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Blue Pill Exampleblasted_biscuits/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 02:47 AM
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did you have a stroke at the end there, bot?
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:30 PM
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Good for you. Exceptions to every rule.
/r/seduction15/07/21 03:03 AM
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You no longer get to say "she's not mine, it's just my turn". Disagree. Even if you've been together for ten years, she's still not yours and it's just your turn. Remember that AWALT and she could leave you at the drop of a hat anytime.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 04:28 PM
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Absolutely. The world is full of abundance and you don't need any women in your life that are only looking to use you for validation and entertainment.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:30 PM
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I understand the temptation but in my experience women like that are poisoned honey. Tread carefully.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/20 05:32 PM
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Focus on yourself. Make self improvement a priority in your life. You'll find that having friends turns out to be a consequence of a full life, rich with experiences. If you feel lonely then go out and volunteer. Even doing a simple soup kitchen can lead to meeting people that are also volunteering. Most importantly, always be outcome independent. If you meet someone, stop getting in the habit of imagining what the future is going to be like and then trying to shape the present to fit that futur…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:16 PM
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That's a ridiculous statement. An abundance mindset precedes an abundance lifestyle. No one is living a life of abundance while they're frozen with thoughts of scarcity.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:07 PM
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Great timing on this post. Her and I broke up earlier this month a week before we were supposed to go on a romantic vacation. It's been almost a month now of no contact. I don't miss her so much as I miss the comfort of being in a relationship and the routines we shared. None of that matters now. Time to build new routines, keep hitting the gym, work on my business and spin plates.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 07:01 PM
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No contact means no contact. Keeping her around in any capacity is only delaying your happiness.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 06:25 PM
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In the middle of a pandemic asking a girl out while wearing a mask is less than ideal.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 03:33 PM
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Introspection and time. The pain will eventually go away become a lesson for the future.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 04:16 PM
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It amazes me the amount of delusion we put ourselves through just for a constant hit of dopamine. Of course there ain't no dopamine hit as powerful as being in a committed relationship with your one true oneitis. You will literally spend a fortune to keep her in your life - for life. Big mistake. Eschew oneitis at all costs. If you are with a girl that gives you oneitis then you are with the wrong girl. Oneitis leads to guaranteed beta behavior which leaves you vulnerable and open to manipulatio…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/20 03:51 AM
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This is why it's crucial to remain outcome independent. Always be indifferent. You know what you want but if it's not working out it's no sweat. Women smell this and their hamster starts spinning, "why doesn't he want me? does he have another woman lined up? am i not pretty enough? i'll show him!" Always have fun with the process and never try to create the story to match the ending you want.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/20 12:11 AM
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Absolutely. An extreme example of this are groupies.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 09:02 PM
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This will heal and become the scar tissue that reminds you that AWALT and you can never be truly vulnerable or let down your guard no matter how many boxes she checks and how often she says you are the best thing that has ever happened to her. All it takes is one moment of weakness for you to go from a knight to a boy to her.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:08 PM
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This is a perversion of justice and one of these appeal courts need to strike it down. But, imagine how insufferable he musta been for her to turn down his multiple offers of marriage though..
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 03:30 AM
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Time to go and not look back.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:56 PM
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Ha! Growing up all I had were my father's Easyrider magazines. Later on I felt lucky having those couple downloads that took all day to download from kazaa.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 03:13 AM
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Sounds like a classic case of branch swinging. Plus you mentioned she cheated on someone to be with you so she had already proven she cannot be trusted.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 10:28 PM
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You can search meetup for groups that are relevant to your interests. You will meet some cool people (and some weirdos).
/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:55 PM
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Look up David Deangelo - the kiss test.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 01:55 PM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn. Be grateful you didn't marry her and have kids then find out.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:02 PM
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If you're at a festival than there are loads of opportunity literally everwhere. It sucks to get AMOG'd but it's not like he was a meathead looking to throw hands. Best thing to do is reframe the situation as 'I just got free money' and on to the next set. Also, this is a great lesson for the next time something like this happens.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:43 PM
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I think she threw another shit test at you but you do you.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 09:49 PM
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Oneitis is cancer, it eats you up inside. Realize that it is not her that you want but the IDEA of her. This girl has flooded you with chemicals that make you think you're in love. It's all just a biological response, compounded by the fact that it's your first. You need to get angry with yourself and face the facts that she is using you. Every guy on this board has gone through something similar. The best thing you can do is to cut off all contact with her. It's difficult and you will think abo…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 08:16 PM
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I can almost hear him now after being ghosted - "god! i try to be nice and she ignores me. women only want assholes! "
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 09:16 PM
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and her feelings for you can change in an instant..
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 03:27 PM
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Very true and goes to show why stoicism and TRP go hand in hand.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 11:05 PM
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You just have an excuse for everything eh? Starting to see the source of your issues here..
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 10:56 PM
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You shouldn't be in a relationship if this sort of thing is making you insecure. There is a whole world of women out there, better looking and not messaging their ex hook ups. You need to work on you before you go inviting a woman into your life to give your commitment to. The only time you should do that is if she adds to your already awesome life. Doesn't sound like that's the case here.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 09:45 PM
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"Can't wait for you to meet my parents" "My aunt found her husband on tinder so there's hope for me." Jeez, he's already invested in her and they have zero rapport. But, hey, at least they get a free date in Maui and he'll probably get a buddy hug at the end of the date.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 02:32 PM
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That guy has no backbone. Guys like him handing women a pussy pass is a problem. He continues to call her honey even as she physically abuses him. Then she threatens to call the cops even though she is the one getting physical. The entitlement mentality has gone too far and it won't stop as long as guys continue to allow it to happen.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 04:20 PM
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Best response is no response.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 04:11 AM
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You're young. It's always toughest after the first one because all these new feelings and emotions feel so GOOD. You're going through withdrawal while missing all those wonderful, validating emotions. You had her on a pedestal and made plans in your head for a future that will never happen. It makes sense that you're gonna feel like shit once that house of cards comes crashing down around you. The only advice I can give you is give it time and ghost her. As much as it hurts to do so, push her as…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 05:56 PM
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Women use social media posts as bait for validation and compliments. More breaking news at the top of the hour.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 08:15 PM
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Fuckin oneitis, man. It's cancer. Give yourself time to mourn the relationship and then move on. No contact, no looking her up on FB, no looking at pictures and reminiscing. Give yourself two months of zero contact and see the difference it makes. Don't fall so hard for the next one. It's just a biological imperative causing you to feel all this. You weren't in love with her, you were in love with the idea of her. There are billions of women out there. She's nothing special. No matter who the fu…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 03:13 AM
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Oneitis is cancer. Do yourself a favor and ghost her. Nothing good can come from infatuation. It's not her you're falling for, it's some ideal you've made up in your head. There is an abundance of women out there, ones that you can keep your head about. Trying to be with a woman you have oneitis for will only hurt you in the end. Guaranteed.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 04:37 AM
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We all have a story like this. Definitely a nail in the coffin of your LTR. The writing is on the wall if this starts happening. Start planning your escape accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 01:54 PM
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Her sending you nudes while with the older guy was a huge red flag. Always remember, if she did it to another guy, she'll do it to you. Guaranteed.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 01:47 PM
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You do you. I'm just saying, plenty of guys wish they hadn't succumbed to their carnal instincts once the girl started stalking them or going psycho. It's pretty obvious she wants more. Plate her if you want, but realize there's plenty of women out there for you that you have no history with.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 10:43 PM
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There are millions of available women in the world, why go back to the one you broke up with? Ego boost, horniness, loneliness? It screams lack of abundance mindset. If you truly feel nothing for her then don't have her in your life. Ghost her and move on. The games you are playing with her are not red pill.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 09:36 PM
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You have oneitis and it's caused you to become infatuated to ideas in your head. Put her completely out of your head for two months and watch how your opinion of her changes.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 03:45 AM
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Oneitis is cancer. You become your own worst enemy, living in delusion and handing over your power. The only power we have is our power to walk away when she is no longer fulfilling her role or misbehaving. You shouldn't have to justify her bs in your mind. You don't give her a remote control to your emotions. The moment you no longer feel you can walk away unscathed, you have lost.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 03:08 PM
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Now is the time to go stoic and display nothing but indifference towards her. You can be burning up inside but to her you are calm and uncaring. Constantly reframe this as a good thing in your mind as much as you can. It will be hard at first but a few months from now you will see that it actually is a good thing. Give yourself time to grieve over the loss of the relationship but don't let it consume you. Don't ever let her see that she hurt you. Focus on your son and don't say anything bad abou…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 02:52 PM
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I noticed a trend on Tinder while I was on where these females would post their IG name in their bio. That was a guarantee that they were only looking for pure validation, which they all are to some degree but that was the extreme right of the spectrum.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 04:13 AM
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If she fucks you while she has a bf, she is lacking integrity. Not you.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 07:30 PM
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I know a few as well but it's all just our perception. We never truly know if their happiness is real.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 08:12 PM
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Anecdotal proof that ghosting is the most powerful tool a man has with a woman. Some might say it's the only power a man has over a woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 07:48 PM
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Essential reading. Read it now, digest it and read it again. https://archive.org/details/RobertGloverNoMoreMrNiceGuy
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 08:55 PM
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Biggest complaint I have about Tinder is not that you can't find women, but that the women you find are guaranteed to be flaky sooner or later. The swipe culture has enabled this flakiness so it's best to not even bother.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 08:27 PM
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Not fiction, based on a true story.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 11:19 PM
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Oneitis is cancer. A cruel joke nature plays on us men. Use your rational mind to realize that it's not her you fell for but the idea of her. Be glad she went silent on you and you can now move on. The biggest problem with oneitis is that it allows us to put a woman on a pedestal where she doesn't belong. She can get away with murder because we only focus on her good traits and none of the negative traits. Focus on finding women that you can maintain that sacred indifference towards. Remember, s…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 04:50 PM
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This is why oneitis is cancer. You can't help yourself from being bluepill and doing everything wrong.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 06:29 PM
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Not at all. She's no good for me. Single mom with two kids by two different dads for example. The real disservice would be trying to make it work knowing it's the wrong path to go down. For whatever reason, nature compelled me to want to be with her. I had to make a conscious decision to walk away. Reals before feels as is said around here.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 06:44 PM
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I'm also 38 years old and at one time was spinning five plates. I can attest that what you say is true, different women make you feel different emotions and that affects your behavior around them. One woman I could feel total indifference for even though she is smoking hot and would do anything I say. Another woman I turn into a bluepill mess around and think about her everytime a love song comes on. It's frustrating to no end and feels unfair in a way. Such is life though. Awareness is the key.…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 04:30 PM
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Good post. Well formatted with stellar examples of each point. The sexual tension section is gold. I've seen it time and time again. Don't fight female nature, learn to use it to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 10:29 PM
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Jesus man, I hope you've turned out okay after being subjected to all that during your formative years.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 02:41 PM
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Tinder is easy. Have a picture of you holding a dog, doing something fun and active. Make your bio hilarious. Message with an air of "idgaf". Get the number within ten messages. Move the conversation into the real world and set up a date. Rinse and repeat.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 02:18 PM
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So what's stopping you from becoming the best?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:07 PM
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The problem is that we as humans idealize our partners. This is why we say it's not her you want but the idea of her. It's important to understand the difference lest you end up with the cancerous oneitis. This is also why it's important to maintain an air of mystery in a relationship, to allow her to fill in the gaps with best case scenarios about you. It's funny you mention Brad Pitt, last I checked he's been divorced twice. No one is immune from human nature. All we can do is learn to underst…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:06 PM
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The Enchiridion by Epictetus is life changing. http://hams.cc/epictetus/
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 05:30 PM
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I've never had to use prostitutes myself, but I can imagine your mindset going into it makes all the difference in the world. If you approach it just to shut up the call of nature making you feel inadequate if you're not getting laid then that might be acceptable. If you are using it because you feel like you can't get it anywhere else then it will just compound those empty feelings and widen that empty hole you're feeling inside. In other words, use cautiously and sparingly.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 02:02 PM
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Do you think Trudeau is alpha as well??
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 04:31 PM
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It's not the pain he's addicted to but the feelings he gets when near his oneitis he has up on a pedestal. His fantasy is so powerful that he would rather tolerate being shit on by her then being ignored by her. Oneitis is cancer.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 01:55 PM
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Stop being outcome dependent. Every mistake you make is an opportunity to improve next time. Did you and your friends end up going to town? You should have been chatting up girls left and right with an abundant mindset. You'll get there, keep it up and don't let a female fluster you. They're as common as dandelions in the spring and not that special.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:04 PM
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Ignore armchair psychologists. Whatever shitty place you were in, it's good you got through it. Nothing lasts forever - good and bad. Have a plan in place for if and when it resurfaces.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:22 AM
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I have a ten year old daughter. My situation is similar to yours except in my blue pilled mind I thought the right thing to do was to marry her because we loved each other. It lasted less than three years before I divorced her. Today TRP theory helps me deal with her mother. I could have used all this wisdom back then so you're already a leg up compared to where I was. A couple tips of advice, take it or leave it. Cultivate a healthy coparent relationship for the sake of your kid. You don't have…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 08:40 PM
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Truth. With true abundance mindset, you won't even be interested if she reaches out. She had her chance and she chose to see you as a friend. Next her and don't think back.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 04:17 PM
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The drug addiction analogy is spot on. Your oneitis is literally your drug dealer, dealing out oxytocin and dopamine. Guys become desperate for a fix even in the face of huge red flags. Inviting your ex back into your life in any capacity is playing with fire and you will be burned. It's not worth it when abundance is all around you.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:32 PM
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It doesn't help that woman are generally getting bigger overall with many fitting in the obese category. This means a smaller pool of thin women in demand.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 02:02 PM
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Study up on inner game and stoicism. If you're feeling this way it's going to show and no woman is going to want to get with you no matter how high your SMV. Get right inside, get right outside and the pieces fall into place.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 11:10 PM
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You got addicted to the fantasy you built in your head. You were desperate to keep it going and your blue pill mentality made you think more messages would be the key. Like a drug addict always chasing that next fix, once you get it you find it's not enough. This is why you cannot let women be the center of your world. They will never be enough. I wish I could tell you this will go away but one day you'll meet someone and your brain will try to default to the blue pill thinking again and all the…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 09:03 PM
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The fact is, the amazing, perfect person you’re obsessed with doesn’t exist. Exactly. You build up a fantasy in your head. Plug up the holes with best case scenarios and then grieve once it's over because the fantasy will never come to fruition now. It never would. It's all a delusion.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 04:04 AM
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Keep in mind it's not her you are in love with. She's nothing special. It's the image of her that you have built up in your mind. It's all an illusion. That's why it hurts, you are grieving over losing the fantasy you built in your mind. If you go no contact with her, completely go ghost on her and don't look up her fb or pictures, you'll be over her within a few weeks. Finding other women helps, but you'll still be thinking about her because she's the one that flooded your brain with good feeli…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 06:21 PM
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Thanks for sharing. It's tough going through this but it's necessary and invaluable as a learning tool. Many guys find TRP because of a situation like this. We all go through finding and losing our oneitis and it sucks. Part of the problem is the feelings you feel from this particular woman fills you with chemicals like oxytocin and dopamine. She's literally a drug. We start to modify our behavior to keep these good feelings going. Acting beta and needy when in reality we need to be indifferent …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 05:39 PM
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Literally the exact same thing happening to me. I get to where I'm content picturing the future without her and communicate less with her and then like clockwork here she comes telling me she misses me and a reset button gets pushed in my head. I have no choice but to go no contact, there's no other way.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 10:19 PM
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I saw a poster once, had a smokin hot chick in a bikini on it. At the bottom it said, "no matter how hot she is, some dude, somewhere is sick of putting up with her shit."
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 04:28 AM
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Doesn't matter. The fact that she's the one saying it says enough.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 04:26 AM
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underrated comment. we need to see more of our celebrity idols in natural light and conditions. expensive cameras and photoshop create the pedastalized versions we fall in love with and project onto random women throughout our lives.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 04:24 AM
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In stoicism this is called "negative visualization" and it is a powerful tool that should be practiced in all areas of your life.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:43 PM
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Sounds like you need to work on your inner game first and foremost. Getting swole is great but ultimately you should be doing it for yourself because you want to become the best you can be, not because getting chicks is your primary goal. The more you work on your internal game, the more confident you become and the easier it becomes to not give a fuck and say whatever you want around everyone (including hot women) which in turn will lead to getting laid. When the post says to be hot, it doesn't…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 06:06 PM
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Yup, let it run its course. Let those shitty feelings wash over you with a peace of mind that they are temporary and she will soon be a distant memory.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 02:32 AM
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This is where we are as a society. It's why we need TRP more than ever.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 03:32 PM
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At the beginning it's never about you but about the IDEA of you. Remember, she doesn't even know you. Any validation she's giving you is just her being a typical CFC (charming fucking cunt). It's a dangerous sticky trap that is more difficult than quicksand to escape if you're not looking for it. Most guys would be well off to assume that the female is manipulating them via ego. They're shrewd and masters at it. Especially the beautiful ones. If you find yourself thinking "how did I get so lucky…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 08:37 PM
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I couldn't imagine anything more humiliating. You should be disgusted by her for even putting the image in your head. That alone is grounds for divorce.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:25 PM
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You need to come to terms with the relationship ending on your terms or hers. She might play the game and make it seem like it's working but she is going to leave you eventually and take any last bit of dignity with her.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:22 PM
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Lack of male role models passing down this information. We are left to seek each other for this vital knowledge which will benefit the next generation of men as we pass the knowledge down.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 10:05 PM
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There's nothing woman hating about putting your needs first.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 01:24 PM
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This is an important post as much of our programming comes from our mothers. My mother was diagnosed BPD and it showed in how she raised me. I used to say "if she doesn't get her way, there's hell to pay." In my late 20s I attempted to establish boundaries but she was able to manipulate around them. Toxic mothers are professionals at manipulation. Every relationship I was in, she made sure to wedge herself in and make the female feel like number two until they hated her and it caused turbulence …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 09:17 PM
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Really interesting and scary findings. I found the rats that became the "beautiful ones" especially intriguing
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 02:11 PM
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She's not doing anything out of disrespect that I can tell. Sounds like your own insecurities are getting the best of you..
/r/askTRP23/08/16 08:23 PM
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What the fuck did I just read. In what universe would you ever think this could possibly work?
/r/askTRP23/08/16 07:59 PM
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haha, right? I DIDN'T REALIZE WE WERE IN THE PRESENCE OF ROYALTY!
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 05:11 PM
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Whenever there is a woman in your life. Always have a plan to next her. Assume you're going to eventually next her. The only power you have is walking away.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 05:19 AM
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Hey man - my mom was the same way. Good that you're learning now while you're young. Best advice I could give is: you can only win if you don't play the game. Her game of manipulation will only work if you buy into her bullshit or let her push your buttons. I have a decent relationship with my mother now but a lot of it comes from taking a stoic view and knowing I can't change her, only my attitude towards her. Good luck, it sucks.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 05:02 AM
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This is not a behavior that improves with time. In fact it will get worse if you let it. She will move on from your ex and find some replacement like a coworker or a neighbor, etc. Best thing to do is absolutely ignore this behavior and when she presses you about it simply state with indifference "I cannot tolerate insecure behavior." Part of the reason she is acting this way is she feels she has the power in the relationship and can act however she wants without repercussion. She needs to be re…
/r/askTRP03/08/16 05:42 PM
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Similarly, I was raised in a female dominated household. Father wasn't absent but his backbone was. It's toxic for a young man to be raised in such an environment. He never truly gets to experience any sort of initiation into manhood. Ancient tribes would symbolically kill the child so the man could rise from the ashes. A single mother or dominate mother offers no substitute. Arrested development occurs and this leads to beta behavior.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 06:26 PM
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I remember a few years ago Yahoo had a Christmas party and spent millions. Marissa sat in a throne to take professional pictures with employees. The whole thing screamed entitlement. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 12:43 PM
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There is a lot of stoicism in this post. Focus on what you can control and be indifferent towards all that you can't.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 12:36 AM
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Women are and always will be the more entitled species. If you cheat, it's because you're a pig. If she cheats, it's because you're a pig.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 05:59 PM
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Classic AWALT. She's shifting the blame to you because you dried her up by failing enough of her shit tests. By not proving to be the top biological contender she withholds sex from you.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 02:18 PM
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This is good advice. If a woman is doing something shitty you cannot win through confrontation. If your lips are moving, you're losing.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 02:06 PM
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Way to maintain your frame. It sucks having to let your oxytocin dealer go but it is necessary to maintain the life you want to live.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 04:33 PM
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Hedonic adaptation. When we get what we've desired it loses its luster. Once you find the ltr woman of your dreams and comfort eventually sets in you'll miss the drunken one night stands. It's human nature.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 01:05 PM
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Shit man. I don't know you but I'm proud of you. Good job playing that one like a pro. Truly alpha.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 10:11 PM
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Shit man. That really sucks. Sounds like some subconscious oneitis. I'm guessing this girl crosses your mind while you're with these other women. You called her your main girl, I think you answered your own question. Get the fuck out of there before your heart is in a vice grip.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 05:21 PM
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You got the oneitis, it sucks big fat donkey balls but we've all been there or are there now. You said you give her hints that she is free to walk away? That's not how this works. That's basically giving her a pass to continue emotional manipulation, stringing you along. You don't give her hints to walk away, you use your power and YOU walk away. You'll feel a vice grip on your heart but you need to invoke the only power you have and walk away. Over time you will become indifferent but you need …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 04:29 PM
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It can't be stressed enough. The only card you can play is your ability to walk away. If you do it right, that card will be always hanging over her head and she'll understand she needs to do what she needs to do to retain you. Start doing shit like talking about your feelings and she'll pick up on your need for validation and know you aren't going anywhere. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 09:00 PM
2

It's great you pulled out your ace up your sleeve at the right time, showing her you can walk away at any time. Realistically, it's the only power we have in a relationship. And we have to use it when necessary.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 11:02 PM
1

The pain you feel is as temporary as the joy you felt. As it will always be.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 03:11 PM
5

I sure hope you're spinning plates and not exclusive with that evil cunt.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 01:28 PM
2

Guy comes on here to share his story and bare his soul and you kick him. What does that say about you.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 04:40 PM
2

It's easy to say that when you don't have a professional succubus preying on your soul while you are deep in blue pill land.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 07:26 PM
2

She decided to leave you long before that bad moment though.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 02:41 PM
11

Very true. It's hard to fight a war on multiple fronts.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 02:38 PM
22

He's implying she was on drugs.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 02:36 PM
2

Yeah man, I hear ya. Thanks for taking the time to reply all that. I hope for the best for my daughter when she inevitably starts dating years from now. But because of the way nature made us, she will probably be attracted to the bad boys and have beta orbiters that empower her. I don't make the rules. What I can do, however, is be the best dad I can be. That's the priority in my life. She's the one girl I can go out of my way for and love unconditionally. Believe me, I would love to have a nice…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:05 PM
3

Sounds very logical. Feels great when you do it. You always end up burned in the end though. Sorry bro, it's the way of the world. Or, our society.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 10:45 PM
3

There's plenty of info in the sidebar to answer your question but basically, once a guy shares his feelings of infatuation with a female he is essentially handing over his power. He is declaring that she is on a pedestal and while it may be blissful for a while, eventually she will get bored or resentful due to hypergamy. Haven't you noticed that the women in your past that were most into you were the women you were least into? I'm sure there are unicorns out there that are exceptions to this ru…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 10:17 PM
2

Scammers don't just prey on people through email. There are the scammers that prey on hearts and know what they're doing the whole time. It's a con game and they're running the long con. Just realize the lesson and don't get conned again.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 02:54 AM
1

Awesome man. You do exactly what you did every night and start getting more comfortable with it and there's no stopping you!
/r/seduction20/09/13 12:30 AM
8

"Google kino" You should be ashamed of yourself.
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:09 PM
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