blackoxymoron Archive

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1	How can I meet someone in real life? Lol you definitely a feminine male... Cant even disrespect the word man and label you with it. And i didn't start it, you opened that box. And like how real man are, imma finish it. Wonder what havard has to do with you not addressing the arguments, if havard teaches you to attack people rather than their arguments, then no wonder havard is producing feminine men who when push comes to. Shove cry and clinch their Starbucks cups. And sexism meana discrimination against 1 sex over another, nowhere…	/r/seduction	16/05/21 06:31 AM
2	How can I meet someone in real life? Dude where did i say alpha or beta? I said real. Masculine men and feminine men, beta and alpha is a millennial term, so im not you, You not focusing on my points but rather attack and defame my character... Thats a a feminine thing to do, a real man if he disagrees with people critics or attacks the points not the person. Looks like you the "beta" Next time when you disagree witg people rather focus on their arguments not attack them... And why judge me when you have zero idea who i am lol. Lik…	/r/seduction	16/05/21 06:02 AM
2	How can I meet someone in real life? My lady in the 21st century most women arw unhappy, most men are unhappy, there is a 50q divorce rate, most people have social or psychological issues... Compared to the 20th centuries and older, yes they definitely were better then us...tell me again how you think at 80 you ge happy in marriage? By the stats you more likely to end up divorced, unhappy and diagnosed with a condition. And its because you have an idealistic unrealistic view of life. My lady be grounded and realistic. Its no happin…	/r/seduction	15/05/21 10:30 PM
1	How can I meet someone in real life? No, you don't need to be friends to have a great relationship, it's about realising and accepting your roles in your relationship. Thats why older generations had long lasting relationships compared to our parents and later, generations, thats why divorce rates are high. You women are confused, because you been lied to by Hollywood, serious long term relationships are not built on friendship.. They built on duty, mutual respect and understanding. Not whether you friends. Despite the propaganda, …	/r/seduction	15/05/21 10:19 PM
0	How can I meet someone in real life? Lol good guys... oh sweet summer child... You be bored or friend zone em	/r/seduction	15/05/21 10:04 PM
0	How can I meet someone in real life? My lady its your choice, im just telling you a fact, if you want to dismiss my advice, so be it. Think men want friendship when seeking a partner? Lol i pity you if that's how you see men. And like i said, men don't like to play around wasting their time being friends first, cause most women do that because they just want ego boost and waste time. Men that are seeking relationships be it casual or serious, want to get to the point, if sexual chemistry isn't important to you, its important to men…	/r/seduction	15/05/21 09:56 PM
-1	How can I meet someone in real life? Im telling you from a male's point of view... Its your choice to accept the info or not Real masculine men prefer natural no make up look. Coz thats the face they will see and get use to. Gym, is easy, coz whilst you work out, if you see a cute guy ask him to spot you whilst you squat or whatever, just an excuse to build chemistry. And guys get sexual real quick to see if you gonna friend zone and if you a tease whose time wasting.you must understand, your female counter parts use men as an ego …	/r/seduction	15/05/21 09:28 PM
3	How to talk to girl who wants my attention It does not matter, what matters you learning to approach and asking ladies out, and if she rejects you, you learn how to experience rejection.	/r/seduction	15/05/21 09:21 PM
4	How can I meet someone in real life? Get rid of make up if you want authentic men... Go to areas and social places where men you prefer would likely attend. How often you gym? Hows your body language? Are you even approachable? Don't judge men so quickly, try giving them a chance when they do approach you and judge them after a date rather.	/r/seduction	15/05/21 08:49 PM
1	How to talk to girl who wants my attention Ask her out dude, whats the delay?	/r/seduction	15/05/21 08:40 PM
5	Getting over college regrets and being a kissless virgin post college How about stop chasing women focus on you, be a high value man, news flash a mana peak is from age 40... So between then and now, you forget women, remain a virgin and learn 1) how to become high value by learning valuable skills that will increase your network and networth 2) person mastery (this takes years) You should bw focusing 90 to 95% of your time on personal mastery and building your network and networth. Women will naturally come to you and chase you. The down side to this is obviously…	/r/seduction	15/05/21 08:38 PM
1	Ryan Gosling shows how to be a Confident Man and Succeed with Women Lol your youtu.be clip doesn't show nothing, ita Hollywood smoke and mirrors, it's not how reality works	/r/seduction	15/05/21 08:31 PM
1	The "don't shit where you eat" rule Don't ever break the rule, believe me, don't participate, your dick ia trying to play games with you, remains focused and do not let temptation over come you exercise dick discipline, thats the difference between strong men and weak men. Learn to have enough supplies elsewhere to not make you think of work females as options. You on that scarcity mindset. My suggestion to you my good human is, find another watering hole outside of work.	/r/seduction	15/05/21 08:27 PM
2	Went to a protest. Talked to 3 people. Felt so overwhelmed Forget that, don't measure how long it took, my time definitely not good to compare because its not gaurenteed you will have the same time. What is important is that this journey is never ending.	/r/seduction	15/05/21 08:09 PM
1	Went to a protest. Talked to 3 people. Felt so overwhelmed It took me a long journey of self discovery of knowing the true self, knowing every deep dark corner of my soul to finally have real confidence in myself. Once i had inner confidence i started to practice, o had severe approach anxiety, i also made an effort to seek out mentors who are better than me to teach me(at no cost) how to be a better man, learned that focusing on my life goals and not chasing women meant women chased me and as i interacted more and more with women i learned their nature…	/r/seduction	15/05/21 07:08 PM
2	Went to a protest. Talked to 3 people. Felt so overwhelmed It took me a long journey of self discovery of knowing the true self, knowing every deep dark corner of my soul to finally have real confidence in myself. Once i had inner confidence i started to practice, o had severe approach anxiety, i also made an effort to seek out mentors who are better than me to teach me(at no cost) how to be a better man, learned that focusing on my life goals and not chasing women meant women chased me and as i interacted more and more with women i learned their nature…	/r/seduction	15/05/21 07:08 PM
1	Account #16. (My first attempt at day game). Wow wtf.. Lol my brother, you putting too much emphasise on this, its not that deep, relax and focus on you more, stop chasing, and let women chase you, its much easier that way.. Im not saying being skilled at day game is bad, rather, be strategic, you want 10s chasing you or you wanna forever chase basic bitches who over value themselves?	/r/seduction	15/05/21 06:38 PM
1	How witty and original do introductions need to be? Dont need to be witty and or original, it needs to be relevant and memorable... For example, if i see an uptight looking lady with a bitch resting face, i will just say to her "how often do guys approach you cause that bitch resting face you got no matter how sexy you look, is a deadly"... Point of the opener is to open a discussion about her, and im showing im not focused on her physically but rather wanna know her..	/r/seduction	15/05/21 06:34 PM
2	Went to a protest. Talked to 3 people. Felt so overwhelmed Sure bro	/r/seduction	15/05/21 06:25 PM
8	How did you increase your confidence to approach people? My good human first step to have unshakeable confidence... Know yourself, have a deep thorough dive at your soul(personal mastery) cause that leads you to truly know your strengths and weaknesses, with that, you know how to conduct yourself and how to deal with people. Its a mastery thru trial and error process and don't let the bad days get you down indefinitely, you cant always have highs. Once you have a good grasp of yourself, then you can dress appropriately, have a hair cut that works for …	/r/seduction	15/05/21 06:25 PM
2	Went to a protest. Talked to 3 people. Felt so overwhelmed Only a pleasure mate, i know how approach anxiety can hit you hard especially when you by yourself, like you it took many attempts to finally be comfortable with being by myself when i go out and approach people. Im now a "natural" lol	/r/seduction	15/05/21 06:15 PM
12	Went to a protest. Talked to 3 people. Felt so overwhelmed Ok, that's good then, its a start, now you know your minimum... 3 people, next time make it 4.	/r/seduction	15/05/21 06:12 PM
8	FOMO on casual sex at its easiest point to get in my life, but I don't know if that's what I want Dude, you clearly don't know yourself, please forget women completely and first and foremost, figure yourself out, you see once you done a thorough deep dive of personal mastery, you won't 1) feel lonely and unsure as you show 2) you will be content being home and no need to go out 3) when you do go out, you can socialise no problem and sex will not be an issue and can have a clean platonic interaction with females and i dare say you can actually grow your network abd those party girls might int…	/r/seduction	15/05/21 06:11 PM
12	Went to a protest. Talked to 3 people. Felt so overwhelmed Good for you, are you suffering from anxiety? I just wanna understand the context	/r/seduction	15/05/21 05:59 PM
3	Weird interaction I am having You wrong	/r/seduction	15/05/21 05:57 PM
1	Weird interaction I am having Do you want a serious monogamous relationship or a casual relationship? Also. Never take anything a lady says as final in the context of dating, if you play your cards right you might get through to her and "change" her mind. Women whether consciously or subconsciously always have tests and hurdles for men to pass before she gives herself to him.	/r/seduction	15/05/21 05:57 PM
2	Which book help me to get laid? Also books to get laid are very misleading and usually out dated, hence im passionate about you not reading and thinking yoy can get laid, if you truly seeking books to help you be a person of action, read think abd grow rich, read dr Jordan Petersons 12 rules for life, read the book The Prince by Machiavelli also art of war... These books are about building confidence and having a plan of action. These books make you think strategy thwn using your ball sack to think.	/r/seduction	17/03/21 09:48 AM
1	Detachment from rejection Think of it like sales pitch, you first build comfort with your prospect, after you build social clout that you are legit and a good guy, then you escalate by transition to the actual sale pitch and then see if your prospect bites, So how do you transition? It starts from your very first conversation, every topic, every word, sentence and info you talk about must be structured to transition to the sales pitch(asking them out), Hope im being clear, so whatever you talk about ensure you cab make i…	/r/seduction	17/03/21 09:14 AM
2	Which book help me to get laid? Lol when i say research i mean GO OUT TO THE REAL WORLD AND TAKE ACTION, theory is not helpful, believe me, i use to read a lot and none of it helped, only when i actually practiced and took action did i get lucky, and at first you fail a lot.	/r/seduction	17/03/21 09:04 AM
2	Which book help me to get laid? Its a long explanation which to be honest im lazy to go into. You need to research this for yourself. Anyways to get you started let me put it like this: 1) stop being hyper sexual, like i said this says to ladies you thirsty and even if the lady is attracted to you, she will not give you any because of your vibe of being a hyper sexual human. 2) when i say dont seek sex, i also mean rather go for the person you like not for sex. But other things be it companionship, etc, that person will not fe…	/r/seduction	17/03/21 08:58 AM
2	How to stop second guessing everything you say and do when you’re around a cute girl? Dude, your indecisive nature is your issue, its not about second guessing, we all go thru moments of doubt. Its how you act! Despite your feelings of doubt, basically choose your approach, even if later on proves tp be bad or good, stick to your game plan. So if you wanna come out guns blazing, stick with it, thats how girls pick up on your confidence, seeing that despite issues you still APPEAR sure of yourself and aporoach. As soon as you cower and turn around, your confidence image with your …	/r/seduction	17/03/21 08:30 AM
1	Which book help me to get laid? No book can ever get you laid... YOU GET YOURSELF LAID. Hope you get that, and stop seeking sex and being hypersexualized, it makes you creepy and from a mile away ladies will tell you thirsty. The funny thing is that, to get laid alot, you must not seek sex, you must do the opposite actually, but coupled with improving yourself and your charisma abd more importantly your social skills especially wity the gender you attracted to	/r/seduction	17/03/21 08:23 AM
5	What are some things that I can do to make the jump from a goofball to a natural charismatic? If you wanna oooz charisma you need to learn your audience, being a goofball is irrelevant, i say it as a former goofball(wellni still am)what i mean is, when the atmosphere calls to be comedic, don't make a complete fool of yourself, basically don't go full Steve Erkel, keep it at Cpt Jack Sparrow, never gp full Erkel... And limit your goofiness, and at moments where you have to not go full Erkel even if you wanna, swtich yout persona to be James Bond, again this is audience based, So read yout…	/r/seduction	17/03/21 08:20 AM
6	If your intention is to just be friends with benefits, how do you convey that right away so you dont waste time without sounding like a man whore? Its simple, your phrasing is important, so know your audience, if your audience is straight shooting, then be straight, if your audience is more sentimental etc, best to sweeten the phrasing but all in all you saying friends with benefits.	/r/seduction	17/03/21 08:15 AM
1	concern of texting first This is fair advice, ditto!	/r/seduction	17/03/21 08:13 AM
4	How do you get over one-itis Sounds like to me you need to heal first yourself before you date. No offence but at 42 you still showing a loy of immaturity and naivity in dating and relationships, so best to first sort that out. I suggest taking a break completely from datinf and work on you, see a therapist or go on a self mastery journey, whatever will work for you. You strike me as those dudes who need to first get their heads right coz if you accept life for what it is, as a man, you be more stoic in your mindset approac…	/r/seduction	17/03/21 08:11 AM
5	How do I completely mindfuck a man? This is toxic and not a sound thing to do, i would strongly recommend not going this route, please rather end things, call him out on it and move on with your life. This route you want to partake in is never good and never helps in making you a better person.	/r/seduction	17/03/21 08:07 AM