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| 0 | Why did girls dislike me for no reason in highschool ? And could this be why a good amount of girls reject me now?The reason is entirely you got played for a fool and had no ability to make the girls feel good so they flocked elsewhere. You basically got played for a chump while other guys controlled the girls. The girls you’ll end up getting will be outliers to this weird cliquey group think that will always keep you at a distance no matter what you do until you find joy or happiness within yourself. They’re weird just focus on yourself and your life. It’s just human behavior and will always occur around i… | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Attempted to flirt with girl at amusement park, friends started teasing me, so I got shy and stopped.Your first mistake was deflecting, own up to it. And there’s nothing wrong with ribbing on each other if it’s mutually allowed when they do it. It’s only messed up if they get mad when you tease them | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person?It’s not weird, but tip the bar staff if you only order water, don’t make staff hate you | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person?A lot of guys create a tunnel and gaslight girls to rely on them, that’s the majority of guys. It really depends on how much lame integrity you have as a person. But it’s also how people keep their positions in jobs. It really just depends on your integrity | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to play the game to win?I like your take on it, it’s for both people to have a good time. I sometimes get annoyed when immature guys try to amog because they lack the skills to talk to girls. Definitely need better fathers | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Do I have to play the game to win?Nah you’re not playing a game, it’s just the act of testing value and boundaries, it’s what children do or immature people. Not every girl is perfect for you but you shouldn’t be completely shutout from feeling what your partner feels. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:24 AM |
| 4 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?Game just shows a girl you can play games. It attracts the similar type of girl. Some girls will pick up a weak guy who society wouldn’t accept and he’ll get saved. Others won’t get saved | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 09:12 PM |
| 4 | Are 'average women' happy trying to lock down a guy out of their league?Would i be happy holding mila kunis hand while she goes down on her bf yeah maybe but not long term | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you thinklife begins when you make it begin. Stop this bs feel good stuff it’s false. When you start working life starts working for you | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Any tips on not getting a blank head when talking to women?Say whatever’s in your head. Don’t hold it in. Even if it’s the corniest joke you can think of | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:07 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approach is BrutalInstead of going for day game try something more social and accepted. Tons of people go around asking to promote what ever campus activity or club they’re trying to promote. Don’t make a rejection look like a rejection to others watching. That will attract bad attention. Even if they forget you a week from now, and if you hit on a sorority girl you might get incredibly bad luck. she’s going to gossip about how you’re hitting on her if you’re uncalibrated and stand out in a bad way | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Being A Pick-Up Newbie Is Fun!Well in theory you’re always a newbie the first 5 seconds of an interaction because the girl has no way of knowing if you’ve been with 0 girls or 200, lol sry if it sounds like a “well akshually” post | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Cold approached 500 girls statisticsidk seems kinda sus. Are you selling something? because you dissed rsd and pickup coaches. I don’t think they’re terrible they definitely would help some guys but nice job having the proactive ness and energy to do that much work | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:46 AM |
| 3 | women put on cold front in clubstrue if you just be normal you get 500x more girls or even just be friends with them and get into 500 more places | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever shown interest in you first?She was a cheerleader who was way more popular than I was, I just stood out. I hadn’t even talked to her before she messaged me. Granted I never really got that lucky again with so little effort and after the hookup we didn’t talk in person and only texted. It was kind of fun, but it was a secret thing. One of our intro classes had us add all our socials so everyone had everyone else’s FBs, back in 2010’s | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:11 AM |
| 8 | I got a hot girlfriend, and you can too!God this is so long.. but it’s very good information.. audiobook form? | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Has a woman ever shown interest in you first?I had a girl in my college class message me on fb about needing help with a paper, so she just wanted the D basically Most are very indirect and only a few have said I was cute before ever talking to them first. Most girls are very coy about interest in the off chance you turn out to be a loser neet and it ruins their social standing so their friends don’t bother them with “omg you liked HIM!” So basically don’t be anti social and even if you’re shy or not interested atleast be a nice person Als… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?I did it to one up random guys when we bragged. Kinda sad but lol | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | You attract what you are. Become the type of person that you want to be with.Well you don’t want to get caught in a time wasting game. These don’t sound like the girls you want to have around | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 09:28 PM |
| 0 | You attract what you are. Become the type of person that you want to be with.I’d laugh but you’re digging yourself into a ditch with that mentality. Being attractive doesn’t mean girls run up to you, they are like cats. They hover near you and pay attention to what you’re doing for a few minutes. If you say hi with a booming voice they’ll scatter or come on too strong they’ll sit on a pedestal and ask what you want, you don’t want that. You have to kind of link up with how they’re feeling. You’re probably just not seeing their signs of how they non verbally communicate | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | I got her in bed with me but my dick couldn't get up. She's still down, what do I do?lol whiskey dick. I had that in a threesome. Well it would’ve been but it was pretty embarrassing. Safe to say i never got a threesome from them after that | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 08:04 PM |
| 0 | I think asking women out on a "date" lowers your chances. Here's what I learned to do.Yeah you should always have a party going, doesn’t have to be a real party, but it’s your party. You’ll have it whether this girl or guy is coming to it or not. Sounds like you kinda got lucky and got picked, lol | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Should I break up with my 10?Your typing has me on the floor lmao but you have a solid point op should probably follow. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | I graduated from high school as a virgin. I never even kissed a girl. I have so much regret and bitterness over missing out on sex and romance as a teenager. is it any fun as a grown ass man?Eh i never wanted to date and i wasn’t a player in teen years. I mean i was but i hid it. i preferred to sit in a dark room and play video games and pvp. There was a few i liked but they were always dating really vanilla it wasn’t my type. I just let the years pass by sleeping around occasionally without finding anyone of substance. I’m pretty shallow | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 08:21 AM |
| 7 | For guys who are in 40-60s, are you guys still getting laid?Today is your golden year should be the motto. Now not tomorrow. If you don’t work out and eat right you won’t make it to 40 without being the butt of everyone’s jokes lol | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 08:08 AM |
| 1 | For guys who are in 40-60s, are you guys still getting laid?Ain’t that the truth:/ | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 08:06 AM |
| 3 | Has anybody here successfully transitioned themselves into chick magnet?You’ve encouraged me to never think about anyone other than myself thanks. Fuck you other people! I only care about myself now! | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | If girls see that other girls they know/associate with are interested in a guy then they themselves will be interested in that guy (not always but I’d say frequently) even if they initially did not think that guy was attractive themselvesGud point | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:20 AM |
| 3 | How are serious are you when interacting with women?Don’t be serious unless she’s serious and is seeing if you’re trustworthy then you can chill and just shutup and let her talk and take her wherever. Bc she trusts you Right? | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | What 99% of you actually need to experienceEven if you experience it you can lose it and forget. Spinning plates is a constant effort like going to work . You can’t just spend the same plates forever, you have to get new ones. Even with abundance you will lose some. But good point, you should have abundance in any area | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:24 AM |
| 20 | no teasing or push/pullOkay but i’m trying to catch cats not fish | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Man, if you don't pull that SAME night, you'll never see her again.you really have to sort your emotions out to give a girl every thing she wants because it isn’t easy in this logical world | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 05:26 PM |
| 5 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"I think it’s true, most girls will cheat. If you get possessive she’ll cheat. If your ego is attached to having her, she’s gone and with another guy then he’ll tool you. Live freely and don’t let any girl play you and don’t waste your time trying to play them, you’ll always lose | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | If someone ghosts you, it’s not because they are intimidated by you, or they don’t have time for a personal life. They’re simply not interested. Don’t let your ego get in the way of seeing reality for what it isTrue | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls come back to my place but leave instantly?Ah i’ve never heard that last part before i like it | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | I'm 20 years old and I have been with 59 womenhow sad lying for male validation 🤮 | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 02:14 AM |
| 0 | Wear your rejections as medals of honorWear any failure as a medal of honor. Some people are just awkward after working in doors alone all day, shrug it off | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Tinder’s Algorithm is a scamNo different than any coach/instructor/guide profiting off people who need help. Stringing them along | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with womens fuckery?some girls (people) only want attention and validation. like the people who farm karma on reddit | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Went out alone to the club for the first time - got beaten by social anxietyNice | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Underrated tips that will double your successYou are in a frat and get hot girls don’t you.. you dog you also sadly i’ve rejected many invites to places and the well dried up | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Cold approach at a nightclubthere are a lot of guys who go out but take like 100 average guys, realistically only about 10 are in a high enough headspace to talk to the average girl, the rest are sleeping or swiping on tinder or watching tv with their long term gf after work or school. i think something like 20% of guys hadn’t had sex in a year after covid according to some study so bottom 20% are below norm social skills | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Cold approach at a nightclubThere’s no harm in faking it to make it aslong as you don’t push that fakeness too far. It’s like walking into a new class the first day after summer. Everyone is excited or nervous at first and you kind of pretend to make a good impression. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Who should send the first message?I usually just follow the buyer seller flow until i can gauge her real value then tone it down | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 02:48 AM |
| 8 | Cold approach at a nightclubGood job mate, you’re winning for just going out a lot of guys can’t even get dressed to walk out the door | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 02:46 AM |
| 2 | UPDATE... On the cringy-ass note I left for my cougar neighborAtleast when i was cringy i was 13 and wrote an anonymous poem to atleast gauge reaction good luck 👍 😉 I mean i’m still cringy but atleast you didn’t chicken out | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I want to get over female validation, but this whole “build a better life” shit is hard as fuck.Hey i’m going to be honest it’s easier to be a pos slob and leech off attractive girls for societal validation while pushing them down your life would even be happier because it’s less work but be honest with yourself, you’ll always have that empty feeling that you’re not doing what you should that you were taught, like you’d be letting yourself down. If you’re reading this saying wtf i don’t feel that then fair enough you’re just not getting invited to my bday party. We’re renting a pony. But o… | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 10:27 PM |
| 3 | When a woman likes a man, she gives him a window of time for him to make something happenI always get lazy and just not want to go out | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | After MONTHS of being a scared little bi*ch I finally did my first direct approach! I feel like on top of the world :Dnice man | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girlsI’m not getting girls because i got lazy and am kind of a hermit rn but i have! I-I p-promise guys! | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsthe amount of times I go through interactions with girls not really feeling the chemistry until I find one I do and still not get. You just get used to it like breathing you don’t waste your time keeping track. Don’t worry about rejections in a big area. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 09:34 AM |
| 7 | Girls want you to take action!!True, with practice or general awareness you can see who’s a good fit for you too and just living your life relaxed | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Girls want you to take action!!True | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Asked her out, she said yes and left me on seen immediately after, what do now?Welcome to the game, or she got kidnapped:O | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 03:20 PM |
| 40 | How to get dates with Hinge and Bumble37 is still young bro. Maybe not freshman in college young but you still have 30 years of partying to go. ;) Then you might need to bring your walker ;) | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 03:16 PM |
| -1 | Took a PUA bootcamp but it didn't change anythingi see what you’re saying but i mean what would they be doing? sure they could be at a party of attractive people every night but that gets dull so let’s say 10 who are very good at something atleast 1 goes on to teach? | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 10:59 AM |
| 0 | Took a PUA bootcamp but it didn't change anythingI agree 50% I think some are scams you just have to find the right person | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 04:23 AM |
| 0 | Took a PUA bootcamp but it didn't change anythingI mean every guy has different styles and levels of game. If you don’t want to learn yourself and try a different route understand it might take time to find a teacher who can fit your needs. It’s a road not an instant pill. Gl | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 04:22 AM |
| 5 | thanks rseductionthis analogy cracks me up | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 04:45 AM |
| 3 | thanks rseductionnice man | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Successfully cured my oneitis, and now instead I can't commit and get bored of people easilykek welcome to the club, just learn to appreciate others and life more. isn’t instant you learn understanding | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 08:46 AM |
| 1 | A stranger I met gave the perfect analogy on how to attract women: "Women are like fish. Make a net. A strong one. As good as you can make it. She'll swim until she becomes curious, and once she's caught in your embrace, she's all yours."I think that’s a good way to do it but it’s only one way. You could also go spear fishing but it requires more effort and gets less fish. But you still don’t starve so | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 08:56 AM |
| 1 | I have never seem a guy spit game like thisI knew a very friendly guy who was similar very relaxed and talked in a way like he cared those are what stuck out | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Want to get laid fast? The easiest way to attract your local ladiesYeah i’d say arms and shoulders are the main things girls see. 6 packs are what middle school girls drool over.. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 07:15 AM |
| 10 | He who hesitates, masturbates. Doubting yourself is the quickest way to instill doubt in another person.If you like a girl text her now to hangout don’t wait for some right time you’re playing yourself stop | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Social proof without much effort just clever prepwhat’s the point of lying for internet validation? | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 12:20 PM |
| 3 | approaching two girls and a guy went mehI would’ve been like sure, let me get all of yours, then get the girls phone and put the guys number in and be like “ here’s this other number of a guy who’s pretty cool but i don’t know if he’s into girls” lol | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Things are finally workingsalad | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | A trick I've found works great for getting womenThis is a cringe shitpost lmao | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 10:04 PM |
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