blacklikeyourheart Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
213	This scumbag commenting on documentaries about an Indian acid attack victim	MALE DEPRAVITY	blacklikeyourheart	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/20 12:36 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Which part don't they get? This isn’t an FDS comment but I just need to get off my chest, there’s so much anti-Scottish bias in the British media, encouraged by the British government. We’re literally in an abusive relationship where they have been leeching off us for decades yet call us benefit scroungers and subsidy junkies. It’s a total “ I hate you, don’t leave me” situation. Part of the media bias includes taking anything positive introduced by the Scottish government and twisting it into something negative. For exam…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/21 09:59 AM
2	Which part don't they get? You called a strategy for widening access to IVF a “crackpot idea”. The wording of your comment came off like the government were actively looking to get single women pregnant regardless of the personal risks, when the reality is the government sees it as a win-win for the economy and for people who want access to IVF that don’t currently have it. Safe access to abortion is not at risk in Scotland.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/21 09:44 AM
3	Which part don't they get? So far I’ve only found one article on this and the government strategy is that in the future single women who want to become mothers will be offered IVF. No ones being forced into pregnancy by the government. article	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/21 10:46 PM
15	How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up. I remember a friend telling me how my ex-boss and ex's current boss (same person) at the time had asked her how I was doing after the break up. She replied "She's found her spark!!" He thought I'd be in bits but I was happier than ever.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 02:44 PM
25	What's not clicking? Her book Paid For is fantastically written, and a harrowing read. Strongly recommended.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 09:24 PM
25	You read about us on Vice. She said we hate men; she said we’re no different than the redpill. You were disgusted by us. Yet, somehow, you felt some urge to come here. I don’t exactly remember what brought me to this sub, but I think it was likely discussions in other subreddits and I became curious. I’m so glad I’m here! I’m on the autism spectrum and so I any insight into relationships is very helpful for me. I honestly didn’t expect the revelations this sub has given me; who in my past was pornsick; the fact that I’ve never been in an equal relationship. This place gives me confidence and encouragement to be the best version of myself, for myself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 09:20 AM
2	Uhhh... I think the title speaks for itself 🤢🥲 Death warmed up	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/21 03:51 PM
22	What do you ladies think? I urge everyone to read Caliban and the Witch by Silvia Federici. It explores the transition from feudalism to capitalism and talks of the devaluing and control of women’s reproductive labour, porn/prostitution as an opiate for the male masses, and the functions of the witch burnings. IMO it should be required reading.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 07:17 PM
25	Turn the tables on male gaslighting, except it’s not cute when they’re angry because it’s actually life-threatening. Don't be testerical!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 09:55 AM
24	The uncomfortable look inside I know this as Skin Hunger and it did a number on me when I used to live in Japan. I was lurching from one undesirable situation to another after leaving a LTR. I like your process of journalling reasons why that guy would be a disaster, I need to do this in future!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 07:16 AM
243	Women's lives need to stop revolving around men "Women have very little idea of how much men hate them" This quote took the wind out of me when I read The Female Eunuch in my early 20's. Once your eyes are opened you see it everywhere.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/21 10:36 AM
35	Don't befriend men who hold average views on gender. He wants to order up his ‘legacy’ like a pizza.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/21 07:55 PM
25	Saw this in r/niceguys of all places. "Your hurt feelings do not override my right to say no." And what does that guy think of the fact the most men swipe right on everyone?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/21 07:15 PM
27	Wine ain’t bald scrote I used to live in Japan and the older, fat, ugly, white men who move there to get themselves a "submissive" wife are so ubiquitous it's depressing as hell.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/20 08:54 PM
37	This scumbag commenting on documentaries about an Indian acid attack victim You're right, and I did try to block him after my reply at the end. Reddit seems to have made this harder, for some reason? Had to report for hate then block, not that I think Reddit will do a damned thing about the report. Just want to add, I'm so thankful for this sub! Sanity in a sea of scrotes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/20 02:09 PM
29	This scumbag commenting on documentaries about an Indian acid attack victim This one was a stalker and a bunch of LVM were trying to blame it on the female to male population ratios of certain countries. My god, I hadn't heard of that case! That is sickening.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/20 02:05 PM
66	False Advertising “Visual creatures” but apparently they don’t notice if a woman changes her hair, or if the laundry needs done, or the house it a complete mess.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/20 08:40 PM
42	Give an inch and it tells them they can take a mile. Your boundaries are valid, and not up for discussion. All of them. No means no, and is a complete answer👏🏻 "...you looked thirsty." Really? How do I look when I'm thirsty? One way out of this would be to look around the room, point to another guy and say "He looks thirstier than me, give it to him." and walk off. I'm getting to that age where I don't give a shit about idiot strangers' feelings, but I don't see how refusing a drink for a SECOND TIME would make me seem the asshole? Forget social rules, be rude for a minute and save your life from the awfulness that would follow accepting that drink.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/20 08:10 AM
21	What is the most pointless lie that a LVM has told you? I also dated a compulsive liar, I'm convinced he lied so much because he was just empty inside, a void under the skin. He said he was born and lived in Belfast until he was 6/7 (he was born and bred in England), that he went to school with a slightly famous musician, that he studied cooking under Jamie Oliver... After I broke up with him he would message me to say he had been "backpacking in Asia" when I knew he would have been too much of a wimp to go anywhere alone. I feel part of me knew he w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 10:57 PM
11	Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE. This made me LOL, hope you don't mind it's getting stolen!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/20 05:50 PM
93	She gave him her best years but once she's hitting menopause he wants to cheat To hell with him and his friends talking about her like a fucking horse. She’ll have better, happier years to come when she kicks him out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 02:54 PM
5	A year after the breakup I’ve never had a boyfriend that didn’t hold me back in some way. Eventually we learn not to let them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 09:13 AM
7	One of the reasons I left a sexist religion/cult Christianity is one of the Abrahamic religions	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 10:02 PM
10	One of the reasons I left a sexist religion/cult And yet we have this gem you commented a week ago: I know it sounds dorky, but online gaming helped me tremendously. I met two guys on there who became my best friends. We play together after work for at least a couple hours almost every night on Red Red Redemption 2, CoD Warzone, Minecraft, Grounded, Fallout 76, Rainbow 6 Siege... It's so wonderful not to come home and be alone. I know gaming isn't a "replacement" for real human interaction, and still make an effort to be social in real life,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 10:57 AM
11	One of the reasons I left a sexist religion/cult Ever since the mythology of 'submissive women' was invented circa the Middle Ages it has meant involuntary servitude, unpaid reproductive labour.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 10:27 AM
40	The “not all men” guys are the worst There are endless blanket statements about women and yet not one of these assholes have ever commented “Not all women!”.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 06:26 PM
108	It bothers me so much that most men see sex as something humiliating and degrading done to women and that they see woman as an submissive sex object, just body parts to use. And this is why i hate porn so much... It basically traumatized me and ruined sex for me forever. Performative femininity was invented as a tool to subjugate women. We are conditioned from birth and have been for hundreds of years to believe this is 'natural'. It's not. I speak as an autistic woman who feels no connection or desire to perform in this way. You are a woman, and you are fine as you are.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 10:12 AM
12	Political alignment aside, there’s merit to this. Same, it brought the post down for me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/20 08:00 AM
49	Gross old guy feels entitled to using a variety of young women’s bodies for sex and reacts violently when ask why any woman would ever enjoy this. Over 40, probably over 50.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 11:13 AM
85	What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you? If women/girls weren't brainwashed from birth to want marriage, literally no woman on the planet would agree to such a thing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 09:26 PM
53	This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodged Any man who thinks “No.” is the start of the negotiations and not the end of them will never respect your boundaries, instead they see them as hurdles to overcome. Bullet dodged.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 05:04 PM
145	Homosocial tendencies within heterosexual male relationships. It all makes sense now. Men don't see women as fully human.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 08:34 AM
17	What it is about women-only spaces that energize me and calm me at the same time? I've come to believe that it's finally feeling heard by someone who understands. I want a lifetime membership to this gym! A lot of men act like gyms are men-only already and that women are intruders.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/07/20 12:20 PM
38	Wow, I've never thought about emotional connection like this, but it's so true, especially in relationships I've been in. Its not your fault they want to fuck you, and not your responsibility. Reminds me of the shepherdess Marcela in Don Quixote, written over 400 years ago.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/20 07:03 AM
39	notice the double standard Men's greatest fear is to be treated like a woman.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/20 06:45 AM
5	More LibFem Nonsense: Declaring that sex workers are “essential” to prevent males from raping and murdering is a tacit admission men are basically terrorists. They want us to throw a few women to the wolves as a sacrifice to pledge our fealty to patriarchy. It's like saying men are these wrathful gods that we must sacrifice girls and women to, in order to appease them. Fuck that. My grandmother was a prostituted woman. She was an alcoholic and incapable of taking care of her children as a result. My mother grew up in extreme poverty and neglect, and developed borderline personality disorder as a result. This meant my own childhood was characterised by poverty and chaos. The deep trauma of prostitution doesn't begin and end with the sacrificial offe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/06/20 09:51 AM
17	Watch your thoughts Sounds like he's bread crumbing, best to ghost/delete him from your contacts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/20 06:20 PM
67	Pickmeisha asks for advice on what to do with boyfriend who wants to hire a prostitute Schrödinger's Douchebag A guy who says offensive things and decides whether he was joking based on the reaction of people around him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/20 07:14 PM