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As a man with a storied history and plenty of my own baggage and trauma I’ll say this: It really is just sexism. I personally think women do a better job at processing their trauma in the long term because it’s generally considered more socially acceptable for them to talk about it. At the end of the day we’re all human. We all really operate pretty much the same. We just do so it different environments so there are different conclusions. All my grandmothers (except one) were saints, and every s…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/26 11:44 PM
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Exactly. It’s for nothing. These manosphere guys will take your money just because you’re insecure. It’s a fraud. They are all insecure frauds looking to get rich quick off your back. All you gotta do is what I’ve already told you. Be yourself and get your head out of the sand.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 10:39 PM
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Your equivalent of 100 American dollars.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 09:33 PM
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The manosphere is full of grifters and liars. They feed off of your insecurities. If you are not insecure then they can’t get to you. How about we try this: I’ve got everything a man could ever want. A hot wife, a good job that pays well, a new truck, and a nice house in an expensive area. Give me €100 and I’ll tell you my secrets.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 09:30 PM
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Never. The only problems we ever had were from her being jealous that other women were into me, but that’s probably healthy. Like I said, you need to reprogram yourself to understand what women actually like. There are many pages on Reddit where people have asked this same question and received answers from REAL women. Ask the women you know what they want in a man. Tell them to list the top 3 attributes they want in a good long-term partner. Money MIGHT make that list, but for most women it won…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 09:22 PM
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Your logic is flawed. I had no plans to go to school when we started dating. I was content with my plan to be a mechanic. We were together for 2 years before I decided to change my career path and that was out of personal interest. Also, I work in the environmental field and that entire field is generally underpaid in the states. I got lucky with having a good job and she was beside me through all of it.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 09:18 PM
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Now she is back in University for a Masters degree and will not only be more educated than me, but will probably end up making more than me long term. Money means nothing to a good woman. What matters is that you are showing up and trying. You should be improving your mental health, ensuring you have good basic hygiene, and working on being a good member of your community.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 09:06 PM
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Technically yes. I earn more now, but I was just a simple mechanic back then. She worked for a marketing firm and earned more than me in terms of total compensation. After we met I went back to school and now have a better job. We were VERY poor when I was in university for 3.5 years and she supported me the entire time.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 09:03 PM
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I live in the states. My wife comes from a wealthy European family. I come from a trailer trash, poor, southern, uneducated family. We met when we were 26. Before then, I spent years working on my mental health and learning what it meant to be a good man and husband. She fell in love with my human-ness. I had nothing to give her but love, respect, and the promise that I would be the best man I could for her. That I would listen to her, and trust her, and be there for her. That’s it. Been togethe…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 08:14 PM
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How does marital status effect chores? You should be doing chores regardless. Marriage is great. You get to split chores and never go to bed alone. You get to always have a ride-or-die around and yeah it ain’t always glamorous but nothing is. Glamor is for the weak.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/26 03:39 PM
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Don’t get all wound up now, it was a figure of speech. Obviously anyone who’s actually practiced decent communication skills and has been a partner worth their weight in salt will be worthy of that sort of post-relationship communication, but I firmly believe anyone who’s genuinely a piece of shit deserves nothing. I’ve worked with too many women over the years in abusive and manipulative relationships to not tell her to run. The best thing to do in potentially violent situations is to remove yo…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/26 12:55 AM
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Yeah you can literally just ghost. Nobody deserves an explanation, especially not if they have any tendency or expectation of hostility
/r/ExRedPill22/05/26 04:16 PM
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Also I’ve got about 10 friends who are women right now that are excellent people and are marriage material but aren’t married cause they can’t find a good man. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been asked “do you have any friends that are single?” Or been told “I need to get someone like you” or “I need what y’all have.”
/r/ExRedPill16/05/26 04:08 PM
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Idk mate. Your one experience isn’t the reality. I was married once, got divorced, used that time after to focus on myself. Went to therapy, healed my trauma, developed a better relationship with my PTSD and myself, and became content with being alone. Then I started developing a good friend group, hopped back on the apps to see what was out there. Had plenty of women match with me, went on several great dates, and the last was with the woman who would become my wife. Been together 8 years now a…
/r/ExRedPill16/05/26 04:05 PM
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You’re gonna have all daughters anyway
/r/ExRedPill31/03/26 01:46 PM
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I used to think like this. I’m in my 30’s now with an amazing wife, and tons of women in my life who say I’m the gold standard of a male partner. Im not rich, but I’ve got a decent paying, stable job that has allowed me to buy a modest house. I’m also under 6’ tall, but not by much. I’m pretty attractive. I take care of myself, but I’m beginning to approach dad bod territory. I work out, but I’m not ripped. What I’m trying to say is that I’m not some stellar specimen of a man. I’m probably avera…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 04:56 PM
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This stuff is an addiction, and like most addictions he won’t change, and will only get worse until he starts losing things. Leave now. Go far and fast while it’s still easy. Carve your own path out in the world that doesn’t involve romantic relationships with men for a while as you relearn who you are and what you like, because judging by your comment history it seems that you are at odds with not only him, but most of your environment. Your mid 20’s is a great time to make a change.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/26 08:55 PM
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I appreciate the support! Please update us with how the next meeting goes as I’d really like to know how some of your men respond to your new methods. And maybe I WILL end up starting that men’s group.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/26 03:15 PM
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Not necessarily. I’ve got a couple of groups of tight knit friends that do this kind of work when we’re around each other and I mentor younger men in my community that have red-pill conditioning, but no formal groups. I’ve been thinking about organizing something for years though.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/26 04:36 AM
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Thanks mate! No need to spend funds on such trivial things. Knowing my words can help is payment enough!:) to be fair, your comment was excellent as well!
/r/ExRedPill17/02/26 03:51 AM
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I want to start by saying that I appreciate the work you’re doing. It’s not easy and it’s absolutely imperative that we have these discussions as men. I think you’re already on the right track but I’ll offer my opinions on the matter. I think it’s important that we first clarify the difference between calling in vs calling out. Calling out is a tool we use to terminate active behaviors. If someone is actively shaming women or we observe foul behaviors in a public setting we call folks out. Howev…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/26 03:21 AM
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Look mate you’ve got all the time in the world, and the fact that you’re even in this subreddit just proves that you’re already light years ahead of where I was at your age. You’ll be just fine.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/26 09:25 PM
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You’ll build it in time. The key is spending these next few months/years focusing on yourself first. Develop good habits, talk to a therapist, and get out of your own head. I’m guessing you’re pretty young. You can use that to your advantage. The earlier you start making changes the better off you’re going to be. You build yourself up brick by brick and eventually people will begin to notice. Then you develop your community. This can be hard in today’s age especially when the normal mindset of y…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/26 09:18 PM
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I hate to have such an egotistical moment, but for your education I’ll commit. Though red-pill was just starting to take hold as I was maturing, I didn’t really fall into it, but it did graze me. I used to be like most young men. Kind of lost, agitated with society, and at a misunderstanding with the “natural order of things.” I ended up meeting several people (partner, therapist, mentors) that talked me into healthier habits and mindsets and began pushing to be the person I wanted to look up to…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/26 08:07 PM
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Aye mate, most of the red pill dudes out there have secret sub kinks and like to be pegged. Here’s the key to success for you, and I mean this with all due respect: Touch grass, go to therapy, talk to your neighbors, listen instead of speak, and don’t worry about love. Once you’re a good human the love you want will find you. You don’t need to go looking for it. Focus on being a good man for your community and your community will take care of you. This is the only thing you need to know about ma…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/26 02:47 PM
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