| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | I was looking for an accountability app for ADHD and found 3 apps for pornsickness instead | PORN SICK, LIMP DICK | blaquevenus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:34 AM |
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| 21 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:They will lie and say no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | I was looking for an accountability app for ADHD and found 3 apps for pornsickness insteadOh I didn’t scroll far enough. There is another one that charges you every time you check a porn site. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...Heard. Edited. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:11 PM |
| 7 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...Safe, fun, consensual, and not hurting anybody. Those are my rules, but it might be different for other people. For me, it’s usually not fun if my partner finishes and I don’t, so there’s that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:05 PM |
| 9 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...Yeah I did this once and he got the picture. And I’ve also lied there not making noise when the sex wasn’t good or I explained I wasn’t feeling it and it was so awkward and devastating for him that now he realizes what a turn on it is when I finish and will even make sure I do even if he doesn’t. Esther Perel said that foreplay, for women, begins with the end of the last orgasm. It’s so true. If my head isn’t in it, and I don’t feel safe and desired, I won’t finish and I will make it known that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 05:42 AM |
| 20 | Do not baby-step him through conflict resolution while you're out here with the emotional intelligence of a licensed therapist. I will not teach a grown man how to communicate!Why exactly 15 days? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 07:48 AM |
| 23 | Do not baby-step him through conflict resolution while you're out here with the emotional intelligence of a licensed therapist. I will not teach a grown man how to communicate!There are those asshole dudes who push past other men’s emotional boundaries (friends or not). If the other man reacts to the prodding without decking the instigator, then reacting man is degraded further by being (ironically) called by the name of the strongest and most powerful of the forms of genitalia: pussy. It doesn’t make sense, but I think there are some idiots who just don’t see anyone except themselves as people. In this instance instead of “I’m not a mind reader,” it’s “dude I was jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 07:46 AM |
| 152 | "Men age like fine wine" Sean Penn, 59, and Leila George, 28 just got married. There are no words.I went to high school with his daughter, actually. She’s a year older than his new wife. It’s weird to think of, since seeing her around as a kid just a year older than me. I am just replaying the court scene from Legally Blonde in my head. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 02:01 PM |
| 22 | Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic grouptl;dr black men seem to be particularly insistent on using and abusing black women while holding all other races of women up as valuable, desireable, and worth protecting. Many black men like to humiliate everyone involved by denouncing black women publicly without being asked. Fine, if that’s your “preference” and not a trophy to signal you’ve “made it” whatever, do you. I wouldn’t date this kind of man anyways, so glad you know to leave me alone. But black women will be minding their own busin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 10:52 AM |
| 43 | Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic groupUgh I dated a guy who did the exact same. He was a very wealthy, intelligent, handsome dude. He was also stingy, didn’t keep his word, and was unable to perform basic tasks like respond to yes/no questions or bring me a small trinket from his travels. He said he only dated black women and I told him that’s terrifying. Out loud I cited fetishization but in my mind I thought “please don’t bring your low value bullshit over here, please stay the hell away from black women.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:44 AM |
| 3 | It’S biOloGiCaL male strikes againAt this point you say, “do you want a child? Or a sibling? Because I will marry your father for his assets move into HIS house and make you my son real quick. I’ll make sure our child inherits his assets and I’ll raise them to be a high value individual with some sense and some manners. It’S BiOlOgIcAl!” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:32 AM |
| 20 | It’S biOloGiCaL male strikes againWhat! No way. That’s ridiculous. And awful. Is that where your user name comes from? Bewilderment at seeing a grown person devolve into a toddler in front of your family at a hospital during a moment of immense grief? Because that‘s something I can’t even begin to understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:13 AM |
| 30 | My pickmeisha friend concerned meWhat fresh hell is this? Is he a pimp? Are there drugs involved? I hate it here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Stop smiling for men because you're afraid of RBF. You can exude warmth without grinning like a Cheshire cat. Normalize non-emotive faces!EXACTLY! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Stop smiling for men because you're afraid of RBF. You can exude warmth without grinning like a Cheshire cat. Normalize non-emotive faces!Funny because there was a lot of pick-me nonsense in those books but I loved them. They were soo funny. Still are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 11:45 PM |
| 6 | Their opinions change depending on how it benefits themDang wish I could upvote 10,000,000 times! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Dating should NOT be your goal!I do this even with my current boyfriend. Because I’ve learned not to commit anything of value to a man until he’s given me the commitment I want. This reminds me of the story of that woman who didn’t stop dating several men until she was engaged. I’m having trouble finding the article. But basically she said she was a grown woman, so she wasn’t looking for a boyfriend. She dated several men and told them all that she would continue to do so until she had what she wanted out of it. Basically unt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 09:37 AM |
| 12 | Stop smiling for men because you're afraid of RBF. You can exude warmth without grinning like a Cheshire cat. Normalize non-emotive faces!Also smiling for strange men is very often misconstrued. They may approach you or pursue you without warrant and say you invited the unwanted attention. My “bitch face” is also a safety precaution when out in public. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 08:45 AM |
| 4 | Stop smiling for men because you're afraid of RBF. You can exude warmth without grinning like a Cheshire cat. Normalize non-emotive faces!I’m hoping I caught a Georgia Nicolson reference correctly here! “Loon on loony tablets” is one of my favorite things to say. Although not to appear as while doing my job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 08:41 AM |
| 20 | Men as parents are failuresThe value of the work done by stay at home moms, if hired out to employees, would be in the six figure range. “Depending on the size of the home, family, pets and numerous other conditions, a stay-at-home parent may work upwards of 98 hours a week. According to 2019 data from Salary.com, if you are a stay-at-home mom (or dad), and paid for your services, you would be looking at a median annual salary of $178,201”-Investopedia. Imagine hiring a private chef, nanny, chauffeur, and house cleaner. P… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Something that I think more women should come to expect - having their own room when living with a partnerI have ALWAYS wanted this. I live where it is very expensive and people always act like I’m being unrealistic. But hey, I pay my rent now, and if a man wants to move in with me or wants me to move in with him, he has to make space for me that is as good or better than the peace I’ve carved out for myself. If you don’t want to pay for the extra space, you can stay in your man cave that is your own apartment. The last time I was upset at my boyfriend, I stayed up angry and he fell asleep in my bed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | A fun response to the hot-crazy scaleIt should say dusty instead of emotionally unavailable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:49 PM |
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