blacknightbluesky Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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28	How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this) statistically men are more likely to cheat and leave their partners if she becomes sick, so idk where your victim complex is coming from. oh, on top of men being much more likely to abuse, kill, rape their partners and children. saying that men love women more than women love men is wild	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/25 04:06 PM
6	What do I do when I feel ugly? You don't need to think you're attractive, you need to think it's irrelevant whether or not you're attractive. Your face is doing its purpose - it helps you to see, smell, taste, feel the wind on your skin. You're not a decorative object but a mammal animal human being. Even if you are ugly (I doubt it, 99% of people are average), that shouldn't stop you from living your life. You don't need plastic surgery. I swear to you, nobody is scrutinizing your face as closely as you are. Nobody even noti…	/r/ExRedPill	22/09/25 01:18 AM
4	What do I do when I feel ugly? body neutrality. your human face isn't a problem, your mindset is.	/r/ExRedPill	22/09/25 12:42 AM
0	The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke). I mean, some of them post pics of themselves online. We're all on the same internet. Their looks aren't usually the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 10:30 PM
–	You should only be in a Romantic Relationship with someone if you are VERY Sexually Attracted to them - This applies especially to women. I agree, actually. I can't relate to this talk about responsive desire or the way other women talk about sex and attraction. I guess I have the sex drive of a man or something. I want to do it at least once a day. I can tell if a guy is hot or not immediately (but a not-hot guy can become hot). I much lust after men's voices and smiles and hands and backs and shoulders and hair and torsos and peen and sweat. I want to touch and be touched, and a lot more than that. I don't see the point of a rel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 12:44 PM
3	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere An estimated 736 million women—almost one in three—have been subjected to physical and/or sexual intimate partner violence, non-partner sexual violence, or both at least once in their life (30 per cent of women aged 15 and older). This figure does not include sexual harassment. Most violence against women is committed by current or former husbands or intimate partners. More than 640 million women aged 15 and older (26 per cent) have been subjected to intimate partner violence. In 2023, around 51…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 12:37 PM
16	What main reason why women divorce ? Within a sample of divorcing parents, Hawkins, Willoughby, and Doherty (2012) found that the most endorsed reasons for divorce from a list of possible choices were growing apart (55%), not being able to talk together (53%), and how one’s spouse handled money (40%). Amato and Previti (2003) found that when divorced individuals were asked open-endedly to provide their reasons for divorce, the most cited reasons were infidelity (21.6%), incompatibility (19.2%), and drinking or drug use (10.6%). A s…	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/25 10:00 PM
2	Men are fundamentally unsuitable for long term relationships yes, exactly. i'm glad they openly admit it. too bad for them that their own behavior is only increasing their "loneliness epidemic" though lol. 99% of men are disloyal pedophiliac (ePhEbOPhIlE) misogynists incapable of loving women. i don't believe it's their nAtuRe or bIoLoGy. just a lifetime of patriarchal conditioning. they are only interested in having a young (naive, powerless) bangmaid to impregnate then cheat on with the next one. if they can't get that, they resort to porn which only fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 08:29 AM
4	You can't debate a person that doesn't care about romantic relationships. Age gaps are statistically much more likely to end in divorce. I believe that ageism against men exists too, but at least you don't get called used up, exired goods, hags, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 05:45 AM
2	Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative). BanFemaleHateSubs Listening to men has snapped me the fuck out of my hopeful naivety. They loudly proclaim over and over again that they are pedos, they don't respect or like women as people, only as fuckable slaves to cater to their every need. It's men that turn me off men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 05:18 AM
12	I am tired of people pretending there are no drawbacks to having kids later in life yes. accurate	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 06:12 PM
1	Prostitution should be legal and chatbots for men government funded lol women can have chatbots too /r/kindroid $15 a month	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 12:50 AM
2	Are men as bad as the ones you get to know online? aaand that's why women are turning to 4b. because, besides ragebaiting bot accounts, every misogynistic comment online has a real life person behind it. maybe someone that has never left their mom's basement or maybe a school teacher or maybe a judge. yes, some women willingly blind themselves, some naively really believe the best of men with no evidence, and some are realistic and actually listen to what men have been saying all along. most of the time, it's pragmatic. until recently, it is has…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 12:49 AM
–	What amount of women u find attractive in your daily lives? This thread is funny to me. Men can be just as picky as they accuse women of being.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 06:29 AM
17	Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefit What. Because sex CAN be absolutely amazing for women, but not typically with casual sex. For multiple reasons. Lesbians have the most orgasms, the most foreplay, some of the happiest relationships. Porn and stripping is for money, not enjoyment. You need to look up the orgasm gap. Women in relationships don't even have that many orgasms, but in casual sex, the rate is much worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 06:26 AM
8	Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you? I guess I'm like a man in terms of physical attraction. I can immediately recognize whether a man is physically fuckable or not to me personally. But that changes once I actually talk to him. I might be more or less attracted depending on various factors - his personality, his lifestyle, his beliefs, etc. I have a specific type I like most, but a wide range of men I can find attractive in general - tall, short, beards, cleanshaved, country boys, hipsters, nerds, sports bros, blond, black hair, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/25 12:22 AM
4	The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecure You're correct and there's no point in arguing with their cult mentality. /r/exredpill is a great place btw	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/25 07:48 PM
57	How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default? The only "privilege" women have is men wanting to stick their dicks in them. That's not power, that's nothing. Men openly admit that they can hate a woman, not respect her, not like her, and still fuck her - so what's the point? There is an entire world out there outside of dating apps and hookups ffs, and women aren't privileged there either, with the rates of rape, nonsconsensual image sharing, stealthing, STDs, pregnancy. So ignorant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/25 02:07 AM
14	It has never been easier to date as a man can we just settle this one and for all https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 05:30 PM
2	Q4Women: What is worse selling sex or buying sex? Buying. Selling is more understandable, because everyone in the world needs money. Buying is inherently exploitative and gross. A woman might need to sell sex to feed her children, a man never needs to coercively buy consent to get his dick wet. A man can go home to his wife and give her STDs, prostitutes are frequently raped and beaten (higher rates of PTSD than veterans btw). Johns inherently view women as objects to purchase, not human beings. Obviously I don't approve of either, but one is m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 05:16 PM
2	Men are finally being held to the same standards women are, and they can't handle it. 100% correct but they don't want to hear it	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 04:22 AM
7	If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs. Hmm, agree mostly. But there is a lot of hatred for female anatomy (both the Latin and Danish words for vulva literally mean 'shame-lips', fishy beef flap jokes, etc.) Also female pleasure has never been considered - stimulating the clitoris, cunnilingus, etc. has never deemed important until recently. Sex has been and is very much focused around male pleasure. They like having control of women's sexuality as it suits them. Women's sexuality, unrestrained, would probably be as unappealing to men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 03:04 AM
9	If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs. Porn is an industry filled with sex trafficking and rape. But yes, some women view watching porn = getting off to other women as cheating. Not because male sexuality itself is disgusting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 12:32 AM
3	If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs. literally where do you see that besides porn made for men, by men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/25 11:18 PM
13	If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs. Nobody is telling men or boys how to dress or act to avoid sexual harassment, so that's irrelevant. Most perpetrators were male (89.1 percent). The majority of those who experienced educator sexual misconduct were female (72 percent). https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/protecting-children-from-sexual-abuse/202305/educator-sexual-misconduct-remains-prevalent-in/amp	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/25 11:06 PM
17	If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs. Wait until you find out women in niqabs and nuns are raped too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/25 10:53 PM
17	If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs. You act like men haven't been openly disgusted with women's sexuality for hundreds if not thousands of years lol. Male sexuality isn't disgusting, the harmful behavior that men excuse with "male sexuality" is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/25 10:08 PM
2	What is your MBTI type? - and other mbti nerdery infp or enfp, depending on the day i take the test	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/25 02:33 AM
11	What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? Sperm donors, lesbians, and women that intentionally become single moms, even mother communes exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 05:25 PM
3	Decentering men, the 4B Movement, MGTOW & "monk mode" are all just copes for men and women who are sexually unsuccessful or failed at dating. Except 4B women have been in relationships with men before, had negative experiences, and now avoid what they consider an inherently negative experience. It's not about being desired by others or not, it's about what they desire. 4B women are not interested in unequal relationships that harm them, which is what they believe heterosexual relationships are. Anyways, what does it matter? It's a tiny minority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 04:18 PM
11	Do women fall love with anyone they find attractive? No, jesus, how many times do we have to tell you. Not all of us are attracted to tall men, I'm not. A man being narcissistic and arrogant is a turn OFF. I don't care about money as long as you're responsible with it and have some kind of employment. The only women that want a provider in 2025 is tradwives and SAHMs. The rest of us want an equal. Paying for dates and flowers occasionally =/= being a provider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 12:25 PM
19	Red pill misinterprets western historical dating and marriage patterns for non western ones The graph below shows the average age at marriage over the long sweep of English and Welsh history. Apart from a few decades in the early 1800s, the only time since 1550 that the average age of first marriage for women fell below age 24 was during the baby boom of the 1950s and 1960s. https://www.campop.geog.cam.ac.uk/blog/2024/07/11/what-age-did-people-marry/#:~:text=Famous%20examples%20suggest%20that%20people,of%20the%201950s%20and%201960s. Marriage statistics indicate that the mean marriage a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/25 08:32 AM
0	CMV: men push this narrative that older women are less attractive but they have it backwards I think she can still find someone, though. She might have to lower her standards a bit I don't believe there zero men that would be interested in her. There are men that like women their age and you're always young to someone (like a man in his 50s or older). She is attractive for a woman her age, which is how it should be. The goal isn't to look 20 forever. The older men that are seeking relationships with women in their 20s are shallow and they will dump those 20 year old when they age too. W…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/25 08:28 PM
0	CMV: men push this narrative that older women are less attractive but they have it backwards 100%. Thus there is no point in entertaining a man that is obsessed with youth. Not all men are like that, thankfully. The ones who are make it obvious - they ogle, they watch porn, they openly complain about older women, they try to convince younger women what a great catch they are (lol). Beautiful people tend to be young and young people tend to be beautiful, but a lot of people still view their aging partner as attractive for a number of reasons, not all of them physical. Being conventionall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/25 05:41 PM
1	CMV: men push this narrative that older women are less attractive but they have it backwards The only man whose opinion you should be concerned about is one you're in a relationship with or looking to be in a relationship with. Being conventionally attractive is meaningless. Who cares if 99% of men find youth attractive, who cares if people don't stop and stare at you in the street, you don't need to appeal to all men unless you're a prostitute. Who cares about what men find attractive tbh. I just feel sad for them because I see gorgeous older women all the time. Women with amazing smil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/25 05:36 PM
2	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Maybe I was agreeing with her lol. To me, it's not contradictory. You can tell if someone has good facial structure, nice hair, a nice body, nice teeth, good fashion choices, height (if you care about that) at first glance. But if a guy turns out to be a terrible person like making misogynistic or racist comments, any attraction to him I had is completely turned off. Even if he's just rude to waiters or makes mean comments about the elderly, I look at him differently. Like... "bitch eating crack…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 08:30 PM
0	What are your thoughts on the toxic narratives around men opening up to women? I don't think relationships are like work. At work, you have to shut off your human-ness and be a worker drone. In a relationship, you should feel free to express your emotions (in a healthy way). Having a panic attack isn't an emotion, anyways. I disagree with that comment above in the thread about breaking the illusion of competence or whatever. I would try to help a random stranger on the street if I saw them having a panic attack, so why would I judge my boyfriend for it? He's only human. Yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 07:25 PM
6	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Serious question, are you demisexual? Also, how does your comment coexist with your flair? I'm confused. As a woman, I can definitely say I can tell if a man is attractive to me or not at first glance. But then he can become ugly with his personality. An average looking guy can become super hot to me if he has a good personality. I think that my definition of physically attractive is probably different from most other women's, though. I don't care about height or wealth, I would hate to have a m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 07:18 PM
4	Q4M: Thoughts on these common dating profile lines? that's good to know because making a witty, appealing bio can be hard. we should all give up on taglines lol i'm at the point where i'm about to just list all of my positive qualities and flaws in bullet points, and what i seek in a relationship in bullet points too so we can avoid wasting time. nah, that's too much. but the idea has crossed my mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 04:12 PM
2	Q4M: Thoughts on these common dating profile lines? I have a Q4M too. What if a woman's bio says nothing, but she has all the "drinks / smokes / career / hobbies" tabs filled out? Like "doesn't drink, works at ____, interested in photography, vegan" whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 04:06 PM
5	Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than men Your definition of loneliness vs a women's definition of loneliness is very different. Being used as a fleshlight by a man that doesn't respect or like you makes you even more lonely. Sex can be physically painful, pleasure-less, unhappy, and even dangerous (STDs, pregnancy) for women. Especially knowing that the guy won't even remember your name, he just sees you as a wet hole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 03:59 PM
2	What are your thoughts on the toxic narratives around men opening up to women? A guy who can handle most life things but had a panic attack once will most likely be well received, while a person who has panic attacks weekly is going to have issues finding a partner who can handle it. This is a very good point. We all have moments when we're negative and struggling, but if it's constant... There's a difference between admitting that you're feeling depressed and having a hard time vs constantly complaining that you hate yourself and expecting your girlfriend to make you feel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 03:49 PM
50	Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than men It just comes down to – men are more horny for women than women are for men. Men have lower standards for sex. Men want relationships more than women do. Supply and demand. It's not wrong or right, it just is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 03:34 PM
7	What are your thoughts on the toxic narratives around men opening up to women? Yes, I believe men when they say they have had these experiences. People are generally bad with someone opening up to them. Even friends and family can get uncomfortable and say the wrong thing or look at you differently afterwards. We all could use more empathy and active listening skills. I'm just built different, though. If my man was vulnerable with me, I would actually respect him more because I know how difficult it is to open up. I would appreciate that he trusts me enough to tell me some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 03:25 PM
4	The biggest reason dating & relationships are broken today is because men are comparing themselves to HOT men, mistaking how women interact with them as true measure of attraction, and giving up when their own experiences don't match I understand it. I think it's a natural reaction (maybe less so if it's something physically painful). If I was with a man and he said that wouldn't go down on me but went down on his ex, I would feel a little upset. But I would ask him why without jumping to conclusions. Maybe he was pressured into it before? Maybe he changed his mind and no longer likes it? Or maybe he just doesn't find me attractive. Either way, if cunnilingus is something I consider that important, I would just break up with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 02:25 PM
6	The biggest reason dating & relationships are broken today is because men are comparing themselves to HOT men, mistaking how women interact with them as true measure of attraction, and giving up when their own experiences don't match do you think those women would have accepted low effort dates from chad, or maybe they just consistently don't like low effort dates from anyone? or maybe they blocked you for some other reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 01:57 PM
4	The biggest reason dating & relationships are broken today is because men are comparing themselves to HOT men, mistaking how women interact with them as true measure of attraction, and giving up when their own experiences don't match nobody, of any gender, should date or have sex with people they aren't attracted to. but for mentally sane people, a good character and lifestyle are just as important as being attracted to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 01:48 PM
4	The biggest reason dating & relationships are broken today is because men are comparing themselves to HOT men, mistaking how women interact with them as true measure of attraction, and giving up when their own experiences don't match lmao if you saw the guys i swiped right on tinder xD i avoid conventionally attractive ones automatically because i assume they're fuckboys. and my friends tease me about how i like busted guys lolll. i guess all the red pill humbling did work because i avoid hot chads and assume they're out of my league so they have options :p i'm still attracted to the "ugly" guys though, usually because they have the alt aesthetic i like, nice hair, goofy smiles, brown eyes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 01:47 PM
6	The biggest reason dating & relationships are broken today is because men are comparing themselves to HOT men, mistaking how women interact with them as true measure of attraction, and giving up when their own experiences don't match I don't think this is really common tbh. And it's probably because as you get older, you realize things about yourself like "I never actually liked anal, I was just doing it because my ex pressured me and I felt like I had to the be the Cool Girl, I never want to do that again." It's not because she's not attracted to you, it's probably because she never liked those things but felt like she had to do them. Actually, I can't relate to this mindset at all. Like I see men say that they'll only eat …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 01:30 PM
1	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 https://np.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1ku5jd0/is_it_normal_or_worrying_if_56m_husband_lusts/ I think it's funny that men worry about "alpha widows" and AFBB and their wives missing Chad's dick, when it's normalized for men to ogle and fantasize about and lust after 18 year old girls? Women are expected to tolerate men watching barely legal teen porn, do you think men would be fine with their wives watching young hot teen big dick stud porn, leering at shirtless young guys and commenting …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 12:25 AM
149	Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”? I am against casual sex but here are the reasons I have heard. Breaking free of purity culture. If you were raised in a religion that told you your only worth is in your virginity, you can rebel against that and define your worth however you want. You find out what you like. You find out what kind of men you like, what kind of sex you like, how to advocate safe sex and boundaries for yourself. Healing. If you were in a bad relationship and having loveless bad sex for a long time, it can feel hea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 11:51 PM
1	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD some women are shallow, some men are shallow. that doesn't mean everyone is. and there is a lot of other reasons why a woman would stay with a shitty man besides his apperance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 07:19 PM
1	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 that was a picture of her when she was 18 though iirc	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 07:17 PM
3	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Any amount is a scary amount. But with the popularity of barely legal and teen porn, schoolgirl outfits, even Girl Scout outfits... yikes. They don't care about girls as people and the trauma it inflicts, just sexual objects :( One in 10 Australian men report having sexual interactions with under-18s, study finds. UNSW study finds nearly one in six men over the age of 18 had sexual feelings towards under-18s. https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2023/nov/20/child-sexual-abuse-study-finds-9…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 07:16 PM
1	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 I'm not attracted to him, I could only see the appeal when he played Oberyn in Gane of Thrones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 09:55 AM
6	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 I'm a feminist and shit like that makes me cringe precisely because having sex doesn't have anything to do with how good of a person you are. Actually, 90% of these No Kings protest signs make me cringe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 09:53 AM
1	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 ...why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 09:51 AM
0	The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk away I thought men were the gatekeepers of relationships? Women are scared of being cheated on, traded in for a younger model, and dumped too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 09:28 AM
3	The belief that femininity is inherently submissive simply doesn’t align with reality (or even history), and is bad for society as a whole it's men that are obsessed with hierarchies and dominance and submission, even towards each other. look at prisons and gangs. it's deeply pathetic. there is nothing inherently submissive about any human being and heterosexuality isn't either. the agricultural revolution and religion had a lot to be blamed for. women by nature being in control of reproduction makes men want to control us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 08:22 AM