blamesway1738 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
54	Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative Players	CMV	blamesway1738	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 06:56 PM

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5	How bad is negociated attraction really, as in being liked for something you provide? Any guy here who says they only value pussy, can get nothing but being valued as a wallet A more gynocentric, mainstream view on dating does not make you any less likely of being valued as a wallet. Some of the guys who get blindsided the hardest by their ex-wive's have the most naïve, stereotypical and PC views on the dating which is why they never see it coming.. If anything it's the guys who understand the trade-offs between pussy and money who usually get out scott free because they are more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 07:03 AM
6	paying for the first date I do offer to split every time in the beginning lol. While hoping he pays for your meal too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 11:25 AM
8	paying for the first date The post asked for opinions and that’s my opinion. This is a subreddit, it's basically just a giant collection of opinions. When I had a bf when it was my idea to go out on a date night I’d pay. I think whoever invites the other should pay. Most women will never pay for a man on a date. And you paid for your partners meal, not someone you had yet to be in a relationship with and whose future with you is uncertain. I can’t help if it’s usually guys You know what would help? If both parties split …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 09:04 AM
12	paying for the first date Who ever invites the other person should pay imo. If a guy invites me I’d offer to pay half but would hope he pays for it. You only say this because men are the ones who invite women to dates 95% of time and in the slim chance that a women does ask a guy out there is no way she will pay for his meal too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 08:51 AM
11	If you were a woman, how would you get a date with a man? Be attractive and exist Be attractive and exist	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 09:10 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread CMV: Being born to a single mother is better than being born to average married couples. Almost all studies on the matter show that children raised by single mothers are more likely to dropout, do hard drugs, end up homeless or commit crimes. It is one of the most important factors as to whether a child will fail in life. This is simply not better. It is simple you get to inherit chad's genes and have all the toxic traits that get women wet. Think of the type of man who abandons his own child an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 08:36 PM
1	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. but women typically require more than just “genetic resources” instinctually…at least once they start approaching maturity Only if she desires a committed relationship with a man, in such a case a woman may even look past ugly or fat men if they have enough resources. However if we're talking primarily about a woman's desire for a hookup (which is what most men want anyhow) then looks are of the most importance and they don't differ too much from men, in a "You're hot, let's bang" type of way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 08:24 PM
2	Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades. However, David Buss also said as women mature, they get better at detecting such scheme. I think women vastly overestimate their ability to detect male behaviors. So much of what they use to factor mates from astrology, dress sense or "vibe" is just blatant stereotyping or laughably superficial judgments. "Polite and Well Mannored = He's Weak", "Below 5'10 = Can't Protect Me", "Disrespectful and Abusive = Knows how to put me in my place". The amount of times I've had women label men as creeps fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 06:15 AM
21	Would you date or marry a single mother or father? BUT turns out I'm only good at handling kids that aren't mine when there's a paycheck attached. Imagine men nowadays who not only have to handle someone else's kids but are also expected to provide funding for them. With the amount of women in this thread who would not date single fathers, we better not hear anything from females the next time men state they refuse to date single mothers, regardless of the reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 04:13 AM
1	What is your advice for young men that want to eventually date women that are more attractive than the ones they are currently seeing. In todays current dating market looks matter more than anything as OLD (which is where most heterosexual couples meet) is a platform that heavily favors men who are more attractive (not personal or funny) than the rest. Unless are high in income or status you need to seriously improve your looks. That means getting into skincare, going to the gym, upgrading your wardrobe, regular haircuts etc. to looks match. Post your best photos on multiple OLD apps and hope for the best. If there's no sucess …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 08:17 AM
7	Daily Community Chat Megathread Every culture outside of the modern west idolises virgin women This sub primarily discusses the dating dynamics present in Western cultures. Red Pill, Blue Pill, Black Pill, Purple Pill etc. good or bad are all a consequence of Western culture. If you ask me if men seek virgins I'm going to assume your speaking of Western men and in most cases they do not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 02:25 AM
8	Daily Community Chat Megathread Outside of some religious or niche incel exceptions they do not. No guy wants to wait until their wedding day to find out that they may be sexually incompatible with someone they are expected to spend their lives with. Also virginity sex is usually pretty bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 01:52 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I find it odd how high N women are always going on about the statistical unlikelihood of finding a virgin wife. Which is statistically harder, finding a virgin woman or a man who’s okay with marrying a high N woman? Most men are not even interested in virgins. Women just use the most extreme example to make male standards sound as unreasonable as their own. Men prefer Low N-Count women, there is a big difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 01:43 AM
1	Kevin Samuels and Paris Milan are the same person I get what you're saying, I'm just saying there are truths to what Kevin in saying. That is why he has WOMEN, not men calling in everyday to speak to him or get his advice because they've been doing what society has been telling them and they are single, old and lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 01:40 AM
1	Kevin Samuels and Paris Milan are the same person .I have dated white men before and have no attracting men of other races. You are one person. Also having a man being attracted to you means little. Men will have sex with any woman, that does not mean that they will commit to you, propose, introduce you to their families or wed you. However when you compare black men earnings to white, Asian, and Hispanic men its settling. But when you compare black men earning to other black women, it is black men who are doing the settling from a financial as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 01:38 AM
1	Kevin Samuels and Paris Milan are the same person Black women? Tyrone and Carlton? Constantly blame men for being trash? How are these not generalizations? To a degree you cannot observe a demographic of millions without in some sense generalizing, this is for better or for worse inevitable. Btw single mothers don't get pregnant using turkey basters. It takes TWO people to make a baby. And it takes ONE to decide whether the baby will be born. I you as a woman are foolish enough to let a man who would abandon his own children impregnate you then…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 11:53 PM
2	Kevin Samuels and Paris Milan are the same person Why should black women settle for 50K when men of other races earn more? Statistically Black Women are the least desired race of women for other men among females. Also most Black Women wouldn't be "settling" because they earn less than black men themselves. The problem is they have gone delusional and think that dating their equal is settling, until they hit 30, are alone or a single mother and call Kevin asking for advice. either that or join FDS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 11:46 PM
1	Kevin Samuels and Paris Milan are the same person I can't speak for Pairs Milan but Kevin Samuels does support his arguments with objectified facts. Most black women will not get married, most black moms are single mothers, single motherhood is a the worst environment to raise children in and a major problem in the black community. Despite this most young, single black men earn decent salaries ($50K and up). Black women for whatever reason ignore these men to become baby mama's to men who are less suited for Long Term Relationships. Most black …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 11:32 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread So I don't really buy the idea that a guy can get dates but not sex. If you treat a women too well, too early on she will put you in a potential relationship box and withhold sex, so as not to seem too easy and blow her chances. If she knows you are only there for a good time she'll give it up quicker because she probably won't see you much. As a man it's better to not treat women very well because they do not seem to reward that behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 10:29 PM
16	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? But those men have a greater potential future because the money and social capital carries on after college. Many can get a C average and get gifted with a job from connections with a fellow Greek alum or a family friend. If you think the average 19 year old chick who hooks up with a random frat guy did so because she's really just interested in his earning ability after school or for his networking connections, then I don't know what to tell you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 05:37 PM
15	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? Of course it's only female adolescents within that 3 year age who like aggressive men. All other women are completely innocent and just want a good guy to tuck them into bed at night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 04:51 PM
2	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? but real life is more nuanced than “Frats are just like how we see in movies and TV” Nobody's saying that frats don't have benefits. The point is that frats exhibit several behaviors that many would consider brash, troublesome and toxically masculine yet have no trouble getting female attention, proving OPs point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 04:49 PM
14	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? frat guys you are describing were the ones with rich parents who got them good jobs after school. Women went for them because they had money and social capital. You're inadvertently proving OP's point. Colleges don't really attract criminals and felons, but if you look at it from a University perspective, where everyone is pursuing an education Frat Guys are literally the biggest trouble makers on campus. They are considered obnoxious, brash, drink and do a lot of drugs, have stirred up controve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 04:01 PM
1	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? masculinity with violent traits) are preferred to a higher extent by some women in the case of short-term relationships but not for long-term relationships AFBB. These women know what they're doing. They want one man to have fun with and another to clean up the mess. Any man that seriously dates a single mom or high n-count women should know of this ahead of time. Do not pay full price for a beat up, high mileage car. Any women that seeks out aggressive men is mentally ill and should not be take…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 03:47 PM
0	Ladies who are well endowed, if men had to spend a month or two with large boobs, what do you think they would learn from the experience? Coolstorybro	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 10:35 PM
0	Ladies who are well endowed, if men had to spend a month or two with large boobs, what do you think they would learn from the experience? You must be drowning in girls	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 10:14 PM
1	Ladies who are well endowed, if men had to spend a month or two with large boobs, what do you think they would learn from the experience? Fuck off man, she can wear whatever she wants without warranting assholes commenting on them and making her uncomfortable White_Knight has entered the chat	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 09:16 PM
0	Ladies who are well endowed, if men had to spend a month or two with large boobs, what do you think they would learn from the experience? So are you saying it was my fault at 13 when wearing baggy t shits I had men comment on my boobs? Obviously not. But that was a good attempt to personalize the argument. The only thing that hides them is baggy hoodies which is mainly what I wear in the cold weather but should I have to wear them in the summer? That's very convenient. Or should creeps just leave others alone male or female People who go around highlighting their sexual features for public attention then getting offended are creep…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 09:16 PM
0	Reddit is infamous for advocating women to make the first move… though this FDS post says that’s the wrong move. What are your thoughts lol Despite all of the controversy I personally love FDS... A wise man once said "Never interrupt your enemy when their making a mistake". I mean most of their base consists of the most undesirable women in the dating market...Post wall, overweight, uncooperative, career women and instead of advising them to work out, be polite, put themselves out there more, or be better conversationalists, They give advice like this which basically says "never approach anyone EVER". Like their dream Chad/Simp 6'2,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 09:02 PM
-1	Ladies who are well endowed, if men had to spend a month or two with large boobs, what do you think they would learn from the experience? I can promise I do not walk around with them on show. I wear normal clothes. Nothing that tight or low. There's men out there who are more well endowed. Not to get too explicit but they know not to wear "normal clothing" like sweatpants or athletic shorts because of unwanted attention, unless they wear something to hide any sort of bulge. They do not complain. Eventually we'll reach a point where women will demand that they should be able to walk in public fully naked and have no one dare to gla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 08:48 PM
1	Ladies who are well endowed, if men had to spend a month or two with large boobs, what do you think they would learn from the experience? That you get creeps commenting on them all the time, yes I know they are big, I do not need you to tell me . Then cover up. As a man it would be dumb to complain about people staring at my junk if I only left the house wearing tights or sweatpants that outlined them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 08:40 PM
14	What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers? What are you paying for in a relationship? Your time, emotions, energy, money, investment, soul etc. Most women act as if men do not have jobs, responsibilities, schools, friends, goals, dreams, bills etc. We do not have any time to waste on a woman who expects everything we go out of our way to do for her. couple of dates, maybe some flowers, if you're generous? Your half of the couple's expenses? Presents for special occasions that you also receive them for? What makes you think you'll even ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 08:00 AM
-12	What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers? whaat.... why is that even a question.. Umm... Outside of sexual pleasure what does a woman provide to a man that a man can not also provide to her?? Most women abandoned their gender roles. They do not cook, clean, are shallow, expect everything and usually the first to file a divorce etc. That's why men with options avoid commitment, you get everything you need with sex, dating women adds little beyond that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 07:45 AM
4	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? Why not? If I'm new to a city the first thing I'll do is find a board games café, a basketball court, a yoga class or some kind of meet-up activity to meet new people. I could very easily see this turn into women complaining about men joining shared hobby groups to approach/harass tthem. As a guy approaching or even glancing at a women in the gym or on video could put you at risk of being cancelled nowadays. I don't think women can answer this question because they know that if you are the Mr. R…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 11:29 PM
1	Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative Players A man typically isn’t gonna reveal all the fuck shit pathetic NiceGuyTM behaviours he does to his friends. They kind of do though, I mean as a guy your friend circle or group chat is usually who you discuss your dating life with the most. Things like awkward hookups, break-ups, ghosting, and yes even pathetic NiceGuyTM behaviors are not off limits, at best you'll get some advice from a pal, at worst you'll be the butt of a few jokes but it's not some undisclosed, shameful information you can nev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 09:17 PM
15	What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market? I don't know anyone who does this. Not necessarily "sugar dating" but 1/3 of women admit to going on dates for free food.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 03:59 PM
2	Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflections Talking to you, giving you their number or even going on a date doesn't mean anything and any party can pull out of the "relationship" at any point. There is no obligation for ANYONE to be in a relationship. You can't be mad if someone decides to just fuck around, date multiple people or NOT date anyone. If that's the case I better not hear women complain the next time a guy kicks a women out of his house for not having sex. None of this West Elm Caleb bullshit lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 03:28 PM
-2	Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflections Lol, where do you live if you can lose your work over a statement like that?? Where do you live where you can't?? Also, why do you need to say it out loud in some public setting and convince some random women? It's indicative of equality. If women are able to freely speak on their ideas on male entitlement men should be able to express their ideas as well without fearing job loss. Why can't women keep their statements to themselves and live their own lives??	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 03:25 PM
-4	Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflections They are benefiting from it by choice. So what's the issue? Men are also dumb enough to buy their shit Women are dumb enough to sell their shit then complain about being sexualized. I’m not benefiting from the grossness and it’s a hindrance to my day to day life. You are one woman. Tons of women do gain off male sexuality which is why they seek it. As you personally stated earlier they benefit from it by their own choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 03:21 PM
1	Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflections The constant sexualization from the greater male populous is the gross part and if that stopped I’d be elated! Tell that to all the e-girls, IG models, strippers, sugar babies and gold-diggers who make a living of being sexualized. Don't forget the chicks getting free dinners too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 03:06 PM
1	Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflections But those statements are true. It doesn't matter if they are both true. Plenty of statements are "true" that doesn't mean they are propogated or encouraged in modern society. Saying "Men don't owe women _____" in a public setting may put you at risk of losing your job, that is the point. Women really don't want men to think like this because they will lose leverage in dating,	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 03:03 PM
1	Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflections The problem with these statements is that they never work when it's the other way around. If guys were to say "Men don't owe you attention" or "Women aren't entitled to a man's wallet, energy or resources" many women would complain about how ridiculous this mentality is. The problem is many women can dish it but not take it. If women do not owe men sex in any context men must equally not owe women affection in any context. There is no way around it. That is direct equality, anything else would b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 02:48 PM
1	If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issue If women took way less precautions they would likely be getting attacked more not less. Women would also be getting attacked less if they never left the house, wore clothing that didn't show any skin and ran away at the sight of any male within a 100 yard radius. The point is that there is a tradeoff where ensuring you "feel safe" is no longer beneficial, that's kind of the whole point of phobia's. If a random man cannot approach you without you seriously fearing for your life and safety, then y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 09:31 PM
10	Men are shamed for wanting women equally or less attractive than them and acting frustrated when these women act like they are out of their league, yet women act entitled to men far more attractive than them all the time If most men will have sex with most women, then a typical woman’s SMV is higher than any typical man’s. No shit. Men are way hornier than women so of course on average women will have higher SMV. OP never mentioned SMV. What he means by overinflated is that a women will believe that she's too good to date her male equivalent. So a female 7 will believe that she should only date male 8.5's or higher. Sexually she might have HVM smashing her but those same men who have a ton of options are less li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 08:38 PM
14	Men are shamed for wanting women equally or less attractive than them and acting frustrated when these women act like they are out of their league, yet women act entitled to men far more attractive than them all the time Men seem to have no idea who is in their league. Men are not the ones demanding their partners reach certain height, income and status requirements prior to messaging or dating them. Some men are delusional, I'll give you that but the fact that the average, run of the mil, overweight, generic or even ugly women expect top 10-20% guy to just fall out of the sky and propose to them tells it all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 08:26 PM
2	If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issue I can walk through the city and smile and say hello to tons of women and just keep walking and it’s not creepy. There are certainty a good portion of women who will definitely find this creepy lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 01:21 PM
1	If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issue I really can't remember a case where someone just approached me on the street and didn't want to sell me something, beg for money or try to rob me. You must live in Gotham or something. 99% of the time strangers have approached me for something especially in a public setting with a ton of other people around, no harm came out of it. I'll admit I'd rather not talk to people I don't know in public when I'm doing stuff but I won't judge everybody who brings up the weather as a potential threat to m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 01:12 PM
3	If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issue I'm a guy and if a random person approaches me and starts talking I assume he wants to mug me, scam me, or has some mental problems. This is not a normal reaction to a stranger striking up a conversation. You are overly paranoid especially as a grown man if someone making small talk has you questioning your safety.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 01:05 PM
1	If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issue Women already make changes. Women are the ones afraid to go places alone at night That's because women are over-paranoid. Statistically men are at a significantly higher risk of being assaulted, harmed or murdered but we aren't as afraid because we aren't hyper-paranoid to the point that we're shaking in boots at the thought of someone striking up a conversation in public.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 01:00 PM
2	If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issue Most sharks don't want to attack humans, but that doesn't mean I'm going to be totally chill with one swimming right up to me out of the blue. If women are allowed free reign to view every unknown male as a potential predator or rapist, why then are men not allowed to judge every women they do not known as being a potential manipulator, user or gold-digger? I have no issues with women being fearful around men but men (especially wealthier ones) should be able to have similar judgements towards w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 12:55 PM
1	If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issue fear strange men who approach them since they cannot know how these men will react upon being rejected. This "fear of rejection" has certainly never stopped women from being as rude as possible in some of their rejections of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 12:49 PM
8	Almost all gender behavior differences boil down to socialized behaviors and different hormonal cocktails. I don't even see a reason to believe men have higher libidos than women Men have 15-20 times testosterone in their bodies than women. Gay men have like 3 times as many sexual partners than lesbians, and most people frequently watching pornsites or engaging in escort services are overwhelmingly men. Women can have high libidos but if you have a hard time believing men have higher libidos you must not understand men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 05:22 AM
8	Male entitlement is the sole reason for their widespread loneliness He doesn’t have a cute face. Face is the most important part of attraction. Most women would consider a man who was 6'4 with an average face attractive. With women height plays a big role.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 12:17 AM
11	Q4ALL, What is wrong with current dating scene? and why do redpill men believe it's bad for the society? Tons of attractive guys are virgins irl and tons of ugly guys get laid. Not really....	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 01:36 PM