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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
228	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself.	Inner Game	blahbloopooo	/r/seduction	27/08/24 03:53 PM

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5	Why Your Friend Group is Holding You Back from Meeting Women And the lionesses do most of the hunting.	/r/seduction	27/02/25 09:08 PM
1	2024 was a record year for me in multiple ways and I have this sub to thank for it so I wanted to share the 5 most important things I've learned over the years with you guys Appreciate the post. IG is a weak point for me atm, is it possible you can share yours so I can see what I need to be doing?	/r/seduction	04/01/25 09:34 AM
2	do women prefer if a man is super jealous if another man is hitting on her and gets defensive or is that a turn off to her? Not my style but I respect it, fair	/r/seduction	29/12/24 04:42 PM
1	do women prefer if a man is super jealous if another man is hitting on her and gets defensive or is that a turn off to her? Sure but your problem is you still care what they think after they have disrespected you. I.e. you want them to feel bad and are willing to waste your time and energy to make it happen. Presumably on someone you'll never see again. Just move on and invest your precious time/energy towards finding the right one. These women get their comeuppance eventually anyway when they end up with a shitty dude or late 30s and no one wants them anymore.	/r/seduction	29/12/24 04:35 PM
4	do women prefer if a man is super jealous if another man is hitting on her and gets defensive or is that a turn off to her? Of course it's an option if you are secure. You have literally nothing to prove to a girl who doesn't meet your standards. It's wasted effort. It's only meek if you are.	/r/seduction	29/12/24 11:42 AM
9	do women prefer if a man is super jealous if another man is hitting on her and gets defensive or is that a turn off to her? I have a similar thought process but diff conclusion, you shouldn't care anymore so don't even bother letting it get to you. Just observe, internalise and exit the date asap.	/r/seduction	29/12/24 11:40 AM
2	How I seduce and want to be seduced- A bisexual female perspective Why stay away from hair?	/r/seduction	14/12/24 12:47 PM
2	To guys with solid Instagram or any other social media, how easy it is for you to get girls online? Cool appreciate it ty	/r/seduction	19/11/24 07:48 AM
3	To guys with solid Instagram or any other social media, how easy it is for you to get girls online? What do you mean by medium good IG?	/r/seduction	18/11/24 09:43 PM
35	Biggest Turn Off For Women (And How To Get Rid Of It) You actually only need number 2, number 1 is a cope for if you don't have enough self esteem.	/r/seduction	02/11/24 04:05 PM
12	Double Texting to set up 2nd date She unmatched and left you on read for a reason, focus your energy elsewhere.	/r/seduction	28/10/24 06:51 PM
4	Is being an intense man a masculine trait? Worry about it is not masculine. Embrace it.	/r/seduction	04/10/24 09:54 PM
2	Approached a 10 in a group of girls Saying 'with respect' then saying something clearly disrespectful might be a little autistic, with respect. Keep pumping that ego.	/r/seduction	03/10/24 07:05 PM
4	Attraction Killers LOL. Right girl for you will fucking love it.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 11:23 AM
3	Attraction Killers You didn't fall into any trap. Follow the signal and not the noise. You were being emotionally intelligent. Lots of girls would feel slightly uncomfortable in this situation and you were preempting that. This girl responded egotistically and unintelligently, rejecting you was doing you a favour. If a girl did this to me I would laugh, it's a indication of poorly understanding people - even if it's not what she wanted an intelligent person who understands people would understand it's the best pla…	/r/seduction	08/09/24 11:21 AM
2	Is it a good idea to completely cut off online dating ? Personally I had success out of it, but it wasn't as efficient as social circle game and I can date a lot higher quality women through meeting in real life. Also mentally it's just fucking mind numbingly boring & tedious.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 11:17 PM
1	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. Nope. Watch how it swims, how it struggles, how the way you cast gets you a catch, the spot where you get the biggest and best.	/r/seduction	28/08/24 10:50 AM
2	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. Well sure, it's not very related to seduction but it's interesting. The first time I took shrooms, I experienced it. I was able to see the world with no judgement, and I realised how heavily my experience of things depended on particular judgements I was making. I remembered what it was to be a kid again and have such an incredibly open mind. I thought about specific events in my life that I always saw in one way or another, and always made me feel one particular way - and I was able to see them…	/r/seduction	28/08/24 06:59 AM
2	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. Lol dude you killed me. You're also right, I probably should have fleshed out this idea a bit more. It works for me because of the women I'm interested in - high value, intelligent, high self-esteem, empathetic etc...	/r/seduction	27/08/24 10:10 PM
13	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. Dude you sound broken, I hope you get the help you need. But you should know that all women are not like this. If you're doing this shit early on it's way too needy and overburdening, any emotionally healthy person will reject you. If you're doing this having built a solid, healthy and strong relationship, the right woman, the good women, they will support you. Having said that, this kind of shit can weigh on anyone and most women are not looking to be your therapist, if you can afford one that …	/r/seduction	27/08/24 09:59 PM
16	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. Deepest yes, I don't find my emotions embarrassing.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 09:23 PM
27	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. Have you met all women? I've met many who are not like that. Stop wallowing in your self-pity and making stupid as fuck blanket comments.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 09:12 PM
7	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. The mental lens through which you see everything. It is used in game a lot to mean different things. But it's also used in other things. Biggest insight I ever had to my frame in general has been through psychedelic use. It was like being like a kid again. Kid's have the most flexible frame as they are actively building it. Bit of a messy comment but hope that makes some kind of sense.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 09:07 PM
3	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. Yeah well said. Learn from the signal not the noise.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 07:58 PM
6	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. We interpreted it differently. Look at the way I interacted with you here, do you think I don't polarise women? If that was the whole point of the book, why did he need to write anything else? You should just be you and not listen to the signals women are giving you right? Should have had one chapter and that been the end of it. I do not care what any one woman thinks of me. But women as group? Of course I do, and you are likely lying to yourself if you don't think you do either. If you're not l…	/r/seduction	27/08/24 07:29 PM
3	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. Not really. Your line is just arrogance. If you think you're perfect the way you are you probably suck quite a lot.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 06:36 PM
1	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. Enlighten me	/r/seduction	27/08/24 06:13 PM
12	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. Yep I see your point. But woman and game is one of the fastest paths to self-improvement imo because you can do this every day. So many of the other big moments in life happen so rarely it's almost impossible to grow effectively from them.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 06:05 PM
27	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. Yep also another way of looking at it. Strengthens you immensely if you do get rid of them.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 06:03 PM
7	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. Models by Mark Manson. More generally, Stoicism. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius is a fave.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 05:55 PM
68	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. No. High value men don't date girls like that.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 05:55 PM
1	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. You're not going after the right women then. These girls are teaching you to have standards, red lines, and to stick to them. Also how not be taken advantage of.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 05:53 PM
-2	Gym and looks isn’t everything There might be a useful frame there for seduction but don't get your knowledge about evolution from PUAs lol.	/r/seduction	26/08/24 08:22 AM
2	What should I say to an older woman when she said she worried that I am too young? Agree. I'd say something along the lines of "Yeah I only learnt to walk yesterday"	/r/seduction	22/08/24 09:57 AM
1	How do you guys respond to "I have a bf" in a playful way Nice	/r/seduction	30/07/24 03:16 PM
1	How do you guys respond to "I have a bf" in a playful way You are kind of on to something while ignoring the glaringly obvious thing that not much of what you said makes sense unless you have a way to contact each other, hence... digits.	/r/seduction	29/07/24 02:13 PM
2	How do you put a girl in the friendzone but keep her in "reserve"? You don’t.	/r/seduction	18/06/24 11:17 AM
1	I feel nothing, anyone else? Good luck mate. One other thing, I never knew what true love was till I was 29 and met a girl who blew my world apart. Before that I thought I knew it all & this type of thing was for fairytales. Need to keep your mind open to it though & not be all consumed by the game.	/r/seduction	14/06/24 08:07 AM
1	I feel nothing, anyone else? If you feel nothing pursuing those things then stop. It’s like a mindless addiction that has no meaning to you anymore. I have definitely felt the same way after sex. Particularly when I had a lot of ONS in a short period of time, I got burnt out and it loses all attraction for a while. Find something meaningful.	/r/seduction	12/06/24 09:04 AM
1	What do I do when my date doesn't ask me questions? Lots of good responses here. Personally I’m looking for something serious and people this dispassionate about life I am not interested in. It rarely happens to me now but when it does I just end the date quickly.	/r/seduction	10/06/24 01:56 PM
1	I’m addicted to female attention. What's even worse is that from the top comments he seems to be far from alone, and people are using this post to validate their own imperfections & ego.	/r/seduction	22/05/24 06:06 PM
59	I’m addicted to female attention. You're insecure. You're definitely not everything a high value woman would want. Develop a self-esteem based on something more solid and internal. Philosophy, religion, a vision, from your acts and things you've worked towards, and many other options besides... If I get attention I just notice it, that's it. Doesn't affect my ego one bit. They are as you already alluded to, 2 sides of the same coin, if I don't get attention I don't care one bit either. That’s what being secure means, it’s a stre…	/r/seduction	22/05/24 06:02 PM
3	Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details below His mindset is right even if he talks like a fucking writer from the enlightenment.	/r/seduction	18/05/24 02:01 PM
2	Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details below This situation is slightly different imo. He's obviously being serious and not joking, saying a girl you just met is your wife is an obvious joke. "You like my wife? I met her on the dancefloor over there" then laughing is not needy at all because it's really obvious (to her) that you're not being serious. I think this just comes back to there being no perfect solution though. The best solution might work 99% of the time but you can always tell the story of the 1% it went wrong.	/r/seduction	18/05/24 01:57 PM
1	I feel like a fake alpha at work Imagine your teacher believing this kind of inane, pathetic bullshit.	/r/seduction	17/05/24 12:16 PM
1	Does showing too much interest kill your game long term It’s an art. Trying to capture it in a sentence: You need to show interest, but without being needy at all.	/r/seduction	14/05/24 12:35 PM
15	"You don't have instagram?" What's a good answer for this? Me personally = “No I don’t have time for insta” I really don’t. It’s a distraction. If a girl isn’t open to that she doesn’t meet my standards.	/r/seduction	03/05/24 02:39 PM
5	How could I be more seductive as a “good guy”/“goofy” and be more confident. You're great at constructing strawmans I'll give you that.	/r/seduction	10/04/24 05:02 PM
4	How could I be more seductive as a “good guy”/“goofy” and be more confident. A magician doesn't ask the crowd how to do magic.	/r/seduction	10/04/24 04:53 PM
2	How do you stop feeling insecure about interracial dating? Just be free dude. It's about taking that internal step. I'm a white dude and when I had an Indian ex, we'd sometimes get looks. One time an old Indian bus driver even shook his head and tutted when we got on the bus. You got to laugh it off, these people are worth nothing. Also the hotter the girl is the more jealousy you'll get thrown your way, enjoy the fact that you're winning.	/r/seduction	09/04/24 08:21 PM
18	What are some things you guys say when approaching in real life.? With wit like that, you’ll be unwtoppable	/r/seduction	06/04/24 09:37 PM
6	I get bored on dates Just take a break and go find something you actually enjoy doing. If you’re not enjoying the dates and getting to know, seduce and fuck girls then there’s literally no point. It could be depression like others said but that’s a bit of a leap. Probably if you take a break your libido will eventually drive you back & you can start enjoying this stuff again.	/r/seduction	18/03/24 07:47 AM
1	Where is the best place to meet women in their late 20s and 30s during the day? Any tips?	/r/seduction	17/03/24 01:02 PM
17	When game surprises you Sounds like one of her friends would probably say one of her friends likes you too	/r/seduction	11/03/24 05:37 PM
13	How to be less intimidating to women? Simple, talk to her and make her comfortable. Lots of ways to do that. The ideal man for most women is someone slightly initially intimidating - someone who can protect her. Embrace the fact that most women are going to be initially intimidated because of your physical dominance. Part of your game should be to charm & disarm them, friendly but be weary about overcorrecting and being overly nice imo. Be emotionally receptive/intelligent and aware of the signals they are giving off. Don’t physical…	/r/seduction	11/03/24 11:49 AM
9	Girl's Dont Want Dad Bods Dual mating strategy has been disowned by the guy who invented it. The evidence is not there.	/r/seduction	05/03/24 03:26 PM
29	Women really hate hearing no Says more about you than OP that you think this relatively benign story is fiction.	/r/seduction	18/12/23 08:27 AM