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IDK, the wording is tough, contemptuous toward 'soy boys', cursing. It doesn't sound like something a sweetheart kind girl would write. All OPs comments ooze feminine charm, the text you wrote sounds like an in-your-face challenge, man to man. I read it and heard a mans voice in my head. I was succinct & honest, some women just are. Its a well know fact that the vast majority of women find weak men (soyboys) repulsive: not my personal contempt, just fact. I’m not cursing anyone by saying I want …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 05:15 PM
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I wouldn’t mention that it makes you feel bad that you don’t pay I've had very few men in my life who willingly wanted to pay, so I'd feel VERY happy if I had a man that wanted (of his own accord) to pay - the idea of feeling bad because he won't let me pay is absurd!
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/19 12:12 PM
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Save yourself and save your future children the bother - get out, now. Its not your job to fix him or save him. He has serious issues and needs professional help. But he must be ready and willing to try to change. You are not helping him by staying, if anything you are making it worse because he will just carry on, because he can.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 10:54 AM
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Exactly. Never listen to anyone who tells you that you are being silly when you make it a priority not to waste your precious time. Time lost can never be recovered.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/18 11:49 AM
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Well I’m a bastard too, so I know how it feels! You’re right, its important to look at each individual, and take them as they come, or not. The important thing is to actually be aware, and not ignore red flags or make excuses for someone.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/18 03:15 PM
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This was a really sweet thing to share, thanks. I too have always been frugal with my money and have never had car. ​ What I really like about your story is that you didn't have to ask him to do what he did. It just goes to show, when a man means it he will say it with his actions, not his words. ​
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 10:59 AM
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You’re right about it being a green flag if and when people rise above difficult circumstances. I always say the ultimate university is the university of life. Its also a good point that an involved shit father can cause as much and even more damage than an absent father.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 10:55 AM
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I will explore this, thanks for the idea.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 09:19 PM
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Thank you for sharing such an in-depth and insightful response. The story of both your father and your husband rising above their childhood setbacks is really inspirational - it shows what can be accomplished when a person is dedicated to creating the life that they want to live. I agree that the absent father thing can be looked at as a yellow flag, as different people can have varying responses to the same situation. For some it becomes a character building experience as they strive to be ever…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 09:02 PM
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The special forces people and high ranking ones I have known and met in my life were always top tier men. I might like to try one of those! I don't suppose there are a lot about.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 08:36 PM
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I’m curios what you mean when you say you ‘never feel quite man enough’. Do you mean you lack confidence and self-belief? In what ways does being OCD and narcissistic show up in your life? Why do you suppose you have such a massive fear of failure? Do you have a sense of ‘not being good enough,’ but feel your hiding it behind a mask of pseudo confidence? Do you have a fear of being ‘found out.’? ​ My father was never in my life and on top of that my mother was not emotionally available, supporti…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 06:33 PM
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So men who have served in the army are likely to make good potential life partners?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 06:17 PM
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It’s good for you to look at his mother from the angle that she's had a hard life. I try and do the same with my mother, because some of her past (and current) behaviour is rather nutty! What I mean is we mustn't take their loonie ways as a personal affront. There must be something that happened to them in their past thats made them nutty. ​ Sorry to hear your mum had some rough patches when you where a kid. My mum was as I mentioned before unhinged, so I know how tough it can be. Maybe to get s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 06:15 PM
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It sounds like your partners sister is the ‘Golden Child’ in the family. The favourite. My mother has done the same thing with my brother, and literally treats me as an afterthought so I know the feeling. I think parents who play favourites have some unresolved issues stemming from their childhood and their dysfunctional relationship with their own parents. Their playing crap out in their head and projecting it onto their kids. ​ For most of us the impact of our parenting is of course longterm, …
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 10:27 AM
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So much of those statistics could be reduced if people would just wake up and use their common sense. I don’t condone the single mother by choice movement or the same sex ‘love is love’ ‘kids just need two loving parents,’ crap. Children obviously NEED their mother and their father actively involved in their life.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 09:02 AM
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I would say that strong family ties are an important foundation for a child to grow up in a balanced manner, but obviously we don't get to choose our family so we all have to do the best with what we get. I never knew or had any relationship with my father and it made me very determined to be conscious about the man I might choose to be my child’s father, should I ever be in a position to do so. So like you husband I learnt from my parents what not to do and their catastrophic fuck-up is motivat…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 08:53 AM
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Thank you for the book recommendations. They both seem like good reads. Its interesting that the intro to The Way of Men says that ‘for decades, people have been talking about a crisis of masculinity,’. I’d thought that this was a fairly recent phenomenon, but now that I come to think of it I can recall seeing not just young men, but men who are middle aged and older who come across as ‘femininized’. Its obviously a rather deep and ongoing issue. The point Marsden makes about it being difficult …
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 08:22 AM
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Its interesting that you notice some men have recked emotions when they haven't bonded with their dad. I was thinking the same thing about my friend who was abandoned by his dad. But of course the difference is that boys are socially forced to bottle up their emotions, that must make it harder for them.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 05:27 AM
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I had to cut and paste this. thanks
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 08:55 AM
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This shit is funny. (I played one of the 3 wise men in the school play)
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 07:47 PM
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Perhaps not, since you have to ask.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 07:26 PM
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Intelligent people reflect on life, this I think is ok, no?
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 07:05 PM
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Chess cafes are going to have a bunch of dudes Thats why I like them!
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:48 PM
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What TRP does is use women's nature to their advantage This is a fair point. After all, life is a competition.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:48 PM
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Exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:46 PM
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Not a complaint, a reflection.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:44 PM
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A woman should seek the #1 type Yes, thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:36 PM
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Oh I think we should get married and write a song about it!! Really! I produce too, a little in Pro Tools, some in Ableton, but mostly in Logic - do you think we’re compatible?! I like syncopation. How about you? And I love the minor scale, so ‘sad’ but strangely uplifting at the same time. Harmonic minor is my fav, what about you?! But seriously if young women ‘like being treated like crap,’ then clearly they have issues. We all know there’s a generation of girls with ‘daddy issues,’. The curre…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:26 PM
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Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:14 PM
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As others have said the current state of affairs isn't working for either sex. So maybe its not about who is at fault, but that we, men and women, need to come together and fix this shit.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:13 PM
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people are selfish Swallowing TRP has made me see that life is indeed not fair. You know what they say, ‘if you can’t beat em,…’
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:10 PM
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Sorry if you misundertand/misread me, but thanks anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:06 PM
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To hear that there are men with brains and reasoning power is reassuring, so thank you for that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:05 PM
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As I mentioned I LIKE reading TRP because I find it educational and informative. I also appreciate that its given me an insight into minds that I would otherwise have never had access to. There are no pearls in my vicinity.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 06:02 PM
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What is it you want to understand? I’m saying men lying to women to use them for sex is tacky.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 05:58 PM
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He is really hurting other man Exactly. But people just don't care, do they?
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 05:56 PM
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Men are practical Fair enough. Actually I think its important for women to be practical too, like ‘when they speak listen, when they behave believe.’ Actions speak louder than words for everyone, men and women. ​
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 05:55 PM
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Its an important distinction. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 05:51 PM
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‘women tend to like assholes’ This just isn't true. No woman in her right mind is attracted to and wants an asshole in her life. I want a man who is sane, balanced, kind, sincere, and loving - does that sound like an asshole? ​ Perhaps if you rephrase it as ‘unbalanced women tend to like assholes’ it might explain why the men who pursue such women feel unsatisfied. Would it help if they avoided the party girls and instead focused on the humble down to earth ‘homely’ ladies? Like why do they alwa…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 05:49 PM
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‘they have a much deeper appreciation for good women,’ The posts I’ve read where they refer to women as ‘getting pussy, getting your dick wet, and bitches’ didn’t leave me with the impression that they where looking for ‘good women’. But I appreciate that we all, men and women, need to swallow the red pill and keep off the love-goggles. ​ ‘They realise there are exceptions,’ When they say AWALT I had the impression that they mean it literally, which I find disconcerting because I know for a fact…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 05:33 PM
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Women getting sex easily is NOT a good thing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 05:29 PM
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Its tacky. And cheap.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 05:27 PM
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Yes, I am a good woman! Thank you. But they seem so deeply entrenched in their misguided belief system that I rather doubt they would believe I am a simple woman who wants a good man in her life to build a family with. They keep saying there is no such thing as a unicorn - then I must be a unicorn!
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 05:26 PM
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I’m apprehensive because I’ve had 3 men lie to me and tell that they wanted to have marriage and children, when all they wanted was cheap thrills.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 05:23 PM
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I’ll remember to consider that perspective: they are bitter because they are rejected. I too have had my fair share of rejection, so I do know how it feels. Cheers.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 01:51 PM
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‘Take what you need and throw the rest away’ Yes. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 01:22 PM
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As a woman I’ve also had to reset my thinking. I’ve also gone through stages of anger and grief. I was shocked when I had the realisation that the Disney fantasy I’d been indoctrinated into all my life is complete bull shit. I grew up watching things like Sex and the City and believed all of that nonsense about free love, and Mr Perfect will just come along - its been a bitter pill for me to swallow. We all have to swallow the Red Pill. ​ Its nice to hear that someone like you came through the a…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 01:21 PM
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I would like good sex, WITH a good man! The 2 are not separate to me.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 01:16 PM
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Thats a fair enough way to look at it, but I find it ironic that these people who have been hurt then insist on going out and hurting other people.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 01:16 PM
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You are right, and its a good idea to remind myself, that not all men are like that. ​
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 01:15 PM
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I will think about this, thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 10:39 AM
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I hadn't realised that TRP wasn't allowed to be mentioned on this site, thanks for telling me. ​ You’re right about it being self selecting for a particular type of man. I’m interested in hearing your opinion, perhaps you can send it directly to me is you’re not allowed to write it on this message board. ​ Thanks anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 09:31 AM
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You're right.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/18 07:32 PM
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I was raised by a single mother, so I’ve seen first hand the damage it causes. I just don't understand why we have a society that seems to encourage the disenfranchisement of men in the family (& society as a whole). And why so many women seem almost happy to raise their sons as feminized pansies - do they not see the damage that they are doing? If I ever had a son it would be my pride and joy, and my greatest life’s work to raise him to be a fine, upstanding (masculine) MAN. I like your suggest…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 08:07 PM
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Listening to my instinct is a great idea. Thank you so much for the tips and good luck wish, its so refreshingly nice after some of the oddly ‘mean’ kids on here! Just goes to show, life is always full of surprises. All the best to you too dear!
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 08:06 PM
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Getting out of my comfort zone is an excellent way to put it, cheers!
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 04:04 AM
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Thanks for the book suggestions, I’d already had the Manipulated Man PDF but have only browsed through it, I just got the PDF of the other book. I’ve read Abraham-Hicks and I like some of their ideas, but I don't think I can rely on the universe to deliver me a masculine man. My idea of a masculine man: He’s confident, self-assured and well grounded within himself - he doesn't seek validation from anyone. He’s Intelligent, able to form his own ideas, and confidently expresses his opinions. He kn…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/18 11:45 PM
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Yes, I agree, its a great idea for all women to be more conscious of being in tune with our feminine side. You're right, the current state of affairs is fucked up, but sadly most people are too blue-pilled to be able to see whats right in front of them. But intelligent people, like you, are waking up everyday: swallowing the red pill, seeing things as they are, and asking ‘what is this shit?’ Thanks for the link.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/18 05:20 PM
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thanks for sharing.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 06:13 PM
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She called me ‘mean’ for no reason, other than perhaps I have a different perspective of the world than her. So who is being snarky?
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 06:12 PM
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Exactly, I don't have time to be the female equivalent of "Captain Save-A-Ho”. Not only is it not my job to belatedly breast feed these she-men but its not realistically within my scope to do so. But you’re point about latent masculinity laying dormant beneath the surface is worth noting. You’ve given me something to reflect on, thank you so much for your intelligent input.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 03:03 PM
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People who have differing opinions or views to you are not trying to be ‘mean’. Everyone is different, and that is ok. As you grow up and emotionally mature you will become more self assured & you’ll feel less inclined to name call. May I suggest you try meditation - its wonderful for self-reflection, and also learning to take the world as it is - vast, and varied.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 02:56 PM
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thanks for sharing these points, I'll take them into consideration.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 02:48 PM
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If a persons opinion appears to differ from your own, do not let your ego fool you into believing that they are necessarily ‘wrong’ as you put it. thanks for the tip.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:46 PM
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thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:40 PM
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ok. thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:39 PM
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Men in manly jobs is a good idea, thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:39 PM
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Nice idea, thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:38 PM
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Thank you, this makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:38 PM
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You make some good points - I get what you are saying about the ‘testosterone being beaten out of them. Making the ‘effort to try to bring out the "real him”’ is a great idea, but I have to tell you that most of the men I encounter are so lost and so far away from being the man that they should have grown into that such an effort would be monumental and unlikely to produce just rewards - I can not, single handedly, undo what their mothers, absent (or passive) fathers, and society have done. I ap…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:37 PM
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Thanks for your input, but weakness and politeness look nothing like each other.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:34 PM
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No anger, just my opinions.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:25 PM
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I did not say the world is wrong, do you need glasses?
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:25 PM
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Sorry you misunderstand me, not so cute, but don't give up.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:21 PM
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Thank you for being intelligent, aware, and insightful. I truly appreciate it. ​ Despite that fact that this is Redpill Women, most of the women appear to have not actually swallowed the red pill. Do they even know what it actually is? ​
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:19 PM
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I live in London. Its common for men to be 'soft', its the cultural norm.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:13 PM
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With a lot of men being so docile and backward I think its a natural response for modern women to lean in, and become more forward. But you are right about making the effort to soften up a bit, so I will make the conscious effort to ease back into my more feminine receptive side, thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:11 PM
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Thank you for being intelligent, aware, and insightful. I truly appreciate it. ​ Exactly, I’m very frustrated by the situation I find myself in. And I’m disconcerted by the fact that, as you say, no one in the public sphere dares to denounce this destructive cultural trend - mothers failing to raise their sons to be men. ​ Single mothers are not fit to raise their sons into men - any intelligent person can see this. I’m fully aware that men have a role to play as fathers too, but a woman chooses…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:08 PM
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Thank you for sharing that you’ve thought a lot about it, because it has been on my mind a lot recently too - and its reassuring to hear that I’m not the only one that is aware of this cultural phenomenon. ​ You make a good point about turning up the femininity to attract more masculine men, and thanks for the link. ​
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:06 PM
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I simply stated that I would like to meet more masculine men as I’m feeling very bored and uninspired by the non-masculine men. And how exactly does that make me ‘entitled’? ​ ​
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:06 PM
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Who said I was blaming the world, I’m simply reflecting on the experiences I’ve had - which is I’m surrounded by feminine men. I hate small mined people who lack self-awareness and the intelligence to see the world around them for what it is.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:05 PM
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‘say it to the mothers and women who raised them’ - I alluded to the fact that mothers are responsible for raising their sons as feminized softies when I said ‘Have their mothers feed them too much soy milk? Did they not have fathers who were role models of what a man is?’ ​ I know that women have the power to raise their sons to be men, and that in today’s society the vast majority of women are failing to fulfil this responsibility. ​ The failure of men to become real men is the failure of moth…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 01:03 PM
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One, I’m not dissing soy milk or attempting to discuss the science or the affect of soy milk on mens masculinity - so no need to take it so literally. ​ Two, yes I’m asking to hear their opinions and encouraging them to be open, honest, and expressive. And I’m bored of their soy-boy platitudes. ​ I didn’t say that I’m looking for a stereotypical "alpha male” - I’d just like to meet more men that appear to actually have a back bone. ​ Yes all men deserve to be treated with kindness and respect - …
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 12:57 PM
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You are wise to be self-aware and take note that you have outgrown your friends. I too have felt this way, but I denied it for a long time because I felt some sense of loyalty towards my old friends - this is a mistake. ​ You must put your own needs FIRST. Who you choose to surround yourself with is very important - so choose wisely. This does not mean that you ‘feel you are better than others,’. You simply have to know what you want in life, and have your standards. I wish I had know this when …
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/18 03:57 PM
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You do not have this man’s undivided attention. He still has space in his mind/heart for his ex. ​ I’m very taken back by the fact that he was in the habit of taking casual pics of her left, right and centre - yet barely takes any photos of you. This is VERY telling. ​ Its not a matter of wether she is model good-looking and you are just ‘normal’. If you were beautiful to him he would feel inclined to take your photo in the same way he was always taking her photo. ​ You do not deserve or want to…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/18 03:47 PM
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