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Hard to help without know what types of things you are actually saying. Most people get the neg wrong.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 09:05 PM
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What's fascinating, however, is that in recent years a startling number of nonwhites -- especially Asian men and black women -- have become bitterly opposed to intermarriage. Black women have the lowest SMV of females and asian / indian men have the lowest SMV of men. Okcupid did a big article on interracial dating that demonstrated this. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/ http://cdn.okcimg.com/blog/race_affects/Reply-By-Race-Male.png http://cdn.ok…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 07:47 PM
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Most girls I have dated have been non-US girls who came here recently. I do have to say that many of them are much better than american girls. More feminine and less entitled. A lot of this is selection bias. Girls who work hard and sacrifice to come to the US tend to not be entitled bitches but girls working hard and striving for their goals.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 12:16 AM
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Lending club and other Peer-to-peer lending sites are great for getting steady high(er) interest returns without taking on excess risk. 7% return on low risk loans. CDs and other savings accounts from banks offer less than 1%. Just avoid the lure of the super high yield stuff and stick to the A-B credit risk. Also make sure to diversify into as many different loans as possible to avoid default risk. https://www.lendingclub.com/
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 09:18 PM
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He is correct only if bitcoin and other crypto currencies are in fact a bubble. I do not believe bitcoin to be a bubble. One major online retailer accepting bitcoin and one rumored hedge fund investing bitcoin does make a bubble. When even wal-mart accepts bitcoin and every person on MSM is talking about bitcoin going to the moon, and every johnny come lately is starting a bitcoin hedge fund then maybe you can make a case for a bubble.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 08:50 PM
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Buy the dump, sell the pump.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 08:44 PM
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As an aside, European girls tend to be less ditzy and that's probably why I like them more. I can confirm this. I am dating a European girl now.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 03:17 PM
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I'll share this comment again. I wasn't looking for an LTR, it just happened. I met a gorgeous cute shy girl from spain. Very traditional, non-feminist, non-entitled. She is very smart, level headed. At first she was just fuck meat to me. We started sleeping together and I slowly fell for her since she was clearly very into me and was just a all around great girl. We just got closer and closer. We went on vacation together. She went back to spain. I Flew out to see her. Flew her back for xmas. J…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 09:20 PM
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I left in my late late 20's. They certainly teach personal responsibility but this just seems to heighten guilt and help you to follow the hundreds of rules and guidelines they drive into you with a hammer. My experience is likely influenced heavily by being in the singles ward far too long.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 06:34 AM
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You can love someone without being married. Marriage is a contract and today it is a shitty shitty contract for men.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 06:01 AM
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Growing up as a mormon I can assure you boys are not raised to be men in the church but to be supplicating beta momma's boy's. It's really quite sickening actually.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 05:54 AM
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Agreed. As long as OP is the alpha he will get the fucks. As soon as attraction weakens it'll be game over. She has already demonstrated this. He should take the relationship as far as he can and next her when it becomes appropriate - not next her out of fear of what she might do sometime in the near or not so near future.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 02:49 AM
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I enjoyed the silence but we weren't quite comfortable so she did not and kept asking random stuff just like I kept asking random stuff AND made statements Sounds like you were not doing it right. You need to display comfort and make sure you do not break the tension during the silence. Also sounds like conversation was not quite flowing right. You should not be purposefully making breaks in the conversation. Wait for natural breaks in conversation. In general the conversation should flow.
/r/seduction17/11/13 02:07 AM
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Have already noticed RP getting influenced by lesser Beta's flocking her.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 12:43 AM
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When it becomes uncomfortable for her she will look away. And it doesn't mean she finds you creepy. She is simply breaking the tension.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 12:33 AM
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/r/Seduction has steadily headed down hill. Three years ago it actually had good advice and field reports. Today it's infested with beta/feminist feel good bullshit. Too many guys on there who have never gotten laid control the upvotes/downvotes and subsequently any advice that does not fit in their bluepill / beta world view gets downvoted.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 12:18 AM
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If you are being serious, no book will directly solve all of your problems. This is exactly my fucking point. Not that books or reading doesn't have benefits.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 08:53 PM
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Great book. But reading the book doesn't actually get rid of my shitty friends, or actually get me new ones. Actually getting better friends requires action - not just reading a book. Which is my point. Getting slapped is not a signal to go read a book or get a new hobby. Its a sign your friends or the people you are around are shitty and to do something about it. If you don't know how to make new friends than sure that might involve reading a book but that is not the solution in of itself.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:50 PM
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So what book should I read that will get rid of my shitty friends, get me better friends or help make my friends less shitty?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:18 PM
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Side note: If you did get slapped its because you are hanging out with low quality women. Shitty people act shittily. Getting slapped in a urine stained bar should be a signal that you should be spending your time more effectively. Go read a book, pick up a new skill, or work on your health. Whhhaaaat? Getting slapped by a shitty person is a sign I need to go read a book??? No. How about hanging out with different people, getting new friends, or putting her in her proper place. Reading a book do…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 03:07 PM
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Am I the only one who thinks this doesn't really belong on TRP? Just reminds me of all the betas and white knights that flood seddit with /r/nofap and /r/mediation advice rather than doing something that actually improves yourself with women. Like you know, talking to them and putting them in their proper place.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 10:29 PM
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Meeennnnn...
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 10:02 PM
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you are thinking way to deeply about this. Just enjoy your boner and get on with it. Enjoy it for what it is. I accept girls whoring to be as natural as my erection from some bodacious titties. Doesn't make me mad. Sounds to me like you just have some personal issues. Also please read "My secret garden" by Nancy friday and realize woman have just as nasty and dirty fantasies as men and in some cases even nastier than the dirty porn seen on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 05:48 PM
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Finding a relationship is a lot trickier than finding a hookup. There is a lot more luck involved. Right girl, right place, right time in your lives. If all three are not right you are likely to have something more short term. Going out meeting and dating as many women as possible will make it more likely you find the right girl and that you are ready for her when she shows up.
/r/seduction16/10/13 02:52 PM
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And look at you now! You fuck Popes. Now if that isn't a player I don't know what is.
/r/seduction15/10/13 05:46 AM
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See my comments in thread. Was meant to be a response to you.
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:43 PM
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One of the overarching themes of this book is that you are not responsible for how other people feel. If you don't want to go shopping with your girlfriend or wife and she gets upset about this - that is not your fault. That is her choosing to feel in that way. Once you can disconnect that how people react to you is not your choice and not your fault it becomes more easy to act authentically to yourself and own desires. To some this sounds like you simply become a selfish asshole. This is not so…
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:28 PM
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Then your wasting your fucking time.
/r/seduction07/10/13 05:11 PM
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Would do unspeakable things to Miley for free.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 08:25 PM
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Focus on what you want in that moment and do it. No bullshit like "I want her to have a multiple orgasm". You don't control that. Do what YOU WANT for YOU. Pretty much nailed it with this part.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 04:21 AM
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what's the point of being able to pull women and then when you bring them home they leave disappointed. TBH this is a very beta / blue-pill mindset. Let the beta's worry about what the girl wants. That's not the alpha's job. The point is to get your dick off. Period. If she enjoys herself along the way, great. Having fucked enough women I know that "good" sex is only about 40% me and 60% her so I honestly I don't worry about it too much. Some girls will cum, some girls won't. It rarely has anyth…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 03:57 AM
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I wasn't looking for an LTR, it just happened. I met a gorgeous cute shy girl from spain. Very traditional, non-feminist, non-entitled. She is very smart, level headed. We started sleeping together and I slowly fell for her since she was clearly very into me. We just got closer and closer. We went on vacation together. She went back to spain. Flew out so see her. Flew her back for xmas. Just went to croatia with her. You going on any awesome vacations with one of your plates? LTR benefits: Raw s…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 06:30 PM
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Personally I just go to clubs on 'off nights'. I go to a popular club in DC on Monday nights. It still gets a good crowd but because its monday, there are no tables, no cover and no bullshit. I have been going there on Monday for years. I know all the regular monday staff and the place is pretty much my second home on mondays. I have picked up several girls from there and even found my current girlfriend from there. Try going out to a club that promotes on weeknights. Might be surprised.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 05:53 PM
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Of course it quite possible. It's also quite possible to get HPV just from seducing a girl from the streets, bar or club. The safest option is always to just jerk it to porn.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 05:45 PM
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Sadly not enough guys on seddit get laid enough to understand this. How well or how terrible you fuck a girl has little to do with anything. I have fucked girls and couldn't cum. I have fucked girls and popped quick as when I was a virgin. I have had issues getting it up. I have fucked girls that came dozens of times while I fucked them and other that I simply never was able to get off. None of this mattered. Some came back for more, others didn't. How much you have in common when you are not fu…
/r/seduction16/09/13 08:11 PM
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Chase's book is great. Very natural game.
/r/seduction14/09/13 09:11 PM
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Think of the typical guy. Offering girls drinks, bottles of champaign. Trying to impress girls in various ways - cars, bragging about places they have been, people they have met etc. It all sub-communicates lower value and that they are trying to impress her. She has the value. Now turn the tables. You are asking her questions and challenging her on them. You blatantly check her out and make her turn around for you so you get a full look. You are aloof. You lead her to different section of the b…
/r/seduction14/09/13 09:11 PM
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Exactly. This just propagates limiting beliefs.
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:26 AM
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It's a way of life, not the way of life. Fuck RSD. Any any girls who want to fuck in a backseat aren't the type of girls I'd want my dick anywhere close to anyways. You really think the hipster cuties you close have never been fucked in the backseat? Or have never wanted to? Would you really never let them near your dick again if you found out they had been fucked in the backseat? You sound like a judgemental ass to be honest - not a gentleman. It's all a matter of opinion and perspective. You b…
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:57 PM
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Can't help but wonder how disappointed she must have been not getting laid on her b-day. You do know having sex with her would not have precluded you from liking her and seeing her again?
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:08 PM
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Not surprised this is receiving no love. Sadly most sedditors do not realize how important this is. If you had only mentioned /r/nofap or /r/Meditation
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:00 PM
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Its your way of life. Not the way of life. The RSD way of life is banging girls in back allys and backseats of the car. You think a girl wants it lovey dovey for 3 hours in the backseat? Girls also enjoy getting choked and fucked hard unapologeticly. Try reading 'my secret garden' by nancy friday. It will open your mind to some new possibilities of what girls like.
/r/seduction19/08/13 09:36 PM
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Nothing wrong with interview mode. Especially after going direct. Interview mode is very congruent with a direct approach. You don't need some crazy fun conversation that is wild and fun after being direct. With direct you have already generated attraction with the approach. You simply need to run comfort. For that interview mode works fine. To keep the conversation interesting simply make sure you go deeper with each topic rather than skimming the surface with the standard questions. What is mo…
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:30 AM
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Its in the last 5-10 minutes of this video.
/r/seduction07/08/13 11:43 AM
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This guy is on the money. Most of the sedditors really need to hear the QA section on fear of being creepy. Too many sedditors are scared shitless of this accusation and never take risks necessary to really get the results they want.
/r/seduction07/08/13 04:37 AM
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If you want to fall in love, you have to see women as people. mmmm.....Yes and No. The 'One' you will no longer see as just a piece of ass but it is up to the girl to proove she is more than a piece of ass. The girl I am in love with and have been dating for over a year now started as just a piece of fuck meat. Some things that made her more than fuck meat to me were. She made it clear she liked me and didn't play games. Made herself available. And would iniate dates and texting. She pulled her …
/r/seduction02/08/13 02:18 AM
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I think there should be flair for people who have actually gotten laid a few times. I don't know how many times I see the top comment of advice from some guy who has never posted a field report and has himself posted some lame beginner questions earlier in the month.
/r/seduction19/07/13 02:28 PM
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Wrong. Getting laid after 2-3 dates and getting laid the same night or in an hour are different levels of game. My first couple of lays were all after a date or two. Getting numbers texting blah blah. I rarely bother with numbers anymore almost strictly go for SNLs. A lot of beginner material puts up a lot initial rules that can be broken once you have experience and calibration and once you have your eyes opened that these things are possible.
/r/seduction19/07/13 02:25 PM
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Finding a down earth girl can be tough. Period. Regardless of whether you are jacked or not. As long as you don't act or talk like some jersey shore meat-head you should not have too much trouble attracting a down to earth girl.
/r/seduction14/06/13 03:44 PM
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You need to do some inner reflection and figure out what really makes you happy. If you can not be happy without a girl getting a girlfriend is not going to make you happier. When was the time in your life when you were happiest? What are your happiest memories? What were you doing? Who was in your life? What season was it? What was it about those memories or experiences that made you happy? Figure out your pattern. You might need to just make a wild crazy bucket list of things to do in your lif…
/r/seduction14/05/13 07:11 PM
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Saw the Natural Lifestyles in action in DC a few years ago. Very cool chill guys who did amazing with women. Totally made me re-think game and took me on a path of much more chill, natural and seductive style of game. Number of Same night lays sky rocketed. Would also recommend 60 years of challenge for similar type of game.
/r/seduction14/05/13 05:25 AM
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Your example is rather extreme and borderline retarded. You may clearly layout an act or action in black or white, but that is a single stroke in a portrait of who we are. We are many strokes of black, white and grey that are made up by our actions. No single stroke defines us but the total of the strokes. Too many people define themselves or someone else based on a small snapshot of ones actions. Plenty of assholes do nice things on occasion. Plenty of nice guys do asshole things on occasion.
/r/seduction01/05/13 07:17 PM
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"I wonder what she's like." <-- This is your new mindset. Embrace it. Fall in love with it. It is your new best friend. How I discovered my standard opener: "So Hey, I wanted to see what you are like..." After meeting lots of girls it becomes a natural question. You meet some hot girl dressed a certain and way and think she has a certain personality but then you talk to her and she is not what you expected. You can't judge a book by its cover.
/r/seduction30/04/13 11:01 PM
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Please note that doing something douchey every now and then does not actually make you a douche. Just like failing on occasion does not make you failure or giving some change to bum does not make you a saint or charitable-organization. Stop letting one event or action define you. Stop letting other people define you.
/r/seduction30/04/13 07:06 PM
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I do not approve of sticking the douchy jock smirk on your face to pick up girls. Why? Putting a douchey jock smirk on your face does not make you a douchey jock. Its a fucking smile for fucks sake.
/r/seduction30/04/13 06:59 PM
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You can really do this at any time. Hard Direct openers are very much a form of sexual intent filtering right from the start. Generally the best time to start sexual intent is after the set hooks. IE she is asking you questions, telling you stories etc. You are no longer in opening / entertainer mode. You are in comfort stage. You can start with light non-sexual kino, then work in verbal intent and then go into more sexual kino. In reality there is no order and its all about calibration- which c…
/r/seduction23/04/13 02:51 AM
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You fucked up the first night before she even came over. You did not escalate far enough that first night. No kissing or sexual touching or sexual intent. It was clear she wanted more that first night with the sexual innuendo she made to you about something between her legs. She doesn't like lame shy guys, she wants a bold man as she said herself: how other man tried to hit on her and how they're all lame and shy and that if she wanted she could sleep with a different guy every night. When thing…
/r/seduction23/04/13 02:24 AM
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Lost it at 29. Life got much better but not because of the sex but because of the changes and accomplishments leading up to it. But things got even better after losing the V-card. Pretty much got laid with a new girl every month after that.
/r/seduction05/04/13 07:40 PM
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Those are all great things but I don't really see anything there you have done to improve your AA or to meet and interact with more girls in real life other than okcupid dates. Suggestions: start taking DANCE lessons. At dance lessons you can meet girls in a very natural social setting. Easy to open girls, easy to have nice normal conversation. In addition it builds in some kino training, makes you confident moving your body and teaches you to lead. All valuable skills with women. How many socia…
/r/seduction05/04/13 07:06 PM
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Girls in groups are tricky. Definitely depends on the situation. If its loud, or she is not in the middle of conversation with her group or with her friend I can go up grab her and be direct - sexual or otherwise. Don't do sexual direct when her friends can clearly hear or when she is the center of attention. If her and a friend on having a one-on-one conversation you can often do interested direct to your target and often times the girls will eye-code and/or the obstacle just melts away - but y…
/r/seduction05/04/13 06:33 PM
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I do a lot of direct game in bars and clubs. Never done day game. I love it and have gotten a lot of great lays from direct game. Definitely saw an increase in SNLs when I started doing this which was great because I started doing when I got a second job and really did not have time for Day-2s. Secondly I was frequently exhausted and didn't have the energy to smile and be mister fun guy for the girls. Sexual direct: Hey...You're really sexy. Who the fuck are you? Interested direct: Hey....I saw …
/r/seduction05/04/13 01:15 AM
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Telling a beginner to go walk up to the HB8 at the bar and stare at her tits will, in most circumstances, not end well if he is ignorant of the mechanics of that move you pulled off there. Every field report is supposed to be for beginners? I don't see anything in this report that tells beginners to do this. He is simply reporting what happened and revealing what is possible. There are more ways to getting laid than spinning girls, high-fives, negs and opinion openers. You can stare at a girls t…
/r/seduction30/03/13 10:48 PM
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You: I'll let you figure something out
/r/seduction23/03/13 11:15 PM
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Keep in mind he already had gained her attraction and she had bought him a drink. He has the higher value and so it is going to be seen through the lens of attraction - IE sexy. Had he still been a random that she was unsure about it might trigger the creepy alarm. But once you have attraction you can get away with almost anything.
/r/seduction23/03/13 11:08 PM
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I think salsa translates well into club dancing. Will you be using the same footwork or 'moves' per se, no. But salsa is a sensual dance and so there are some sexy things you can do that instantly project 'I can dance bitch' and make the girls more interested. Some are just things you incorporate in a simple spin or simply learning to be comfortable to pull the girl closer and put her hands on you where you want her hands to be. Of course this not only translate to the dance floor but to the bed…
/r/seduction19/03/13 12:50 AM
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Definitley agree on taking some lessons. Advice to just let go and be free, dance like no one is looking does not cut it. Taking some dance lessons is a great way to familiarize yourself with rhythm, movement and comfort with your body as well as providing a very comfortable environment to touch and lead females. Learning to physically lead women was by far the best lesson from my years of salsa dancing. It's like getting a PhD in kino. Learning to grab women, pull them in, push them away will g…
/r/seduction15/03/13 09:41 PM
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This kind of reminds me of the 'just be yourself' advice. It is certainly the destination one wants to arrive but not as easy to arrive to as it might sound. Taking some dance lessons is a great way to familiarize yourself with rhythm, movement and comfort with your body as well as providing a very comfortable environment to touch and lead females. Learning to physically lead women was by far the best lesson from my years of salsa dancing. It's like getting a PhD in kino. Learning to grab women,…
/r/seduction15/03/13 09:22 PM
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Hat tip to heartiste: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/02/22/lazy-cad-game/
/r/seduction22/02/13 09:55 PM
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Because it's not that simple. A lot of people in the community have started to realize that "just be yourself", while correct in spirit, is quite terrible advice in practice. Everyone lives with inhibitions, and most live with so many inner barriers that they have a hard time figuring out what they genuinely want. Most people do not know who they are. They have simply been a certain way for a long time and assume that is who they are. I did a lot of self exploration for a couple years. Dropped m…
/r/seduction19/02/13 04:43 PM
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Just be a man. Hold the tension. Stare at her. Don't make a face. Don't fidget. It sounds weird but it displays your dominance and confidence. It shows that you are man who is not afraid of tension. She will break the tension. She will ask you a question, say something or she might fidget or look away. These are all tension breakers. If she looks away I give myself permission to say something. I like to use the tension and break to express a form of interest in her. So, hey.....you do know you r…
/r/seduction08/02/13 03:26 AM
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Meditating is a lot easier than growing balls and kissing girls.
/r/seduction07/02/13 08:32 PM
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Good eye contact is far more powerful than always knowing a clever thing to say. Eye contact amps up sexual tension. Guys need to learn to shut up sometimes and just look her in the eye.
/r/seduction07/02/13 08:05 PM
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Look the ops advice on being physical and escalating is fine. I would add that when the girls starts making little moans or breathing noticeably heavier that its time to start taking off her clothes - move her to the bedroom first if not already there. I fear a lot of newbs will be waiting endlessly for her to tear their clothes off not realizing its not going to happen despite her 'wanting to tear your clothes off'. Otherwise the op spends a lot of time on drinking, gives pretty crappy fashion …
/r/seduction17/01/13 04:09 AM
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I Really don't think people are missing the point. He gives a lot of irrelevant advice and some outright bad advice. EDIT: See my comment here for my breakdown -
/r/seduction16/01/13 08:50 PM
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Nope, not fooled at all. No PUA lingo required. Much of the advice you give is questionable bordering on outright bad. Can someone get laid from this advice? Sure, but only because getting laid is easy - especially when they are as drunk as you suggest getting them.
/r/seduction16/01/13 07:45 PM
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Sorry but this is pretty weak. TL;DR could be : Get girls drunk. Get laid. This is already pretty much every AFC's game plan. What are you doing writing a 'how to get laid' instructional post when the only Field Report you have is a mini one on getting a waitresses number? Have you even gotten laid?
/r/seduction16/01/13 05:33 PM
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Your closing was fantastic. Assumed the close the whole time and took the lead.
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:20 PM
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Sounds to me like you don't really know yourself yet and you need to do some of the breaking free activities in the book. Try dressing different ways. Go to a salon and get a different hair cut. Do things your normally don't do. Go to different bars. Try meeting different kinds of people. Be an asshole every once and a while. I did a lot of self exploration for a couple years. Dropped my religion. Dropped my friends and got new ones. Dressed lots of different ways. Slept with quite a few women o…
/r/seduction13/12/12 04:30 PM
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what can this guy possible teach us? He looks like a model!...... So my question to him is this: Are you somehow under the delusion that what you say/do plays more than a minor role in your success? So good looking guys don't need game? You can't learn anything from a good looking guy? Have you seen any master PUA who isn't a good looking guy? or at least stylish? Should you not take any of their advice either? The anonymous users on this board whose advice you value, how do you know they are no…
/r/seduction06/12/12 03:19 PM
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Yeah I have seen this guy in person before too. Great guy. Great pickup style. Definitely opened my mind about how seduction can work. My current style is much more like his.
/r/seduction06/12/12 02:28 PM
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Another blog I like but less game oriented and more on owning your manliness. Great for inner game http://rationalmale.wordpress.com Great post on Owning your shallowness. http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/11/20/shallow/ Great post on how to respond to nude photos sent by a girl: http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/11/14/case-study-inspire-her/
/r/seduction27/11/12 03:57 PM
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Umm yeah it is. Its full of feel good just smile. Be yourself. Share each others dreams posts. Everyone is trying to get a girlfriend. No one owns wanting to get laid.
/r/seduction27/11/12 03:08 PM
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Body Language post is great. As are his posts on text game and of course the 16 commandments of poon. A recent favorite: Be More aloof. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/10/16/women-love-aloof-and-indifferent-men-more-proof/ It would not surprise me if many on seddit did not like this blog. It is not a feel good blog for the white knights of seddit.
/r/seduction26/11/12 08:33 PM
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How is learning pickup any more weird than girls learning how to dress or wear makeup to get a guys attention from cosmo? Don't girls want to meet guys who 'Get it'. Who know what they are doing? Do you think they learn it in Algebra class? Call them out on this. When they can't defend their position they will quickly wither away in defeat.
/r/seduction22/11/12 02:06 AM
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There are a lot ways to do this from body language, looks, eye contact, kino or verbal. Body Language: Leaned back, open, slow and calm movement. Respond to her questions slowly as well. SLOW. Think Don Draper or James Bond. Looks: Tighter clothing, unbutton your shirt a bit more or wear deep v t-shirts. Having a good sexy look is an effortless way to communicate sexually all the time. Eye contact: Keep it strong. Don't break. Keep eye contact even during breaks of silence until she breaks. Let …
/r/seduction14/11/12 08:58 PM
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sometimes I simply don’t have it while I could (that’s why I call that bed-close and not F-close ;)) This could be a part of the problem right here. Girls want to get fucked and you are disappointing them. This reeks of beta to a woman. A girl will forgive you for being overly sexual aggressive but they will not forgive you for not being sexually aggressive enough. It is always your job as an alpha male to push the sexual barrier as far as it will go.
/r/seduction08/11/12 08:16 PM
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I think his post provides good balance to all the PU guys selling the perfect opener, perfect way to kiss a girl without being rejected, perfect line to number close or the perfect line to prevent flakes 100% of the time. Some people over focus on technique and don't realize lifestyle aspects matter - particularly for keeping a girl around. To simply get laid almost none of the stuff in this post matters. Spit some decent game and you can laid in in your parents basement or the backseat of a car…
/r/seduction01/11/12 04:56 PM
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So why didn't you go further than taking Wednesday girls top off? Seems like you created your own resistance and could have taken things further.
/r/seduction15/10/12 05:49 PM
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Moving sets can be tough. I like your direct opener. It feels good to be a man and say what you think.
/r/seduction18/04/12 08:33 PM
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Upvote for James Marshall. Not many folks not about this guy. Helped inspire my current style of game.
/r/seduction16/04/12 05:21 PM
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Really wasn't disagreeing with you. Just adding that the economy sucking is delaying marriage, home buying etc. Right now I have two jobs and that is a major hindrance to relationships for me. That and I meet a lot of women who are busy with work, work and school, or who have retail jobs with shitty hours.
/r/seduction16/04/12 05:08 PM
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That and the economy is shit. Lets get married and live in my parents basement.
/r/seduction16/04/12 03:28 PM
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For me direct game is easier with hotter girls. It is so much more genuine. It is also easier to get motivated over with 8-10 as opposed to a 5-7. I sucked at direct at first too. Froze just like you. Now I roll with it better.
/r/seduction14/04/12 12:25 AM
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I think this depends on the body language. Most of those guys have their drink in front of their chest, a hand deep in their pocket and are looking around nervously dodging eye contact. If you are leaned back, standing confidently with your drink by your side you simply look like you are relaxing you can approach on your own time.
/r/seduction11/04/12 05:04 PM
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I initially lined up for a water but decided to grab a beer.
/r/seduction10/04/12 10:02 PM
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I think eye contact helped a lot. I was basically getting her invested before I even opened. I think the fact that I was physically direct as well. I grabbed her twice. The second time pulling her toward me. Direct is more than a line it should be conveyed physically as well - which I did. You want her to be a little nervous, anxious and fearful - which she was. Science to back me up on wanting her to be nervous and anxious - it amplifies attraction. Scientific article or a blog post summarizing…
/r/seduction10/04/12 06:40 PM
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PM'd you the bar.
/r/seduction10/04/12 03:54 PM
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60 Years of Challenge's is awesome. I started doing his stuff because I started working two jobs and was always too tired to do high energy game. It was a game changer for me. Got so many more SNLs after practicing his stuff. Sexual tension is very powerful and does not require many words to achieve.
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:36 PM
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Television, movies, magazines etc are what help define masculinity and femininity. They shape and form what we emotionally respond to. They define male and female archetypes. Hence women will emotionally respond to television male archetypes much in the same way you and I respond to female archetypes from porn and other hollywood females. Don Draper is a male archetype that females will emotionally respond to. Baseball analogy is very poor because that requires motor skill development which obvi…
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:10 PM
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Absolutely fine to be an introverted Alpha. Great example is Don Draper. Hardly says anything but he is a man.
/r/seduction09/04/12 04:00 PM
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I have actually tried the more silent style and worked better than I thought it would. I had two girls ask for my number. Fucked one of them. the other one I was not that interested in. Blew my mind that being that silent and creepy worked. I ultimately stopped that style because I felt too weird and creepy. I now do something a bit more in between the two now. But doing the real silent mysterious thing for a awhile did help me to learn that there is a lot more room for silence than most people …
/r/seduction08/04/12 08:16 AM
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Yeah I am on there. I don't post though. Have been to some events though.
/r/seduction07/04/12 08:48 AM
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Worrying about externally imposed labels is why so many guys have anxiety about approaching, kino and escalating. She might think I am creepy, weird, perverted, a dick or whatever. But what one girls thinks about you does not define you.
/r/seduction06/04/12 05:55 PM
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I like wearing cowboy boots or boots in general for this reason. When I wear them I feel like a man. This applies to a lot of things besides clothing though. For example I like to drink whisky or beer when I am out because I feel more like a man. I feel more like a man after the gym. I feel more like a man after I eat a steak. I feel more like a man when I drive my old 1989 Porsche as opposed to my mini.
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:50 AM
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She won by getting a rise out of you and by you calling her out to the group almost made you the dick (though she deserved it) Nope. She was uncomfortable being called out and she shrunk away. I guarantee she did not feel like she won. I am also pretty sure the group would have had a lot of respect for a guy standing up to an alpha bitch. Its likely everyone knows she is a bitch and everybody secretly hates themself for not standing up to her. He did stand up to her which I am sure everyone else…
/r/seduction04/04/12 05:21 PM
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I think you played your cards just right. I have had similar experiences. When a girl gets very insulting or confrontational it is not attractive and I do not reward them or put up with it.
/r/seduction04/04/12 04:47 PM
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I think you are assuming the movie will be good, or popular. It could totally bomb. Hopefully it will.
/r/seduction02/04/12 08:16 PM
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the book has more to do with being emotionally independent, which it sounds to me like you are not.
/r/seduction02/04/12 06:56 PM
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Well it sounds like you have identified your own problem which is that you simply need to get out there and get experience. Take things one step at a time. Work on your body language. Work on good eye contact. work on opening, then conversation etc. Find out where you are and stop worrying about where you want to be. Delightful white is on the money here. Also from your edits you seem to really need to get over this I want a girlfriend thing. I think you really need to examine why you feel you w…
/r/seduction02/04/12 05:04 PM
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I also have a friend who is way less attractive than me and gets hit on by girls ALL THE TIME and having sex with them while he pretty much does nothing. This also confuses me A LOT. That is because getting laid is far more simple than you think. You are over thinking things which is paralyzing your ability to act. You need to go out and meet girls and talk them. Just have basic bullshit conversations. Don't worry about DHVs and all that other bullshit. I know you have already read a lot but I w…
/r/seduction02/04/12 03:34 PM
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This really adds nothing to the community here.
/r/seduction02/04/12 12:39 AM
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'yeah?' works the same way. Love it.
/r/seduction31/03/12 01:41 AM
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Start with 60. Very succinct.
/r/seduction30/03/12 07:40 PM
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Nailed it. Keep in mind that I calibrate this to the girl. Is she dressed pretty casually and done up pretty casually? I am not going to be nearly as dominant. It simply isn't needed. Is she dressed in sparkly low cut top exposing her big tits? Does she have 5 guys hitting on her trying to buy her drinks? Is she scowling? You bet your ass I am going in extra dominant. Another thing is that I go direct. I will make them uncomfortable bit and then instantly validate with a compliment. 'I thought y…
/r/seduction30/03/12 06:57 PM
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It is confrontational in certain context. With women it is simply dominant and will make her more submissive. It creates tension. You want HER to be nervous. You want her to feel like she has to impress you. You are flipping the script and the social power by being dominant. It is a very powerful tool to be able to control. Dial up tension as punishment for bad behavior or decrease tension as a reward. Girls gets sassy with you or gives you attitude? Stand a little taller, maybe take a step clos…
/r/seduction30/03/12 03:04 PM
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There is nothing wrong with a serious face. Just make it a point to push your boundaries of comfort on this. Remember that it is supposed to make them uncomfortable, that is part of the point. It is showing dominance. Stop giving a shit that some stranger might think you are creepy. Strangers don't don't determine who you really are.
/r/seduction30/03/12 01:31 PM
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There is a lot more to direct game than simply telling a girl she is hot or cute. Direct game is a personality that must be exuded from your core. You must have strong dominant body language. You must be physically direct as well and must always speak your mind.You should not be smiling when you go direct. Smiling is submissive body language. The attractiveness of direct game is reckless boldness that exudes I don't give a shit. you are communicating that you don't care if she rejects you. It is…
/r/seduction30/03/12 05:33 AM
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(Credit 60 years of Challenge – AMAZING ebook highly recommended) Yes 1000 times. This is the only book that was a game changer for me. I read at least 10 others and all the others re-hashed the same shit. 60 was a breath of fresh air that cut through all the bull shit. Every thing you mentioned in this post is right on. As 60 years of Challenge says, “Asses are like boobs you can play with in public”. I love this.
/r/seduction29/03/12 07:31 PM
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After a while she was complaining how far away her house is, so I offer her to come back to mine. She agrees. We're both pretty drunk by this point so when we get back to my house it doesn't take much effort to get the F-close. She was basically asking you to take her home and fuck her.
/r/seduction28/03/12 08:18 PM
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Not all girls suggest makeup day. I would not interpret this as not interested. Until she completely non-responds I would say she is worth pursuing. Txt messages take no investment.
/r/seduction28/03/12 08:04 PM
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I had a couple of girls that were not so great at responding in a timely manner. So I simply txted 'you are terrible at texting....' both girls quickly snapped into shape.
/r/seduction28/03/12 06:53 PM
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You need to strike while the iron is hot. 2 days later she probably forgot your name, forgot who you are or how she felt. I always text the same night or next day. If they respond the next text is simple '[name] Drinks 8ish at [bar near me]'
/r/seduction28/03/12 06:51 PM
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I hope the only thing you took away from that is that she is weird and not that you shouldn't kiss girls on the back of the neck.
/r/seduction28/03/12 03:16 PM
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She hasn't walked away is the only IOI you need. Lots of girls will not give any of these IOIs but that doesn't mean they are not interested. Assume attraction. Assume interest. Escalate until she walks away.
/r/seduction28/03/12 01:19 PM
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I disagree about coming across as as insecure. I think it sounds aloof which is totally fine, a positive even. He is interested but not THAT interested. Plus they are in the same class there is / was no urgency like in a bar or walking down the street. During the delivery she is not even going to remember the first encounter where she sat next him and he didn't engage. Most likely she will simply be caught in the moment. If she sat next to him out of interest then she likely felt rejected when h…
/r/seduction28/03/12 03:51 AM
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This is a great natural opener.
/r/seduction28/03/12 03:38 AM
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But these things tend not to make people feel better. Here's my attitude: I can ejaculate regardless of my size. Someone else not enjoying my penis? That sounds like THEIR problem. NOT mine. If you prefer you can mince and whine about something you can't change or you can fucking own it. Yep. Fuck enough and you realize this. Some girls are dick crazy and will come 15 times. Some girls are frigid and won't come at all no matter how much you try. This has nothing to do with your dick. Its them. S…
/r/seduction27/03/12 07:25 PM
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Sounds like you just needed to isolate her for the conversation you wanted to have. 'hey, come over here real quick...' 'Hey, let me talk to you for a sec...'
/r/seduction27/03/12 07:10 PM
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Direct does not have to be'hey you are gorgeous I want to fuck you.' It doesn't have to be sexually charged or anything to do with their looks. Direct can simply be 'Hey, saw you and I wanted to meet you' My standard direct opener for girls I am not terribly attracted to is just 'Hey, I wanted to see what you are like' I am instantly conveying interest but not too much. I particularly use this on pairs / groups of girls. It works really well. If they are dull or I am not interested I simply excu…
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:58 PM
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Funny I have a playboy tshirt that works very well for me. For some reason girls love it. I get opened everytime I wear it.
/r/seduction25/03/12 06:39 PM
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This is very similar to what used to be my standard closing game. Works great.
/r/seduction25/03/12 07:54 AM
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Are you girls you are approaching actually cute, sexy, attractive or whatever line you are using on them? If you do not actually feel what you are saying when you approach them they will sense it. You can not go to a 6 and tell her she is fucking hot. She won't buy it because you won't truly convey it.
/r/seduction25/03/12 07:48 AM
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Sounds like like the LMR Olympics I went through once. I finally got in by simply talking really dirty to her and telling her my sexual fantasy. Having the girl fantasize your dick inside her first makes it so much easier for you to get it in.
/r/seduction25/03/12 07:31 AM
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Hook satement: You really need to Stop that.... Her: Stop what? Stop putting this dirty thoughts in my head... Her:You love it :) Dunno, getting pretty crowded in my pants... Her: Oh yeah, you thinking about me naked? I can't help thinking about firmly pulling your hair, burying my face in your neck with intense kisses and firmly squeezing you fantastic tits while you gently moan with pleasure.... Things progress from there. Basically keep it descriptive lots of sensory rich detail. Also make su…
/r/seduction23/03/12 03:33 AM
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I had this same issue when I got a second job. Here is what helped me. Logistics - Not just hers but focus on yours. Go out near your own place. MY SNL hits went up dramatically when I stopped wasting my time downtown and instead hit the places closer to my own place on the edge of suburbia. Go to sexual venues. What places have hot girls dressed slutty? If girls are dressed conservative and boring don't go there. Is the place dark? Sexual intent is absolutely crucial. Make sure you have read th…
/r/seduction23/03/12 03:20 AM
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Yeah, that is why I decided to post it. Will try to post more but I am very busy.
/r/seduction23/03/12 02:26 AM
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I am not 60. I am half that. 60 years of challenge is a PUA. He has a pickup book / system.
/r/seduction22/03/12 08:40 PM
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??
/r/seduction22/03/12 04:51 PM
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you will get blown out a lot more when doing direct. It saves you a lot of time. The girls that open are attracted. This makes things easier. Of those that open, about 50% of the time the girl will drive the conversation asking you questions. This will depend on how attracted she is to you and how social she is. Sometimes you run into a shyer girl and you will need to drive things a bit more. Its good to jump into just normal stuff like where are you from, what do you do? But its nice to have go…
/r/seduction22/03/12 03:35 PM
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Lucky she invited me back, yes. Wouldn't have gotten lucky if I had not been persistent and pushed well past my comfort zone and limiting beliefs. There were many times I could have pussed out or made excuses about not being in state or she isn't in to me. Despite this being a shitty awkward pickup it taught me more than any of my smoothest pickups ever have.
/r/seduction22/03/12 03:12 PM
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Personally when it comes to conveying intent, like laying down a physical compliment, or sexual intent, I like to phrase it in the form of a question as it makes it more conversational and a little less awkward. Dropping the compliment bomb can come across as a little needy which is why saying it in a natural conversational way as a question is so great. Because it is so naturally conversational I can typically have a 3 minute conversation or more about how sexy they are. ex: So you do know you'…
/r/seduction21/03/12 05:52 PM
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Having read many ebooks and watched many videos on pickup I would say that only one really was a game changer for me. sixty years of challenge. Most others seemed to rehash the same stuff with slightly different focus / angle and different lines. 60 years of challenge just laid it out straight cuts through the bullshit and drives home some great mindsets that will make you a man. I think it is a bit more advanced simply because I don't think much it will ring true without a decent amount of fiel…
/r/seduction20/03/12 09:04 PM
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This is why I love direct. You get blown out more but you don't waste time on go nowhere sets. And yes it is very powerful in projecting that you are a MAN and that you do not give shit. Projects a very powerful confidence.
/r/seduction20/03/12 07:17 PM
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Very Important discussion. -Giving girls compliments and letting them know you are interested - this is in fact extremely important for having SNLs. -Needing classic IOIs to escalate - F-Closed a girl without getting any classic IOIs until she invited me over. blew me away how far I got with her simply because I didn't blow myself out. Don't ever tell yourself not to do something because she hasn't given you IOI, make her say 'No'. Best rack I ever laid my hands on too. -Buying girls drinks - di…
/r/seduction20/03/12 07:06 PM
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Totally agree on this. My first threesome came about on a weeknight by myself when I was feeling pretty meh. But I was out and trying and had enough experience to not fuck things up. Quickly turned into one of the best nights of my life. The more you go out do these things the more natural these things become and the momentum builds. Go out thurs, fri an saturday and by saturday you should be in your A game because of practice the other two nights.
/r/seduction20/03/12 06:39 PM
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I am going to disagree and say there is nothing wrong with not smiling, in fact it might even be better to not smile - at least during the initial approach and especially if the girl is hot and not smiling herself. This goes along with not rewarding bad behavior (she is not smiling at you, why should you smile at her?) once they girl smiles and is open and receptive I quickly reciprocate with a warm smile thus rewarding her good behavior. This obviously also a form of mirroring and builds rappor…
/r/seduction16/03/12 07:44 PM
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Sorry, but there are several forms of 'closing' Number close? Kiss Close? F-Close? Which is your issue here? Without knowing much I can probably tell you its kino that you need to work on.
/r/seduction15/03/12 07:35 PM
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Easiest kino is just pull her into you by her waist when she talks and turn your head so she is talking into your ear. I will sometimes pretend I can't hear her and pull her. You don't even have to say anything the action communicates everything.
/r/seduction15/03/12 05:13 PM
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Had my first threesome plowing through a shitty night full of meh energy and approach apathy. Quickly became one of the best nights of my life.
/r/seduction15/03/12 04:07 PM
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All depends on how you go up to her and tell her she is pretty. Just don't let it sit and linger and expect it to generate its own conversation. "hey...you are way too sexy[cute] to ignore..I'm Blahm3...I bet you get told how sexy you are all the time..." carry on like any other conversation preferably bantering about how sexy she is a conversational way. VS "your sexy." ummmm ok
/r/seduction15/03/12 03:47 PM
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Have an upvote for mentioning 60. He was a game changer for me.
/r/seduction15/03/12 03:18 PM
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Ditto what throwaway said. Take some social dancing classes - salsa, swing etc. You are required to touch and you will become more comfortable with it. In fact the more you social dance and become a good dance lead you will be more comfortable with physically moving women in general and in bed.
/r/seduction14/03/12 02:30 PM
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You can be direct but still casual and natural about it. "Hey, I don't think we've actually met....I'm dablac..." "Hey, I have seen you in a couple of previous classes...I'm dablac..."
/r/seduction14/03/12 02:17 PM
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This is why learning to go direct is important. Sometimes there is no situation and you have to simply go up and express interest with something natural and direct. 'I saw you and wanted to me you...' 'I thought you were really sexy and had to come over...' just about anything. And yes it will be a bit awkward.
/r/seduction25/10/11 08:36 PM
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Focus more on process and on sticking points. Not opening?? Focus on opening. Do not focus on the result. It doen't matter if she laugs, if it hooks etc. The only question is did you open? If yes, sucess. Similar. Are you escalating? It doesn't matter if she is receptive. Is having good conversation your sticking point? Focus solely on getting better at conversation. Getting sexual your sticking point. Focus solely on getting more sexual. Note that sticking points can cycle around.You'll focus o…
/r/seduction18/09/11 11:18 PM
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I have to say I don't think anyone here can provide any insight. Anyones guess here is just as valid / invalid as your own. You can try calling her and finding out what the fuck is up if you are really that interested to know or you can not give a shit and simply respond with your "Well let me know if you interested in a glass of wine or g-spot orgasm" Girls are just fucking weird sometimes.
/r/seduction15/08/11 08:48 PM
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I have just been reading this. It is quite interesting. I have tried his methods the past few nights out and have had good success. I have had two women ask me for my number. And I went home and fucked the shit out of another woman. My approach last night simply walking right up to group of three girls and saying nothing. I just invaded their space and created tension. Cute blond quickly gave me a friendly "hey what's up?" to break the tension. I let her drive most of the conversation and mainly…
/r/seduction14/08/11 08:37 PM
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Nothing wrong with that opening. Its called being direct and shows intent. Delivery is always more important than content. Given his results I would say he probably delivered it the right way.
/r/seduction11/08/11 08:20 PM
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This one is fantastic. My girlfriends picked it out for me. It would make their brains stop working for about two seconds when they smelled it on me and they would fight to sniff me. It also the only cologne that has gotten random women to approach me on public trans to ask what I am wearing.
/r/seduction11/08/11 07:59 PM
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Instead of asking bland questions make inane assumptions instead. When she disagrees escalate in a teasing way. Instead of "what do you do for fun?" 'So let me guess you are one of those girls who loves to crochet and scrapbook?' Her: Hahah No way.. 'Omg you must be even more boring than I imagined...' or "So let me guess you are one of those girls who loves to crochet and read?" Her: Haha noooooo... 'REally???....You don't know how to read?? I am not really a guy who wants a brainiac girl, caus…
/r/seduction30/06/11 11:26 PM
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I am actually studying his one now. I think it definitely has some value
/r/seduction10/05/11 12:27 AM
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"Hey, I've seen you around and I just wanted to introduce myself, my name is Blah blah. What's yours?" Great natural conversational opener. Yes, this was alpha!
/r/seduction01/04/11 09:20 PM
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I think one or two of the more casual looking shirts from this guy would do the trick:: http://www.jaredlangshirts.com/mens/mens-white-prague-shirt.html http://www.jaredlangshirts.com/mens/mens-blue-montreal-shirt-spring-collection.html You only need a few good shirts to start. Make sure they fit right. Also one good pair of jeans that fit right and decent pair of shoes. Also check out nordstrom and nordstrom rack for interesting looking shirts. Especially the rack since it is cheaper.
/r/seduction01/04/11 08:38 PM
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I usually do the pointer in the front pocket and thumb in the back pocket thing. Very relaxing and chill looking. Hands come out when talking. When I am holding a drink I hold it down by my side rather than at my chest like most chodes.
/r/seduction23/03/11 08:16 PM
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Try this warm up I do:: As you walk campus state to the first stranger you see:: I don’t know about you....but I am sick of winter. Bring on spring! I don’t know about you..but I am loving this spring weather. there is nothing like warm sunshine. I don’t know about you...some opinion about the weather...too hot. too cold..too wet....whatever This is great because it is not a question. it is a statement. There is no need for a reaction or hook from the person you are stating it to. You are simply…
/r/seduction16/03/11 05:25 PM
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So I finally ask her does she want to go somewhere else and she says "im here with you" so we continued a bit talk, Don't ask her. Simply say lets go somewhere else and lead the way. her saying "im here with you" is basically that she wants you to be in charge and take the lead. Props to you for at least trying to change venue to something more comfortable for yourself. Practice. Practice. Practice. You'll do fine in no time.
/r/seduction11/03/11 01:18 AM
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This shit happens. This will create a point of reference so next time you will see it, recognize it and act differently as a result.
/r/seduction25/02/11 03:33 PM
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You know there is nothing wrong with leading her to a new venue if the one you chose sucks. Knowing your environment is always helpful though.
/r/seduction25/02/11 03:30 PM
2

What kind of resistance were you getting at the panties? Verbal? Physical?Both? What was she saying? "this is bad" "this is too fast". Were your pants off completely? Was she giving you hand action? BJ? This will give some insight as to how comfortable and into it she was. Helpful details. One thing that worked for me with a very tough cookie was stating sexual intent with lots of sensory rich detail. Describe to her how you want to fuck her. This creates imagery in her mind and walks her throug…
/r/seduction24/02/11 01:45 AM
1

As A salsa dancer myself I can tell you its a great social scene that is easy to game in and learn a lot from.
/r/seduction20/02/11 01:47 AM
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also she said i have a great cock, which is true :) This is the attitude that gets you laid!
/r/seduction20/02/11 12:38 AM
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With all respect this is where I disagree. I think this answer depends entirely on the person and what level they are. If someone can't even look someone in the eye, much less an attractive woman they have no business in a bar or club. If someone can't have a conversation with a store attendant (female or male) they should not be in a bar or club. These people should learn initially with normal boring environments like malls, college campus, or busy city street. They should practice and apply te…
/r/seduction20/02/11 12:27 AM
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Agreed. Also try and arrange the meetup sooner. The sparks die quick. Try and arrange a meetup thats mid week. I almost never give a girl i just met one of my friday or saturday nights. Similarly why should she give you one of her friday or saturday nights?
/r/seduction17/02/11 09:33 PM
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Just as a note. If she is responding in 5 minutes or so you should respond in a similar time frame. Mirror her response time - it builds rapport.
/r/seduction17/02/11 09:27 PM
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You dropped the fucking ball on date two and on date three. She mentioned there was time to watch a movie. She was making a suggestion of what to do! A girl saying lets watch a movie is girl code for lets make out / have sex. She wanted you to make a move on her. you didn't. She didn't get out of the car immediately.She was waiting for you to make a move on her but you pussed out. Instead you kept chatting and not sexually escalating. You need to next this girl and move on.
/r/seduction17/02/11 04:55 PM
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Learning IOIs, how to calibrate and how to be assertive, talkative and social would be some key things to take home. Otherwise I generally concur with other sentiments here.
/r/seduction16/02/11 06:55 PM
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curious what details you are looking for? What I was touching? how I initiated? Which girl?
/r/seduction16/02/11 02:46 AM
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Upvote. Lots to learn from here. Great job pushing yourself.
/r/seduction11/02/11 08:51 PM
1

I do this but primarily because they give better haircuts. They cut mine with a straight razor. It is more expensive. But I do use it as an opportunity to practice material and just socialize.
/r/seduction10/02/11 04:54 PM
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Even if you are passionate, you want to give a BS answer first - because its more fun and lets you control the frame. Plus it creates inside jokes. After your BS answer and some banter on it then you can reveal your real job and talk passionately about it. Doesn't have to be one or the other. You can do both. But start with the BS - obviously.
/r/seduction31/01/11 08:31 PM
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I have gotten at least two lays because of I opened first with a silly face. I usually do this when I get eye contact from a girl and I am stuck at the bar. Then once My drink is secured I come over and start chattin about how they seem friendly because the laughed / smiled at my face. Some girls quickly turn their head -maybe 10-20%. These girls I do not approach. Its a great qualifier. I also use faces to break tension or when I just plain don't know what the fuck to say because there is a hol…
/r/seduction29/01/11 09:32 PM
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I wished I could upvote this about 100 more times. Fantastic response!
/r/seduction26/01/11 04:43 PM
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This is a great blog. Read the rest of his proverbs.
/r/seduction26/01/11 03:02 PM
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This is how I roll too. If she makes a move or offers LET HER!
/r/seduction24/01/11 06:43 AM
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I thought PPP was this at first. Glad to know it wasn't
/r/seduction24/01/11 06:39 AM
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This is easy. Give them the run around the first time they ask. It helps if you banter off of whatever you say. This can generates a fun conversation on its own that can grow its own legs and run somewhere - plus it can generate inside jokes. The next time they ask you give them the straight answer. BS the first time they ask. Give it to them straight for the real answer. Bantering with the real answer helps as well. Banter is the key to good conversation.
/r/seduction23/01/11 12:45 AM
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Most guys have too much nice guy in them and need to learn not be. I see these articles as simply counter balancing all the BS about being polite supplicating mister nice guy and buying shit for girls. I personally did not get the impression from the article to be an asshole to everyone. Just don't be so polite and nice. Joking and teasing instead of being mister polite is not being an ass. Ex: I was hosting a party and some people spilled some shit. instead of being mister boring ass nice guy "…
/r/seduction21/01/11 06:35 AM
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good to know for the future.
/r/seduction21/01/11 06:21 AM
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Didn't want to jump through her hoop and wanted to control the frame. Plus it let me set up my salsa date easier - which I had this past monday. I am cooking dinner at her place sunday where I will close her.
/r/seduction21/01/11 06:20 AM
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At a very popular club in Georgetown. I went to talk to this gorgeously hot girl who hands down a 10. I ask her if she was an Au Pair - lots go to this place. I get chattting with her asking where she is from blah blah. At some point I ask her a question and she just says whatever and walks off.
/r/seduction14/01/11 08:24 PM
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DHVing is not just about talking about your higher value and all the cool things you do, its about being higher value. This can be demonstrated in your body language - having a strong frame and being slightly aloof - or simply how you run the conversation. Asking her qualifying questions "Are you adventurous / Spontaneous / Cool / Fun etc?" and challenging her. If she has to qualify herself to you she just assumes you are higher value even if she knows nothing about you. Check out this qoute fro…
/r/seduction13/01/11 10:07 PM
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Lots of girls work for Non-Profits in DC area. She seemed like the typical do-gooder girl who would.
/r/seduction12/01/11 12:26 AM
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She was dressed pretty casually. Hip hugging jeans with a some what larger belt. Top was a a pretty homely flowery hippy looking thing. She had kind of a country western girl next door look to her minus the boots and southern draw. She was from Michigan.
/r/seduction11/01/11 06:42 AM
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Not sticky rice. Little Miss Whiskey. First time there. Not a big H street fan.
/r/seduction11/01/11 06:39 AM
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I am putting this on my to do list. It sounds educational and edgy.
/r/seduction11/01/11 06:26 AM
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This was at a dive bar type place in town. They were playing old school funk. So I was dancing pretty normal face to face. Spinning her. using my salsa and merengue moves. As things got going it got more sexual and there was plenty of grinding and such.
/r/seduction10/01/11 02:42 AM
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I can't say I remember everything i said. There was just chit-chat and teasing. Asking what kind of music she likes. And then tease about it - make her elaborate some more. There was also a bit of chit chat with some of her friends.
/r/seduction10/01/11 02:32 AM
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Yes, Basically that some moaning means seal the deal - just lead the way. This wasn't explicit advice but I read that in an FR from Tofu.
/r/seduction10/01/11 02:27 AM
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I read double your dating by David De Angelo and Natural Game V3 by Gambler. But mostly I watched videos, including: Annihilation method by Style / Neil Strauss Various David De Angelo vids Various Total Natural game vids by Gambler and his crew Plus tons of other articles and videos addressing things like inner game, sexuality etc etc.
/r/seduction07/01/11 03:47 PM
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No bullshit here bro.
/r/seduction07/01/11 07:52 AM
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Awesome. I am a fellow Ex-Mormon getting laid.
/r/seduction05/01/11 06:04 PM
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Lots of boring ass girls in DC huh? Thats my reality :( But I do alright anyway :) Awesome FR.
/r/seduction05/01/11 05:14 PM
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My favorite is doing high-fives with strangers as you walk down the street. Builds your energy and puts you in state where you don't care what strangers think about you - which is key key for killing AA. I hooked a 2 set of 9/10s with this once because I was doing this walking behind them doing this to folks as they passed. Finally I said something like Hey I don't want to make you girls jealous...' Got a weak high five, negged her on it after which she smacked the hell out of it and it was ON. …
/r/seduction03/01/11 01:03 AM
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Was your direct line genuine? Did she have a great sense of style or were you just saying it? They might have sensed it being a line and not genuine. If your opener relates to her style your conversation should revolve around that initially. "With your [hipster, goth, preppy, trendy] style, I bet you shop at XXX" you can make this humorous by making XXX the exact opposite of her style - nothing builds comfort like laughs and smiles. Don't expect a lot of IOIs in direct play like that unless you …
/r/seduction28/12/10 11:12 PM
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Totally agree. This is why its important who your wingman is. Make sure you are with someone that you could talk and have fun with even if there was no one worth talking to in the bar.
/r/seduction28/12/10 10:52 PM
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I used to game in the mall when I wasn't living close to the city. I would usually do the cologne opener from style. Just go to the a department store spray each wrist with a different cologne and then ask women for their opinion. Make sure to throw in a time constraint - I usually would just say "hey, real quick..." and let them know what you are up to. Make sure to sniff your own wrist first before offering it to their nose - it builds comfort. Helps if you start learning about cologne and mak…
/r/seduction23/12/10 06:59 PM
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You can also totally make shit up BIG time so they know it. For instance: When girls ask me what I do I tell them I am Chuck Norris impersonator. Its obviously bullshit. And I make up stories that go along with it. How I do lots of bachlorette parties, bar mitzvahs, office parties. I tell them how fun it is to be treated like a celebrity but how deep down inside I really just want people to like me for me. They play along and its fun. It creates an inside joke that allows me to bring up callback…
/r/seduction22/12/10 05:47 AM
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Only on [insert current day of week] IE. Only on Tuesdays... Cocky. Funny.
/r/seduction17/12/10 06:50 AM
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Make eye contact, confidently walk over Ok, I am curious how you make eye contact. You will have to be in front of her. She will likely have a circle of Girlfriends around her. You just plow threw them? On the dance floor: Any talking? Questions? try and work logistics? Comments: You smell sexy. You're sexy. Grind that on me... Strictly nonverbal? Great information.
/r/seduction15/12/10 05:15 AM
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I had this issue as well. The thing that helped me the most is doing dirty talk. It keeps your mind focused on the arousing situation in front of you rather than letting your mind wander about you performance anxiety. Plus dirty talk focuses your partner and makes them more aroused as well. Over all dirty talk makes for better sex. Learn to dirty talk!
/r/seduction11/12/10 07:30 AM
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