blindseeker Archive

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4	A woman's perspective - blog post about a documentary I made about the seduction community Men were taught not to cling to rejections as failures, but to move on to the wealth of other options that lay ahead of them. These views were in the service of building the confidence of these men, of ensuring they didn’t cling to negative outcomes. But what they gained in confidence they often lost in humanity. I'd disagree with this interpretation. There is an important reason why men shouldn't treat rejections as failures: avoiding rejection leads to dishonesty. If you are honest and open, o…	/r/seduction	25/03/17 12:17 PM
1	If you're failing with girls... do this one thing. There are no excuses to not workout. The minimum requirement is ~6 feet of open space, which will let you do bodyweight exercises like pushups and squats. Go outside if your house is too small. You can go very far this way- many Olympic gymnasts train using only bodyweight. Of course, if you can get access to gym equipment, that's even better. But you have to work with what you've got.	/r/seduction	20/02/17 12:11 AM
3	Neediness in a relationship Non-neediness is when it doesn't matter how the date goes, because you have other things you could be doing, other friends you can hang out with and other girls you can ask on dates. Trying to get her to chase you is needy	/r/seduction	05/02/17 09:01 PM
2	How to avoid going into businessman mode? Maybe 'superficial' isn't the right word- 'generic' or 'boring' maybe. I mean, I might be interested in knowing what my partner does for a living, but talking about work/school doesn't often make for fun conversation.	/r/seduction	01/02/17 11:40 AM
1	is there anyone who is unsuccessful? Anyway, the actual mechanism for generating attraction is to polarize. When you say generic, non-controversial things- What time is it? Nice weather today. I'm hungry- that doesn't generate an emotional response. Eventually she will get bored. You won't get rejected outright, but you won't get laid either. As for me, I'm into drugs. I like to talk about how I used to be a drug dealer and how LSD is so cool. That's polarizing- many women will strongly reject that, while others will have a strong,…	/r/seduction	03/01/17 11:58 PM
1	is there anyone who is unsuccessful? but many PUA's tutorial said they fuck many girls then an average person That's mostly because they approach many more girls than the average person. If you approach 20 girls a day, you're going to have more sex than the average person no matter how bad your strategy is. then should i find girls who are also into this fields? Maybe. But surely you can expand on that- what else might you be interested in? What do you do for fun, and how can you make that into a social activity? The more you fill …	/r/seduction	03/01/17 11:35 PM
2	is there anyone who is unsuccessful? then why does any pua guy gets any girl he meets Do you seriously believe this? This is 100% false. Nobody gets any girl he meets. A big part of pickup is rejection. Anyone who tells you otherwise is lying. Rejection is a good thing- it filters out people who aren't a good match for you. But say, for example, you're a guy who loves partying, drinking and dancing, and you go to a bar and start dancing with girls. You might find a lot of girls who are similar to you and get lots of hits. At the sa…	/r/seduction	03/01/17 02:35 PM
1	is there anyone who is unsuccessful? Dealing drugs is a totally valid avenue of 'improving your life' if that's your style. Get a big circle of drug buddies to smoke/drop with from your client pool- there's your social life right there, which probably includes girls. Lots of stoner girls play videogames too if you're into weed and videogames. Get a big van with some nice speakers, drive people around, etc. Sex on drugs can be quite excellent as well Having a good job is nice but really, that's just money, its not a life on its own.	/r/seduction	02/01/17 11:02 PM
2	is there anyone who is unsuccessful? i Just want a gf no matter what her personality is. This might be a primary reason for your lack of success An attractive person is someone with opinions, an identity, and self-respect. You need to be polarizing- express yourself in such a way that women who can relate to you are turned on (and women who can't are turned off). A generic guy looking for a generic girl isn't going to spark strong emotions, and therefore probably won't have much success.	/r/seduction	02/01/17 10:49 PM
2	Pickup is Broken When I began seddit it opened my eyes to how wicked and evil most girls are. Not because of getting rejected, but seeing the mindset of the women. Get a tall, handsome, rich man with a lot of money and doesn't ask questions. I don't agree with this interpretation of things. Most girls are not evil. Tall, handsome, rich men tend to be confident and good at providing exciting emotional experiences. They're confident because they're tall, handsome and rich, they're rich because they have their shit…	/r/seduction	20/09/16 10:15 PM
1	How much is pornography like real sex? By not normal I just meant "not common," porn actors last longer then the average guy which is why they were hired. Not saying there is anything wrong with that. But I don't think its common to last that long doing jackhammer-sex like in porn. What I mean to say is more that things like how long you last, how big your dick is, how you finish etc. and most of the other stuff porn emphasizes are just trivial mechanical details and not something you should worry about. I have no idea how long I las…	/r/seduction	09/09/16 10:23 PM
2	How much is pornography like real sex? Nothing about porn is worth trying to emulate, its a completely absurd depiction of sex that leaves out all the good parts. is it possible for guys to last 30-60 minutes? That's not normal, and it's not something you should be trying to achieve anyway. Porn actors take ED drugs and shoot Bimix into their dicks to stay hard like that. All for the camera. Do girls actually like jizz on their face? You shouldn't be asking these kinds of questions. If she wants that, she'll tell you. If you want to …	/r/seduction	08/09/16 06:04 PM
2	She is not my type! Problem! I don't have any criteria for girls, i just want a beautiful and good personality girl. What is "good personality" to you? If by this you just mean "not openly rude or disagreeable" or something along those lines, you might want to be a little more discerning, unless you just want something casual. Do you have common interests? Are there qualities about her that you can relate to or admire? Does she laugh at your jokes? When she talks about things, are you interested in the same topic, or would …	/r/seduction	08/09/16 05:45 PM