blahblahmama Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	“If he was abusive, why did you stay with him?” My abusive ex boyfriend controlled everything from clothes I wore to what I ate. One day he threw away my very expensive hair mouse, my only luxury at the time as I was very poor, and told me I lost it, and finally admitting he tossed it because “it was almost empty”. It took me 6 months but I finally moved out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/21 02:31 PM
62	If you ain't serious, send me on my way and I will thank you. Sadly, LVM love to string women along with the hope of something permanent. I'm good. One time a dude ignored me after a first date so I dumped him. He begged me, literally BEGGED, to get a second date. After which he ghosted. He only went out with me a second time just to be in control. LVM are crazy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/21 01:41 PM
134	Angry scrote doesn't think he should pay for date he asked her out on Men complain about paying for the bill but I will tell you this: Not one man with whom I split the check wanted a second date with me. I was miffed and my older wizened coworkers many years ago were like "it shows you're worth it to them". So I stopped ever going for the check and I'd get called back. Its crazy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/20 10:46 PM
88	Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women lose I ended up realizing men can’t even do casual right when I was at a time where I didn’t want a relationship. I traveled to see him and he was hooking up with someone new. I was like “you could have like told me? Then i wouldn’t have booked a room the same place as you”. He said to me “oh well you were never my girlfriend”. And I was like “yes I know that dumbass”. The other girl screamed in my face and I ended up finding the love of my life a few months after this experience taught me the value …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/20 03:03 PM
27	🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 The most insidious stereotypes that have permeated our culture are that women and children lie about assault/abuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/20 03:32 PM
41	It's men who suck the fun out of everything This. Then if you have a high sex Drive they treat you like dirt. It’s grotesque.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/20 11:27 PM
5	Who told old men young women want them? We had a situation at a store I worked at years ago where this girl at about 19 was having an affair with an older dude. He straight up looked like Super Mario. This caused other older men in the store to think they were entitled to the girls at our place of employment and I was hit on pretty aggressively by a couple of these guys. It was horrifying.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/20 02:34 PM
13	As this queen says, stop projecting your ability to have empathy and emotional intelligence on men. They are socialized to see us as extensions of themselves. Don’t take their behavior personally because it was never personal to begin with. I tested my boyfriend. Told him I wanted to be friends to see his reaction. He was very happy and didn’t act like a crazy person or hit on me. I went out with him a few weeks later and we’ve been together ever since.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/20 07:11 PM