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OK, now I see. Yes, lots of the guys I'm talking about are alcoholics or meth got hold of them somewhere along the way. Lots of them don't have great jobs or have stalled out in their jobs or have dead end jobs. They got married young before those things showed that they were going to be problems for most people. You were smart enough to avoid those guys. I never said that those guys were mostly great catches just that they really wanted a wife and kids and made it happen. Lots of them weren't r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:05 PM
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Did you grow up in a small town or move to one for college and end up staying? It's the growing up in one part that I think is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:20 PM
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You just weren't dating those types of guys. Get first halfway decent job, start family. No waiting to be able to buy a house or to make really good money. Figure that out later. It may also be cultural. I hear that many more people from the major cities hold off longer to get married. I'm in the middle of the country and mostly know people who grew up in small towns (under 20k people). Many of them moved to larger cities when they got to be adults though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:04 PM
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Most of the guys I know who really really wanted that as a main goal in life were already married before 25 and either already had kids or they had them not long after 25. They generally aren't the types waiting for the "right time."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:46 AM
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Tree stump... That's definitely going to chafe my willie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:01 AM
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It's the kids part that spoiled his plan I'm guessing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:01 AM
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I'll go along with it being a good idea for a small percentage of people. How did your acquaintance from West Virginia end up in a situation where he was straight but considered marrying another man? I'm legit interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:59 AM
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I wonder how many people are living lives sad enough to actually consider one of these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:09 PM
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All the responsibilities of marriage without the fun of having a woman in your life everyday. Pass. Perhaps this would be appealing to guys who don't have fun with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:29 PM
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That went to an unexpected place..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:10 AM
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Gotcha. No, no one should be a servant for their partner. Its the 21st century we all need to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:52 PM
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Sure, men in good relationships have better lives. Men (or women) being abused by their spouses live lives of constant stress and anxiety and thus are not happier. Unfortunately I've known quite a few people who have been in them. I think you may have mixed my statement in with someone else's. I didn't say anything about whether single or married men or women were happier or more successful or anything about workloads or housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:48 PM
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For men who look for red flags and are willing to be single until someone good comes along it does work that way. Society tells men that most women are great so most of us aren't trained to look for red flags or told to walk away from abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:48 PM
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Good stuff. I wish I understood this better at 15. Listing things that are some of the biggest turnoffs for the average woman would make this this list more complete in my opinion. That was where I messed up the most growing up, undermining myself by saying and doing unattractive things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 09:00 AM
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The fact that most of them are pretty young explains the superficiality. Most people pick differently when they are get in their later 20s. Some however never learn any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 04:15 AM
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What makes you think that any guy with options wouldn't have criteria that they would use to pick who they want to settle down with? I don't think that the criteria for everyday guys is that different from what red pill (the literature, not the weird reddit users) recommends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 03:45 AM
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Most guys are eventually going to pick a woman to settle down with, these women want to figure out how to be the one that gets picked over others who may be in consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 09:32 PM
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Look people in the eyes/face, speak up, don't mumble, walk with a little swagger, don't shuffle around with your eyes down. Develop good posture, don't walk around/sit hunched over. Dress like a stylish adult, put away the video game shirts and cargo shorts. Play soccer, tennis or go to the climbing gym or hike in the forest on the weekends instead of playing video games every single day. These are some beginner level things that help you to come off as more masculine. There are some common shy …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 07:18 PM
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Thanks, it's sad to see that most of the rp guys here don't have much confidence in their worth. I may only be able to be Chad to .05% of women but that's still a lot of women. I have friends who can be Chad to 10+% but comparing myself to them would be depressing and bad for my confidence so I don't, I just stay grateful for what I can do. Congrats on the recent wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 07:25 PM
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Do none of the men here entertain the idea that THEY could be the best she's ever had? I definitely do, I've been chad before and I will again. I may be chad for the woman I'm seeing now but I'm not sure yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 07:05 PM
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People who know me in real life would be surprised at how nice I am online. I'm much more sarcastic and blunt in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 02:13 AM
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Radioactive gophers on meth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 02:08 AM
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I'm not an incel but weed and alcohol both just make me more quiet while I'm normally pretty funny and talkative. If shyness is a problem if a person reacts like I do this would seem to make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 01:38 AM
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I don't really disagree with anything that you said but I want to add my own perspective. Some people have terrible communication skills or off putting personalities or simply do and say unattractive things because they don't understand how these things are perceived by the opposite sex. These things can ruin a persons chances with many members opposite sex even if the person is average looking or slightly above. Average looking + unattractive behavior + off putting personality = terrible love l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 09:17 PM
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I didn't say that. I do believe that if a man is highly charismatic, has a great personality and/or highly developed communication skills he can make up for average looks. Most guys, don't have high enough levels of these traits to make them stand out in a crowd for more than short time. Especially guys like me who needed help with our love lives. If last man doesn't have some outstanding traits that appeal to women he has less room for error in his relationships and its more likely that they ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 06:15 PM
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Youre coming at this from an educated middle class perspective. Lots of people aren't middle class or educated. What someone thinks is doing really well financially is relative to their surroundings. I have a friend who makes about 60-70k at a blue collar job, which is pretty good in small town America, he also has a paid for house and a paid for niceish car. For a woman with a college education he's nothing special, for a late 20s/early 30s non college educated woman who works at the local stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 07:23 AM
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When you grow up in some areas if you're don't show that you can and will fight when threatened or bullied you become the neighborhood victim. When you grow up like that you become very aware of people who are trying to bully or threaten you. I saw it happen to kids who wouldn't fight back in my little town. Going by stories by friends from major cities its much worse there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 04:57 AM
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I basically only got laid because of my looks when I was younger, my abilities at being social in the ways that women respond to were pretty terrible until I got in my late 20s. Being social, initiating conversations that are interesting to women and being fun to be around for women don't come naturally to lots of guys. It requires a lot of work for shy or quiet natured guys to develop these abilities. This is one reason why lots of guys don't do well with women until they get a little older. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 05:28 AM
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I used to be a classic oversharer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 10:09 PM
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I think that a lot of the incels and forever alones have a comfort zone that they don't want to get away from or hate change so it's hard for them to grow in the ways that they would need to for RP to work for them. I have friends who are this way in certain areas of life. Chad is relative, I will never be Chad for an 8 or 9 but I have been Chad to a couple of 5s and a 6. If I was a 5 I would aim for being Chad for a 3 or 4. I think some of these guys may be thinking that if you can't become a 9…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 06:03 AM
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Not a horrible deal but still not a good one. I'd rather be Chad for a 5 than chump for an 8. Being betabux back then meant you still got the disrespect and contempt from your wife but you didn't get frivorced and still got to see your kids that your wife disrespects you in front of. This is not a goal to aim for. I knew a decent number of unhappy couple from the ww2/Korean war generation that seemingly stayed together because the way they grew up divorce wasn't an option. I personally think wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 07:13 PM
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I wish you good luck finding a church girl that is saving herself for marriage then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 05:38 AM
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I only know a few guys who got casual sex on the regular when they were single, everyone else either were serial monogamists or had lots of dry spells. Hopefully you can find a way out of inceldom soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 05:36 AM
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I'm not BP, I'm red. I'm going by what older relatives told me it was like. Your gramps sounds like a badass. I never said no one got laid back then, just that commitment free sex was harder to get and that lots more women were hardcore prudes. Shit, more women were prudes when I was in high school than they are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 05:32 AM
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I'm not sure about my friend, he's historically been a betabux but he seems have learned and changed a few things with his latest girlfriend. Only time will tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 09:54 PM
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Thanks, I borrowed it. My thrice divorced friend used to say that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 08:04 PM
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You're describing being a betabux. Most of these low smv guys can do that today I know quite a few who have. Just find a late 20s/early 30s single woman who works retail or food service, if you have a good paying job you can be her meal ticket. If she has a kid or two it's even easier. If you really really want a woman who hasn't been around the block, start going to a strict church in a semi rural area and you can find one. I know a few women who made it to their late 20s or early 30s before gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 07:19 PM
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I think these people are conveniently forgetting about the many women who were extremely religious and only had sex for procreation, once she had the number of kids she wanted the sex spigot was turned off forever. Forever I say! Oral sex was pretty taboo for lots of people so "good" women didn't do it. Sex as sinful and evil was still a pretty prevalent view that lots of people had and women were shamed for enjoying it. I have to imagine that most sex was starfish sex. You had to be married to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:55 PM
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My experience is that when people get older the married people associate mostly with other married people and the perpetual single people end up hanging out together. When married people think of their peer group everyone is doing OK relationship wise so they assume that most everyone else is in a similar situation. Most of the unhappy people are somewhat invisible to them unless they are a very close friend or relative. The perpetual singles probably think that there are more of them than there…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 12:02 AM
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When you say guys from high school do you mean every single guy in your class or guys you were friendly with? If you were relatively popular it means you mostly knew relatively popular guys who are much more likely to be doing well in the SMP. I was borderline invisible in high school and had no friends of the opposite sex back then. You may be overlooking some quiet guys who never made an impression on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 11:43 PM
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Nope, don't want that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 07:34 AM
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I'm the same age as you and I'm seeing women friends and cousins my age struggling to find a guy worth a shit. They had relationships with much better quality men when they were younger. They went from getting good looking relatively successful guys to guys who are one or two step above losers because that's all they can find. Almost everyone else is taken. Some areas of the country have more men than women, some areas are the opposite. If you are in an area where there are more men then women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 11:03 AM
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What were the experiences that made you come to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 11:31 PM
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I think a lot of that is introverts doing what comes naturally but it will cost many of them later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 09:06 PM
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I think that once you understand the care and feeding (what it takes to turn on and keep happy in the short and long term) requirements for the average person of your preferred sex you don't need much sexual strategy, you mostly need to be attractive, interesting and good at socializing with that sex and meeting new people. Once you understand these things and have made yourself attractive and interesting to them you basically just socialize a lot and you'll probably meet someone you like. Now t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 10:43 AM
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I went from probably not going to ever get married to oh hell no, then back to probably not. I get bored easily and forever is a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 10:01 AM
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Step 1. Become a gigolo. Step 2. Charge rich but undateable chicks 20k a day to fuck them. Step 3. Profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:56 AM
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The users at trp are like that not the information itself, some rp websites are full of angry guys some are full of relatively normal guys trying to learn. The bitter guys are drawn to the angry sites, the guys who are more interested in learning are drawn to the non angry sites. Most of the good information is in the recommended books, if you read a few of the books you barely need the websites and subreddits. I'm 100% sure that some of them were hurt. Most of them knew about the other girls an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 09:34 AM
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I don't think that the majority of guys want to do pump and dump but many will try to get a fwb situation if they don't meet anyone they really connect with. The serial pump and dumpers are a small percentage of guys. I don't think that a bunch of one night stands is healthy for guys either. Unfortunately both sexes mostly have to learn things the hard way because until recently there weren't good resources for young people who have families who don't or can't help them learn things about the sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:38 AM
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I never said anything about manipulation, alphas or trying to become "Chad." I was trying to illustrate that the guys who understand what is attractive to women best get an order of magnitude more attention than the guys who don't really understand it. I was just illustrating that it's feast or famine if you're not in a serious relationship. I understand how you could take it that way though. From about 16 to 25 I was only in one serious relationship but I went out with a lot of women for a coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 05:20 AM
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I see what you're saying but it's incomplete in my experience. Just saying become more attractive isn't enough information for someone who doesn't "get it. " What most women find attractive personality wise and what are turnoffs were not at all clear to me until I read a few books and confirmed the things I read by asking women friends if (thing from book) is a turnoff for them or if they didn't care. Just saying confidence wasn't very helpful. I'm a reasonably good looking and well dressed guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 02:08 AM
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Put your best foot forward and meet women in your social circles is the most common BP advice. Work out, dress better and be more outgoing, etc. BP dating strategies usually assume that you are reasonably good looking, reasonably fashionable, have good social skills with the opposite sex (good at flirting and reading body language, etc) and are popular enough to be in social circles with women who would be receptive to dating you. It assumes that you are at least average in all of these areas. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 08:20 AM
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Just because you read a story about a RP person doesn't mean that you suddenly know how to become like that anymore than watching Bruce Lee movies over and over helps you learn Kung fu. I read plenty of books with RP type characters but that only helped me to understand why some of the ideas that society was pushing were wrong. I figured out young that being a betabux type guy was stupid, it did not help me to figure out the correct way to become more like the guys I knew who were naturals. Gats…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 12:22 AM
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High Fructose Corn Syrup and other trash additives weren't used back then and there was not much to do indoors so people spent much more time outside doing activities especially if they didn't have decent air conditioning which most people didn't until the 80s. I grew up in the 80s and there was maybe 10-15% fat kids in my class. Now it's over 1/3 if I remember correctly. The people who go to the good parties are always the cooler kids. The square kids wearing buster brown shoes weren't at hippi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:41 PM
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Why half ass it? Heroin and Pall Malls, living past 60 is for suckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:13 PM
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My friend gives his high school kids his and his wife's hand me down phones. They both got cars at 16 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:06 PM
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I'm closer in nature to the bad boy, I don't know that I have a dream woman, I think I'd rather have variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:57 PM
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Being relatively inexperienced with dating/sex and dating someone who is likely looking to get married ASAP isn't a good formula for a happy marriage. That's how you become a betabux. Whoever is telling you this is focused on getting you married not your long term happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:52 PM
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I personally knew what I wanted better in my mid 30s than I did in my mid 20s If I would have settled down in my mid 20s I guarantee I would have been divorced. I have occasionally run into many of the women I dated back then (I live in a relatively small town) and I don't know what I saw in them personality wise. About half of my friends who married in their 20s are divorced or staying in lifeless marriages. I have some player friends who are my age or older, they still seem to be having fun tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 08:08 PM
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Fuck em, most 20 and 30 something men can't afford an expensive car so we have to wait, if you can afford it now enjoy it and ignore the critics. That's why God gave us middle fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 07:59 PM
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I think that most of those guys hated women before and trp just added fuel to the fire and gave them a place to be comfortable expressing their true feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 04:08 AM
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1 per year since age 15. I'm relatively sexually conservative, someone with more than that might not be compatible with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:53 AM
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Of course some players and party girls genuinely change and decide to be family people but many cant make the life changes stick and go back, back to their old ways. My observation is that about half men and women like this can't change. If you are a person (man or woman) who can find dates and relationships without too much effort why would you gamble on an LTR with a person who probably has a 50/50 cheating on you instead of finding a man or woman who has never been a sport fucker and has been…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 01:35 AM
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Yeah the pair bonding thing is bro science but if you at 25 years old had a friend who had 75+ partners would you set up your marriage minded but somewhat clueless brother or cousin with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 09:16 PM
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I scored 47. It's about what I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 06:21 AM
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Another reason why I love visiting Texas. Everyone drives 85 - 90 the highway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 07:41 PM
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Unless you go to a really bad in the US area you'll probably never even see any fights at all. I worked as a bartender in a nightclub for a year and saw maybe two fights there that lasted about 15 seconds each before being broken up by security. I think I've seen one fight besides at the club job in the last 20 years and that was when I worked nights in a sketchy area. I think that the US has less fights but they escalate into serious violence more often like someone getting run over by a car or…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:28 AM
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I don't think I've ever seen a white, black or latin man who wasn't also saving themselves for marriage who wanted to marry a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:17 AM
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I've seen it on trp from time to time but it was almost always from sheltered men who's families are recent immigrants from strict religious cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:58 AM
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There can be only one!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:30 PM
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When was the last time you saw a straight man buy a vogue or people magazine for himself? I've never seen it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 09:45 PM
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I'm pretty sure that way more straight men watch porn than read vogue or people magazine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 09:35 PM
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No, she's not who I would pick for a permanent part of my life as an adult. I would have divorced her long ago. I need someone who is more of an equal contributer. I ran into her about a year ago and we talked for about 10 minutes. The personality differences that caused us to break up are still the same. Cultural norms can go fuck themselves in the ass, I thought this way in high school and I still do. I went to a small high school and there wasn't much choice so I did the best that I could wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:35 PM
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Everyone doesn't subscribe to the same moral code you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 12:08 AM
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Actually people can be married for 20 years and not know much about dating. I have a friend who keeps trying to set me up with women he knows. He married at 25 to the second woman he seriously dated, who he met at 21. He knows nothing about dating as a full grown man. Over the last few years I've realized that none of my friends who married young or didn't date much before they married have any good advice, just the same vague advice that led me to the Internet to get help. People who have been …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 07:18 PM
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I'm guessing this guy hasn't actually dated much if at all or is very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 08:42 PM
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I think I had my first date and girlfriend when I was 16 or 17, not sure. I dated a decent amount in high school but nothing serious until I was in college. I'm not bitter about not about not dating the popular girls in high school but I do wish I had known some of this rp stuff in high school or college. It would have made my love life a lot less confusing. Learning how to move on from past mistakes and failures is an important part of life, if you don't learn that you'll never be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 07:29 AM
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Most of my woman friends are women who I went out with once or twice and had no chemistry with but liked them as people so we stayed in contact and hang out occasionally. In all of those situations I wasn't attracted to them, they might not have been attracted to me either but I can't say for sure. So no, I'm not interested in any of them. Most of them aren't physically attractive to me or have some other deal breaker like too much drinking for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 06:42 AM
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I have a relative who has basically been a kept man by high earning women for as long as I can remember. He's probably worked for 4 or 5 years out of the last 20. He's movie star handsome but kind of dumb and can't keep a job. He's pretty masculine looking, imagine a black 1980s Tom Selleck. I think that there is something to the hypergamy thing but I think rp overstates it. I think a lot of what people are calling hypergamy is women leaving unhappy marriages with dull betabux guys for richer be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 10:32 PM
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I have one friend who said he was around n300 a few years ago. He's 6'4 about 260 or 270, was a college football player and is a salesman with a charming but slightly cocky salesman personality. He's that person you know who any time you go somewhere with him he sees someone he knows. Most of the women I've seen him with were pretty average looking. Another high n count friend is average height and weight 5'9 170ish Hes a good looking guy but not like a model or anything, he just really loves wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 09:33 PM
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Low n-count virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:58 PM
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I was dealing with personal and family health issues that took up most of my emotional bandwidth for a few years and I couldn't deal with any more emotional stuff at the time. There wasn't much temptation, I knew that I couldn't deal with the stuff that you have to do to date at the time and I would probably have a breakdown if I put more on my plate. Things are better now, I'm still not back on the market yet but hopefully I will be soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:37 PM
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No someone can't wake up and change their skin color. Have you seen Sammy Sosa lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 05:22 AM
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I think the fact that lots of women lose interest in regular sex is one reason that some older men decide to forgo ltrs and go mgtow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 10:35 PM
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I think that the people who keep going and the people who have mostly given up experience different ratios of successes and failures in the dating world. A person who has 50% good and 50% bad experiences when they do land a date is living in a different world that one who has 90 or 95 % bad experiences. Some people have had very few of the wonderful times to keep them going during the bad times. Psychologically people need occasional positive reinforcement to keep doing something that is often p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 07:23 AM
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This is how it is in the rural part of the US too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 01:01 AM
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I know older guys who date women who are college age but did not go to college, most college women want college men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 12:55 AM
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Yes. Everyone is not suited for the married with children lifestyle, I can't imagine that there isn't a certain percentage of women who don't want that. I think that maybe 5-10% of men aren't really cut out for it and probably the same % of women. We may never really know the % because social and family pressure get most people to try the family life while they're still relatively young.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:52 PM
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Black Chad is like that, not the average black guy, the women liking the top few% of guys thing is more pronounced in the black community so black Chad is pretty ruthless with the pump and dump. Non Chad black guys aren't nearly as bad but aren't full bp either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 10:32 PM
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Middle class black guy here, I probably understood or suspected around 1/3 or so of rp stuff before I discovered rp. My observations are that most black guys learn some rp things but not all growing up. I have a couple of Chad friends that early on in rp I used to ask about things that I learned in rp to see if they agreed and lots of them knew the how to get a girl part but not the how to keep a girl and red flags to look for parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 08:09 AM
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I get it, you're still finding out what works for you. I have seen marriages with large age gaps work but usually when the woman is close to or over 30 already. My observation is that most people's personalities and preferences change a lot between 20 and 30 but stay reasonably stable after that unless they go through a lot of bad experiences. This is why marrying an early 20s woman is a bad idea for 30+ men in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 02:40 AM
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I think that 20 year old women are ideal for men in their early 20s for relationships, if you're older than that you would likely be happier with a woman who is closer to your own maturity and life experience level. I've seen friends in their 30s try to have relationships with 20-22 year olds and they were disasters. For non relationship sex like fwbs and such if you can get a 20 year old more power to you no matter what age you are. If 35 is your 20 and you are swimming in 35 year olds more pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 02:01 AM
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For me the anger phase was because I realized all in a few days how I had messed up a few decent relationships and caused other women to lose interest in me. I was too laid back and didn't take the lead in certain situations and came across as indecisive or too supplicating because I didn't want to be too pushy and wanted to let them plan half of the things and make half of the decisions. There were also a bunch of other situations where I didn't escalate as soon as I should have because I didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 01:34 AM
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When you are 40 are you going to want 60 year old women or still 36 year old women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 11:24 PM
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I don't get it either, If you cut me open sugar syrup comes out. I like pretty much all candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 10:01 PM
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I scored a 5 but a lot of the questions are making me think that one of my longtime friends may be borderline for asbergers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 09:24 PM
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It's posts like this that keep me coming here, there is a lot of pointless arguing here but if we try to actually hear what people are trying to get across in these discussions we can all learn things about the other sexes viewpoint that can help us be better in our relationships with them. I personally have learned lots of things here that I would have likely not heard from the limited amount of people I know in real life and I'm glad that others have too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 07:36 AM
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Lots of us are just car nerds and like driving fast cars. Most guys who want status buy luxury cars unless they can afford a ferrari or some other rich guy status symbol sports car.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 09:12 AM
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In the US, college sports are on TV just as much as pro sports and the top college athletes become famous among people who watch sports. The top high school athletes in the state get on local and sometimes national TV too so they become local celebrities who get discussed on the local TV news and on local sports radio. Getting on TV as a high school or college athlete means that you will probably go on to play or are already playing for one of the more successful college teams and have a good sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 07:44 AM
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I know two, one was in the 90s gulf war the other was in the 00s Iraq war, one was also in civilian law enforcement for a while. One used to hunt for most of his families meat before he switched jobs. I live in a very rural state, you might not meet this type of man in a large city.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 05:54 AM
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You found someone that likes you? That's awesome man, I'm very happy for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/16 09:06 AM
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I would not be happy in a ltr with a woman I was not really attracted to. Heres what you need to ask yourself. Would you be happier living the next 50 years making the type of sacrifices and compromises that you have to make in a ltr for someone you aren't very attracted to or to live your life doing what you want when you want and indulging in hobbies and experiences that people in ltrs don't often get to do unless they are rich? You could buy your own plane or race cars on the weekends or trav…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 11:49 PM
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I wish, I'm in my 40s. Mid to late 50s women are much better at leering than you might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 04:04 AM
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Eh, I know quite a few beta type men who can attract a woman but not keep them attracted because they pedestalize them once they are married or living together and soon the relationship tanks. Sadly I know quite a few men who are in a second or third failing marriage. Reading a couple of RP recommended books like "no more mr nice guy" or "models" would really help them. What you're saying is the equivalent of saying that if a medicine cant help the sickest 20% of patients it's useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 01:29 AM
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That's where I was going wrong too. The dumb things I used to say.... Eh I didn't know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 01:09 AM
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With me it's chicks 20 years older, wanna trade?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 07:48 PM
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I've been bitten way too many times for that. Now they come in through the walls and leave through the plumbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 03:02 AM
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So you're just going to kill your own spiders?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 08:28 PM
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That was the best thing I've read on reddit in a while, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 09:15 AM
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Did you handcraft the throne or did you buy a kit? It sounds like it would be really hard to dust but would look really awesome in almost any room.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 11:51 PM
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She would have never married that guy, the reason she's giving up the baby is because the baby is half black and the woman's family doesn't like back people. His goose was cooked no matter what under our current laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 03:45 AM
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It seems to me that you're looking for excuses not to try. So what if you don't think that you can get a 10, if you're a 5 with some game and a good, fun personality you can get with a nice 6ish woman and have some good times together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 10:13 AM
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No they aren't putting in the same effort, but the high n count guys aren't putting in 10 times the effort either. All but one of these guys has been married at least once and have had several ltrs. When not in a serious relationship most of my friends would have sex with maybe 2 women a year. The high n count guys maybe 6 - 10 a year. One of the guys I think was trying to get a high count for some ego reason but the others are just good at getting women interested in them and get numbers everyw…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 10:27 AM
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I've seen the same phenomenon. I've also seen it change up in my 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 09:58 AM
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Californication starring Duchovny ran from 2007 to 2014 on Showtime. I've never seen Hannibal so thanks, I didn't know she was in it. The only thing I have heard about was a UK drama that people said she was good in. She starred in the X-Files for a lot of years, she stayed in it even when it got bad in the later years. It's would be hard to do the show without her so they shouldn't have insulted her like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 07:14 AM
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I'm not sure what Gillian Anderson has been in lately but David Duchovny was recently the star of a TV show that went 8 seasons. Trying to pay her half of his pay is still crappy though, it's not like they were about to do the show without her. Did she finally get equal pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 05:57 AM
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I'm pretty sure that it's the feeling of rejection from being an involuntary adult virgin part that is painful for these guys not the being made fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 05:40 AM
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I have a few friends who are women and most of my cousins are women. From my observations most women aren't on easy street. I think a small percentage of women have some exciting rich guy taking care of them, the rest are scratching out a living like men and have their own life challenges to deal with. This is the male version of the apex fallacy. I'm happy being a man and I don't think the grass is any greener being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 05:17 AM
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I'm not necessarily saying that my friends are Chads but I have had 4 or 5 friends who have had sex with 10-20 times more women than the other friends. I think that there are probably 5- 10 men in 100 like this. You don't have to be top 1% to alpha widow a woman, you just have to be significantly higher in SMV than she normally can get or has been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 04:00 AM
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I'm guessing about 2 years is about the fastest it could be done with a complete diet change and strict exercise regimen. Probably 3-4 years for someone who's not able to go into full on fanatic mode for a long period of time. At least 3 years is my best guess for the average height woman (or man) to get to a healthy weight who still wants to eat the occasional cookie. I'm just going by friends who have lost weight, no research has been done to come up with this answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 01:04 AM
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It's possible but your plan would take at least a year and a lot of effort, I would rather put that effort into improving myself where I'm guaranteed to reap the rewards rather than gamble on someone else's sense of loyalty. I know a decent number of overweight people and many of them have unhealthy emotional issues with food and have a really hard time changing their eating habits/giving up comfort foods. Cars and houses make good fixer uppers not people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 12:36 AM
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All I can think of is the episode of Seinfeld where Elaine helped her boyfriend pass his medical school exam so that she could date a doctor. Upon passing he immediately dumped her because he could do better because he's a doctor now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 12:23 AM
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I'll check out the book. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 11:25 AM
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True, appearance matters a lot and guys need to understand this and not listen to what their mothers told them when they were in grade school.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 10:14 PM
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You're actually right about that but I think social skills keep more guys from succeeding than looks do. The average looking guy with good social skills does much better than the above average looking guy with bad social skills and social skills are easier to improve than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 09:48 PM
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If a guy can't get any women at all it's likely that he's saying and doing things that make him come off as unattractive, creepy or odd, meeting more women probably won't help, learning better social skills probably would.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 09:49 AM
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And somehow we're still here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 09:44 AM
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What did you say to your parents for putting you in such an awkward position?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 12:59 AM
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I agree with that statement while also thinking about guys I know who have been making the same type of mistakes over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 10:36 AM
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Practicing wrong doesn't help you get better no matter how much you do it. If you don't understand where you're going wrong you don't know what to change about what you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 11:33 PM
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Like you said it's a skill to be able to bond emotionally with a woman, how does the socially inept guy to learn how to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 05:25 AM
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I always go to doctors when I'm sick, I lost faith in my old GP a couple of years ago and haven't looked very hard for a new one yet. Next year I'm going to try harder to find a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 10:26 AM
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What would you have done if the Internet had never existed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 02:59 PM
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Some of the most fun times I have had were just hanging out with friends, either going somewhere or sitting in someone's yard making each other laugh and sometimes drinking a few beers, sometimes cards, dominoes or a pool table were involved sometimes not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 02:56 PM
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Now that I have more details I understand what you're saying and I agree with you as long as the laptop thief gets punished. I'm not worried about the burrito thief getting punished because that type of stuff definitely is a waste of public resources. Just make him give the other guy $5 and call it good. Just because you're cynical doesn't mean you're not right, people don't get cynical in a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 12:04 AM
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I just don't think campus authorities are likely to be qualified to deal with something serious like sexual assault, I would hate to see a rapist get a slap on the wrist instead of jail time and I would also hate to see an innocent person get punished without an actual trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 10:56 PM
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OK, thanks, I don't remember how that stuff was dealt with, that's why I asked. It could have been like that at my school too but I don't remember. I would certainly feel better if the thief went to jail for stealing my stuff and it would not seem like a waste of police resources to the student who worked to pay for their own laptop or whose family can't afford another one at the moment. I don't understand how this is stupid. If the theft victim hit the thief with a bat a few times because the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 10:53 PM
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Do they do that for the stolen laptop? I'm trying to figure out why sexual assault victims get more say about the way the case is handled than theft or non sexual assault victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 02:38 PM
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Serious question, do victims of any other crime get a choice in who handles the case? If someone you know takes your laptop and won't return it can you decide that you don't want the police involved but instead some campus court will have a trial?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 12:25 PM
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Do you bonk your head on door frames wearing those?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 02:08 PM
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Honestly I just wanted to see the op riding a motorcycle in eyeliner and earrings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 01:18 PM
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Russell Brand wears eyeliner, you can too if you think it'll help your smv, lots of short or average height actors (and probably normal guys too) wear lifts in their shoes, you can too, even if you're already 6ft+. Men have things available to boost their smv too, take advantage of a few if you like. Get a motorcycle. Get your ears peirced. Buy some cool new clothes. Women aren't about to stop making themselves look better so maybe you can even the odds by enhancing your own smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 11:26 AM
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Yes I went to a state college, state colleges get some money from the state to operate and they are generally not that hard to get into, since they are partially state funded they are supposed to be affordable for the residents of that state. If you live in a state you can go to that states public universities cheaper than another states public universities. Since you or your parents pay taxes to that state you get the resident discount. Private universities receive no state money so everyone pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 01:51 PM
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The fact that you would be in court several times and it could take up to a year or more of testimony and court hearings and other legal proceedings which could lead to possible jail time on top of the mounting legal bills wears a person down mentally and emotionally, this makes them more likely to plead guilty just to be able to get rid of the uncertainty, this is how the US legal system grinds people down. Yes this is done intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 05:31 AM
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It's all fun and games until someone wakes up without kidneys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 05:10 AM
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Okay now I'm getting a more clear understanding of what you're saying society should do for people who don't have anyone to look after them and I agree that we should have this. Your original post was a little light on details as far as exactly what you want people to have access to when they get old.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 04:48 AM
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I think we have some sort of subsidised housing for old people here but I'm sure it's not that good if we do actually have it. Our old people don't really vote themselves goodies for some odd reason, they just vote against stuff young people want like legal weed or gay marriage. I just went and looked at the prices of the university (it's a major one, not a community college ) that I went to and its not that expensive, the tuition and books is about 8000 dollars or 5100 pounds for the tuition pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 04:23 AM
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No one said 45 until just now, and I never said the person would get rich, the online education I suggested is meant for those who still work at grocery stores or as diner cooks in their late 20s or early 30s who want to get jobs that pay middle class wages so that they can have something saved by the time they retire. Your first objection to higher education was time and I said that some people do have time to get education if they game or watch TV less, how is independent study not an argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 12:26 AM
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I know that most countries have free health care but I was talking about a policy that pays for your nursing home care if you become unable to care for yourself, do nursing homes cost money or are they included in your free health care? Yeah we get screwed in health care, most of us know but some of us refuse to believe that there is a better way to manage health care. Is vocational education free too, for those who want to become plumbers, auto mechanics or welders?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 11:59 PM
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Life on the edge is fine, a knife edge on my throat is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 12:13 PM
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I personally don't get the best sleep when sleeping with one eye open and one hand over my junk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 11:53 AM
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I personally am after fun not crazy. I guess that works out for everyone though, more crazy women for you. I'm guessing that you haven't had a crazy woman try to shoot or stab you yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 11:25 AM
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This is true about the insurance, I was only thinking about the US when I said that, I have no idea what the prices are in any other countries but I doubt that you have to actually be rich, probably just middle class. There is free or really cheap education online for a few trades or professions like programming and other IT related skills that you can earn certifications to qualify for the jobs and study when you have time like on the weekends or traveling on the bus or train to work and back. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 11:00 AM
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Since these people don't have families taking up their free time many of them could get some education or training to be able to afford nursing home care and long term disability insurance policies. You don't have to be rich to afford these things just an above average income.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 10:07 AM
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Ones who live by the rule of never stick your dick in crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 10:00 AM
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I hear guys on some forums talking about going to southeast Asia and eastern Europe to find wives but never west Africa. I'm not sure that this is the path to happiness though. In my experience when many women know that the guy can't do better she runs over the poor sap and common sense tells them that if you went 10,000 miles to find someone to marry you that you know that you can't do better. I watched the 90 day fiancé TV show and this is mostly how it played out, the guy was either betabux o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 07:48 AM
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The placebo effect, genius, I'm all about that no hangover life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 11:25 AM
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Going by your username I would have thought that you'd suggest throwing back a couple of shots when you're nervous about talking to someone new. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 05:19 AM
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You'd definitely get calloused hands using the tire iron.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 03:18 AM
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I have a metal baseball bat if you need to borrow one but please clean it before you return it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 12:49 AM
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That is a reasonable position to take but sometimes women who can do way better like you for whatever reason so don't think you have no other options. You might, you might not. In my opinion the older you get (to a point) the easier to get nice looking (for their age) women's attention because lots of guys are tied down or have self destructed with weight problems, drugs or alcohol by their mid 30s. No one is perfect and it's likely that you'll have to compromise on something, looks, personality…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 12:46 AM
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If I had to choose between cake (dessert in general) or women it would be a tough decision. I meant you being willing to date nice but overweight women like your dad is encouraging you to or 4s and 5s in general, not your own personal appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 12:29 AM
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You didn't say it directly but if I remember correctly you've been wondering if he might be right about his view of appearance not being important when it comes to ltrs not the part where he is treated poorly by women. Am I getting this wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 08:57 PM
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Rp also says that enough wrong moves on your part can kill the attraction she has for you. When I read rp I understood where I messed up in all of the relationships that went bad on me over the years. It was the same few mistakes over and over. Now I'm moving on to new mistakes!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 10:14 AM
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To me it means that she hopes someone more boring than she is might want to fuck you someday but you're going to have to work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 09:58 AM
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If you see the smp so well why are you considering going down the same path that your father has even though you say you couldn't be happy if you had his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 09:51 AM
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I feel like I should be more jealous about the 4x a day sex but nope, it's the cake and cookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 01:39 AM
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I worked in a club years ago and it killed them being fun for me, all these years later and it still feels like work being in one and I don't want to be there for free. I'm not much of a club type person so I'm generally OK not going anymore. I love other types of parties but not clubs. Clubs with live music are more enjoyable for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 10:44 PM
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I do body weight excersises sometimes but not right now, I've got a bad shoulder that acts up from time to time that keeps me from doing more. I'm not really satisfied but not that unhappy, I need to lose 5-10 pounds, eat better and get back in shape when life gets a little less hectic. I look pretty good for my age but I was in a lot better shape a year or two ago and I'm eventually get back to where I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 01:16 PM
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Remembering old stuff together is a nice icebreaker but that's about it, not important as far as being in a relationship or anything else. The 80s TV shows were mostly shit but the movies were good, the 90s had some good TV and movies. We're just going to have to disagree on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 11:09 AM
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I talk movies and TV with most of my women friends so we may know different women. I agree that it's not much of a benefit but women always ask what 30s + men have in common with early 20s women, this stuff is basically all we have in common with women our own age, that's why we don't care that the woman is 10-15 years younger. Truth be told we don't really have that much in common with women our own age because men and women generally have very different hobbies and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 11:02 AM
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Almost every time one of my 35-55 year old married friends gets divorced they get snapped right up and are in a serious relationship again within a few months. Sometimes with women their own age sometimes younger. They're like the popular girls in high school that you could never ask out because the minute they were single they had a bunch of guys asking them out and if you didn't hear about their breakup for a few days you were probably too late. Besides possibly growing up watching the same TV…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 08:27 AM
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OK I'm still glad you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 07:16 AM
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Thanks for asking this, I was sort of wondering what the people of ppd thought about this one too. If you hadn't asked I might have. So do you think I was right or wrong about the women usually asking indirectly thing? Did the people of ppd change your view on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 03:23 AM
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True, if she said she was coming to your house to do this I would say that you could consider your self asked. If a woman asks me to spend time with her and it's clearly not as purely non sexual friends then I assume it's a date because it almost always has been. If she doesn't make it clear enough then I ask if it's a date. Most of the time it's been pretty clear in woman language but I wasn't always fluent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 07:16 AM
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Women are usually somewhat indirect and that's about as close as you get to getting asked out unless a woman is really forward or you're really pushing a lot of her buttons. If I get that type of invitation from a woman she's done 75% of the work and all I have to do is not mess it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 04:18 AM
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Her saying "we should go on a hike, here's my number" is asking you out on a date. I've been asked out before and that's how women usually do it. You have cards too, you still have to play them to get anywhere though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 09:07 PM
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I've heard that in some of the poor countries finding a man who can keep a job, isn't always drunk, doesn't beat women and doesn't gamble away the bill money is winning. If you're happy with just having a nice quiet life with some middle class luxuries and don't need true love then marrying some awkward but sweet schmuck probably isn't a bad move.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 08:53 PM
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Wait, straight guys have them too??! TIL.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 03:55 PM
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What about the men who look somewhat average but get laid based on their personality? This is what I didn't understand, exactly what parts of their personality was getting them laid, once you have improved your appearance you can still improve in this way and that was mostly what I needed help with but didn't know how to pull off "cocky and funny" convincingly in high school. I knew that men and women cared about appearance even as a kid but I also knew that personality was important.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 02:39 PM
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Maybe it's more common than buartha thought. You found a happy ltr in only four tries? You lucky dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 12:33 PM
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They clearly didn't read the instructions on the drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 10:44 AM
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I was buddies with one of the gay guys at one of my jobs a few years ago and I'm pretty sure he had an inner Victorian woman too but I didn't know if it was a common thing or just a few guys have one. I don't think he had much success either, I could see how having an inner buzzkill would stop some of the fun times that would lead to success though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 10:41 AM
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The first girl I asked out that said yes was in the summer between 10th and 11th grade I think, she invited me over to watch TV or a movie or something. When I got there she said her parents were gone and there was no movie, long story short we almost got caught having sex when her mother came home for lunch. It was like a scene in an 80s or 90s teen sex comedy. We fooled around a few times that summer and then I moved on because we weren't very sexually compatible, the sex wasn't that good for …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 10:35 AM
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Do do all gay guys have an inner Victorian lady inside or just you? This is the first I've heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 10:11 AM
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I have a friend in the health field who deals with a lot of guys with ED, there is likely an underlying health problem or side effect of a prescription medication that is causing it. Lots of men who take antidepressants experience this for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 12:49 AM
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That makes sense, living life for the approval of others isn't the path to happiness. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 12:43 AM
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Easy, they have sex ed class in lots of schools, I would change it to relationships and sex ed class or possibly separate classes. The class would teach middle school children the basics of relationship dynamics and what characteristics and actions are generally attractive and which are a turn-off to men and women. The children would also do paired and group excersises to help shy children break out of their shells and help boys and girls learn that they communicate differently and how to relate…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 10:50 PM
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I don't think that marriage itself is the whole problem, American culture (and probably others too) isn't honest or realistic about what it takes to make a happy marriage and too many people go into it thinking it's going to be all fun and games. Rp let's guys know what to expect and shows them the worst case scenarios and gives a man tools to pick out a woman that is more likely suited to be a good wife and mother and to manage different types of relationships with women, fwb, str, ltr, and mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 10:27 PM
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I do get the impression that a lot of those guys are going to end up in unhappy marriages regardless of what they say online because as you said it's all talk with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 02:54 PM
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If I understand you correctly you're saying that they still view the world from a position of weakness or powerlessness to circumstances instead of a position of one who has the agency to take charge of their situations and create the circumstances they need to succeed. When they view the world this way they aren't fully able to accept that they must themselves change to get different results in life instead of complaining about things being unfair and trying to change the world instead. If this…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 01:40 PM
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Ah, ok, thanks, now I think I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 01:08 PM
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You don't even tell your close friends you like anime?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 01:06 PM
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Going by that description I think I like the Dionysian life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 11:12 AM
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I don't get what a life spent gardening has to do with emotions and intuition, you're describing Diogenes differently than the op did. Please elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 11:07 AM
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Get a fwb, why would you not, you get sex without the time and emotional commitments that actual relationships demand and someone you're comfortable with who knows what you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 10:55 AM
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What do you mean by the way they do things is tethered to beta behavior? I see a lot of extreme try hardness there but I think maybe you're talking about something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 10:18 AM
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Good Looking Loser and the rational male are good sites, I've also gotten a lot out of RSD youtube videos. These types of things all made more sense to me with an understanding of rp though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 09:29 AM
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The fact that people were less formally educated is why I wondered if they were educated in Dionysian stuff better than we are because they had to rely on instinct and intuition more to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 09:11 AM
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Sign language, I'd like happy props instead of mad ones please. ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 08:38 AM
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So how did people learn this Dionysian stuff in the past, say 200 years ago or 1000 years ago, or was it the same as it is today where some people learn it well, some not at all and a bunch learn a few parts but never really "get it."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 08:28 AM
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That would be the adventure part. You might appreciate a more traditional culture, I'm halfway thinking about trying it myself, not for a virgin though, just for the adventure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 08:10 AM
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Instead of getting a woman from a destitute country why wouldn't you just find a country that is less crappy and has American companies there, get a job with one in that country and move there? You'd get the woman you want, a culture that is more to your liking and an adventure. Win win win
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 12:08 AM
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"Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it" - some wise old dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 11:59 PM
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Thanks for the perspective and awesome advice. That's the reason I don't know if I'll ever get married I don't know if I can keep up being at or near the top of my game for the rest of my life. I'm still pondering over that one. Good luck getting back to being AB, just keep plugging away at it and don't quit and you'll get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 11:53 PM
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Even if people did say men should self improve (they usually didn't) saying that still isn't helpful to a late blooming high school /college guy who doesn't understand what reasonable steps they can do to improve their attractiveness because they only have a, vague idea of what characteristics women find attractive. Simply saying improve yourself is like telling an athlete to be better without telling them what to get better in, stronger, faster, better understanding of the game, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 01:08 PM
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What does famous and or rich people getting light sentences have to do with what anonymous normal people go through? It's obvious to anyone who nominally keeps up with current events that if you can afford a top notch attorney you will probably get a lighter sentence than the guy who went to "lawyers r us."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 10:05 AM
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Lo life ftw!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 09:46 AM
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Thanks for the detailed answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 09:35 AM
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Honestly I think all men who aren't AB types are at risk, every single one of the guys I know who are this type of man are happily married and their wives seem very happy too. For every other type of man the results are mixed, some are really happy, some are doing OK, some are miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 09:26 AM
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OK all of that makes perfect sense to me, thanks for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 09:20 AM
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She's not a gambler or particularly irresponsible, she just always manages to pick guys with giant flaws that makes them terrible relationship material and somehow can't see that she's doing the same thing over and over again. She's not happy, she's usually miserable after the initial excitement of the first month or two wears off and she has to deal with their everyday lives. I have to wonder if she's just a drama addict or something now that I'm thinking about this more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 05:36 AM
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You're right about the question but you answered in a way that made me think that you wouldn't have sex with the woman at all and I wanted to make sure that I understand what you meant. I still don't understand why you would attempt to visit a prostitute but wouldn't take the pity sex? I would do just the opposite. Yes to pity sex but I don't think I would go visit a prostitute, perhaps it's cultural? What about she's easy and bored and you're convenient sex? It's not pity sex but it's still pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 05:22 AM
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This is the whole point of rp, lots of things that are common knowledge to women are basically unknown to lots of men, particularly the late bloomers. When men here say that they had no clue of these things they are not believed or called dumb because to women these things are "obvious".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 12:58 AM
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I agree, the thing is that people who are really good at either the AF or the BB think that they are doing fine and are unlikely to seek out help. I was slightly below average at both parts so it was obvious to me that I needed help. If I was 6/10 skills with women instead of 4/10 I probably would be in a somewhat unhappy marriage like a lot of other people I know or trying and failing at a bunch of short term relationships and thinking it's the fault of the women like my AF friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 12:30 AM
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Relationships with exciting and fun gambling addicts, cheaters and just generally irresponsible people doesn't either, after a certain age you have to start trying to find a balance between fun and responsibility. If you get cheated on by almost every person you're picking the wrong people or treating them very poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 12:03 AM
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Yes, none of the other alpha type guys I know can make a relationship work, they are either too controlling, turn to doormats in relationships or inexplicably alternate between the two. It's a curious phenomenon to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 11:54 PM
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That's a tough one because all of the guys that I think could be like this married relatively young to women they met in high school or college. None of the guys I know who were still single after 25 or so have the alpha part down and also have the beta part down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 09:36 PM
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I know how that goes, I'm going through some big life problems right now too. You're never really out as long as you don't give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 09:24 PM
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I'm sure that they do, I have a friend who would probably qualify as a cc rider. I've tried to get her to consider different types of men but she's not willing to try, even though what she's been doing keeps causing drama and unhappiness. What can you do if someone keeps choosing short term excitement over possible long term happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 09:17 PM
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You said you weren't an rp man so I thought you had quit. I consider one to be rp if they're in the process of implementing it even if they're not having the success they would like, if you're doing better than you were before rp then you're probably doing it right. Some of us are long term renovation projects, some are quick flips. How did you fall off so hard? Health problems or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 09:09 PM
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I would rather have the one time pity sex than to live my whole life wondering what sex is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 09:01 PM
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So you would rather die old and not knowing what sex is like than to accept pity sex? What's the difference between pity sex and visiting a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 08:59 PM
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If most of us had the ability to get into a ltr with someone we wanted to marry when we were young we wouldn't have had to find rp.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 08:51 PM
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So are you purple now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 08:44 PM
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I'm pretty sure that everyone does this whether or not they will admit it in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 01:40 PM
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Women usually give advice in woman language which means you have to read between the lines a lot which can easily lead to confusion while a guy who understands game will be able to ELI5 the tricky parts of it for you. The man will also be more likely to understand the nature of any questions you have while to women "it's obvious" because what is attractive to women is obvious to them and most of them can't conceive that it's not obvious to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 07:28 AM
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Good luck getting those last few systems running.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 04:10 PM
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Lots of boys instincts are to be quiet and shy, this is what's natural to them. Teaching them to be more outgoing is nowhere to be found in "be yourself " advice and that's what's needed. Some kids need extra help in math or reading some kids need extra help in social skills. What's so hard to understand about this? Your last paragraph says to change yourself so you then can be yourself, did you actually read what you wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 10:39 AM
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Oh my, that's a lot systems and a lot of games, have you played all 745 games?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 05:27 AM
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Is it for tax reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 05:22 AM
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Honestly the parts having to do with learning how the smp works, learning to make yourself attractive and learning how to deal with the differences between men and women are good stuff, the rest of the manoshpere is mostly bullshit. I didn't get much out of philosophy but that doesn't mean you won't, I'm not an intellectual type, I'm more of a do stuff type. I got more out of self help books that showed me how to deal with the ups and downs of life better. I would encourage you to try one of tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 04:30 AM
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Your dad's obviously not having it so you have to find someone else or he's going to continue to try to "reform" you. What about guys at the pub you talked about going to sometimes? Are any of the guys you know there good with women? It doesn't necessarily have to be a best friend level friend to talk about game with him over a game of darts or pool or whatever guys do at pubs (I've only seen pubs on TV shows). They'd probably be willing to discuss stuff with you occasionally but don't wear out …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 01:01 AM
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You have to find someone else to talk to about rp, your dad is never going to relate to a different perspective I know a bunch of guys who will never entertain any point of view that is outside of their comfort zones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 12:34 AM
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Always password protect your computer. The horse is already out of the barn this time but remember this in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 12:27 AM
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Honestly I think that they can learn to be more dominant if they want to, and that it will help them in their careers as well as their sex lives. I know a bunch of guys like this and only a couple of them have found happy relationships, the others are basically being walked on by their wives or they have given up on relationships. Sometimes self improvement is improving a strength to become top 5% in an area and sometimes it's the gruelling labor of taking a small ember of potential and turning …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:38 PM
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What I learned on PPD is that you should make decisions and only worry about her input if she offers any. Then you can decide together, if you ask for her input you're indecisive. Her making or helping with the 10-30% of big decisions that she feels are important is equal, not her doing 50% of the work of making plans. I like your point too, I missed that bit of subtlety, thanks. Yes why not just say respect our right to have input and don't bully us around. So much confusion could be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 11:49 AM
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It's like you said the art of manliness is a build a better traditional family man site. If that's not what you want out of life then you won't get much out of it besides some career tips and such. It takes courage to take a less traveled path through life and live life based on what you want to do and who you want to be instead of being who society tells you to be. This is not a new dilemma, there have always been conformists and odd balls who follow their own paths through life, it's up to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 05:17 AM
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I think men don't think they're supposed to be the leader of the relationship because women have been saying for decades that they want equal partnerships. What men call equal partnerships and what women see this as are vastly different and we're trying to give them our version of equal because they never spelled out what their version was. I ran more than a few budding relationships into the ground by not being too decisive because I wanted to respect her decision making abilities and wanted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:54 AM
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I get it, biology sucks, I guess most women understand this but I'm pretty sure that most men don't and think it's going to stay like the honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:20 AM
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What if you're only feeling half of what men are feeling when you get this feeling or less? At some level maybe 5x, 10x or 20x you might be more compelled to do something to scratch that itch you might not be proud of the next day. I'm not saying that I'm sure that this is the case but it could be and maybe that's why you still don't get why men sometimes do stupid things for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:31 AM
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Ugh, that sounds awful. Sometimes someone here does a good job of describing the other sexes perspective so you finally "get it" and this was one of those times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:08 AM
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I don't necessarily mean a 23 year old who is getting married right then, I mean a 23 year old man in a serious relationship who is finally earning some money who is thinking about where he is going to be in life in the next few years. If he thought that he might be barely having sex by the time he was 30 or 35 he would definitely wonder if getting married was something he wants to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 01:43 AM
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I think it's going to slowly continue to go down as religious people decline in numbers and level off to maybe 30-40% of people and stay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 08:56 PM
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I think we know different types of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 01:13 PM
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Men generally give more of those things than we receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 12:04 PM
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If you told a 23 year old man that within 5 years of him saying "I do" that he had a 50% chance of being in a dead bedroom (I know these aren't real life numbers) how many men do you think would still get married? 10%, 20%, the same number as do now? Sex doesn't have to trump everything else in a man's life to still be in his top 5 things he wants to do or maybe even top 10 for an old guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:54 AM
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They both seem to be equally below average. I don't think either of them could do a whole lot better. The guy possibly could if he got in shape but unless the woman just took a bad picture here I don't see her being able to keep any guy who is much better looking than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:27 AM
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When I read that article I thought of a few people I know. One guy has a side business and he invites friends to his shop to watch sports and cookout on weekends. Two other guys have the spare bedroom as an office and when I visit them we almost always hang out in the office. The other one is the one that struck me funny when I read Rollos article, when his wife is gone we hang out in the house but when I've visited him and she's home we always hang out in the garage. Most of my married friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 07:11 AM
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Nope, they will eventually resent you for wanting to go out because to her "relationship" time will be spent at home while for you it will be taking your woman somewhere special. If you go out with friends instead of spending time with her then your friends are more important than she is in her eyes. If you really loved her you would stay home with her. I've seen this go down lots of times with friends. Two indoor cats or two outdoor cats works best. Some people like going out or staying in equa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:44 AM
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This is usually some insecurity like feeling that you don't measure up to your parents expectations, did you choose the right career path or that you think that your brother is better at everything than you are, nothing that really affects the relationship. During the debate we had on this topic here a few weeks back a lot of women here admitted that when men shared stuff like this with them too many times they often lost attraction and saw the man as broken or whiny from then on until she left …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:09 AM
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A lot of the relationships I've been in that went bad went bad because of incompatible lifestyles. I'm an outdoor cat who likes going places and doing new things and likes generally being on the go a lot. For some reason I seem to attract quiet introverted women who like being at home. They usually try to convert me to being an indoor cat and then I leave them. I don't know if this is them trying to tame the rebellious guy or a case of mistaken identity. The times I was dumped or not given much …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 01:37 AM
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Not communicating effectively with your first officer is the definition of being a bad captain and would be classified under not leading the relationship/being a bad leader. You have to share your everyday thoughts and feelings but not the stuff that eats away deep down at your soul because people often see that as weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 12:54 AM
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Well there's your problem right there, no woman worth being with is going to stay with a man who hates himself. You have to change this and the depression before you are able to sustain a relationship. Rp people can recommend therapy too because I'm doing it right now. If you don't want to do therapy there are plenty of good self help books, I read a bunch when I went through a depression in college and they helped me beat depression. "How to be your own best friend" is a book that really helped…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 12:34 AM
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The OP asked about penis size not erectile problems, the article said nothing about increasing penis size with these exercises.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 12:08 AM
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Our economy gets a lot of its growth by encouraging consumer culture which needs everyone possible to work and spend as much as possible. I'm not a fan of this economic model and think more people should try to live more modestly and spend more time raising their children. Kids need available parents more than they need 40 Xbox games. Childcare for a certain amount of time for those trying to transition off of public assistance would probably be a good idea but not for the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 01:49 PM
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It's not like this is a thing that you can change by lifting weights or something, what exactly is there to discuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 01:36 PM
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Thanks for the kind words, I got a decent amount figured out in the post college world when I wasn't competing with so many people my age concentrated in one small area. Working as a bartender after college helped a lot. Yeah most people aren't shitty but good ltr candidates don't come along every day so it's good to be able to play the field instead of sitting on the sidelines waiting for them like I ended up doing too much of when I was younger. I've seen too many people settle for substandard…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 11:39 AM
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When I was in high school and college I had no idea what women thought was an interesting life that I could live without money. Some achievements women care about some they don't, I only had a vague idea of what belonged in which category. If you knew all of this stuff at 19 you were ahead of me, not everyone learns the same stuff at the same time. I was sort of a late bloomer when it came to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 10:57 AM
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Do you usually have an open, approachable friendly expression on your face when shopping, running errands etc? I've been told I have a don't talk to me look on my face a lot of times. I used to work downtown in a large city where there were lots of panhandlers around and this expression sort of became default in public for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 10:56 AM
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I didn't know that was a thing but I like mine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 09:05 AM
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It still sounds to me like you sort of do want a dick pic. Don't be shy, just ask nicely. He'll be flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 06:25 AM
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Probably not, almost every time a friend of mine asked guys for naked or dick pics she got them so I don't think that this is the issue. I don't think she sent very many nudes in return if any at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:58 AM
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Well you said you haven't gotten any solicited ones either so I thought that maybe you had asked but had not been taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:29 AM
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Have you tried asking nicely?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 04:49 AM
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Improve yourself assumes that the man knows what women find attractive when lots of men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 12:33 AM
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Your dad is trying to get you to do an arranged marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 12:53 PM
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If anyone ever said rp was a quick fix they were lying or didn't know what they were talking about. Unless a guy only needs a small amount of help, say his clothes, hobbies and haircut are his biggest problem issues it's going to take at least six months to read, contemplate and absorb the material and more time to integrate it into his life and practice the new actions enough so that they are second nature. Depending on how much help a guy needs it takes a year or two or maybe more if he needs …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 07:48 AM
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Start more threads on what you want to discuss, HSW talks about stuff that's been done to death and we still participate, we would all welcome some new topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 07:28 AM
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I would say that the video game playing basement dweller is probably depressed or has some other sort of emotional issue that he needs to deal with before he can successfully do any meaningful self improvement. Once he is in a better emotional place then he can more accurately see where he is and where he wants to be and can figure out if he can get there, if not, he can find something that he is capable of doing. I think most people can make meaningful changes in their attitudes and confidence …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 07:24 AM
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I have a number of friends who partied their way out of college when they were 18 or 19 and went back to finish their degrees 10 or more years later. I think this is an example of people changing themselves and developing motivation and ambition that they were clearly lacking as younger people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 07:04 AM
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For men with more than a few options the bar for ltr material is a few rmv points above the bar for fwb. A woman might assume she's ltr material for a guy because she gets to spend time with him on the regular but she might be lacking some of the qualities that that guy wants for a ltr. She might even look the part but be lacking in something like domestic skills, wouldn't fit into his family or might just not want the same things out of life as he does. I live in a somewhat small town but I pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 01:02 AM
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I didn't say she couldn't, just that if a guy with an average paying career lives in an expensive area where he can't afford to buy a decent house he will likely be at a disadvantage in rmv. I don't think wanting to buy an average home for your family is high maintenance but that's because I've always lived in places where home prices are not out of reach for people with average jobs. I personally wouldn't want live in NYC or San Francisco unless I was being paid quite a bit extra to offset the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 07:11 PM
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Cardboard boxes get mighty drafty and it's starting to get cold. Seriously, I'm thinking that asking them to move out acted as dread. I'm guessing that your ex thinks she can maybe get you back one day and if the sex stops you'd be fine with never seeing her again. Lots of people can only appreciate what they have to struggle to get. You being willing to leave them with no cares is a demonstration of high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 01:59 PM
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Lol, not giving a fuck can absolutely get you pretty far but most guys can't live with a woman for years and not care if she leaves. I never said it couldn't be done just that it's a lot harder than if you both have separate places. You earned my vote for the not giving a fuck hall of fame for that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 12:58 PM
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I think a person can easily live like this while having a girlfriend but not if they're cohabitating. In my observations most women won't stick around forever if you're not willing to live with them so it's going to be hard to have a really long term girlfriend without her having some level of control over your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 12:05 PM
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Natural gas heat. I could when I was a kid, I haven't tried it since then. Low population density, town of less than 50k people. Not since I was a kid. We didn't have the first six in college and I wouldn't have been in an engineering club because I was in the social sciences and we had no clubs for my major, I was in two other clubs though. My high school didn't have clubs at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 11:36 AM
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The man still needs to earn enough to be able to help provide the type of life she wants, if the guy is a teacher who earns $50k in an area where an average house in a decent neighborhood is $350 to 400k I'm thinking that might be a problem if she is looking for a relationship that might lead to marriage. A guy is probably going to have better luck if he at least earns enough to help provide a lifestyle comparable to what her friends and family deem average. If her social circle has lots of teac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 07:34 AM
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I'm sure that some of them are really bad looking but the ones I know in real life are definitely quitters who if they lost weight and dressed better they would be average looking (4-5/10) guys. I'm glad it's not just me thinking that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 04:19 AM
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Yes, all that sounds like a few of my friends, they all quit way too easily when trying new things. Thanks for the detailed answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 03:56 AM
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Good to hear that you figured out what you needed to do to get where you needed to be regardless of how you figured it out. How did you get rid of the self defeating attitude? I know people who have been stuck in that bad place in their heads for years and years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 03:47 AM
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I can dig it, it sounds like epic level hamstering to me though especially if they are cohabitating with the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 03:36 AM
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Some of the MRA points seem good but I don't think that they know how to successfully sell their ideas to the general public. I don't know any of these people in real life so my opinion is limited to people on the net. A lot of the MGTOWs seem to still be in pain from bad relationships and some of them will eventually heal emotionally and move on with their lives and some will just get more and more bitter or depressed rather than even attempt to heal their emotional wounds. I have been temporar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 03:30 AM
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What did you change about yourself to give yourself the option to not be Forever Alone? Have you successfully gotten yourself back into the game?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 03:14 AM
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MGTOW in ltrs? Admittedly I'm no expert on this but I thought that living without women having any say in your life was the main point of being MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 03:10 AM
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That's seems fair to me. Women don't get to change their minds if they give up a child so men shouldn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 09:35 PM
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If the woman doesn't believe in abortion she still has the adoption option if she doesn't want to or can't support a child. Under the current system only men are forced to be accountable while women still have options even after the child is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 09:13 PM
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I told you why rp people think that you're a woman, do what you will with the information. I'll catch you at the next juicy debate topic as there's no real debate to be had here. Have fun playing with your pet, huskies are nice dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 12:22 PM
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I thought you were a woman because most men only enter a debate when they have some sort of reasoning as to why they disagree with your viewpoint. Lots of women have well reasoned arguments as well but most men don't want to lose the debate so if they have no good argument they simply don't respond. Women are more likely to reply with shaming and name calling instead of a concrete argument than men are although some men do this too. I'm here to debate with people, if someone has a logical argume…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 10:56 AM
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I don't think that we should limit women's freedom but some women and men would do better if their parents picked their spouses. I think having the option to get an arranged marriage would be nice but it shouldn't be mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 05:01 AM
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No but you made it seem like the parents screening the men would vastly limit her choices, they would now but when this was in fashion most people lived on farms or in small villages and there were likely only a handful of age appropriate men in the immediate area and the parents knew most of their families if not the young men themselves. This couldn't work well in modern society because people don't know other families the same way that they did when people lived in villages or on farms. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 10:57 PM
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I'm pretty sure that the people who say and believe that all of that stuff were already the type to believe that stuff before they found trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 10:12 PM
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Most women now don't have dozens of men who are of roughly equivalent smv or rmv who are willing to marry them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 10:01 PM
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I've heard of a thing called leftover women in China, apparently women who aren't married by 27 or so are considered too old to start a family with so their dating prospects fall off drastically. I don't know if they get cats or not. There are also leftover men caused by China's one child policy. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sheng_nu
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 09:45 PM
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I got the name of the school from the martial arts school on one of my favorite slapstick comedy anime shows called Ranma 1/2. I started my imaginary school for those of us who agree with most of the red pill information but not the political views, attitude or general outlook on life that many people on trp have or are working towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 11:03 AM
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I wondered where you got that from, I'm also going to check out that Jim Cornette podcast one day, I was a giant wrasslin fan growing up and he was one of my favorite villains. takes tennis racket to the back *gets pinned *
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 10:54 AM
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I scored a 67.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 10:41 AM
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It seems to me that almost all of the BP people here on PPD have been in ltrs for quite a few years and many of them got in the relationship with their spouse or ltr at somewhat young ages. I have real life friends like that, they have been partnered for almost all of their adult lives (since high school or college) and can't relate to single people's lives very well because they haven't ever been single past college age for more than a few months if at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 01:32 AM
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The women has to get approval from the father to get an abortion in your country? It's not like that in the US, she has no such restrictions here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 08:51 PM
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Sunny D? I could almost see it of it was actual orange juice not just orange kool-aid. You definitely want to invite that guy to the weekly poker game.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 08:41 PM
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Sure as long as she was actually OK with it. Some women can be with a guy who earrns less and be happy some can't, I've seen it go down both ways in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 08:24 PM
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The fish and chips thing was kind of hard to justify to Congress so we had to make up a good cover story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 12:31 PM
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Russian seems a lot more fun to speak than German although the Russians write more depressing novels. Of course we turned up halfway through, those wars were European wars, we only turned up at all because we didn't want the world to be without decent fish and chips. You guys spell your words with unnecessary letters because you lack soul food. I'd probably die in England for lack of decent barbecue and fried chicken. Only northerners care about Boston Harbor because only people who live in plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 12:10 PM
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It's too easy to beat us at sports we barely play, that's like us challenging you to a basketball or baseball game. We're both better than that, how about golf or boxing, you guys invented the modern rules of boxing and your neighbors invented golf, we're pretty good at those sports too. We didn't borrow English, we took it, we just let you guys have the credit for inventing it and still call it English because we like you, we don't even charge you a license fee to use it. It's ours now, you use…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 11:30 PM
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Yeah one of these days our countries are going to have to decide on the correct spellings for a bunch of words. I say it should be decided with a sporting event. You guys are still good at a couple of sports right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 10:03 PM
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Ah, OK, I hope someone eventually notices and gets him help. Maybe it's something that meds will control and he can eventually live a normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 10:25 AM
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How do they not know that he is afraid to leave the house and how is he supporting himself if he can't keep a job. Does he never see his family or can he cover up his mental illness long enough to fool people he rarely sees? I'm guessing he doesn't live close to any of them for them not to notice he's been acting strangely for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 06:00 AM
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That sounds awful, I can't imagine what it would be like to be married to someone with mental illness that led to paranoia. I'm glad you finally got out of that situation before it got dangerous. You shouldn't feel bad because it sounds like you did what you could but I think you needed to get out because he sounds mentally unstable and it sounds like he wasn't in a place to accept any help and it seems like he was starting to get dangerous near the end. Did anyone in his family convince or forc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 04:40 AM
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Unfortunately this isn't how most people view marriage these days and lots of people start wanting out when it's not fun anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 02:37 AM
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What caused you to become cold, heartless and withdraw emotional intimacy? Was it something he did or did you just start to dislike him out of the blue?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 02:22 AM
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The test I took a few months ago said ENFP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 01:34 AM
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Are you saying that there is no wall at all or that you think it's simply older than rp claims? Ask a 70 year old woman if they think there is a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 10:45 AM
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I think she was already like this inside but now she can express it because she looks better. Maybe one day she'll appreciate you for being a good friend but don't hold your breath. It's time for you to make some new friends and move on. I've been in a similar position, she has to learn on her own that you can't shit on your friends and expect them to still be your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 12:13 AM
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I think it would help some of them but a lot of the others have emotional or mental problems that need addressing. The guys who are just nervous and anxious might be helped by visiting a professional their first couple of times until they feel a little more comfortable with sex. Here in the US we don't take mental health seriously enough and this is one result. I'm going to say that all of these mass shooters needed mental health more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 12:04 AM
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I'm pretty sure that the attraction thing was meant as more of a nagging feeling than a conscious thing. I've seen #1 happen and the sex came back after the child got a little older and I've seen it never come back to a similar level. I've seen #2 happen and I can't blame her, I hope they eventually went their separate ways because that sounds miserable. I hope your friend told her man what was going on with #3 and I hope she got help for her emotional problems. I've seen #4 happen too but once …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 03:00 PM
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Bp didn't work very well for me either but since it's a debate sub I think people should be able to explain why they don't agree with a concept so I ask them to. Some are up to it some aren't but I think I should ask anyway, sometimes it's just good to see where other people are coming from even if I don't agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 02:32 PM
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OK thanks, I'm going to look deeper into this, I didn't know that this was a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 02:26 PM
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I agree that it's shit and yes it's all about scaring people. Sure there are millions who don't get caught. The problem is all you have to do is get caught once and it could seriously mess up your life if you have anything big going for yourself, same with drugs. What is DNM? I imagine the people who are regularly in the market for paid sex know where to look but it's not as easy to find as drugs are. I've never used drugs but I know enough sketchy people that I'm sure I could find drugs from so…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 01:06 PM
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I mean they have an article about a prostitution bust and name everyone who was arrested. Some newspapers print everyone's name who was arrested the previous day and what they are charged with. My local paper does both things. I'm not saying you should be ashamed but your employer might be ashamed and fire you especially if they are very religious. You might be super in demand and can get another job without much trouble but lots of guys aren't in that position. Wandering around a dodgy area wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 12:44 PM
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In murica some cities publicly shame men in the newspaper who get caught with prostitutes and if you work in a white collar job you could get fired for this. Obviously it's not like this where you live but in the religious parts of the US it is and yes we know it's stupid. Honestly if I wanted to find a prostitute I would have no idea where to look, I hear that brothels are an open secret and there is a boys will be boys attitude towards it in some countries but not here. Your options are pick u…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 12:11 PM
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How do you think attraction tapers off to nothing from the woman's perspective then, what have you heard or read women talking about when they lose attraction to a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 11:31 AM
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Rp. I believe in freedom so if someone wants to work in the sex industry I have no problem with it as long as they are of age and fully informed about what they're getting into. I think sex work should be legal and regulated so that workers are protected by the law so that underage people can be kept out, sex trafficking/slavery will be discouraged and it will be harder to exploit workers and easier to prevent STDs from spreading.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 06:14 AM
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Yes, that's what I'm saying, I'm in my early 40s and people think I'm in my late 20s or early 30s. My friends that drink a lot or smoke cigarettes mostly look their age or older, in large part because a lot of them have gotten fat. Good care is rare here too that's why you stand out if you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 10:12 PM
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Onizuka was a semi reformed thug who played by his own rules. If you act like that where you already are things will improve for you and you won't have to move. If you go anyway wreck the principals new car a few times for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 12:02 PM
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If you can't cut the mustard learn to lick the jar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 11:50 AM
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I still think this is regional, I have very few single women in any of my social circles, college educated or not. Some will date down to get a sort of non financial betabux, some will be happy that they found someone to love them enough to marry them, some will still think that they could have done better and not appreciate what they have. Some will just remain single and some of these women will just get more and more unhappy as time goes on while some will use their time to pursue hobbies and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 12:27 PM
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Our society is dehumanizing, people have to adapt to succeed in it. I don't like it but I have very little power to change things. Humans weren't made to work in artificially lit offices all day, live in large impersonal cities or sit still in classrooms as 3 or 4 year olds. I agree that lots of trp guys take things too far before finding the balance that I think most that want to eventually do. Some guys just like complaining instead of doing anything. What help or solution do you recommend for…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 12:06 PM
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I don't know that men don't want to be leaders, it may be that they think women don't want that because of what so many women say. I always had the capacity to be the leader of the relationship but I usually held back to make room for the woman to make some decisions because I didn't want to be overbearing. They were mostly wishy washy and I ended up making the decisions anyway usually after an argument. When I started reading rp I realized that these relationships went bad in part because my no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 11:28 AM
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You've heard the saying that men won't willingly go backwards sexually and women won't willingly go backwards in lifestyle? Once a guy has had a sex act he really likes he doesn't want to be without the option to have that same experience again. If you had a few boyfriends make you (your favorite dessert here) from scratch on a regular basis and you both really enjoyed it and you got used to it but another boyfriend was against this dessert and would not allow it in his home and tried to keep yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 10:56 AM
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Was he found guilty of fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 12:00 AM
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If you're not a lesbian your opinion on rp is based on pure speculation. Edit I thought you were a woman, sorry. What's fucked about it in your opinion, I'm the first to admit it's not perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 11:03 PM
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I never claimed that it was a good idea only that it happened. In the US most 22 year olds are still growing up and might change a lot in the next 3 or 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 10:28 PM
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You win a kewpie doll! The age difference isn't why it didn't work though, once he commits to a woman he always turns into a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 10:22 PM
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It's not the philosophy but we tell guys to do this because most Americans are not in shape and it's something that will produce noticeable results that will help guys with self esteem or confidence problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 10:17 PM
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Yeah a friend of mine married a 22 or 23 year old when he was 36 so I know that all younger women aren't against guys in their 30s. Now that you mention it all of my friends who are in their 30s and 40s that mostly date women under 25 are almost always with girls that didn't go to college so I think you're on to something there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 12:16 PM
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Because most people don't take good care of themselves and many look played out by their mid 30s. This is why we tell men to stay active and in shape. The older you get the lower the bar for good looks for your age group gets, so if you stay in shape you'll stand out. I doubt most 35 year old guys are going to complain if they can only pull 25 year olds as opposed to college girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 06:02 AM
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If you don't tell women don't have sex if you don't want a baby then that's the double standard. More insults and still no argument, did you go to the Donald Trump debating school? Baby talk was my first language, how about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 12:56 AM
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*gets popcorn *
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 12:03 AM
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So your argument is double standards for men and women are fine and dandy if it doesn't harm women? The woman can get out of the responsibilities by giving up the baby or getting an abortion and the man can't and your argument is double standards are OK just because. I asked multiple times for a reason why you support this double standard and you gave none. You're the same as the people who call women who get abortions scumbags and you can't even see it. Instead of trying to argue with facts you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 11:38 PM
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Apparently the hormone problem thing is more widespread than I thought. I freely admit that just because I don't know anyone with an issue doesn't mean it's not common. I'd rather let you know I'm guessing for the purpose of the debate than to pretend like I know, people will tell you when you're wrong. I understand the issues in general and want them to be fixed but I am not very familiar with Canadian geography or how your health care system works. I'm a real supporter of women's reproductive …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 09:15 PM
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When people are in a committed monogamous relationship and the woman agrees to take birth control of her choosing in my experience and observation it's not common for the man to also wear a condom so yes I would consider her getting pregnant an accident. Is it common for men to wear condoms with their monogamous partners who are on birth control in your social groups? I'm asking a serious question because this isn't how people in my social groups do it. I'm not familiar with abortion access in C…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 02:40 PM
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I never said men shouldn't wear a condom. Your comment made it seem like All of the responsibilities are on men and if an accidental pregnancy occurs it's solely the man's fault when both people are responsible because women have birth control too and neither men's or women's BC is 100% effective. If men morally shouldn't be allowed any recourse for accidental pregnancy because they need to take responsibility for their actions then women should have to take the same level of responsibility and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 01:08 PM
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By that logic women shouldn't be able to have abortions either. If that's your stance I don't agree, you can't force someone to be a good parent and those who don't want to be parents probably won't be much good at it or put in the the effort that those who really want children will. The world doesn't need more shitty parents. People do things they don't take responsibility for every day, you can try and force them but you can't force them to care as much as those who actually want those respons…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 11:51 PM
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I'm pretty sure that married red pill encourages those but I'm not 100% sure about the selfless chivalry part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 09:51 PM
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What exactly are you considering to be blue pill that you say is necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 09:40 PM
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500 year sentences for mass murderers are OK with me too, as long as they don't ever get out to mingle with the rest of us I'm ok with it. I don't have a super strong opinion on the death penalty. Child support, I think men should be able to opt out in the first few months after being notified that they are or are about to be a father. Since men can't have abortions we should be able to legally opt out of being a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 09:33 PM
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I think it takes 20 or 30 years for it to be somewhat socially acceptable but people who can pull it off gamewise will eventually have multiple wives or husbands. I don't think it ever becomes something most people do because most people have enough on their hands getting along with one spouse. People will try some of the exotic marriages found in Heinlein novels and we'll all get to see if they crash and burn. And the percentage of those left with nothing gets slightly larger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 11:09 PM
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I support a more limited death penalty only used when there is an overwhelming amount of concrete evidence that the convicted person actually did the crime not just "you match the description" from one witness. If the cops catch you at the scene of the movie theater shooting armed to the teeth and 20 witnesses say you did it or you're on camera doing it break out the lethal injection. I support abortion rights but think that we also need some way for a man to terminate his support obligations in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 07:36 PM
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As long as, I get to pull it for those who start wars then cut veterans benefits it's a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 07:23 PM
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I know I don't want Hillary elected but I don't have a favorite this far out. I'm not familiar with many of the Republican candidates because there is almost a zero percent chance of me voting for one. I would like to say no thanks to Trump and Bush though. I'm in the US south and know very little about what goes on in Canada 1000 miles away. I don't have US predictions because 1/3 of the candidates are going to step on scandal landmines between now and next summer. I usually vote but don't foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 01:10 PM
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They just don't make fortune cookie messages the way they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 08:36 AM
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On the bright side, there's still plenty of time to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 03:17 AM
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From what I hear it has full Deli capabilities. It is the deluxe model after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 12:56 AM
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That's why the discerning customer always buys the optional conversation chip. The deluxe model comes with this and the sandwich making chip at no extra cost so you might want to consider that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 11:02 PM
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Are you asking if we think that only men with high sex drives would believe in rp and that men with low sex drives are more likely to be bp? Are you also asking if we think we can change our worldview in a way that makes sex a lower priority thus lowering our sex drives? I'm having trouble understanding exactly what you are getting at and this is what I think you're asking. If I'm interpreting your questions right the answer is no to both questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 01:14 PM
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When Bill said "I did not have sexual relations with that woman" under oath they tried to convict him of perjury if I remember correctly. That sounds like someone did believe that oral sex was sex, at least enough to try to convict him of perjury. Again I'm not saying it's sex but some people seem to so its apparently not that clear to everyone. Perhaps it's a generational thing. Apparently lots of people my grandparents age apparently thought oral sex was something only prostitutes and other lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 12:44 AM
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If your husband gave you permission it wouldn't be cheating so cheating and what is sex are different issues. One part of me says that oral sex isn't cheating but another part of me says that anything that you can get an std from is sex so I'm saying that there isn't really a standard definition that everyone agrees on. People under 30 may have one definition and people over 60 may have another.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 12:23 AM
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Everyone roasted Bill Clinton when he got caught having an affair and tried to deny that oral sex was actually sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 11:00 PM
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I'm guessing you think rp is mostly Asian and Indian because those guys are more likely to state their ethnic group in their posts while white, black and latin guys don't do this nearly as much unless asked. I live in an area with very few Asian or Indian people so I can't answer that, I only know two Asian men and they are both married to white women that they met in high school. I'm black.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 12:41 AM
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Yes, two of them, one guy is confident and funny and he has a take charge personality. The other guy is a really fun party guy who has a good mix of style and toughness and an outgoing personality that women really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 11:28 PM
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Rp doesn't condone using dread in good relationships or or cheating unless things are truly terrible. Just because lots of people on trp condone it doesn't mean rp says it's ok or recommended. It just means those people think it's OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 10:44 PM
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Please don't do away with happy endings, we must endeavor to keep the naughty massage industry strong in these trying times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 10:39 AM
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That depends on what type of man she's looking for, some men like fake boobs and such, some men are turned off by them. Rp doesn't tell women what to do it tells men what to do when they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 03:58 AM
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I made the same mistake a few times, I listened to women when they said they wanted someone to treat them like an equal and I made space for them to contribute to whatever plans we made and other things, they all waffled and were indecisive and I didn't take the reigns quickly enough so I made myself look indecisive by not taking charge when I should have. Perhaps men and women have a different understanding of what treated like an equal means but my efforts to do so didn't pay off. Red pill exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 11:04 AM
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No, I still believe in the same stuff that I did before. Politics is a dirty game and you can't play it a high level without getting dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:06 AM
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Start singing "turn out the lights, the party's over" that relationship is dunzo. Possibly try and fuck a few of her friends while she's gone because why not, she obviously doesn't give two shits about you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 06:16 AM
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How am I as an individual supposed to hold women accountable and responsible for how they run their sex lives? I don't have power over that, I can only control my own reactions and behavior. Society won't either, so I'm doing the only thing I can do to which is to not get married because divorce is what many women use for leverage over a man and his assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 05:15 AM
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This is why rp tells guys not to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 11:18 PM
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Yep, and then the man gets blamed for not being home enough. I've seen this go down with friends wives who cheated or left them. "You were never there. "
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 12:27 PM
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True, lots of women would try to do that. I also think more women will pass up a promotion to keep a better work life balance when a man who does this will often be frowned upon for not providing more for his family even if he has to work 70 to 80 hour weeks with the promotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 12:02 PM
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I agree with all that. Being aggressive in a career setting is a skill that more women are learning as time goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 11:04 AM
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They might feel that way but I don't know that they would use those thoughts to try to get the idiots job at the same rate as men do. I'm not saying that they don't just that I don't know. In my observations men are a little more aggressive in seeking promotions than women are but my experiences aren't universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 10:31 AM
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Since eating is biological why do people need to be taught to catch fish, hunt animals or taught which plants are safe to eat?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 04:03 AM
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I think when men see incompetent people in positions above them they feel like they can do just as good if not better so they are willing to say "if that idiot deserves a corner office then I do too." I think that may be part of what you're talking about, I've definitely been in that situation before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 01:29 AM
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I think that the date within your social groups thing works better if you're actually looking for an actual relationship not just trying to spin plates or get a fwb. A guy could burn bridges having 2 or 3 fwbs that have a decent chance to come into contact with each other or know some of the same people. It could hurt you professionally to have the wrong man's wife think you're a dirtbag.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 12:59 AM
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I'm curious as to why you as a white man who obviously has white women as his first choice because it feels normal to you views it as inconceivable that it would feel normal for minority men to have women of their own race as their first choice? I do see a lot of white guys saying they hate entitled American women and want to get a woman from another country so I guess that's who you're talking about. I think a lot of these guys are trying to take shortcuts instead of improving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 12:45 AM
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As long as it's not trashing anyone I can't see why not, the subs thst got removed like fat people hate basically just existed to make fun of and trash people as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 11:02 PM
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Be the change you want to see in the world. Start your own subreddit, call it MinoritySeduction, AsianSMV or MinorityPUA or whatever and since you're in charge you can have blackjack and hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 12:19 PM
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Hehehe, still better than Sylvester and Frank Stallone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 11:59 AM
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I wasn't ever brainwashed, I was just sort of clueless in some ways, I saw the popular guys and athletes getting more girls than me and my friends but I also saw the tough guys and the pretty boys getting the girls and some guys that seemed more like average guys too. I couldn't understand what all these guys had in common that I didn't have so I wasn't sure where I was going wrong so I couldn't figure out how to improve. I improved a few things but I knew I was still lacking something that I ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 08:54 AM
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I just enjoy a good rant every now and then, lots of men do, that's why angry stand up comedians and sports radio are popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 10:11 PM
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Desire for material goods also weighs down your spirit, I'm going to borrow my friends truck and I'll come to your house to relieve you of your burden. You're prepared to do without those because you're indifferent about material goods right? What size shoes do you wear again?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 10:46 PM
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We have plenty of goals but for most men working overtime and climbing the corporate ladder is a means to an end, supporting a family. With many guys they'd rather be a broke ass artist or struggling pro gamer or pool player, travel blogger or whatever they're passionate about. Edit, Do you think that the manager at Dairy Queen is there because he's passionate about ice cream?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 09:59 PM
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You can't have it both ways. I should take women seriously about ridiculous things such as all men are potential rapists but not take them seriously when I'm threatened with violence by a woman and I'm not talking about a friend joking with me I'm talking about someone I don't know. OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 09:52 PM
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We understand that but if you're a guy and talk crazy to other men eventually someone will make you back up your tough talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 09:31 PM
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You haven't really asked us a question or given us much of a statement for us to discuss either. This is pretty low effort. You can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 02:16 AM
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That sums it up pretty well. If you're reasonably good looking and have game you can be a 6 or 7 and pull 8s and maybe 9s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 08:19 PM
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When to the guy meets the woman in person he still has to not fuck up the encounter by being creepy or too eager or weird and that's didn't come naturally for a lot of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 07:53 PM
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Some people call the man and woman relationship dynamic the mating game, if you're good at understanding and navigating this dynamic so that women want to have sex with you you are said to have game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 07:50 PM
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She was turned on by thought of the engagement ring she gets to show off to her friends and the excitement of the wedding where for a few months before and a little while after its all about her and what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 07:39 PM
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Someone's imagination. A majority of black men prefer black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 12:32 PM
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Perhaps these brides to be should do more due diligence before they get married, clearly a lot of them had unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 12:21 PM
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I don't live with any of my male friends and none of them have access to or potential claims to any of my bank accounts or other assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 05:02 AM
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I don't know what number the average guy would like to get to so you're probably right and it's 25. That still doesn't mean that social pressure has nothing to do with wanting to have sex with 25+ women. I don't think that most guys get to 25. What does the cdc say about this? How did we get from me saying that ons are not the first choice for most guys to here? Edit, added stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 04:10 AM
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Mgtow guys plan on never marrying or cohabitation with a woman so that number is not that high over 40 to 50 years. Most guys do marry or live with a woman. Probably 10-15% of guys I know are at 25 or higher. I think the average is probably around 10 or 12 with a few under 5 and a lot more between 10 and 20. Edit men around the world may vary so I'm just going by the people I know well enough to know about their sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 03:35 AM
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Very few bpers give any logical arguments, mostly you all try to shame us and tell us how we are manipulative and wrong-headed. If someone says they have a problem with some aspect of life and is seeking help they want help. Bpers only offer criticism and when pressed for a better way to do things than RP they say we're not here for that were here for satire. Basically if I am looking for help and all I get is criticism and no help why should I listen to what you have to say. If you won't even t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 02:44 AM
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Just because men get enjoyment out of ONS doesn't mean that that's their first choice. I've had a couple when I was younger but I would have rather met a woman who I liked for more than sex but at the time I felt the sex was better than nothing so I had the ONS. If I go to the store to buy a piece of apple pie and they are out of it I will still enjoy the cherry or peach pie I buy instead. I still would have rather had the apple pie. Men wanting a high partner count is in large part because of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 02:25 AM
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Just going by the guys I know that's what they do now. Most men's first choice is to meet a woman for a relationship, second is fwb and the ONS is a last resort because they haven't met anyone good enough for their first two choices. A lower sex drive wouldn't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 10:42 PM
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In the US they are free for everyone so people don't think as much about the cost of adding programs unless they are in poor communities where the schools don't have much money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 02:17 PM
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I sometimes forget that not everyone goes to free public schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 01:56 PM
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OK thanks, I'm glad you're able to live in a low crime area. I blame parents for the kids staying indoors too much, maybe mandatory sports is the way to go but I think more than two choices per season would make stubborn little shits like I was more likely to find a sport they actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:48 PM
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Whoops, sorry for getting your location wrong. Playing in your own yard isn't the same as freely roaming the neighborhood but it's better than playing video games and watching TV all day every day. Is South Africa as dangerous as some news sources make it seem or are there just a few really bad areas and the rest is relatively safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:33 PM
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I definitely agree with this, I barely watched TV growing up, at least not when the weather was nice enough to play outside. Now most kids in the US can't just go outside and wander, parents are paranoid from watching too much TV news and keep their kids under much more supervision than we were under growing up. I feel bad for teenagers today, not being able to explore and wander like we did. Are most parents overprotective in Australia (it is Australia right) these days too? I hardly ever see k…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:24 PM
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This could work or it could backfire, my parents made me play soccer against my will for the church league when I was 6 or 7 and that killed me wanting to play team sports forever, maybe if I had gotten to pick the sport it wouldn't have been that bad. After that only individual sports interested me. I do agree with getting kids to be more active though I don't know if forcing kids makes more kids resent it or if stubborn kids like me are the exception rather than the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:11 PM
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Why would he meet her (if he didn't already know her) if he doesn't want to have sex with her? Guys usually don't approach women unless they're already pretty sure they want to have sex with them. If most guys are relying on their social circles and and are only dating women they already know they're screwed (metaphorically, unfortunately not literally) because in my experience only the popular guys have very many single women in their social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:01 PM
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Hmm. I'm not sure how that would work, men do most of the approaching because we have the desire to have sex with multiple women, without that how would a man who has decided on the woman he wants move on if she rejects him? Now we can just find another woman we desire and approach her, even now sometimes it's hard to move on if we were even more wired for oneitis it would be even harder. I'm thinking that one of the sexes needs to have this type of drive to make the initial moves in the mating …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 11:20 AM
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They are doing this to get the one woman. Most guys aren't wired to be players as much as they might wish they were. If most men had a low sex drive like most women do men wouldn't approach women and would deal with not having sex better so they wouldn't do the things that most guys see as prerequisites to get a decent marriageable woman, like being ambitious in their career or at least hardworking at their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 11:07 AM
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My wild guess is 20 to 25% in primary school and 10 to 15% in high school in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 11:00 AM
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It's not the gun company or shooting instructor's fault if some idiot shoots someone over a parking space. The blame is on the idiot for using a gun in an inappropriate situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 06:25 AM
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The average guy wants to aquire things and have an abundance of money to show women he is capable of supporting a family. Without this incentive to earn a surplus of money to aquire things only men with a passion for their work would work very hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 06:11 AM
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Most people don't try to improve, not just with the opposite sex, most people don't try very hard to improve at much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 06:01 AM
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Thanks, what percentage of children play sports in your town or city?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 09:55 PM
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Ah, ok, in the US most of our sports are done at school and it's not easy to make most of tthe teams. The school I went to only had 6 or 7 sports for boys so not nearly enough for everyone. There are only non school sports until about 6th or 7th grade because school sports teams start around that age (in my area of the US, it might be different in larger cities).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 05:19 AM
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Eyore, lol, I called him Charlie Brown but yours is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 04:57 AM
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I grew up in a small town with one varsity team per school and we played other small town teams. So your high school had more than one varsity soccer team? We had varsity for juniors and seniors and junior varsity for freshmen and sophomores. Occasionally really talented underclassmen got to play on the varsity team though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 04:55 AM
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I watched like 90 seconds and felt myself being dragged into his sad black hole of depression and turned off the video. If the schmuck got off the self pity kick, got a decent haircut and got in shape he would do a lot better in life. The guy is basically Charlie Brown with hair. What I would say is go find something you like doing and do it, try to learn how to have a good attitude. Read how to win friends and influence people, get some "don't give a fuck" pills. Study zen. Do whatever you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 04:49 AM
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I personally don't want to work for someone who doesn't respect me. I've been in and out of sales for the last 10+ years and if I had a new manager come in and give a speech like that I start looking for another job. I've always worked harder and gotten better results from positive reinforcement and skills training, yelling at me or talking down to me just makes me want to beat you with a blunt object. The characters in the film are a bunch of sad sack whiners so I can't really relate to them. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 04:40 AM
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How would every boy playing team sports look? Some people aren't athletic. Do you make new sports for the people who can't make the football, baseball or basketball team? Do you have 3 football teams of varying talent?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 04:26 AM
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Hehehe autocorrect strikes again. I meant have had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 09:07 PM
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I think it's a combination of lack of self esteem and naive belief that love conquers all like in romantic songs. Lots of people don't know that you shouldn't become a doormat, they believe that if they spoil their women the women will appreciate it. Go read the relationship subreddit and read how much of this stuff isn't known by lots of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 08:05 AM
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I guess anything is possible but that's not how you sell gossip magazines.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 07:59 AM
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I did a lot of 17 when I was in high school and college but I thought what I wanted was obvious, it's called immaturity. I never did any of the others. 20 should be: came in a woman's mouth without giving her a warning. Guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 03:02 AM
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I think part of rp stuff is common knowledge but it's different parts for every guy. To you af/bb wasn't common knowledge, I had this more or less figured out at 15. That nearly all women like masculine guys wasn't something I figured out on my own I thought it was maybe half and half. I didn't understand how much people rationalize bad behavior until I read rp stuff. Judging by the number of men I know who married promiscuous women and women who wanted them for their money or lifestyle I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 02:27 AM
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Men like all kinds of women, it boggles the mind at some of the couples I see together. In my experience and observations once most men go so far as to marry a woman he's in and isn't going anywhere unless the woman starts treating him poorly or ignoring his needs. There are some guys that cheat to cheat but the majority only cheat on a wife when neglected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 02:01 AM
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I keep reading on the Internet that he's gay and his wife is his beard. What's your version of how he ended up with a much older woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 01:41 AM
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If you've been unsuccessful at anything important for a long time when you learn where you've been going wrong you're going to get angry when you look back on all the preventable mistakes you made and opportunities you missed out on. Some people deal with their anger and move on, some have trouble moving on or don't want to but they have to choose when to move on you or I can't do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 01:32 AM
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Please elaborate. What exactly do you find to be the opposite of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 11:21 PM
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That's the thing we don't know that someone that young isn't being manipulated into sex with someone that much older. Some 14 or 15 yo boys who have hand sex with much older women have been OK with it, some have said they felt taken advantage of, same with girls. When it's a young girl with an adult we almost always lock up the adult, it should be the same with boys. If we're talking 17 like in your example that's a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 11:19 PM
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That probably works better in the north where there likely aren't any black people who ride horses and listen to country music.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 12:01 PM
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Is your employer hiring?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:37 AM
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If you are identifying as FA you need to work on your emotional and self self esteem issues and possibly get some "I don't give a fuck" pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:22 AM
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I would tell you that if you want to do interracial dating go to more diverse cities. Places where people are segregated are also likely going to be bad. Places where there is a good mix in neighborhoods and schools will be best. From my observations, if you're a minority wanting to date interracialy you have to get into social circles with white people and join groups and activities with white people in them, I don't know if that's much different than what white guys do but that's what I see my…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:16 AM
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15 should get you 20 no matter which sex you are. From what I understand people who were sexually abused are very likely to become sexual abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 05:24 AM
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From my estimate maybe 5 to 10% of women are actual fans of a sport maybe two. My mother is a big football fan, her brothers all played and she grew up watching it. My friends mother is a giant baseball fan and I had a college friend who was a baseball fan. From my experiences there are very few women who love sports in general, they usually have one sport they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 05:17 AM
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I live in the south/southwest and I see about 20% interracial relationships. There are plenty of minority guys that are country guys with trucks and cowboy hats and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 04:55 AM
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For us to have a discussion we need to have a question or a statement to refute or discuss. You haven't really given us much to debate or discuss here. I think most of your post such as location is important, don't be too shy and join social circles that are conducive to to meeting the type of women you want are good advice for any guy looking for any type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 04:45 AM
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Ramesh can find happy relationships but will never get much out of the casual sex scene. He at least has a very good chance of avoiding being in a loveless marriage and can likely find someone who loves him for him, likely after 30 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 01:06 AM
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I don't know exactly what other rp men are looking for, probably something similar with adjustments for their own lifestyles. From what I can tell most of them want a smv equivalent (to them) woman that isn't high maintenance, bossy or hard to get along with who won't leave or cheat if life gets rocky for a short time. Apparently you're seeing something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 12:29 PM
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There are a lot of people on trp who haven't yet accepted things as they are and are still trying to find work arounds instead of working on improving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 12:12 AM
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I'm glad you figured out that it was her not you. No one should have to go through life thinking that it's their fault a parent isn't in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 11:50 PM
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This guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 12:45 PM
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This, it's harder to truly appreciate nice things if you haven't had crappy things. Yes, I'm calling men things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 12:45 PM
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I have never heard a woman say she wanted a man to dominate her, at least not that I can remember. What I usually hear is that they want this famous guy or that one even if it's a locally famous guy like a local athlete or celebrity. I live in the country, maybe women are more truthful in large cities or your part of the country or world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 12:40 PM
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Of course people are individuals. Some are bad some are good, most are a mix of both. Almost everyone wants a win win relationship, who wants a relationship with someone who doesn't really want to be with them? Finding someone compatible is 80% of the work in finding a happy relationship. If you're looking for a relationship with someone there are certain things that you want and certain things you can't deal with. I'm sure you have some sort of screening process just like we do. Here are some o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 08:14 AM
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Which new non porn movies show men having sex with multiple women, I can't think of any offhand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 06:17 AM
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Murtaugh rule, I'm too old for that virgin shit. Give me the N4.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:43 AM
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Rp is sort of complicated. To BP people it's a thought excersise, we're actually using this stuff so we have to understand how everything works at a nuts and bolts level. Unless you put some skull sweat into relating the principles to real life situations it makes no sense and bp people don't have any incentive to do the work. You can't be a really good football player if you don't understand the fundamentals and you can't be really good at anything else either if you don't understand them. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:32 AM
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When I first read a lot of this stuff I was angry for a month or so, mostly because I wished I knew this when I was a teenager and was thinking about all the mistakes I made over the years when I didn't know better. I haven't been divorced 2 or 3 times and lost 2 or 3 houses and had to start over 2or 3 times so I don't have the same amount of things to be angry about as some guys do. To paraphrase Chris Rock I don't think it's for the best but I understand. I have friends who have really been th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 01:23 AM
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Judging by my friends and family members teenage and young adult children, girls/women bully online a lot more than boys/men. As far as I know no men I know in real life have been harassed online.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 10:14 PM
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Thanks, I was getting the itch for a motorcycle again and you just helped me to squash it. I should be good til next summer now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 10:07 PM
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The part that tells you what is attractive and not attractive to the average woman and the communication part. You can show women that you "get it" and make them feel comfortable because you don't come off as too much of an awkward weirdo. If you don't know these things how are you supposed to pick out the right clothing or say things things that help your attractiveness when you do talk to a woman? Once you understand how social proof works in different situations you can use it to boost your s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 09:35 PM
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I left ramen, baloney sandwiches and Cap'n crunch for dinner (not all of these in the same meal) behind when I finished undergrad, I ain't goin back! There is such a thing as too low maintenance too, sweatpants, house shoes and head scarf at the grocery store woman isn't for me either. Edit, added stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 12:53 PM
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Everyone says be attractive but very few tell you exactly what is attractive to the average woman, eli5 instructions on how to get there and why this group of things is attractive and why this group of things is unattractive. Rp tells you how the smp operates, and how to spot red flags and how to recognize that a woman is trying to get you into a betabux relationship. Rp tells you that attraction cant be negotiated and that logic and reason can't make someone attracted to you if they're not. Rp …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 11:19 AM
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This. It's sort of like how some people in the US get butthurt when people in other countries say they have no desire to live like Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 07:38 AM
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That's it. I sort of get the appeal but stern and bossy doesn't push my buttons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 07:28 AM
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I couldn't have a ltr with a woman who couldn't cook, girl me it would signal that she isn't a nurturer and is the type that expects to be spoiled, I'm not about that high maintenance life. The personal part is also that I'm a pretty good cook and wouldn't want to lie and pretend to Iike inferior food every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 06:25 AM
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Yeah high smv girls probably rarely get rejected, for the other 70-80% it's a crap shoot. You just said girls in your comment, not necessarily high smv girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 03:44 AM
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I'd rather have a woman with breasticular fortitude than testicular but I'm just picky like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 03:24 AM
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I meant explained by parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 01:45 AM
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I see the Felicity Kendall thing a lot online, she seems like the type to own thigh high boots, a bustier and a whip. Have you been naughty? You can't tell me you never noticed that dynamic between her and her husband on the show. As, a kid I didn't notice but as an adult...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 01:26 AM
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I agree with you except that be yourself isn't explained well enough to clueless teenage boys. You can absolutely still be yourself and learn to play the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 12:56 AM
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I've rejected probably 70-80% of the women who have approached me. Most of them were low smv but a few weren't, they just weren't my type. Have your Chad friends never shot down a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 12:50 AM
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I agree to a point, dating different types of people is good but ltring some of those types is just asking for pain that lots of people carry over to their later relationships. The women who try to get Chad to be faithful and the men who try to make a slutty woman into a faithful wife too many times end up bitter and they are the ones saying all men/women ain't shit. I was always pretty good at spotting the red flags but damn some of my friends are awful at it. These are the overly vitriolic peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 11:58 PM
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She's pretty (the last time I saw her) but the op asked about odd attractions and Sarah Alexander is what most people would consider conventionally attractive. Tamsin is not, shes odd looking but somehow pushes my buttons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 11:47 PM
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Tamsin Greig, from Green Wing and Black Books.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 04:52 PM
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Well we finally agree on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 04:20 PM
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Either fix the social circle thing and get into activities or hobbies that have women as well as men in them or put in the pua work and get good at it. Those are kind of your best two options once you get out of school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 04:17 PM
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Soo, if you're thin and average looking just move to a fat state and get an instant smv boost. Have all of your teeth? +2 smv in a rural area. Now all of the women who wonder where all the good men are are going to steal my brilliant idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 02:44 PM
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If all these red flags were common sense so many guys wouldn't ltr women with them, lots of guys don't understand that these behaviors could indicate a bad ltr prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 01:56 PM
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You asked if I saw why some women chose to be the woman men jack off too instead of sleep with. What did you mean by that? I'm pretty sure I missed what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 03:08 AM
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I honestly don't know anyone who counseling helped, do you? It has to have helped someone in all these years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 01:19 AM
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No, I don't get why choosing to be a porn actor is a good choice for an emotionally healthy person, man or woman. Please explain it to me, it's a mystery to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 01:13 AM
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When it's just you you're less likely to take the promotion to supervisor that requires 60 hour weeks because the extra 10k per year isn't worth it to you. The guy with mouths to feed usually has much more need for the money so he sucks it up and takes the promotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 01:54 PM
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There aren't many nice girls who do porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 01:25 PM
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Explain how everyone wins. A majority of my friends who have been married for 5+ years are not very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 10:44 PM
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You don't have to get even close to marriage to get sex. Pre sexual revolution it wasn't like this. There was lots of social stigma to premarital sex so it was not that easy to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:41 PM
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A lot of women won't acknowledge this. "my male friends are always in relationships or with women."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:32 PM
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A bad marriage is much worse than being a free range dude doing strs and hookups. A good marriage is obviously much better but I think about 15-20% of married guys I know are happier 5-7 years in than they would being free range.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:30 PM
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I'm going to have to disagree with you on the point that most men are getting along fine without this info that father's don't teach enough of. In my observations less than half of guys are fine without it. I think that the way women are described on trp is a caricature but it helps inexperienced guys recognize red flag behavior better than simple truths would. The don't be a doormat part gets a lot of guys because we want to spoil and indulge our loved ones, unfortunately if you do this too muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:09 PM
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Most of the women that are sluts are only sluts for guys with a couple of points higher smv than they have not just anyone who is convenient. Not all women are in the hookup scene, some women never go to clubs, rp never said all women go to clubs or that every single woman wants Chads just a high percentage of college aged women. Guys who don't shine at first impression need to meet women through social circles, rp says this too. Your redpill knowledge has some holes in it, I do like your idea o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 10:02 AM
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ROK seems to be written for 15 year olds. No I don't go there or support its content. It's trashy click bait that no one should take seriously. If all rp people have to be held to what ROK says then all Christians are accountable for Westborough Baptist and the other extreme brands of Christians and all Muslims for the violent extremists they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 09:42 AM
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I didn't say trp I said rp type knowledge, this simply means knowledge of women's sexual strategy and how to navigate it to get the type of relationship you want and weed out unsuitable candidates. ProtoPill's father taught him how to pick out a good future wife while they were both in high school, most fathers used to teach sons this, now a lot less do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 09:12 AM
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What I'm getting out of this is that many men and women have different ideas of what hard work is. Taking care of people isn't easy but it's physically easier than assembly line work or cutting yards for a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 08:57 AM
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Gotcha, there are a lot of guys in pain on trp, I hope most of them eventually heal and accept things as they are not as they want them to be but some don't seem to be trying very hard to let go of their idealistic notions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 02:30 AM
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I honestly can't think of any men who have ever done this. I'm not saying it never happens but from my observations it's much much more common that women do this. It would not have occurred to me that this is as common as it is from women before I started learning rp stuff. I never said women are shit, there's just a lot of things that you all do that puzzles me and most other men. Discussing things here helps me to see the women's perspective better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 02:13 AM
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I think it's stronger in some people than others. Some people can easily disregard it and others are constantly nagged by it. I can drink a few times a year and be fine and others can't go more than a few days without a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 11:41 PM
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Without rp type knowledge most guys won't understand anything about women's sexual strategy and will fall for what the guy in the link might have if he had been less informed. Perhaps his father taught him or he read it in a relationship book but he understood that he was her second choice and would be wise to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 11:35 PM
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The guy made the choice not to be in a relationship where he was the backup choice for her, the safe and relatively boring choice which is the textbook rp definition of betabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 11:24 PM
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That's what I've seen too. Maybe 80ish% of men will only cheat in a dead bedroom situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 10:56 PM
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Most people that I know are willing and able to curb that urge when they get married as long as their spouses are having sex with them a couple of times a week. They go into marriage knowing that that's part of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 10:54 PM
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If you married someone and they did xyz (thing that you wouldn't marry someone who didn't do it) before and then stopped doing xyz a few years into marriage after they got comfortable a lot of people would feel like the person lied about who they really were. Going by what I read here a lot of women take breaking up marriages a lot more casually than most men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 10:50 PM
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Some people cheat just because they can, others will only cheat if they are in a relationship that isn't meeting their basic needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 03:09 PM
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Just going by people I know that isn't true, most do have an occasional opportunity to cheat but all but most haven't cheated, out of the few who have almost all of them had wives who were neglecting them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 02:44 PM
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Yes but most guys won't cheat if their wife is having sex with them a couple of times a week or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 02:31 PM
0

Interesting, if you don't know what it's like to be a boy you wouldn't know which parts of a man are natural and which parts are learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 02:19 PM
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They would be in the second group, cheating even though they weren't being neglected by their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 02:13 PM
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I know a lot of traditional romantics, I used to envy them until I saw most of my true romantic friends get kicked in the face enough for me to realize that most modern women don't want or appreciate this in spite of what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 01:36 AM
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So you would hire them but not promote them, the business version of plating. I think we agree on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 11:11 PM
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The average man never has many sexual options, you have to be above average to ever have options. Those who improve themselves to be above average get more options the more they improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 06:00 AM
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It's all fun and games until Stalin recruits you for experiments, then beta testing space suits seems a lot less cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 04:35 PM
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Lol, some country who gives no fucks about human rights will do them. My money is on China.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 04:22 PM
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I completely agree with you, this is why some of the guys on other rp sites recommended studying pua techniques too, especially if you're past college age and are no longer surrounded by available women. Pua is better at helping you figure out where to go and what to do when you get there for maximum results. The naturals I know spend lots of time doing activities that put them around women and trp doesn't stress this enough, I think it's because most of trp is college aged men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 10:13 AM
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You could be right, I barely go to trp, I usually go to sites with a lower percentage of angry venting people. Trp isn't all of rp only a small part. Some sites welcome debate and I go to those places. I don't trust untested or unchallenged ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 07:29 AM
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Some of the stuff is really solid some is still in beta testing. Not all of the rp things are presented as undisputable truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 06:55 AM
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I didn't experience that but I went to college in the south. We could talk about any thing in class if we could defend it using stuff from the books and basic logic. The PC stuff seems much more prevalent on the coasts and in the blue states from what I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 06:52 AM
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Even as a beta sensitive guy you can't be a complete pushover or doormat. You have to learn to hold frame, pass tests and have abundance mentality anyway just to a much lower degree to be a successful beta with a low maintenance woman. The more demanding and or spoiled the women the more alpha you have to be. The lower maintenance the woman the more slack you get. Even low maintenance women have a limit of how much doormat behavior they can tolerate and still respect the man. Once you know that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 05:52 AM
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Broad generalizations are a lot more useful than bp people are willing to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 05:11 AM
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I think that most rp guys who have a decent amount of life experience understand that rp isn't a 100% understanding of the smp or attraction but more like 70-75%. Before I feel like I knew 20-25% and from what I can tell most guys I know understand around 30-40%. Some guys are bad at picking up women but good at ltrs, others are great at pickup but bad at ltrs. Most guys (from what I can tell) are much better at one than the other. Rp always says that many men agree on what 1-8s are but 9s and 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 02:34 AM
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Rp says that most women (2/3?, 80%?) want alpha men, that still leaves a decent number of women who are turned off by Chad and really want a kind sensitive man. I believe that this is true and that lots of women on tbp are those types of women and think that because they and their friends go for beta guys that most women do as well. Rp points to the large number of kind sensitive guys who don't have much success in the smp and says where are all of these women who like this type of man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 02:17 AM
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I have a bs in psychology and I always thought that it was more art than science. There are too many variables in human nature and nurture to easily control or replicate experiments. This news is not even a little bit shocking to me. From what I can tell it's hard to do more than come up with broad guidelines and generalizations at this point in our understanding of psychology. Not necessarily impossible but lots of stuff is considered unethical using our current guidelines so we (western civili…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 02:06 AM
1

I was at a party at an old friend from high schools house a few years back and I found out that him and his wife were in an open marriage when she asked me to sleep with her. It was one of the most awkward moments of my life, I was caught off guard and when I saw the pained look on my friends face I said no. If the guy wasn't a friend I don't know what I would have done but the look on his face haunts me to this day. I know that some guys are into this (a story for another day) but some are just…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 01:21 AM
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I see what you mean. Interesting chart, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 01:06 AM
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For dread to work the woman has to value the relationship, if she's convinced that she can easily do better then she leaves and tries to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 11:08 PM
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3% is not exactly an encouraging number.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 11:04 PM
1

She had the nerve to act shocked. This brought back My Name is Earl memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 01:51 PM
1

Join something that other outcasts would belong to like a local black community theater.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 11:28 PM
1

I honestly have no idea how school was 200 years ago, I don't think that most people went to school then they worked with their parents learning how to do whatever their parents did (farm work or craftsmanship) and not sitting still all day. Only rich people went to school then. I'm a supporter of single sex primary schools, by middle school boys are more able to sit still and learn that way. In single sex schools the teachers would be men and would know how to teach and discipline boys without …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 11:26 PM
1

I got punished almost every day in first grade for talking or not sitting still.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 11:18 PM
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I still haven't learned long division, lol. Im a supporter of single sex education for primary school. Boys and girls learn differently and primary school the way it is now is spirit killing for young boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 11:17 PM
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I'm sorry to hear this, I know there is discrimination in the black community against dark skinned people and it sucks. Not all black people are like this, I hope you find a group of friends who accept you the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 11:14 PM
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It's sort of spirit killing for boys. This is why so many boys hate school.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 11:09 PM
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Exactly, if you tell boys that nice girls don't want to be approached aggressively you set those boys up to end up just friends with the girl he wants for a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 12:04 PM
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Most guys on trp don't want to be players, they want a wife or live in ltr and children, they just don't want to be trapped in unhappy relationships or get divorced and financially ruined. If the player lifestyle is what you want from what I understand a mix of rp and pua is what you want. After college this is much harder to pull off but not impossible. If you were in a frat in college you had social proof and social circles to participate in without very much of your own sweat. I hope you have…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 10:14 AM
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Everyone is a mix of nature and nurture. How much is nature and how much is nurture is the issue. I haven't thought about it enough to say if it's 50/50 or some other number.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 08:11 AM
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The US school system (I can't speak for any other countries) rewards girl type behavior and punishes natural boy type behavior. If you're loud, play rough and want to move around all the time you're punished. As a boy you're conditioned to sit still and be quiet, some boys shake this off when puberty hits some boys are conditioned deeper and don't shake this off as well. There are barely any male teachers in primary school so boys without strong male role models in their immediate family basical…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 06:34 AM
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I don't think that there is such a thing as a completely equal relationship, someone has veto power or 51 or 55% of the decision making power. I think a lot of rp men do want good relationships not just flings and plates. Most of us tried the equal thing and it blew up in our faces. I think this only works with certain types of women and that type is a small % of women. I have a couple of guy friends who are very happy in this type of relationship but most of my guy friends who are actually happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 01:42 AM
2

Oh, sounds like you need more black friends, I have plenty of white friends and plenty of black friends, the black friends "get" me better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 01:04 AM
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If they just read Rollo year one and two on his blog the quality of the debates wold go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 11:59 PM
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In some social circles men are judged by their success with women. It's juvenile but that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 11:56 PM
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Wow, you need to hang out with less shitty people. Think about joining something to make some better friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 11:54 PM
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Well that doesn't help. But once people get to know you that isn't an issue. Everyone here, RP and BP, says that you should find a social hobby that the type of guys you like would do and join a group to meet new people. If you like artsy guys take a painting, or acting class, if you like athletic guys join a co-ed sports league or martial arts class. If you like intellectual guys join a chess or literature club.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 11:33 PM
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Smv = Sexual Market Value, where you are on the 1-10 scale. Yes it's a little harder but not impossible. Sort of like being a shorter man, it sucks but you can't change it do you have to work around it. I don't know why you get ignored, you might have body language like you don't want to be approached or talked to, I realized that I look like that a lot and am trying to stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 11:17 PM
1

I was a child in the 70s, one of my childhood photos is of me in a plaid suit with a white turtleneck. I remember crying because I had to wear that getup. 70s fashion died for a reason. I HOPE IT BURNS IN HELL!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 11:10 PM
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Sounds like a great opportunity for someone to invent the garment to replace it. The ascot and the cravat tried and failed but perhaps you can succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 10:50 AM
1

What if you don't like blondes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 10:06 AM
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If you take good care of yourself and are OK with men 5 to 10 years older than you are you still have some time to find a good guy for marriage or ltr. Guys around your own age are probably starting to date younger or soon will. Being dark skinned you have to do a little extra to make your smv on par with lighter skinned women. Pay extra attention to your clothing and hair style and go out of your way not to seem angry or unapproachable. In the black community being light skinned is like being b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 04:14 AM
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You dirty dog. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 01:28 AM
1

I wouldn't call autism a serious mental illness. I meant stuff like schizophrenia. I have a friend with autism and he's a little different but definitely not dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 01:21 AM
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I'd write a diet book for women and get filthy rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 11:13 AM
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He's funny looking and weird. Really big forehead, tiny chin, freckles, funny nose, big ears. He's pretty socially awkward and just sort of odd in general. When I first watched the TV show Breaking Bad Walt reminded me a lot of him style and mannerism wise but he's not nearly as good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 07:56 AM
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I don't know if attractive women have to leverage themselves into ltrs or if they're just less likely to get pumped and dumped because they're what most guys are looking for for ltrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 07:46 AM
2

I never would have taken you for a church guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 06:44 AM
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I'm honestly not exactly sure how they got together, he stayed around our hometown and I went away to another state for college. They got together while I was away in college. We aren't close friends anymore I just see him around town a few times a year. He used to manage a local store but recently got transferred to a nearby town. Our lives just went in different directions around 17 he turned really religious and I hung out with a more party friendly crowd. Here's what I can tell you. She's fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 06:37 AM
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I'm just going by what a bper said one say while complaining that it was too red in here, it is, we need more balance here, there are too many one sided debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 04:25 AM
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6 months? That's awful. I've never heard of that but I usually steer clear of depressing news like that. This woman didn't even get 6 months though she got 144 days of jail time. Unless you're famous if you're missing and black you're not getting media attention no matter which sex you are. I agree that woc don't get nearly as many passes as white women but probably a couple more than men of color, some people assume that you all are loud and angry but I'd take that over assumed to be a criminal…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 04:21 AM
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We can leave anytime and aren't forbidden to talk to outsiders and aren't forbidden from reading things that contradict rp. Bp does try to keep their members from coming here or to trp. Those are some fundamental things that cults stop their members from doing Roosh is far from a patron saint in rp. Elliot Rodgers was against trp type teachings. If someone can make those tax breaks happen though...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 03:40 AM
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I was just pointing out a recent example of a thing that would have gotten a man 20 years in maximum security prison and a woman got weekend time in the county jail. I believe in equal opportunity and responsibilities for everyone. It's true that there are some angry people in rp who don't agree with me, maybe when they're less angry most will change their minds. I don't think anyone should be able to get away with abusing another person. Anyone who does this is a piece of shit in my eyes man or…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 02:55 AM
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They can either find someone else disabled for a ltr, voluntarily be betabux like a guy I know who's face was burned in a fire or just make a good single life for themselves. Try to get a good job and spend their free time pursuing their interests, do whatever is fun to them. Buy a million Legos and go crazy. Restore muscle cars in their garage. Whatever it is that they want to do. Find other disabled or disfigured friends and go on adventures together. They do need to make sure that they have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 02:35 AM
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I assumed that when the op said mental illness he meant something more serious than the mild depression or anxiety that half of people go through at some point in their lives. I would consider a ltr with someone with those. I wouldn't be surprised if 10% of seriously mentality Ill people have delusions or paranoia and did try to harm themselves, a partner or family member at some point. I have two friends with bipolar both have had to be institutionalized at at least one point and have had self …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 02:19 AM
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Come on down, the BBQ is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 02:00 AM
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I have a high school friend who is an omega, he joined a church after high school and found a nice but not very attractive woman to marry in the church and now he has 3 children and seems very happy. If he can do it I think almost anyone who isn't seriously physically or mentally disabled or disfigured can find someone assuming they are actually trying and being realistic in their options and not sitting around complaining about it instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 02:00 AM
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I have a psychology degree and and another soft science degree, I wrote no papers on social issues. Maybe it depends on where you go to college. I went to school in pretty red states so maybe that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 01:53 AM
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Just like the 48 year old woman who statutory raped a 15 year old boy and got weekend jail for two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 01:40 AM
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Lots of people get poisoned and get very sick and live. They still don't want more candy from that bowl. Why would a man with other options choose the woman with mental illness over non sick women? What makes the risk worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 01:30 AM
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What's the advantage of a man dating a mentally ill woman? What makes this worth the risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 12:56 AM
2

If 10% of these M&Ms are poisoned...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 12:53 AM
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It's going to look different in 50 years and again in another 50 just like it looks different from 50 and 100 years ago but it wont end unless there is ww3, a massive plague or a zombie apocalypse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 09:24 AM
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I could wear my shoes on the wrong feet everyday and suffer more for the hell of it but why would I want to suffer needlessly? There is already enough pain in life without volunteering for extra helpings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 09:17 AM
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You wouldn't know it was known territory from the way some fought ending slavery. I'm still not in favor of keeping people ignorant of things that can help them because it might hurt the bottom line. Men not being taken advantage of might do things that help the economy. Instead of the safe corporate job some might start business or invent things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 07:25 AM
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He's famous and wealthy, I'm pretty sure I've never heard any of his music and couldn't pick him out of a lineup but I somehow recognize the name and know thst he's a musician. That's some massive social proof he has there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 03:23 AM
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This was the same excuse people used to keep slavery around and the economy adapted when it was gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 12:55 AM
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I wasn't very grown up at 21. I would have screwed everything up. 26 would have been better for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 12:02 PM
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If you're boring, broke or a whiny doormat your chances aren't great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 09:22 AM
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Teach pole dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 10:54 AM
1

Some people just go overboard in everything they do. They can't just get a nice car they have to spend thousands customizing it. They can't just enjoy playing a game, they get obsessed and buy all of the collectors editions, novelizations, comics and toys. Reddit is full of obsessive nerds, some of them are on trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 10:37 AM
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I think it meant pushovers in relationships not being the guy that punches the boss if he talks down to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 06:46 AM
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In my experience it's usually the person who wants to go to jail less. I'm still not sure how this relates to all men learning rp.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 05:21 AM
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I think she needs to get help for her depression first and foremost, if a man sees two women of equal smv sitting together and one is clearly depressed the man is obviously going to approach the one who seems happy. There are a lot of black women who want the tough guy types but there are also a lot who don't. Which type you run into depends on where you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 05:17 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 04:38 AM
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I'm a 7 and I am looking for 7sih women. I learned from observing my very attractive cousin and her friends that the top notch women are often demanding and selfish and used to guys bending over backwards for them and I don't do that. Getting those women and keeping them are two different skills, I'm too lazy for relationships with high maintenance women. For me if a woman isn't fun to spend lots of time with she's never going to be more than fwb. Compatibility is very important but some people …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 04:28 AM
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Most guys that need trp need it because they have had too much compassion and empathy, this is why they were shit on, ignored by and taken advantage of by women. Most of us needed to learn how to turn this stuff on and off as needed instead of feeling guilty for not committing or not putting her on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 12:51 AM
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If you're in prison it's the only way you can get those sweet sweet conjugal visits. If you're a gold digger it's the only way you can get the half you "earned " by sleeping with a homely but wealthy woman. If your career demands that you seem straight but are secretly gay. There are a few celebrities that come to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 12:45 AM
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Aww shucks. Thanks for the endorsement. I'm old enough to have seen this play out over 20 years with some of my friends, I knew that they would probably be successful and most of those guys are or are well on their way. Men should use the same scrutiny in picking wives but it's sad to see how few do. I've seen a lot of my friends marry unsuitable (for them) women and I was able to predict most of the marriages that have failed in my social circles before the wedding took place. The guys with awe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:49 PM
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Trp is not rp, you can be rp without ever hearing about trp or reddit, there are plenty of other sites to learn red pill. Just because trp says something doesn't mean all rp people endorse it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:04 PM
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Trp isn't rp, trp is part of rp. Trp talks about politics and some other sites do too but rp is about how the smp operates. Discussing politics does nothing for your sex life or helping you understand and navigate the smp, I think it's part of what leads to some of the anger on trp, rok and some of the other sites full of angry guys. The rp sites that don't discuss politics don't have near the anger. I think some guys discuss politics to keep from doing the hard work of improving their smv. Hype…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:28 PM
1

I haven't seen a Disney flick since The Lion King so I can't dispute you, I saw most of them when I was in grade school so those memories are under all kinds of dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:09 PM
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The fact that he'll own a basketball team will probably help with that. I don't like basketball much but if I owned a team it would probably make it more interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:06 PM
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Hpergamy doesn't burn it's more of a nagging feeling in the back of your mind, you may have athletes foot. Now that you know about betabux guys and how they don't lead to happiness you can do better once you throw your old crusty sneakers away. There are a few AB guys around, I have a list of my friends who I think will one day be very successful and so far my top picks are not disappointing me. All I'm saying is if you become single again be realistic but don't settle, picking a spouse is one o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:04 PM
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You're confusing the members of trps world view with rp. Lots of trp people are conservative but the rp books and rp websites I've read don't really get into politics. Conservative people see the world through a conservative lens and liberal people see the world through a liberal lens. I don't believe in restricting freedom for men or women. I believe that we need to give people incentives to do things like getting married and staying married. Restricting freedoms just leads to unhappiness. Moti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 12:45 PM
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I would question most of those guys too but I suspect that most of them are pretty young and don't have much life experience. The rest are just really sheltered adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:43 AM
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Evil for the sake of evil is sort of dumb when you think about it, I saw that film when I was 6 or 7 so I never thought about it that way. Do most Disney villains have motivations that make sense? I can't remember why most of them did the things they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:39 AM
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You're right I don't know your social circles. There may not be any guys like that in any of them. All the AlphaBucks men I know are guys who want to get married and start a family as soon as they got out of school and got a good enough job. Usually mid 20s. No you don't get a rich attractive husband at 24 you get a handsome ambitious guy with big career plans and the abilities to achieve them. A few of them make it big before 30 but most of them in their mid to late 30s when their medical caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:32 AM
1

Well you have good taste in villains, I'll give you that. What are your thoughts on Cruella Deville?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:48 AM
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So you have to snag one early. They fly off the shelves like the hottest toy does at Christmas time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:45 AM
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Hmmm. My friend that is a doctor is married to a grade school teacher. Is this common?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:18 AM
3

Hey! Some of us have nothing but good memories of Pitfall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 07:13 AM
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Seems to me that the man thought the marriage was already broken. When your choice is live unhappily for the rest of your life or risk ending the relationship by trying to fix it you take the chance and if it ends you know you tried and can move on with a clear conscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:59 AM
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It's true, sometimes in life you find yourself trying to make chicken salad out of chicken shit. There are some pretty women almost everywhere but in some places they are much more abundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:47 AM
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By all means improve yourself but there are some things you can't change, you have to accept them and love yourself anyway. Use the unhappiness as fuel to improve but if you don't love yourself you won't feel deserving of anyone else's love and if you do find someone who loves you you'll sabotage the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:42 AM
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You'd lose an arm trying to keep him from eating after midnight. That guy looks like he goes into a restaurant and after they read him all of the specials and he just says "yes please."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:38 AM
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You may be living in one of the places where there are a lot of above average women and are thinking all places are like that. Source: I now live in one of the fattest states but have lived in other places and the pretty women definitely are not equally distributed throughout the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:34 AM
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Young Ballmer still looked like if you poured water on him he'd multiply.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:27 AM
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Do it, he'd finally have something to bond with his NBA team players over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:25 AM
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I think this is a case of the women that other women and gay men find really attractive not being the same ones that straight men find really attractive. Supermodels are chosen to sell women clothing not be hot to straight men. Women and gay men are the main people choosing these women to be supermodels not straight men. We're not the target audience. If I'm honest I find very few supermodels faces to be above a 7. They all have nice fit bodies but I'm only talking about faces here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:19 AM
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I felt that way at times in my life too but wishing for things that can't happen doesn't lead to happiness only more pain. You have to learn to love yourself for who you are. I know that it's easier said than done but as far as I know it's the only thing that will help. It's what helped me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 06:07 AM
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I want the same amount of attention from women as my 6'4 friend but that's probably not about to happen. If it's merely attention you want wear more revealing clothing. If you want to find yourself the type of man you want tell us what type of man that is and we may be able to help you. In the US our media promotes certain types of people as more beautiful than others and some of us aren't in the group being promoted so we have to do more of the legwork ourselves to find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 05:54 AM
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Drive Bpers crazy Write self help book for now crazy Bpers. Profit!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 05:21 AM
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This sounds good but how do you explain how do do this to someone who just doesn't get it for whatever reason. A man can use rp information to spin plates or to get the type of relationship you describe. Most people need a certain % of things in life explained in basic explain like I'm 5 terms. For some of us it's how relationships and the smp works, for others it's how to use technology or prepare food. The people who understood it easily from a young age can't really explain well because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:26 AM
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I don't know that millions of straight guys suck dicks every day but you may know different people than I do. If I did something like that I could never see that guy again, your mileage may vary, the therapist thing was sort of a joke, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:12 PM
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I agree with you that a supportive partner is great if you can find one. I think maybe half of modern American women are like that and when you take the normal distribution of attractive and not attractive people and who they can get and you have maybe 1/4 to 1/3 of women who are supportive, attractive and attainable to any particular man. The men who figure out how to attract and keep a woman at a young age have a definite advantage because most of these women are off the market by their mid 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:06 PM
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I don't know the number it would take for me to be gay for pay for an hour but 16k might not even cover the therapist bills and relocation to another area.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 10:12 PM
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Most actual adults in rp don't want things to go back to when women couldn't own property or hold good jobs. What we do understand is that most women want a man who they respect and we understand that men who aren't the head of their household automatically have less respect than men who are.I'm guessing this is what feminists mean by patriarchy. Men who aren't respected by their women don't get treated as well as men who are and are often treated Iike one of the children. I think as a man you n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 10:07 PM
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That's an oddly specific dollar amount...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 10:08 AM
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Very interesting points. Do you think your single friend from college is not as successful as your husband because he's not married or do you think that there is another reason? Does he want to get married or is he just a loner?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 09:18 AM
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Most of us are open to whatever works. Show us a system that provides both men and and women the things they need to be happy with their relationships while protecting both sexes from abuse by the other and most of us would consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:32 AM
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She's doomed. She doesn't know anything about the care and feeding of betas and she's running out of time to learn. She also seems too vain to marry a guy in his 50s which is basically her relationship pool now, almost anyone younger can do better than her personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:23 AM
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It seems to me that traditional expectations and modern work culture have made marriage unappealing or unattainable for lots of people and it sounds like it's going to get worse unless something changes, likely traditional expectations because last I checked most people like eating and need their jobs. One good thing about the US and some other western countries is that we don't have hundreds of years of rigid traditions to try to adapt to modern life. We let people make the lifestyle choices th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:49 AM
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Women who are open to having sex before getting commitment from the man. The rp men who are trying to find a virgin to marry are likely the only ones who will commit before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 07:44 PM
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That was super awesome of you and your coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 10:05 AM
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That's the way I see it too, most guys are trained to be betas by modern society /school and can unlearn this and do better in the smp by changing his attitudes and behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 11:55 AM
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Yeah I remember that article, good stuff. I meant parents and teachers should tell kids this some of the time instead of worrying about their feelings every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 11:13 AM
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Someone should tell this to 14 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 06:01 AM
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Imagine yourself losing and the dude with the rake thing taking your dick away while you protest by saying the table is leaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 11:04 PM
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It's good to be the king.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:18 PM
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Rick and Morty is so awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:14 PM
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I plan on going my whole life without having to get reconstructive cock surgery but if you want to literally gamble with your dick I will wish you the best of luck. Personally I will be waiting until they've been on sale for a few years before I risk it, I predict early recalls, lawsuits and cock surgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:12 PM
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Well I guess I need to hit the dvr tonight and watch this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:06 PM
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I know, I was messing with you a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:04 PM
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I would have used the word "good" but your way works too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 08:41 PM
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I did all if the things you listed in college except lose weight because I was already in decent shape and I was actively working on being less awkward. It still didn't get me very far in the dating world. Women like men to be somewhat aggressive in pursuing them but all of the anti rape speeches and films in school tell you it's being rapey to do this. I think a lot of nice guys are trying to make sure they don't seem aggressive but young women often take this as weakness or lack of interest. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 08:39 PM
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I just keep thinking about the scene from Rick and Morty where Morty gets the sex bot. Every 14 year old boy will behave exactly like that when they get one for Christmas. Video game companies will all go bankrupt. I think a lot of the hardcore MGTOW guys will be happy to be free from needing women for anything. I wonder if prostitution will still be very active once the robots are affordable to the average person and look and move like real humans. I wonder what poor bastards they are going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:32 AM
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I don't know about the no emotions thing, Marvin from Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy was always depressed, sulky and with a headache should be easy once that is achieved. The robot for nice guys idea was hilarious, you went full Tex Avery on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:09 AM
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Yeah that's when you really feel guilty when you accidentally screw someone over because you weren't paying enough attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 09:55 AM
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I agree, people usually have good intentions but feel that they have no options but to do the shitty thing. This however isn't something you are going to understand at 20. That's why you aren't sure if it was her or most women. Trial and error is a harsh mistress in the relationship world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 04:21 AM
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Hehehe, 90% of my friends aren't the cheating types and wouldn't dream of doing that. We just went to the strip club for the bachelor parties for about half of them. The other half we just went out to eat and went bowling or shooting pool with no strippers involved at all. Almost all of my friends are the good boy types.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 04:17 AM
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A good portion of the rp guys here (not at trp) will have an honest civil discussion with you if you don't come at them in an argumentative or accusatory way and without name calling the same way a good portion of the bp people here (not at bp) will. That said it's nice having a civil discussion with you too. Yeah I agree that sometimes good guys pick fun pieces of shit instead of good women too and it has to be hard on the good women too. The difference is women haven't come up with a snazzy na…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 04:08 AM
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You're going to a lot better bachelor parties than I am, I've been to a bunch and the most I've seen a groom get is a lapdance. You must be going to those Vegas bachelor parties I see on TV ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 07:30 PM
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If you're wrong the wrong way that makes you right, the same way 3 right turns equals a left turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 07:26 PM
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Hehehe, the key for me is to be able to enjoy a good spirited debate and hope that both sides keep their punches above the waist. I'd rather be wrong the right way than right the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 06:58 PM
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Better late than never.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 06:53 PM
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I had to learn that one a few times, my women friends were all " they're just shitty women, I would never do that."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 06:52 PM
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I'm going have to disagree with you on a few things. I was one of the good boys when I was young (I think, you might have a different definition), being the good boy attracts quiet and shy women who are homebodies if any. That's not the type of woman that is compatible with my life, I don't party but l'm constantly going places and doing things and it's no fun going to a random weekend event with someone who would rather be at home. I knew plenty of other types of good girls in school, most of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 06:46 PM
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Red pill gives the same advice about women and the butthurt coming from them on here is enormous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 02:56 PM
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I think everything you say in the first two paragraphs is perfectly fair and almost any guy looking for a serious relationship would be fine with it. You said that you thought that natural alphas are normal guys and I was telling you that the definition of natural alpha is the top few% of guys in the sexual marketplace. There are plenty of guys that are successful with women that aren't natural alphas. These are the normal guys. I haven't defined what I call a quality man so you don't know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 09:32 AM
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So you think a true romantic is going to be OK with her constantly going on dates with other guys while she demands that he take her on expensive dates? I think he's going to think she's not that into him or not really serious about wanting a committed relationship. I have two friends that I would call true romantics, they wouldn't be OK with this unless the woman is truly top notch and even then I'm not sure. Natural Alphas aren't normal guys, they're guys who are extremely successful with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 07:00 AM
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I was thinking the same exact thing. The Internet has changed the smp a lot since the 90s, I don't know if this stuff will still get a woman any guy who isn't a loner or homebody. If that's the type of man she wants more power to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 01:39 AM
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Any man who goes along with all of this is likely a guy without options or a true romantic. If you're going out with other guys while waiting for him to commit the true romantic is going to be hurt by this and the guy without options is likely to get depressed and could give up because he's probably used to losing out to Chads. Natural Alphas almost always have options, why would they wait for exclusivity for sex while you're dating other guys? Is he allowed to date other women who will probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 01:29 AM
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You didn't think that there was a chance of you getting dumped if you opened up and spilled your emotional guts which is basically what men think of when we say open up. To paraphrase Jack Nicholson in A Few Good Men, women think they want the truth but can't handle the truth of what goes on in our heads. I'm pretty sure every guy who read that thread thought some version of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 10:32 PM
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Men and women have vastly different definitions of opening up emotionally, I think you've got a 90+% chance of what men call opening up blowing up in your face. If you can't actually open up emotionally the way you really want to why bother, open up to the dog, they will still love you regardless of what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 11:23 AM
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This is only anecdotal but sadly I've seen (not physically) a lot of friends wives cheat on them and ultimately leave them. It seems to me that if a woman has a physical affair without an emotional affair she has zero respect left for you and you're done, hit the showers. If she's already had an emotional affair and a physical affair you're done too, she's already started holding auditions for your replacement. Call a lawyer If she has an emotional affair going on but it hasn't gone physical yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 10:59 AM
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When you grow up seeing some of the girls in school call the guys they're fucking shitheads and then continuing to fuck the same type of shitheads all through high school and college, a woman calling their ex a shithead might not convince you that she doesn't still want to fuck shithead guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 12:51 AM
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I'm saying play the odds. Do what you think will have a high probability of getting you the things you want in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 12:32 AM
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Obviously some types of men are appealing to a higher percentage of women than others. Just because Jack Black is attractive to some women doesn't mean that if you emulate his body type that it will be just as appealing to women as emulating Bradley Coopers body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 12:16 AM
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Some fathers pass down this information some don't, most red pill guys are learning this stuff as adults because we didn't learn it as a child or teen like others did. If your father taught you about women that's great, mine didn't, you got a head start on me. My father's father died when he was 11 or 12 so he never learned it, the chain of information was broken in my family. My dad had only sisters so I had no uncles on my father's side and my mother's family lives in another state, I wasn't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 11:38 PM
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It's not that rp guys want everything traditional for "reasons" it's that we think most people are happier that way even though modern society tells women that they're wrong for liking it this way. Women have their power and that toothpaste isn't going back in the tube, some guys are complaining but most of us just want to get in on the fun while the getting is good. It may not lead to happiness but fun is better than complaining about the fall of society. We're on the same page with the power t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 05:50 PM
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I have a feeling I'm going to laugh a lot and hate myself for it when I look this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 04:41 PM
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Why would trp men want women to get inflated egos from phone app validation and unlimited hookups with Chads so that they're impossible to deal with for more than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 01:54 PM
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I was thinking that it likely had something to do with the decline of the extended family. If a boys father died or was always away at sea a grandfather or an uncle could take the boy under his wing and teach him about life. Now it's just the mother trying to pull double duty. From what I remember from school the nuclear family is a relatively recent invention and having some extended family members in the home was normal until the decline of the family farm during the industrial revolution. Bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 01:52 PM
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So if you think that some of your societies morals are wrong you should just go along for fear of shaming? "I think the US involvement in Vietnam is wrong but son you're joining the military anyway so the neighbors know our family is patriotic. " People died for the right to believe and say what you want and pursue happiness (this may only apply to US citizens) why would I abdicate the right to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 12:54 PM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 11:04 AM
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I'm sure they make shoes with like 1 or 2 inch heels for women. My mother usually wore them to her job where she was on her feet a lot. Never skip leg day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 10:10 AM
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Thanks, I learn something every day. Well I'm off to the store to buy some Prince style high heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 10:05 AM
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Thanks for doing this your answers have been very enlightening. Fathers or other men in a boys family used to pass down they type of knowledge that your father passed down to you. How do you think that this chain of information became broken in so many families and do you think this situation is going to continue to erode?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 05:53 AM
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Banks are even more evil than I thought. How are flat shoes terrible for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 05:02 AM
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Yeah that roid rage will get your ass kicked if you run up on someone who actually knows how to fight. I meant more like guys spending thousands customizing their cars or trucks and 90% of women don't give a crap about cars, as long as it's nice and clean they're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 04:53 AM
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Yeah, that's pretty well understood, we just don't really get why women wear things that no straight man would find attractive while competing with other women for style points which seems to have its origins in competing for men's attention. Men probably do something just like this in women's eyes and I'm just not very aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 01:05 AM
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Quantemtrollening said that women damage their spines wearing high heels and to me it seemed implied that women make this great sacrifice because men like the look of heels and I don't think that men care about that as much as women think. I could be wrong and men do care a lot, that's why I was asking if you got more compliments in them. If they make you feel confident then that's a good reason for wearing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 12:52 AM
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Do men compliment your legs more in extra high heels?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 12:37 AM
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Yeah I mostly meant the Victorian Era but I'm not convinced that they knew much more before that. From what I can remember people were pretty uptight in Europe in general until after WW1. From what I have read the dark and middle ages were pretty repressed too until the Renaissance Era came and then right back to repression after it ended. I knew maggots were being used again but not leeches. I know they knew where the organs were but I thought that they were sort of fuzzy on what some of them d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 01:09 PM
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These laws are brought to you by the same type of people that think that all piv sex is rape. This is why we can't have nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 12:52 PM
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I think that was part of it too, I imagine that a lot of men were in deep denial that their wives and daughters might actually enjoy sex like the shameful women in the brothel down the street. A lot of European and American culture was and still is really repressive because of European religions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 12:35 PM
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People didn't know jack shit about medicine or anatomy until relatively recently. Doctors also bled people with leaches, believed in phrenology, and didn't believe in germs or bacteria until the late 19th century. If you got a serious illness before the 20th century prayer was going to do just about as much good as the doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 12:25 PM
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Most of the not already married /in ltr 1 year plus rp guys would rather be alone than in a bad marriage and living in constant fear of losing half of his stuff and rarely being able to see his children. Most rp guys have already had plenty of dry spells, no one wants a dry spell that's why we are really choosy about getting into a ltr with a woman who isn't really sexually attracted to us. Marriage with a dead bedroom is something we will go to great lengths to avoid. Very few people would choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 10:08 AM
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Those men were already in lots of pain, rp offers some tools and advice to help them fix their romantic lives. No one else offers any help so for most guys rp is better than just repeating the same things that led to being in pain because they don't know what else to do. Sometimes you have to take a step back to take two steps forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 10:01 PM
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In the USA some states have laws that make alimony more probable and in some only wealthy people pay it. My state is one where mostly wealthy or very high earning people pay it. Especially if the wife works full time. The friends of mine who have been screwed over in divorces have lost their homes that they have lots of money in and half of their retirement funds. No alimony. If you had your home before marriage and you are only married for a few years it's hard for the woman to get it in the di…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 09:55 PM
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I only know one divorced person wealthy enough to have probably had to pay alimony and I'm not sure if he did or not, he's just a schoolmate not a close friend. None of my divorced 40-80k earning friends have had to pay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 08:28 PM
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I have a friend who used to work for the child support office in the 90s, the state tries everything in the book to find the father to pay for the child, if they find the father when the child is 15 he has to pay the state back. Its pretty rare (man doing a life sentence) that they don't find the father to pay for the child. Cheap DNA tests probably make it easier to find the father than it used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 08:11 PM
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There is an ego boost and validation from getting engaged and showing off the big ring and new fiancee, planning and having a big wedding, shopping for and buying a house in a good neighborhood and having children. If all of a woman's friends are married or are getting married she no longer has to worry about being left out of the awesome married lives that everyone else is having. For some women I'll bet that all of these things together are incentive enough to marry the slightly boring but ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:45 PM
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If a man doesn't have enough traits that are sexually attractive to his S.O. it will eventually show up as a loss of sexual desire in her " for some strange reason." Judging by some of my friends failed marriages this happens after she has the 2-3 children she has always wanted. Attractive in general isn't what ignites sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:29 PM
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I have a friend who was a bouncer a while back, he is very popular and outgoing but the typical "yes dear" type in relationships. I think everyone has a natural limit on their abilities, a few may be able to match Einstein's accomplishments a few will struggle with long division. I worked in a place next to people doing data entry a while back, I would lose my mind doing that type of work, sitting quietly typing all day isn't something I could ever enjoy. I hope your friend at least got a dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 01:52 PM
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I also remember being somewhat outgoing as a really small child and getting constantly punished for this in school and getting fussed at again at home for being disruptive in school. I didn't become outgoing again until college but obviously by that time I was behind in my social skills. It's been an uphill battle but things have improved a lot over the years, sometimes being outgoing seems natural sometimes it still feels Ike work. It usually still feels natural to me to be quiet but once I get…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 12:51 PM
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Yeah but they don't all look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 12:01 AM
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Like I said to taibo every type of woman isn't abundant in every area. I take abundance mentality as don't chase not don't approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 09:23 PM
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Every type of woman isn't abundant in every area.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 09:10 PM
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You're over thinking this, you can get her to put in effort after you meet her for drinks or coffee the first time and you know she's interested. Rp also says that most of the top notch women won't cold approach because they get plenty of attention and that most of the ones who do cold approach will be 3-4 points below your smv. The more attractive women will only approach if they already sort of know you. It sounds to me like you're hamstering reasons not to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 08:53 PM
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Some women are never going to approach because of shyness etc. You could be in a place where you are pretty sure you are never going to see this particular woman again. Sometimes that mountain just ain't going to come to Mohammad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 10:38 AM
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You never had a friend who was in a ltr with a promiscuous woman? Half of my friends fell in that trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 10:28 AM
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A man once said "it's better to burn out than to fade away. " That said this is definitely going to fade away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:10 AM
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The philosopher Ricky Bobby once said if you're not first you're last.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:02 AM
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I haven't seen that, are they saying that here or in another subredddit? There are only a couple of heterosexual true bp men that post here regularly and a bunch of guys who say they're not bp just anti trp and a couple of gay or bi guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 10:50 PM
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Women don't really need it as much because men are generally up front about what we like in a woman and what we want in a relationship. If they choose not to believe us and believe that we're going to want them all the same even if they don't take care of themselves and treat us badly that's not our doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 12:12 PM
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Dude, your spellchecker is smoking crack again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 10:54 AM
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If you're having pasionless sex once every other month you might as well hire a prostitute. If you're married to someone who cares little for you but still expects you to do all of the husband stuff and live the standard middle class life you're losing twice. If you have a good career and you just live by yourself in a modest apartment or small house and you can save half of your money and retire at 50 and spend all of your free time working on your hobbies. You can fly to a legal brothel a few …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 06:00 AM
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Being a doormat for a woman is bad, even the hardcore bps agree with that, you said your dad is a doormat for his wife. For me that undermines his credibility about anything having to do with women. I would advise you to heavily scrutinize everything he says about women. If a guy tells me he knows about xyz and says something that directly contradicts that he's knows much about xyz I'm going to be very wary of anything he says about xyz. Story time! I have a group of friends who are really good …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:21 PM
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Good to hear, yeah you can't go too far. Just don't let him run your life, if you follow his bad advice and get burned enough you might come to resent him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 09:05 PM
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Yeah that's usually how it goes in my observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 09:03 PM
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Do you think she got around because she was damaged or was damaged by getting around?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 11:27 AM
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It's not that easy to accept at first but it gets easier over time. Take it from an older guy, your parents might want you to live their type of life but ultimately you have to make your own decisions and live with them. Listen to your parents advice and at least consider it because some of it is good, unfortunately some of it will be dogshit as well. Don't blindly follow it, just consider it and think about if you think it will get you where you want to be in life. Ultimately you aren't them an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:42 AM
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It sounds like he's got a busy life and doesn't have the time for an official girlfriend at this point. He might feel like if you two become official he will be obligated to spend a lot of time with you that he can't afford as a PhD student.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:27 AM
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You could just accept that if wanting to be with attractive women makes you shallow and of poor character, just decide to be OK with that and continue to love yourself in spite of your flaws. Works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:23 AM
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Well you're a better man than me. I think I'd probably draw the line around 50 but since you apparently have a high number we have somewhat different lives. I'm not a rp hardliner on this subject, I'm OK with around 1.5ish per year since age 16. That doesn't seem excessive to me. A 30 year old with a count of 20 is not too much, it's 2015. I'm not going much more than that but I'm at 8 so someone with 40 or 50 might not be right for me. If I was at 50 I might feel differently though. I'm pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:10 AM
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You down under folks have really good slang.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 09:55 AM
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Most rp guys are relatively inexperienced and rp doesn't want them to wife up the first 7 or 8 they have sex with. I've seen guys do this in my life. It usually ended in tears. Rp wants them to get some experience with different types of women to figure out which type you will be happy with in an ltr. Rp says live lots of interesting experiences and get to a good place in your career before thinking about settling down. By 30 (7-8 years of fun and sexual adventures) you will probably be tired of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 12:49 AM
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I think teaching teenagers how the smp works and that women like attractive, interesting, masculine guys and that supplicating doormats and pushovers are super unattractive would be enough to help 80%+ of guys. When you're 16 and see most of the girls go for the athletes and you're not interested in sports you don't know which part of the athletic guy is attractive to the girls, popularity? athletic build? accomplishments? masculinity? the uniform? the possibility of being a pro athlete one day?…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 12:33 AM
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7 maybe 8 on a good hair day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 11:31 PM
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So there is no number that would make you nope out of being in a ltr with a woman ? 50? 100? 300? I went to high school with a girl who had almost gotten to 200 before her senior year of high school. I can't imagine where her number is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 11:17 PM
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At 25 most of the attractive family oriented guys are already in ltrs, it's mostly Chads and unattractive /boring guys left.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 11:09 PM
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Unless the cc riding woman likes introverted, odd, quiet or shy men when she decides to stop partying and settle down at 29 she's going to be disappointed when she finds that that's most of the guys who are available and wanting to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 11:04 PM
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What the heck is a drop kick?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 08:31 PM
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Perhaps you should have said sexual harassment culture instead of rape culture. More people might actually agree that that exists to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 10:37 PM
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I know but reddit etiquette says say you edited when you edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 01:04 AM
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Yeah I changed the whole sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 12:54 AM
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Good social skills are also a thing you have to develop. Edit. All of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 10:57 PM
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Of course I don't agree with that, a lot of it depends on how well you take care of yourself though. I'm in my 40s and I get iois from mid 20s women from time to time but I look like I'm in my late 20s because I hardly ever drink, never have smoked cigarettes, eat reasonably well am in pretty good shape especially for my age. If you work smart and hard now (work on your health problems and depression/anxiety) get a good career, keep learning rp and maybe some pua, cultivate some style and a fun …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 10:51 PM
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As you get older it gets easier and easier to get in the top 25 to 30% of available men. By 30 most of the best marriage minded men are already married and have children. Lots of the bad boys have messed up their chances to have good careers with jail records. By 40 at least half of guys are fat. Lots of the former party guys are now showing the effects of 25 years of drugs alcohol and cigarettes if they're not full blown addicts. There are guys who hate women by 40 because of their 2-3 failed b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 10:34 PM
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Of course it's sophomoric. Men are sophomoric, news at 11. If that's how you choose to take it, like she doesn't have a choice in becoming a girlfriend, I won't try to change your mind. Again men are sophomoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 10:33 AM
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Both people have power over the level of relationship, ask anyone who was divorced while they want to fix the marriage but the other person is just done has already moved on. I've seen this happen to friends of both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 03:34 AM
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Yeah if you're in a social circle where most people go to grad school the age is going to be somewhat older. That may be skewing your perception of the average a bit. What about your high school and college friends and relatives who didn't go to grad school. Did they wait until 35 to get married? Your doctor friends are smart to stay single through med school. I have a friend who had to support a wife and children through medical school, he's 7 years younger than I am and has more gray hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 12:45 AM
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Guys said "get promoted to girlfriend" when I was in college in the 90s. Do you think grown people just go on one date and are then officially together? No that's what happens when you're a teenager. It's pretty much always (it was getting a promotion in the 80s not getting upgraded) gone from friend with benefits (I don't think that term was invented back then) to girlfriend to finance to wife (then ex-wife in a lot of cases). This has nothing to do with trp. This is how most guys think and tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 12:37 AM
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I've been in the same position with a friend or two. It sucks when you're pretty sure one of your close friends is very likely to crash and burn soon and they won't listen to reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 02:36 PM
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The replies I got yesterday indicated that the ages when most of the ab men are off the market depend on where you live. In mid America and other more rural/suburban areas it's around 25, in giant metro areas like LA and NYC it's more like early 30s. I live in the center of the US and most of my friends got married within a few years of graduating college but were already with their eventual spouses by 25. Quite a few married their college sweethearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 02:34 PM
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True, if it makes bpers feel better if you say all of xyz and it's really 90% and they play gotcha I don't bother to argue. To most of them rp is just a mental excersise, we are actually trying to put the stuff to work so we have different values, they value what is the absolute truth and we value what is close enough but actually more useful than the absolute truth which is often so complicated that is loses its effectiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 02:25 PM
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Stuff like this won't automatically get a woman a wedding ring but it could help her make the jump from fwb to girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 11:51 AM
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Where are you getting that from?* Rp theory and living life. Rp theory says that most women actually want to marry the guy who is attractive and a good provider and father. Bb guys are what these women settle for when the best marriage candidates are already taken. Some women miss the best guys because they're partying, some because they spent years on a husband prospect that never panned out. It should be obvious to anyone who knows more than a handful of people that some people don't like the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 11:02 AM
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No one ever said all women want to party with "famous athlete in your country. "
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 10:29 AM
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Well it's obvious that boner pills and such weren't around then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 10:12 AM
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Perhaps starting a family is more important to them than partying and excitement is. Every man doesn't want to nail hundreds of women and every woman doesn't want to party with rock stars and athletes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 10:05 AM
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You didn't do anything wrong. Sorry for any confusion. I tried to offer advice and you have already tried what I recommended and said it didn't help so I'm afraid that you need someone more advanced than I am to give you further advice. Changing my body language immediately helped me to get more IOIs so I thought that might also be your problem. I had a bad habit of slumping my shoulders, looking down and mumbling that I still sometimes have to work on not doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 09:45 AM
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Hmm, I tried, if that's not it then you need someone more knowledgeable than I am to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 09:22 AM
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That sounds awful, at least you didn't ignore your gut feelings/red flags and get married to her like many late bloomers are prone to do in their first serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 08:06 AM
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Chastity belts for all! No one wants a chafed willy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 07:53 AM
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Then the boys would just get each other pregnant. Wait...that can't be right... Yes I'm joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 07:52 AM
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It means you probably have bad or supplicating body language and conversation. Real Social Dynamics vids on YouTube or your friendly neighborhood torrent site will help you as will some of the better pua books.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 07:12 AM
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The rp information or the rp people seem right wing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 05:21 AM
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The USA doesn't have much of a left anymore, our two big parties are right and center right by the standards of the other economically developed countries in the world. From what I can tell our left was mostly killed in the 1950s during the anti communist movements and witch hunts. The right in the USA has been taken over by religious fundamentalists and I'm not a religious person so I would say that I'm more anti religious fundamentalist than I am left wing whatever that actually means in the U…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 05:12 AM
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Why did your friend marry such a childish man? Was he a good actor or did she ignore the red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 04:56 AM
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My dad's dad died when he was 11 so he missed out on a lot of the lessons his dad probably would have taught him had he lived longer. The end result of that is that I'm here learning things that I would have learned as a teenager if my dad had learned them as a teenager. I wonder how many of these things got lost by many families in WWI and WWII, and others as many father never came home and couldn't pass knowledge down to their sons?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 04:37 AM
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It's not dangerous to us we all have guns. Yes I'm joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 02:39 AM
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When people are young I'm more likely to be apologetic but when people are old enough to know better more likely to be an accuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 02:05 AM
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That's good to hear, in some of your posts you seemed close to giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 12:49 AM
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Domestic suburban type life has always seemed dull to me I just don't think I'm cut out for it. I always say I'm an outside cat not an indoor cat. That's why I'm not too optimistic about finding a ltr that will work for me, most women want that suburban life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 12:36 AM
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Thank you. Some of the people here say things from time to time that make you think about things in ways you never have before. You're one of them. Quality ltrs are pretty rare and that's why I'm not super optimistic about finding one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 12:30 AM
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You besides proto were the other person who inspired this post, both pills seem to agree with you except for the age for all the best people being off the market apparently being at an older age in NYC, DC, and LA. I had a school friend who got a 14 year old girlfriend in our junior or senior year of high school, 25 + years later they're still together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 10:48 PM
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You don't know any guys who wanted to get married and have children at a young age?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 10:42 PM
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Many of the guys who wait a long time aren't excited about having a wife and children, they're doing it because society tells them they're supposed to. The ab guys from my original post are excited about family life from a young age. The other group of late marriers is the latest bloomers who didn't get much attention from women until most of their peers who were the best marriage candidates were off the market. Obviously the late bloomers would be better choices than the not sure about this cro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 10:40 PM
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We had the changes that got us here in the last 50-60 years, we could be much better or much worse in another 50-60. A pendulum swings really far one way then really far the other before settling in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 10:34 PM
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That's because our society lets them be children at 25. 150 years ago 25 year olds were definitely not children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 10:30 PM
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Yeah, that makes sense. Things often go in cycles, maybe things will swing back to making marriage less of a liability in a generation or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 05:26 PM
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I don't know about college but definitely not long after, probably 25 or so (depending on where you live) like men. Men can't do an af/bb thing but we can find a woman who is somewhat younger than we are. Men and women both have to make some adjustments after a certain age to find someone to marry when the pickings get slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 05:23 PM
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Most of my white friends turned into bb after marriage but hardly any of my black and brown friends did. I think it's cultural and white culture expects men to be beta after marriage because my black and brown friends who married white women also turned betabux. I'm an economics nerd and I do cost benefit analysis before I make any big decision and I don't think it's worth it either but when you want kids it's probably a good idea. The heart wants what the heart wants. I think it takes an intros…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 05:16 PM
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If I had had the Internet to do research on schools and careers I would have done a lot of things differently when I was in my teens and 20s. I went to college in the same area of the country but 20 years ago, maybe college students got less cliquey over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 05:00 PM
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Sorry to hear how things went down in your first marriage. Of course the whole alpha and beta thing is bullshit, it's just shorthand to describe certain behaviors. Some people take it way too seriously though. I personally subscribe to the first make yourself happy then find people who add to your happiness model.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 04:52 PM
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Different colleges have different cultures. If the Internet was around when I was in college I would likely have gone to college somewhere else. Did you go to college in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 04:46 PM
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Im not talking about awkward nerdy late bloomer types I'm taking about the weirdos that only had the other 2 weirdos in school as friends. The guys who always had conversations with the lunch ladies and the custodians. Not for me, college was even more cliquey than high school. It was like high school on steroids. The real world is much better than college was for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 04:27 PM
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I'm not sure we're talking about the same guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 04:14 PM
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If people could get the fuck over themselves and act like adults we wouldn't have half of the problems in the world that we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 04:10 PM
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I figured there had to be an age, it's older than I expected in the very large cities, I would have guessed 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 04:08 PM
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Think of the guys from high school who were a bit quiet and odd and no one popular ever talked to them except to ask questions about schoolwork because these guys studied very hard. That guy's not having sex with randos in college any more than he did in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 04:05 PM
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That's why waiting too long is bad for both sexes if you really want a family. The pickings get slim after 30 if you're dating people your own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:48 PM
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Thanks, car analogies are my go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:45 PM
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The ability to do this is called game, rp doesn't emphasise it very much so they may have misunderstood what you meant or were just wrong. It's more of a pua thing and some rp people think pua is beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:44 PM
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It seems that the people on the coasts have different experiences than we do here in the middle of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:39 PM
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Not necessarily, I know a few self made millionaires and a few more men well on their way. I also know more guys who went from bad neighborhoods to being top 10% in income in my area. These guys weren't wealthy when they were young but they were ambitious and you knew that they would be successful. They got good jobs young so that they could support a family and have been going up up up ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:37 PM
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I understand, do you think that most of the good men are off the market in your area after a certain age? Say 30 or 35 in NYC?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:32 PM
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Yes alpha in rp terms mostly sexually desirability. It's not all about looks though, a lot of it is attitude and ability to sexually excite women with his words and body language. Women don't desire beta providers, the settle for them when they can't get men who are sexy and good providers because there aren't enough men with both qualities to go around. If you go out to get a late night meal and all of your favorite places are closed you will likely still eat something that is merely acceptable…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:28 PM
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Beta bucks guys make themselves doormats for their wives because they are scared of saying no to the most attractive woman that's ever shown them any interest, being a doormat isn't sex so the women lose attraction to them and they often are treated poorly by their wives. A man who has options at the same level of attractiveness as his wife will not become a doormat for a woman and she won't get sick of him as easily. The woman marries the bb man for his money and stability, not because she desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:19 PM
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Actually your writings about the way you were raised got me thinking about the people I know who got married early. The guys who married well have very good lives. The ones who didn't not so much. All of the guys who were single (not in a serious ltr) past 25 either aren't very interested in having a family, can't get anyone worthwhile to marry them or have some sort of life problems that have kept them from marrying (illness, no job, family problems). If that's mostly all that's left it's going…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:09 PM
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OK that explains it, you're not in the US. I'm not surprised that the MRM movement isn't effective because it's tiny, I'd bet that 75% of people have never heard of it. Those things you listed are all good things. I'm not sure that those two groups don't have too many conflicts of interest to ever work together, the non extremists from each group could get together and form a new group without a gender specific agenda though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:55 PM
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Do you think that a lot of those people who marry at 30 marry the person that they're with at 25ish? I don't think that most people in those areas wait until late 30s to get married for the first time, that has to be a small subset of the population in those areas or the birth rate would be really really low. I think if you want multiple children without fertility treatments 30 is probably a good marriage deadline.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:48 PM
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Could be, I tend to think that most people have good intentions and make mistakes instead of thinking that they're dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:42 PM
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A beta bucks man is an average dull guy who isn't really desired by women, most women will only choose to marry him because he will be a faithful husband and good provider and dad. The alpha bucks man is desired by women but he's not the promiscuous type. Think of a handsome and highly successful man who could spin plates but has not interest in that, he really wants a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:38 PM
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A handsome, charming, ambitious and successful man who could easily have sex with random women all through his 20s and 30s but isn't interested in that, he'd much rather get married and have children, coaching his children's sports teams is his idea of loads of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:32 PM
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Absolutely, I live in middle America, the ages may be different in more populated areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:23 PM
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Are many these friends in a ltr that is likely to lead to marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:22 PM
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Lots of the ab guys I know married their high school or college girlfriends. The ones who went to college weren't actually married by 25 but were already with the woman that they married at 27-28. Most of the ab guys I know wanted to get married young, they weren't really the skank fucking type once they got out of high school. The skank fuckers are more of the af variety of guys who aren't really into marriage and kids in their 20s. None of the af guys I know ever really turned into ab guys, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:18 PM
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I'm still not understanding why you are a feminist. I don't hear very much about feminists working hard to fix any of the issues above because women benefit from them. There needs to be an equalist movement for those of us who simply want gender neutral laws and policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:01 PM
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What exactly is the worst subset of women and how small do you estimate that subset is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 12:56 PM
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Wait, you're a feminist and an MRA? Aren't there a lot of ideological conflicts between those two groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 12:50 PM
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Yeah sometimes reading every word is important. I agree that men get turned down for commitment too, I've been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 11:39 AM
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That's definitely not true, I have a friend with a 300 n count, tall, was a college athlete, reasonably good looking. He's been divorced twice and can't keep an ltr for more than a year or so because as, soon as he gets into a ltr he hands his balls to the woman and turns into a giant doormat for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 09:40 AM
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This is why some people in the manosphere advocate studying trp and pua to build well rounded game. That's what I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 09:35 AM
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Being friendly and nice without game (saying and doing the right things at the right time ) still doesn't get you very far unless you have a whole lot of time for a woman to get to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 09:31 AM
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One where most of the girls go for the athletes or guys with money/fancy cars and occasionally tough guys. Aka small town mid America.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 09:17 AM
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That's the point, lots of guys didn't know that those were requirements to get a woman. Trp helps guys fix what they can (not height).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 11:14 PM
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I was at a friend's party way before I had even heard of rp, I was sitting at a table full of drunk girls because drunk people stories amuse me, one was cute but not really my type, she was sort of depressed like drunk people sometimes are and said no one wanted her because she had slept with too many guys, I asked how many and she said 40 something, I was sort of shocked because she was about 20 at the time. Any attraction I had for her instantly disappeared. I'm not one of those super low numb…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 11:09 PM
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Why do you believe that men being the gatekeepers of commitment is incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 10:47 PM
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Alphas do commit in their early 20s, the alpha bucks types but not the alpha fucks types. The ab types are more family oriented guys who don't often go to clubs and such, they're running a business or in the early stages of a good career by their mid 20s. All the ab guys I know did get married early, usually to their high school or college girlfriends. Most of the guys I know who really wanted a family got married in their early 20s, most of my friends got married before 25, a few did get marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 10:43 PM
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I go Dennis Leary and start sentences with "hey stupid" or hey asshole" with my friends more than you would believe. I also say things like: English do you speak it? What part of blank do you not understand? What the fuck is wrong with you? This is just how guys talk to each other sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 10:12 PM
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This is the norm now from what I can tell. It wasn't like that 25 years ago when I was in high school. News programs like "to catch a predator" have made parents paranoid Ike that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 09:53 PM
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Sometimes I get angry at myself too but I'm a forgiving sort of guy so I stop and tell myself to do better next time. The longer these dudes stay angry the more good times they're missing out on. They need to let that shit go and try some zen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 11:11 AM
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I never claimed that authority based on gender is best in all cases, only that I don't think actual equal relationships are very common, someone usually has that veto power and is the "captain." I personally want to be the captain in my relationships but I'm not claiming that every single relationship needs to be like this to keep from ending up in a ditch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 11:00 AM
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If life ever actually worked like that the world would be a much better place and governments would be run in a completely different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 10:40 AM
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Because one person is going to be the deciding vote in a tie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 10:34 AM
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That's a good point, my friends teenage kids can't get out of the house unsupervised nearly as much as we could as teenagers. Helicopter parenting has to be a giant buzz kill for your social life. One of the bad technology parts is that you have a cell phone so that it's easy for them to keep tabs on where you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 06:14 AM
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Im telling you what I would like not what I expect. Why the insults?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 05:50 AM
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So they can also stress out said humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 05:42 AM
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I would prefer her to understand that you can't have both of those things and pick one. It might not be realistic but that's what I'd want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 05:32 AM
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You work a lot to make more money and/or get promoted she complains that you're not home enough, you hardly ever do the extra work you need to do to get promoted because you want to spend more time with your family you're not ambitious enough, Tinas husband just got promoted, why can't you get promoted. I've seen a variation of this happen to a number of married friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 02:16 AM
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I also agree with being uncomfortable with how women respond to you as a high smv guy if you're not used to it. I've been there once or twice in my life and didn't know how to respond to it. I'm doing better now but it still feels weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 01:43 AM
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I agree completely, it's not the same thing. I was just saying that you can't be a bp Chad denier or one who says the smp doesn't work the way rp says it does if you were close friends with a Chad. I had been close friends with two Chads by 22 so I had no doubt that the smp was not what society says it is. Maybe that's why I didn't have much of an anger phase, I already knew the deck was stacked but had no knowledge of how to use this to my advantage or get it stacked in my favor. I also have ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 01:40 AM
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I'm in my 40s and still didn't really understand how the smp works, until last year, I had maybe 40-50% of it figured out but rp filled in a lot of blanks. I've talked to other friends around the same age about rp stuff and watched a light bulb go on in their eyes as things they've wondered about for years now make more sense to them. Learning from someone is tricky, people who were always pretty good at things are usually pretty awful at explaining how they did them. I've been an artist for my …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 12:50 AM
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I think if you have a close friend who is a Chad you get a front row seat at what it's like to be Chad. One of my childhood friends is a Chad 6'4 220 three sport athlete in high school, smooth talking salesman as an adult, 300+ n count. Watching him in high school and through our 20s made the rp stuff make a whole lot of sense real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 12:16 AM
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Trp is full of college aged people, fortunately there are other rp places online that focus on information instead of outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 11:01 PM
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Most of us aren't the violent types and we'd get axes in our heads by the violent types for trying to get at the most attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 10:38 PM
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I've never heard a man say looks aren't that important to him but I have heard women say it before, not a lot of times but that's compared to never for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 10:28 PM
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The key to rp for me is to know that things like af/bb and the smp and cc exist, how they work and that most women respond to things like status and looks more than they let on and are turned off by doormat guys and most like confident manly guys and to use this information in a way that is natural for you. You don't have to be a cookie cutter "alpha" guy to get results, just use the rp information to improve the parts of your life that you can without compromising who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 09:37 PM
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How old were you when you figured it out? One of the things I've learned in my life is that almost everyone has some things that they need help figuring out and never will without help. For some people it's managing money, for some it's electronic or mechanical devices for some it's relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 09:29 PM
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It's awesome that you finally found somewhere that you fit in and have found some new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 11:46 AM
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Let us know when it starts so we can make a "satire" sub to make fun of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 02:55 AM
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Thanks, I agree that those are things that will help.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 02:37 AM
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What did you start doing differently that helped you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 01:34 AM
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A lot of us didn't understand exactly how important it was to be confident or how to get get there before. That's the part lots of bp people don't get, it may be obvious to you but it wasn't to lots of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 12:05 AM
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Make sure you bring plenty of clean water so that you don't die of dysentery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 11:56 PM
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Those "where did all the good men go" articles don't write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 02:54 AM
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I can't blame someone for cashing in on gubmint programs. I have a disabled friend who lives in section 8 housing and they make him keep the place to certain cleanliness standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 02:38 AM
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Thanks, I was just wondering if there was some other reason besides wanting to be nice and help them. Being nice is a perfectly good reason to do things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 02:35 AM
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What is it about single mothers thst make them such great tenants?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 12:48 AM
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I can't argue with any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/15 08:36 PM
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Is it humans or just Americans? I've never lived anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/15 09:04 AM
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SATC is clearly fantasy, I watched the whole series (I like trash TV, sue me) and both of the movies, but it's sort of grounded fantasy, the women all got guys better than they deserved in the end. I can't remember who Samantha ended up with if anyone besides everyone, but the model guy, she kept for years, please. Carrie dated out of her league for almost the entire show, I don't believe that Charlotte would have given the frumpy bald dude (Evan?) a chance in real life or that he would have put…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/15 12:04 AM
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You said that no beta could ever get Kim and I was just saying that one has. Your argument above is correct, if you don't think her awful whiny voice detracts from her smv I'm OK with that but don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 11:37 PM
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That basketball player Kim Kardashian married for two months, Kevin Humphries I think his name was, was super beta, she led him around like a tiny dog in a leash.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 10:46 PM
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The Rules was a huge book in the mid 90s and the woman who wrote it was all over TV for a couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 08:59 PM
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Fair enough. Do you think you can find a desirable woman with a 1 or 2 count when you're 35? Do you know any 35 year old single men and who they can get? I'm not very familiar with India's culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 08:53 PM
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Why risk it when there are plenty of women out there who haven't been with 100 men? What's the incentive to take the gamble? Some people change, most try and fail, like I said in another post the diet and self help industries thrive on this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 11:36 AM
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It requires some introspection to permanently change your behavior and most people aren't introspective so they won't make any meaningful change. The diet and self help industries thrive on this fact. Not much chance of most men rejecting years of social conditioning even when they are in unhappy relationships or can't get a date to save their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 11:31 AM
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As long as she's not moving in and hasn't slept with people I know give me the former slut who can make my dick do the Meposian dance of joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 11:20 AM
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If you married a virgin and became a widower at age 35 and wanted to marry again after you were done mourning your late wife do you think you would be able to find another desirable virgin to marry you or would you just give up on getting married again?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 11:00 AM
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Always good to have company.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 10:19 AM
1

According to the personality test results I'm the only rp extrovert on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 08:24 AM
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It's called children are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 07:38 AM
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This is why we can't have nice things. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 07:35 AM
1

They're pretty popular books, your public library probably has some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 02:55 AM
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Check out the Old Man's War series by John Scalzi , the Merchant Princes series by Charles Stross and the Vorksogian series by Lois McMaster Bujold.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 01:27 AM
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Yeah Mike was a piece of shit back then. Not sure about now. He tells a good story though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 11:30 PM
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I don't think I would like it but people got always married as teenagers until the 20th century. I'm just saying that's what would happen if premarital sex was once again a relatively rare thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 02:19 PM
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I don't need righteous anger, we have laws in my state that say we can shoot intruders that come into our homes. Murica! And no dog. Seriously though, if the people of the world actually got together and decided on a code of morality I might actually feel obligated to abide by it. But we don't do that we just try to force people to live by codes that may not even benefit them like the silly war on drugs and religious people trying to force people who aren't in their religion to live by their rul…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 11:36 AM
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Even Brad Pitt has his Chad. I just remembered when Mike Tyson told the story of when he was trying to fix his marriage with Robin Givens til he saw her with Brad Pitt. He got depressed and gave up after that. Brad Pitt was Mike Tysons Chad that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 10:00 AM
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Sez you. Besides the laws of physics I choose what to obey and what not to and I'm trying to find a way around those. Abortion Dr isn't a glam gig but someone has to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 09:47 AM
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I never signed the EULA for your morality and have no obligation to respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 05:39 AM
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Assuming the woman is his type and that he didn't settle with her because she was one of the few women who paid attention to him they will both be very happy because they got what they wanted. He got a pretty, loving wife with the type of personality he likes, she got a doting loving husband who gives her plenty of attention and doesn't mind gardening or discussing art history or whatever hobbies she has that a Chad Thundercock type would never do in a million years. This is assuming that the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 05:23 AM
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I think people would go back to getting married within a year of meeting someone and marrying right out of high school would come back in fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 05:01 AM
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No, there are women who like beta guys, rp says that a certain % of women like beta men but that there are many more beta men than there are women who genuinely want beta type men. I see it as 30ish % of women like beta men and 70ish% of men are beta leaning. This is why when you start displaying a little basic alpha type behavior the amount of attention and interest you get from women goes up pretty quickly. Supply and demand. By basic alpha type behavior I mean better posture, speaking clearly…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 04:40 AM
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No one should force a person to stay but if a person cheats and then leaves and other person hasn't cheated the cheater should not get any alimony. The way I see it is that if the stay at home person decides to leave then they should get enough alimony to get some education and then somewhat established, say 3 to 10 years depending on how long the marriage lasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 02:20 AM
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Are you sure that these men are satisfied? If you were a friend of their wives before you were friends with them they aren't going to be honest with you for fear of it getting back to their wives. Lots of unhappy guys put up a good front for casual friends even though they're really not very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 12:48 AM
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You seem to be a thoughtful and introspective person, I'm going to estimate that 70% of adult humans aren't like that. Rp doesn't claim to tell guys how to deal with every woman just the majority of them. I'm going to guess that you aren't the type of insecure person to constantly test your husband so this isn't a huge issue in your lives. As far as the first part of the comment I haven't read that discussion yet, I'm still working through yesterday's posts. I do think that there is a certain ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 11:47 PM
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You have to do work that is productive. If you don't know which work is helpful you could be doing things you think are productive but are either wasting time or doing counter productive work. If you aren't attractive and work hard on being a great boyfriend or girlfriend but can't get a date to save your life you're not helping yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 11:10 PM
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I don't think that rp says treat your ltr like a slut. It does tell you how to spot red flags that indicate that a woman will not make a good ltr and tells you to look out for those, especially when you first meet a woman before you get too serious with her. It also tells you what shit tests are and how to pass them and tells you that if you fail enough of them many women will start to see you as weak and may lose attraction. Rp tells you that all women are capable of this if you start to appear…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 10:48 PM
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I've observed friends and co workers, it's true that single guys will work a lot of overtime when they're in their early 20s but by around 30 the single guys are usually in a financial place where they can take or leave overtime. Most of the guys with families that I know have bought homes in nice neighborhoods, some have kids in private schools and are saving college money for their children. The people with one child or none who are still married are usually doing well enough so they don't fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 10:13 PM
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Men with families will take the more unpleasant job if it pays more money because they want to provide, men with no dependants will keep the easier or more enjoyable job that pays less. Men with dependants will work all of the overtime that they can, men without will turn down the overtime more often. This is why married men usually make more money. Not many people without dependants work more than one job, at least in my area, you may live in a very expensive part of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 01:34 PM
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We don't treat women any certain way we just keep an extra sharp eye out for any red flags that point to a woman being untrustworthy. Lots of people have had a history of ignoring red flags and this reminder to stop doing that is helpful for those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 12:50 PM
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Cut a guy's dicks off crazy or text every 15 minutes crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 12:58 PM
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OK thanks, now I understand what you mean. If women want to do those things they should have the same opportunities as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 12:55 PM
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What basic natures are women forced to go against?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 10:34 PM
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If your wife because a gambling addict who caused your family to lose your home and most of what you worked for would you stick around if she refused to get help? This happened to a friend's next door neighbor. Lots of things can happen in 15 years of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 05:54 AM
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Everybody follows some conventions blindly, I know of no one with working hands who eats with their feet. No one I know punches strangers on sight just in case they might be bad people. Marriage is a no brainer for most people, up until the 60s it was just as ingrained in society as eating with your hands (and utensils) not your feet is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 05:38 AM
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You could say the same about millionaires but all the ones I know are pretty traditional in their personal lives. I only know 6 but they're all normal people except the one crazy musician. I don't know any billionaires but I'm guessing they're not that different than the millionaires, business owners who rode a hot trend to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 04:52 AM
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Because if a man is unattractive because of a fixable thing like his hygiene or fashion sense was terrible or he pedestalized women or talked about Pokémon incessantly at 20 years old you could easily tell him that he could do better if he fixed these things. I can't see why you wouldn't say these things to a friend or classmate asking for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 12:56 AM
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Not at all, society tells people that they need a family to be happy and a majority of people get one. I've always wondered how much of this is biological and how much is cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 12:36 AM
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What I hope to achieve with the stuff from trp that I found useful is to have more consistency in my dating/sex life. Before everything was sort of luck based. If I succeeded with a woman it wasn't because I knew what I was doing it was because I'm decent looking, funny and generally fun to be around. I know a few "naturals" but they couldn't explain how they did what they did or offer much useful advice. I don't have any desire for children so I'm not sure if I'll ever get married, I'm not sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 12:39 PM
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Lots of men have been reduced to shells of themselves by 50. I'm in my 40s and quite a few older guys I know have broken bodies from 30 years of construction work, plumbing or other trades or factory work. I can see the 20+ years of near daily drinking on some of my classmates. Poor diets mixed with alcohol and or drugs equals erectile disfunction by late 40s for a lot of guys. Lots of guys are also in prison or in the revolving door of the justice system. Basically almost every man who is not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 11:44 PM
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My tablet and phone autocorrect does that sometimes, mystery solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 09:54 AM
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This gets people's attention better. Some people need to be shocked out of their old ways of thinking when they're "unplugging" and learning new things. The previous social conditioning goes really deep with some people and they have trouble accepting new things that contradict with their previous thinking without mixing some emotional language in with the new stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 09:26 AM
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Ok I'll give it a go. When men interact with other men in social or business situations there is a certain level of accountability, rationality and responsibility assumed to be had by each side. Ask for exactly what you want, don't blame others when you fail to be specific enough in your requests, appreciate when people go out of their way to do things for you. When interacting with young children the level of accountability, rationality and responsibility assumed is far far lower. Children alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 06:48 AM
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The answers are clear but you need to be able to relate the concepts to things that you have experienced or seen others experience in your life for you to be able to do this. If you've never seen even a picture of a horse it will be hard for me to accurately describe a horse to you. If I describe a mule as being almost like a horse you will be confused but that's the easiest way to describe a mule. Rp is describing things that require you to be relatively familiar with what it's like to be in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 02:34 AM
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If you've never had forgettable sex you're lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 11:07 AM
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I agree with you on the lifting. It's hard to stop without turning into a fat guy. Source: 20 year class reunion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 07:03 AM
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We should start a petition to make them change the name to chocolatish or faux chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 01:50 PM
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There are some things I just won't willingly go back to and Hershey chocolate is one of them. Crappy well liquor in the plastic bottles is another. My formerly favorite BBQ joints food went to shit when the owner died 10+ years ago while I can still enjoy other BBQ I still compare every other BBQ to that one places food and find them all lacking. I'm not saying that I know for sure that people can become alpha widows for sex but I know for sure that it happens in other areas because I've experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 01:05 PM
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I got down voted when I said everyone should know how to cook, clean and do laundry for themselves in the "things every adult should be able to do" thread last month. I had a couple of people explain they thought it was normal that they always ate out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 10:34 AM
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This is why shy guys don't believe bp people when they say plenty of women prefer shy guys, we've all been the man in your story who didn't move fast enough and missed opportunities with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 09:23 AM
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I went through a bad depression from 19 to 21, I got help, worked on myself and have been doing pretty well for the last 20 years. It's not too late to change the way you look at life and get past a depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 05:22 AM
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That makes sense, stay safe and I hope you get past your midlife crisis without overdoing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 11:07 AM
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Most guys don't hate women, most of the angry guys are mad because they spent years being doormats and are now over compensating but most of them eventually find the balance between being a doormat and an asshole. It's like when ex drinkers/druggers find Jesus and bash everyone they know over the head with religion for a while until they find balance between their old lives and their new one. I never went through much of an anger phase because I never thought women were perfect, like some seem t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 11:01 AM
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I know that now but at 18-19 I was scared of being pushy because of messages from society (after school specials, TV movies and school lectures) about men being too pushy and women being coerced into sex. I actually believed that most women wanted to take things slowly in relationships. For me it was better safe than sorry, the last thing I want to do is date rape a woman. I would say that most guys that needed rp aren't good at reading between the lines and picking up on hints and signs especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 06:31 AM
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What are these better ways? I was just as awkward as your boyfriend and did the same awkward stuff when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 07:52 PM
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I didn't know you were married with children, that does make socializing harder. I barely see the friends I have that have small children. Different martial arts schools have different atmospheres, I am in the process of picking which martial art to study and which school, I've observed classes at quite a few and at some schools the people are very friendly and welcoming, at others, seemingly the places more focused on competition the people were much more standoffish, perhaps you're at a school…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 07:22 PM
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Only if you were wearing a funny hat or flashy jewelry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 08:51 AM
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OK I see where you are coming from. The best ways to make friends as an older person is to find some interests or hobbies to do that involve getting out of the house and the other is to try to befriend people who have recently moved to your area. People from the city you live in likely already have a solid friend group, new to the area people won't and will be more likely to be looking for friends just like you are. Let the bar scene go for the most part, it's for younger people and hard drinker…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 08:42 PM
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What does lost interest in fun mean to you? I'm mid 40s and I still like fun as much as I did in college but different things are fun for me now than back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 11:13 AM
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Do people get head injuries in rugby?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 11:16 AM
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I never said that there were no activities just that there weren't the type that you had at your school and that there weren't very many in general. I personally wouldn't join a group that I had no interest in like student government just to meet women maybe that's a mistake but meeting women isn't the main focus of my life. Despite what taiboworks says all of us rp people don't have autism. I knew lots of women through friends or classes, I went out with some women just not as many as I would h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 05:12 AM
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Thanks, it wasn't awful I'm still friends with a couple of women I met there it just was pretty useless in finding anyone I wanted to see more than twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 03:13 AM
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Mississippi Valley State seems pretty similar on paper. Happy hunting. It's a small campus, I mostly knew where the women were I just wasn't very good at getting them to go out with me. I was an average looking nobody who wasn't in any of the popular crowds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 03:09 AM
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No need to apologize, I know men do things that drive women bananas too. Thanks for the kind wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 12:44 AM
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That's surely some of it. If you're the guy and you're spending the equivalent of a car payment on dates that don't go anywhere every month you're not going to look at this as a success. Online dating went nowhere for me. I could have had a couple of one night stands if I was into that but I never met anyone I had any chemistry with. It just felt like a waste of time amd money. And the lies, oh the lies...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 12:23 AM
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That's pretty much what trial and error taught me. Thanks. When you're going out for the first time or two it's a little trickier than with someone you're already comfortable with. Edit added a sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 12:01 AM
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Exactly, I just wanted to see what bp would recommend, it was reasonably close to what rp says to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:59 PM
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This is true. Exactly how to "be yourself" in a dating context isn't as straightforward for some as it is for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:54 PM
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Maybe it's possible that schools in the more populated areas of the country have a more activities and stuff to do. I went to school in a rural state in a smallish town and there was only occasionally stuff to do. We mostly had to make our own fun. The people in fraternities had stuff to do through the organizations, the rest of us were mostly on our own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:45 PM
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Yes but I don't call that success at most it's a push. Maybe it's different for men because we usually do the planning and paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:13 PM
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That's what lots of guys are taught to do by their clueless parents, don't be selfish, always do what she wants to do. This is how some guys end up angry, they always do what she wants to do and still get dumped. Thankfully I was never that bad. This is what rp guys are talking about when they say that their parents taught them a lot of wishful thinking type stuff that doesn't work with very many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:05 PM
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I went to a black college for undergrad. The social scene was very clique based. It was a small school of maybe four or five thousand students, there weren't very many intramural sports, basically basketball and flag football if I remember right, maybe kickball. If you weren't in the Greek system or an athlete it was pretty tough to get much attention from women unless you were very outgoing and I wasn't that outgoing and I wasn't Greek or an athlete. I did OK with women but nowhere near what my…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:54 AM
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Could be, I'm not sure if I know any engineers at all come to think about it, one of my friends friends might be but I'm not sure. Most of my friends and social circle are blue collar. I have only known one person who played DND since high school. I don't have any close friends with geeky or nerdy hobbies except a couple of friends who play Wow (If that counts) and a couple of friends who Ike anime. I have a couple of friends who work in tech but they don't have geek hobbies, they mostly do musi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:06 AM
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Thanks, should I play jeopardy music while she's thinking of an answer? Yes I'm kidding. I'm not convinced that most women want to contribute in this way very often and that they would rather just be shown a great time. This is one of the things Iearned the hard way and had it confirmed by rp that this is the case with a lot of women. All of the women I dated let me know when they had specific things they wanted us to do together and the rest of the time they wanted me to do the planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 09:41 AM
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Thanks a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 09:32 AM
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Your college experience was a lot different than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 08:47 AM
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Which day game book or website do you recommend, that's something I need to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 08:35 AM
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So if a guy spent more than you on his image with tailored suits, fancy European car and such you'd pay for meals right? Is that how we decide who pays in 2015? I think you should only count stuff you wouldn't have done anyway. Unless you were going to buy all of your clothes from Dollar General and cut your hair with a Flowbee if you weren't in the dating scene most of this is probably stuff you would have already done. If you get married and let your appearance drop off too much that's not coo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 08:33 AM
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Sometimes bp and rp give similar advice, bp people often claim it's common knowledge but lots of us rp people never heard it until we read rp stuff. Even though there is some pseudoscience in rp and some negative people it still has lots of good advice all in one place for those who didn't learn this stuff in high school for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 08:00 AM
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This is great, no no one in real life ever gave me advice like this when I was young and really needed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 07:37 AM
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Awesome that you made that work for you, like you said know your audience. I've never met an engineering girl or a DND girl that I'm aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 04:15 AM
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I don't believe in feminism but I do strongly believe in equal rights and responsibilities, too much of modern feminism is wanting to cherry pick the rights and responsibilities. If women stop being attracted to status men wouldn't feel the pressure to earn more and run faster and faster in the rat race. Most of us don't climb the corporate ladder because office politics are enjoyable for us. We want more money and staus to make us more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 04:08 AM
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Once I figured out that the woman was like this I just started saying we're doing x and if they protested I told them that unless they have a better idea we're doing x and they usually didn't so we did x. The problem was that it took me a long time to figure out how to handle this because agency and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 04:03 AM
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I've heard of python but have no idea what TI-89 or RNG or seeding are. Social Science major sales weasel here. If you ever broke out this method on a first or second date please tell me how it went.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 03:58 AM
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OK he's much better in that than in Les Mis, about the same level singer as I am. TIL I probably could have made it on Broadway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 03:53 AM
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These are great suggestions, these are the things that a lot of us rp people didn't learn until we read rp, common sense for some but we never learned them while young.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 11:49 PM
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I didn't even know he had a Broadway career. How? He can't stinking sing, how did he ever get out of the chorus? Yeah that is a bit suspicious when you put it like that. Broadway? How? I can sing better than he can and I'm barely fit for karaoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 11:45 PM
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Thanks, where were these suggestions when I was younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 11:39 PM
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Good suggestions, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 11:36 PM
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Lol, almost all women I dated did this to some degree. If you're not great at picking up women you run out of next real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 11:35 PM
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It's not to me. I don't follow Hollywood gossip much. Are there rumors about him having a boyfriend or something? What is it that you know that I don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 11:31 PM
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One of my pre rp problems was that being considerate like I am I always asked women what they wanted to do on nights out and tried to be very accommodating to their wishes, within reason of course. Most of the time they would say I don't know or whatever you want to do. I was thinking they just didn't want to be demanding (because women need agency and such) so we would end up taking 30 minutes trying to decide what to do. When I finally suggested a restaurant or activity it was no I don't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 10:45 PM
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What's clearly gay about him? I'm not saying you're wrong but besides liking musical theater and having a wife that isn't on his attraction level what has set off your gaydar? I just want to know why everyone is so convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 10:29 PM
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Ending the male gender role is simple, convince women to do everything for themselves without wanting or needing men for anything besides sex and accept no privileges, gifts or special treatment until equality has been achieved for a long enough time so that everyone who has lived under the current system has died from old age. Equal treatment and responsibilities for everyone. Start by giving janitors and store clerks the same sexual attention that show biz celebrities and athletes get. In coll…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 10:04 PM
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I only call it a successful date if I had fun and want to see the other person again. Being glad I never have to see the other person again isn't exactly the textbook definition of a good date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 02:29 PM
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I've seen pics of young Bill Gates and currently young Mark Zuckerberg.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 01:14 PM
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Do you think the model is going to be happy with your friends brother or do you think she'll get tired of him after a few years because she's had better in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 01:04 PM
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Yep you're right, your life sounds so much better than being rp. I've been a sad quitter who doesn't believe in himself like you are now and I've been confident and generally happy like I am now. Confident and happy is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 10:43 AM
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So all 4 online dates went badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 09:54 AM
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I think the parts that tell you how to recognize when your woman is losing respect or attraction for you and what to do about it is useful to any man. If you see the signs of relationship decay early and know what to do about it you are more likely to be able to save the relationship. Maybe this information is common knowledge in some circles but none of my divorced friends knew what to do when things started to go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 08:34 AM
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Parts of rp are conservative, I just ignore those parts because they have nothing to do with my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 08:15 AM
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The lesbians I know are fun idiots and I mean that in a good way. Drunken antics get old quick for me these days so I don't hang with them much anymore. True, people are just people for the most part with a few cultural differences that you have to get used to. Oklahoma. GA is a 13 or 14 hour drive. Trp is full of teenagers these days, it wasn't like that a year ago. I don't go there much anymore because the signal to noise ratio is pretty bad these days. Ppds rp men seem to average late 20s to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 03:55 AM
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I'm not in the age group to be hanging around with college people. The lesbians I know are around my age, late 30s to late 40s and they still act like high school people. I don't know enough lesbians to know if this is just lesbian culture or just my friends, that was why I asked you, thanks for the answer. This is true we used to call one of our college friends "days of our lives. " I think the observe lesbians idea might be good advice for college aged people. I get the impression that you liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 10:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 11:30 AM
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Go on....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 11:25 AM
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If I understand your concern correctly, you have been out of the dating /sex game for a while and want to ease your way back in by getting into a relationship because it's easier than doing one night stands and such. If this is correct I think you should try a fwb or two before trying to get something serious. After being out of the game for a while if you jump into something serious you might get ahead of yourself and make a rash decision because you've been lacking intimacy for a few years. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 11:23 AM
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Then why are all of the smurfs balls permanently blue?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 11:05 AM
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What are the lesbians you know like? I only know a couple and hanging out with them is like being in a night time soap opera, so much drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 06:57 AM
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no one here is a sociologist or psychologist, no one here is an anthropologist, no one here is a humanities major of any kind as far as I'm aware of I have a bs and a few classes towards a masters in psychology. Myth busted!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 04:47 AM
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This is one of the best comments in reddit history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 03:56 AM
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I played soccer one season and tennis one summer, I didn't like either, I wanted to box or take martial arts but couldn't because I wore glasses and they didn't have contact lenses for my prescription when I was a kid. I was in boy scouts for a few months until they decided to go camping in December, fuck that noise. I can drive manual. Pop started my Mustang a few times back in the day. Had pipes freeze once. I haven't set up a tent since middle school, don't remember. Never seen fat guys in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 12:56 AM
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I'm the same guy I was before the red pill except I carry myself with better posture, display different body language and say slightly different things to women than I did before. Before I misunderstood what turns women on and off and now i say and do slightly different things when interacting with them. Before it was like I was playing American football but I was trying to play by Rugby rules, now I understand what I'm doing much better. Bp works if you "get" how the smp works, I didn't so rp h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 11:57 AM
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You have to find a guy that hates clubs and bars and such, guys that like being at home usually don't get around much. You'll pretty much have to meet these guys through friends because they basically only go to work do grocery shopping then home and occasionally visit friends. The downside is that he might be a little boring. I know some guys like that, a few of them would be decent looking of they cared about how they dressed. Your standards of what is attractive may vary. You did say you had …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 10:57 AM
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Well you should never ever go full douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 10:06 PM
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Most guys want want families so that's why they get married. Almost no man would get married if the woman told them up front that after the children are born they would get sex once a month. I'm not saying that that's really common just that men wouldn't get married on those terms. Lots of guys would Ike to have nsa sex when they're young but most guys cant get that on a regular basis with anyone on their same level of attractiveness. I only know a handful of guys that have been able to sleep wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 12:03 PM
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Women would get to be ceos and do all those STEM careers that they complain about not having enough women in them, they'd also get to do all of the shitty jobs because the 10% of remaining men would likely be pampered and told they're too valuable to work. The WNBA would still get low ratings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 01:55 AM
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I go hard on bullies, dad didn't teach me how to pick up girls but he did teach me that. Every fight I ever got into was because someone tried to bully me. As a kid I had an undefeated 3 and 0 record and a rep for being crazy. I haven't had any fights as an adult and I hope to keep it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 11:26 AM
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Are you working for the marketing department for an artificial womb startup company? You're pushing this idea pretty hard here on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 02:06 AM
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Electronic purchases are plates not ltrs. That said I'm definitely not paying full price for the floor model.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 11:20 PM
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I don't see any really big disagreement, I just think that sex is the second motivation for marriage for men behind wanting to have children and companionship is third. You have sex as third, is this correct? I've had friends who are men divorce or come close to it because of not enough sex but not because the wife is too busy and they're not getting enough time with the wife. I never said companionship wasn't important just that with most men sex is more important. The social status of being ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:04 AM
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I'm not hurting, manipulating or disrespecting anyone, just because rp information can be used to do that doesn't mean most guys are going to do that. Just because my car has 100 + mph on the speedometer doesn't mean I will ever drive that fast. A person can probably use chemistry book information to make explosives like Heisenberg on Breaking Bad did but most people don't. Guys who want to abuse women aren't going to read books on how to improve their prospects with women. They will just lie to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 04:21 AM
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The goal of an alpha should be to serve the world and improve other people I don't let other people define what my goals should be or how I live my life. I have the same answer for him I've always had for people who tell me how I should live "come over here and make me. " Anyone who knows what they want in the smp can likely find what they need to help them in rp books or websites and can ignore the static, some people don't know what they want and get stuck in anger or mrm stuff but that's what…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 03:29 AM
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No, we view getting the attention of women with options as a competition. We know that women are choosing the best men defined by their own preferences that they can get and we want to be the best men we can be so that we meet the preferences of more women than we did by not taking any initiative. We want to find out what these preferences are for the average women of the type we desire and try to meet as many of them as we reasonably can.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 11:28 PM
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You must be the cluiest damned trp on trp. I figured out in high school that girls liked the athletes but I don't like any of the team sports enough to spend 20 hours a week practicing/playing them solely in the hopes of doing a little better with women. I knew I was going to be a bench warmer at best had I tried to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 11:15 PM
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I look at it more like athletes who use performance enhancing drugs (RP). Bpers say using peds is immoral compete naturally (be yourself), we look at, all of the athletes who we know used peds and the huge money and fame they got and we say give us the peds, you can keep your old fashioned morals and stay in the minor leagues, we want to be in the majors. Edit forgot a sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 10:58 PM
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Most guys change their whole lives when they marry so they want to make sure the relationship is worth the sacrifice, without sex most would feel it's not. I agree with the companionship and having someone to share your life with part too but I think sex and the desire to raise children are much bigger motivations to marry than this is for the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 10:25 PM
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It's obviously not the only reason but if guys didn't think they were going to get that a large portion of them would not want to take on the responsibilities of marriage. Im basing my answers off of what I hear from my married friends, your friends may be different. What do you think the main reason most men get married are? Besides raising children because that's the other big reason that we likely both agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 01:28 PM
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Yeah you don't want to push your current bf into using performance enhancing drugs so you don't want to put too much pressure on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 12:24 PM
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ESTP-A, the description sounds like me if I had grown up in a different environment but currently I'm a lot more laid back than the description says I should be. Edit : I guess I'm the only one with this personality on here. That's odd. Another edit, I can't spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 04:48 AM
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I'm not familiar with UK gossip so I had to Google these women but there is certainly more to attraction than looks especially as you get older. Ms. Thatcher seemed throughly unpleasant and perhaps no man who was powerful enough for her to swing up to was willing to take on a ball buster in his last few good years on the earth. The law of diminishing returns applies to power as well as anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 02:43 AM
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Woah. It sounds like your friends husbands and one of your friends have some serious personal issues they need to work on if they want their relationships not to crash and burn. Western society needs to tell people that ltrs don't sustain themselves, that both people need to pull their own weight in several ways. Does your tinder using friend think Porn movie scenarios are real? Lol. This pizza doesn't have enough meat on it, I need more sausage. There's almost certainly a way for you to get sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 02:29 AM
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She may not have been able to do better, she wasn't exactly the type that most men fantasize about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 01:31 AM
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I think most guys get married or cohabitate in large part to get access to regular sex and when they don't get it they wonder why they took on the responsibilities of marriage if they weren't going to get one of the main things that they got married for. Ive seen this with several friends. These guys were always doormats for women so I understand now why it happened. I wonder why your friends aren't getting all the sex they want, do you have any idea why this is happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 12:55 AM
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Why do you assume that what you have is quite achievable for most guys? Most guys I know suffer all kinds of awalt nonsense to stay in an ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 12:22 AM
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Do most of your women friends complain about men not wanting to have sex enough for them? You might have an above average sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 12:14 AM
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I would take extensive notes on what it was like and write a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 08:19 PM
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No rock bottom moment for me. I have a few friends who were very good with women, when I tried to do the things they suggested it didn't work for me. I knew that there was something going on in their heads that their manner and attitudes that made this work for them, they couldn't explain it but I knew it was there. They were the type of guys that rp calls Naturals. They didn't have a lot in common except that they were more extroverted than I am. One was a stereotypical jock, one was a pretty b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 05:39 AM
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Econ - 4.5 Social - 6.31 About what I expected. I do agree that the questionnaire was not very well thought out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 10:05 PM
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Perhaps you can find a good balance between your fake personality and your real one. That way it won't feel like acting. I think almost all men are born with some sort of masculine spark, some sparks get nurtured, some get smothered, instead of acting try to find your natural spark of manliness and nurture thst instead of acting out something that doesn't feel natural to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 09:50 PM
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There are musician subredddits here, there is a making hip hop and I think making edm one too. Perhaps they can help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 09:43 PM
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I have a strange mix of hobbies and interests. I watch boxing, mma and kickboxing on a regular basis, I watch American football, rugby and auto racing occasionally. I do a little target shooting and fishing but not much lately. I drive a sports sedan but want a balls out sports car next but who knows if I'll be able to swing it. I've done IT, sales and have been an unsuccessful entrepreneur a couple of times and have another business idea in the early stages. I need to lose about 10 pounds but s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 09:41 PM
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Sorry I couldn't help. I always built pcs for our commercial studio and for my home studio so I lucked out and didn't run into many problems like these. We did have a graphic card conflict one time so I know how tricky those can be. I've been out of the game for a while so I can't suggest any alternative hardware. We did always have good luck with MAudio stuff though, pci and USB.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 08:56 PM
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I used to do all of the tech stuff in a small studio in the 00s, if all of your USB sound cards are giving you problems it sounds like a driver problem in your DAW assuming you're in Windows, if you're on a Mac I can't help. Are you running Windows and if you are which version and which DAW are you using? I haven't done much of this in the last few years but I'll try to help. I know I have an old usb Tascam laying around I'm not sure if it's 144 or 244 but I'm pretty sure it's one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 12:27 PM
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That would be awesome, I went to a couple of less effective hypnotists in the past so be sure to find a well regarded one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 10:52 PM
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We're here to make our lives better and this made mine better, hopefully it can do the same for you. Being sick sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 08:21 PM
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I had a similar situation with chronic pain and depression from health problems, a hypnotist helped me to learn how to deal with my stress and anxiety better in 3 sessions. Not all hypnotists are good make sure you find a good one if you decide to try it. Since you actually know what needs fixing the odds of it helping are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 10:46 AM
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You do have to protect yourself, AMALT means don't trust them too far until you have a good idea of who you're dealing with, just Ike AWALT. Women sometimes string men along so they can get resources or commitment, there are shitty people in both sexes. Yep dating is a full contact sport. Helmets are recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 03:31 AM
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You have your game we have ours. This is why you have to make yourself into the type of man that is in demand and experienced enough to spot these games. If the guy isn't a plate spinner and is not rp or pua but knows you're playing games by making him wait he's going he's going to resent it and you'll lose any chance at being in an ltr with him because he's not going to trust you. If you naturally make guys wait 3-5 dates for sex an experienced man can tell, he can also tell if you're stringing…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 02:15 AM
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I can't have sex with someone I hate and I know I can't be the only guy like this, if I hate someone I don't want to be around them at all if I have a choice. The only guys I know who hate women are guys who have recently been through a bitter divorce and that hate usually only lasts for a few months. Most rp guys eventually want ltrs they just want to make up for lost time and have fun for a few years before they do. Obviously the high school and college age guys are not going to talk about ltr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 02:03 AM
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The guys with other fwbs are likely cool with waiting for a few dates if they are pretty sure the sex is coming. Guys with experience will spot your little test right away. They're just fucking someone else while your waiting game is playing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 01:40 AM
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No, I think some MGTOW guys hate women but rp guys love women, just not the guys in the anger phase. Why would a guy read a small stack of books about women if he hated them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 01:36 AM
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People in their 60s. I decrud my friends parents computers sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 01:19 AM
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I would say that each person should find someone in their field or area of interest that has accomplished the type of things that they would like to do and find out how they did it. You'll need different role models for your career, hobbies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 01:05 AM
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I've had jobless women ask me for money online before I had even met them, maybe that's happened to other guys too. In my experience successful educated black men want a successful educated woman, the 1950s stay at home wife is not how we roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 06:14 PM
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Will you share some of your observations with the rest of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 05:28 PM
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If you ban make up HD video cameras will also have to be made illegal for the good of our eyeballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 04:52 PM
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As far as I know only one woman I've known in my entire 40+ years has been raped. There are probably a couple that I don't know about but it's definitely not 20% of women. I'm pretty sure what this study is calling attempted rape isn't what law enforcement would call attempted rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 04:46 PM
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I'm so old I don't even know who Bad Religion is, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 04:32 PM
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That's interesting, Rollo sometimes talks about the old days on his blog, it must have been cool to have been there. I just discovered the manosphere last year so I'm always learning new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 04:24 PM
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I mean that they don't have a bunch of posts about feminism ruining society or how 1950s values are the only way to be happy and the US needs to go back to them. The rational male is the site I go to the most, then good looking loser then girls chase. There seems to be some overlap with rp and pua so I'm not 100% sure which side these sites are on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 02:31 PM
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Those are the same guys, the guys who talk about western civilization ending because of feminism are the same guys who think they're going to marry 18 year old virgins when they're 28 or 30. I don't get it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 02:20 PM
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A lot of us were the quiet boys who didn't talk much in high school and didn't play sports. The outgoing boys rocked the high school dating scene, not us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 02:12 PM
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A lot of succeeding in dating is experience and if a guy is a late bloomer he probably won't get enough dating experience in high school to learn dating game well enough to get good at it and then gets to college and is completely outclassed by the guys who are really good at it. When he gets out into the post college world there is no longer a large amount of age appropriate women always around so you don't have the same opportunities anymore. Once you get behind its hard to catch up without he…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 02:07 PM
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Most of the good rp sites and books don't have anything to do with conservative morals and thinking , that's not rp it's just that rp attracts a lot of conservative people for some reason and they mix rp into their existing worldview and come up with their own value systems and like to talk about them on trp. There are lots of rp people who aren't conservative, we just don't talk about politics much because that's not what rp is actually about. The conservative and libertarian guys just like tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 01:35 PM
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It's still a fear you have to face sooner or later, it gets easier the more you do it. The first time I did a cold approach I was scared but did it anyway, I got shot down but it was a big weight off my shoulders and it hasn't ever been that bad since. If I go a long time without doing one it's a little scary but once you get one or two out of the way to knock the rust off its gets easier again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 07:24 AM
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I went to high school because my parents would have separated me from my consciousness if I tried to drop out. Dad by KO in the first round!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 07:19 AM
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I have a friend who can effortlessly hit on women at any time or place but the idea of outside sales scares him spitless. It's really funny to me. I tell him it's the same thing but he doesn't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 07:13 AM
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All of us would like to have our cake and eat it too, why should slutty women be any different? As long as they don't lie to the poor chump that's marrying them I don't see how it's hypocritical. Wanting the best of both worlds is a very human thing, if it's self righteous then so be it. I would have totally skipped school and played all day as a child if I was guaranteed to have a good career as an adult. Why would I do something I hated if I didn't have to? US society does make it seem like ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 06:53 AM
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Not all women get fat after having kids, at least half of the women in their late 30s or early 40s that I know are pretty close to the size they were when they were in their mid to late 20s. Sometimes the grass looks greener being with someone else and people mess up relationships that aren't great but could be better if they actually sat down and talked like adults about what they feel is wrong with their relationship. Good for you for keeping your balls after being married, lots of guys don't.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 11:13 PM
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No its not the worst thing that could happen to a person but it's not something I would recommend to anyone. I have a friend who fits the description of BB pretty well and he's been divorced by 3 wives in 20 years. I know one or two others but I'll focus on this guy today because he's the worst one I know. I'm not going to say that all BB marriages will end in divorce but women who earn enough to live on their own will likely sooner or later decide that a bigger house isn't worth her happiness a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 11:16 AM
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Mr. BB is a relatively boring guy who spent his whole teens and most of his 20s working hard in school to have a good career and didn't really socialize much with women so he's spent 75 to 80% of his time between 15 and 32 without a relationship and in between his 2 or 3 short relationships had very few dates. He's not being choosy, he's just happy that he found someone decent looking with all of her teeth who is willing to marry him. He was afraid he would be alone forever but all of his hard w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/15 08:31 PM
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You seem to be the misunderstanding what a betabux man is, he's the guy who is the "sensible choice" because the woman is over 30 and wants children while she is able to have them without fertility treatments. The guy that is nice and reliable, has a good job and would make a good dad but is sort of boring. Have you ever seen a television show featuring a woman over 30 whose mother kept trying to fix her up with the boring sons of her friends? That's what a betabux is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/15 12:49 PM
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Oh, ok thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 05:03 AM
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How did Harry Potter help you improve your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 01:24 AM
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We already are, we learn to live with it or find ways improve our looks the same as women do. We're also judged on more than looks so we have to work on those things too if we want to consistently do well with women. If you're good looking but are shy and awkward around women you will still get laid much much less than someone who looks exactly the same but is very confident and outgoing. If you're famous or locally very popular this changes but for the 99% of non famous guys this is how it is. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 12:35 AM
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I'm not mad at em, I'm learning rp because I want to do better in the smp not because I couldn't get anything, I'm not a 4 so I'm not happy with the 4s I've been getting attention from. I'm cool with anybody wanting to do better as long as they're willing to do some work to get where they want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 10:44 PM
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The Science of Personal Achievement by Napoleon Hill and Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life by Dr. Wayne Dyer are two of my favorites.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 12:07 PM
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You've never harvested kidneys? You're leaving money on the table in a tough economy. Shame on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 07:46 AM
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I agree with bp that lots of women have difficulties in the dating world/smp. I also think that not as many women are promiscuous while young as lots of rp people claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 06:10 AM
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Agreed, my point is don't be dependent on a woman or man to do basic life tasks for you because you might be tempted to stay in a bad relationship because you don't know how to live on your own without help. I know a few older women who live in small towns without public transportation and can't drive so they're dependant on their husbands, some of these husbands are cheaters or drunks. Perhaps they would leave if they weren't dependant on thir husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 03:56 AM
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True, I think if you don't want to get treated poorly because of your race or sex or anything else you shouldn't treat anyone else poorly because of their race, sex, etc. I don't get why this is hard for people to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 09:04 PM
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Don't forget cowardly. A lot of Bpers are good at vanishing like ninjas when you hit them with a hard question that challenges their claims of fairness and equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 09:00 PM
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I eat out a lot too, I'm a pretty good cook but don't like cooking that much. Knowing how to cook is the important part. If you eat you eat you should be able to prepare a few simple dishes, if you drive you should know how to change a flat tire and keep your oil changed on schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 02:43 PM
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Lol that's funny. I know a couple of black people who are pretty racist, the people who say that probably don't know very many black people (SJWs) or are black people who say black people can't be racist but they really mean that black people don't have the power to discriminate against white people or keep them from getting opportunities, as you say in SA it's not true but where they live it probably is. Do you live in SA? My friends cousin's husband is a white guy from SA who lives in the US a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 02:20 PM
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If you're financially well off and can't cook there's a really good chance that you're still independent but it depends on how you solve your problem of how to eat when it's meal time. How did you eat from the time you left your parents home to becoming a well off doctor 10-12 years later? I admit that what I'm going to say is some old fashioned thinking but I still agree with it. When I was in high school my parents made sure I knew how to do all of these basic skills and a few others to look a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 02:00 PM
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White people can get that. It's been 20+ years but I'm pretty sure one of my white classmates went to my college on a minority scholarship. I went to a black college with very few white students, I only had two or three white people in all my classes my whole 4 years there. I saw a few other white people on campus but I'm guessing that the school had less than 2 or 3% white people. Here's an article about it happening at another black college. community.seattletimes.nwsource.com/archive/?date=19…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 09:26 AM
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I disagree, I think you should have the ability to even if you rarely do these things. If you haven't cooked in 20 years but you know 100% that you can that's valuable because you know you can feed yourself if the need ever arrives. I think these are all skills you should learn as a teenager before you leave your parents house so that you're not dependent on anyone else for your basic survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 09:14 AM
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No one expects people to be completely independent in the developed world. Adults are however expected to be competent in a number of adult tasks that are necessary to survive on your own without supervision. You need to be able to cook, keep a house clean, handle money, keep a job, live up to your promises and responsibilities and adult up when you make mistakes and make things right. You'd think these are things everyone can do but you'd be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 05:41 AM
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You need balance, being stable and safe and smart are good traits but perhaps you should develop your fun side more if you haven't already, your post didn't mention hobbies or interests. Do you have interesting social hobbies, are you good at flirting, do you ever lead your social group in fun activities, do you play a musical instrument? Most women like guys with interesting lives who are fun and/or exciting to be around. If you haven't developed this side of yourself what do you have to offer …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 05:35 AM
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