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| 10 | I get too nervous when trying to approach girls around my friendsMy friends followed me around half the night, and whenever I was talking to a girl, they would snicker at me from around the corner and make fun of what I was saying. you might want to get better friends | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 01:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm social, funny, confident, friends with LOTS of people who all like me. Why do I not get invited to things?Well you can put (mass text) in the text and people won't send you personal suggestions. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?I just see working out as an activity that doesn't really require skill, you can't get "good" at working out. That's absolute crap, dude. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 11:59 PM |
| 41 | How to gain social capital in collegeTurn 21 Buy alcohol Bring it to parties Make out with randoms | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:57 AM |
| 4 | "I'm bored, entertain me." When a girl says this to me, what should I say back?"I'm not your goddamn monkey" Then you hold eye contact. And wait. EDIT: oh, over text. Link 'em to zombo.com | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 06:11 PM |
| 5 | IAmA writer on S&M, polyamory, sex, relationships, and pickup artists. Also: female. AMAsounds like type 1 | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Need help with online openers for older women."Hey baby, how'd you like to drink from the fountain of youth?" | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 07:19 AM |
| 17 | What are your go to jokes?...and then Zeus said to Narcissus, "Hey, watch yourself" | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 03:35 PM |
| 6 | What movie/TV show should every member of this community watch?Letterman? Really? | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How to give a girl shit for being late without sounding like an ass...Find a way to entertain yourself while you wait; 10-15 minutes isn't shit. If she's really late, ask her to let you finish what you're doing before you greet her. Don't act as if her tardiness dampens your good time, but show her that if she's not there on time then she's not your priority. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 07:36 AM |
| 3 | How do you overcome having an unattractive face?http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo_effect | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 02:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experienceYeah "just don't get addicted" is probably the most hollow piece of advice you could give someone who's about to start smoking cigarettes. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 04:43 AM |
| 91 | How do you overcome having an unattractive face?An insecure dude's weird face is ugly. A confident dude's weird face is distinctive. See: Steve Buscemi | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you overcome feeling weird?Meditate. You'll learn to take the techniques with you into your daily life, and you'll start to find you can easily discard these self-conscious thoughts when they arise. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 01:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experienceNo, confidence is not avoiding thinking about yourself. You need a degree of self-awareness to be successful. Confidence is trusting that you do what you do with good intentions. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 01:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experienceMy strategy is to mock rage at the inanimate object for getting in my way. If it doesn't get a few laughs, it at least saves your momentum | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 01:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experienceYeah that one's stupid. It works for meeting people, but you could just as well bring a pack and bum em out without fucking up your lungs. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 01:25 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experiencePeople love to talk about themselves. If you learn how to ask good questions and be genuinely interested in them, they'll consider you a good conversationalist--even if you barely say anything at all. Of course, you do have to be able to contribute yourself. Build yourself a persona. Learn things other people don't know so you can enlighten them (without being a know-it-all). People love to talk to those knowledgeable of societally taboo subjects like sex and drugs. It's also a good way to learn… | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 01:19 AM |
| 22 | A trick I used to walk up to the hottest girls/women. (kind of offensive)now i'm hungry | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Do muscles matter?The thing is, it makes a huge difference in your own mind, and so it makes a huge difference. People tend to neglect the inner game effects of working out; essentially, it boosts your energy levels while releasing large amounts of chemicals that make you feel confident and euphoric. One thing I've noticed is that men respond differently as well. You can be a total pacifist, but you're much less likely to be put down/AMOG'd if you look like you can kick someone's ass. As disappointing as it is, p… | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Hey r/seduction, I've created this study on text message response time in young adult women and would like your feedback (details inside)This is actually an incredibly good point. The data would at least be very useful to his own endeavors, but not necessarily to others'. | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Hey r/seduction, I've created this study on text message response time in young adult women and would like your feedback (details inside)companions | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Back-to-School: Social Improvement Tips from Neil StraussI've heard a lot about Strauss in this community, but there's pretty much no worthwhile content here. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 06:42 PM |
| 1 | WTF is this ? Makes me angry ...By 'did you a favor in rejecting you,' she's implying that your time would be better spent pursuing women with a bit more class than this. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Innergame, seduction, and psychonautThese are my two favorite subreddits. I somehow assumed neither would ever be mentioned in the other, but I think they're more closely related than one might think. Personally, my explorations as a psychonaut did more for my inner game than anything else. Honing your tools for self-reflection helps you realize that you're the only one who can criticize yourself, and only you can give permission to make you feel good or bad. It also helps you remove biases from your self-perception and be honest … | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, What do you do that makes you an interesting person?Ugh, don't waste your time watching the news on NBC, ABC, or CBS. If you're already on Reddit then you have access to subreddits which will supply real information and conflicting opinions. TV news is a joke. | /r/seduction | 06/07/12 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl flirting with my friend and I, at the same time, while were together. What is she doing, and why is she doing it?She's flirting with both of you because women love male attention. Maybe she just has a really flirty personality. Maybe she's just flirting with you and your friend because she feels comfortable with you two, or maybe she's specifically attracted to both of you and doesn't really care which one she gets. Or, maybe she wants you both to see her flirting with the other and become more attracted to her due to jealousy. Who cares? You'll probably never get an actual answer to this question. In fact… | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 02:17 PM |
| 2 | something i found on r/fitness that fits right here on r/seductionAlmost every dude and lady in the gym is in there to increase their sexual attractiveness, anyone who isn't is either a pro/student athlete or a liar. [citation needed] Fixed that for you. Personally, I work out because it has incredibly positive effects on the brain. Not only does it provide benefits to your cognitive abilities, but it increases the production of dopamine, serotonin, and testosterone, with the effect of increasing confidence, stabilizing mood, and increasing sex drive. Developi… | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 01:51 AM |
| 8 | Growing a beard could up your confidenceThere was at least one study--I'll post it if I can find it--which stated that there's a correlation between the length of a man's facial hair and how attractive he is seen to women. What I remember is that men with full bears were rated second-to-least attractive, but the most trustworthy. Men who are clean-shaven were rated the least attractive, and looked the youngest. The most attractive was light stubble. I had noticed this correlation before reading the study--though I'm not sure if my min… | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 12:14 AM |
| 2 | I'm fed up, but not sure if this is the right place for me....but only if you're willing to be stricken down. | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 11:49 PM |
| 3 | I'm fed up, but not sure if this is the right place for me.Hey! So I just wrote something ridiculously long in order to distract myself from studying for finals, so I totally understand if you don't feel like poring over the fruits of my procrastination. I'll put the summary at the top for your sake, so you can skip the rest of the post if you don't feel like reading the whole thing. TL;DR: You've already got shit figured out. Stay motivated, keep up the good work, and never stop improving yourself--you've got the bases covered. You've initiated the pos… | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 11:48 PM |
| 1 | I think it's worth clarifying what exactly it is that we do here on Seddit.Carnegie's "How To Win Friends And Influence People" is all about how to treat people with kindness and respect, how to make people feel happy and important, and how to actually listen when they speak to you. It is absolutely manipulation for the purposes stated in the title, yet I'd be hard-pressed to find a well-adjusted individual who believes those aren't behaviors every human being should engage in. | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 02:01 AM |
| 0 | I think it's worth clarifying what exactly it is that we do here on Seddit.This is called /r/seduction, and that is the language we speak | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 01:58 AM |
| 1 | I think it's worth clarifying what exactly it is that we do here on Seddit.That's the reason I came here, too. The other problem with advertising the subreddit is that you're going to attract trolls who like they're doing a service to the community because they believe seduction is full of evil manipulators. We'll get things like obviously fake field reports (and there are already enough of those), mysogynistic posts meant to cast the community in a bad light, and a generally negative attitude in replies--things like the 'that only works if you're attractive' mentality… | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Maxim's hottest woman in the world doesn't get hit onKeep in mind those pictures were probably taken by paparazzi. I wouldn't be happy if I were constantly followed around by social parasites. | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 06:29 AM |
| 1 | ex appears to want my dick, despite her being in a relationship.turn the tables on her and fuck her boyfriend | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 06:14 AM |
| 1 | "I'm ugly" How do I deal with a girl who says "why would you make out with someone who's ugly?""alcohol's a hell of a drug, baby" | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Does negging work as a pre-opener?Exactly. I think trying to drop a girl's self-esteem in order to make her an easy target is predatory behavior. | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 05:14 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Solo Night Out - HARDwhat are your thoughts on the simple idea of having a drink making you more confident? standard operating procedure. there's nothing wrong with having a drink or two, getting loaded is a problem. getting her trashed is a fucked up thing to do. I've also got a pretty high tolerance. drinking daily is only a problem if you have several drinks--one or two drinks a night can actually have health benefits. http://www2.potsdam.edu/hansondj/AlcoholAndHealth.html | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 04:54 AM |
| 29 | What's your best response to the "I have a boyfriend" line?boyfriends are like speedbumps, you have to run over them with your car in order to reach your destination | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 04:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Solo Night Out - HARDNo. No, no, no. Getting women trashed in order to sleep with them is pathological behavior. If you have to get yourself trashed in order to have success with women, then you're dependent on alcohol and on a quick route to addiction--not to mention you won't be able to fully remember what you did that got you any success in the first place. Seduction is about learning how to make a woman desire you, not about getting yourself plastered and throwing yourself at women with the hope that someone's d… | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 03:59 AM |
| 2 | How to break up with a woman?What a horrible fucking idea. The correct answer is to man the fuck up and be completely honest with her. | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 03:22 AM |
| 3 | What has caused you to say "no" to an attractive woman trying to sleep with you?This is why I'm always hesitant to get it on in the morning. Call me OCD, but I don't think it'll kill the mood to wait two minutes until teeth are brushed. | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 04:14 AM |
| 14 | 7 years after learning about the game, I am yet to talk to a girlwow, she is chubby and not that cute, I could defniatelly get her ...seriously? | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 08:13 PM |
| 2 | What are some good baby making music?Miles Davis/Bill Evans (for the slow lovemaking): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PoPL7BExSQU Al Green: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=COiIC3A0ROM http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsU6_eSG4k4 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tdw7kxD8eUc Isley brothers: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3rNx9_yBDVQ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=glhdcJ7K3XM Marvin Gaye (obligatory): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVTN5o9Kgu8 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3j3okb3kuts | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 09:23 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone else had this problem.Occasionally I have this problem. I used to engage in a lot of psychedelic exploration, so I kind of traded the ability to totally subconsciously absorb social conventions for introspection and keen social awareness. I find my main problem is over-analyzing the situation. It seems to trigger a feedback loop between thought and behavior; for example, I'll find myself thinking about what I'm doing, which leads me to feel slightly indecisive, which projects indecisive behavior and body language, th… | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Just saw the girl I liked on GW...how do I proceed?Dude. I wish you the best, I really do--and I post this from the bottom of my fucking heart. Reading this made me suddenly realize how I used to feel. I don't beat too often, but my psyche's just pulled a complete 180 in the last couple years since I was in the same place. Probably the acid. I'd forgotten what it was like to think that way, and I'm trying to imagine what I'd say if I ran into myself in that state a couple years ago. I mean the best for you, honestly--I really hope you find someo… | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Just saw the girl I liked on GW...how do I proceed?I disagree. My first time was pretty good; I figured if she knew what she was doing more than I did, I'd let her take the lead. The trick is just to let her do the work for a little bit until you get comfortable. If the chick's smart and she digs you, she'll be down to ride for a bit before you try to get into a rhythm. I think it's just the first minute or two that seems intense--it's all psychological. I actually got a bit distracted my first time, reflecting on how much of a big deal I had ma… | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 08:25 PM |
| 8 | Club Bitchesthat line made me cringe | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 02:14 PM |
| 6 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.LSD: just listen to the Beatles in 1964 and the Beatles in 1967. Polymerase chain reaction and double-helix structure of DNA. Steve Jobs believed it to be one of the most important experiences of his life, etc. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 02:29 AM |
| 5 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.To preface, my experience comes from introducing others to the fact that I've experimented heavily with psychedelics. I don't bother talking about short-term experimentation with stimulants, opiates, or most other drugs, as they don't bring much to the conversation. You have to already be in a deep conversation. You have to have already built attraction before you can make someone okay with the idea that you've done something they have an aversion to. The trick is to connect with someone on an i… | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 02:25 AM |
| 17 | Club BitchesI created a subreddit for stories like these so they don't distract from the legitimate content here: http://www.reddit.com/r/neckbeardfantasies/ | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 02:11 AM |
| 1 | 7 more TL;DRs to celebrate Seddit at 50k.for a while i really thought i was the only person who has both r/math and seddit on his front page | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 06:38 PM |
| 6 | Some conversation hacks that always get a smile from the girl and brings in a good vibe."I bet I can run faster horny than you can run scared" | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 05:07 AM |
| 22 | Seddit, my ex wants to see me for coffee tonight... What do?She responded saying "I wish I had have fought harder for you. I want you in my life and I wish I hadn't have given up on our relationship". Heart... wrenching... but must be strong. mind games, dude | /r/seduction | 14/03/12 07:40 PM |
| 6 | What's up with "the sniff"?"that's my balls you're smelling" | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 06:46 AM |
| 1 | how get rid of the 'old' ideas/expectations people have of you?I wont make any empty promises, but for me they transformed my self-perception. They don't boost my ego or give me extra confidence, but what they do is show me exactly how much I've been programmed. For me, a good introspective shroom trip exposes thought patterns that I didn't know had been limiting me--some self inflicted, some imposed upon me by my interactions with others. I tend to come out of a trip feeling as if my mental slate has been wiped clean, and with a sense of clarity of percept… | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 10:48 PM |
| 9 | how get rid of the 'old' ideas/expectations people have of you?I had the same problem. Here are a couple things that helped me: Learn to be comfortable when you're alone. You need to be able to do what you do in a group when you're solo; then, you'll see your social groups as assets and not restrictions. Understand that by feeding into others' perceptions of you, you're not only doing yourself harm--you're doing them a disservice as well. You need to be the best you can be so others will be encouraged to do the same. Eat the mushroom and realize how much yo… | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 09:18 PM |
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