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When you’re setting yourself apart from the riff raft you’ll get noticed more and women kinda just appear in your life and it’s up to you to pursue them from there. There’s nothing lamer than those old pick up videos where dudes spend hours just walking around using the fire hose method. Sure it might work at times, but by 23 I was able to talk to a couple prospects every night out and move from there
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:41 AM
1

On god, this nigga spittin. All the undesirables are looking for something serious and tired of playin games.
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:37 AM
1

How many new relationships have you actually seen start lately ? They’re just talking, you control access to relationships. Get them out on dates , have fun , hookup and let something build from there
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:36 AM
2

Roughly 3-6 times a day? Lol alright magic Johnson
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:53 AM
2

Man huh?
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:38 AM
2

Throughout time it has been that most men have to do the approaching. Unless you have notoriety in a social group, expect to have to put in some effort. Hell half the time the ones that approach you aren’t the ones that you want or else you would’ve been talking to them , or have noticed them already
/r/seduction12/06/22 11:07 PM
0

The club is probably not the best place to try and lose your virginity in. As for your game, walking up and complimenting someone off the jump just makes it seem like you want something. Have a real conversation and compliments can come later
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:55 PM
3

You are about to be put in the provider role at best. Sounds like she doesn’t want you though. You tried, I would just remain friends with her family if you’d like but I wouldn’t put my eggs in that basket
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:19 PM
1

She gave you sphghetti and tea so you got something
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:09 AM
2

Dude is a grown ass man complaining about his parents on Reddit on the regular he’s definitely writing fiction here.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:20 AM
21

Naw dude a 9/10 came up to HIM. Then he negotiated a 3 way make out. With a bartender (no further explanation of how she got from behind the bar needed) but what ruined his playa ass night was that he didn’t have a condom. Also she never does this lol. If I meets single mom in a bar I don’t really consider that a victory either.
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:42 PM
9

Work the room with everyone. Do something cool, memorable , or relatable. Eventually if you’re doing good people will gravitate towards you and want to stick around longer. I would never be the guy who latched to a woman he’s interested in unless you discuss that with her such as a date. Otherwise be free have fun and mingle
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:29 PM
1

Buddy is on some nut shit. Talks like a yoga instructor but his sentences don’t come to any conclusion lol
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:41 AM
1

… have a nice night dude
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:36 AM
2

Um ok? He asked for advice on an advice Reddit. What are you on cuz?
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:27 AM
1

It’s not a good idea if 1/10 of your dates aren’t leading to a second. Y’all gotta get off the pick up artist material and read some books or material about dating. Pick up artist are only good at one night stands not dating. Nowadays they’re hiring prostitutes to be in their videos to try and sell their programs.
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:25 AM
3

If you can kiss or take it further on the first date don’t hold yourself back as a rule. Especially on dates off tinder. You’re both there to have fun and leas the interaction towards something. When she’s talking make sure to lean back in your seat and look like you’ve been in the situation before and are comfortable. Finally you may need to talk more, it’s good that they talk a lot, but you need some interesting and funny stories in there as well.
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:10 AM
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You’re not getting their attention enough to stop. You’re not presenting a strong interesting presence, simple as that. You’re probably mumbling or not saying anything that warrants a response.
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:56 AM
1

Ice cream is really cool, or bowling. Take them to two things in a day so maybe ice cream and a beach , park , hike. Etc.
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:41 AM
21

His comment was sarcasm bruh
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:32 AM
1

First start improving yourself so you’re proud of yourself. Go to the gym consistently for 3 months. Follow some fashion pages and get some fresh clothes. Get a cool haircut. Do these things and people will engage you more and be willing to engage you more. Then ask women on concrete dates. I like to know what events are going on in my city to make it easy to have something to do.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:11 PM
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This whole post is the pot calling the kettle black. No one cares that your friends didn’t do anything at a bar it happens to us all. Writing 9 paragraphs about it when you also went home and beat off is talking a big game.
/r/seduction23/08/21 09:05 PM
-11

So you think you’re better than your homies because you got two instagrams?
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:48 PM
2

This... I’m not desperate as I was back in the day to get anything. Now that I go after what I’m attracted to its way more exciting to date
/r/seduction22/08/21 06:57 AM
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It’s just a way to be more interesting lol
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:51 PM
2

Can’t be scared or they will walk all over you. That goes for anyone, man or woman. What I recommend for you is to start learning all the events going on in your city that you might be interested in and start mentioning that in convos. Easy way to close information for dates when you have a plan of what to do.
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:58 AM
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Yessir! They’re not so scary. Just gotta present the best you and go tak to them.
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:29 AM
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What? Go ahead and post a picture of yourself please we both know what a dude who post weird fictional story like these looks like.
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:52 PM
1

Uh huh.
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:48 PM
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If 10-20 6-7s were going to an event then they told at least 4 guys each or posted themselves there. If it’s local to campus you better believe there would be a lot of guys there. You act like a 6-7 is something dudes turn down. I’m poking so many holes in your story because it’s very easy to see that you’re lying. You’re just a weirdo obsessed with flashing your penis at women.
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:44 PM
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My guy.... you’re claiming hot available women passed you around at UNIVERSITY EVENTS? Everybody knows those are lame as hell, nobody goes to em because they’re at other parties that allow alcohol. Then you say it was at the FRONT of the auditorium but it was a secret area. Bro what? If everybody can see it, it’s not a secret. Let’s finally bring up your post history. You’re clearly an obsessed non select man.
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:39 PM
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Your responses just keep making it worse man. You’re clearly out of touch with reality if you think you aren’t digging a deeper hole with each new string of nonsensical details
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:33 PM
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Lmao what? So ok in your story you just walk in an area in a loud venue where only women congregate and little to no men are over there? Then you just grind on and kiss them with no words spoken and they pass you around to the whole crew? That’s what we’re going with?
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:23 PM
1

Dawg you’re full of shit. You would’ve had a crazy reputation very fast. Women talk way more than you clearly realize. I don’t care how big your university is, your name would’ve been hot in those streets after a couple pickups. There’s other flaws I could point out in this story but that’s the big one
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:10 PM
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So? This story is bullshit but if it wasn’t ... so?
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:04 PM
1

Just don’t react to what they say. If you do, agree and amplify. Unless they start saying wild accusations then you get away from them as fast as possible. A lot of women have learned men are trash rhetoric and it’s really not your fault what happened in her previous relationships
/r/seduction22/07/21 04:52 PM
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One time she was going to meet me outside the restaurant and I saw her and kept driving. Another time this girl had like her high school senior pics or something and showed up much bigger I just blocked her after the date. They know what they’re doing when they pick their pics
/r/seduction21/07/21 05:44 AM
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It’s all a numbers game always. 11 responses might turn into 2 dates. Keep shooting
/r/seduction21/07/21 05:24 AM
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Hey you got a number so that’s cool . Your 15 approaches are better than a lot! If the height bothers you go on Amazon and get some height enhancers. Hit the gym and dress better. I’m sorry the comments about how serious and tough you look are probably low key insults so learn to roll with the punches and have some good witty comebacks to that and then roll into a convo. Having male friends will introduce you to more female potential as well.
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:03 PM
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And you’re usually your biggest critic so if you’re impressed with your body , people have been for awhile
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:01 PM
1

Yea you should ideally be an athlete for life. You can look two different ways at 30, 40, 50 etc. most that look very good as they age keep some kind of fitness plan
/r/seduction19/07/21 11:01 PM
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A 21 year old software engineer makes like what 100k max? You’re going to have to find a “ gold digger” from the 3rd world. Go on seeking arrangements though and try it out
/r/seduction12/07/21 06:52 PM
3

Lol imagine stopping in hour 4 to eat your approaching snacks and thinking I have 4 more hours left to go
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:53 PM
2

You can meet them outside the bar or club but a relationship doesn’t really start until you’ve had sex with them one or two times. You just gotta find common ground when you do see someone you’re interested in.
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:10 PM
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You whacked yourself stupid by 18. Stop whacking it so much. I promise you if you stop beating it for a week, eat some vegetables and do some exercise you’ll be fine.
/r/seduction14/06/21 08:57 PM
2

Strike while the fire is hot and set that date. Shoot that shot. Not one day, today! It doesn’t get easier you get better!
/r/seduction11/06/21 07:10 PM
1

Man if you don’t find some other girls to talk to. Be her friend still you’re young... work on yourself and stay present. One day you may be able to get her in thanksgiving break or something but, no stop obsessing over one girl
/r/seduction08/06/21 06:36 AM
2

Maybe try calling her with plans if she doesn’t answer or get back to you then you have your answer.
/r/seduction26/05/21 08:38 AM
1

Yea they have always liked status all your life. In school they liked the athletes and cool kids. Having a good job and game evens the playing field. Everybody on this planet likes success.
/r/seduction25/05/21 05:44 AM
3

Do what you gotta do man. You get no points for this but I mean you got a date out of it so whatever
/r/seduction20/05/21 09:05 PM
6

All that just to pull a 45 year old?
/r/seduction20/05/21 08:57 PM
2

You’re overthinking it. You have all the time in the world to build an athletic body for yourself. Either they like you or they don’t, but yes they like muscles.
/r/seduction19/05/21 05:06 PM
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Workout 3-5 times a week for life and eat well. You’ll get more results. That’s how it’s been throughout history. A more athletic build is more attractive
/r/seduction19/05/21 10:37 AM
1

How long has it been since high school?
/r/seduction19/05/21 02:33 AM
1

Make concrete plans with her so a day and a time
/r/seduction18/05/21 08:12 PM
1

Get her over to watch movies and make a move, if she says no she’s not down and if she doesn’t say no then you’ll probably clap some cheeks
/r/seduction18/05/21 08:04 PM
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The first one hurts you’ll get thicker skin. I remember one time in college I asked a girl about plans we had made before that weren’t concrete plans. ( always make concrete plans!) and she told me her TV was broken lol
/r/seduction18/05/21 05:45 PM
2

Stop any type of masturbation and porn for about a week and I bet you’ll be like a bat out of hell When you go out. When you tell yourself the only way I’m gonna bust this nut is with a woman you’ll hit the ground running.
/r/seduction18/05/21 06:52 AM
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Hard truth but let’s go there... your IG is in your bio I went to it. I would not take you seriously either. Couple that with having a kid ... no man is gonna be like this is the girl I should take things slow with. Edit: on second read... this is bait to promote the only fans, new account and a sob story to go with it. Nobody better simp and buy it.
/r/seduction18/05/21 06:29 AM
1

Lol she’s on her phone all day. Everyone is.
/r/seduction14/05/21 10:47 PM
1

Yea and you gotta deal with her little texting games. You set yourself apart by even attempting a call. If she answers book you have your little 2 minute convo to set it up. If she doesn’t and she doesn’t get back to you well you have your answer
/r/seduction14/05/21 09:06 PM
1

I’d call her in a couple days. I promise you calling is gonna start working a lot better as the world opens back up s it’s refreshing for them to talk on the phone
/r/seduction14/05/21 08:56 PM
2

As I’ve said 3 times now address your confidence. A woman won’t make you happy. Find a good circle of friends and purpose in life. Stop writing and thinking negative shit about yourself.
/r/seduction13/05/21 08:48 PM
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No one feels sorry for ya bud. Go talk to women . You’re in the right place to learn something but you already are starting at a negative and your results are showing you that. Gotta love yourself first.
/r/seduction13/05/21 05:27 PM
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Dawg your username is ugly and depressed. You clearly have no confidence and it shows. Women like muscles but they’re not looking for muscular dudes who have no confidence
/r/seduction13/05/21 05:01 PM
2

Probably cause she gets hella thirsty dms a day. It is what it is. Choose someone else. If you got her ig up front right there I would’ve called her out on it. Ask her how she built her business or something.
/r/seduction12/05/21 10:05 PM
1

I think it’s funny to see how the type of women that call in think and act. I’m never going for those types anyway ( overweight, older, know- it-all, etc.) but he does teach you how to defeat someone just by asking them questions. His methods are best used on the annoying tag along friend not the one you’re interested in
/r/seduction12/05/21 05:01 PM
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The park. Dog park if you have a dog is bussin with women. Regular park works too though. Church is also pretty good, find a mega church they preach a feel good message loosely based on one bible verse from what I’ve seen. Pretty much always look for day time events to go to.
/r/seduction12/05/21 12:28 AM
1

Yea it shows you that it’s a numbers game for sure... dudes were running around coked out LA doing magic tricks in the club to get “ hot girls” yea ok. One of the biggest read between the lines moments of that book is when he described dating a 19 year old single mom in another country at like 29-30 years of age. Anybody with any options or respect for self isn’t pulling moves like that. Like the guy said above he and his friends are super insecure too.
/r/seduction07/05/21 09:48 PM
2

A loooooooot of women have dogs it’s a good move to do dog play dates and go to dog parks.
/r/seduction06/05/21 09:11 PM
3

Try hiking, rock climbing or house parties I bet there will be women there
/r/seduction06/05/21 09:01 PM
3

The best explanation of this is guys grow up seeing it in every rom com and their female teachers and female influences on their life make them into simps. I saw a woman give dating advice here a few weeks ago or so, and the first thing she wrote was an invalidation of the things that have worked for hundreds here. If someone walked up to me at my job that I’ve been doing for years and been successful and was like hey youre doing it wrong do it this way that I think works I’d ignore them too
/r/seduction06/05/21 07:55 PM
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Go to the gym, get better clothes and fix the damn mindset. Nobody feels sorry for you and nobody cares that a 6”7 dude got it in. What does that have to do with your journey ? You think top basketball players shoot their shots and think “ I suck... I’m gonna miss...that’s definitely not going in” ? No they do the work and practice their ass off to make things happen in big moments. You’re a grown ass man stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something about it.
/r/seduction06/05/21 06:39 PM
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Because they preach the “ nice guy “ thing and want and chase the complete opposite. That advice will usually get you paying for expensive dinners and waiting weeks for some vanilla sex while she gets her back blown out by another dude. Tweets about the guy who doesn’t text back or only hits them up once a week are popular because a lot of women relate to them.
/r/seduction06/05/21 04:55 PM
3

I understand... I feel better the days I go do something before going out time. So like go workout or take the dogs out then you’ll have something to bring up in convo with women while out too. On a side note if that girl blew you off. Some YouTubers say to let them keep following you cause that means they won but I think the best thing to do is remove them on all social apps and keep it pushing.
/r/seduction06/05/21 01:54 PM
2

All these girls have a boyfriend or somebody they’re fucking. That doesn’t matter unless they tell you about it. Guess what they’ll still cheat for the right man
/r/seduction05/05/21 10:52 PM
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Imma say this in the nicest way possible... you go there everyday and only got a Snapchat. I doubt these interactions are going anywhere besides a new orbiter for these women. Go to a new bar and apply what you’ve learned.
/r/seduction05/05/21 07:47 PM
3

You’re going to have to approach above all. Go strike up a conversation. Shoot more shots take more Ls but you’ll get more Ws too.
/r/seduction04/05/21 09:02 AM
1

Fist bump?
/r/seduction03/05/21 08:35 PM
4

The fact that it’s all women. You’re not saying it’s only ones you’re attracted to, or ones that are giving you any signals. Kinda over the top if you see a woman and any one will do for whatever you’re saying to them . Ok let’s look at this from the outside. You’re at a party and a guy or girl is wondering around flirting with EVERYBODY then meandering off no matter what... is that weird as all hell?
/r/seduction30/04/21 09:01 AM
4

One girl. Flirt with ALL women, but never get contact info? Sounds kinda creepy bro.
/r/seduction30/04/21 07:46 AM
2

Any woman bro. But her, if it’s the 4th date especially
/r/seduction29/04/21 07:22 PM
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Yea man you gotta make your move .... she hit you up first and asked you out that’s high interest. MOST women won’t make the first move. Understand that most fun dates lead towards at least a kiss at the end.
/r/seduction29/04/21 01:22 PM
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They all have group chats and talk about most everything. It’s always been like that before digital communication. It’s not a bad thing no.
/r/seduction29/04/21 01:07 PM
1

Yea they’re trying to play the field as much as guys but they get a loooot more interest. She replied to my IG story once and I’ve long moved on. You gotta make them feel the non communication. Some pride themselves on not returning texts
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:17 PM
1

Sounds like you went out with the same woman I did on New Years. Had fun. She texted the next morning. When I hit her up for a second date ... no answer. If she answer great. If she doesn’t answer oh well, if you can get a date with one girl you can get more.
/r/seduction28/04/21 06:18 PM
3

Lmaooo
/r/seduction27/04/21 10:53 PM
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It was written from a person who has obviously been dated and dumped so now wants the beta dude who’s gonna wait , which is fine. It’s funny though that when ppl here disagree they’re incels. Kevin samuels says they use SIGN language Shame Insults Guilt The need to be right Allll on full display here
/r/seduction27/04/21 06:24 PM
1

Very nice! I recently decided to give up the dating apps so any leads I get have to be earned in the streets. I don’t even feel bad once I make the approach it’s always the hesitation before
/r/seduction27/04/21 01:43 AM
3

Have to get the last word in still? Okay congrats on 30+ comments most heavily disagreeing and no upvotes. Again, you win
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:30 PM
1

And if you have years of experience doing something I’d definitely be down to read it. In all honesty, maybe some pre internet days game advice when approaching and meeting people in person was the only option. I’d love to hear about that.
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:19 PM
3

You actually started by minimizing the experience of the entire subreddit lol, you got it tho you win.
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:11 PM
3

You wrote a whole think piece negating the stickied guides here tho. Like stuff that has been practiced and has worked for years oversimplified to you got in her pants high 5. When you received any push back it’s lalalala I can’t hear you.
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:00 PM
2

Just read the first part about what “ game teaches” if that’s not the most bad faith argument thinly veiled as advice
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:44 PM
5

I said what I said. The choice IS mine. Who would I listen to ? My personal experience along with other men’s personal experience , or the woman who blew into town thinking she has it figured out?
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:42 PM
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Don’t take advice on how to catch fish from fish.
/r/seduction26/04/21 09:28 PM
2

Wild story bro, nahh let her contact you first if she has a boyfriend she has to move sneaky.
/r/seduction26/04/21 09:27 PM
5

Yea I talk to other dudes as a jumping off point between sets. They can be your greatest hype man if you’re doing good in the venue but I’m not trying to have a deep conversation
/r/seduction25/04/21 02:09 AM
8

You didn’t get rejected you didn’t even put yourself up to get rejected. Which is worse.
/r/seduction24/04/21 01:29 AM
7

So many podcasts are popping up I think fresh and fit podcast is decent except the women they bring on are so low quality that you gotta ask yourself would you be proud to deal with headaches like that. They do talk about male self improvement though. Your confidence is gonna come from being comfortable in yourself and being your best self.
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:37 PM
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I’m 5”7 never happened But seriously, continue the conversation if you’re interested tell her it’s a couple degrees warmer or cooler up there.
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:20 PM
4

I’m a big fan of indirect openers especially in this social media age where if you don’t pull that day or night and they live in your city you can meet up again. So talk about something to get the conversation going then go from there. Even though she’s attractive, at first you’re just seeing if she’s somebody you can stomach hanging around more in the initial interaction. Obviously if it’s going well try to escalate towards... hanging out, number , etc. For flirting tips: eye contact and as my …
/r/seduction22/04/21 05:35 PM
1

Yeaaa a happy person doesn’t come to a random subreddit they don’t agree with and argue how they feel the participants should act
/r/seduction10/04/21 04:31 PM
1

Lol I knew I was gonna find gold In the post history. You’re mad because men your age go for younger women. That’s it. Everybody should exercise their options and if they can start a conversation in a mall. Why not?
/r/seduction09/04/21 09:24 PM
1

Bro dm me I’m in Vegas
/r/seduction09/04/21 03:14 PM
4

I think agree with models and how to be a 3% man. You’re gonna need to read books like these multiple times to get anything out of them. Some other good ones are atomic attraction, undercover sex signals, the subtle art of not giving a fuck, how to win friends and influencing people. Question is what are you looking for?
/r/seduction04/04/21 08:01 PM
1

Dont set the goal as one girl. That’s way too low of a bar even if you were experienced. Set it higher, then do it. 5 hours is a VERY long time to not talk to one person there’s not much there to say beyond rip the band aid off and have a 2 minute conversation or continue to spend 300 minutes of wasted time
/r/seduction02/04/21 11:57 AM
2

I need stats on these women in the threesome just to get a better picture: age, weight, height. Feel free to spitball the answers
/r/seduction27/03/21 02:25 AM
2

That flow state does go crazyyy people don’t even get how I’m so confident once I’m goin
/r/seduction26/03/21 02:26 AM
2

Ok I’ll level with you , I was in Florida for a week like someone mentioned above actually and it was actually crackin. So one night at last call I slid on a ugly girl. She made me talk to her about Witcher 3 then said she didn’t wanna go home. I tried to get her number she said I could have her snap I just walked away. It was a waste of my night and time lol. If I get to a venue at 10 I only have 4 hours to work... really 2 because hot women don’t stay out too late. As long as attractive ones a…
/r/seduction26/03/21 01:19 AM
1

You get rejected by ugly women and keep score. That’s what you just wrote, that’s a sad way to have game. I mean do you, I’m just throwing in my 2 cents. Which is irrelevant because it’s your life
/r/seduction26/03/21 12:47 AM
1

Man oh man clown behavior
/r/seduction25/03/21 09:24 PM
2

The internet is bizzarro world they hyper obsess over getting women but won’t do the work to improve themselves. I know a guy who lives at home at 30 is on the internet all day... the last time I saw him I told him he’d have to change his diet, exercise and attitude. I even gave him some books. 10 months later he hasn’t done a damn thing. Dudes just don’t wanna compete.
/r/seduction25/03/21 06:24 PM
2

That’s half of this subreddit at this point lol. One guy went to the joker with a girl over a year ago and continues to ask if he has a chance with her every few weeks. The irony of that is thick.
/r/seduction25/03/21 06:12 PM
1

That’s 155 lbs at 6 ft. So yea hit the gym for 3-6 months and you’ll be lean and in pretty good shape. For example I’m roughly 155 at 5”7 but I’ve been in the gym for 5 years. Look up a beginner 4-5 day split and go from there. Start now, don’t injure yourself and keep this up for as many years as possible. Consistency is always key
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:51 PM
0

Sounds like you’ll take anything that comes along and call it a “game.” I’m sure when you guys group up and talk to each other at the venue people see that you guys are together going around with no social calibration together. This is terrible for your game. Especially the part about sliding it at girls you don’t find attractive.
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:47 PM
1

You need to hit the gym. You’re definitely not skinny either. Very much so bordering on dad bod/average. At 6 ft tall after 3-6 months in the gym seriously you could do some damage.
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:43 PM
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Get them to hang out one on one and escalate from there if they are comfortable. Maybe start a conversation with them you cannot walk up to a woman and ask them hey wanna bang. Even if you’re a male model. I believe a study was done decades ago that if a attractive man came out the gate with this question over 90% of woman would still say no
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:40 PM
1

Lol what? I’m sure your gf has texted another guy in that same timeframe bro.
/r/seduction25/03/21 04:27 AM
9

Boy quoted models... love to see it. Real confidence is way more fun and less exhausting
/r/seduction24/03/21 03:33 PM
1

What do you mean by cleaned up off the net?
/r/seduction24/03/21 09:11 AM
1

I’m trying to find spots in my city to frequent just creating myself a plan right now. Today I’m going to walk my dogs in a park near my house and scope out the vibe of the area. Tomorrow I’ll do an outdoor mall
/r/seduction23/03/21 08:21 PM
2

Cool I need to work on my day game and I deleted my dating apps to give myself the hunger to not sit at home. Imma try it out thanks bro.
/r/seduction23/03/21 07:30 PM
1

What’s your typical direct approach?
/r/seduction23/03/21 07:13 PM
3

This is why I like indirect openers but I go beyond one sentence or observation if they kinda freeze up from the first part. For instance, if I were to talk to someone at the bar and say “ this drink is actually strong” and they just stare at me I might say “ I know a drink is strong when I’m happy to be standing I couldn’t drink this sitting down.” Most people usually see it as confidence and respond positively if you look them dead in the eye say something once and if they don’t respond just s…
/r/seduction23/03/21 06:46 PM
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My last “ approach “ was at an airport bar. She didn’t ignore me when I sat down she glanced over several times as I got my drink and she also straightened her posture. I was watching her through my peripheral vision and eventually just turned my head and asked an indirect opener of where are you flying to? We went from there talking about our trips. I Instagram closed her because obviously she was flying elsewhere Read undercover sex signals it’s a book by I think leil londes.
/r/seduction23/03/21 05:35 PM
2

Yessir I shoot more shots and more accurate shots at more attractive women. I know that you’ll probably have a better chance of hearing back from a woman that you talk to during the day vs at night. If you’re out in the “field “ often you know you make your own luck. I would look hella goofy talking about “ she didn’t like me there must be a star nearby that she wants more”
/r/seduction19/03/21 05:33 PM
1

This is that black pill nonsense. A whole movement based around some people will like you and some people won’t. We learned that in the first grade but dudes are now producing hour long videos on it
/r/seduction19/03/21 05:09 PM
2

“ some men are stronger and smarter than others” no shit my guy You really wrote that people are delusional if they think they can do it all in life. That is stating the obvious bro. Where is the lesson in what you just wrote? It was a bunch of words but no substance.
/r/seduction19/03/21 04:56 PM
1

Dudes off....in his post history he says he Irish dances at school and wonders why people pay attention to him. Like my dude if someone breaks out in random dance in the airport lounge I’m in right now I’m gonna look.
/r/seduction13/03/21 05:28 PM
2

In my example they are both going out and approaching one just read up before trying. Here’s the thing you obviously have a bias that the stuff here doesn’t work and the internet dudes are charlatans ( which a lot of them are) so it’s up to you to weed out the good and the bad techniques.
/r/seduction13/03/21 03:17 PM
2

That’s an opinion not a question. Who’s more prepared someone who reads SOME type of strategy even if it’s flawed or someone who goes in with nothing?
/r/seduction13/03/21 03:10 PM
3

It’s mad early on a Saturday morning man... can you clarify the question? Is there even a question? How old are you?
/r/seduction13/03/21 03:06 PM
4

Bro what the entire hell? Why is your entire post history about wood? And fire too I guess?
/r/seduction13/03/21 03:03 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:41 AM
1

Talk about what she’s showing behind her on the walls and shit. Also if you can try and see the vibe of her space if she’s at home it’ll tell you a lot
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:40 AM
1

You answered your own question.
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:38 AM
3

Yea you were wildin within the first 3 sentences but at least you’re learning these lessons young. Girls don’t go out of their way to hang out with dorks that confess their feelings to them before you’ve even hung out
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:37 AM
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Dudes are in the super markets and malls more and more. One dude just stopped me and rambled about my hoodie at the grocery store and worked talking about nothing on me for about 3 minutes. It was a monologue. I continuously see him in there walking around with one item patrolling now lol.
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:00 AM
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Lol you just wanna argue buddy. That’s a weak line “ you probably have other guys” yea...but she’s hearing it on dating apps and still isn’t interested in the guy but is taking the compliment as facts. If these were guys she was interested in she would go out with them.
/r/seduction05/03/21 01:39 AM
21

I still get women from the apps but it’s always better to meet in person and connect from there. I wish you the best!
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:44 PM
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No offense but men from dating apps will say anything. As someone said below you gotta give them signals such as looks and even a smile for them to approach. If they’re not approaching it could be you.
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:30 PM
1

That’s called post nut clarity
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:27 PM
1

I’ve been approaching at night and doing decently really surprising myself but I need to find daygame locations my city ( Vegas) is so dead
/r/seduction24/02/21 01:37 AM
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Yup you gotta be able to take the bold steps but also read the room. I think things will be a little different once the pandemic lets up. We all have mostly been shooting our shots on dating apps pulling girls out in public is so much more fun and exciting for both parties
/r/seduction23/02/21 06:49 PM
1

Why do dudes come here and lie? No story ? You just tried it and it worked and we should try what exactly? What are you even talking about? Beyond the non story and random scene from a movie I say you’re lying cause you write sex stories on Reddit. Straight fantasy.
/r/seduction23/02/21 06:45 PM
2

My boy told me he was hitting on retail workers at the mall I need to really get my store/ mall game up. When I do approach I usually have a pretty good close rate good call on that line I like it
/r/seduction23/02/21 05:59 PM
1

You gotta know that you are in the top percentage of men and women all want men like you no matter what they bring to the table. Watch ‘ Kevin samuels’ on YouTube... he has women call in and no matter their circumstances in life they all want an attractive 6 figure man. Men like you don’t grow on trees. Use that mindset, and go talk to women. That confidence in who you are is important.
/r/seduction23/02/21 05:55 PM
5

You thought she would still like you 2 years later? Nope I would say women move on faster. You gotta boss your life up forget her and move on to bigger and better adventures
/r/seduction23/02/21 05:53 PM
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Yea bro and some don’t wanna look single SO bad that they’ll post anyone. Yesterday was a collection of people going out sad on social media.
/r/seduction15/02/21 05:10 PM
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She’s 22 youre 30 just wait. You both have a lot of years left on this planet she’ll come back around or she won’t and from what it seems you got other options and opportunities so eh. I’m not worried about dropping one skittle when I have a whole bag of skittles
/r/seduction15/02/21 05:08 PM
1

Man it’s the gym everybody is hopped up on preworkout and looking in themselves in the mirror. I doubt she’s thinking lemme go stand in front of one guy at the gym and point my booty at him. That being said, shooters shoot if you’re feeling froggy leap.
/r/seduction03/02/21 06:55 PM
1

There too many dudes that come here for advice then their post history is beyond crazy. Obsessive even. They need male mentors.
/r/seduction03/02/21 09:11 AM
1

This. I have propelled my life forward while practicing game and I have guys that I came up in game with that stayed stuck. Sure they pull at times but they stopped focusing on fitness, still go to venues for younger people and haven’t increased their income. My options are a lot better by leading a more attractive life.
/r/seduction03/02/21 08:41 AM
1

It’s the confidence for one. If you are going to approach you cannot be laughing while saying it that’s wild. Would you take someone seriously who was giggling while trying to pick you up to start an intimate relationship? Try indirect if you’re new and get the woman hooked into the conversation before you start trying anything
/r/seduction03/02/21 08:37 AM
1

When I see weird posts I like to look at the history. That doesn’t mean I give a crap who you are in real life. You know what I’m saying.
/r/seduction31/01/21 08:26 PM
1

I’m not looking for you bro. Just seems like lies and feeling sorry for yourself isn’t getting you anywhere
/r/seduction30/01/21 04:58 PM
1

Why do you change your age throughout your posting history ?
/r/seduction30/01/21 08:23 AM
1

So ok what is your point? Honestly? You are a middle aged man complaining that people are uglier than others. Uh okay? Quit being fragile about things you can’t change.
/r/seduction27/01/21 12:33 PM
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You’ll look better if you groom, hit the gym and practice good skin care than if you didn’t. Don’t take a defeatist mentality. Ugly dudes have been pulling women for thousands of years.
/r/seduction27/01/21 12:05 PM
1

It’s not as bad as you think it’s going to be just go plant your feet and talk to them. As another commenter said you’ll know if they’re interested pretty quickly. My last approach I went talked to a 2 set commented that they were wearing the same shoes. They didn’t hook at this point so I continued to ask them if they had watched a sporting event that was big and got some response that they hadn’t so I explained what happened. At the point that they saw I was bold enough to approach and start a…
/r/seduction27/01/21 09:16 AM
1

It’s 2021 and the world is globally connected. He could be doing much worse looking at pictures is pretty normal. Don’t bring trust issues into a new relationship.
/r/seduction27/01/21 09:05 AM
1

What signs has she shown, if any that’s she’s interested? You should be able to tell
/r/seduction14/01/21 04:22 AM
1

This would mean nothing if you still lived in the same city. She lives states away and just moved there. You thinking about moving there because of a text? Stop, she just remembers good times between you guys and wanted to send you a hello. If you have positive experiences with women they’ll contact you from time to time because at the end of the day you’re still cordial. Edit: Oh wait I just read you were a post mates driver that showed back up later with a cupcake and laughed. Mannnn
/r/seduction14/01/21 04:08 AM
1

I love the nba example. There’s 400 or so players. And thousands that want that spot. There’s always competition if you are a high value man you can slide to the front of most of those dudes off pictures and the rest off your opener
/r/seduction08/01/21 06:41 PM
1

You grew your hair like slightly but you look the same bro
/r/seduction06/01/21 10:20 PM
1

You never knew this? Of course there’s more competition it’s easier to get into the contest. There’s always competition though, might as well have an app to work sticking points and see what works and what doesn’t.
/r/seduction06/01/21 10:20 PM
2

Yup everything in your post history is negative. I knew before I looked, the kicked dog yelps the loudest
/r/seduction06/01/21 01:50 PM
2

Man I been doing game awhile but last year I took up reading it helped leaps and bounds. There’s always room to improve if your mind is open
/r/seduction05/01/21 09:27 PM
1

Yessir! This is what they need to hear
/r/seduction05/01/21 08:11 PM
2

Don’t trust it. If they are giving hypothetical advice or give a field report where they didnt do anything, it’s not inspiring. If someone without a drivers license tries to tell you how to drive would you listen ?
/r/seduction05/01/21 01:28 AM
2

I saw the follow up pic my bad dawg
/r/seduction04/01/21 07:55 PM
2

So like where do you plan do go from here because I mean... you’re in a hole. If you can get her out this is impressive but otherwise lol you’re saying you don’t back down from a fight with women. Ok?
/r/seduction04/01/21 07:41 PM
2

Hahaha the field is the best spot to be , learn by doing, learn by mentorship. When I first turned 21 I found dudes that went out and were suscessful and I learned from them. How to walk in the club how to dress my best. They told me when I was acting weird etc. most of these dudes need a friend that’s willing to roast them but these perpetual victims can’t stand the heat.
/r/seduction04/01/21 07:25 PM
2

This forum has gone crazy since I first started using it a couple years ago. Dudes who never grow up from being obsessed with 1 girl for long periods of time. Dudes who just tell flat out lies about sex that don’t make sense. Then all the complainers wanting the world to get easier so they can succeed. It’s honestly sad.
/r/seduction04/01/21 07:20 PM
3

From their post history they are just an uncontrollably horny dude
/r/seduction04/01/21 07:14 PM
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Lol I’ve seen you bring the guy up 5+ times as “ my dads buddy. “ Why don’t you start hanging with him so he can be your friend?
/r/seduction04/01/21 07:04 PM
2

Only drink with women you’re talking to. So I only get a shot if she gets one too. Obviously be into a conversation for a few minutes and use the drink to escalate the situation
/r/seduction04/01/21 09:16 AM
1

Read , apply, and approach then. Put yourself in situations where you meet the women you want to. There’s an nba player who’s 1 -25 from 3 right now. Is he gonna stop shooting for the rest of the season? Probably not. That’s more than likely how PUA roll. Go somewhere with hella women and do the ol numbers game
/r/seduction03/01/21 08:01 PM
2

The things that work from Corey wayne and models are the parts about neediness and when to contact. One thing that has helped me is : think about before communication was so easy, Women didn’t know when they would see a man next so it left them waiting and wondering. You gotta be on your mission, not texting them all day and only using the phone to set dates. Both books also go into how to dress and groom yourself. Both books tell you to ask women out. I’m not there to be friends and I’m damn su…
/r/seduction03/01/21 07:50 PM
3

The game is a look at how it can go wrong in my opinion sure they pulled women. But mystery drove himself crazy and Neil Strauss was a grown ass man dating a 19 year old single mom. That’s wild to me, those techniques are good at short term stuff but mentally once they were in deep water. ( past like 4 weeks of dating) they were sunk. Read models by mark manson and how to be a 3% man by Corey wayne.
/r/seduction03/01/21 07:15 PM
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Yea of course. Although if you have any clout you’re more intriguing. Most of the time you still have to make your intentions known still
/r/seduction02/01/21 03:42 PM
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Don’t be average then. There’s material out there to help you get better, but you SHOULD be working on your fashion, career and fitness. If you don’t wanna put in the work don’t complain. The women come when you accomplish some goals.
/r/seduction02/01/21 03:04 PM
1

If homie honestly thinks they’re going months just waiting for the right “ nice guy” to come along when they can open an app on their phone and find a new dude at any time I have no sympathy for ya.
/r/seduction02/01/21 02:57 PM
7

No he’s not.
/r/seduction02/01/21 02:38 PM
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I’d add on watch yourself on following influencers. I don’t care that she’s hot and has 40k followers what do I gain from watching her dance to Megan thee stallion?
/r/seduction02/01/21 01:09 PM
3

My guy you kissed a girl that lives two hours away and haven’t seen much. That is not your girlfriend, spin other plates.
/r/seduction01/01/21 08:18 PM
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Start meeting new women bro. Don’t be orbiting girls that you don’t actively hangout with. And learn how to make your intentions known so you don’t get put in the no zone
/r/seduction01/01/21 04:41 AM
1

Go look up the lyrics to mrs officer by lil Wayne and throw a line from there in her dms and see what happens. Shooters shoot
/r/seduction29/12/20 01:48 AM
1

It’s a soft curve... if you come in the dms strong it may work otherwise you’re just another orbiter following her boring ass IG.
/r/seduction29/12/20 01:45 AM
1

Well now is the best time to work on yourself for when the pandemic breaks. Is your mind right? Is your fashion right? Are you in the gym 4 times a week?
/r/seduction28/12/20 02:46 AM
1

Dating apps are very over saturated right now apparently. Download some and put some good pics on there. Then shoot your shot
/r/seduction28/12/20 02:38 AM
2

If you need a slightly more experienced mentor message me! I have about 4 years into this. I find teaching helps me improve too.
/r/seduction22/12/20 07:10 PM
1

If you have prime I believe it’s free as an audio book
/r/seduction20/12/20 06:50 PM
1

Read undercover sex signals be leil londes to learn choosing signals tho
/r/seduction20/12/20 06:43 PM
1

Sometimes it be like that. You learn by doing though. Who’s better at shooting a 3? The person who has thought about it or the person who has done it 1000 times? Game is a journey and a skill
/r/seduction20/12/20 06:42 PM
2

Just gotta go. The worse can happen is she laughs at you or ignores you and you’ll never see her again. If you accept these things then it’s easy. Any progress is progress so just keep building blocks
/r/seduction20/12/20 06:13 PM
2

I think with all beginners drunk game is where it starts then they move on to sober game. Day game is a harder learning curve that a lot of people NEVER get to. Just start studying though videos and books observe what works and what doesn’t. Your game is your game so take lessons from everyone
/r/seduction20/12/20 06:06 PM
2

What do you like to do? Do you go to church? Where can you go to an abnormal place to do this and still be comfortable. I.e Say you hike at one spot and see the same people... where can you go hike and see different people possibly women and be comfortable in the element
/r/seduction20/12/20 05:39 PM
2

You sound suppper low value man. Focus on raising that up to where women want to match you. Take some good pics in some good outfits in some good locations.
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:32 PM
1

Dude in 2020 these women are not pulling punches. If you step outta whatever paradigm they or their group chat expects you to be they move on to the next option, you better be constantly meeting and having fun with new women.
/r/seduction16/10/20 07:32 PM
2

Women want what other women want. I put other girls on my stories all the time. I treat women who hang out with me and are easy to meet up with the best... if they don’t want to spend time because you have other options they were going to flake anyway, they just want an orbiter.
/r/seduction16/10/20 07:24 PM
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Wow dude I just looked through this thread and even though good advice was spread throughout the incels downvoted everyone lol. Not that I give a flying fuck about my votes, but still super lame
/r/seduction20/09/20 04:20 PM
3

Exactly this seduction subreddit has turned into another place for dudes to come complain. You can’t fix ethnicity, height or anything, but you can dress better and workout so some of his complaints are just invalid. If a woman doesn’t like you when you’re truly at your best. There’s plenty more out there.
/r/seduction20/09/20 04:18 PM
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Why are you worried about them? You shouldn’t be threatened by them there’s only one person in the world who’s taller, faster, richer , etc. everyone else is lesser. It is what it is. Be the best you.
/r/seduction19/09/20 11:25 PM
1

What do you want me to do about that? I just gave you the blueprint. I’m sure you’ll be back in a day or so with the same posts, because you don’t want to do anything you just want to complain. It takes work. Put in the work or continue down this path.
/r/seduction17/09/20 11:56 PM
1

My guy, you’re very very needy. Most people including women are not attracted to that. You need to focus on bettering yourself through your social life and activities. Get into lifting and hiking and dressing better. Make some male friends who can be your mentor. Stop complaining in these online echo chambers like forever alone, it is doing nothing for you. Having women like you isn’t the key to a good life , having a good life is the key to women liking you.
/r/seduction17/09/20 11:52 PM
1

What does this mean?
/r/seduction17/09/20 11:45 PM
3

Ask her what’s her schedule and meet up with her. I promise you you’re not setting yourself apart from the pack asking about her day. The guy from her 7th grade biology class probably still texts her that.
/r/seduction10/09/20 12:26 AM
4

Obviously you’re not interested, don’t waste your energy.
/r/seduction08/09/20 01:06 AM
1

I was gonna type it out but it just wasn’t worth my time lol. If you smash who says “ I fingered AND fucked” nobody says that.
/r/seduction07/09/20 03:18 AM
3

No it’s not dude I can point out what parts of that story make it seem like fiction, but that’s a waste of time it’s very unbelievable.
/r/seduction07/09/20 12:24 AM
7

This is fiction.
/r/seduction07/09/20 12:14 AM
4

So I hear... are you gonna let that stop you though, or are you going to overcome any obstacle?
/r/seduction05/09/20 07:29 PM
1

Look imma leave you with this dude. It seems like you’re hanging out 1 on 1 which is good. Just stop being afraid to take an L. Everybody takes Ls. Lebron James is one of the greatest nba players ever but has lost in the finals 6 times. He’s lost more times than he’s won. He still consistently works his ass off to get there to that high level. Is he REALLY taking a L if you look at it like that?
/r/seduction05/09/20 07:16 PM
1

Shooters shoot, don’t wonder what if next time come at her with the confidence that this girl likes you too and act accordingly.
/r/seduction05/09/20 07:08 PM
1

So when I was like 18 freshman year of college we would like text girls and ask them if they wanted to cuddle and watch movies and stuff. Sometimes it worked sure but it’s not the game plan I would go with anymore. Now I try and make concrete plans at a certain time and escalate on her indicators of interest. How is she when she’s around you? Any touching, especially body contact? Prolonged eye contact? Laughing at trash jokes?
/r/seduction05/09/20 07:04 PM
0

You spending time with her communicates that you enjoy her company. You’re going to have to make a move. You don’t want to make it sound more than friends you want to make it more than friends. It sounds like already you could be in a hole already
/r/seduction05/09/20 07:00 PM
1

Cool cool be aloof about all that. Don’t spill your feelings just have fun when you’re together whatever you’re doing when you’re not with her isn’t her business unless you guys are committed
/r/seduction05/09/20 06:56 PM
1

Do not confess shit. If you haven’t met up especially. Women take longer to fall than men, you WILL 100% scare her away if you say you love her
/r/seduction05/09/20 06:53 PM
1

You make someone comfortable with you and the connection, then make moves leading towards it.
/r/seduction05/09/20 06:51 PM
2

Lol I swear all you guys say the same thing “ I’m just this way on the internet” complete bullshit. You should not be on the internet spewing such self hate either but I don’t believe for a second you aren’t this way in real life. I dead ass can link you to comments of other hyper negative dudes who try to make the same claim.
/r/seduction31/08/20 05:15 PM
2

If a woman approached you do you think your depressing outlook wouldn’t scare her off?
/r/seduction31/08/20 05:12 PM
2

Your are the harbinger of your reality. The longer you keep coming to the internet to post your self hate, the longer it’ll last. Get yourself a mentor that you can trust that’ll hangout with you and teach you the ropes. I don’t want a negative response from you so if you have one cued up please save it. This negativity isn’t helping anyone including you.
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:53 PM
2

I mean when it was started like 10 years ago PUA stuff was still viable. When I started visiting 4 years ago dudes were actually still doing field reports. Now it’s usually angry virgins lashing out and younger guys looking for advice ( aka confidence to act) I’m 27, what has helped me is confidence, showing an attractive lifestyle, dressing well and being out there. Women like FUN. Don’t be boring.
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:42 PM
2

Nobody is actually doing pick up artist stuff anymore like magic tricks and peacocking anymore bro. Yes women have some unrealistic expectations but it sounds like you do too. Work on yourself. Stop being in these complaining echo chamber conversations. Look at this dudes post history he’s a mess, he has zero experience with women and you’re agreeing with his poor me post.
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:33 PM
2

You finished with “facts” after you gave an angry opinion.
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:18 PM
2

Women were still calling zac effron short. And so what if he is? Too many people just lay down and die thinking because they think they’re not attractive. Give me 3 months in the gym and a couple trips to the clothing store and I can have most dudes getting more attention than they thought possible. It’s all mindset. How do you overcome ?
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:17 PM
2

Take her for ice cream. Rolled ice cream if you have it in your town. It’s a cool thing to do for summer and it costs like 10 dollars for two.
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:11 PM
1

Yea I totally understand bro, the game is changed due to apps and social media they have a lot more attention on em. You can def try again in like 2 weeks of no contact too though
/r/seduction21/08/20 12:13 AM
2

From what I gather, she’s hitting you up first and trying to talk. Good. Make definite plans to hangout, see if you mesh in person and go from there
/r/seduction20/08/20 06:07 AM
1

Yea if she’s not willing to hangout 1 on 1 especially on the first meet you’ll be dealing with her friends and more than likely at least one of them is going to be bitter for some reason and try you. Also, respect the curve if she wasn’t replying don’t double and triple text. Definitely cut her off unless she’s down to make definite plans.
/r/seduction20/08/20 06:04 AM
13

Yesssir that’s all there is! But don’t be needy for attention no one is better than you and worth being put on a pedestal. You get the energy you put out
/r/seduction15/08/20 08:16 AM
1

Nope that’s not your problem if she wants to tell you about her man or men that’s on her. You’re only worried about you and her.
/r/seduction14/08/20 10:14 PM
3

What the hell? The divide between AFC and dudes who get it gets larger and larger
/r/seduction14/08/20 09:58 PM
1

You shouldn’t be a jerk. You should stand up for yourself and be assertive but not rude. If your friends left you, you’re acting out. Especially that “ I really tried to play it up” part. You need to apologize to the friends you lost and learn how to be assertive but not be rude
/r/seduction12/08/20 03:34 PM
4

You got this obsessed over a woman you found on the explore page meaning she gets a lot of attention. She didn’t even open your message bro. There was no reason to write this man. Did you honestly think adding her snap that she posted on her story was gonna get you a girl from clear across the United States? NEVER let yourself get THIS invested in a girl you haven’t been dating for like 3 months and even then it’s excessive.
/r/seduction12/08/20 06:08 AM
1

That makes the story make less sense.
/r/seduction06/08/20 12:49 AM
1

So he approached while she was jogging while you were jogging and then eventually somehow they were walking ahead of you for an hour on your jog? Niiiice Lol annnd you edited the original post after you got called out
/r/seduction06/08/20 12:47 AM
1

All good no hate here. I want to help, that was a very distinct way of typing if you ever texted like that, she didn’t need to save your number she knew who you are. Not getting your number saved is fine though
/r/seduction04/08/20 02:41 PM
1

Number one- you have to make your intentions known. You can’t jus save up your feelings. These girls know who their orbiters are and since you didn’t shoot your shot she already sees it. Number two- please never ever type out a paragraph like this ever again. In conclusion, look for other options while keeping her on your radar, if you do like a girl next time ask her schedule and to do something one on one, you’ll realize where you stand. Finally, dawg this paragraph like c’mon.
/r/seduction04/08/20 06:48 AM
2

Drinking and partying. I wasn’t shy and had successes before but I had no idea why. I’m a lot stronger now after about 3 years of study. Todd is pretty good. Corey Wayne also helped me.
/r/seduction04/08/20 06:36 AM
1

Good shit good shit. Follow some male fashion instagrams for fashion advice. Those are great progressions though. I also highly recommend you get some experience under your belt with some online dating. Get a good group of male friends you trust and can talk about these things with.
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:10 AM
1

Yea I usually pay but it’s usually like 40-60 dollars for dinner and drinks for two nothing too crazy. A lot of times the girl will pick up the next date too.
/r/seduction03/08/20 04:12 AM
2

Try to drive together so they can either come to your place or go to their. Just straight up ask them to come over. Have some interesting thing to go to your house for. You probably won’t need to use whatever that is if you make a move once you get there but have it.
/r/seduction03/08/20 12:08 AM
1

I mean you’re learning sure, but there’s almost no way you’ve approached 75 women and gotten zero results unless you’re coming off kinda weird. What else are you doing to improve yourself? I.E are you dressing better etc? What were you wearing when you approached these last few women
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:10 PM
2

This is the blind trying to lead the blind
/r/seduction02/08/20 09:19 PM
2

Yes sir!
/r/seduction02/08/20 07:49 PM
11

I know you’re joking but I really highly recommend reading it bro. It helped me immensely. Models intro called me out on a lot of my mistakes in the past
/r/seduction02/08/20 07:20 PM
4

You care about how fast you busted while smashing a prostitute?? Did you wanna last forever and hang out with the prostitute longer or something? That’s nonsense, if you cum quick on the first tome with a girl ok? Go for round 2. You’ll last longer each subsequent time you hit man
/r/seduction02/08/20 06:37 PM
1

Did they give you any choosing signals before you approached?
/r/seduction02/08/20 05:25 PM
47

Take from both of them. Both tell you to get into shape and improve your life. Both tell you to ask women to hangout and be confident. Both tell you to not spend a lot on dates and move on from women who don’t give you the time of day. Now YOU have to get out there and get in the field and see what works for YOU!
/r/seduction02/08/20 04:47 PM
1

First contact to first kiss is like 3 hours off dating apps right now
/r/seduction02/08/20 04:40 PM
3

Have confidence in yourself. Believe me, I was looking through guys tinder yesterday with a woman I had over and most of them are losing up front. If you get an attractive match: that’s a win come with funny confidence in your first message not something beta like “ I know you probably get a lot of messages... “ If she messages back: (it’s a numbers game, accept this) ask her to hang out within a few messages. Getting that message back is still a win. On the hangout: be confident. Believe me her…
/r/seduction31/07/20 07:27 PM
1

No guy is only looking for friendship from a girl they find attractive and they’re too scared to talk to. If you were only looking for friendship why are you this aggressive ?
/r/seduction23/07/20 06:53 PM
1

My guy she 100% notices you hovering around, you should just talk to her.
/r/seduction23/07/20 06:17 PM
2

What the??? So you haven’t talked at all? How is that a cockblock?
/r/seduction23/07/20 06:09 PM
1

Reply to one of her stories then after 1-2 messages thank her for coming to your show. Obviously she has to reply to your reply so make it a good one!
/r/seduction13/07/20 01:19 AM
1

As always the staples are work out, dress better, and listen for opportunities to get them talking. That’s it! You’ll do a lot better if you do these 3 things
/r/seduction13/07/20 12:01 AM
1

People are more than likely out shopping , or doing activities they couldn’t do before. At 18, social circle game still worked for me as I was either in my college town or hometown. It’s summer, make male friends and when they invite you to do something branch out that way!
/r/seduction21/06/20 08:06 PM
1

Maybe not usually, I get a drink and move around and talk to people. In your home city you’ll see people multiple times so meet some of the other dudes early. Once you’re advanced enough no other man is a threat so it’s easy to talk to them. Later on in the night they can give you social proof as they’ll walk up during your sets and stuff and you can dap em up ask them how their night is going and then continue the set. I really hate the dance floor , this maybe just me but there is truly too ma…
/r/seduction10/06/20 06:08 PM
3

Yea man as always dress well. Just because you can get in somewhere in a t shirt you don’t want to be the most underdressed there. Check out some men’s style Instagram pages. Additionally, I usually get a fade weekly to look fresh. Go in, have fun. I don’t pull too many approaches early unless I see a girl who I saw me before come enter my 3 ft radius. Then I’ll start talking. Once you get that first approach in you’ll probably warm up. When I was brand new to it I would try to get shot down as …
/r/seduction10/06/20 09:39 AM
2

True I still go out, my game evolved a lot by going out all the time and it keeps it sharp. I’m 26 now, and I’m over being on the dance floor for get low and back that azz up, but I have a good time with my friends and branch out to meet women in there still. It’s great for beginners if you’re willing to learn! I have a group in my social circle that no matter what we tell them eventually any time a woman interacts with them they’re buying them a free drink and then the woman dips out.
/r/seduction09/06/20 07:52 PM
2

Remember don’t ask her per se. if I’m sliding on a girl imma say when are you free this week? Sweet Tuesday at 8 pm let’s do x. You quickly know where you stand and this is a confident move.
/r/seduction09/06/20 06:52 AM
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Yea bro just ask her her schedule and set a concrete time to meet up. You’ll know where you stand quickly. I play zero games anymore. Everyone wants that gratification of guys simping for them. Either they’re TRULY trying to get to know you better or not.
/r/seduction09/06/20 06:49 AM
1

What did she send ?
/r/seduction09/06/20 06:45 AM
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Treat her like a celebrity and she’ll treat you like a fan. I never understand why dudes comment on every pic a girl posts. If they send it to me directly I’ll say something though.
/r/seduction08/06/20 06:35 AM
1

Nobody asked for your made up life story , your genes are going to die with you. Loser. No one living that pure of a life is on reddit being an angry sorry sack to random people. Where did I even mention a body count? You really are projecting get therapy.
/r/seduction30/05/20 02:19 AM
1

You dont give a shit , but you provided pictures and keep writing paragraphs. You’re the loser here bud.
/r/seduction29/05/20 03:20 PM
1

You commented on my thread so... yes you asked me to comment. You said they refused to do it and now you walked it back and it’s they said it wouldn’t look good to you. Still wouldn’t happen. Yes I’ve been out of my house what a weird question. Lol
/r/seduction28/05/20 07:02 PM
1

“ every barber has declined doing one” lol what? That doesn’t happen and how is your hair too thin... never mind once someone blatantly lies I’m out.
/r/seduction28/05/20 01:37 PM
1

See not bad great progress ok, get rid of the glasses , for good. I’ve been wearing contacts for years and get a fade. It’s the hair style right now that is in. Then get a more form fitting shirt. Seriously target has great t shirts for like 5 dollars each. Finally, get some accessories. Like a necklace. You got potential man fasho. Again, congrats on the weight loss but we’re not there yet! Your picture game is lacking too you gotta own that shit really pose for pictures.
/r/seduction23/05/20 03:50 PM
1

I know you don’t want to hear this but it’d be wise to date around and see what you like and dislike from experience. You don’t wanna long jump into a relationship and neither do women. If you give them that vibe it’s a turn off. You sound like you have some success in life , now focus on communication skills and you’ll be on your way.
/r/seduction22/05/20 02:40 AM
1

What are you talking about? What does fetal alcohol syndrome have to do with anything? Ok dude you’re right. You have friends and are a well rounded emotionally mature person it’s an anomaly why women don’t like you. 🤧🤧
/r/seduction19/05/20 03:30 PM
1

You just didn’t respond to the part about 8% bf huh? How old are you dude? Like seriously? I feel like you’re a bit too old to have these viewpoints and definitely too old to be throwing insults like retarded and autistic around. Nobody is going to get offended by a sexless loser like you bucko.
/r/seduction19/05/20 03:07 PM
1

Lol you need some therapy bro
/r/seduction19/05/20 12:15 AM
1

Dude you said you were 185 8% bf. Post a picture to prove it. Everything you’re saying is out of your ass. You’re insecure as hell man. Where did you pull that statistic from? Your ass?
/r/seduction19/05/20 12:01 AM
2

I’m not reading that until you utilize the paragraph.
/r/seduction18/05/20 06:13 PM
3

Yea man, everything you have posted is angry and cynical. The kicked dog screams the loudest. You obviously are hurt, and unsuccessful. Do you have a male mentor in real life that can help you?
/r/seduction18/05/20 03:50 PM
1

I definitely said target, there is a difference between the clothing options. They can’t tell what store a t shirt comes from. It’s about the fit of the clothing.
/r/seduction18/05/20 03:45 PM
1

You are a friend to her sorry boss. Available to talk all day and very nice to her.
/r/seduction18/05/20 01:52 PM
1

You sent a meme??? Homie...
/r/seduction18/05/20 04:18 AM
2

Lol thank you! I think I may do a write up about fashion
/r/seduction16/05/20 02:46 PM
2

I would say target is cheaper, open , and the clothing fits better. When you go in there and see the graphic ts ( marvel shirts, tv show shit) keep walking lol. I don’t know what it is with dudes and coming out in their best Batman shirt
/r/seduction16/05/20 08:20 AM
1

5”10 174.... that’s decent numbers but you don’t look that big. I can guarantee you that. Especially if you’re brand new to working out. It definitely doesn’t intimidate women looking fit though.
/r/seduction16/05/20 05:11 AM
10

Go to target man, 6- 10 t shirts fit the athletic body and white shoes cost 20 dollars. Pair this with some jeans or chino shorts and you have an easy summer look. Be sure to throw in some accessories too.
/r/seduction16/05/20 05:09 AM
2

Please please please don’t be paying her way for it.. unless it’s a drive then that’s not too bad. It could be fun but no not automatically especially if you have been her orbiter in the past she’s not gonna ride you cause you take her to Disney world
/r/seduction15/05/20 10:56 PM
4

I think your post is almost Like a taylor swift song. Like we’re out here trying to make a covid-19 love story. I connect with my current friends during this time and if I get a good match I still suggest we do something in person. Being on your phone during an e-date, She’s gonna still be seeing all them other dudes sliding in her notifications while you’re telling her never have I ever been to 6 flags or whatever
/r/seduction14/05/20 05:13 PM
7

I understand the appeal of this , I do. But one virtual date is pushing it even if we’re just talking. All that other elaborate stuff is too far for me. I like to feel their energy and for them to feel mine in person. I’ve done pretty well out in Nevada with walks and hiking during everything being closed. Maybe taking your dogs for a walk.
/r/seduction14/05/20 05:06 PM
7

New future album Friday 🔥🔥
/r/seduction14/05/20 01:48 AM
1

King shit
/r/seduction12/05/20 05:22 PM
3

Since you’re looking into material I think you need to move away from PUA stuff. Try models by mark Manson. No I haven’t seen them in action. I don’t really care to, I know what works for me. Yea they have probably taken girls because they were confident, fun and non needy.
/r/seduction12/05/20 04:29 PM
1

That’s status you’re referring to. They are probable millionaires and go to high class events. Then they start shooting their shot. Shoot your shot man
/r/seduction12/05/20 03:59 PM
5

I think even if they’re average looking, they’re still following the rules of dressing well, and being groomed. Also they’re confident. It doesn’t matter if they’re as good, their business model is trying to teach dudes confidence , how to apply techniques , learn social cues, etc. I don’t see how seeing them in person will help.
/r/seduction12/05/20 03:49 PM
1

Alright in a couple of years when you’ve alienated all the people you know and start pandering and playing victim on the internet look back at this moment bucko
/r/seduction12/05/20 03:43 PM
1

You’re being weird. It’s not a personality quirk or funny. People don’t react well to it. I’m sure you’re trying to make friends and entertain. I recommend reading how to win friends and influence people.
/r/seduction12/05/20 03:36 PM
2

Use what ? Oh just checked your post history, you posted this in 3 spots with ZERO CONTEXT or explanation and got almost no response. Nobody knows what this means man, please don’t say this.
/r/seduction12/05/20 10:31 AM
1

I swear, my testimony is that I was bored in the airport January 1st of this year (corny) and downloaded models by mark Manson. The intro read some of the shit I’ve done like... a book lol. So I listened to that one and several other books. It really strengthened my approach and confidence in dating women. Practice and failure helps too
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:42 AM
1

Girls don’t invest as fast and this covid is a weird time for everyone mentally and financially. Be busy and productive and reply to her when you’re ready. Since everyone is at home post a story on whatever she follows you on if you doing something interesting before you text her back
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:15 AM
5

Never that. The book “ how to be a 3% man” says that you should let them pursue a relationship your job is to have fun and hookup.
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:11 AM
1

I feel like that worked at the beginning of IG in 2012. The tactic is a little old now. It will get her attention , yes but I don’t think it’s a great play
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:07 AM
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Yea man I’ve ended dates and not gone for it and got ghosted / friendzoned. Think of it like this , she agreed to go out with you, she is interested. She ignores multiple dudes a day. During the date you made her even more interested. Own it, go for it. If you get curved from it you know where you stand instead of not doing anything, texting at a later time and finding out you’re ghosted
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:01 AM
3

Sounds like a straight catfish situation ,but I mean as long as both parties are ok with it
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:56 AM
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Try the triangulation method I think it’s called, where you look at both eyes then her lips in a triangle. Also, try to kiss her before the end of the date. You’re building way too much pressure on yourself to do it by the end when if you’re as good as you say, you could do it earlier.
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:54 AM
1

It’s not ideal to meet anybody new right now, what I’m doing is hiking and taking pics while I can still do that. Still trying to lead an active life in this quarantine. I’m getting lots of interaction through that for once this over. Beyond that, I luckily met a girl the First Friday of this month. If I didn’t have her I’d be in your boat. These are unprecedented times.
/r/seduction27/03/20 04:47 PM
1

You’re fighting your own battle man , as long as your not stepping on a homies toes going after her don’t worry about other guys. You have to be strong and centered, even in this pandemic I’m sure I have competition. Just be your best self, if she mentions other guys listen to the messsge she’s putting out but don’t worry too much.If you pass these initial tests eventually you’ll both be laughing at the thirsty stuff guys say in her inbox.
/r/seduction27/03/20 04:40 PM
1

That’s a long list of demands to be honest. I feel like you haven’t tried a lot of those things you don’t like and came up with a excuse for it being an “ old soul.” To answer your question though, older women favor daytime events, live entertainment, group exercise, and the list goes on.
/r/seduction27/03/20 04:42 AM
1

if you’re not a “Normie” how do you identify yourself
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:23 AM
1

I wouldn’t pay either lol. Just find a friend man, who can point out what you’re doing wrong when you deal with women
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:20 AM
1

Are you just venting or do you want someone to take an active interest in your progress? I think you could benefit from a mentor
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:17 AM
2

Lol yes I have, seeing as I have responded to every point you’ve made. I have been reading them. You claim you hit the gym but never made gains... which is impossible. You claim you try things that work for others but you never got so much as a kiss. Again if you do it right. Damn near impossible. What’s the common denominator? Negativity, mindset, confidence, and a honest look at your actions.
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:05 AM
1

No, this is confidence. You are absolutely crying out for help, but refuse to accept that you must make changes to get results. Audible has a free book offer and then you can get a free trial to get a second book. I recommend for you. “ no more mr nice guy” and “ how to be a 3% man”
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:54 AM
1

.... I’d clap some cheeks within that week, John.
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:50 AM
1

Basically you said... everybody else is wrong. Women have options( they do) but their minds are poisoned( they’re not) all the advice that seems to work so much that it’s a stereotype doesn’t work for me. So it’s everyone else’s fault not mine. THAT my friend is why you fail. You’re swimming in the wrong direction, and when you fail you blame everything but your own actions. Goodnight
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:38 AM
2

Dude, yup it’s your fault. You’re better than them because they don’t want to give you a chance? That’s holier than thou vocabulary just popped out. Lol get real!
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:26 AM
1

I probably would think you’re negative is the thing. If you get rejected everytime... something you’re doing , saying , or your confidence level is off. I’m not going to hold you bro. If you feel it’s hopeless then go on complaining and maybe a girl will fall into your lap
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:19 AM
1

So you’ve heard it a million times and haven’t changed your approach? You’re still completely negative. Do you see where I’m going? Be negative and think nothing is going to change and what’s going to happen? Nothing is going to change.
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:12 AM
0

Uh huh. I’m not attacking you. I’m trying to be a neutral party and diagnose where you’re going wrong. I wish you the best. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Feel free to pm me for advice bruh.
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:06 AM
1

100% , yes. This or other things, but as I read in one book you can talk about your strife to a trusted friend, therapist, or men’s group. You came at the original poster sideways and unloaded your baggage, so yes I think you do this.
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:03 AM
5

Your entire comment history is complaints. I don’t think you just complain on here and not in real life also. If you’re dressing well and have a decent haircut that’s half the battle. Now, you have to be fun and funny. Nobody wants to hear that “ I never get attention” stuff especially women. Read that last sentence twice and internalize it. You look good, you feel good. Go talk to people. If the convo goes on a few minutes see if she wants to meet up another time for drinks. Escalate. Boom.
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:28 AM
3

Let’s unpack this. What’s your typical outfit when you go out? What’s your haircut? Do you smile and have fun, living in the moment?
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:20 AM
3

I don’t think it’s underrated. Most coaches tell men to dress well. It HAS clicked for you though and that’s what’s important. Now it’s time to dress well when you go out. If a woman walks up to you and says nice ( comment on something you’re wearing) that’s an in. Talk to her , make her laugh. Exit the interaction before she does by getting her contact info. Then keep it pushing to the next one.
/r/seduction29/01/20 02:44 PM
3

Crack a a joke about something in her bio, her name etc. make sure it’s a tease and not rude or overly sexual. if she says she likes something such as Harry Potter and you’ve read Harry Potter.. ask her, what’s your patronus and why? Something along those lines. If her bio is something generic like “ I like the office, take me ____, Snapchat/ig:” she’s copying other people’s profiles, and probably not that interesting anyway I’d avoid those.
/r/seduction29/01/20 02:24 PM
2

Dude I’m gonna be real with you. First of all, your essay that you wrote seems like you looked for the most confusing words nobody knows the definition of to show off your vocabulary. Nobody likes to feel like they have to go find a dictionary to understand you. Moving on, I would recommend you get some of the books that are praised around these forums, learn and go out and apply the techniques. Work on your wardrobe, fitness, and grooming. You have to be fun and adventurous. You have to make he…
/r/seduction29/01/20 02:14 PM
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