| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 197 | Maria Felix: The Lady Boss | QUEEN SH*T | blesser-of-rains | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 12:06 PM |
| 7 | THE AUDACITY | #KickHimOut2020 | blesser-of-rains | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 11:07 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | Do not accept negging at all. It's always made to make you feel insecure so that you emotionally depend on them for validation.Ah dude - I was at a festival and my brothers gf had this friends who ... took to me ? Idk. He kept negging and negging and negging the whole day. I even told him like "that is not working on me so please stop" also every time I go out with my bro I never flirt because like why would I do that. So annoying I swear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:54 AM |
| 79 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?Lol this is hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 10:07 PM |
| 167 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionIdk why her being from a big loving family would accept him - I never got it but, she's pretty young and wanted to mary a divorced father who then treats her like this. If it's only due to church then religion is a helluva drug | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 08:09 PM |
| 195 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionIdk dude jealousy? You know if dudes see you as their property they get crazy if you are attractive to others then you might leave him so they want you to look like shit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 08:06 PM |
| 256 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.The moment he got mega popular and mega ripped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 02:53 PM |
| 84 | Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens.Yupp my cousin was dating this guy and they where rollerblading (3-4 date) and she broke her hip in like 5 places. He visited her in the hospital and was there for her for all of the operations and everything (it was rough she had 2 screws put in I think). They're now married with two kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 05:35 PM |
| 7 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Exactly - it's the least of the bad things they did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 05:28 PM |
| 87 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?I was just thinking that it sucks that nazis ruined such a cool symbol (especially with all the whitewashing tones asociates with taking an eastern symbol and making it shit) but, I'm not gonna try to reclaim it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 11:35 PM |
| 39 | Does he accidentally break/ruin your things? Or is it covert domestic violence?This reminds me of the relationship advice story about the girl whose sister died and left her a candle and then the bf "accidentaly" burned the candle and then admitted to her that he had burned it to have her break down because he liked taking care of her (after the death) and the fact she was emotionally healing from the trauma wasn't doing it for him - like he wanted her to be miserable to get his dinky ding going . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 06:00 PM |
| 12 | Does he accidentally break/ruin your things? Or is it covert domestic violence?Oh my god that is so sneaky the "I'm going to throw this away" is so maliciously creative - screw that cruel mf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 05:57 PM |
| 13 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.It always baffles me that men will go to other men for dating advice?? As another lady? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 11:19 PM |
| 12 | When negging is made mainstream!I never understand negging like it does not work - if you insult me I want to get the farthest away from you as possible, every time I've been negged I just kind of shrug and walk away cause this means that a guy read the game (or whatever internet pua bs) and thinks it will work. If a dude is getting dating advice from other puas then I want nothing from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 07:09 PM |
| 14 | How to you feel about the idea that "most men don't marry the woman they love the most. They marry the woman that’s around when they’re ready to marry."Tbh love is not an action - it's a verb. You can love each other so so much but if you don't want to put in "the work" every single day of your life then there won't be a relationship. And similarly, what is love? Butterflies? Heart pounding? That shit ain't sustainable. So, story time. One time my friend showed me an article that said "you will never love someone as strongly as your first love" and it offended me because like wtf article ?? I want to love again. But, what it means is that the f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:42 PM |
| 113 | Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday"The 32 year old who always appeared to me on Bumble (for about a year) and only wanted a FWB but "wanted kids someday" like how? When? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:13 PM |
| 43 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himYo gay men get laid all the freaking time because they groom themselves so much ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 12:52 AM |
| 127 | “don’t protect women, teach men how to behave!” 👏🏽 this brown queen is spitting FACTS! I wish more people in Desi culture adopted this mentalityWtf that is so traumatizing - I’m sorry you had to see that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 03:28 PM |
| 412 | “don’t protect women, teach men how to behave!” 👏🏽 this brown queen is spitting FACTS! I wish more people in Desi culture adopted this mentalityI always wanted to go to india but have seen videos of girl in india being literally followed around by groups of men. No thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 02:32 PM |
| 13 | It’s more than just therapy. They need to beat the socialization that causes them to be so narcissistic.My ex told me he was going to therapy - still the same sneaky little asshole afterwards. Made me not believe in therapy for a while until I finally did and explained to my therapist that I knew a bunch of people who “loved therapy” but where still the same assholes and doing the same bullshit that made me distance myself from them. She explained it really well: When you cry you feel great afterwards because you just realeased all this bs. You are feeling great and that lasts a couple of days the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Cell Phone Tango part 6!At the beginning of snapchat like 2013 you would see people's "top snappers" which where people they snapped the most. My bf at the time had this girl on there although he would never respond to me and she treated me like shit when I met her irl. So, yeah, there was a snap function to show the top people you where snapping and the fire streaks also | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:10 AM |
| 20 | Mom praising son-in-law for the bare minimum 👏🏻Omg I get you. I had a friend who went on this date and then the guy asked her over to his place for a drink and to talk. They just talked and the guy didn't try anything. She. Was. Obsessed. She sent me the screen shots of her praising the guy for saying "let's talk" and really meaning "let's talk". She kept texting him stuff about how she couldn't believe this had happened to her and that he had acted like this, over and over and over again, I was cringing. I know she suffers from depression a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:02 PM |
| 64 | Example: Saying the Stanford Prison Experiment reflects human nature when not only were the subjects all male, the only woman mentioned in the experiment (the scientists wife) is the one who put a stop to it.Listen to the You're wrong about - Stanford Prison Expirement It was made to be exaggerated and cruel actually very different from an actual prison how the "prisoners" were treated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Elle will forever be #aspirationgoalsTotal bait and switch. Honestly I think when people read "Elle gets dumped so gets into Harvard to win back her man" we weren't expecting this movie. Even her "makeover scene" is not about looks, it's about her studying her ass off and getting good grades, she never changes her look (which is great) and she is actually never mean to the new gf, as in, not maliciously or any of the other girls in the movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:22 AM |
| 5 | Hate to see it. Note that the only happy employee is a man who doesn't have to witness or experience the sexual harassment first handIt would just turn into a gay restaurant in seconds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 08:28 AM |
| 22 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseI matched with this guy and he was like “I only want to hook up” but his bio said “want kids” Okay sir. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:00 PM |
| 3 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodged100% there is no other girl. He just wanted you ti act like a pickmesha (i feel, maybe im synical) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:56 AM |
| 13 | Wife gives him a sex coupon and the first thoughts that cross his mind are abuse and humiliation.This is a lesbian couple! It states that both are female ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Check on a Pick Me Friend TodayYes I need an explanation as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 10:13 PM |
| 85 | Check on a Pick Me Friend TodayHonestly, I’m in that headspace with a lot of boys, maybe I drank too much of the rom com “he’ll notice that his true love was me all along” kool aid, maybe just to feel special/important like “yes! I am The One™️”. Not worth it! As my dad once told me, a guy will text you when he’s worried he has “lost you” and once you agree to meet up/show him there is still an in then he’s back to ghosting you, it’s just a booster for them. Move forward, never back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 10:12 PM |
| 25 | Think long and hard about this. When has putting a man before you ever positively affected your life? You have the upper hand, ‘edit and delete’ things in your life accordingly!Yo, I’m back on the apps and a guy was insisting in my phone number and I was just like “no thanks, no worries we won’t talk” and now he’s asking me about my life hahaha you just gotta not bend over backwards for guys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:39 PM |
| 72 | Struggle is realThere is one more (which is what I feel has been my issue) guys who are addicted to the apps and even thought they might like a girl they have this idea that there will always be something better therefore they are perpetually looking, hunting, etc instead of working on the relashionship with one girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 08:47 AM |
| 30 | They hated her because she spoke the truth.Men will fuck a warm pita pocket is my new favorite insult | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 05:52 PM |
| 21 | I found one! HVM stays with and cares for girlfriend of 4 months after her spinal cord injury.It is, my cousin broke her hip on like the 2nd date with this guy, he was at the hospital and visited her regularly, he was with her for the recovery (three screws in her leg) and now they’re happily married and he is super nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:29 PM |
| 1 | THE AUDACITYOh damn, I didn’t find so I posted it, I’ll take it down :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Maria Felix: The Lady BossThere is a bunch in Spanish! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 17 | A queen said so!!!Always 🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 02:57 AM |
| 41 | A queen said so!!!I hate when guys are like “okay, prove your smart” I used to fall for it because I am smart!! but, that question is basically a “dance, monkey, dance for me” Now, I stop myself and just tell them “nah, I am not proving anything to you, you’re not worth it” and then they get all offended like “noooo I didn’t mean it like that!” Yes you did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 02:23 AM |
| 48 | A queen said so!!!I was at this party once and these two guys where talking and one of them came up to our table (mostly girls sitting around) and he is like “hey, girls, do you ever talk about politics?” and the other girls where about to answer and I just turned and said “We refuse to answer your misogynistic question” and I told all the girls not to answer him. He got all pissy and I was like “tell your friend that your point will not be proven today”. These dinguses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 02:18 AM |
| 82 | I'm not even sure I wanna associate myself with men anymoreNow I’m worried. Like, I’ve always wanted to find a partner that makes me happy but seeing that it statistically will decrease my happiness and health it’s like....should I just stay single ? Like, I don’t want to be married if it means I’ll be miserable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:54 PM |
| 27 | "thank u :)"Last time an ex contacted me I simply said “I think I was very clear when I blocked you off of everything” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 18 | Winner of the r/amitheasshole LVMsI always feel bad in those posts. The ladies are so gaslit they think they’re in the wrong and they literally don’t see the abuse but, just by looking at it it’s obvious. It’s so sad that girls are taught that they’ll only be complete if they have a man so they’ll settle for whatever and take all this abuse just to not be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 02:56 PM |
| 109 | Reminder: LVM say anything to get what they want.Besides he just said he was in an accident, if you’re sedentary you loose a lot of muscle mass...get your story straight my dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:09 PM |
| 9 | Reminder: LVM say anything to get what they want.What mental gymnastics was that??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:08 PM |
| 25 | Can some of the younger ladies in here explain to me what the actual fuck is happening to the men of your generation!? Let’s have a conversation...Let then marry their pillows and leave women alone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 06:35 PM |
| 25 | Ha!I once got so mad because all of the guys from where I lives where fat, drug addict, misogynists and crummy (like getting money from politics) and all the women had to be incredible looking. I was at a very popular restaurant and I just looked around and all the tables in all ages where the same: ugly fat guys with beautiful, skinny women. It just pissed me off that just cause these guys had money they where treated like gods and never asked to become better humans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Fucking disgustingI don’t mind the whole sex doll thing. I’d rather these guys get a plastic doll that bother/abuse/gaslight/use a woman. Leave us alone and go play with your toys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 08:27 AM |
| 2 | I feel like all HVM used to be LVM. Thoughts?I feel like it’s more that men become HVM when they find the “right” girl. Like, My cousin was a total douche, always trying to put others down, bullying his younger siblings, just a person who was not fun to be around. Then, he met his now wife and complete 180, super nice, family man, super detail oriented, caring and careful—almost didn’t recognize him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 08:16 AM |
| 91 | Quite.But, they don’t want you to help them grow up because they don’t want to be better, it’s like terry crews said, men need to hold other men accountable. Truth of the matter is, if you find a misogynist or even a guy who doesn’t respect women or see them as lesser they will never take you serious or listen, guys are the ones who need to tell other guys to be better, we’re powerful rn so our only option is to 1) avoid all the men 2) find the needle in the haystack. Also, moms need to stop treating … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:16 PM |
| 23 | Truth Hurts.I’ve realized that you’re also more easily impressed when you’re younger. When you’re older you expect more from a guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 11:06 AM |
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