blimpette Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Value of Female Virginity in Late 20s	Question For Men	blimpette	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/19 09:25 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
34	Facts Yah okay I can relate to this. I wouldn’t let my ex rape me so he told me he was going to kill me. He then proceeded to put me through months of psychological torture to try to push me to commit suicide, as per his announcement. It was a lesson to me to never doubt someone if they tell you that they’re going to try to kill you off for not obeying their wishes. I believe this is about pathology. My ex definitely had ASPD, and anyone who tries to pull off shit like this is pathological.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/19 11:30 PM
2	Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing. Omg IKR they crack me up 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/19 12:15 AM
12	Thank you for your wisdom. I am sorry. Are you my ex? Ha. Best of wishes on your journey to healing and wholeness. Glad you woke up in time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/19 09:26 PM
5	Always Pads to Remove Feminine Logo To Accommodate Transgender Men A lot of people from all over the political spectrum are beginning to wake up to this and talk about it. There are frequent discussions on the rightwingLGBT sub, the Gendercritical sub, and the LBGdroptheT sub. I believe it actually is something that’s initiating a much-needed discussion.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/19 07:10 PM
6	PSA: Women’s ability to have casual sex has no significant positive impact on our lives. You’re totally right OP. This is why I don’t have casual sex. There’s no genuine appeal to it and there’s no benefits on my end. I’ve never identified with my culture in that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 11:57 PM
55	First time ever meeting moid...wears sweatpants...cut him immediately after disaster of a date Sounds like you really dodged a bullet. The guy fits all the red flags of a narcissist.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/19 04:12 PM
7	Always wear a condom Just STIs I mean that’s 20,000-30,000 deaths in the US per year alone, but none of my business	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/19 11:12 PM
1	I made a thing, use it wisely This. I like this	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/19 01:57 AM
4	Feminism is the biggest shit test in the world. This is on point. Once I lost weight and got my shit together, attractive men started paying more attention to me but I got a lot more hatred from subpar guys and from other women. I’ve been called a plethora of names and slurs (although who hasn’t these days?) Even a death threat from one guy I turned down. So there’s definitely a trade off. I wish someone had warned me ahead of time that being an attractive woman can be uncomfortable and dangerous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/19 12:50 AM
2	So I Met Someone Yes ma’am!! We certainly do 😌	/r/RedPillWomen	11/10/19 08:09 PM
3	So I Met Someone This so sweet! Congratulations! Also hi from a fellow 27 year old female virgin! Sometimes days it feels like I’m the only one out there, you know? 😭	/r/RedPillWomen	11/10/19 05:34 PM
7	SEX GOALS: Receive Oral Sex TWICE As Much As You Give it Yah I think many men fantasize about degrading women	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/10/19 05:18 PM
1	CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for men Agreed. There are some positive effects to RP, but it seems to attract a fuckton of narcissists and toxic people who only want to screw others the way they got screwed. Speaking from experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/19 09:20 PM
1	Don't you think that TRP is attracting the wrong type of girls? Be a slut, attract sluts.	/r/askTRP	10/10/19 03:19 AM
3	Let men know when they disappoint you Can you mentor me? Lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/19 09:34 PM
23	Don't automatically trust men who say they're feminists An ex claimed to be a feminist and tried to rape me and essentially told me he was going to kill me if I didn’t let him. NEVER trust men who say they’re feminists— many of them hate women more than men who have qualms about feminism, IMO.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/19 09:24 PM
16	Stay woke! This sentence gives me life	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/19 09:13 PM
1	I want to give up Fair enough, you’re entitled to your opinion on the prevalence of narcissism. But I would like to point out that current estimates put the rate of NPD between 1% and 6% of the general population. Practically speaking that means that if you know a hundred people, somewhere between 1 and 6 of them are narcissists. I’ve invested hundreds of hours of research and many months of psychotherapy after a relationship with a narcissist. I could be wrong, but I believe that this would give me a sharp eye f…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/19 06:58 PM
3	Virginity is like a trophy. Yes, I feel this way. I don’t think it’s unhealthy necessarily. I’m still a virgin for religious/spiritual reasons.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/19 01:39 AM
2	Youth obsessed Thanks for saying that. That’s really affirming to hear. ;)	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 10:05 PM
3	Youth obsessed Yep. It’s easy for resentment to snowball and hatred towards Group X to increase instead of looking for the truth in an objective way. Everyone has been hurt, and everyone has hurt. I’m sometimes tempted to bitch about men, but honestly the only place where that’s actually productive or helpful to anyone is in therapy, IMO. I could be wrong, but I just haven’t seen any good from a given group X bitching about a given group Y. I just hope society at large can learn to recognize toxic people and s…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 10:04 PM
56	Youth obsessed Last year I was in a similar circumstance. A 58 year old man in a work-related collab started coming after me. He was a lot more sneaky about it, insisting that that was not the case. That went on long enough that I started to feel I was going crazy, because he was clearly interested in me but kept denying it and insisting that I was crazy and overreacting whenever he believed that I had covertly rejected him. when I overtly told him to back off because he was invading my personal space, he insi…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 10:33 AM
4	I want to give up You dated a narcissist. ALL the signs are there. Literally the whole shebang. I’m just thankful you’re out. Hang in there. I know your pain; I truly do. I went through a very similar situation last year. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. hugs through internet	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 09:34 AM
1	Is it possible to overcome abuse without seeing a therapist? I think it’s possible, with enough desire and dedication to healing oneself. I’ve done it in the past over childhood abuse issues. But I know my therapist helped me immensely after the abusive relationship I was in last year. It was like night and day, before and after I started seeing her.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 01:55 AM
9	Do you think men love women for “who they are” and women love men for “what they do”? Why or why not? If yes, what does it mean to you? Meh, sounds like the way a narc or a teenage boy thinks. Shallow priorities from a shallow, naive man who doesn’t understand that looks fade and you can’t build a relationship with anyone based only on physics attraction. I wouldn’t give him more attention than he deserves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 10:19 PM
13	Is there such a thing as being Stacy-widowed? Most women are easy to get over. But the ones you actually (and stupidly) gave your heart to a bitch to get over. Woman here. I can agree with an understand this. From what I’ve observed with my brother and my male friends, it’s more about the content of a woman’s character that causes men to fall in love. But a woman of character can be difficult to find these days (just as it’s difficult to find a man of good character). We’re all in a crappy boat together I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 04:42 AM
9	Is there such a thing as being Stacy-widowed? it usually takes men longer to get over relationships they were emotionally involved in. This is true, in my experience. Here’s an example, although it involves someone who was extremely sadistic, violent and pathological. My psychopathic ex goes to great lengths to get my attention. Let’s say one example includes him buying hundreds of dollars worth of ads online to target certain groups I was in just to make sure I would know he was going to be involved in a certain event. Needless to say I di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 04:40 AM
33	Is there such a thing as being Stacy-widowed? Yes. A couple years ago, there was a guy in my field who was in his late 50s and who chased me incessantly and ignored my direct assertions to leave me alone. I was 26. He was rich and he thought he was entitled to me. The idea of being with him made me want to puke. Still does. It soon became clear that he wasn’t used to rejection from women like me. He showed me pictures of when he was a model back when he was my age. Back then, he was actually very attractive. Probably a 9/10. These days? He’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 04:14 AM
1	Should you defer to him? Good point. I think I have some serious thinking to do about that.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/19 07:54 PM
7	Should you defer to him? I know what you mean. I haven’t been fortunate enough to experience this kind of relationship just yet, but I’ve seen it in couples I deeply admire (such as my parents and some family friends.) How do you find men you can respect? Got any tips for attracting and keeping these types of men?	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/19 05:22 AM
2	How to avoid branch swinging This is actually great. Thanks for sharing.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/09/19 05:53 PM
3	Are GenZ women socially inept phone addicts? Ayyy fellow 27 y/o, good analysis. I’d heartily agree with this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/19 07:06 AM
2	Has anyone noticed that a lot of men seem to be preferring derrieres over busts in a woman in recent years? Thanks for sharing your opinion... suddenly I’m feeling a lot better about myself hahah	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/19 10:04 PM
29	Can men open up to women without losing sexual attraction? No; it means to recognize the power you have to change your life. Venting is okay but prolonged bitching about something that you are empowered to change is pointless and exhausting. This is also true towards women who do this. High tier women don’t want to be with a weak man who can’t take of care of himself but just bitches about his problems instead manning up and addressing them head on. (This is NOT the same as processing/crying/sorting through real issues.) It takes a person of character a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 09:08 PM
32	Can men open up to women without losing sexual attraction? just don't whine people Woman here; this about sums it up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 08:26 PM
15	Is it common for women to not be attracted to masculine men even though they want to be traditionally feminine? No, I don’t think it’s uncommon. It may be an age thing, or it may be a tastes thing. I know from the years I spent in Asia that standards of masculinity are quite different across the planet— the men (at least in S Korea and Japan) tend to be very polished, and focus less on building characteristics that are considered masculine in the West. You can check out any K-drama as an example. That being said, I felt like you until my mid twenties. Hitting my late twenties has given me a deeper appreci…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/19 06:53 AM
2	Monogamous relationships are necessary for survival of western civilization. If largely agree with a lot of your points. I’d recommend posting to r/unpopularopinion; I believe this is a more popular idea than people are willing to admit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/19 08:13 PM
1	Question about new relationship Yeah, no wonder that response shook you! I would be shaken by that too. A serious question to consider is if you want to spend the rest of your life sharing your husband and kids with a family that view you primarily as an asset. I’ve seen a lot of pain from friends who have found themselves in situations like that. Have you considered couple’s counseling? My parents were actually couples counselors and saw a lot of long term successful relationships come out of their counseling. Not that correl…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/09/19 07:00 AM
1	I Think it's Time To Check Out on Women I think this may not be a bad idea for now considering where you’re at, but it may be important to view this as a seasonal decision rather than a lifelong commitment. Going solo for a while is not necessarily a bad thing. That being said, leave room for yourself to change your mind at a later date. Priorities change as we age, and you may wake up one day and find that you’d rather not find yourself alone at 70. You may just be surprised by the women who are attracted to you as time goes on. As m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/19 11:14 PM
1	Question about new relationship Could be a narc. If so, tread lightly. Try gently and kindly confronting him on it. If he responds in a healthy way, that’s a good sign. If he gets hyper-defensive or turns the blame around on you, be careful.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/09/19 10:58 PM
2	Does your preferences in women change with age? This is actually super helpful and insightful, thanks for sharing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/19 02:34 AM