| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 282 | Things men say cus they refuse to come to terms with the fact that they’re really attracted to other men | THINGS SCROTES SAY | blackgirlnorhythm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 04:26 PM |
| 0 | Please share your thoughts on this | LVM LOGIC | blackgirlnorhythm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 09:40 PM |
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| 15 | As a Ukrainian living in USA, here is how most of my dates used to go for the past 10 yearsI find this to be an American thing, I’ve heard they’re not taught geography over there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 09:09 AM |
| 12 | Black Women Globally Will NO LONGER Be Gaslit, Victimised Or IGNORED!!! BW-Divest Or DIE!I’m a big fan of mahogany pink! Thank you for spreading the word! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.Don’t move in with him. I’m surprised Americans pay up to 20k in income taxes. Never knew it could get that high! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:32 AM |
| -1 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.Also no one said anything thing about proving your worth to LVM but more so making him pay for what he did. He doesn’t get to getaway with what he’s done while you scramble to find somewhere else to live. That doesn’t seem fair to me. If anything, doing nothing because you think you’re above pettiness is enabling his behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 03:57 PM |
| -4 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.I am not here to assess whether she is HV or not as it is not my place to judge her value. You’re going off on a tangent and making assumptions over the lives of people you don’t know also. You do sound inexperienced through the way you’re presenting your logic. Having a job doesn’t mean you earn a good living wage to support oneself without additional support, again we don’t know this woman. The world does not live by the FDS handbook as you do. These things sound good in theory but they don’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 03:33 PM |
| -2 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.I didn’t see where she mentioned having a job and having a “social life” doesn’t guarantee that those people you hang out or party with will come to your aid in times of need. Ever heard the term fair weather friends? Like I said before, we don’t know her whole story. That aside, this is not a tug of war though it’s not ideal. You sound very inexperienced but at some point in life everyone messes up even HV men. I personally believe that you have to do what you can to remind people you’re not th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.Duh! At the end of the day fds principles are not a magic wand that solves everything. Some situations are nuanced and they require working with what is at your disposal which is what this woman is doing. We don’t know her whole story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:31 PM |
| 5 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.That’s all fine and great in theory but it is not a lot of women’s reality. Not everyone has the same privileges you do, this should go without saying. Let them do what works for them and you do what works for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:27 PM |
| 6 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.Does the fds handbook come with funds and security? Where’s my copy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:14 PM |
| 48 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.Unfortunately, I’m this petty. They’re just natural consequences 🤷🏽♀️🌚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:36 PM |
| 29 | Man hides 14 y/o daughter from fiancé for the entire duration of the relationship. Either he was trying to have two separate families ,or he was trying to trap her into supporting the daughter. Something malicious is at play.It’s so creepy how literally EVERYONE was in on this coverup, makes you wonder what else would they be willing to cover up. She can’t trust these people. She needs to run. I mean a whole child. A whole human being and no one said a thing and she’s been with this guy for years? Something’s not right. Just thinking about it gives me chills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 04:55 AM |
| 3 | This weird type of poor communication that I dealt with after talking to a guy for a few monthsThis is freakishly similar to someone I dated after college. Oh my God it’s as if they have the same playbook or something. I’m disgusted rn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 03:54 AM |
| 3 | This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS.Ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:33 PM |
| 25 | Men have become so comfortable with violating women’s boundaries that they don’t feel any shame in admitting to itI love when they tell on themselves >>>>> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 07:33 PM |
| 8 | This need to be sharedI was literally just thinking about this exact thread the other day. Thanks for sharing it! Saved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 10:45 AM |
| 16 | Why I am now avoiding pickmes at all costs from today forwardOh my God that last line is so SPOT ON! I wish FDS would create a flair for posts regarding vetting female friends because it’s so key! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 3 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰What app did you use to make this please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 10:16 PM |
| 65 | When men pull up other men for their irresponsibility. Mod message to r/AskMen.Oh my God this is HILARIOUS 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 09:04 AM |
| 14 | Not related to men, but what the heck is wrong with most women being non- supportive of other women but will build up these scrotes?Sorry that happened to you. Women need to be careful around other women too, men aren’t the only potential threats, just because someone has a vagina doesn’t mean they’re an ally. Everyone is always looking out for their ‘number one’ i.e. themselves and for some people that means tearing others down to prop themselves up. I’m all for sisterhood and women empowerment and everything but always, always, always watch your own back cus you never know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Why women should NOT date down. She seems so smart and is so beautiful and still being a pickme. First FWB and then open marriage #nahsisTheir dynamic doesn’t appeal to me personally but I sorta understand her. She comes off as the sort of person who needs to be the one in control, it seems like she’s assumed the more masculine role in their relationship, like the one leading. This could be as a result of an unhealed childhood wound or something but I think this is what works for her right now in this phase of her life. Not justifying the fwb and open marriage but I have to say not all women want to have sex with only one man for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Men understand other men’s motives. This guy 100% gets it.You’re missing the point, it’s not the level of experience that’s the issue here, it’s that younger predators are trying to profit off of this notion that older men are ‘the danger’. They’re pretending to “warn” girls about older predators but you never see them condemning their actions. People seem to be oversimplifying a very complex issue. Is a 20 year old predator more entitled to vulnerable women his age just because he lacks the experience of a 40 year old predator? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:03 PM |
| 16 | Men understand other men’s motives. This guy 100% gets it.The conspiracy theorist in me wants to believe that younger men are spreading this narrative because they’re finding it hard to get girls their own age themselves. I agree it’s a red flag when older men ONLY go after women much younger than them but these younger guys aren’t so great either, a predator at 40 was once a predator at 20, it’s not the age that’s the issue here. Age doesn’t suddenly make a person more predatory. These younger men are in on it too, they don’t care about these young gi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:09 AM |
| 34 | On the topic of cheap rings, here's a quick collage I made browsing Etsy for about 10 minutes - 9 different solid gold engagement rings for under $300. No CZ, no sterling. All it takes to find a beautiful, quality budget ring is a few minutes of effort and 0 trips to pandora.comBrilliantearth.com is a good place to find nice affordable rings too. You can pick the cut, size, design and everything, not exactly under $300 but you won’t be breaking the bank for a good sized lab grown diamond if you prefer conflict-free gems | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 12:56 PM |
| 9 | Male friends? What are your thoughts/ experiences? + little storyYeah male “friends” always have a hidden agenda in my experience, every single last one of them! Also why I don’t trust guys with a ton of female friends. You’re lucky you have good female friends tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 06:59 PM |
| 15 | If you’re dating during a pandemic, you’re letting him know right off the bat that you’re desperate.Thank you! I’ve been wanting to say this for a while now but I couldn’t find the right words! I keep seeing “jokes” on Twitter from men saying how much they love that this pandemic is making women lower their standards and how “oh she’ll definitely text back because she’s bored and alone at home”, these low effort men are loving it! Ladies, don’t give in! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:51 PM |
| 47 | Things men say cus they refuse to come to terms with the fact that they’re really attracted to other menI thought incel too at first but it’s too ‘on the nose’, that’s what they want you to think. Notice the use of phrases like “so-called beautiful woman” and “unappetizing enough as it is”, these are not the words of a straight man. See how he tries to subtly signal to other men that women are gross, it’s almost like he’s saying “vagina bad, pick me, pick me instead” 😂.He’s uncomfortable with his own sexuality and wants to take his frustrations out on women. He’s nitpicking because he won’t admit … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 08:11 PM |
| 35 | Things men say cus they refuse to come to terms with the fact that they’re really attracted to other men“Make yourselves more readily available sexually” imagine THE CHEEK! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Why highly educated does not mean high value! Black man graduates from a law school were only 50% of graduates are employed. He has 2.5 GPA and hasn't passed the bar exam after multiple attempts yet he totes he is the prize. He then goes on to degrade black women in his description. 🤢🤢🤢Lmao! What a joker. All I’m going to say is black women need to start dating outside of their race more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 02:15 PM |
| 5 | LOL.They’re playing the numbers game hoping to get lucky | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:30 PM |
| 11 | Not to spill your secrets to menYup! I do this too! Emotional intimacy/connections are so important to me that’s why I like to subtly test them as early as possible to see how well they handle it. If he can’t be there for me emotionally then sorry he’s not HV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:08 AM |
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