman and I agree. I could not be with someone who has slept around a lot. It's one thing to have a past with different partners because you've been in relationships with them. It's quite another to just indiscriminately sleep with whoever. I'm sorry but I feel like anyone who's okay with doing that has no self-respect. I find that those are usually the people who are the ones getting upset when they find out that people actually care about this when they're looking for a long-term partner…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 02:10 AM
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I'm a woman and it's refreshing to see a comment like this. The problem is that no one has traditional values anymore and no one takes relationships seriously. At least, it's a huge part of the problem. No one sees the point in talking through things when they come up anymore. It's just oh well and on to the next person.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 02:07 AM
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That is true. My ex is a narcissist and after I left him, the mask really came off. It was really kind of bizarre.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 01:43 AM
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I'm a woman and I agree with everything you've said here. I'm not saying all men are like this but in my case I'm saying men because I'm straight. Okay, that being said, I have learned to never compromise my values. They say that sometimes you should bend your own rules to make your partner happy. I disagree with this. If your values do not align, the relationship will not last long anyway. It's better to cut your losses and find someone whose values align with yours. Otherwise, it's going to fe…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 01:41 AM
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I just thought about something else. It's related but it's not exactly the same thing. Why are mothers awarded custody the majority of the time? This happens even when the father can prove that he is better able to care for his children. Be it financially, emotionally or both. I watched a friend of mine go through this. His daughter's mother turned her against him. He paid child support religiously like he was supposed to but it just hurt me to watch him go through that because I could see the p…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 05:17 PM
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Yeah it sucks to watch her go through that but there's nothing she can do. You can't make somebody care and she can't force him to be a father. She's given him every opportunity to be and clearly he doesn't want to so she's backing off. That's what she told me. She said she wouldn't keep his daughter from him if he wanted to be around but at the same time, she's not going to force him to be a father.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 04:36 PM
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I agree. It seems like legal kidnapping to me.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 09:46 PM
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It's messed up. My friend is actually doing this right now but she has given dad plenty of chances. She said that she has asked him for his address so that he can sign the paperwork consenting to it. He refuses to give her his address. When she asked if she could have it sent to his work, he told her no. She asked him several times over text if he consents to the adoption and he said yes. She said that she would never keep his child from him and she meant that but he's proving himself difficult …
/r/MensRights15/12/23 09:46 PM
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I try everyday. I just let him know that I'm thinking about him and that I love him. I send him money from time to time and tell him to not tell her I sent it to him. Sometimes he'll call me and say, do you want to come hang out? I'll pick you up. That way you don't have to worry about calling an uber. Unfortunately I don't have a car right now. I still throw him gas money though. I just pray for the day that he wakes up and realizes he deserves better. Edit: I forgot, it might sound kind of stu…
/r/MensRights15/12/23 04:38 PM
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Thank you but I mean that. I know I'm just going to have to wait for him to be ready. You can't force anybody to do anything. It sucks for me having to watch him go through that but it is what it is right now.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 03:12 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/MensRights15/12/23 03:09 PM
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I think it's a little of that with him and I think it's also the fact that he knows he would have nowhere else to go. I should have thought that comment through a little more. What I meant was I just don't like her. I do not like having to look at her every time I see my brother. I can't stand knowing that he's still with her after what she did to him. Well actually, that's not quite true. I've told him that he can come stay with me but I can't make him do anything. He's got to be ready to leave…
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:36 AM
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I think it's because a lot of people would see it as victim blaming otherwise which is ridiculous. I'm saying all this as a survivor of domestic violence myself. I know what's victim blaming and what isn't. I'm reminded of the saying that says trust but confirm. I'm not calling people liars but I will tell you that when I was in a domestic violence shelter for 4 months, I got pretty good at picking out who was probably actually the aggressor in their relationship. Of course they were in the shel…
/r/MensRights14/12/23 08:42 PM
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Holy shit! That is so scary and I'm so sorry that happened to you. It might sound stupid but I believe you. It happens to men too but unfortunately I know you guys are not believed. I'm really sorry. I think it sucks that the police look at you like you must be the aggressor just because you're a man. That's so unfair.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 08:36 PM
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This unfortunately happens a lot. We have come a long way as far as recognizing men as victims of domestic violence but we still have a long way to go. If you read my comment up above, it says that it happened to my brother. He went to county for 6 months because of his girlfriend.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 08:35 PM
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This unfortunately happened to my brother. But his girlfriend had hit him in all sorts of ways and even hit him in the hip with a baseball bat. He ended up going to county for 6 months because of her lies. They finally started to believe him when they were outside because for some reason he's still with her. The neighbor heard her say, if you leave, I will tell the police you hit me. The neighbor said hey, I just heard what you said and I will be more than happy to tell the police. It sucks and …
/r/MensRights14/12/23 08:33 PM
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Awww thank you ☺️
/r/MensRights26/04/23 06:14 AM
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Sure 😊
/r/MensRights25/04/23 09:46 PM
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I already do all of those things you mentioned. I will never understand for the life of me why people have taught men that they need to hold everything in. Every time he comes to me with something I just listen. I asked him if he needs a hug etc. Usually he just wants me to listen but I do give him physical affection. I don't understand women who aren't like that. I've never understood this idea that men aren't supposed to cry or be vulnerable either. Like you said, they have the same emotional …
/r/MensRights25/04/23 09:35 PM
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Oh I am. I call it out when I see it. I'm actually starting school in the fall to be a social worker with a focus on men's rights and issues.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 06:58 PM
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Please go and read my edits. There's no need to be so hostile and defensive. I'm not against you.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 02:32 AM
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I didn't even read that. I'm not interested in continuing this one-sided conversation where you're trying to convince me that you're right. Good night. Edit: Okay, I read what you said. You're right, people definitely should not perpetuate the idea that all hope is lost. I can't believe that someone suggested that someone delete themselves. Now that is wrong. Still though, there's no need to be so hostile and defensive. I'm not against you, I'm against others bringing other people down. Edit 2: …
/r/MensRights25/04/23 02:27 AM
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I have to be honest and say I find it a little creepy that you're willing to go through someone's profile in order to insist that you're right. What he said doesn't negate the fact that other men replied saying that that has been their experience. Stop trying to invalidate other people's experiences just because you disagree with them. Have a good day or night.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 02:09 AM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights25/04/23 01:16 AM
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I read you loud and clear I like that idea. I've done that while we were parked somewhere but somewhere else different would be good.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 01:00 AM
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Do you think she actually was interested in him and would have actually reacted violently like that or do you think it was her attitude that men exist to serve her? Maybe a bit of both? I know she tried to come between us but I don't know if it's because she was actually interested in him or just wanted him around to do her bidding. Edit: She hates me probably because she saw me as an obstacle to getting what she wanted which was either a relationship or just an errand boy. I wouldn't be surpris…
/r/MensRights24/04/23 11:49 PM
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You know I hate to admit it but that was probably the case. He has said that before he met me, he had a problem with being a people pleaser. I'm trying to help him with that. I'm trying to reassure him that it's okay to say no and that it doesn't make him a bad person. Maybe that's part of why he finally told her to kick rocks. I don't want to give myself credit, I'm just theorizing. You're probably right though. I think it's sad that men are treated like that. The way she is, I wouldn't be surp…
/r/MensRights24/04/23 11:38 PM
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Probably lol. She had a different man every weekend, literally. He said he wasn't interested in her because of her attitude and she's not his type. It made me wonder why he was even friends with her.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 11:11 PM
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The former sounds like her. She hasn't reached the settling down phase although, she has known my husband for 2 years longer than me and thought she was being subtle in trying to steal him. She realized that he's a good man and tried to get him to be with her. Like I said, she thought she was being subtle but I saw right through her. She seems to be bitter now that she realizes this. This is because he married me and she knows that he's no longer available. She seems to hate me for this reason. …
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:58 PM
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It's not a matter of having their mind changed, it's a matter of that's their experience. That's what's happened. It's not an opinion, it's a fact. Only opinions can be changed.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:19 PM
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Hugs 🫂
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:18 PM
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I'm glad that that's been your experience but that doesn't make it okay for you to invalidate the experiences of others. I say this with all due respect. It's not cool though.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:17 PM
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Hey there, you're not subhuman to me. Hugs.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:16 PM
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All of this
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:15 PM
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I've read through some of the posts on that sub and I can't believe these women are actually serious. I thought to myself, they can't really be serious. Please tell me that this stuff is a joke. It was hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that people actually think that way.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:15 PM
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Indeed
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:14 PM
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Gee, I wonder why that is lmao. 🤣
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:14 PM
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OMG you just described this woman that my husband used to be friends with. She claims she was abused and while I hesitate to call somebody who says they were abused a liar, her attitude and behavior suggest that she was actually the aggressor in that relationship. Let's just say I can understand why she's still single. She treats all men like they are just there to do her bidding. She's teaching her adult daughter to be the same way. I've never liked her but I tolerated my husband's friendship w…
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:09 PM
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I don't know even though I'm a woman but I just came here to say, don't even get me started about two X. Good lord.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:05 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/MensRights24/04/23 09:48 PM
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He's definitely not bald or fat. Even if he was, I would still love him. He has long, black hair which is absolutely gorgeous. His hair is prettier than mine lol. We were talking about this the other day and we concluded that it's probably because men don't use as much product in their hair. Anyway, I'm definitely going to give him cuddles. He likes those.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 09:46 PM
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Capital idea! LOL
/r/MensRights24/04/23 09:44 PM
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You're welcome It sounds like you've had some bad experiences
/r/MensRights24/04/23 03:27 AM
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I think he's a mix of quality time and words of kindness. He said he appreciates that I ask him how work was and how I check in with him to make sure he's doing ok. Also how if he isn't ok, how I support him. He likes showing me movies and shows he's into and he lets me show him stuff I like.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 02:29 AM
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Ok then I'll continue with that. Thank you. 😊
/r/MensRights24/04/23 02:26 AM
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OMG that's an amazing idea! Yes, I do know someone who can do it.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 01:39 AM
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Awww thank you 😊 Yeah I don't care what we do, I just like to spend time with him.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 01:38 AM
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That's a great idea! I know he's really into Marvel and the Color of Magic so maybe something to do with that. I can sit and listen to him talk about it for hours because I know it's something he LOVES. He has no idea how happy it makes me to hear him laugh while he recites quotes from the movies. I love how he feels comfortable enough to just nerd out about it. That's one of the things that brought us together. We met on okcupid and when I was reading his profile, it said "I recite stuff from m…
/r/MensRights24/04/23 12:48 AM
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Awww thank you 😊
/r/MensRights24/04/23 12:18 AM
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I try to show him how much I appreciate him every day but sometimes I feel like it's not enough. He gets pulled in so many different directions at once. He does so much for so many people. He told me last night that he feels like a tool for everyone else to use. I let him know that I appreciate him and see the things that he does for others. Sometimes I forget to tell him with daily life going on and I wanted to do something special. He's got such a good heart and it hurts me to see the people h…
/r/MensRights24/04/23 12:05 AM
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Thank you for the ideas. He's also a musician so I think a backrub and something to do with his guitars.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 11:39 PM
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I'm not sure but that seems to be the way unfortunately. I think it goes back to how women are treated better in general.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 11:31 PM
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Okay first thing I want to say is I'm sorry that you're going through this. If you're in the us, call this number. 1-800-799 SAFE. They should be able to direct you to a lawyer. It might be legal aid if you cannot afford an attorney on your own. You're also a victim of domestic violence. Her isolating you from your family is abuse. She's also been financially abusive. I'm so sorry to hear that you were arrested and I hope that you can get this figured out. Actually I would call the legal aid off…
/r/MensRights10/04/23 10:09 PM
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It's everywhere. Most of these women are the ones who buy into that new wave feminism shit. They think that they're allowed to treat men like shit because it's what they should have always been doing. No, women shouldn't have been treated the way they were before the women's rights movement of the 1970s. That being said, it's not okay to treat men the way they treat them. They do that and then they have this bad attitude and then they wonder why these men want nothing to do with them. Then of co…
/r/MensRights10/04/23 09:41 PM
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I'm a woman but I'm just in case any men that I know need help with this. I'm doing this also in case my husband ends up on there. He's got this crazy ex who accused him of raping her just because he dumped her and then wanted nothing to do with her after that. Also, I wanted to reach out and say if you guys need someone to talk to, my inbox is open. I'll listen to you and be empathetic. Talk as long as you need. I'm here for you. Hugs. I'm really sorry that all you guys are going through this. …
/r/MensRights10/04/23 09:17 PM
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LMAO classic 🤣
/r/MensRights26/03/23 09:08 PM
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Ok thank you. If he doesn't listen then I may need to take a break and step back and think. It's been such an internal struggle because I don't want to control him but I also don't want to sit back and be disrespected.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 08:54 PM
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Ok thank you, I'll talk to him again. I don't know how much good it will do because he has said he doesn't think she's moving in on him. We've talked about it before and he finally acknowledged that he can see why it looks that way but it's just a difference of our backgrounds. He has reassured me that he's not interested in her so I do feel better. Maybe this is just one of those things I'm going to have to take his word for. I can't control her behavior but I can control how I react to it. He'…
/r/MensRights26/03/23 08:39 PM
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Everything you said is completely fine and yes, I agree that it's normal to route the requests through the wife. However, she's not doing that. She's just going directly to him. Even when we were there, she would go right up to him and be like can you do this, can you do that? She wouldn't even look at me. This is why I thought she was moving in on him and even if she is, he has assured me now that nothing is going to come of it. He was like, she can try all she wants, I'm not interested in her.…
/r/MensRights26/03/23 05:50 PM
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I have no idea why they divorced, I just know that her son spends about 4 - 5 nights a week at his dad's place. Edit: I think I'm starting to see why they divorced though. If she treated him the same way, I'm not surprised. She claims that he abused her but honestly the way that she acts, who knows. I'm starting to think she was the aggressor.
/r/MensRights25/03/23 05:31 PM
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Thank you. Could you maybe give me advice on how to steer him in that direction? I don't want to come out and say that he should block her because it's not my business to tell him whether or not he should. It's not on me to do that nor would I. I just want to do what I've been doing which is try to gently guide him in the right direction but I don't want to outright tell him what to do. What would you say in that situation? At first I was threatened by her because I thought she was trying to mov…
/r/MensRights25/03/23 04:13 PM
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That last part sounds exactly like how she must be rationalizing it. I get that being a single mother is hard but there's no excuse for the way she's treating him. You're right, there is a lot of entitlement there.
/r/MensRights25/03/23 04:11 PM
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She and her son's father are divorced but her son stays at his dad's place several times a week
/r/MensRights25/03/23 04:07 PM
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Yeah, at first I understood but then it became excessive. I feel like she's trying to get him to act like her son's father. It's such bullshit. The thing is that his dad is very present in his life so I don't get it other than she's interested in him. She's mad that he married me and is trying to cause issues in our marriage. He may not see that part but I do. It doesn't really matter though because we've talked and I know he's not interested in her. He's invested in me and our marriage. It's cu…
/r/MensRights25/03/23 04:03 PM
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Sure but it's every fucking day with her Edit: I don't disagree that it seems reasonable but it was every day while we were there. Take her kid to school, the babysitter, take him his homework that he forgot because she rushed him out the door, take her daughter clothes that she forgot on the way to work because she's going out of town this weekend, mow the lawn, take out her trash, on and on. I find it disrespectful to me mostly because she's never bothered to get to know me. She was at our wed…
/r/MensRights25/03/23 03:27 PM
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Oh no, I'm not actually going to say that. When I was younger I probably would have. The motivation is that my husband works long hours at a demanding job and she clearly doesn't care. She also doesn't seem to care whether or not she's imposing on him. He said that she never asks whether he has time or gas or if he's busy ATM. It's like she expects him to drop what he's doing for her. No, I wouldn't call it a turf war. I don't own him, I just think it's disrespectful to not only him but me. I'm …
/r/MensRights25/03/23 06:13 AM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights25/03/23 02:16 AM
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Yeah it is. Her time management is terrible so she asks him to do all that but now it's just become ridiculous. I had a long talk with him about it and I tried to be nice because he's a people pleaser and I'm helping him with that. I told him that it was crossing the line and if it continued and he continued to enable it, I would have no choice but to leave. I also got him to see that she was using him. He's stopped but she still continues to call and text. Edit: I honestly think that she's tryi…
/r/MensRights25/03/23 02:14 AM
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Let's see, mowing the lawn, babysitting her son, moving furniture, taking her son to school, taking him his homework when he forgets it, taking her daughter stuff etc. Yes, it is starting to cross the line into disrespectful. It's like she thinks he's still single or is trying to pretend like nothing changed. I think she may be mad because he married me.
/r/MensRights25/03/23 01:51 AM
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Been scrolling for a bit and can't find it. I do know it was posted yesterday though.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 09:46 PM
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I'm wondering the same thing. How is this group allowed to operate? I can bet you money that if it was happening to women, they would have shut it down immediately. It's disgusting.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 08:47 PM
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I'm not meaning to dox anybody so forgive me but I'm just wondering if your friend might be that guy from the relationship advice post I saw yesterday. This guy posted saying that this girl that he was dating posted his picture in that group. I think it's disgusting that that's happening to you guys. I swear, what was supposed to be a positive thing with feminism turned out to be this toxic cesspit of bitter and angry women.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 08:46 PM
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Why does this not surprise me?
/r/MensRights13/01/23 03:14 AM
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I'm not saying I agree with it, I'm just saying it happens.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 09:04 PM
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I agree with you that you shouldn't put forth effort if you're not getting any effort. Same thing with not putting forth more than you're getting. I'm the same way, I expect reciprocity. However, women have been taught that we're not supposed to chase men, that it's the other way around. I think it's stupid but it could explain the behavior. It's mostly "relationship coaches" that teach this but society does as well. I don't like the stuff that relationship coaches teach. It seems to be manipula…
/r/MensRights15/12/22 05:38 PM
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Unfortunately you're not wrong
/r/MensRights14/12/22 11:57 PM
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I've been commenting but I also wanted to add that you should know that you don't want to tell him to leave. There are many reasons why domestic violence victims don't just leave. Trust me, he's been being told what to do for a long time. Just keep telling him that you're there for him and that you support him and his child. Offer to store his bags and documentation at your house.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 11:56 PM
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That would seem to be the case but with all due respect, please do not insinuate that he has to stay in an abusive relationship. I understand that it's harder for men but that does not mean that he has to stay and put up with the abuse. It's not good for the child either.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 11:54 PM
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I'm sorry, I don't mean to piggyback on your comment but I wanted to offer a little more information. Yes, he should pack a bag for him and his child. Ideally you want two weeks worth of clothing but it's not required. He's also going to need any important documentation for him and his child. This is including but not limited to social security cards, birth certificates, a copy of his lease, a copy of a restraining order if he gets one. Also a spare set of keys to the place. In the event that he…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 11:52 PM
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Yay!
/r/MensRights14/12/22 11:49 PM
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I know you weren't talking to me but I can maybe help you with this. It may be enough to get a restraining order but I can't tell you the specifics in your state if you're in the us. I would advise you to tell him to keep all text messages, emails and voicemails from her. That will help a lot. It helped me to get a restraining order against my ex. I can tell you also that yes, CPS will become involved. They always do when domestic violence happens. This doesn't mean that they're saying that this…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 11:49 PM
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Thank you for sharing this. You just helped me a lot. I'm going to be starting an abuse support sub for male victims of domestic violence. I'm also going to focus on how unfairly men are treated in the family court system. I've studied domestic violence extensively since getting out of an abusive relationship two and a half years ago. I just think it's really sad that we still have a long way to go as far as recognizing that men can be victims as well. I'm glad that things worked out for your fr…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 11:45 PM
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I have studied domestic violence extensively because I'm a survivor myself. I'm a woman but I can help you with resources to help him. I can help you to help him to plan to leave safely. I understand that having a child with her complicates things more but I can still help you some. If you want to DM me, feel free to do so. The only thing I can tell you is that if you're in the states, he needs to check state laws about recording. In some states, they have what's called the two party consent. Th…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 11:42 PM
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Yes. It would eliminate the problem of men paying for children who aren't theirs.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 06:18 AM
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It's not far fetched. It's a reality.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 04:47 PM
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Because men can be victims of abuse just as much as women. It's time society recognizes this. Why do you hate men so much? What did they ever do to you? Just because there's a few bad ones doesn't mean they all are. Women shouldn't get away with stuff just because they're women.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 04:46 PM
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Why do you trolls get on here and harass us? Don't you have anything better to do with your time?
/r/MensRights11/12/22 04:41 PM
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I'm a woman and a survivor of domestic violence. I'm aware that most victims are women. However, your argument holds no water. You're saying that this is completely wrong.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 04:40 PM
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Thank you, friend. Hugs. 🫂
/r/MensRights11/12/22 12:13 AM
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Have a good weekend 😊
/r/MensRights10/12/22 02:12 PM
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That's terrible. If you're going to claim to be supportive like that, you better be. My husband is strong where I need him to be for me and he's also sensitive and I love that about him. I always say I love how sometimes he's like a grown man and sometimes still like a little boy. I'm not saying that I expect him to do all of the stupid gender role stuff, I'm just saying that he's always been there for me when I needed him. He's always stepped up and protected me if need be and I appreciate that…
/r/MensRights10/12/22 02:04 PM
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Oh okay then. Sorry, I misunderstood.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 02:02 PM
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I thought about doing that. I've thought about making up two different alternate accounts and posting something similar from a male and a female perspective and seeing what sort of results I get. I'm just interested in doing men's studies and I thought that would be an interesting way to gather some research. I think we both know how that's going to go.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 01:26 PM
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Sure
/r/MensRights10/12/22 01:01 PM
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MGTOW I suppose. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 12:59 PM
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Awwww thank you ☺️
/r/MensRights10/12/22 12:51 PM
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I'm just saying that I think it's wrong the way that if a woman shouts at a man, it's that she's having deeper emotional issues. Probably disconnected from the relationship and what have you. However, if a man does it suddenly he's abusive. I'm just pointing out the discrepancy. I agree with you.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 12:51 PM
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Pretty much SMH
/r/MensRights10/12/22 03:37 AM
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They weren't my screenshots. They were taken from somewhere else.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 10:23 PM
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I'm sorry but this makes no sense. All you did was screenshot the title of a post. You didn't show any comments of yours at all.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 03:05 AM
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I know, it happened to me too. Absolutely no mention of it in my recap. In fact, they falsely said that I came back to a post in relationship advice a lot. Anything to censor us.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 03:02 AM
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I'd love to know where this woman is getting her information from
/r/MensRights09/12/22 03:01 AM
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Omg, I'm so sorry to read that. I was telling my husband just this afternoon that I would like to go into men's studies. You know how they have women's studies? Well, I want to be an advocate for men who are obviously left behind. We spend so much time arguing about how women are victims and they are but men fall through the cracks because they are not seen as victims. We've made some steps in the right direction but largely, men are still viewed as being unable to be victims of abuse. They're t…
/r/MensRights09/12/22 02:39 AM
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It's what they do, they shame anyone who doesn't jump on their bandwagon. If I had a dollar for every time I've been called a pick me girl, I would be rich right now. I don't care what they think though because I'm happily married because I know how to be nice. In reality, they're just mad at women like me because we have what they want. The ironic part is that they don't see that it's their behavior that's keeping away these very men that they claim to be the enemy.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 02:35 AM
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Nope but I am going to go ahead and block you since you have nothing better to do but argue with strangers. I don't have time for your drama. Grow up.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 11:56 PM
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I agree. Although I do think a lot of the rules that the royal family have in place are archaic and outdated, the fact is that she chose to marry into that family. She knew what was coming. I thought that it was extremely disrespectful to the Queen for her to come in and think that she was going to try to change everything. Then she of course in true feminist fashion painted herself as the victim when they understandably disliked her for doing so. Of course she wanted to play the race card but i…
/r/MensRights05/12/22 11:20 PM
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Society does hate men no matter the outcome if they are accused of rape or abuse. Even if a woman recants her story, he is still labeled as such.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 09:14 PM
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Would I be correct in guessing that you're a bitter single mother? If so, then I guess I was speaking to you. You picked a bad partner and expected him to miraculously be a good father. That's your fuck up. You have no business being mad at men in general because your ex was a shitty partner and father. I mean sure, you can be mad at him for what he put you through but at the end of the day, you knew how he was and you chose to put up with it. You can't get mad at a tiger for not changing his st…
/r/MensRights05/12/22 09:11 PM
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Also I wasn't speaking directly to you. I was saying women in general who are mad at their children's father for not being around when they knew that they were not a good partner. You can't expect a shitty partner to be a good parent. They made bad life choices and now they're mad that they have to deal with the consequences of them. Like I said, I wasn't even speaking to you but go off. You attacked me unfairly.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 09:07 PM
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I never said it's a poor life choice. Why so defensive? It seems like deep down, you're unhappy being single and projecting your unhappiness with your life into me. I never said I was incomplete without a man. For 2 1/2 years I was single by choice because I had gotten out of an abusive relationship. I got back into the dating game when I felt ready and happened to meet my husband who I love very much. I don't need him to feel complete though. Anyone who thinks that they need a partner to feel c…
/r/MensRights05/12/22 09:06 PM
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Ok true. Can't argue with you there.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 11:36 AM
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Jesus Christ, I'm sorry. She didn't deserve you.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 07:13 PM
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I agree. I'm just saying that men typically have the more dangerous jobs.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:04 PM
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If these are the threads I'm thinking about, I've read those posts and I swear, it reads like satire. It's hard to believe that they're actually being serious. I read some of the posts to my husband and we couldn't believe that they were actually real. It's insane.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 02:41 AM
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Even as a woman I hate to say it but I agree with you on this
/r/MensRights02/12/22 02:37 AM
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I find that ironic seeing as how men work much more dangerous jobs and are more likely to die early because of the risks. Well the risks of the job itself and because of the stress that it brings. I believe that men should be qualified to retire earlier than women. Edit: a few words
/r/MensRights02/12/22 02:32 AM
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I agree that women should not use men for their money and vice versa. This does not mean that a man is owed sex. Of course we're aware that that's the reason they spend money on us, at least initially but still, they're not owed sex. I will say I agree that the women are well aware of why this is happening and they shouldn't do it but unfortunately that's the world we live in.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 02:28 AM
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I like this. Smart.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 02:25 AM
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, I've been in three serious relationships now and did not see the need to get married. My now husband was the one who wanted that. Of course I did too but I didn't push him for it. In fact, he surprised me with our wedding. I mean I knew it was coming but when it actually happened it was a surprise. Anyway, no, no one is owed anything really. I will say that I think that you should make your intentions known when you meet so that way if they don't line up with what the other person wants, you w…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 02:25 AM
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She's a monster and I hope she dies alone. I can almost guarantee you she will because any man who has any self-respect will stay far away from her. I hope that he can use this in his case as far as trying to see his child. Unfortunately men are not really seen as victims so I hope that they won't take it as he's mentally unstable. This is what happens when you abuse someone for so long and they finally snap. I wish I could hug him. That was hard to watch.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:42 AM
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Those are all great examples. It's sad that men are still not really viewed as victims of domestic violence but thankfully we're making steps in the right direction. I would say ignore people like him and you should but at the same time, it's the sad reality that we live in. Even if a woman is blatantly abusing a man as we see here, she is still called the victim. Nobody wants to hold women accountable as you said.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:22 AM
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Jesus, the hypocrisy is real.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 12:24 AM
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Indeed
/r/MensRights30/11/22 03:52 PM
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Lmao sad but true
/r/MensRights30/11/22 06:38 AM
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Oh yes, I think I recall that now.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 04:59 AM
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I love that strategy. It's effective without letting them know what you're doing. Mr. Burns excellent
/r/MensRights30/11/22 04:12 AM
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Thank you 😊
/r/MensRights30/11/22 04:09 AM
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Same, I've always been very traditional. Just the other day, I got accused of being a trad wife because I enjoy taking care of my home and my husband. We are a traditional couple and we're okay with that. We were both raised with traditional values and it works for us. That got turned into he must be controlling me. It's insane. Edit: typo
/r/MensRights30/11/22 03:03 AM
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Yep, they can usually be found in witches versus patriarchy
/r/MensRights30/11/22 03:00 AM
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You're right, they are that way. If you disagree with us, you're evil. This is especially true if you're a fellow woman. I can't tell you the number of times that I've been accused of being a pick me girl or been accused of hating my own gender. I don't care about that though. One thing I've learned is that you can hear someone else's point of view without absorbing it. They seem incapable of that.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 02:59 AM
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This is the only way
/r/MensRights30/11/22 02:56 AM
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Yeah but they don't seem to realize that they're the problem. They don't understand for some reason that they are the reason why these men don't want to marry them. Then you have women like me and they call us pick me girls and accuse us of hating our own gender. The irony and their lack of understanding astounds me.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 02:54 AM
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Hell nah 🤣😜
/r/MensRights30/11/22 02:53 AM
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He's talking about when a divorce happens, a woman usually takes a man to the cleaners. The divorce laws are biased against men. Nine times out of 10 it's the men who are forced to pay alimony and child support. You can try to argue all you want but it's the truth. I know a man who got divorced after 28 years because his wife announced that she was having an affair and left him. He was still forced to pay her alimony and he gave her $30,000 to start over on top of that. She spent all of it in a …
/r/MensRights30/11/22 02:47 AM
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All of this. They parade their agenda around as equal rights but it's not. Equal rights means the same rights for everyone, not rights for anyone who agrees with us feminists and no rights for men. You try saying that and that you're labeled as either misogynistic or a pick me girl or accused of hating your own gender.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 02:39 AM
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I know you weren't speaking to me but I vaguely remember this. Do you have a link? I'm just curious to see what that was about.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 02:38 AM
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I'm sorry you're hurting but trust me, Hun. You dodged a bullet. She's right, you view the world too differently. You're able to think for yourself and respect someone else's POV without absorbing it. On the other hand, she's so brainwashed by feminism that she attacked you for politely stating a different opinion. She's definitely not ready for a relationship. She has a lot of growing up to do. She may never but it's not your job to help her do it or to wait around while she does. Hugs. Edit: w…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 02:33 AM
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I agree. I knew a man who was married for 28 years. His wife left him after announcing that she was having an affair. He gave her $30,000 in addition to the alimony that he was ordered to pay her. She spent that $30,000 in a month on a shopping spree on stuff she didn't need. He finally had her agree to stop the alimony payments but it really pissed me off watching him have to pay her after what she did to him. She lived in the lap of luxury while he was suffering emotionally and not doing as we…
/r/MensRights29/11/22 09:15 PM
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You're the one who made bad life choices. You picked a shitty father for your kids so now you're mad and surprised that their father is not around.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 09:14 PM
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Yep, the state controls everything and that is the state of things, I'm afraid. They don't care whether or not someone can survive, they just want the money. I feel like this is unethical and it should even be illegal. He never even knew about this kid so how can they make him pay? It's just unethical like I said. Edit: punctuation
/r/MensRights29/11/22 09:12 PM
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That's just crazy
/r/MensRights27/11/22 05:46 PM
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All of this. I've always said that if you expect a man to treat you like a queen, you better treat him like a king.
/r/AntiFeminists26/11/22 11:05 PM
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I'm on your side. I think feminism the way it is now is the worst thing to happen to this world.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 08:28 AM
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Thank you! This is exactly the POV needed to shut down assanine arguments like that other person's. Edit: spelling
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:40 PM
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You can do a search in the search bar. It should come up.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:37 PM
1

Would you say that to a woman who wanted an abortion but couldn't get one? Either because she was being threatened or pressed into keeping the child or because abortion is illegal in her state?
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:36 PM
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I can bet you that she's going to live to regret that decision when she realizes how hard being a single mother is. Also when she realizes that she's severely limited her chance at ever finding someone who wants to be with her. It may sound judgmental but it's the truth. The majority of people don't want to play parent to someone else's kids. They don't want the drama that usually comes with that either.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:31 PM
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I hate to say this but I don't blame him. If women can opt out of parenthood by abortion then men should be able to do the same thing. Of course financially and physically. I bet she thought she would be able to force him to stay in her life if she has his kid. Watch her try to get him for child support when she realizes she won't be able to convince him to stay together after the birth. That's how that would have gone, I'm pretty much 100% sure. If she had wanted an abortion and he didn't want …
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:23 PM
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Same with female dating strategy. It's unbelievable that they're actually serious there. I went there the other day just to show my husband how ridiculous it is. I didn't comment on anything, I just read some of the posts to him because he's not on Reddit. We agreed that it reads like satire and that we couldn't believe that those women were actually serious. It's sad but true.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:24 AM
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Thank you ☺️
/r/AntiFeminists24/11/22 03:14 AM
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Exactly. They're trying to drag good women down to their level. It's not going to work on me though. I was taught to have morals and to carry myself well. If that makes me weird, then I guess I'm weird. I'm the exception and so are a lot of other women. It's just sad that we're the exception.
/r/AntiFeminists24/11/22 03:11 AM
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Agree 100%. Also, if they sleep with trashy women like that, they wouldn't have to worry about getting their balls chewed off. They would probably fall off from all the STDs.
/r/AntiFeminists24/11/22 01:11 AM
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Exactly. They call women like me pick me girls because they're mad that we have what they want. They think that all men are the enemy because a few have rejected them. They don't see the irony that it's their own bad attitude that is driving these men away. It doesn't surprise me though because that's how they are, never take the blame for anything they do including their own actions. Let's just call everybody else the problem.
/r/AntiFeminists24/11/22 01:10 AM
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This is a big part of the reason I can't stand rap to begin with. It shouldn't even be considered a genre of music. All it ever does is talk about how many women they've slept with, how they stole someone else's woman, how many cars they have, how much gold they have and how many people they've killed. If you've heard one song, you've heard them all. Also, nobody gives a fuck.
/r/AntiFeminists24/11/22 01:08 AM
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I'm not even a man and I feel the same way. A hoe is a hoe. They want to get mad at women like me because I have standards and I'm actually someone that my husband wanted a relationship with. I didn't go spreading them for everybody and I don't go out there showing everything to everybody. So now they're mad because they're going to be alone for God knows how long. They're mad at me because I have what they want, end of story.
/r/AntiFeminists24/11/22 01:05 AM
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I could have written this myself. I'm so tired of being called a pick me girl just because I have standards and self-respect. It's not my fault that they'll be single because they can't seem to keep their clothes on. It's not my fault that my husband married me because he said that he wait that I wasn't out there parading everything around for every man to see. They want to blame me because now that they're used up, nobody wants them. Okay, they can feel however they want to, go off.
/r/AntiFeminists24/11/22 01:04 AM
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Awwww thank you 😊
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/22 01:11 PM
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Exactly. Good women don't go showing their bits to everyone. It's exactly part of the reason why my husband married me. He said that he liked that I wasn't out there parading around for every man to see. A good wife doesn't do that. Edit: typo
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/22 03:10 AM
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I apologize for posting this. I thought it was a good thing but now I see that she's a wolf in sheep's clothing.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 09:09 PM
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Oh then I apologize. It's been a few hours since I watched it and I forgot what she said.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 09:46 PM
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Then why are you in this sub except to troll? There are plenty of other subs where you'll find the echo chamber that you want but this isn't one of them. Why don't you try those?
/r/MensRights21/11/22 09:34 PM
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Sad but true it would seem
/r/MensRights21/11/22 07:17 PM
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I got banned from there my first day on Reddit. You're right, they assume that you hate women.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 02:27 PM
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Wow, that's crazy. I really mean that. I'm sorry. Some women look for reasons to hate men. I've unfortunately met a few who hated men simply for being men. It's like they do it because they've been told to. They're incapable of thinking for themselves. The brainwashing is real.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 02:23 PM
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Found the angry feminist
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:33 AM
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Maybe I'm a little biased because I'm actually a survivor of domestic violence and SA. The difference between me and Amber Heard and Evan Rachel Wood is that I actually had proof when I came forward. Of course if it's proven that these things actually happen to them, I would fully support them. I'm just saying she had no proof and Manson's life has been ruined because of her allegations. I get that it's not that cut and dry but as I said, I had proof of what I was saying so maybe that's why I'm …
/r/MensRights20/11/22 01:17 PM
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Thank you. I honestly thought it was just about women supporting each other and talking about bad men. I didn't think it was a hate all men sub. I left when I realized that that's exactly what it was.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 05:52 AM
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Then why are you in this sub unless it's to be a troll?
/r/MensRights11/11/22 12:50 AM
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I don't know but I used to be in that sub and left when I realized it was a witch hunt (no pun intended) against men. I thought it was a sub devoted to women supporting each other but quickly realized that it was a bunch of feminists tearing down all men in general. I'm embarrassed that I was ever in it.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 12:49 AM
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I would say LOL but I don't know what to say to that. I understand that you're being satirical but it's quite sad that that's the way things are.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 02:16 AM
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Yeah, that's fucked. A man is showing his emotions and two women don't care. He's opening up about how he feels like something that was supposed to be for him was taken from him and all they care about is themselves. Women are always saying they want men to open up and then when they finally do, they treat them like they're weak.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 01:22 AM
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You call your area legal aid If you want to send me the area you're in I'd be happy to help you find resources
/r/MensRights09/10/22 01:19 PM
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Classic 🖤🤣
/r/MensRights04/10/22 05:05 PM
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As a woman, I've gotten asked by other women why I'm in the sub supporting you guys.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 08:13 PM
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That and I'm sorry but you'd have to have no self respect to put yourself out there like that. Maybe I'm biased because of my personal beliefs but if I do that, it's going to be only for my boyfriend or husband. I believe a woman is supposed to be a lady in public and a freak only behind closed doors.
/r/MensRights25/09/22 10:42 PM
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This is how the mainstream media normalizes the sexual abuse of men. I know and it's sickening. You're right, if it was the other way around, they'd be calling for a witch hunt. Why is it somehow okay just because it's happening to a man? I don't understand why other people can't think the way I do. Men are people just like women and deserve the same rights and the same respect in the same dignity. Just because the genitals are different doesn't mean that they deserve any less. I guess some peop…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 09:39 PM
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If your hair looks like your avatar in real life, your hair is prettier than mine lol. I mean that as a compliment. I'm jealous lol.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 12:10 AM
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Yep and unfortunately this happens a lot in real life. I always say number one you shouldn't falsely accuse someone of rape because it's wrong but number two because it ruins people's lives. Even after they're found innocent, they're still labeled a rapist.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 11:33 PM
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Exactly. Just like I understand that just because I've encountered a few bad men, it doesn't mean that they are all the same. Some people clearly cannot think objectively enough to see this.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 08:54 PM
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I've been in here awhile and I can promise you guys that I am actually here to be an ally. Just last night, I blocked this woman who must have gone through my profile. She asked me why I was in here and why I was bashing feminist. I didn't even dignify that with a response. I'm sorry that this is happening to you.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 08:53 PM
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Even as a woman, I have to ask it, how do you accidentally whore yourself out? How do men accidentally send her money?
/r/MensRights15/09/22 11:02 PM
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I know it's a serious subject matter but this reminded me of that scene in Monty Python in the Holy Grail where the other knights tried to come get sir Camelot out of the castle Anthrax. They said, come with us, you are in grave peril. He said, can't I go back and just have a little bit of peril? It was a castle full of women. Edit: typos
/r/MensRights15/09/22 11:00 PM
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Sadly, this doesn't surprise me.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 10:59 PM
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Are you me? I could say the same thing except her name is Patty. I've disliked her since the day I met her. She's loud and nosy and opinionated and thrives on drama.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 02:32 PM
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Yep, she's coaching him. This is parental alienation and the courts don't look too kindly on it. I would get a lawyer and fight for more visitation time. Kids are resilient. It sucks but he will bounce back from this if he spends more time with you. It seems to me that she's putting things in his head to make him afraid of you. If you cannot afford a lawyer, legal aid represents people for free. Edit: I miss the part where you said that when you were with her in a relationship and paying for her…
/r/MensRights13/09/22 02:00 PM
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Again, you're completely fine. I actually like that you're being a realist. There's a such thing as toxic positivity which means that some people are so focused on being positive that they fail to acknowledge that there are some unpleasant parts of life. I'm actually enjoying our conversation, it's nice to kind of meet someone else who gets it for lack of a better term. I'm going through exactly what you describe, I don't like the bar scene and I'm a bit of a hermit. I am put off by most dating …
/r/MensRights12/09/22 11:41 PM
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Oh no, you didn't come across as pessimistic or bitter. You just sound like you're being realistic. That's how I am. I think it's sad that people can't tell the truth without being labeled as negative. Unfortunately, that is the way it goes. There is this double standard for women that they should be able to be promiscuous and then be able to settle down later on. I know that there are good men out there like you are and that's what I'm looking for as I said. It's just sad that it seems to be so…
/r/MensRights12/09/22 10:41 PM
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I get what you're saying and that's actually what I'm looking for. I'm used to guys who lose interest after a couple of months for whatever reason. For a while, I was scared even put myself back out there. I haven't lost hope that there is somebody out there for me though.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 10:13 PM
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First of all you're wrong and secondly look what sub you're in. There are plenty of subs for women's issues. This is not one of them. You can't come in here and be mad because it's not about women's issues.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 09:54 PM
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His mother doesn't know how to let go and she kept threatening me and I was tired of dealing with it. She thinks that no other woman besides her is good enough for him and I'm just tired of dealing with her antics.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 09:42 PM
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It's true that people do that a lot but I think that there are other good people out there. You just have to be really careful and vet people very carefully. Pay attention to any red flags and don't ignore them.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 05:51 PM
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Well that is your right. For me, the therapy helped guide me in setting healthy boundaries with people and not letting people walk all over me. I think that for me, I've gotten older and I just turned a corner this year. I turned 39 in May and it's like a switch flipped in my brain or something. I know longer care what people think about me and I'm only going to invest in relationships with people who are on the same page as me so to speak. I know what a healthy adult relationship looks like as …
/r/MensRights12/09/22 05:43 PM
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I actually agree with you. Far too many women go for these types and then complain that no one wants to seem to settle down. Well, if you keep getting with people who think the way those people do and who see no problem jumping from person to person, you're never going to find someone who actually wants to settle down. It's like they want the douchebag but they also want him to commit. You can't have it both ways.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 05:41 PM
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I never said it was. Sometimes it means that you have to do the work of changing whatever it is about you that makes you attract the wrong kind of people. I've done that work. I do agree with you though, sometimes you have to realize that you are playing a role in what's happening and step back and take a look at your life. It took me 2 years of therapy to undo a lot of the stuff that I had learned. I have learned what a healthy adult relationship looks like and I am only going to accept that fr…
/r/MensRights12/09/22 05:35 PM
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Thank you for clarifying that. I understood what you were saying though.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 05:34 PM
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Exactly. However, at one point, he was working so I was happy to do it. I just felt that it wasn't right to sit at home spending his money and not doing anything for him. We were a team. Edit: I apologize, I thought I was responding to a different thread but yeah, that is how I feel about those stay-at-home moms who bitch about it being really hard. It's really not even with a young child. With a 2-year-old, I manage to keep my house clean and my laundry done and have dinner on the table. It's r…
/r/MensRights12/09/22 05:30 PM
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I get what you're saying and I agree with everything you said. That being said, I understand that you don't want to try to work on yourself to be the kind of person that your partner would want to stay with. That is very important. I've just gotten to the point where I'm working on who I am as a person and that's who I'm presenting to the world and anyone who doesn't like that doesn't have to be with me. I fully agree with everything you said though. It sounds like you have a healthy outlook on …
/r/MensRights12/09/22 03:57 PM
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I know, perhaps I should have worded that better. What I meant is I'm talking about the kind of men that were described there. The ones who are douchebags and assholes and take that as they're trying to be leader, alpha male types. My point is you can be an alpha male without being a dickhead. I'm not grouping all men into this category, I'm just saying that unfortunately there are a lot out there and unfortunately there are women who are shallow and only want a man for what he can provide for h…
/r/MensRights12/09/22 03:45 PM
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In my experience, a man who pulls away like that just makes me want him more. It depends on the situation though, if we're talking and he's just kind of pulling back because we're getting to know each other, that's different. It's kind of hard to explain. Now if feels like I'm putting all the effort into the relationship then I'm going to go ahead and take that for the hint it is and move on.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 03:42 PM
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This
/r/MensRights12/09/22 03:39 PM
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What you described as exactly the kind of man I'm looking for. I need him to lead me and guide me and put his foot down when needed. Also need him to be gentle and loving. Being a leader and being the rock of the family doesn't mean being an asshole. So many men seem to get this confused.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 03:39 PM
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Hello, I'm right here! In all seriousness, I know what you're saying. I find a lot of women do this and I don't understand it. There are still good women out there looking for men like you. It's taking me a while to find one but I'm pretty sure I will. I haven't given up hope yet. Edit: I'm sorry to see that your mom was abused when you were growing up but I want to say I'm so glad that you didn't absorb your dad's way of doing things. It's nice to see a man who says that will cherish his partne…
/r/MensRights12/09/22 03:27 PM
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Awww you're welcome
/r/MensRights12/09/22 02:34 PM
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I find that women like that tend to be gold digging Jewish American princesses
/r/MensRights12/09/22 05:14 AM
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This. I have a two-year-old son and I manage to keep my house clean and do the laundry and cook. It's really not that hard. My ex's sister acted like a fucking martyr all the time. She would come over to his mother's house to supposedly help her out even though she had it handled. She would walk around the house acting like an an indentured servant. Finally one day I looked at her and I said, I don't know what your problem is. I don't know why you act like such a martyr all the time. I've had th…
/r/MensRights12/09/22 05:13 AM
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Even as a woman I'm going to tell you not to waste any more time with her. You deserve better than that. Relationships are supposed to add to your life, not suck the life out of you.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 05:09 AM
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Just basically couldn't take any kind of criticism and expected us to forgive her for the abuse that she inflicted on us when we were kids. She would constantly say things like but you have to forgive me. I was thinking excuse me, what? No, I don't have to do anything. That's terrible about your sister's bio mom. Some people don't deserve to be parents.
/r/MensRights11/09/22 05:28 PM
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She started to get mad but I just blocked her before she could say anything else
/r/MensRights11/09/22 05:19 PM
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Same. I just dgaf anymore.
/r/MensRights11/09/22 03:29 PM
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It is making a hobo out of him
/r/MensRights11/09/22 02:47 PM
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Exactly. You don't even have the ability to understand the consequences of stuff until you're 25. You're prefrontal cortex is not fully developed until that age.
/r/MensRights11/09/22 02:26 PM
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This or he's probably going to shove her into the most poorly-run state facility that there is and then just never come see her. That or he won't even bother to do that which I wouldn't blame him. I stopped talking to my mom a couple of years ago because she's like that with me. Long story but I've just gotten to the point where I just don't care anymore. She was always trying to get a hold of me saying how she was having medical problems and I finally told her look, I don't care. You should hav…
/r/MensRights11/09/22 02:24 PM
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I saw that and I was disgusted by it. That really came off like she was saying she wished she hadn't have had him and she was done taking care of him. I would say more but I would get banned from reddit.
/r/MensRights11/09/22 02:23 PM
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BuT MeN ArE BaD anD HuRT WomEN. FigHT ThE PaTrIarCHY.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 05:10 PM
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I believe it and I believe the test you're talking about is tuberculosis or TB for short. That's how I remember them testing me for it. Edit: I think they were lying because I think that's a ridiculous thing to take your kids over. Never trust those motherfuckers.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 04:58 AM
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Nope, you're wrong. If it's found that she lied about not knowing who the father is and the father wants to raise his child, he is entitled to the opportunity to do that. It's not solely up to the mother. Also, I feel like mothers who do this should be charged with a crime. They should technically be charged with kidnapping and interfering with custody. This is because she did not give the father a chance to raise his child. She blatantly lied in order to keep his child from him. She should be i…
/r/MensRights09/09/22 04:31 AM
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That's such bullshit. I'm a single mother because I fled domestic violence. So is your logic that it's better for people to stay in bad situations so that way they won't be single parents? Are you saying it would be better for the child to be raised in a chaotic environment as long as they have two parents? GTFO with that.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 04:27 AM
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So what's your point? There are plenty of young people who are single parents and their kids turn out great. Stop assuming that just because he's going to be a young single father that means that he is not equipped to raise his child. You sound like an adoptive parent who thinks that their money makes them better equipped to be a parent. Like why are you even in this thread if this is what you think? Edit: a word
/r/MensRights09/09/22 04:22 AM
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Ignore them, they're clearly a snob who thinks that their money makes them better equipped to be a parent. Anyone who would legally steal someone else's child for their own benefit is not a good person. They want to go around acting like their money makes them better equipped to be parents. It's not about the quality of the things that you provide your child but the lessons that you teach them that make them a good person. Someone who would do what a lot of adoptive parents do, stealing another …
/r/MensRights09/09/22 04:21 AM
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Wow, you have made all kinds of assumptions about a person you don't even know. What makes you think he's not fit to raise a child? Let me guess, you're an upper class snob who thinks that your money makes you better fit to be a parent. Did I get that about right? Let me tell you something, low income doesn't mean that you're not going to be a good parent. Money doesn't make you more fit to be a parent. I've known plenty of rich people who fuck their kids up. There are no better equipped to rais…
/r/MensRights09/09/22 04:19 AM
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Yes because the biological father was duped. The reason he showed up two months later is because he was not told about this child or was not told that it was going to be given up for adoption because the mother lied about not knowing who the father is. Biological parents' rights trump everybody else's. Yes, that's exactly what they should do, they should hand over the child and grieve their loss. There are plenty of other children who are waiting to be adopted. This man who is this child's actua…
/r/MensRights09/09/22 04:10 AM
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This. Let her provide evidence of that. They shouldn't be able to take the child away from the father just because the mother claims he's abusive.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 04:06 AM
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Sure, that's what they were told but once they find out that he's not a deadbeat dad, they should step aside. Once they find out that he's actually a loving father who wants the opportunity to be in his child's life, once again, they should step aside. They should put their personal feelings aside and do what's best for the child. I find that so many adoptive parents treat the birth parents like they're the enemy. They claim that they're just trying to protect the child but that is not true in a…
/r/MensRights09/09/22 04:05 AM
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Agreed, feminism is ruining this planet.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 04:02 AM
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This is true. Unfortunately, DCF equates low-income with neglect. They literally think that rich people are the only ones who should be allowed to have children. They think money equals good parenting. It's such bullshit. That system is broken. They leave them with people they need to take them from and take them from people they need to leave them with. They literally think that if you're low income, that you're going to be a bad parent and that you don't deserve children. I agree, don't believ…
/r/MensRights09/09/22 04:01 AM
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I find that ridiculous. I was with a narcissist and if you guys don't know, it is common for them to lack empathy and not really be able to feel love like the rest of us do. That being said, I know that not all men are that way. I get so sick and tired of seeing these women who are like, a few men burned me so that means that all of them are bad. This person did XYZ to me so that must mean they're all going to do that to me. Either some people are just traumatized beyond wanting to be helped or …
/r/MensRights05/09/22 06:31 PM
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There are plenty of statistics online. Stop trying to argue with me. If you have nothing better to do than to argue with people on the internet, try it with someone else because I'm not interested.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 05:01 PM
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Thank you for sharing that. I just find psychology interesting and now I'm starting to think about going into men's studies. I don't know what you call it but things like advocating for and in general. There's got to be something about it because there's this whole thing about women's studies.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 04:17 PM
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It doesn't matter, that doesn't excuse violence. Why would you make an excuse like that? Also you should know that he's likely violent anyway. Alcohol doesn't change the channel, it turns up the volume.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 04:15 PM
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No, I wouldn't mind that at all. People don't seem to understand that exercise isn't going to help us like normal people. I hate to use the word normal but I'm just trying to explain it. Sure, it helps in a small way but it's not going to magically fix the problem. I think that because I used to walk a lot before it got really bad, it slowed it down quite a bit. My doctor agrees with that but he's told me to just ignore people who do that to me. Thank you for your kind words. Hugs back.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 06:47 AM
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Yes I was and thank you. I apologize, sometimes I answer so many people I get mixed up. Edit: Hello, fellow metalhead. 🤘
/r/MensRights05/09/22 05:05 AM
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I asked the legitimate question. Please do not attack me simply because of my gender. Don't group me in with other women who hate you simply for being a man. Don't accuse me of trying too hard to appeal to the men in this group. I am simply trying to do research to help your gender but since you want to attack me, I'm done talking to you. Have a nice day anyway. Edit: I went through your history and you don't have any posts but you sure do have a lot of comments defending women. I think that you…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 08:04 PM
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Probably was but her behavior was still abhorrent
/r/MensRights04/09/22 08:02 PM
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Hi, I'm sorry, I know that this wasn't directed at me but would you mind telling me more about what you know? I'm trying to write a paper on the things that men experience day to day. I was just going to make it about the family court system but now I'm thinking I should cover a lot of different areas. I'm seeing how you're saying that they go to jail a lot for even approaching a woman which I was already kind of aware of but that's just ridiculous. I was hoping to at least raise awareness and h…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 07:24 PM
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This. I was with a friend at the bar and there was this guy hitting on her. She politely told him no once and so he pressed her. She said look, I am engaged and even if I wasn't, I'm not interested. Please leave me alone. He called her a fucking bitch and punched her in the face.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 07:20 PM
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I will say this, I'm not a prude or anything like that but I do find it to be a red flag when a dude tries to take me back to his house and fuck me on the first or second date. It's like whoa, why can't we get to know each other first? Now if it was explicitly stated or at least implied that that's what was going to happen, I would be fine with that. I also don't expect a man to drop a bunch of money on me. In fact, I went on a couple of dates with this guy where I offered ahead of time to pay m…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 07:15 PM
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I'm so sorry, that sounds like a nightmare. Hugs. I promise you there are women out there who aren't that weird. Edit: a few words
/r/MensRights04/09/22 07:12 PM
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Is it really true that men are providers at their core or is it just because it's something they've been conditioned to do? It's just that psychology interests me and like I've been saying, I feel that men have been left behind a lot. I'm just trying to learn everything I can about them. I know that each person is an individual but I've heard all my life that men are supposed to be the providers. Is this because their conditioned or because it really is who they are at the core?
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:20 PM
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I agree 100%. I get that part about men being conditioned to be providers and that they still have that hunter, gatherer brain but women are just as capable of going to war as men are. End of story.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:18 PM
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I understand exactly what you're saying. I get it when people are disrespecting me even if they say they're not. It takes a pretty intelligent person to understand when this is happening. I find it so funny that the people who are doing worse in life are the ones who want to judge us. Such as the case with that drug addict friend of yours or whatever he was. I've done the same thing, I've just learned to cut people off. I used to ignore red flags but now I'm like, the first time you cross my bou…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:15 PM
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Thank you. I'm sorry to hear that you were diagnosed with that. I have a friend who has it and I have muscular dystrophy. I have to deal with people telling me to just exercise more. Thankfully I can still walk normally but I have my days. Fuck those people who don't care about you. Sometimes it's because they don't understand what you're going through but they could still at least reach out to see if you're okay. I have a male friend that I do this with consistently. He's going through a lot of…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:07 PM
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You're welcome. I recognize that men are people like women. I've actually been a survivor of domestic violence at the hands of a man and even I know that not all men are bad. Not all men are the enemy. Edit: I also know that men are not really given the opportunity to talk about things. You're told to stuff it and not talk about it. I hate that that happens.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:00 PM
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Thank you. I'm going to save this comment. Edit: I forgot to mention that someone said I should start by watching the documentary, Divorce Corp. I thought I was going to have to pay for Netflix just to watch it but somebody put it on youtube, yay!
/r/MensRights04/09/22 03:59 PM
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Actually, I am and there's plenty of other women in this sub who want to support men so you're wrong. I don't know who decided your judge jury and executioner on who is allowed in here but newsflash, you're not. Have a good day anyway. I hope you get help for your anger issues.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 03:06 PM
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Hugs
/r/MensRights04/09/22 08:21 AM
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This. Feminists talk about equality more like scream about it but say something like they should have to go to war right along with the men and all of a sudden they back down. They're not really talking about equality, they're just using the word equality to push their agenda. There are some who want men to have fewer rights than women or even no rights at all. Equality means equal rights and opportunities for everyone. Equality should also mean that they have to go to war if men do then. They t…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 08:20 AM
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Yeah but without men there can still be no children. We don't get pregnant by ourselves.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 08:16 AM
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I know I'm a woman but all of this. I've stopped giving a fuck what random strangers and people that I don't see very often think of me. Really, I don't care what anyone thinks of me anymore. I am who I am and if you don't like me, you don't have to associate with me. I'm not going to change for anyone. There's nothing about me to change. Edit: I realized that most of the people that I was doing stuff for never appreciated it anyway. It was more like they were using me and taking me for granted …
/r/MensRights04/09/22 08:11 AM
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I like you, you sound like I am. I do not trust my government at all and I have no problems calling out their deceit and hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 06:42 AM
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You're welcome. I just want to be one person who makes a small difference. I will admit when I first saw that movie, it didn't strike me the same way. I didn't really think much about it but now that I've been in the sub and heard that mention about Schitt's Creek, that came to mind for me and it made me realize how much we downplay sexual harassment and assault of men.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 05:16 AM
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Omg I'm so sorry
/r/MensRights04/09/22 05:01 AM
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I'm subscribed to male mental health as well and I think that it's a wonderful sub. I just go in there from time to time to try to support the men that are in there. It's unfortunate that Society has taught people to villainize men no matter what and has taught them to stuff their feelings. Men are unfortunately more predispositioned to things like substance abuse and suicide because of this. I think it's great that there is a sub addressing that it's okay for men to feel their feelings and to s…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:43 AM
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You can, I'm rooting for you even though I don't know you. I'm proud of you for getting therapy and trying to find a healthy way to deal with things. I know it's not easy. I know a lot of people self-medicate to deal with trauma. I used to do it too.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:41 AM
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You're not at the point of irreparable damage. You can still take steps to change if you want to. I'm sorry that you had a fucked up childhood. I know how it can affect you because I did too. I'm not blaming you at all, I'm just saying that you can heal from that. It took me a couple of years of therapy to heal from all that and learn how to set boundaries but it is doable. You do whatever you think is best for you, I'm not trying to preach at you and I hope you don't take it that way. I'm just …
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:40 AM
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It's not too late for you. Just because other people unfortunately don't believe you and have called you horrible names doesn't mean that everybody feels that way. I'm sorry that happened to you.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:38 AM
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Good choice. Don't waste your time, it's probably one of the most stupid shows I've ever seen. I know that it's a spin-off from the British version but trust me, it's fucking stupid.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:04 AM
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All 👏 of 👏 this 👏
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:04 AM
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Even as a fellow woman, I want to thank you for realizing where you were wrong and taking the steps to change. I understand that you didn't do it maliciously and it's because of how it's been normalized but I think it's awesome of you to acknowledge that the disgusting double standard exists.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:03 AM
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As much as it sucks, if you did that, you'd probably be looking for a new job in minutes. That being said, I would do the same thing. Fuck that, no job is worth someone crossing my boundaries and expecting me to be okay with it. I'm sorry that's happened to you. I offer you a hug and you can take it if you want to and if not that's okay.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:01 AM
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He's just relating his experience about how TV goes against what real life is actually like
/r/MensRights04/09/22 03:59 AM
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That's actually pretty cute
/r/MensRights04/09/22 03:59 AM
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You're absolutely correct and that is why this mindset exists, unfortunately.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 03:58 AM
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I think it sucks that TV and movies tend to do this. It's never okay for someone to touch you without permission. I have a male friend that I occasionally make out with but I always ask him if I can touch him first. I would never just go in and assume he'd be okay with it. I'm so sorry for what you have to go through as men. I can't imagine having your body touched and then having someone go, it's not a big deal. Since we're talking about TV and movies, I just remembered a good example of this h…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 03:54 AM
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Oh no, it's not weird. I'm very happy to hear that they put their feelings aside and they remain friends and did what was best for the children. That's so rare nowadays. They sound like very good parents. Thank you for sharing. Edit: I think it may be a good indicator of how the courts disproportionately give custody to women. Maybe this has something to do with them both being fathers, I don't know. It may highlight a difference between straight couples and gay couples. This may also be a good …
/r/MensRights04/09/22 12:21 AM
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Well then I don't know either. I just wanted to hear their experiences about whether or not this happens to them as well in order to put it in the paper. I'm really just looking at all men in general. I'm still learning how to do this. It's just something I feel really strongly about. I might be a woman but I'm really tired of seeing men treated like this just because they happen to be men. Some may ask me why I care but it's because I believe in true equality. Also, I've always been the type th…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 12:09 AM
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Only read the title and I have to say I'm so happy to hear that. I hope you continue to feel better. Hugs.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 02:55 PM
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I deleted it. I must be more tired than I thought because I obviously read that wrong. I'm against anything that's anti-MRM. That's just a personal thing though. Thanks for pointing it out though because I would have ended up with egg on my face after the stuff I was posting last night.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 12:03 AM
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Sorry, I'm tired. I must not have read that correctly.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 11:53 PM
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That's true, I 100% agree with you. At the end of the day, it's not his fault that a woman chose to lie to him.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 07:18 PM
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Oh I totally agree with you. It's the responsibility of both parties. Also, I agree with you that if a woman lies about being on birth control, that's not a man's fault. However, I feel that if you're going to have sex knowing the risks, you should before a responsible for contraception, at least condoms. It was just an ongoing thread which I was answering someone else. That's why it's confusing to you.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 07:08 PM
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BeCauSE MeN ArE EviL aNd HaVe HuRt THeM
/r/MensRights02/09/22 07:05 PM
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Sorry, it was something about condoms being the responsibility of both men and women. Edit: That was the original comment. So I said not trying to play Devil's Advocate there but I think the reason why most women don't have them is because unfortunately, a lot of men that we encounter tend to view us as sluts because we have them readily available. At least that's how it used to be, I would imagine it's not like that anymore but I'm sure there are probably some who look at it that way.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 06:58 PM
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You missed the other part of the thread which led to me saying that is why you're not understanding
/r/MensRights02/09/22 06:22 PM
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It's happened to me. I had some dude accuse me of being a slut simply because I already had condoms. It's like, excuse me that I care about my health. Needless to say that didn't happen.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 06:19 PM
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I'm aware that the odds are stacked against me and that I'm going into a hostile environment but thank you. That's not going to deter me, I'm still going to fight for this. I've always been the type of person to fight for what I believe in and I am not going to let that stop me. There's got to be other people out there that care about this so as I said, I'm going to try. Thank you though.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 03:41 PM
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Yes I am in the US so thank you for that. I'm actually going to look into that. I didn't know that was a thing.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:27 PM
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I know, I hate that one too. I have a two-year-old son and I have never thought that way. Of course he's going to look like his father. I was friends with this woman who I am no longer friends with and in fact ended up reporting her to CPS. This is because I witnessed her abusing her children. Also, she would scream things at them like I hate you, you remind me of your father. Well, of course they're going to look like their father. She's the one who laid down and had kids with him. I've never u…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:21 PM
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I know it's cliche but this. Don't fuck someone who either snubs protection or doesn't have it readily available.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:17 PM
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LMAO Well, it's the truth. It goes both ways but God forbid they ever have to take responsibility for their actions.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:00 PM
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Exactly
/r/MensRights02/09/22 04:29 AM
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If it is legal in your country or province, record her doing this if possible. Also, I would think that the police would talk to you. I'm not sure though because I'm in the U.S. I'm sorry that you and your dad are going through this.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 04:12 AM
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Same. I would rather someone be honest with me. I'm the same way, I will tell you exactly what I think. I understand that men are accused of brutal honesty a lot but I think that it goes both ways. That being said, there is a difference between being blunt and honest with someone and just being cruel. You can get your point across without being cruel. Unfortunately, some people have never learned this. They blame it on not having a filter. This is really just code for, I'm an asshole and I don't…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 03:39 AM
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I thank you first of all. I wanted to touch on what you said at the end there. I agree, they don't fight for them according to these women but why should they have to fight to see their own child? I just had this thought like they say they should have to fight for their children but in reality, I think that these women see it as them fighting for these women because that's just their messed up mentality. That or they want to punish them. This is actually the case a lot of times. They're bitter t…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:24 AM
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Thank you so much. I remember seeing that but I was busy with something else at the time so couldn't really read it. I actually thought about making a post like that so I think I'm going to do it. :)
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:19 AM
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Unfortunately, I kind of know this from personal experience. I have a friend who was recently going through this. He was taking care of his daughter by buying what she needed and giving money to her mother. They were doing things outside of court. The minute that she got married to another man, all of a sudden she took him to court for child support. He allowed me to view the court documents online. Perhaps when she got married, they forced her to file but I don't think that's the case. You woul…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:11 AM
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Yeah and of course they never really get in trouble for it at all. They can claim domestic violence and self-defense and they will believe her without even investigating.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:01 AM
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This. Usually when they're sleeping or sitting there chilling. I read a case of a man who's wife shot him in the head while he was sleeping. He survived it, thankfully.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:01 AM
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All of this. Also, the court of public opinion is quick to damn anyone that they see as guilty. In the U.S. it's supposed to be innocent until proven guilty but really, they treat you like guilty until proven innocent. There's really no coming back from a false rape accusation. Even if the woman recants her story later on, it doesn't matter. The man's life is permanently ruined on his permanently labeled a rapist regardless of her recanting.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 11:59 PM
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I only read the title so forgive me if you touched on this but I feel like this needs to be said. I find that sadly ironic as well. This is because they'll say that you're emotionally unavailable then they turn around and say things to you like you don't have a job or a good enough job, you can't support me the way I'm used to. You don't have shit and you never will have shit and you ain't shit and never will be anything. But that's not abuse though, right? Apparently it's not if it's coming fro…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 11:52 PM
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I have actually heard of that. I've also heard about how they take your license away and throw you in jail for non-payment of child support. I honestly think it's an oxymoron because they throw you in jail and take away your license for non payment. Well, if you're sitting in jail or don't have a license, how are you supposed to get to work to pay said child support? Do they not think about this stuff? That's something that I've thought about for a while now. It just doesn't make any sense. Edit…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 11:40 PM
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I just saw this, thank you so much for the lead. I shook my head the entire time I was reading that and I was saying oh my god. That is just awful. I can't believe that this kind of stuff is allowed to happen. I didn't know that stuff about them having to take classes. I know that we're supposed to believe everyone who says that they're being abused, I'm a little bit sensitive to that because I am actually a domestic violence survivor myself. That being said, I know that there are plenty of wome…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 11:36 PM
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I'm not trying to play Devil's Advocate on that last bit. That being said, I think that this may be due in part to women who have condoms readily available being seen as slutty. I think it's really sad because I don't think that way, I think that she's being responsible. Personally come I wish people would just be able to stop caring what people think about them and do whatever the hell they want. I'm 39 years old and I've leveled up to that point. Don't like what I'm doing? Okay, then get away …
/r/MensRights01/09/22 10:10 PM
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I agree with you. I think that men should be able to opt out of parenting if they make it known soon enough. If women are allowed to claim, my body, my choice without considering that they didn't get pregnant all by themselves, then a man should be able to financially abort. I also find that hilariously ironic how they're always saying, he shouldn't have had sex if he wasn't ready to be a dad. Same thing with women, they shouldn't have had sex if they didn't want to take the risk of getting preg…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 10:07 PM
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I know I already commented but I posted a few minutes ago about how I want to write a paper on men's issues and hopefully take this all the way to congress. I know it's a long uphill battle and a shot in the dark but I think it's worth it. Anyway, would you mind if I used that in my paper? I'll give your username credit. I want to use the thing about the Minecraft reporting system. If not, it's okay. I just thought it would be an interesting tidbit in the paper.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 10:02 PM
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That cooking and cleaning thing, basically. I've seen far too many women like this. I was neighbors with a young couple who had a two year old daughter. I understand that you have to watch a 2-year-old closely but at the same time, their kids, they're going to get hurt. This is something I had to learn which caused me a lot of anxiety as a new mom. It was probably just the new mom Instinct kicking in but I was super scared of my son getting hurt. Now that he's gotten older, I've gotten used to h…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 10:00 PM
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I believe it, women are conditioned to be competitive with each other and it results in them being catty. I have a lot more male friends than female friends for that reason. I don't do drama and that's what most women seem to be about.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 09:08 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/MensRights01/09/22 07:41 PM
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Now see I agree with that in the way that you put it. However, I have to be female and I was allowed to use my dad's GI bill. This is because I had been a dependent of his. He wasn't using it so they said I was allowed to use it.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 07:39 PM
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So basically they want a participation trophy Edit: a word
/r/MensRights01/09/22 07:38 PM
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Because they feel like they should never be held accountable for anything which is bullshit. They want to yell and scream about equality but what they preach is not actually equality. Equality is equal rights for everyone regardless of their demographic. It doesn't mean push your agenda but slap the label of equality on it when it's convenient. Edit: typo
/r/MensRights01/09/22 07:36 PM
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Well damn, why doesn't that surprise me though?
/r/MensRights01/09/22 07:33 PM
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I had that thought too. Well if you don't need a man and don't want one then what the hell do you need that makeup for?
/r/MensRights29/08/22 04:53 PM
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Me too
/r/MensRights29/08/22 04:51 PM
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Let's hope so
/r/MensRights29/08/22 03:06 AM
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I agree with everything you said. It's just sad that good women like us can't seem to find good men because as you said, they're soured on relationships because of women like that. It's sad that people seem to Value looks over substance nowadays as well. Hell, dating isn't even like it was 20 years ago like I remember it. It's really sad. I don't think things are ever going to get better, this seems to be the new normal unfortunately.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 02:29 AM
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I'm not bitter and alone, I'm alone by choice. Never said I was bitter so please don't assign stuff to me.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 05:17 PM
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Before I realized what sub I was in I was going to say finding somebody who actually wants something real. I'm 39 and it seems like dating is not like it was 20 years ago like I remember it. No one wants anything real with anyone anymore, it's bang and move on to the next person. Edit: I've just pretty much given up on dating altogether. It's like, aren't there any men still left out there who are actually looking for a wife and not just a slam piece? It would be nice to have a good relationship…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 05:33 AM
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Thank you. That's also really smart. I hate how when a man is sexually harassed by a woman, it's brushed off like haha, what the hell are you bitching about? You had some chick and try to have sex with you. Well I'm sure it's just as jarring as it would be for a woman because you're obviously not interested in this person and they don't know how to take no for an answer. Worse yet, I've heard of men that when they reject a woman, they get accused of being gay. Not that there's anything wrong wit…
/r/MensRights26/08/22 04:27 PM
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You know, you have a point. I agree that people should be held accountable for their actions at all times but that was something I never really thought of. I never thought of it that way anyway. Edit: I wanted to clarify that of course rape is never okay in any circumstance. I'm just saying that I never really thought about it the way that you presented it and you have a really good point.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 04:08 PM
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Sad but true. I hate to agree with you on this one but it is true.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 04:29 PM
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100% agree. I almost wrote a post a few days ago along the lines of this. It's not that I'm starting to get disgusted with my own gender, it said I'm starting to get disgusted with the whole feminist movement in general. It's like an angry mob against men for no reason. It's like having an angry mob with no reason to be angry.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 06:30 AM
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That would be fine LOL
/r/MensRights20/08/22 08:12 PM
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Well damn, I'm sorry. Hugs.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 05:50 AM
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Yeah, it is.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 05:49 AM
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No, actually. I would make it very clear to a potential partner that I do not expect him to act like a father because quite frankly, he's not my son's father and it's not his responsibility. That being said, if he wanted to, that would be a different story. I would never expect somebody else to do anything for my son because like I said, he's not their responsibility. I would expect them to treat my son well but other than that, I don't expect anything from them. They chose to come into a situat…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 05:46 AM
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I don't blame you. I wouldn't stay with someone who issued an ultimatum and I sure wouldn't stick around to raise their kid just because the other parent isn't around. I can't believe that she actually thought you would stay. It's like either raise my kid or leave me alone. Yeah, like anyone would ever actually agree to that.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 12:38 AM
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Me too. I'm from the North and where I'm from, people discuss what they're watching or listening to as they do it. Down here in the South, I was very surprised to be shushed. I was like, we discuss it where I come from. Maybe it's just something my friends and I did but it did surprise me.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 09:25 PM
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I know right. I experienced it with my ex.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 09:18 PM
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Omg I'm so sorry that happened to you! I can't believe what I just read. Thank you for the kind words. I think it's sad that men are taught to hold everything in. I'm teaching my son different. He's only 2 but it's never too early to start.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 09:15 PM
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I'm sure it didn't. The thing that made me decide that I didn't want to do it is that my ex absolutely refused to set boundaries with his ex-wife. I understand that he has to co-parent with her but if you looked at them from the outside, you'd swear they were still married. I'm good on that. It's just put me off the experience altogether. I'm sure it didn't make things easier, being a blended family is pretty hard. Was it hard for you having to deal with her ex always being around or was it some…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 09:13 PM
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That's exactly it. Relationships take communication and compromise and sacrifice. No one wants to do that anymore. This is because it would take self-reflection and people don't want to do that. They would have to admit that they have faults.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 05:51 PM
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Exactly. Maybe a bad analogy but it's like they want a Hallmark movie in real life.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 05:50 PM
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Yep, it's like there's no in between with him.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 05:33 PM
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I think that's bullshit even as a single mother. People are allowed to have standards for who they do and do not want to date. I can't blame a man for not wanting to be in the picture while I'm raising another man's child. This is true even though I have very minimal contact with his father. Even as a single mother, I can relate. I dated a man with kids and 10/10 will never do it again. It's okay to not want to be around for that drama. Even though I minimal contact with him, he's still tries to…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 05:22 PM
3

Lmao
/r/MensRights19/08/22 05:13 PM
22

All of this. It seems that some people think that because someone disagrees with them, that equates to they must hate them.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 05:13 PM
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I couldn't have said this better. The way you described it is almost like what we talk about in narcissism. It's called word salad. It's where they deflect every time you bring up an issue. They put you into these circular arguments to where you get so confused that you can't even remember what the original thing was that you were arguing about. It's an attempt to discredit you and manipulate you into silence. They hope that you will just give up and stop bringing up the issues that you're havin…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 05:09 PM
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This is going to sound really stupid and it's off topic. The thing that popped into my head when I read your comment was this episode of My name is Earl. It's the one where Joy yells at Crab Man/ Darnell and says, I am the queen, you are the worker bee. Your job is to feed me, do me and die. That's basically their mindset. I mean it was funny in that context because she just yelled it randomly but I really think it fits here. That's the mindset that a lot of these women have, it's you only exist…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 05:02 PM
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I think that because of the feminist movement in the 70s, it's now interpreted as every opinion a man has is misogynistic. Well, that is for people who take it too far. I'll admit that I used to be in that sub mostly because I'm Wiccan and I thought that it was other people who were like-minded. I thought it was against these men who really are misogynistic, I didn't think that it was a brigade against all men. At first it didn't seem to be like that but then I noticed that it was turning into i…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 04:57 PM
1

Your ex wife actually sounds pretty cool. I'm sorry you're no longer married for whatever reason.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 10:56 PM
0

As is your right and privilege
/r/MensRights18/08/22 02:48 PM
1

That's a great point. It's also a great example of a double standard.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 02:47 PM
1

I don't understand why women are upset about their men going to strip clubs. The way I see it, I agree with you. It's one of the only places you can go to escape women and honestly escape life for a while. The way I always saw that was as long as he's coming home to me, that's all I care about. My ex-boyfriend that I was with for several years could come home and tell me that he had gone to a strip club with his friends and I was like oh, okay. Moving on. I don't care about that kind of stuff. D…
/r/MensRights18/08/22 02:47 PM
2

Awww thanks
/r/MensRights18/08/22 02:42 PM
3

Thank you. It was and the worst part of it was that he was aware that I had this trauma due to what happened to me as a teenager. It took me a long time and a lot of therapy to even be able to get to where I was able to have a sexual encounter without having a panic attack and he took that away from me. I think with the right person I would be able to but they would have to be understanding and treat me well. Other than that, I've noticed that I'm averse to sex anymore. I really just don't want …
/r/MensRights18/08/22 02:41 PM
4

Okay, I had heard that she did this because she had trauma due to men sexually abusing her. It doesn't matter either way, it doesn't excuse anything. She was a nutcase. Edit: I'm aware of the movie. Also, I live in Florida and my ex's dad told me that years ago, he was in this bar and she tried to pick him up. He said he started to leave with her but something told him not to.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 05:22 AM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights18/08/22 04:35 AM
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Yeah but there was one that was executed here in Florida. Her name was Eileen Wuornos. She targeted exclusively men. She was one of the only female serial killers in existence. She killed men because of her traumatic past involving men. It's another good example of hate all men because of you have burned you. I mean yes, it sucks that she was abused sexually and otherwise but that's no excuse for what she did in the slightest. It's also no excuse for other women who have experienced trauma to tr…
/r/MensRights18/08/22 12:16 AM
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What you said, no one really stares at anyone in a gym. Everyone is too focused on their workout. I feel like posts where people are claiming that they're being stared at or attention hungry people who are insecure. They're doing this to try to make it seem like they're more desirable than they actually are. Edit: I forgot to say that it seems like they're trying to convince themselves of this desirability more than anyone else. As I said, they're insecure and it's obvious.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 12:12 AM
5

I always hated that argument. Yes, male dominated fields do have higher salaries. This is because the work is much more dangerous. They should be getting paid more.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 08:52 PM
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Sorry, I know that this is totally off topic but as a straight woman, thank you for that lol. I didn't know that there were male creators. I'm sure they are underpaid.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 08:51 PM
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Wow that's crazy but unfortunately it really doesn't surprise me. It's really no problem though, I don't care what people call me. I'm just over drama in general. You want to be dramatic, do it on your own time. I'm not going to argue with people anymore. I guess I'm jaded. I'm 39 and I'm getting too old for that stuff. Although, if I see an injustice, I will say something about it. If I see something wrong, I'll say something. I don't care what people think, usually they get offended because I'…
/r/MensRights16/08/22 08:30 PM
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Why do you people even come into this sub if all you're gonna do is push your narrative that's to the opposite? Why don't you go back to the subs that are meant for you, you know, female dating strategy, two X chromosomes etc? Go on now, shoo. Edit: If you came here looking for an Echo chamber, you're definitely not going to get it here. You know damn well no one in this sub is going to agree with you so why do you bother? News flash, the reason why these men that you claim to hate want nothing …
/r/MensRights16/08/22 03:59 PM
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This. What I also don't understand is this law that if a man is married to a pregnant woman and they know for a fact that it's not his child. I.E. they have separated or she was having an affair, why he's still on the hook for child support. They literally know that this child is not his, why does the fact that he's legally married to the mother mean that he has to pay for this child? I've always raised my eyebrows at that one.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 03:57 PM
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I saw a post about this earlier and I basically commented that it happens so often that they wouldn't have made a joke out of it otherwise. The reason why people get mad is because they don't like hearing the truth. I personally know two different men who were paying for kids who turned out not to be theirs. One didn't find out until the kid was 18.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 03:56 PM
3

Awww thanks
/r/MensRights16/08/22 03:13 PM
3

Awww thanks
/r/MensRights16/08/22 03:12 PM
1

Thanks lol 😊
/r/MensRights15/08/22 04:22 PM
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Thank you. I'm glad to be here. I'm just sick and tired of these women who hate men simply for being men and think that they can treat them however they want and get away with it because they happen to be women. They always want to scream that they were the victim but they don't stop and think about how they treat these men. I could write an entire Manifesto on everything that's wrong with it but it's almost 3:00 in the morning here and I'm going to bed. I will write something better tomorrow. I…
/r/MensRights15/08/22 06:57 AM
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I had that thought as well. It may be that she was cheating and didn't want her husband to find out that wasn't his baby.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 05:02 AM
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This. I basically just said that in another comment. In case these women need reminding, we don't get pregnant all by ourselves so fuck that attitude. Like you said, just because they carry it in their womb doesn't mean it's theirs alone.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 04:47 AM
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As a woman, I agree with you. I hate how these women act like it's their baby and their baby alone. In case they need reminding, we don't get pregnant all by ourselves. I don't blame you for feeling the way you do. I wouldn't want to either. I will say that I can relate in the way that my ex was way too close with his ex-wife and I just got tired of feeling like I was stuck in the middle of their drama. They have three kids together and we have a son together and it just seemed to me like he wis…
/r/MensRights15/08/22 04:45 AM
1

Yes
/r/MensRights14/08/22 06:35 PM
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I saw this and I live in Florida and it's so sad. Not that she's going to jail but that this poor young man died because she's a jealous freak. If the tables had been turned, they would have been calling for his head.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 09:36 PM
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I saw this too. It came up in my notifications I think. I'll go back and dig and see if I can find it. I thought that was pretty crazy.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 02:23 PM
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Thank you 👏👏👏👏
/r/MensRights12/08/22 09:38 PM
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No but even as a woman I think it's an unfair practice. It shouldn't be an automatic. I know a woman who after 28 years of marriage, cheated on her husband and moved in with her affair partner after announcing that she was leaving him. The reasons she gave was that he never took her out anymore and wasn't completing projects around the house that she had asked him to. Never mind that he was busting his ass to keep a roof over her and their children said and food on the table and clothes on their…
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:32 PM
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I know right r/ihavesex
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:29 PM
1

That's not what circumcision does
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:29 PM
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That's not what circumcision does but I do agree that it's wrong because they can't consent to it.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:28 PM
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Let's see... Genital mutilation that they can't consent to.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:27 PM
1

I agree that she's unhealthy but please don't armchair diagnose people
/r/MensRights06/08/22 06:01 PM
2

Trust me hun, the kids will be better off. I understand your fear especially because of the family court system but you have rights.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:59 PM
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You can DM me for safety planning tips. I'm a survivor of DV and I learned a lot about it. I'm a woman just so you know. This id just a heads up in case you're more comfortable talking to a man. Hugs.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:57 PM
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Marriage counseling isn't recommended in abusive relationships. Therapists won't work with couples where abuse is present. Also, it's better for the kids to grow up in a home free of abuse and chaos. There is no mending the situation, abusers don't change.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:54 PM
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You win this thread
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:52 PM
5

All of this 🙄
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:43 PM
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r/truenarcissisticabuse
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:39 PM
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That's abuse on her part. This is not a healthy marriage and I'd be calling a lawyer. Marriage counseling isn't recommended when there's abuse. This isn't your fault and you didn't do anything to deserve it. You also won't change her. Hugs.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:37 PM
5

Enlisting is voluntary, being drafted is not.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:19 PM
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Women aren't included in drafts. Do the research instead of spreading misinformation.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:18 PM
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Actually, it doesn't. Giving up parental rights doesn't release one from paying child support. Parental rights are the right to make educational and medical decisions for your child. It also means that you forfeit your right to visitation. Except in cases of adoption, you still have to pay child support.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:17 PM
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This. They're forced to pay child support.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:13 PM
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No, they're saying that a mother can give up a baby for adoption without the father's consent. Some men want to be involved and aren't given the chance. Some men don't want to be and are forced into it. They get screwed both ways. I find it funny that you said he can't use Google. Do the research.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:12 PM
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Read my above comment. They're definitely forced into fatherhood.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:09 PM
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Forced fatherhood is forcing them to pay child support even when they've told the mother they have no intention of being involved in the pregnancy or the child's life. I agree that women should have the right to choose to have an abortion but I also agree that men should have the right to opt out. Many women keep the baby thinking that it will force the father to be with them. When they discover that this isn't the case, they take them for child support and think it will force them to co-parent,…
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:06 PM
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Of course they can. Just look up how biased the family court system is.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:55 PM
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Well I'm sorry for assuming then and I agree with you
/r/MensRights03/08/22 02:02 AM
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You're welcome 😊
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:49 PM
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Omg that's terrifying and sad. I mean sure, getting dumped sucks but you deal with it and move on with your life. I'm so sad to read that he went ahead with assisted suicide. Bless his heart. 😭
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:48 PM
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Thank you. Yeah, we're out there but like you said, we're hard to find because of how society is nowadays. They think that being submissive at all as a woman means that a man is trying to control you. I do it by choice if he treats me well. Also, I was kind of raised traditionally where the men are the heads of the household. In other words, you are supposed to be the leaders. They always ask me why I'm like that and I tell them that, if he treats me well, I have no problem being submissive. The…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:45 PM
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Thanks. I just see it as you can't group everyone into the same category because of a few assholes. He is who he is and he's not going to change. That doesn't mean that everybody who's a man is also the same way. I guess I just learned to look at things objectively. I've never seen men as the enemy because of things like that though.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:42 PM
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I am now. Thanks.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:21 PM
2

I agree. I have noticed that. It's okay for women to do it to men but vice versa and they're seen as creeps.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:21 PM
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What pick me means is like you're going around asking men to pick you Edit: I have a feeling this is a troll account so if you're being like that, I will tell you that I actually was picked. My ex pursued me and we were supposed to get married but then when I realized what kind of person he was, I noped out of there.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:20 PM
4

Thank you! 😊
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:18 PM
2

Awwww 💜
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:16 PM
2

Awwww 💜
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:15 PM
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I know right
/r/MensRights02/08/22 06:29 PM
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Nope, I'm still looking. Well, not looking but I am single by choice. My last partner was an abusive piece of shit. If the right one comes along, fine and if not I'm okay with that too. I just hope one does so he knows that not all of us are the same, just like men. I just want to show somebody something different for once. Thank you though.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 06:27 PM
1

Okay, you taught me something. Thank you. I thought that's what it was. I'll never understand people who don't shave unless it's a cultural thing. For example, when I was in high school, my family hosted this French girl for about 2 weeks. I was warned ahead of time that they'd only shower about four times a week, don't use deodorant and don't shave. This is because different culture and their climate is different. That being said, my dad was like if you smell something, don't say anything. We l…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 05:41 PM
2

Leg beard, I've never heard that one. Does that mean a woman who doesn't shave her legs?
/r/MensRights02/08/22 04:51 PM
53

If not more
/r/MensRights02/08/22 04:50 PM
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That's funny, how are you going to have sex? I don't know, Maybe by going to someone who isn't a bitter person who treats you well. The irony. 😂
/r/MensRights02/08/22 04:50 PM
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Right here 👋😂 I find it funny that they don't see the irony. They hate these men for wanting nothing to do with them, that's the reality of it. They don't see the irony that the reason why these men want nothing to do with them is because of their attitude. They accuse women like me of being pick me girls and hating our own gender simply because we know how to not be mean. I don't view men as the enemy, even as a domestic violence survivor at the hands of a man. I know that not all men are the s…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 04:48 PM
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With things like this, I always say if you believe in God, he must have a sense of humor. Edit: capitalization if that's a word LOL
/r/MensRights02/08/22 04:26 PM
2

I'm a woman but that is absolutely false. Actually, it's women who are more prone to wanting monogamy. I agree with you that it's not for everyone though. I've actually heard the exact opposite, that men are hardwired to seek out as many partners as they can. That may be true from a biological standpoint but I hate this notion that just because of that, men are incapable of monogamy. I think that's partly why the feminists hate men (unjustly) they see it as all men are cheaters and this is absol…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 04:25 PM
1

Wow I'm sorry
/r/MensRights02/08/22 03:49 PM
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I got automatically banned from True off my chest for being subscribed to this sub. I don't care. It's just a Reddit sub, it's not like I'm going to lose any sleep over it and besides, I would rather do what's right and lose out on a few things then sit by and not say anything when I see something wrong.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 11:25 PM
1

Yes she did with the help of Alma Gore I believe
/r/MensRights29/07/22 01:17 AM
4

Not exclusively. Men get postpartum depression too. I'm a woman and I got postpartum depression but I still know that men can get it as well. Yes, it's triggered by hormone fluctuations but it's also triggered by things like a huge change in circumstances, IE having a baby. It affects relationships negatively nine times out of 10. Men experience it as well because not only do they have a huge change in circumstances but now they feel the pressure to support their family. Now tell me that men are…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 09:51 PM
2

Wow, so you're calling him a rapist with no proof and despite the fact that all charges against him were dropped due to lack of evidence. That's a pretty bold claim especially from someone who wasn't even there.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 07:53 PM
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As someone else said, parental alienation is child abuse. So is convincing a defenseless and innocent child that a man who has no ill will towards them is out to get them. She is going to psychologically damage her son bad. She's delusional, Marilyn Manson has not even been in her life for like 12 years now. Her son Jack is 7. I feel sorry for that poor baby. I also feel sorry for his father. All he wants is to see his son. Like he said, he's not trying to take him from her. This is what happens…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 07:47 PM
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Already is if you ask me. The irony was not lost on me that she and Amber Heard are friends and they were married to Marilyn Manson and Johnny Depp. In case you're unaware, Marilyn Manson and Johnny Depp are good friends. So are ERW and Amber Heard. There's evidence that they were working together to bring them both down at the same time. I mean, think about it, Marilyn Manson has been through the ringer because of her. They raided that poor man's house several times and found nothing. He was ev…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 07:43 PM
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LOL thanks
/r/MensRights28/07/22 04:05 AM
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I totally agree with what you've said. How the hell does saying not all men invalidate someone's real lived experience? I'm a survivor of domestic violence at the hands of a man. I believe that not all men are the same way. If someone said to me, not all men are that way I would absolutely agree with them, not accuse them of invalidating my experience. That's ridiculous. I don't even understand the thought process that some of these people go through. Either you have to be incredibly dense or be…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 03:53 AM
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Oh I know
/r/MensRights28/07/22 03:19 AM
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Well good because that's what I wanted. I wanted to get to know him. It didn't work out for other reasons, mostly our schedules. I just wanted him to know that I wasn't one of those types that expected to be paid for. If I go out on a date with someone, it's because I want to genuinely get to know them.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 02:58 AM
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I figured they would be. I just thought it was nice to see someone pose that question outside of this sub.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 02:52 AM
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I don't know if this falls under men are going to look after you or not but I went on a few dates with a guy who insisted on paying even though I told him I could pay for my half. I backed down and let him do it. He said that he understood that I was able to do that and that he was fine with that but he would like to pay for me. That's why I back down and let him do it. I don't really see what the big deal is. Some women make such a fuss about that, oh he's trying to pay for me because he wants …
/r/MensRights28/07/22 01:37 AM
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Apparently not LOL
/r/MensRights28/07/22 01:34 AM
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Why don't you admit that you hate men? That's ironic. Also, how are they going to reproduce without sperm? I'd love to see that one.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 10:27 PM
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This doesn't surprise me. Also, really, they comb the internet looking for content? Like what do they have nothing better to do? This reads as men having a voice at all is against us. This is because all we do is hate on men simply for being men. A few have burned us and so we hate all of them. Here's the funny part about man hating feminists, they hate all men because a few have burn them like I said. That or they just want nothing to do with them so they hate them. The ironic part is that they…
/r/MensRights27/07/22 07:26 PM
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She's biased then
/r/MensRights26/07/22 10:16 PM
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Really, women never lie?! I'm a woman and I can tell you that yes they do. I only have when it comes to my safety. Like if I have to lie to someone to keep myself safe. I used to have to lie to my ex to keep him from hitting me but that's different. I can't believe that was her argument.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 09:22 PM
1

Omg I threw up in my mouth a little 🤢
/r/MensRights25/07/22 06:22 AM
2

Wow
/r/MensRights25/07/22 03:29 AM
2

She also sounds like my own mother
/r/MensRights25/07/22 12:48 AM
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Jesus, she sounds like my ex's sister. She would involve herself and things that had absolutely nothing to do with her and that were none of her business. She would be talking about what happened at the neighbor's house as if it happened to her. She would involve herself and things that didn't concern her. I think that was part of the problem with me and my ex, I got sick and tired of her doing that. She was always sticking her nose into our relationship despite us both telling her to mind her o…
/r/MensRights25/07/22 12:47 AM
1

Got a source for that?
/r/MensRights25/07/22 12:36 AM
1

I don't know if I would say it was mass murder but we could argue that in a way there have been. I mean, look at Aileen Wuornos. She was a female serial killer.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 12:35 AM
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Exactly
/r/MensRights25/07/22 12:32 AM
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What did they say? It got deleted before I saw it.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 12:32 AM
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I don't know either but I got banned from another sub before being subscribed to this one. I know that it warns that there are bots that will ban you but I don't care. I think it's because people still see men as dangerous for some reason.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 12:30 AM
2

Oh I know and it's bullshit
/r/MensRights24/07/22 03:59 PM
2

Again I'm sorry. Your mother sounds narcissistic. I'm really sorry you had to go through that especially with the dementia. I'm angry for you that no one listened to you. I know how frustrating and desperate it feels. It's okay, I don't mind supporting other people. Especially men, you guys don't get support at all really. That's why I'm here. I hope you have a good Sunday as well.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 03:55 PM
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I'm so sorry you went through that. I can't believe that they just brushed it off especially with you saying that she had cognitive decline. Forgive me for assuming but I'm going to go out on a limb and say it was something like dementia. I used to care for my grandfather that had it and I can sympathize with being in danger and no one taking it seriously because they have a cognitive impairment. It's commonly known that they become combative and violent as the disease progresses. Unfortunately,…
/r/MensRights24/07/22 06:14 AM
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Yes but then shouldn't both doors be locked?
/r/MensRights24/07/22 12:41 AM
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