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If looks is mostly based on height, which I heard a lot, followed by beeing fat, then at least the first of the two is not universal, for a small women chances are you are not ugly because relatively to her you are still nice looking, but ugly for man is universal, and even tons of fat people have nice girls, I mean Kim Dotcom had 2 nice looking wifes and probably more women he did not marry. People like Steven Hawkins had wifes and women and sex till the end. Sumo ringers have wifes, they are f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:12 PM
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I can't quite follow your post. So you're saying that women are less shallow, because they will date balding men? Or what? Disagree with the looks, guys with fallen out hairs get women, show me a man that marries a women that has fallen out hair, yes I get that is less common. Serious balding (not just thin hair) is usually unattractive on everyone, but on average considered less so on men, because it's very common in men and thus pretty hard to avoid and more commonly seen and socially accepted…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:40 PM
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Liking someone's music doesn't make you scream in pure hysteria when you see them, or plaster their face all over your room or phone. Or watch their videos and interviews for hours on end, while writing comments underneath how they're killing you with their hotness, and how much they've ruined other men for you. Or make videos like this about them, like they do for Harry Styles (lmao @ the lyrics). Or these 2 examples for BTS: 1, 2. Look at the amount of views and read the comments. The thirst i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:23 PM
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Hot take: I think it comes from the fact that so many men ONLY value looks. Almost anything else does barely matter to a pretty big number of men. And those that do value other things, it's often very basic things like "don't be a total bitch", "don't be racist", "be very basically compatible to me". Such an astounding number of men would probably be happy if you just presented them with a "nice enough" looksmatch and said "here, she volunteers to be your girlfriend". I'm betting above 50%. Wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:54 PM
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I'm late but i want to give my 2 cents as a fellow lover of pretty men. I think for me at least (and I think a good amount of other women), a great jawline usually just means "low body fat" (and I guess not extremely recessed). I don't care much about a few more cm or inches of wideness in the jaw, as long as it's DEFINED. All of BTS for example have very defined jawlines because they're all at a very low bodyfat rate. A defined jaw is soooo important and it's why V or Jimin are often considered…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:25 PM
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Another aspect: despite what terps may claim, TRP is more of a power fantasy than an actual dating strategy. It's about giving followers a chance to imagine themselves as ultra-masculine alphas desired by women and -- vitally -- admired by other men. Women do love feminine men, but other men do not. Said it better than I ever could have! TRP men are not obsessed with being with women or becoming more attractive to women, they're obsessed with dominating women, and impressing other men (partially…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:03 PM
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And why are there not enough to go around? Because nature simply doesn't make men that way. And what do we call liking an unnatural appearance? A niche/fetish. Wouldn't it then make sense as a guy to try and fulfill that niche? If you know that it's very sought after but also very rare? Of course, you can't change your height and some of your basic features, but you can lose weight, get lean, maybe get a hair transplant and some minor facial surgery if needed. (Before you say anything, consider …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:00 PM
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Also you would think that if this was a genuine desire, that a large portion of women had. Men would try to be more feminine, but instead the opposite is true. No. I think the market is VERY CLEARLY there and has been for a very long time. But men are more interested in impressing other men than impressing women, so they prefer getting buff and swole and very masculine, even though there's such a huge open market for pretty feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:56 PM
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You gotta be joking. Those guys you mentioned will end up with a woman alright, but either she really likes him for his personality, which might have just as well happened if he wasn't famous (ugly guys in real life often do get married and have happy relationships, usually with also not very good looking women). Or he will get a golddigger, like Trump. Or a mix of both, someone who thinks he's nice and at least he also has money. What they likely won't get is a woman who literally drools at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:53 PM
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I said being rich and famous makes having a unique non traditionally attractive look attractive to women and without the rich and famous part they wouldn’t be attractive. That makes no sense. How do you think they got rich and famous? I'll explain it to you: because thousands of women and girls saw them and creamed their panties and then became their fans and bought their products. So, being hot (and talented, maybe interesting personalities etc) literally is what made them rich and famous. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:39 PM
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maybe just maybe their superstardom has much more to do with women swooning over them.. but hey i guess How do you think kpop stars got famous superstars? Because so many women see them, find them incredibly hot and then become fans and buy their stuff. How would it even work the other way around? Millions of women and girls just being their fan without any reason at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:36 PM
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To this day I have not met a single woman that actually likes feminine boys. Unless she was legit crazy and was a controlling type, because reality it, if your guy is feminine, then the woman is the one in control 9/10. That's like saying, if the guy is very masculine, he's the one in control 9/10. I mean, yeah, probably? But there's a pretty big subgroup of women who don't want the man to be in control, they either want control / power to be equal or switched, or they want to be more in control…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:33 PM
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Exactly, so it's the same for a 34 year old virgin vs. a 34 year old "slut" who slept with 300+ people. What social problems is this creating in your situation? I'm the only single person in my group of friends and family. Everyone's living with their partner, getting married, having children. They're spending most of their free time with their partner or new own family, and it's often their main topic of conversation. We can't really relate anymore, especially considering I'm a virgin who's nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 06:41 PM
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Women who have high N will always have had better than their long term partner (because she can always have casual sex with men better than she can have a relationship with). There's nothing the LTR guy can do about it. He's not deficient or insecure in anyway because she had better. That's how the world works. It's all dependent on the woman and her sluttiness. Women with high N are incompatible for serious LTRs. Men who have high N will always have had better than their long term partner (beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 02:34 PM
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What about women who rejected every commitment until they were 34? And then decided to get serious about settling down and are having some major dating difficulties. Are they not experiencing major consequences? How does it matter if she has high or low n count in that situation? I'm not quite at that age, but mostly in the same situation, I'm a very picky mentalcel female virgin. This is creating many social problems and problems for my (non-existent) dating life. If anything, I'd be better off…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 02:24 PM
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Exactly. A man with a high n-count might impress other men, but to most women (especially those with low n-count) it either doesn't matter to them or actively repulses them. I'm a female virgin and would NEVER be with a guy who had more than 5 sex partners. Honestly 3 is pushing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 02:19 PM
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(I know a lot less about the effects of promiscuity on men unfortunately- presumably because it is less dangerous and therefore less worthy of attention) No, because the men who conduct these studies are only obsessed with womens' promiscuity, not mens'. I've seen a couple studies where it indicated that it's exactly the same for both sexes, which makes perfect sense and also reflects what I see in reality. Why would a male slut / fuckboy suddenly become monogamous? How could his pair bonding po…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 01:51 PM
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Agreed on all counts. I happen to be straight (don't think we can choose that). But I also happen to be only attracted to "soft boys", submissive sexually and socially to their female partner, sensitive, can cry. I would assume most of the men I've liked have much lower testosterone than average. I'm a very "soft" high estrogen woman myself (much more sensitive and" "ofter" than the average woman), so I believe it's just natual. Even a low-T guy is MUCH more manly than me. An average or high T m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 01:40 PM
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There might be a crazy amount more misogyny, being as the men who’re holding their sexist thoughts and feelings back for fear of losing out on sex, will be free to let loose. And I fear that applies to a lot more men than even many radical feminist think it does. Well thanks for agreeing with us on that lol If you’re let’s say a 7 (numbering people based on attraction is gross I know, I know) you may get idk, 50 likes a day on Tinder. When every man can have sex with the girl of his dreams whene…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 12:59 PM
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What? A very large number of women (I would say a majority probably) will not have casual sex. Either ever, or almost ever (with theoretical exceptions made for their favorite actor or whatever). So it's exremely likely and a very everyday occurence that a guy will have a woman who would NEVER have casual sex with him, but might have a relationship with him and then have sex with him as part of that relationship. Unless you meant "if she's not at all sexually attracted to him, a relationship is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 12:53 PM
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How so? I mean I also have high empathy and I feel a very protective instinct towards those who need it and especially those who are weaker than me (children, old people, animals).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 06:42 PM
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I was referring to your saying "TONS of men in their 20s who were desperate practically beating on her metaphysical door", which makes it sound like she didn't choose any of them, didn't open the "door".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:37 AM
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Yeah, but couldn't those horny men choose literally any other women other than Jodi Arias, to obsess over? It doesn't make much sense to say "well she's a woman". Then why not write love letters to random women on tinder, or any random actress / artist / publisher / woman in the public eye? Why choose a specific murderer who's in prison? That's definitely a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:30 AM
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I don’t pretend to know what the allure is but it isn’t limited to a small segment of the female population. Why would you think that? Of course it is. Even something like K-Pop obsession is limited to a small segment of the female population, and that's something that has millions of fans. Just because a few ten, hundred or even thousand women have the hots for some serial killer, says literally nothing about women in general. That's like saying, because some men are pedophiles, it says somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:28 AM
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Cause I'm very socially anxious, like I said. All my university time was spent just walking alone, eating alone. Groups of people scare me. I have never once in my life been in a "club", maybe at 3 parties but always left before midnight. I'm pretty sure I have avoidant personality disorder which seems very common among "cat ladies" and their male equivalents (picture incels, but sad and timid instead of aggressive and frustrated). In before "yeah well that's a rare condition". It's not that rar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:22 AM
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Any woman can hop on OLD and fuck a man within an hour. I always find it so funny how RP / BP guys just assume things like this. It's so far away from the reality of older female virgins / cat ladies. Many of us still live with our parents in our late 20ies or 30ies, often taking care of parents, so no bringing a guy home "casually", and we would never risk going over to a guy on the first date, because of safety reasons. Plus many of us are super shy, and even talking to someone online / OLD is…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:13 AM
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lower partner count women are less likely to be cat ladies. Absolutely not. Lower partner count women (including actual 30+ year old virgins) ARE the cat ladies. I would know, because I am one, and can spot others a mile away usually. We're the ones who were never even asked out at prom, who were completely dedicated to work / university, friends and family in our 20ies. Maybe had a crush here or there or even a short relationship, but it didn't work out. We have rather low self esteem and are v…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:06 AM
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Sounds to me like you only know women with borderline personality disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 01:59 AM
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you are settling because their were TONS of men in their 20s who were desperate practically beating on her metaphysical door Doesn't it prove the opposite? If someone had suitors in her 20ies but declined them because they weren't right, but then finds the right one in her 30ies, it sounds like the opposite of settling. It sounds like having very high standards that just weren't met before, and waiting for the best or right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 01:57 AM
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There are plenty of 30+ women who have had 1-3 long term partner and nothing else. A woman like that would likely make for a much better choice because she can offer actual companionship, desire on her part and love, ideally at least. A sugarbaby offers none of that, it's just longer term prositution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 01:47 AM
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If you don't think there's a difference between being fucked in the ass by a man, with a manly musty body smell, manly pheromones, coarse skin, more body hair, deep manly voice and deep grunts .... and a woman (your girlfriend in this case), who smells like a woman, her long hair touches your back while pegging, she giggles and moans and talks with her higher pitched womanly voice, skin is much smoother .... then I don't know what to tell you. I don't believe any specific sex act is "gay". By yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 02:06 PM
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Really? So you'd be attracted to Patrick Bateman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 02:01 PM
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So it's not very different for men and women, that was my point. Someone who's slept around a lot will likely have messed up their pair bonding capabilities somewhat. And also they will have gotten used to all that variety and they know how easily they can (or at least, could) get it. So when the marriage hits a low point 10 years down the road, I believe they're much more likely to cheat than someone who never even considered casual sex as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 01:24 AM
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So when you have anal sex with a woman, you're also gay? Since you prefer an asshole to a vagina, and you're one step away from replacing that asshole with a guy's. Ass is ass, after all?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 12:46 AM
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Thanks ツ At least you admitted you like submissive, beta men. "At least" lol. You say it like it's a bad or shameful thing, and like sub / "beta" men are somehow "less". I see them as the only worthy men, because they don't constantly want to prove their role by being domineering. A man is already almost ALWAYS phyiscally stronger than his woman. In my opinion, a real man of worth acknowledges that and then makes it his goal to protect and serve his queen. He doesn't have to dominate a woman who…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 12:38 AM
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I'm a dominant female virgin, attracted to submissive male virgins. Since I was a young girl, I have fantasized of being with a soft but pretty man, making him cry and then comforting him, tying him up, being worshipped, having him be my knight. So no, I won't leave and cheat a guy who's "beta" or "passive". However, I would very quickly leave any guy who's trying to be dominant with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 09:37 PM
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real relationships doesn't exist, every relationship is transactional, i'm pretty sure men like Leo have best LTRs. Yeah that's all I need to know, no sense discussing this further. It's like speaking about colors to a blind person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 08:03 PM
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Do you realize that it makes no sense to recommend for girls to stay mostly chaste or LTR only, and recommend men to "fuck as much as possible"? Who are these guys supposed to have sex with, then? Other men? Also, you seem to strive for a relationship where the man is the dominant part, not least because you seem to think the man should always be older. If that's what you and your partner are into, good for you I guess, but that's definitely not everyone's cup of tea. Lastly: you apparently slep…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 08:00 PM
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Tbh almost none, which is why I'm femcel / volcel / mentalcel. 15 hours sounds good, but almost impossible when you have to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:44 PM
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But not in men? Funny how that's always left out of the conversation by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:39 PM
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most of the women aren't disgusted by this, they just feel jealousy, And I'm telling you that's not the case. Young girls and women themselves feel super disgusted by it. I know, because obviously I've been that kind of young woman not very long ago, and so were my friends. Whenever I was hit on by a visibly significantly (5+ years) older guy I would get very creeped out and scared, give out a wrong name and say anything to make him go away. Now that I'm older, I'm very relieved that I no longer…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:35 PM
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So you want to spread your sexual diseases (from fucking the sluts) to the poor prude? Your pair bonding is going to be completely messed up and you won't be able to lover her, because you're always gonna compare her to the wild sluts and be disappointed that she's not as exciting. Super bad deal for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:23 PM
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You assume that a female virgin would want to be "trained" by you. That's pretty gross and domineering tbh. Maybe you didn't mean it that way, but that's how it came across. The ideal partner for a female virgin is a male virgin. If the guy is experienced with other women, there is a power imbalance and he's gonna be worse at pair bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:20 PM
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I guess the closest analogy is would you rather go to Disneyland with someone who has never gone before so you guys can experience new and fun things together? Or do you wanna go to Disneyland with someone who has already been there with a ton of other guys before you? And you’re worried she’s gonna get bored of Disneyland while you’re still trying to take your time taking everything in, and even though she knows more about Disneyland than you, she still expects you to make sure she’s the one ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:18 PM
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Looks wise: height and good jaw, and the ability to grow a beard. Otherwise I like more feminine featuers in men (big prey eyes, slender body type, full and slightly longer hair, "delicate" face in general, softer voice, less body hair, etc.) Personality wise, I'm attracted to the following traits in men: high empathy, high intelligence, introversion, protective instinct towards me and others who are weaker (like children and animals), helper instinct, gentleness, having a soft and tender "core"…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:01 PM
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No, it disgusts us when we're young as well, even moreso. Whenever I was approached by grown ups as a teenager, or by 35+ year olds in my early 20ies, it disgusted me to my core. I have always on dating profiles looked at what age range he specifies. If I'm 25 and he's 30, and his preferred age range is stated as "18-25", I'm automatically disgusted, see him as a degenerate and would never engage him. Barring some complete exceptions where "true love" hits under rare conditions and they might ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:42 PM
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Are you trying to imply that you as a "male" don't consider 18-25 year olds youthful? GFTOH, pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:12 PM
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This is true mostly for women, women genuinely like cute things and want to take care of them, probably because it reminds them of human babies. I don't see vast swaths of men adoring Helly Kitty, cute egg yolk and chihuahuas. They like cute child-like anime girls because they want to fuck them, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:09 PM
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Normal male sexuality is disgusting. It doesn't care about anything but its own dick pleasure, it doesn't care about people as humans, doesn't care about love, often doesn't even care about consent, is domineering, is aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 03:42 PM
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Dude of course I would expect him to be monogamous, what kind of question is that. Ideally he'd also be a virgin, because I'm very grossed out by high-N-count men and men who can have sex without romantic feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 03:40 PM
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By "mentality of a beta", you mean someone that's not aggressive and sex-crazed and rather wants to get to know a future partner on a personal level? Someone who has personality requirements for a future partner and doesn't just want to bang them right away? Pleeeeease give me that beta man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 03:38 PM
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