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| 11 | Question for those that "gave up."I’m sorry about this bro. It def sounds like u ran into some truly sick women tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeWhy did u mentally skip the part where the girl has to consent. Which means she wants to have sex too. Which means her body count is her choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeHow do men “give” women a high body count if it’s the woman’s choice who they sleep with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?Well clearly what he was doing wasn’t working A person can’t ask for advice now????? Why do men have to deal with such high standards😔😔😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?Ehhhh as a whole probably not If the dude gets false advice from women tho then I could see why he may have resentment. The whole fisherman analogy really rings true here The ppd guys should look at who has the most romantic success that the guys values align with. And then emulate it best he can. Even if “women” says the actions are bad or won’t work. Follow results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 02:58 PM |
| -5 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?Idk what this means. Not all guys or ppd guys want the most insane sex for one. PPD guys don’t hate women, but if some do, it’s not because the hypothetical girl won’t have the wildest sex with them. Id argue the avg ppd guy struggles to have sex with a girl at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 02:45 PM |
| 7 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?Because men want sex. They will admit “can’t live with them, can’t live without” But women are constantly saying they don’t need or want men. So idk why it’s so hard for man hating women to just switch teams🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 02:26 PM |
| -1 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?Your correct in this means not all women think this way But those are presumably real women making those videos. And I’m sure they have some viewers that agree with them. The question in OP is more so for those women. Dismissing that they exist dosent really do anyone any good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 02:00 PM |
| 5 | The reason that having SWAGGER works with women is that most of them will fall for the same sales pitchIf their body count is 1+ they are winners compared to someone’s who is 0. That’s really all it boils down to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 05:57 PM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worse😂😂😂😂I’m assuming you haven’t been to a college town recently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:36 PM |
| -1 | What icks/turn off do you have for men?“Charming” Totally dosent have to do with being lucky genetically /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 10:42 PM |
| – | Why do men make fun of things women like?Religion generally has rules and makes u accountable of ur actions Astrology says things that u feel or do are based on “stars” and “time of birth”. There are no rules to follow and it takes accountability away from a person so they can blame it on the moon No wonder it’s so popular among young women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 06:07 PM |
| – | Why do men make fun of things women like?Name checks out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 06:05 PM |
| 2 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experience“Itssssss diffffferenntttt” Favorite line in response to ur personality question. All vibes no basis in reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:54 PM |
| 3 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceImagine like a makeover or reinventing urself specifically with a focus on looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:49 PM |
| 9 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceAnd then end up with A TOTALLY DIFFERENT(normally worse) guy😂😂😂😂u can’t make it up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:16 PM |
| 10 | Does being an emotional tampon lead to the friendzone? Or only in certain cases?Kinda agree. It’s essentially the female is treating the guy the same way she treats her female friends. They chat and gossip about feelings in stuff Men don’t interact exactly like that and it would be a bit strange to simply call a male friend to just vent and gossip. Especially if it’s not over a drink or a game of sorts So when a female treats a man like that, it seems like he is an emotional tampon because the guy would never interact with a man in the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Does being an emotional tampon lead to the friendzone? Or only in certain cases?You just be basically on call for them. Be willing to listen. The main this is the desired person is giving their time and attention to the friendzoned person. Even if it is just to vent If that’s all the friendzoned person can get and their so infatuated with the desired person, their not gonna do anything to change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not a meritocracy and it's toxic to suggest single men should "work harder"😂😂😂that a good catch But telling a woman pick smarter is “misogynistic” and makes u “sound like a incel” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 12:37 AM |
| 2 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.Explain domestic violence and women who pick men who leave them after they have kids Explain tinder swindler. Explain are we dating the same guy pages. If girls can tell all this about a guy why they need a whole page for it? It’s ok to admit women don’t have magical powers to judge character. It’s called being human | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Do you have any other quotes like "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" that you will be telling your sons?😂😂😂but not the quotes??? That’s not a form of craziness that should be ignored? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.😂😂😂I think they deleted the comment so I can’t complain rn. It took a while tho Last time I used that word in my comment, it was gone within 10 min. This a pretty engaged post and it took hours for that blatant violation but🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 08:05 PM |
| 3 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.I agree with u. My beef is with the claim above that women somehow know and can tell when a guy is bad It’s obviously cap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 07:43 PM |
| 0 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️maybe women are willing to compromise on certain traits of an abuser that they won’t with an incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?Being a good person does not increase ur chances with a women. If a hot guy says hi and then a idk “guy who said hi to another average girl???”, then the girl is gonna respond to the hot guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 07:38 PM |
| 8 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.I’m not saying a girl CAN NEVER tell But I think it’s false to say women in general can tell. If most girl could tel when a guy isn’t good, they would never have relationship issues. My other issue is that the OP only said this mostly in regards to incels. That women can smell their desperation. So u can tell when an incel is bad but not an abuser? It just shows they don’t know what their talking about. Not grounded in reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 07:21 PM |
| 16 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.I hate this equation but it really is the truth Anything women don’t like and ur a misogynistic abusive incel creep. Very dangerous label | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 06:25 PM |
| 7 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.I feel ur age and I’m assuming the common age group I hang with helps Back then being an awkward guy wasn’t as big an issue it seems. Also less things being recorded to later be mocked. Overall less scrutiny for being just awkward | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 06:24 PM |
| 4 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.U know what’s crazy. I thought cope was a banned word on this sub, but ur comment is still up. Maybe it depends on gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Who are the bad boys women like? Confident men or dangerous/evil men?Poor women and still women. SMH sexist and classist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 05:07 PM |
| 42 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.I strongly disagree. Women cannot sense anything, especially if a guy is toxic and tries to put on a front. That why almost every girl has a “toxic ex” but then after that they get another. The guys struggling can’t get girls likely because they don’t meet the looks threshold of the women they want. If they do, the guy probably dosent have the confidence. What a guy thinks about women has no effect on if he can actually pull women. Girls get with outright sexist and abusive guys all the time. Cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Who are the bad boys women like? Confident men or dangerous/evil men?It’s proof of the second part. I would only say it’s envied by guys who are really down bad tho and a extremely desperate for sex and female validation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Who are the bad boys women like? Confident men or dangerous/evil men?Criminals get women. That’s why a lot of them have kids. Only one way to get kids. 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:23 PM |
| 36 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.This. It’s like every time a girl post this type of video it confirms their RP beliefs from the most credible source So hearing that a girl is struggling(especially and attractive one) can confirm some delusions the guy has about women. And of course If they subscribe to RP the guy likely has been wronged justly or unjustly by woman in the past | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?Who cares? She can respond with manners no matter what level of attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 02:51 PM |
| 8 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menWomen describe sex as if it’s a chore for them all the time 2x sub always has girls say “I don’t want to be a bang maid that is a fleshlight for a guy” as if sex is the worst thing in the world. EVEN WHEN THEY CONSENT TO IT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 08:55 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Fairness is not code for getting what you want with no inconvenience.“Most guys” aren’t watching him. Let alone agreeing with him. Just because he’s popular dosent mean every guy is following him. It’s a small amount of his viewers that take things to the extreme. It’s insane people try and say one guy is running men’s minds and has so mich power. But a bunch of videos can be posted, here specifically of women being irrational or entitled or psycho and the response is “it’s just the internet not real life”, “that’s just her, all women aren’t the same” Why can the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 01:12 PM |
| 0 | are women doing okay?The reason that’s a common thing said is because women will often say one thing and their actions are the exact opposite “I’m done with him”: proceeds to have sex with him again “I kinda like guys with sad bods”: ends up with a personal trainer for the night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Men are currently experiencing their Heroin Chic eraHave u read the comments there? That’s like ingrained in them that men only seek to hurt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 04:45 PM |
| – | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.It is a huge difference. Starving yourself intentionally vs genuinely not having food available to you is a huge difference Yes both scenarios you will be hungry. But one side you can stop the hunger at any moment, the other it persists for an unknown amount of time. It is not the same thing, therefore the way women experience loneliness can not match the way men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 03:44 PM |
| 14 | If you don't have a big social circle, are you basically fucked when it comes to dating?Guys problem: can’t get women. Woman advice:”strengthen ur friendship bonds and engagement with larger community” Damn. That really solved the problem. Now the women are all over me. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 04:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFloyd vs jake Paul??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 02:51 PM |
| 6 | Do you think there’s a lack of good men?That’s an assumption about a made up man. Don’t women tell guys all the time that woman aren’t the same. Ur comment sounds like ur saying all guys will only stick with you for sex and “youthfulness” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 04:52 PM |
| 12 | Do you think there’s a lack of good men?Ironic is the only word that comes to mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?Bad advice is normally not liked. If ur on fire and I say use lighter fluid on it instead of water you would prob say to fuck off A guy says he has issues talking to girls, the advice is make guy friends. See how that wouldn’t solve the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?By definition your kinda right, but in this case, the main reason for male dating issues IS women’s behavior. Women are the ones who have to accept other men. Women set the market and they make the rules for dating. A man can’t date if a woman dosent say yes. So with that being said, the empathy would come from women behaving in a more understanding way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 11:30 PM |
| 13 | Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating?This question, especially coming from a girl, shows there really is no empathy toward men issues. So the reason men would want the issue acknowledged is so women may be more cognizant of what their doing in the dating world and can maybe help ease things for men. But as you prove, even if a person recognizes it’s harder for men, no empathy will be shared | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 11:20 PM |
| 3 | The men here might be concerned about the wrong things?For a guy it can be more advantageous to get sex from a “insecure girl” than it is to have no sex and no girl Like who cares if it’s not a good girl? It’s that or the hand and a lot of guys are gonna pick the girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 03:46 PM |
| – | Men are constantly told they overrate their appearance but you very rarely see men do this, and women do this to such a greater degree that it is classic projectionSaying ur a 10 as a way to say u think u look good is lying. It’s like being financially well off and claiming ur a millionaire. Being a millionaire means u have in theory 1 million dollars. Being a 10 in theory means you are perfect 10/10 If you know that to be false but u still claim it, then it is a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 02:50 PM |
| – | Men are constantly told they overrate their appearance but you very rarely see men do this, and women do this to such a greater degree that it is classic projectionI wish I could say ur efforts will get them to change their mind But ur prob wasting ur energy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 02:48 PM |
| 4 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.That last line is just too extreme Creepy is a guy sexually harassing, creepy is not a guy who stutters and dosent know how to talk to u The language is too extreme | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 04:38 PM |
| 7 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.So basically a physically attractive guy who dosent no social cues makes him unattractive, which this makes him creepy So basically ur saying unattractive = creepy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 03:38 PM |
| 4 | If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virginYou’d be surprised at how hypocritical people could be. You can be a kind person and still thing a girl is a hoe. One does not rely on the other. Being kind outwardly also dosent mean u actually are a good person on the outside either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 04:53 AM |
| – | Is it wrong to leave men once you start feeling like the male in the relationship or a motherly figure?The problem is women get to pick and chose their gender roles and guys are supposed to be ok with it But in this case a guy isn’t fitting the norm, and now he’s “not man enough”. Imagine if the reverse was said like a guy complaining a girl isn’t cooking and cleaning enough. He would be cancelled immediately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.That’s the tough part. You have to ask if the girl picking a guy Becuase he gives her the most value, or does she actually like him? It’s up to the girl to pick who she likes more rather than who gives her more tangible items | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.😂😂😂😂it’s about the “right” guy asking them out an paying Cmon u know Superman is coming for them one day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 06:23 PM |
| 12 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menSo ur answer to stop mislabeling guys struggling social is just “ehhh what are u gonna do🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 06:30 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSounds like a golden opportunity Go for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 12:59 PM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onHow is a man insulted in what he said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it.You right but also like, assuming it’s not a bot account, these are the words of women, just through a screen Like these are the women that exist in real life too. Not everything can be disqualified as “oh it’s not a real persons opinion”. It actually is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 03:09 PM |
| 11 | Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it.I be saying the same thing 😂😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 02:56 PM |
| 8 | Attractive women who have trouble finding good men / potential husbandsI mean we can assume she has some SORT of issue, maybe significant or not, but she is struggling to keep a guy. Either she’s bad at picking or she’s the reason guys pull away. It takes two for a relationship. Girls have agency in making that happen too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Our generation's complete and total dependence on emotion based decision making early in the courtship process is killing good potential relationships from forming.I agree Person I asked implied it’s not possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Our generation's complete and total dependence on emotion based decision making early in the courtship process is killing good potential relationships from forming.I’m responding to the comment that it’s delusional to think a guy can make/trick a girl into feeling certain emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 04:11 PM |
| 8 | Our generation's complete and total dependence on emotion based decision making early in the courtship process is killing good potential relationships from forming.I mean how do u explain situations where the girl thinks the guy loves her and finds out he dosent The guy was able to get her to feel certain emotions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males?Basically what she said but less bait “I don’t hate socially awkward men, I just wouldn’t mind if they fell off the face of the planet” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Women objectify men way, way more than the opposite.What an instance statement What do u say to women who do OF and extreme videos they sign themselves up for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 12:56 PM |
| 15 | Men who tell women “pick better men” are just telling women not to pick them.Your first paragraph compares picking a partner to the same thing as playing the lottery Do you see how u removed all agency and accountability for picking a good guy. It’s like ur saying guys just come up to u and u pick them and hope you get lucky, kinda like a lottery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 12:50 PM |
| 6 | Men who tell women “pick better men” are just telling women not to pick them.Disagree. When guys say pick better men, it means the guy has probably seen the particular girl go through a bunch of guys who are walking red flags, and repeatedly get hurt. All while complaining it’s hard to find a good man. Maybe the guy saying pick better may not want the girl, but he’s tired of seeing the same thing play out over and over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself?I’m crying bruh. She still friends with u after that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Why the whole Mensrights, Red pill, and the general "Manosphere" was/is necessary.U just said most men don’t have positive traits. How was the convo about anything good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Why the whole Mensrights, Red pill, and the general "Manosphere" was/is necessary.Damn that’s crazy. Good thing all woman are sooooooooooo Amazing in comparison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Why the whole Mensrights, Red pill, and the general "Manosphere" was/is necessary.Sounds like a guy shouldn’t do anything to find a romantic partner I guess🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️ Tough life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Why the whole Mensrights, Red pill, and the general "Manosphere" was/is necessary.It’s an example of strength and bravery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Why the whole Mensrights, Red pill, and the general "Manosphere" was/is necessary.Like going to the gym and Cold approaching? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large?It’s like if you only look at sex as a guy using you, then you see urself as an object rather than someone with autonomy to CHOSE to have sex. How can a guy USE you for sex if YOU chose to have sex with him also. This implies both parties want sex. How can the guy use you anymore than you use him This only works if you view him as having some sort of control or advantage in deciding if y’all have sex, which is not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 02:07 AM |
| -1 | Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large?I agree with everything you said But that has nothing to do with ur partner thinking of the girl as a “bang maid”. My question is about how can the girl feel like that in a consensual relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 07:35 PM |
| -6 | Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large?How can u exist in a relationship consensually while also feeling like a bang maid? That dosent make sense? How would you let it get that bad to where you feel that’s all he wants you for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 04:40 PM |
| -2 | Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large?Would u think an asexual man that u liked be ur best case scenario Like a situation where it’s by their “nature”/sexuality, impossible for them to “use” you for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 04:36 PM |
| – | Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man?Opinions are cool Voicing opinions and then ACTING the exact opposite of ur opinions is hypocritical tho Not necessarily saying this based on ur comment. Just in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 04:13 PM |
| – | Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man?I bet if you were able to see some of these woman’s past and compare it to the advice they give The hypocrisy would be off the charts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?Why do you assume all women don’t want to have sex? Why do you assume woman have standards for sex? Ever heard of a hookup? U know that dosent require food to be bought for the woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 03:08 PM |
| 6 | Any Tinder experiments that prove blue pills or disprove red pills?So ur data says is 50% of young woman. And then u INFER they just have the app but don’t use it. And you use that to claim that those women on the apps are different than women that exist in real life Even though it’s a real girl that you can meet in real life, that happens to be on an app | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:21 PM |
| 4 | As a single woman, what do you hate about dating in 2023?Then they say no spark. It’s a lose-lose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 02:00 PM |
| 8 | Any Tinder experiments that prove blue pills or disprove red pills?You make it sound like girls aren’t in these apps? The data reporting RP literally comes from their behavior. Now ur just sayin “oh that dosent exist. Those girls aren’t real” It’s the same girls you will meet irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 01:39 PM |
| 5 | As a single woman, what do you hate about dating in 2023?And when u supposed to have conversations? half of these “failed approach” videos show thag girls don’t even know what to say half the time either Then the comments say guys are supposed to lead the convo. How is that not gonna feel like an interview if one side dosent want to initiate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 01:36 PM |
| 8 | As a single woman, what do you hate about dating in 2023?To answer, it may be that the guy got burned in the past over investing emotionally and financially in a girl who did him bad It’s really not worth the risk to be planning elaborate dates and giving the girl gifts and truly courting her, when 1, she could be dating(or worse, hooking up) with other guys. 2, if it dosent work out then all of that effort is wasted and it’s tough to regroup and do the same thing for a new girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royaltyThis is true. But you are likely ignoring the other benefits you may have received in life for being attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 05:53 PM |
| 10 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediaThey about to hit u with “not all women” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 05:06 PM |
| 6 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediaI mean women also call you a creep for saying hello to them in public Can’t take all things serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 02:57 PM |
| 12 | What is the main reason men are single 2023Women don’t care about ur virtue. A hot guy and a avg virtuous guy walk into a bar I bet my life I know which one is probably pulling a girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:49 PM |
| 1 | 18 to 24-year-old individuals who reported no sexual activity in the past year increased among men (but not among women)Most of ur complaints about guys are probably because they have no experience with women and get conflicting advice on how to deal with them Some truthful advice could go a long way in making things better for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 02:34 AM |
| 3 | 18 to 24-year-old individuals who reported no sexual activity in the past year increased among men (but not among women)It’s the paradox of experience, similar to job hunting. Only difference is the advice for job hunting generally applies to most jobs. A guy can’t get the experience if they are always facing rejection. So it’s either red pill or ask girls for advice. Which is also odd because women seem to hate the red pill but ~70% of the advice matches each other and is common sense. Tellin a guy with no experience that you can not give advice and they should get experience is a set up for failure. Your right … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 04:01 PM |
| 3 | 18 to 24-year-old individuals who reported no sexual activity in the past year increased among men (but not among women)I think part of the issue, is when guys who aren’t getting sex ask women for advice, they may not get the whole picture from women. Girls will give advice on how to keep a relationship rather than advice on how to get a hookup And the problem with that is women are having ONS and hookups with guys. So why not share what worked on them? That’s part of the reason for the hostility. It seems like some guys are being intentionally kept out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Are men more willing to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to them?But if u reject a girl because of her weight Bring out the pitchforks😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsOnly 6-10 inches of them matter in a video Besides that, their not visible to straight guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app finds😂😂😂I wish all women thought like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsThose are words, yet u see ur least attractive female friend having sex right? Guys have very low standards. It is hypocritical to complain about a girl not being a size zero and then have actual sex with obese woman. But it happens everyday. It’s not words on the internet that should be taken seriously. It dosent line up in real life. Women can get sex whenever they want. So if guys had this insane porn star standard, that wouldn’t be the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsThat’s nasty A girl is the one who looks like that did it to herself. Hence me saying that dosent exist if a girl dosent make it happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsI personally think y’all are over estimating the expectations of a guy. Like if he had put in any effort he likely wants to have sex with you. The only guys who don’t know what women actually look like are virgins. So unless a girl is only going for virgins, this fear of him thinking she should look like a porn star is overblown. Like statistically most women(and men) aren’t even a healthy weight. Let alone a good toned body. A guy would be silly, and very inexperienced to expect that. Imo the i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 02:23 PM |
| -1 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsI mean the comment is about girls being insecure because guys have too high expectations due to porn. Even the most addicted guy knows hentai is a cartoon. So how can he be expecting a real girl to look like that. It wouldn’t make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 02:12 PM |
| -4 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsEh u got a small point. But u can’t act like real girls aren’t getting views. That’s a crazy stat tho. Dudes really like anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 01:59 PM |
| -6 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsOne is there before the other. No girls = no porn to watch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 01:23 PM |
| 4 | Are men more willing to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to them?Wait. U were offended he thought he had a chance? Why is that offensive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSigh. Double standards make life so hard. Why be so hypocritical 😔😔😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTestosterone That’s the answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:21 PM |
| -1 | Why does it matter whether someone rejects you, or has high standards?No one must accept anyone. It can just sting a bit to a guy to be rejected by the girl he’s better than. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 04:40 PM |
| -1 | Why does it matter whether someone rejects you, or has high standards?If a guy meets her standards, why wouldn’t she be interested If he dosent meet her standards, but the the guy is better than her in every way, why are he standards so unrealistic? What can she bring to the relationship if she got a guy that met those standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 04:34 PM |
| -2 | Why does it matter whether someone rejects you, or has high standards?Nah I don’t think so. Woman aren’t that good at reading men imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:56 PM |
| -5 | Why does it matter whether someone rejects you, or has high standards?You can’t get anything from the fat lazy dude. A girl who is 200lbs still has at least 1 thing to offer to a guy. Guys will do anything for it. Especially if their desperate. Standards go out the window. And so then it’s like if the guy is doing better than her in every aspect of life, why wouldn’t she say yes to him, unless she thought she was better than him? That’s the part that could get some guys upset at her standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical.But guys are the one who are such bad people Can’t win either way, might as well ignore the complaints and do what works for u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 07:01 PM |
| 5 | Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical.Where was the insult? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:18 PM |
| – | sex toysI thought the narrative was women couldn’t orgasm from penetration If penetration AND clit stimulation then what a ONS guy supposed to do😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:15 PM |
| 4 | Women pretend to dislike men more than they do, Men pretend to like women more than they doY’all really have no idea what misogyny actually is. Like women are free af. That’s literally why dating is the way it is today. Girls have freedom to do whatever they want. How can u claim they are being. Held down in life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"He literally asked for a chair. That was the confusion. She said u can take the chair, not sit here In no way is that helping himself. He asked immediately. Now there was a misunderstanding but he didn’t Rudely pull up and ask her out. He was respectful yet awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"Because men don’t want to get embarrassed for saying hello. They don’t want a girl(kinda like the one in the video) to spaz and have a breakdown over a awkward conversation Don’t white knight because that’s not ur business. As long as things stay verbal. Show me a vid where things get physical between a man and women and a bunch of dudes don’t step in to save the girl. It dosent happen Also u completely avoided ur exaggeration by claiming this girl was cornered. I wonder why u don’t value word y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"“Corner a lone woman” Literally in a public well lit area and she’s on a livestream. How cornered is that? Ur just tryna make it sound like this dude hunted her when he approached in one of the safest and most visible place possible. Why the exaggeration ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"It’s true tho😭😭😭 Same way guys are nicer to girls who are prettier in their eyes. It’s a looks thing because that’s all u have to go off of for cold approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"Good analysis. Very bad combo. No winners here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"You do know all of your friends you have ever had, u didn’t know them at some point. So one of you opened ur mouths and spoke to the other first. The way humans do. But I’m guessing in ur head men aren’t really humans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.NOOOOOO and the conflicting and hypocritical advice from all women makes it difficult to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 02:42 PM |
| 11 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.This is gold fr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 01:54 PM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanEhhhh overtly horny woman ruined dating apps. Every guy wouldn’t be on there tryna fuck if they knew it wasn’t a option. But early on girls allowed it and we’re more open to it. It makes sense now why there’s less women who do it, but the guys aren’t to blame for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 04:07 AM |
| 30 | Are straight women really qualified to give advice on how to date straight women?Woman give advice based on if desire is already a given Guys want advice on how to get girls to desire them. It’s an imperfect match Girls give advice on how to be a good partner for a relationship. Guys want advice on how to initially pull women. That’s why the advice never matches up. It’s given and received with 2 different goals in mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 03:08 AM |
| 8 | Do women find it very challenging to hear about men's struggle?Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 06:23 PM |
| 10 | I don't think average men get laid that much actuallyThe answers is Either the girl is also not having sex, she’s having causal sex from whoever, whenever she wants, or she is in a relationship with a guy Ur tryna say all avg girls are with avg guys but that’s def not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:51 PM |
| 2 | In an age where you’re damned if you try to get sexual too quickly and damned if you stay platonic for too long, what’s the best approach?Fisherman analogy checks out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 06:04 PM |
| 4 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?How this man provide 3 examples of women and it turns into an issue on his part?? But then when guys tell girls to chose better the narrative is guys are lying about who they are? Guys just wrong in every situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:03 PM |
| – | Women have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to socially awkward menThey are not equal The ugly guy saying hi with a smile is creepy for a girl But the cute guy only gets called creepy after a ass grab or something similar Ugly guy and cute guy both are called creeps but only one really earned the term, while the other is lumped with “the trash” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:52 PM |
| 9 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.It is. But some parts are true. Like do u ever wonder what makes all types of women go for the “bad boy”. Like it’s so popularized across all American culture What causes stuff like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 11:52 AM |
| 1 | What if another reason men are checking out of modern dating is the performance anxiety brought on by social media & "display" culture?😂😂never heard this retort before but u do gotta point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 04:49 PM |
| 6 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateThey not gonna reply to this sadly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:39 PM |
| -2 | What's wrong with average men?In like wtf does she mean She like starred the definition and then said opposite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:42 PM |
| 7 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceAre the majority of women marriage material? Just wanna see where ur heads at | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:30 PM |
| – | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceThis is actually once if the clearest definitions of “Chad” I’ve ever seen Good one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:28 PM |
| 5 | CMV : A lot of men feel like a date went really well when it didn’t. They made a friend.So act disinterested and win But act interested and lose Interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 03:07 PM |
| 3 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16iw6or/if_men_want_to_even_the_dating_field_they_should/k0pfj1q/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 Comments like this exist. Person literally said dudes life experience “means nothing”. The man hate goes crazy here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 02:53 PM |
| 3 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?Sigh man. No dating advice works if logic can be removed from the occasion Tbh if they both happy who am I to judge🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 02:50 PM |
| 17 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?That guy man. Hurts my soul that a guy like that can’t get his head on straight to see the girl is a wreck. Sorry I know it’s ur sis but, what’s wrong with that guy fr? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?What makes this filthy??? Like wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:46 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseThis might be my favorite comment here fr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:55 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Refusing to change to attract women out of some sort of principle is only holding you back and not proving a thing to anybodyThis is under the idea that personality matters. That’s highly circumstantial depending on the girl. Especially if the goal is sex first, then relationship. Pushing the narrative of develop personality is pretty dumb to start with for guys Start attracting women, and seeing where that goes. Then refining to get a relationship. Don’t become relationship material before you become hookup material. It’s backward | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Refusing to change to attract women out of some sort of principle is only holding you back and not proving a thing to anybodyThat’s literally what girls do all day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:26 PM |
| – | Women are becoming accepting of their own averageness yet desire above average in men more than ever beforeWomen say they don’t even notice most men. Most men are average. How does it feel to go unnoticed ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:23 PM |
| 12 | I feel like the red pill teaches the right things for the wrong reasonsAll about incentives Most of the things women tell men to do, benefit women at the expense of men, with no real sign that there will be positive reinforcement or incentive for a guy. Like pay for these dates so I can get to know u, lead the convo, don’t be too quick to message, but also show interest, and create a spark, but also don’t be too sexual and while ur on that make sure ur a man that adds to my life. 6 months no sex btw It’s like you gotta make the work worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 03:08 AM |
| 6 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allWhy would a guy desire this interaction. Like I guess ur rejection not being harsh is good But in this scnerio the guy gets nothing but the woman is happy. I guess that’s cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Because feminism is applauded at welcome And misogyny is banned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allIt’s all so hard to figure out I think the key is there are different rules for different guys. Normally easier rules for those more physically attractive. The hard part is figuring out which rules match up with your attractiveness and then not messing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allThis was my first thought too. But ima read it and give the comment a fair chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:20 PM |
| 9 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allI’ll agree with point 2 But girls on this sub and all over the internet, literally say not to approach, and if ur unattractive then approaching would prob be a negative experience for both parties. Do you see how it can be conflicting information for a guy thinking about cold approaching a girl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:49 PM |
| 6 | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.Because the girls are the deciders. Everyone,men and women, want women. WOMEN ARE AMAZING so why would a guy be upset, at another guy, because a GIRL PICKED him. I always felt women should be mad at other women who let guys treat them like shit, this validating the behavior and making both genders think it’s ok to be rude to women and that it will get u easier sex with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 09:48 PM |
| 1 | The orgasm gap would be smaller if women took the time to communicate their needs instead of expecting things to magically happen to themNot gonna lie I did misread I’m a man and u seem a lil man hating, so ima say I was only half wrong. A misogynist still can manage to get women consensually. So idk why girls are sleeping with guys like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | The orgasm gap would be smaller if women took the time to communicate their needs instead of expecting things to magically happen to themThank you for saying ur not a mind reader. PPD claims girls can sniff out when a guy is weird and that’s why average guys struggle. In ur case the cute sexy guy who prob easily gets hooks ups, was an asshole. That’s life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 07:35 PM |
| 7 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceYou do realize u just Told this man he means nothing right? Like really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 06:22 PM |
| 0 | What exactly do RP men want?I do agree with you but also the way caution comes out in real life, can be parallel to treating someone unfriendly. And the only group of guys really getting this behavior is single guys. Soooo it’s like how do u want them to feel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 06:14 PM |
| 18 | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.I mean that’s the natural progression. What else are they supposed to do? Sometimes you do everything right and no one within your reachable area wants you. It’s a tough break mentally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 06:07 PM |
| 10 | The orgasm gap would be smaller if women took the time to communicate their needs instead of expecting things to magically happen to themWHY ARE YOU HAVING SEX WITH SOOOOOOO MANY MISOGYNISTS ???? I thought women were only having sex with guys they “cared” about and took time to “get to know them” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Harshest truths that are very hard to swallow about datingThat last sentence cuts deep. I feel like if women communicated that last line more often with their advice, guys would be more open to listen. If they just said “hey if u max out everything possible it still might not be enough. Good luck”, that might at least help guys lose the pain of hope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 02:44 PM |
| -3 | If dating is so broken, why don't women seemingly complain about it?Or ya know Girls can ask for it too In context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Has anything you have read or discussed here actually changed your mind? If so, what was it?Especially about women’s opinions of having sex I feel like every girl here says “I don’t want to be used as a fleshlight” when describing sex with anyone. If that’s how u feel sex is, do it with women. Problem solved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Have you seen "the ick" trend on TikTok? What do you make of it?He’s doing what women do. They attack men for having preferences in a similar manner “Your not a real man if you don’t like x” “Your a pedo if u want women to shave” Stuff like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Have you seen "the ick" trend on TikTok? What do you make of it?Literally. It’s alway “oh that’s just her”, “the internet isn’t a good representation” But they think every man is a v1olent incel based on what they read on Reddit. A text based app is more convincing than women getting on camera and recording long rants explaining their thoughts Yea, one group is much more likely to be seen irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship?As a guy that has seen/known other guys who get casual sex. It’s not a desire that can be easily turned down. The only way to get over it is to actually have a fair amount of casual sex and THEN you realize it’s about love and blah blah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship?Love how they didn’t answer you. Didn’t think of it the way u commented but that’s very interesting. As a girl it’s just live life. But if they were a dude it would be a full time effort to looks max and social max just for a relationship. Does that mean girls are looking for guys who already do all of that, in order to be considered for a relationship? If so, 80/20 seeems true once again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:42 PM |
| – | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells youThe key is access to sex You would be amazed at how many guys maintain romantic relationships just for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:25 PM |
| 33 | Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the pastThat care about excuse deserves an immediate break up If ur giving bj’s to the club hook up, but not willing with ur boyfirend that’s an issue. Literally the only reason should be you do not enjoy the act. If ur indifferent or enjoyed it with the club hook up, why withhold from someone who is literally more committed and invested and hopefully you like them more too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:50 PM |
| 0 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….It sounds like by ur comment, a woman needs to put in no leg work or effort at the start. Which is essentially old standards. Any sort of investment. What ur saying basically let’s them off the hook of effort. I ageee with earning. Something subconsciously would not be comfy with my girl making significantly more than me as a guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 10:12 PM |
| 7 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….I would kinda agree with u if most women didn’t implement the old dating standards on men Ask first, pay for dates, generally make more than her or be on pace too. I would say these old standards woman have are still in place, on top of that the guy needs to have an approved level of emotional intelligence and also have very low expectations from women while also being hot It sounds like a very tough standard just for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….I appreciate ur comment So ur last bit says men need to become more charming and sexy in ways that appeal to men. Can you articulate that into steps or like an end goal of sorts. As in- if I wanted to be strong, I would consider my self strong when I could lift 200lbs bench press. What can a guy who is not any of the traits u named, do to improve for females. From ur comment I kinda gather a guy needs to be hot first, or else it’s a non starter for any relationship. The fact is hot ≠ average. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:22 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….The questing is then what is so bad about being around an average guy? Like if the majority of guys don’t make women feel like they should be around them long term, what is supposed to change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?Guys talk very stupidly I will admit. They will say a girl is ugly or fat But given the chance. They know there gonna try for at least sex. And if it’s a guy who dosent regularly get sex, they may fall for her and try to get a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:53 PM |
| 1 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?Ok. But we are talking about one thing currently. That’s the whole point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 05:20 PM |
| 1 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?Yea I do. Guys aren’t doing the same thing because guys do not get to be as delusional as girls. A girl can get a top 1% guy to have sex with her. At least once. A avg guy can NEVER get a top 10% girl to sleep with him. Especially on his own terms The fact that a girl can get the guy on one night kinda inflates her mental value. She thinks she’s better than she is. A avg guy can’t put themselves on this pedestal so the guy knows he’s avg and will be really trying for his looks match rather than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 03:05 PM |
| 3 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?Bro there is not even enough hot women for that Why is it always assumed guys are tryna bag 10/10 but all y’all know of fat ugly women that pull guys to. Make it make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:45 PM |
| 5 | Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change?If this is true that is sick. Sick for every single person involved in that ruling. Terrible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:28 PM |
| 3 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?Ok. But what circumstances led to the choice She “in her prime”(very disgusting word choice imo) and wants to be in a relationship or is she a single mom not making too much and she gets with a guy she wouldn’t look at 10 years ago Is the guy supposed to be happy he was “chosen”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 03:43 PM |
| 8 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?Ur right. But attraction wise, if you can’t get casual sex with a girl, but she would be in a relationship with the guy, the question has to be asked why Normally it’s because she sees him as less of a man. Which is not a very advantageous position for the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 11:31 PM |
| 2 | American woman in Australia feels ugly because she doesn't get free drinksRight after we talk about the popular tagline “kill all men” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | American woman in Australia feels ugly because she doesn't get free drinksOne is much more popular than the other There are way more entitled delusional women than there are incel based terrorist attacks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:28 PM |
| 10 | American woman in Australia feels ugly because she doesn't get free drinksThe problem is the guy would still fick and potentially wife a 4/10 A girl will act like a 4/10 guy is satan on earth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menI mean that nice I guess but what does “appreciation” do for a guy? It dosent matter to a guy if a girl appreciates him. It matter will she date him or hookup with him. Whatever his personal goal. So if a guy is trying to date a girl, it’s in his best interest to be what she likes. The issue is that it’s very hard to find out and BE what the girl wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menGuys are willing to date overweight women. The claim they will only want skinny women is just a reddit issue. Just go outside, skinny and fat guys are with fat women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 03:54 PM |
| 9 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menNo guy says their entitled. But if the narrative is “guys need to be better. That’s why they struggle”. Well then women need to give guys a goal. Something to aim towards. The problem is women, as this post is saying, don’t know how to articulate this well So how is a guy going to get “better” if the person judging him can’t even give a clear definition. And if the guy can’t get better, and the girl won’t change anything about herself, everyone ends up in the same position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 03:53 PM |
| 3 | How much of a turn off is astrology when a woman heavily believes in it?He doesn’t owe you anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'Give a guy consistent sex from women he finds attractive and see how happy he becomes over time. Obv the chads are gonna be cocoa to ur face also. Idk if ur a girl but u get a dif side of them than how they act with their “bros” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:01 PM |
| 19 | What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships?A thought I had in reference to ur second point Women do LIKE gentlemen behavior and being a good guy, but they WILL NOT sleep with a guy if that’s his only positive traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 06:48 PM |
| 14 | What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships?Why so unrealistic Whit guy is actually crying over that? In most cases guys are crying over serious shit and and the RP theory is that when they fry in front of women, the relationship normally falls apart as she can’t view u as “man” enough anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men?Isn’t the richest woman on earth there through divorce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men?Thank u. Talking some facts Never thought about wording it that way. Women have changed but men’s worth is on the same standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men?Words are a little strong but u gotta ask urself If u didn’t have a vag, would my bf/ husband still be with me and treat me the same Women need to understand there is value in a vagina. It’s just up to the girl to find a guy who values her the most for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 03:57 AM |
| 9 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?U kinda explained why u have such a poor view If ur raised around people who have only bad relationships, it’s sensible to think the whole world is like that. Good news is that ur social circle does not represent relationships with men as a whole. There are good men in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 09:39 PM |
| 7 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?Are all the men u have met in ur life that bad? To a point that being with one is considered suffering. Is it that serious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 06:22 PM |
| – | You have three wishes, what dating behaviors in men/women would you change?Dang man. The cope is so strong u can’t accept being a guy is hard. That’s crazy. A person literally tired it and couldn’t live with it and ur like “nah it’s actually not hard, she just had mental issues” Sick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 03:36 PM |
| 9 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesThought girls had to know someone to be turned on. I guess watch what they do not what they say is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 04:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV Men are way more honest in a discussion about dating/dating strategy then Women which is sad because if Women would be honest they could elevate those discussions to a new level.The disconnect may come when we listen to what a specific woman will say, and then watch what said women will do. And the action not match with the words. That’s lying It may not be intentional or malicious. But if what ur doing dosent match what u say then ur a liar. Girl says -“I need to have a connection with a guy before I sleep with him” Girl on a random night clubbing has a one night stand. She lied. Is there a problem with her having a ONS.? no. But it does go against what she said. And t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 12:54 AM |
| 4 | What are these “ movies and media” that everyone always references for blue pillGeek Charming Disney movie where the nerd wins. Incel classic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:27 PM |
| 8 | Have you ever had a close, heterosexual male platonic friend before ? If so, how was it ?U turned the vocabulary meter up to a 11/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 07:19 PM |
| 0 | Men should use every dating app to leverage their online dating market.Idk who is right or wrong, but he’s giving his individual experience and ur giving your own. 1 v 1 So is it possible maybe y’all have two completely different experiences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Are average men really "struggling" to get relationships with girls?Shocker Maybe guys haven’t been making it up that it’s hard to get girls nowadays. 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Self Improvment Mega Thread WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICWhat do u think of the book so far? Instrested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 05:51 PM |
| 14 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeThey not gonna like this truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeAmazing comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 05:50 PM |
| 3 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.Whatever you say BOOMER | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 11:49 PM |
| 0 | Discussion. You being rejected is a product of lifted oppression, so it should be seen as a good thing that a lot of men are “missing out” nowBut the point of the post is mainly about young male dating struggles. A man between the ages 18-25 isn’t dating a 30+ mother. The guy will be looking for girls around his age who are not moms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 10:10 PM |
| 11 | Discussion. You being rejected is a product of lifted oppression, so it should be seen as a good thing that a lot of men are “missing out” nowUr saying that men feeing bad is a good thing, because women have freedom to make them feel bad. Basically. Men were winning, but now women are winning. And since there can only be 1 winner, ur saying it’s good that it’s women. Men feelings can go to hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 03:28 PM |
| 7 | Discussion. You being rejected is a product of lifted oppression, so it should be seen as a good thing that a lot of men are “missing out” nowBut like there is less care to be done. More women are single. Less families. Lower birth rates. How are women independent, yet providing care? Care to what? They single with no kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 03:25 PM |
| 0 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseI mean whether you accept it or not is up to you. But incels get mad because they can’t get women to date them. Now that’s 97.5% their fault but that’s why they exist. Why else do u think incels exist for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 09:54 PM |
| 1 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseWith this mentality, do not complain about a rise in nihilistic incels. Ur essentially saying if ur not currently good enough, you never will be. Nobody will care. That’s not a very good message to push to younger struggling guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseUr right about that for sure. If a girl likes you as a guy, things will be much easier. Little to no hoops to jump through | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 07:07 PM |
| 7 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseI’ve seen down bad girls and down bad guys. A down bad girl is normally one who wants a relationship with a guy who is only willing to sleep with her. So the floor is she is sexually desired but likely can’t be his girlfriend A down bad guy is in a mucchhhh worse scenario where he is completely ignored by most suitable women. It’s almost not comparable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 06:49 PM |
| 0 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseThank you for acknowledging there is a problem. Then u say women can’t and shouldn’t really fix or care about the problem. So what on earth are the guys to do? RP teachings aren’t liked by some women. But then cold approaching all day is objectifying. Then dating apps are terrible. What can u recommends a guy do if he’s in a struggling dating situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 06:48 PM |
| 14 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseOr accused for harassment if the girl is in a bad mood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward womenU mean like ur previous comment saying every guy comments the same thing about women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 04:39 PM |
| 7 | Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward womenAll I hear are guys need to do better to meet every possible standard. Men are trash. Blah blah blah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 04:20 PM |
| 0 | Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward womenYour also doing the thing where ur only talking about getting a long term relationship with women. Guys, especially young ones want to hook up to. And all these requirements go out the window for that. Girls aren’t picking high integrity and good communication skills. They picking height and looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 01:54 PM |
| 17 | Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward womenThis. Guys don’t just wake up thinking woman are sluts. Maybe the watch the guy who gets called abusive by all his partners, continuously get new women. Maybe they get rejected harshly a couple times. Maybe they see guys do noting and hookup with. A girl in under an hour. Dislacimer, I personally do not think all girls are sluts. But I could see how if a guy is living through some of the examples above, he could have this mindset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | :.(My apologies big dawg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:10 PM |
| 3 | :.(Who cares. Why do y’all act like if a girl says something online, you can’t run into like minded females in real life? Stop trying to down play poor women as if they don’t exist. Any woman with that mindset irl or on the internet is a problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Is anybody here good at hookup culture, but hates it?Can I have the script? Haven’t had a girl in 16 months | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder that there is no such thing as a femcelThe issue is girls objectively pick bad partners sometimes. Even knowing the guy they pick is worse than the other. So like, that’s a logical question but girls don’t have sex based on logic normally. So trying to do something with the idea it should work, is a waste of time. Effort is not proportional to results when it comes to guy getting sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:09 PM |
| 8 | Do men like plus size women?I’ve never heard a Rp or blackpoll say “fetishsize” Only feminists say stuff like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 03:25 AM |
| 0 | How many relationships are initiated by women in modern dating?Both of y’all are right. It depends on the girl and how hot the guy is in her eyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 06:19 PM |
| 11 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not Conservative“What do I need protecting from? I don’t need a man.” Now why would a guy sign up for that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It makes sense that men (particularly ones who had a glow up) don't treat women with much respect.That’s fair. But I’m saying kindness to women isn’t always met back with kindness. They can straight up ignore u or claim u did something creepy even with a respectful greeting. That’s the problem when the walls are up to strong. It’s a lose lose for all involved because now the guy is gonna be like women don’t care if ur nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It makes sense that men (particularly ones who had a glow up) don't treat women with much respect.It’s much harder to approach women then men for friendship. This is partially social constructs and unspoken rules but men approaching a guy to be friends is easier than for girls. And girls make themselves more open for other girls. So ur saying the “walls” have to be over come, but for the hot guy or guy that turns the girl on, there are no rules. But for a random guy, he’s gotta get very busy to break these walls. It’s just a lot harder for what reward at the end? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 08:10 PM |
| 5 | CMV: It makes sense that men (particularly ones who had a glow up) don't treat women with much respect.With that indifference tho it seems there are a lot of walls up to the avg guy that they have to climb over to approach for friendship or romance. These walls can seem like the guy isn’t wanted around. But if all girls are acting like this, the guy is gonna think NO girl wants him around ever. That’s a very dangerous spiral to be in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 06:05 PM |
| 1 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menWhat does “cope” mean? Genuinely curios since I’ve never seen an example, just the mod comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 05:36 PM |
| 2 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menThis is not true. Any one night stand or club hookup proves this. Guys do not do all this work for the “potential” of getting women. It makes no sense when some random can walk into the club and have the girls ur working to provide for, on her knees in the bathroom. Now all that effort is down the drain. Some Guys can get sex without effort, girls are not on the same page. Some give up sex with less requirements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 05:33 PM |
| 14 | CMV: It makes sense that men (particularly ones who had a glow up) don't treat women with much respect.I agree. Being mean because a whole other person was mean, dosent make sense. But I think the reason it can happen is a bit of trying not to repeat what got you hurt. So if a guy got did wrong by a girl and he was acting like a nice guy, he might think “hmmmm the nice guy thing didn’t work with her, let me try something new” And the more times the guy gets dropped by girls while being “nice” it will make him act the opposite. Doing the same thing over and over is dumb basically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 12:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.I do agree But I don’t think someone has messed up morals for not self improving. Being content can be a blessing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.That’s called good karma. And I would agree if u said doing self improvement would open u to more opportunity of higher quality people But your saying self improvement is based on morals and people SHOULD do it for the benefit of the world. Which is just not true. Not self improving dosent make u a slob and in todays US it makes u average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.Incentives are a thing. Why would someone do something with no incentive And self improving is not a morally right thing to do. It’s an option. But morally an individual has no obligation to be better in terms of looks money and status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.This. If and only if she says yes, she was capable of saying the shorter word of no. Regret is not rape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Women love one night stands as much as men doU forgot 10 dates and 6 months. Cmon tighten up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 07:32 PM |
| – | Most men and women are really bad at detecting flirtingAll it takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Legit question for female women: How is it possible for you to have low self-esteem and confidense?Bro Ty. Idk what happen. Am I shadow banned or something. My comment 2 hours ago is showing up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Your 'standards' are irrelevant. The dating market tells you what you're worthI’ve only had my heart stolen by women I’m just saying🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Legit question for female women: How is it possible for you to have low self-esteem and confidense?For girls I really don’t think so Guys may have given a go at trying to make a gamin channel and have a few videos. But girls don’t rally do that. The avg girl that posts pics on social media consistently may have a higher avg following then guys do tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 05:28 PM |
| 14 | I think the red pill is morally wrong in almost every aspect.I’m not the guy in question. And ur labeling women poor for having sex? That’s ur opinion but not having sex dosent make a man or women better than the next. Sleeping around has it’s drawbacks but it dosent determine a persons value. aren’t all women supposed to be against slut shaming? It makes life worse for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 04:04 PM |
| 4 | I think the red pill is morally wrong in almost every aspect.Ehhhh. This goes both ways. And why would the guy want “the rest of y’all”. It’s like what does he get from this “other” group of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Genderflip - if men chose "bodice rippers", what would they choose?I was thinking wtf is that It’s erotica. Wtf is that language OP is using? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHood rats give the best head I promise u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFlair checks out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approachingI’m not saying ur preference is wrong But essentially it sounds like u want the guy to invest the time to talk to u, with no goal or incentive in mind. And why would the guy approach if he didn’t find you attractive? And if he did find you attractive, why wouldn’t he ask for your number or a date? It’s like if he can’t even ask, then what’s the point of approaching the girl? I really don’t understand how a guy can win with the mindset you want them to have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approachingGirls are in groups of friends literally boxed in like the president when they are at the club It add a lot more pressure and possible embarrassment when u have to approach a girl with 4 other girls watching. Especially when one or more of them can try to cock block, even when ur not doing that bad I agree the club is a good place to try some approaches, but it’s also the highest chance of embarrassment too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Women claim that men are not trying that hard, and men claim they tried too hard... this is a possible explanation and solutionAn issue is some of those girls will genuinely be ok with the cats So the population of Chad throwaways gets smaller for when she wants to “settle down” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 06:43 PM |
| – | Is hating on men more normalized?U picked some tame examples. The “men are trash” ones really are too much. Like if guys said it flat out like that they would be banned and cancelled. Another thing men have to “man up” and not care about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”I’m not saying fundamental = mandatory. But what I think me and OP are saying is that having these traits of looks,money,status will give a guy the widest pool of women that can find him attractive. Since that pool is wider the guy will have a better chance at a positive outcome with the girl. So the traits do not guarantee anything, and some women like u say will not care about any of the traits. But the goal is for the guy to be seen as attractive to the highest number of woman possible to hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:36 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”I agree there is no rule book. But there is trends and common sense on a population level. Individuals make up the population. Your not going to convince me that majority women are like your sister or like lesbians. I am convince majority of women would like a muscular guy over a guy who is not all things held the same. I am convinced majority women would like a guy with more money over one with less all other things equal And the outlier is your story tho. Ur saying the assumption of most women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:19 PM |
| 11 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”There is a whole woman in the White House. That’s the second leadership job in the whole country. Literally by definition Lesbians are women not attracted to men at all(in theory). So no matter what traits, fundamental or not they won’t want a man Obv there will be exceptions like your sister, but for many guys it’s a numbers game. So the best thing to do is be attractive to the most women possible, hence a set of fundamental traits that appeal to MOST women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis implies all the other guys who manage to get sex frequently or infrequently, are remarkable or likeable. But we know that’s not true So the question then is, what does any single guy that can get sex have, that the guy in question does not? That’s the formula. Sadly the formula only works on the specific girl in question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 03:01 PM |
| 1 | PUA tactics work and prove that attraction is very formulaicBut who cares. Like if one part works, stick with what works. If u need to be nice and have game, vs being an asshole and having game Why do the thing with 2 requirements? Why give extra effort to be nice and have game? Makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | What is sexualization if sexualization is based on claimed intentions?The only way that benefits in real life is like this in my head A girl notices a guy isn’t staring at her. And that makes him more attractive. So then she approaches him. Are u approaching guys that display behavior u like? Or is this “effort” to not be seen as creepy just rewarded in spirit? Not looking at a girl has no benefits that provide a tangible gain. Your scenario sounds like a lose lose situation for guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What is sexualization if sexualization is based on claimed intentions?Because the guy can’t know that. A person can’t chose who interacts with them wanted or unwanted. A average guy who’s groomed and wearing regular clothes walking outside, can not know a girl finds him repulsive and will feel bad if he looks at her for 3 seconds or more. He can not know Maybe she will like him. Maybe, probably, she won’t notice. But he has no idea what she thinks or how he will make her feel. That’s why intent matters. Your giving people labels of being mean and bullying women, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What is sexualization if sexualization is based on claimed intentions?Yuck. But a girl can’t know a guys intent when looking at her. Maybe he was gonna approach and got scared. He also in some cases can’t tell he isn’t attractive to the girl. Guys can’t walk around with their heads down. Guys are also straight. They like women same way women like men. Girls talk about guys bodies all the time. Less but it still happens I would say not every guy that looks has bad intentions. There is a such thing as being in a trance from beauty. I know that sounds dramatic but lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 06:51 PM |
| 1 | What is sexualization if sexualization is based on claimed intentions?Qualified is a stretch. I mean guys who look with the idea of TRYING to creep the girl out cannot be helped. Their view of women is not well and they prob need Jesus. I would say try to chat with girls in friendly settings but that has its own issues Women also do feel something when they are passed up. Thousands of posts about why don’t men approach me, and all the magazines about “how to get and keep HIS attention”. Unattractive women was attractive men. They care if they aren’t able to pull g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Women, is the 2x sub a representative sample of women?I would like to think most comments I see on Reddit, especially debate or discussion subs, coke from humans It’s crazy to imagine but the comments u see can come from any of the people you see and interact with in real life. Maybe people take these comments to serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 06:27 PM |
| 1 | What is sexualization if sexualization is based on claimed intentions?I would say uncontrolled desperation mixed with loneliness with a bit of having no empathy for women is the reason guys stare. I wouldn’t say bullying as a whole reason. Maybe catcalling is a result if guys wanting to bully women Being shown in your face your inadequate in the eyes of an attractive women does hurt. As a guy I can say that. It’s about how guys handle this temporary pain that matters. Some do lash out against women in passive aggressive or actual aggressive ways. The narrative tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 06:24 PM |
| 2 | What is sexualization if sexualization is based on claimed intentions?I agree with the porn thing. Why stare at well shaped jeans irl when u could look at bare ass on the hub. Also don’t get ig model success I actually am agreeing with u. But I really wonder what can be done to fix it. Idk about push up bra getting stared at, but for minors who develop eart and religious outfits, those women do not deserve the harassment. But I really don’t know what can be done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Women, is the 2x sub a representative sample of women?I do not fully agree. But guys may see it as girls getting what they asked for, rather than payback Like it’s the equivalent of being a female man child. So when guys see women stuggling with the challenges of adulting, they say the same thing society says to guys struggling. Ur not entitled to anything, deal with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 05:00 PM |
| 1 | What is sexualization if sexualization is based on claimed intentions?Those are the countries America tries to “take over”. Agree with it or not if ur in the US, that’s one of the few places trying to take action against a small part of that oppression. Your right women being judged for clothing goes past push up bras. And I think judging religious clothing is terrible and should not be allowed. But it is protected in laws somewhat, in terms of it being a hate crime. But idk what guys are supposed to do about these loud and disgusting men. Women don’t like them an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | What is sexualization if sexualization is based on claimed intentions?Well that’s the part. U say under the clown suit. Because it covers his body, but in girls cases the body parts aren’t covered well And I can’t argue that guys are creepy. Some are, I do not personally support guys looking at pre teens and it’s disgusting. If I see it I will try my best to tell the guy go to hell. But I can’t help that and neither can girls. My argument rn is grown women’s know what they are showing and what they are wearing They know how male attention works. They can wear what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What is sexualization if sexualization is based on claimed intentions?Well you explain an incentive in both cases. The minor is illegal and morally disgusting to check out once the guy is aware of age And on a date you obv want a romantic and loyal relationship with the girl. So looking at others is bad But by yourself, why would a guy not look at the girl in the crop top and push up bra. Like why not? She wore it. If a guy wears a clown suit people will look at him. The girl wears some things, she will be looked at. That’s life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 02:53 PM |
| 1 | A large amount of the issues with the modern dating sphere stem not from high female standards, but low reciprocity and the selfishness that has imprinted itself on female dating culture.In this thread I’ve seen responds like “The females OP is showing don’t represent all women”. So why would RP content represent all men. Which one is it? And isn’t it said RP dosent work? So why join a side or try to emulate them if it dosent work and is sooo bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 06:16 PM |
| 7 | I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women.This is always so annoying. Women never accept it or acknowledge these experiments. Like if girls don’t even know how to get girls Don’t you think it’s a little too hard or complicated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 02:03 AM |
| 1 | I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women.I try not to think about non born female oppression. I’ll focus on current livin male issues tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Yeah, Women get sex easier. So what?The tittle for one. It’s like so what women get sex, ur not, so stop trying Also in your post you don’t mention how casual sex is bad for women. You say they have issues making guys stay or vetting, but for guys your post is saying they shouldn’t do it and it dosent make them high value All the negatives about guys in the post are toward casual sex, but women’s only issue is keepers guys around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 10:54 PM |
| 0 | I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women.Pro choice is the way to go. So you can be right, that in the argument of abortion, which was just recently changed, and also dependent on location, does oppress women. This oppression does not “force women to be pretty” or live like the 50’s like other comments said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 10:05 PM |
| 7 | Yeah, Women get sex easier. So what?I will agree with ur argument that criticizing women for casual sex while applauding men, is hypocritical. It’s not fair and it causes logical problems later on But your post is reading like, women have sex when they want, a small set of men can too, the rest should stop trying to be like them because their not good enough. I read what ur saying as, don’t try to be like the rich people, enjoy your poor life. Ur saying a guy who has causal sex shouldn’t be applauded, but ask 9/10 straight or even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 08:41 PM |
| 7 | Yeah, Women get sex easier. So what?First off your post is titled and primarily against men having sex. Why not say women and men should stop casual sex? Saying both now in a comment kinda undermines your argument that u feel men and women should stop. As a dude maybe try to give some advice u may have on getting these fulfilling relationships and not just telling men to ignore that women have causal sex and their not allowed too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 08:07 PM |
| 13 | Yeah, Women get sex easier. So what?Ahhhh the classic, men suck for doing what women can do. Another example of someone who dosent care about men and telling them what they want dosent matter. Would look great if genders were swapped | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 07:34 PM |
| 17 | I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women.Homie there is a whole woman in the White House rn Turn on cable tv half the commercials are woman empowerment or woman being cool. Half of these women don’t even dress like females and putting on manly/over sized clothes is the new trend How are you oppressed in todays America as a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:18 PM |
| 6 | The issue is that women dislike how male sexuality is different from theirs but they still expect men to pursue.That’s all nice about not wanting to associate with her, but the guy probably figures that out after the rude rejection or worse the type of girl who starts recording guys Idk about expect to be approached, that’s a interesting way to put it. I guess I would say try not to act like a guy is interrupting you if ur in a bad and approached I guess. Like when someone steps on ur shoes at a concert or something. Like in regular life that annoying and maybe intentional. But it comes with the territory… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:56 PM |
| 11 | The issue is that women dislike how male sexuality is different from theirs but they still expect men to pursue.I kinda agree but respectful and disrespectful approach depends on the guy and mostly what he looks like. Soo it really just depends on if the guy and the girl were gonna click anyway Women would be open to the high risk pick up line from the super hot guy. But for an average guy a simple “hi how are you” is the most adventurous approach that wouldn’t be shunned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:16 PM |
| 5 | For men: if you don’t approach women IRL - you have no reason to complain on this subWell that’s what guys are saying. Something is wrong. But the response is always “grow up”, “it’s not a real issue” and the legendary “touch grass” And no other solutions besides try to get rejected and maybe 1-2 will sticl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 11:01 AM |
| 11 | Is effort a paradox in dating?That’s the hard part. Comparison is really all a guy can go off of besides a girl telling him why they rejected him. A girl telling you what you did wrong may not even be truthful or will be very subjective. So the next best thing is see what kinda guys are with what types of girls It’s like seeing someone with your dream job, your going to want to emulate what they did to get it. Sadly no path is the same for every guy. And effort is not proportional to results. You can try day and night to get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 02:34 PM |
| -1 | Question 4 Women: Why do you own sex toys if you have a partner?I think the question is more of a argument against men watching porn or maybe using flesh lights while in a relationship. If girls can do it guys can too type of argument is what op is trying to do. Not saying you should wait for ur husband. I don’t think that’s op message | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 01:13 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on datesIdk how u think this is true Guys don’t WANT to struggle. A normal guy can not go outside and get female attention. In America, as seen by numerous videos by females, a guy can not go out in public and approach women without the potential to go viral in a negative way. If it was as easy as going outside everyone would be happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 02:43 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis seems so hard to call. She invited u so she won’t be a third wheel, but that dosent mean she wants u romantically. It’s great she’s willing to have u meet her friends Best way to tell is maybe trying to escalate physically during and after the double date. She may not be comfy doing stuff in front of her friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 06:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis seems so hard to call. She invited u so she won’t be a third wheel, but that dosent mean she wants u romantically. It’s great she’s willing to have u meet her friends Best way to tell is maybe trying to escalate physically during and after the double date. She may not be comfy doing stuff in front of her friends Good luck. And yes any advice u reads from me should not be followed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 06:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlso less clean up if you do a good job bois Trust me, having to wash sheets after every session is annoying. Make it her problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 06:50 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe only requirement I hear girls getting mad at is weight So just say u want a girl with C cups and a size 3 waist. All natural of course. Who could possibly hate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 06:49 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on datesWHHAAATTTTT I thought make dating issues were made up and it would be solved by touching grass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 06:24 PM |
| 28 | CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on datesWomen here give advice based on how they wish the world was instead of how it actually is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 06:20 PM |
| 5 | What is red pill, actually?If he works his 20’s away to become chad later Wall is an unnecessary part tho. Which is not always true. It is primarily based off of American viewpoints thi from what I can tell. So the worlds fattest country probably won’t have good looking middle aged men and women. But if you lift🤔🤔🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 07:12 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadInefficient She’s def fucked guys in under 2 hours. Get ur game up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 05:16 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadU just dropped two very nice lines. Both true as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Women who used to post and comment on the FemaleDatingStrategy sub what are some books a man should read?Literally. They quit the Reddit so I guess it’s fine but it fr should have been taken down by admins for the same reasons as TRP MGTOW had some rough memes in there tho. I see why it was banned. Some posts were too much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Women who believe their “platonic” male friends aren’t in fact orbiters; why do you think they aren’t attracted to you?Exactly. This is why they don’t believe men aren’t having sex. Because if a guy can platonically socialize he must be having sex. RIGHT????😨😨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 02:35 PM |
| 6 | Women who believe their “platonic” male friends aren’t in fact orbiters; why do you think they aren’t attracted to you?I agree with your thinking for guys But I think the guy u responded to meant that if a guy thinks a woman is attractive, he would want or at least accept the offer, if having sex with her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Treat her like an employee . . . not a slaveYou make it sound like getting pregnant isn’t her choice too. Unless the guy dosent pull out intentionally it can be discussed to not try to get her preg. No birth control necessary “Destroying her body for the man’s seed”. Like bruh what year is it. Women aren’t forced to be pregnant. If the man wants kids and she dosent, she has a million other options. Why act like the man is to blame for a girl being pregnant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 02:16 PM |
| 0 | Treat her like an employee . . . not a slaveThen why do women “date up”? If they are looking for guys better than them how would the relationship even be 50/50. Also women want “equitable” bill splits, but that isn’t 50/50 either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.The girl controls sex. All guys want to have sex, so they have a given position that will not change. Girls want guys to wait and show commitment, but if the girl skips that step and allows for sex it will happen. A guy is normally not going to deny himself the chance at sex, with or without commitment. Imo casual sex of a few women set way to high expectations for other men and women. Guys thinking every girl does hookups and girls being pressed by guys who want to not get dropped because “they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexIn regards to ur first statement, you do know WOMEN you the term virgin as an insult toward men. “That’s why you get no pussy” is another insult used by women toward men? Do women view other women as accessories or maybe your taking the words too far? If the guy could replace a girl with a machine, then ur right, he only wanted sex. Butttt if all men just wanted sex, they already have toys for that, so why haven’t all men stopped dating? Maybe because they don’t just want women for sex and enjoy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 04:25 PM |
| 7 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexDon’t women hate when RP says AWALT But then you say one persons wrongly perceived opinion, counts as the opinion of all men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 04:18 PM |
| 6 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.I fully agree with u. My comment is more an argument against the op I was responding to where they blamed men for casual sex being rampant before commitment. I’m saying it’s girls that caused this issue because they control if a guy can get casual sex before commitment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 02:26 PM |
| 5 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.That’s what OP is saying The few women that do have casual sex, are probably doing it with the same guys. So maybe it would be best to say 80/20 in regards to women who have casual sex. That stipulation is tricky because does a one night hookup count as casual sex if the girl never does that again🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️. Then it’s def a lot more girls who can be added into the casual sex list. P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:44 PM |
| 8 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.I agree the sex first date but must be a virgin rule is hypocritical But women control who gets sex and how much of it. Casual sex being too rampant is because a few women gave a good enough amount of guys casual sex, so now guys think almost every girl is willing or already participating in casual sex. I don’t think it’s a guys fault for sex coming before commitment, it’s up to the girls to stop that from happening by getting commitment from every guy she eventually has sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell that’s what I call big vulva energy Congrats on getting things they way you want. I still do not think being husband material and waiting is better then being able to hookup. No matter who the girls is. If the relationship was gonna work waiting, it’s def gonna work if y’all have sex. Unless there is sexual incomparably, which would have happened anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell that’s what I call big vulva energy Congrats on getting things they way you want. I still do not think being husband material and waiting is better then being able to hookup. No matter who the girls is. If the relationship was gonna work waiting, it’s def gonna work if y’all have sex. Unless there is sexual incomparably, which would have happened anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI would say for one a guy will not agree with waiting for sex. A guy wants sex with an attractive girl as soon as possible. Even when his intentions are to stay. I do think if a guy likes a girl he may comply with HER wish to wait for sex. But if he had the option, I doubt a guy will decline sex with the girl and be like “nah we should prob wait 3 months?” Have you had a guy decline your advances or be the first to bring up the fact y’all should wait? The men waited because they liked you, which… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSounds like a recipe for a woman dominated relationship or the next post on r/deadbedrooms Finding sexual comparability early can help too. And just because one guy left after sex dosent mean the next will. That’s portably why the girl likes the guy, because she sees he’s good for her. Why make the guy suffer the negative of not getting sex, just to protect against something that likely won’t happen. And then risk wasting time if not sexually compatible. When you can just have sex with a guy you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:49 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt sucks in comparison to hook up material. Guys want to have sex with girls they like. Why would they wanna be the guy who is liked by a girl but can’t have sex for a few months, instead of being the guy who has sex with her within a week? Like where’s the logic in being “husband material” in stead of hookup material? I’m so curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Chivalry is not dead, it is just reserved a few very important womenWell u said it. Gentlemen stuff is a set of sexist behaviors where the man does things for a women for sex under the guise that she’s superior. So he will do things for a girl that he wouldn’t for a guy or a girl he didn’t romantically like(except family). So being a gentlemen is sexist, but it is also part of chivalry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Many men who have nothing going for them and are low value try to get high value or attractive women, and then complain and moan that they’re “alone forever” but don’t ever lower their standards.It’s a cold world brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 04:19 PM |
| 12 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?In short AF/BB does it apply to all women? No. But is it something guys should be on the look out for? Definitely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 01:57 PM |
| 3 | It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship.I agree that overall the guy and girl should stop the relationship if this is an issue for them But imo the thinking is, she gave sex quickly to the guy she hookup with. Now that I am in a relationship with her, why would I not want sex, which is a positive in the relationship. Like just because it didn’t work with one guy, quick sec does not ruin a relationship. And if the guy is relationship material in the girls head, why would sex change that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 01:51 PM |
| – | CMV Casual sex as a attractive man gets old fastI agree with you it’s probably not worth it. But it’s like why are men and women still having casual sex so often. Why do girls hookup at all if they all are told it’s not worth it. Hearing girls say casual sex ain’t worth it, and then seeing them have a hookup a few weeks later feels very misleading. It’s like playing a joke on the guys who can’t get it. Like it’s not worth it Billy, and then proceeding to do it. It’s the rich telling the poor life’s not so bad, but the rich never end up joinin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 01:34 PM |
| – | CMV Casual sex as a attractive man gets old fastAll the “accomplished” RP guys would say the same thing. They make a post about how to get women and at the end say it’s really not worth it once you achieve the goal. Problem is sex isn’t replaceable. You can substitute the feeling doing anything else(legally at least), so it dosent matter if someone says it’s not worth it. A guy will never feel that way until he gets there. He will always feel a bit of regret or missing out unless you get to the top of the mountain to say yourself the views no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is generally from guys and it comes from a scarcity mindset. You want most what you can’t have/have a small amount. Most guys here aren’t complaining about having Ramen, because most of them can afford it. But what they can’t do is pull women they like consistently. Thus that’s what is the most complained about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 07:09 PM |
| 7 | CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe himJesus Christ. If you read my comment history I’m a pretty big defender of TRP but this post is worse that some of those old made up field reports on the TRP sub. Has anyone even seen Andrew Tate pull a girl in real life? All the advice he gives is what RP gives. I promise RP does not turn every guy into someone who can “get threesomes” whenever they want(maybe MMM). Dude get outside more. Never thought I’d have to type that to someone but this post is terrible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSomeone call the horny police | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs a single gen z male I’ve benefitted from a few of those things in my life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 04:39 PM |
| 14 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitI would agree this is true, especially for relationships. But if said girl has hooked up ever, or multiple times, then those were guys who didn’t have to wait for whatever reason So now when a new guy comes along, and somehow finds out she had hookups but is making him wait, what is he to think. Because if his intentions are good, why would he leave after getting sex? And why is he not good enough to get sex the same way the hookup guy did? These questions run through a guys mind in this waiting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe answer would definitely be no. Triple H would cook most men in a fight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | The Liberal left had abandoned men. The Rise of Andrew Tate and Redpill creators is a result of thatYes vetting. It’s good. To argue against men for a sec, the dick does cause bad decision making. Most guys can tell you a time then knew a girl was trouble but still pursued or stayed in contact just for sex or the possibility of it. If guys mastered their hornieness the world would be in trouble. Only good guys matching with girls they liked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:06 PM |
| 8 | The Liberal left had abandoned men. The Rise of Andrew Tate and Redpill creators is a result of thatBasically. Like if a BELOW average guy can read RP and then manipulate a girl so hard she has sex with him,when she otherwise wouldn’t, what does that say about the girl or RP power. All the girls and white knights say RP dosent work, I guess RP readers are good at finding gullible girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:41 PM |
| 2 | I cannot understand why any person looking for a serious relationship would not support the FDS 3-month for sex strategy.He saying, as a guy Waiting 3 months for a girl to have sex with u is bad. It’s bad because during that wait period she is likely dating other guys, and possibly having sex with them. She may have a different timer on one type of guy and he gets to have sex with her. So now one guy is waiting while dating, and the other guy is having sex,with or without the dating part. 99% of guys are gonna wanna be the one having sex and not the one waiting. Also if ur multidsting, what if a guy completes his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 06:17 PM |
| 22 | The Liberal left had abandoned men. The Rise of Andrew Tate and Redpill creators is a result of thatI wish being a good person gave proportional results. But sadly life does not give you rewards equal to the amount you are a good person. And men aren’t the only people doing wrong. Free food dates, pay for everything relationships and more are also wanted by some women. Sometimes the “good guys” run into the bad women and that just adds more RP guys. Also I do not agree RP is manipulation. If it is, it’s just as manipulating as push up bras and moderate to extreme makeup. Men and women use thes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:53 PM |
| 20 | The Liberal left had abandoned men. The Rise of Andrew Tate and Redpill creators is a result of thatWhy is it not an excuse It’s “dark side” with a chance or no girls at all Which one should a guy pick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid?Why is getting laid not a good reward? Why is it an argument to say “oh you have hookups as a guy, how pathetic” That shit sounds like the dream, like why wouldn’t guys want sex??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?I think if she has issues, and knows she has issues She should address them before accepting any romantic advances. Now a guy is going to try and get any girl that allows him. If she dosent indicate “hey I’m mentally struggling rn I might not be the best partner”, how is the guy supposed to know But what I actually meant in my prev comment was, a lot of people have mental issues. If people without mental issues stopped dating, there would be very little romance going on in America rn, which may … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?Well I guessed they stopped “daring” to do it Btw female dating advice has been around forever. Never seen those magazines that say “16 ways to keep him in love with you”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?Which one is that? Genuine question Only women subs I’ve seen is diabla and fds. Twox if you wanna count that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?Which ones tend to be the guys who get hookups more? Guys want sex. If they see girls giving out sex QUICKLY to a certain type of guy, that’s the role model. Be the guy she can’t wait to have sex with, not the one who’s waiting for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?It’s not a good thing. I’m saying it’s insane to think anything is gonna change if women are picking the same type over and over The number of men and women with mental health problems increases daily. So I think it’s prob time to work aroud those issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 12:51 AM |
| 4 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?Ummm the same guys are having sex. Maybe give some new guys with good hearts a shot instead of the players😭😭😭 But seriously tho. Guys are happy to get sex but the narrative on this sub is guys don’t get sex. And it’s not very smart to have the girl be unsatisfied. If your struggling u want to have the girl comeback as often as possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 12:02 AM |
| 6 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?It’s literally not Maybe FDS didn’t come up with it but women did. No guy is adding the 6 inch part. Didn’t u get the male hate memo guys don’t care about female orgasm or sexual pleasure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?I mean generalizations Happen. This sub regularly says guys want a woman who cooks cleans with C cups and visible abs That’s unrealistic and probably not most guys standards. And guys on this sub say that offers. FDS dosent say “no our standard isn’t 6/6/6” they just say “I deserve a man who fits the 6/6/6 standard because…” Also fds closed because too many women missed the point and thought it was a hate men meme sub where they can make jokes and write down their insane standards. Is that the “… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 10:20 PM |
| 11 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?6/6/6 rule. That’s literally like 10-20% of men. Saying that’s a standard is insane Paying for everything is another thing. That’s difficult in todays world. I’ve seen FDS say the guy has to go half on chores even if he pays all bills. Makes no sense imo I feel like FDS has all these rules the guy HAS to follow or else he’s kicked but there is no standard the girls hold themselves too. Like FDS says what to expect or demand from a guy, but not much about how to be a better woman Edit: your right… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 09:56 PM |
| 9 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?I don’t agree personally but I think the problem with fds is that some of the boundaries and standards set are unrealistic and entitled. That’s why the community gets so much hate, it’s teaching girls to have bad standards that are unrealistic and end up with no man who can fit them, especially in a win-win situation for the man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | A Week in the DarkHatching pete I guess the advice is guys just learn how to dance. And whatever you do avoid Peter griffin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIdk how those guys are even getting women Like if he’s a slob and dosent cook and eat hot pockets all day, how in the world did he pull you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI thought women were always right😨😨🤔🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?Thanks for the thought out comment. Hopefully it works out in favor for both parties. But being so surprised a person acts right to you is an indicator of some issues imo. The girl may not be ready for the guy, and depending on how she breaks that to him, could make him think it’s his fault. That’s so lame to me, hope it all works positively for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:18 PM |
| 4 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?The girl assumes failure. Is that reasonable for her? Her whole post is she assumes things about men and is shocked that it didn’t come true. She so shocked she dosent know if she wants to keep dating the guy. I’m right to assume this prob won’t work out. Especially for the guy, who seems like he likes her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?That’s not what happened. The girl is saying he was so well presented she was shocked. She will eventually “fire” him to keep the analogy Your assigning blame to a guy when the whole point is he did nothing wrong. That’s why she made the post. My question is, what is the guy supposed to do in the future? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?The girl literally feels like there is something off She knows it’s gonna happen. That’s why she’s trying to get people to tell her it won’t and just be happy. It’s self sabotage. Only problem is she can’t help herself and stop it from happening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?Right. Like if all u run into us the same guy, maybe look inward at what your attracting and allowing into your life And now that she pulled a good guy, she’s second guessing stuff. Prob gonna be way more attentive and reactive to this new guys mistakes and red flags | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?304 is like backwards upside spells hoe Similar to 90095 spells boobs on a calculator. At least that’s my best guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong?So now that the woman empathy is out of the way. And the guy who likes the girl will lose her, do to no fault of his own, how should he move forward? Treat the next girl the same way that didn’t work? Go on the internet and find RP? Like when this dosent work out for the guy who put his best foot forward, what should be his next move? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 04:27 PM |
| 4 | What is worse to you: getting no female attention whatsoever, or getting female attention from the worst, lowest women only?Stop looking too deeply into my life pls. Thx xoxox | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 03:50 PM |
| 13 | ALL men who want to date should go to the gym and take care of themselves, and women are reasonable to demand that.This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 12:44 AM |
| 12 | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.Now the question is, which group is more populous per gender? I can state for a fact both sides have a lot of stupid people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Men don't benefit from taking the red pill.If people who say “men are trash” and “k1ll all men” can exist on the internet freely without shame, then RP should be alright to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think This is kinda why girls dont acknowledge guys who don’t get sex. They think every guy can pull consistently and has “community dick” Like no that’s not the case ma’am, u and ur friends are just sharing the same couple guys and think all guys can pull at that rate. Guys who dont get girls truly are invisible to them. So the problem of wanting a low n-count guy will never happen for them. unless the couple is very young 17-20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Q4Tate Supporters, What Exactly Do You Like About His Worldview/Ideology?His opposition dosent care about the male issues tate trying to address. They say the issue is made up or the man is being a wimp So it’s Tate or nothing. Easy choice for some guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 03:42 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen we say women talk the most shit about women this is what we mean If a guy said what she said he’d be cooked, by women of course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 07:03 PM |
| 15 | Women say look out for signals to approach, what are the signals?Women’s response to this - “get guud” I mean at this point girls know guys want them. So why change when you know u will still be chased/desired. At this point guys just have to either bow out or accept the double standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is an L for menYou don’t have to deal with her pimp if things go bad🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV A lot of the "toxicity" and "misogyny" are just men no longer making up lies to please womenNot in your case because idk u or ur situation But if a “vagina” is taken out of the equation, what would a average 25 year old guy get from a girl? Like what do you think would motivate the guy to court the girl, emotionally, and in some cases financially, support her, do chores and other relationship stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 05:53 PM |
| 9 | CMV A lot of the "toxicity" and "misogyny" are just men no longer making up lies to please womenRight Having sex with someone dosent mean you think they are an object. Like that’s so silly. Does it count when a girl has causal sex? Does she view the guy as an object then? Such a bad take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 01:07 PM |
| 17 | CMV A lot of the "toxicity" and "misogyny" are just men no longer making up lies to please womenPerfect example. They act like an adult woman loses agency if the guy is 10 years older then her It’s called making her own choices which is what women fought so hard for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 12:58 PM |
| 7 | Marriage is an L for menI think your argument would be more convincing if you talked about the positives and good things having a wife can do for a wealthy in shape guy Rather then talk about how all he does is pay for girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy apologies if u didn’t mean half. Thought I read you said it was split evenly but if not my bad If you the lower earner does more than half I would say that sounds more fair. But if not it seems like a poor deal from the outside looking in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo you live equally which is why he does half work But you do not pay equally. So essentially the lower earner gets the same product(living in home) for less than half the pay. I know this is splitting hairs but on paper this looks like a bad deal. Why do equal housework when the lower earner dosent even equally financially support the house? Like that dosent sound appealing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBills split evenly then sure But if the guy is paying more of the bills, it’s not equal living. It’s up to the couple to discuss, and despite complaints I think most guys want to play a supportive role to their family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSlut shaming only works if being a slut is an issue. If being a slut is only based on body count, a girl is either a slut or not. Nothing she or anyone else can do to change it. But the tittle only holds weight if you care about being someone else definition of a slut or not. If not just live ur life and ignore people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey not gonna answer this one correctly But fr RP and BP advice both say to get women you have to leave your house. That is step 0 of getting women for relationships of causal. GO outside. Not to “touch grass” but to interact with women and try to at least get lucky or more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorIt’s a myth is a bit of a stretch Girls that want to are having their fun out there I promise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaven’t watched much of his new stuff but I see the background of his video Do u know if he still lives with his parents? Or are all these vids pre recorded. To each their own but if I was a YouTuber that successful I’d want my own place tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:53 PM |
| 5 | This video explains why the way men look at women creeps them outA good looking creep can get women. History of serial killers tell you that Also a halo effect on attractive people. You might not even consider it creepy when a attractive person does it, but when a person u don’t like does it, then it becomes creepy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 01:56 PM |
| 7 | This video explains why the way men look at women creeps them outWomen be lying bad sometimes sweetie. Women are also not in agreement at all with the stuff they like/dislike on an individual level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 01:43 PM |
| 4 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?Point 2 might have answered so many of the issues I have with BP advice. Sad part is most guys if they knew the woman like them would make the right plays. I mean that’s the biggest hang up is not know if feelings are mutual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Your value doesn't increase with the more women you sleep withAt least ur fair. I wish everyone saying guys lose value for body count keep the same energy for the hoe phase girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Your value doesn't increase with the more women you sleep withThat’s a true statement. But I’m saying, men with higher body counts are valued more That’s why they are able to “cash in” the value and have a higher body count then other less valuable men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Your value doesn't increase with the more women you sleep withYou may be right about the options. It depends on the guy. Most of the guys who live that life at the end say it’s not worth it in terms of time/lifestyle I do think that a guy with a high body count is more valuable to women then an average body count guy. It may not be because of the body count, but it’s a trait among guys who get the most women, which implies they are valuable to many women Also a passport bro does not quite count. I will say a body count through those means do not raise valu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Your value doesn't increase with the more women you sleep withI mean you implying a player can be so good they play themselves out of having women that want them. I guess that could be true but I have never seen the player have no options So considering you can only have sex with 1-2 women at a time. Every other women dosent matter. Also factor in not everyone is gonna like you, having consistent sex with multiple women is as valuable as it gets. So yes some women may not like you, but that was the case anyway, and if the man can still get sex from multipl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Your value doesn't increase with the more women you sleep withI disagree. Women use the insult virgin/incel. Being a guy who has sex automatically means u have more value then a virgin to those women Also the idea of girls being with the same guys/ 80/20 rule. Whether they pick the guy because he’s experienced or not, guys who have a high body count will continue to grow it with other women. The guy is either highly demanded or will become more demanded as he learns how to get women even better. So maybe by itself having a high body count dosent make a guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:13 PM |
| 9 | Your value doesn't increase with the more women you sleep withFor a girl to sleep with a lot of guys means she’s a slave to sex and doesn’t have self control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Your value doesn't increase with the more women you sleep withThe point is most guys can’t go out an get sex, even from people they don’t like, at the drop of a hat. Women can. If a guy can get consistent sex it shows he has more value than other guys who can not. As we know that’s a majority So it’s not the guy can’t say no, it’s that he has an option in the first place. I mean the same thing women say about “guys get who they can, women get who they want”. Women know a guy who can pull a lot of girls is valuable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Can We Train Men To Be Less Horny? Yes!Like hey men. Go get some of the hardest jobs possible to distract from the fact you can get women Then we hear “why don’t guys chase anymore? Guys don’t want me?” You can’t win | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 03:52 PM |
| 9 | So where exactly are these ugly women?They not gonna answer this one sadly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 01:45 PM |
| 3 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…Also all the guys that women have casual sex with. Guess they…”don’t count” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 04:20 AM |
| 1 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…Because women have agency of their decisions. So what if I ignore a girl, it’s up to her to decide what she wants It’s like how do u think guys can control how a girl reacts to them? RP encourages doing the most helpful thing to get to your goal. Thing is another completely unpredictable human is who you have to try to have sex with. It’s no easy button. If u think women are so dumb any guy can exploit them using RP then I have to tell u women are much smarter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…Guys can’t use half those terms. I’m not saying it’s female red pill, I’m saying it’s something females do. No pill involved I am also firmly stating red pill is not exploitative in my opinion. I can see what you mean by hateful but I do not think that is the goal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 02:49 AM |
| 1 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…I personally disagree. RP goal is not to punish women. It’s to have sexual success with them, however that looks for an individual guy. In most cases it’s casual sex. Some of the terms are rooted in being bitter. AWALT is obv not true. I also don’t see it as an exploit. I’m not sure if u saw my earlier comment but RP dosent do anything for u automatically. The girl still has to approve. “It takes two to tango”. The girl has her half of the deal and has full agency over her decisions. RP is not a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 02:26 AM |
| 2 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…I do agree. All women do not ONLY like jocks. All women don’t even have casual sex. So that’s not the demographic these guys can try to be with But if you take the population of girls having casual sex and look at what type of guys they are getting with, it makes sense that the trend will be toward athletic guys who are physically attractive. Which jocks tend to be in nature. This is just my guess Any one on any given day can have casual sex. Man or woman. Guys who follow RP and somewhat tate(pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 01:55 AM |
| 1 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…The bitter and misogynist part I can somewhat agree with But if it’s working for the goal of casual sex, RP is not incorrect. Guys are just mostly mirroring what they see girls fall for. “Why does she get back with a guy who treats her bad?” “Why do the girls all like the dumb jock?” There’s nothing wrong with a girl fitting these tropes, but if a guy sees these are the types of guys that are getting casual sex, monkey see monkey do. But if u can spare ur time wise, what would ur advice be to a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 01:40 AM |
| 2 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…Advice for males wanting to participate in casual sex? That’s not RP, on this sub. Does it include, “focus on yourself and the right girl will come?” Or the classic “shower”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 01:23 AM |
| 3 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…I kinda agree. Men circles talk shit in women, women subs talk shit on guys. We have a love hate relationship on the internet The issue is tho guys on other subs and this sub too ask “how should a guy go about getting casual sex?” And his replies are either RP which is hated, or focus on getting a relationship? Like the guys get completely ignored. So he is given no actionable advice on how to get casual sex, yet girls are encouraged to “live their best life” and the guy can’t have any fun. So y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 12:45 AM |
| 2 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…But is it tricking? This isn’t selling a car and then u get home and realize it’s missing a steering wheel. The guy still has to talk, he still has to be physically attractive enough, the girls still has to consent. The only difference between RP guy and natural guy is on guy needed help from the internet and the other one didn’t If the girl wants to have sex with both then why does it matter how they learned? It just feels weird that there is hate against a guy trying to learn how to get casual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:30 PM |
| 3 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…Mmmmm I disagree, but let’s say your right that women aren’t telling guys not to have casual sex Then why is there so much backlash against not only tate(who seems to have done some criminal stuff at some point), but backlash against red pill and pick up artists and other forms to tell guys how to get casual sex? Why is there hate against the tools guys can use, if women are ok with guys seeking it out? Imo girls only want the guys who get it naturally and shun the ones who don’t. So when a guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:11 PM |
| 9 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…I agree but “at some point” The guys would love to get step 1 of consistent casual sex and then decide on their own accord to want something deeper Rather then have people(primarily women) on the internet tell them they shouldn’t have casual sex and should try to find a nice girl to settle down with. While at the same time for every guy having casual sex, it’s at LEAST one other girl. So where are these casual sex girls, and why are women telling these guys to not listen to the guy telling them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:05 PM |
| 14 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…To most guys he is winning because he gets to have sex with “attractive” women There is no man out there who wouldn’t want that. It’s almost biological for guys to want sex with attractive women. Especially with little social consequences. It’s a win. Seeing claims that a person is a loser for having casual sex is good morally sure, but then u see women who make those claims having casual sex and it’s like hmmmmmm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 10:58 PM |
| 2 | The idea that men's dating issues is merely the result of them having to treat women as an equal now is to reductive and dismissive of their actual dating issues.If she a single mother with 2 or more dads she might have to fix her standards or herself. If she has the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men's dating issues is merely the result of them having to treat women as an equal now is to reductive and dismissive of their actual dating issues.U assume a dad can’t get two different girls preg. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 09:46 PM |
| 2 | The idea that men's dating issues is merely the result of them having to treat women as an equal now is to reductive and dismissive of their actual dating issues.No because women have sex with the same guys “She’s rather share him then be with one of you” But they say RP be lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 08:25 PM |
| 4 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you thinkNothing. Graduated from one. It makes u no more smarter. Just wasted time for the most part. Especially if the major wasn’t something helpful or actionable a liberal school is almost useless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you really struggle with dating and what is your relationship status?Small steps really do help One of the issues is guys have no girl friends so they only talk to women t they crush on. It will make u more nervous and start piling up RP advocates be social with almost all women for a reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:55 PM |
| 2 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?No I’m not. Guys have to do more. High effort for low or mediocre results. But some dudes do come unwashed. It’s not a deal breaker though as there are many women who complain of giving head to guys who smell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:34 PM |
| 2 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?I see what ur doing but this is the context of a date It really is for the man here. It’s about present urself best as can be Now any other time then yea I agree with what ur getting at | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you really struggle with dating and what is your relationship status?Just saying Go to a church if u wanna hold a girls hand Or a business meet up. U can at least shake her hands. Small steps🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Being sexually satisfied in todays society is EASYThats fine but the OP is about ways for men(and women) to be sexually satisfied. Op says casual sex is a way for men, but got 90% of men it is not an option. At least not a reliable one That’s my point. Not that sex is a necessity. It’s more of a luxury for men and a side of sprinkles to women. For the most part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:47 AM |
| 8 | Being sexually satisfied in todays society is EASYI knew it was someone who has no idea what they are talking about with the casual sex section. Like u have nooo idea how not easy getting semi-consistent casual sex is as a guy. It’s much harder then women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 03:18 PM |
| 4 | What does ‘feminine’ mean to you?I agree that this isn’t the right post for that comment But he has a point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Men have learned to disregard women's claims to moral superiority because women themselves admit how often their horniness overrides their moralitySpinning plates means at best multiple FWB that u visit on a rotation of time. Like Becky Monday, Jenny wed, Maggie fri At no point would u promise or allude to being in a relationship with any of the girls. That’s what plate spinning is. Somebody didn’t read the RP sidebar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Men have learned to disregard women's claims to moral superiority because women themselves admit how often their horniness overrides their moralityCatcalled yea idk But to simulate unwanted touching, have some of your friends get the most unattractive women they know, and tell the girls that u have a crush on them As they try to get with u, you’ll know how unwanted contact feels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Men have learned to disregard women's claims to moral superiority because women themselves admit how often their horniness overrides their moralityI wish more girls were even OPEN to the thought of trying this I understand some people lack empathy. But giving them a clear real world example they can feel really would help all issues I think. Same with guys too. Some guys don’t understand being catcalled or unwanted touches in the club. Empathy would go a long way to help both sides imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Men have learned to disregard women's claims to moral superiority because women themselves admit how often their horniness overrides their moralityConquering a virgin his just weird behavior imo. I was thinking guys do it since the girl would not be “corrupted” by hookup culture But if a guy is going after virgins just to take the v and leave without trying for a relationship. That’s kinda evil From what I read on RP tho, guys either don’t want virgins due to the likely poor sex, or the do seek them out just for LTR in theory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Men have learned to disregard women's claims to moral superiority because women themselves admit how often their horniness overrides their moralityEhhh I agree women do that all the time But in the case in describing I’m talking about asking for advice. If a girl dosent want the nice guys around her that could be for many reasons. But if you straight up ask her for advice and she tells u something opposite of how it play out IRL. Either she’s a liar, delusional or is trying to keep you as her simp. Was trying to use the analogy because some users will try to twist logic to argue in favor of women good men bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Men have learned to disregard women's claims to moral superiority because women themselves admit how often their horniness overrides their moralityI think I see your point. Your saying girls need the sexual attractiveness even if it comes with being toxic. Which I would agree with. Also agree with the settling down BB thing I do think that texting a girl only for sex is toxic. Using someone for sex, especially if you know they would like to be exclusive with you, is a bit jaded I guess. Like it’s playing on emotions knowing the other party won’t leave the relationship in god shape. Men and women both guilty of this Great comment btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:02 PM |
| 4 | Men have learned to disregard women's claims to moral superiority because women themselves admit how often their horniness overrides their moralityI’ll give u that. U got a point. Me personally I do think a don’t ask don’t tell is the best scenario. Like your right, a guy can’t try to hookup every week but expect a virgin girl. If I did have to argue tho, wanting a virgin girl to be ur LTR is just a form of preference. Like a RP guy dosent need his partner to have the same body count. He can’t prefer her to have a lower one. Similar to how women prefer their men to earn more. They may not want to be treated like an old school wife, despite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 01:49 PM |
| 11 | Men have learned to disregard women's claims to moral superiority because women themselves admit how often their horniness overrides their moralityI disagree somewhat. I think ur right that it boils down to sexual attraction. But the toxic part is part of what attracts the girl. The not caring, late texts, only texting for sex. Girls fall for this all the time. Some girls enjoy trying to make that hard to get guy commit. Also I think u missed OP point. The point isn’t that he can’t get sex for whatever reason. I think OP is trying to shed light on the advice women give men, but then they pick guys that are almost opposite the traits they g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 01:34 PM |
| 15 | Men have learned to disregard women's claims to moral superiority because women themselves admit how often their horniness overrides their moralityHow is it toxic to say women’s actions don’t match their words in this scenario? We have all heard of girls saying have a nice personality while they continue to have sex with guys who treat them poorly. What’s toxic about calling that out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 12:54 PM |
| – | For the first time since 2010, the percent of women under 35 who have not had sex in the last year has surpassed that of similar aged men“Why won’t he commit to me?” He’s not entitled to tell u the truth sweetie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 06:25 PM |
| – | For the first time since 2010, the percent of women under 35 who have not had sex in the last year has surpassed that of similar aged men“Why won’t he commit to me?” He’s not entitled to tell u the truth sweetie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah that one gets me. Like u claim women are independent and strong and are being controlled. But then when they make a choice to be with an older man they have to be “saved” because the guy “groomed her” and is “taking advantage” So silly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSick. But I think most girls would say she should be in jail This is a good example of the system not working at all for anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 07:12 PM |
| 6 | I think the main cause of inceldom is lack of social skills.Thank you. This is the true definition of an incel. If u are involuntary(sorry to assume) Why must we attach so much hate and violence to a word that is so clearly defined | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 05:19 PM |
| 2 | The two steps to flipping the power dynamic in datingWhat do you mean. It’s fair to say if a girl has 10 options she’s gonna pick the one that has the majority of her interest. So all the guy is saying is that playing those games will get the most attention. Wouldn’t it be the job of the girl to recognize these games, or just not be attracted to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Both sides are offering a fantasy.Why do people u the term “virgin” or “incel” as an insult to men? Because guys who can’t get women aren’t cool. According to society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Younger men cannot try harder on dating without being desperateTaking dating advice from women who say don’t look a them and that all men are trash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:34 AM |
| 5 | Younger men cannot try harder on dating without being desperateSo is women recording guys in the gym that they think are staring at them Men gotta be aware now. It sucks but guys don’t make the rules | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 04:08 PM |
| – | Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date.I mean RP creators are banned all the time. They even half banned the main RP Reddit and they did ban all the smaller scale ones. Rp and men are definitely cancelled a lot more than any misandrist online forums I assume you look at all men as ones who are violent incels willing to hurt people. Because your thinking an entire gender is equal to the men who have encores violence. If you feel this strongly I would like to ask, are you seeking or in a straight relationship with another guy, or do al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 12:36 PM |
| 12 | Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date.Right. OP seems like they want to ignore there is a whole female side of man hating content. Kill all men, men are trash movements. Like yeah it’s just men in her fairytale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 11:40 AM |
| 8 | The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys.Lmaoo so therapy which is psychology and not feminism And “healthy dynamics”. Yea the dynamics where a girl has a standard of a guy who earns more than her but is required to do at least 50% of the housework and if not he’s being misogynistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 06:35 PM |
| 6 | The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys.Why would anyone think feminism can help a MAN improve with dating women. Like how would that even work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:56 PM |
| 5 | The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys.70% of the content you see The first thing they tell you to do on the RP Reddit is hit the gym and look attractive. That has nothing to do with hating women They also tell you to get your money right. Again nothing to do with women. They say improve your social skills and get out there more. This encourages guys to be more social and likely have better interactions with women over time. Other things RP may encourage is to help your community and be seen as a capable dependable man. Notice how no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:32 PM |
| 3 | The despair of current generation of adult men makes perfect sense when you look at the numbers.I kinda get what your saying about wanting your partner to involve you in their dreams. But I think you walk a line between wanting them to involve you and them being dependent on you. Like the guy shared his latest creation and ensured you were the first to see it. He likely let you see the hard work and small stuff he wouldn’t show anyone else. So my question is what more could he have done to make you feel involved, without becoming almost dependent on your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:41 PM |
| 1 | The despair of current generation of adult men makes perfect sense when you look at the numbers.I don’t think the commenter meant the wedding thing they way you perceived it. I think she’s saying they were basically gonna live a married life but the guy did not like her enough to fully commit. Therefore she stopped liking him. Had nothing to do with effort I do agree with ur second point tho. In the era of women are perfect always truthful beings who are victimized by low effort men, it is hard for a guy to mentally want to step up and pursue women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do men watch porn?As someone ignorant I def thought you guys were talking about old RP poster heathcliff Am I alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:33 AM |
| 0 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?Who pays for dates? What gender is supposed to pay for dates? So much that there are women who use dates as free meals because it is so ingrained for men to pay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Theory: dating apps have irrepairably damaged Collective Unconcious Sexual Selection (CUSS) health.Bro I understand that but in this case effort is not proportional to results. It may even lower your chances if ur “trying to hard” Dating is sex is not something that can happen very easily at a consistent rate. Try to keep that in mind. It’s not quitting if the game isn’t fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Fewer women on apps because treated badly?As someone who has read Red pill for the past 5 years tate videos don’t equal woman hater to me. You’d be surprised how many men and women agree at least partially with his vids On the other hand you are correct there is more violence against women. But society as a whole is against this as we should be. But women calling men trash happens at a much higher rate and is widely accepted. Almost like it dosent matter it’s being said. But if a guy says something similar, well he gets the Tate treatme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Fewer women on apps because treated badly?As a recent graduate I can say 50% of the girls I met have posted “men are trash” and other similar phrases on social media. Have never seen a man post “women are worthless” at best “hoes be lying” but calling the whole gender trash is a bit strong right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | It's hilarious how radically different advice is given depending whether the OP is a woman or a manI think u picked some weak examples but I agree with your overall point Men always have a negative connotation attached to their desires and perception of events when compared to women A good example imo is hookup culture. Men are shamed for participating and trying to do things to get them higher chances of hookups(red pill) But for women it’s shown as a act of empowerment and they deserve to use their “assets” to get what they want from any man willing to give it to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 04:07 PM |
| 3 | There's nothing inherently wrong with having a high body count, but it is a predictor of other red flags in the relationshipNot op but to give my opinion Women who really have nothing to offer end up in relationships or have sex with guys who are better than them in every category. Obv this is the males choice but I think OP is saying the men who make the choice to be with these women are weak. And the women with the issues are good at seeking out weak men to give them what they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:34 PM |
| 7 | having sex while moderately drunk isn't rapeI’ve been in a similar situation where the girl was drunk and on drugs but said multiple times she would like to have sex with me. Even got it on camera. I did not end up doing that with her because I didn’t think it was worth it However we can’t babysit women from their own decisions. If she wanted to sleep with him she has to deal with not liking her choice similar to ordering bad food at a restaurant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:53 PM |
| 9 | having sex while moderately drunk isn't rapeOP isn’t a baby sitter. He even advised her to slow down during his story. What more do you people want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.I mean that could be true But we’re talking about female and male sex. So like for male to female sex, females control the access to that. That’s the 100% being referenced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.I think this means who can intentionally get sex For hookups average guys kinda stumble into getting sex while a girl is almost guaranteed to get sex if she picks five random guys she wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 05:34 PM |
| 2 | A lot of single men at their late 20s are actually voluntarily singleDef do it. Those firsts with a partner u like/love is amazing. It will be an experience you won’t forget. The relationship likely won’t last, but truly do enjoy the memories. It’s worth it for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point?Sure but this is the issue with taking women’s words as law when it comes to if a guy is creepy or not It would be great if ever guy that girl labeled a creep, either to her friends or the internet, was actual a creep. But we know this isn’t always true, but that guy has to live with that label and it’s almost impossible to Change it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 02:49 AM |
| 3 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?But that’s not what they do. Half the time women don’t even want that. Ur main argument is when a guy dates for once or twice, has sex then leaves. Majority hookups are from nights out. Also women know when a date will lead to a hookup, they have to allow it. Ur argument does not make up a big enough percentage of why men and women hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 12:17 AM |
| 4 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?Bruh the success rate is not guaranteed People lie all the times. Girls offer to pay when they don’t want to or won’t. It’s manners but it’s still misleading You can’t bypass her gatekeepin. God that sounds like a LARP. Any way, a girl has to decide on her own if she wants to have sex with you. There is no formula or bypass trust me. If it was that easy incel wouldn’t exist RP also isn’t made for marriage. It’s made for hookups, think of it as all the shared knowledge guys got from doing hookups… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 10:01 PM |
| 4 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?To try and answer your question RP guys don’t encourage women to be promiscuous. They just benefit from women’s promiscuous behavior If there was no written RP, guys who naturally knew how to pull would benefit from women making their own choices. Now more men are just aware of how to behave in a RP way And it is a relationship preference for a guy to want a girl with a low n count. Similar to how a girl won’t want a guy who is their height, a Rp guy won’t want a girl with a higher n count. RP g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:34 PM |
| 5 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?Your assuming guys and girls have the same ability to get sex. This is false A guy will not make a girl wait for sex. If he does the girl will leave. A guy can not contribute to a girl being a hoe. He can just be the beneficiary of her behavior. She chooses to behave that way. And a red piller can decide the girl is good for hookups but not for a relationship. Your also assuming that people WANT their partner to be their equal in every department. But when looking for an ideal partner everything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:26 PM |
| 10 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?Your speaking some facts. It is really similar to the women who has hoe phase then settles down. I think the difference can be the girl may not care what her marriage partner body count is. As long as the guy has the “qualities” she’s looking for the n count isn’t as big a preference imo So the girl is slightly less hypocritical because she isn’t filtering out guys just because their promiscuous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:02 PM |
| 11 | "Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it?Yeah because Girls never stutter or get overwhelmed around a guy they find hot Those girls losers and freaks too? Or is it just guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point?In some cases Women are using strong terms for at best minor inconveniences. A guy walking up to you and asking you out is not creepy, even if he is unattractive. Not saying guys aren’t terrible, but using the same label for extreme and minor behavior dosent help anybody | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Incel and white knight mentalities both stem from the same blind spotI do agree with your point that guys do need to CONSISTENTLY try to give effort But getting women for sex or relationships is not an outcome where more effort = more success. So a guy can be putting in a month of consistent effort in grooming, gym, hygiene, then ask a girl out and get rejected. Maybe even called creepy From his perspective he’s at square one even with all the effort he gave. From that point it’s much easier to give up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 05:04 AM |
| 11 | Incel and white knight mentalities both stem from the same blind spotThe detectors are off once she’s turned on. Didn’t u guys get the handbook of women. This lesson was on page 12,463 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 05:00 AM |
| 6 | What is Creepiness?U see the price of food? I need all the fuel I can get | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 04:58 AM |
| 3 | What is Creepiness?The problem with the creep label is that it’s very sticky. Let a guy be outed as creepy for some minuscule reason and he will be shunned without second thought. Too much group think and acceptance of a story without any facts. Being labeled a creep without doing anything actually creepy is a tough pill to swallow and can end up doing a lot of harm to all parties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 04:55 AM |
| 1 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doUr gonna blame men for cat ladies??? If that’s the case can we blame women for passport bros. Guys who think women have fallen so far they need to switch continents. Or is this only a one way street? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 03:47 AM |
| 6 | Incel and white knight mentalities both stem from the same blind spotRight. Like who is getting rejected. Attractive or not women aren’t searching for equals. They date up So if ur an ugly dude ur not getting hit on but ugly women. Ur getting hit on by porn ads because no one wants you irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 08:44 PM |
| 8 | Incel and white knight mentalities both stem from the same blind spotThe emo comparison is really on point My issue is these are humans and not fashion. Being called an incel now is very damaging and if people think of you as the more extreme woman hating version, your life can suck real fast | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 07:28 PM |
| 24 | Incel and white knight mentalities both stem from the same blind spotCan we please change the word incel. By definition an incel is not someone who hates women. An incel is a person who can not get sex(normally straight). Involuntary celibate, in no way do those words equal hate women. Just because a person dosent get sex, does not mean they hate anyone. In most cases it will just lead to them hating themselves. Incel is closer to forever alone type of people rather than women hating misogynists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFax They say go talk to women if your scared to talk the women. I don’t think that’s gonna work out well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 12:34 AM |
| 6 | Why don’t more women like sports?Woah woah bro. That’s totally the gender pay gap patriarchy and has nothing to do with women picking majors that don’t lead to those jobs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 05:45 AM |
| 3 | What is your ideal way for a man to approach you?On the contrary my good fellow, the consumptions of alcoholic elixirs can be partaken in private. many other introverts like myself do it this way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 12:46 PM |
| – | Why are women so mad at porn if they have no desire to sleep with the average man?Gonna preface by saying what I’ve seen in life does not equal every women thoughts But the girls I have been with do ask the guy for this. Not to sarcastic but “choke me daddy” is generally not the guys request. Some girls do ask | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 04:58 PM |
| – | Why are women so mad at porn if they have no desire to sleep with the average man?Never saw that sub in my life. Seducing women is an odd name tho because most guys who can do that naturally aren’t on Reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 03:38 PM |
| – | Why are women so mad at porn if they have no desire to sleep with the average man?For men I said. Even ask men has female mods And how many of these subs give women focused advice. Besides saying “be yourself” a man is getting no help from those subs when it comes to asking how to approach women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 03:37 PM |
| – | Why are women so mad at porn if they have no desire to sleep with the average man?Yes they are. That’s why almost every form of male dating advice is shunned or cancelled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 03:31 PM |
| 9 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manSo much hypocrisy and backwards thinking, entitlement. And then some girls are just perfect. It’s so hard to sort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manWho one earth does this successfully? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:57 AM |
| 22 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manHate this line so much “You can’t handle a real woman” Like wtf does that mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Who should men model themselves to and look up to?Almost every women I’ve seen comment about Jordan Peterson says he is ruining men and lumps the same with Andrew tate. Just my reports | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 11:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Telling unsuccesful men that the young women in impoverished countries only want them for their money is pointless, these men believe that women their age in their country are the same. And we can't blame them.It depends on what that expectation means aka the women’s standards Standards like having the man pay for everything, allow a women to stay home but also allow for the women not to cook or clean. Access to all finances. This is just a few but this standard of having a man be an ATM is a popular ideal for modern American women but it is extremely unfair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 11:37 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Telling unsuccesful men that the young women in impoverished countries only want them for their money is pointless, these men believe that women their age in their country are the same. And we can't blame them.As opposed to the alternative of being a beta bux to an modern American girl… yea it’s better Morally this may not be good but morals are out the window in the US. So why not play the best cards that suit your interests the best? That’s literally the message girls are sending with not settling and expecting the best from their man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 02:47 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMake sure u showered today bro No slouching | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 04:20 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen seem to be the ones flaming the passport bros tho The passport guys are posting this content and women are reacting negative thus increasing the popularity. All publicity good publicity If women didn’t care no one would even know the passport bro content exists since no one except them are looking for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 04:16 AM |
| 3 | The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race.I agree a change must be made and like I said Red pill is the easiest one that resonates the most. If guys can’t get women at all. Flat 0. Then they see the athlete guy pull girls easy, it would be simple to say hit the gym and look ur best physically. Red pill rule 1. Then maybe ask said guy what he does to get girls or something like that. Make a good male friends. Another lesson of red pill I agree it’s not the answer to solve all problems but it can help break a mental block holding guys bac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 03:13 AM |
| 3 | The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race.I mean for the incel or loser guys, girls are literally trying to keep sex away from them. Like when a girl cock blocks her friends from talking with certain guys. The friend dosent approve and removes the girl. Second the red pill should not be a permanent lifestyle. It can helps guys who have no romance get some lessons about women and dating that they can then use to make a better more fulfilling life they might have missed, if they never learned the basics of red pill and got their feet wet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 03:06 AM |
| 19 | The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race.Not getting girls when you see everyone around u getting some can hurt. If they tell you “it just happens” but it doesn’t happen for you then searching for ways to make sex happen is the next logical step Red pill is just the best message that easily resonates with struggling men. It sounds like it works and everyone can find 1-2 real life examples of red pill working. It’s hard to find an example where being “emotionally vulnerable” ever led to a guy pulling a girl from the club for a hookup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Question for all: If you were born as the opposite sex, what would be the advantages and disadvantages for you?Look at the latest Nike ads with obese women modeling Just an example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 09:39 PM |
| -1 | When women and men refer to the "friendzone", they are each imagining two very different scenarios, which causes the animosity and confusion over the topic.Can confirm most hot women have 2-3 guys who will do almost anything for them in an instant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outThis is likely untrue because you are not 100% like anyone else on earth. Maybe ur parents or brother but still really unlikely Like if a girl wants a guy who can talk high level math with her, some guys can but some can’t If a girl wants a guy to play Mario kart with competitively, some guys can and some guys can’t It depends on who you are, what you can offer to someone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 05:40 PM |
| 1 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outIn America the not fat part is a bit hard to find. Especially depending on ur race and state | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 05:34 PM |
| 1 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outVery well put. I think it may never be seen as a systematic issue is because women have no reason to change it in their minds. They don’t see it as being bias, they see it as looking out in their best interest. It’s in their best interest for some men to be non existent and for others to be “chad” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.EXACTLY. STay in reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:21 PM |
| 11 | Are there men in your life who are good overall but fail at dating? What does this say about modern dating?Whew. At 30 I would just do the sex tourism thing or something. Like just see what sex is like at least. U have a reproductive system for a reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.Women want it both ways. To be treated as if everyone is out to get them or be treated like they are entitled to anything they can ask. Example is the age gap relationships. If a girl agrees to get with a guy, no matter his age, then why do people complain the guy is taking advantage when it’s a consensual relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 11:08 PM |
| 6 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.I agree but women encourage men to listen to them when they SAY what they are(wish) attracted to. But if women can’t even nail down what they like or they omit traits that they know are bad but attractive, the message is gonna be misleading and lead to resentment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 01:52 PM |
| 7 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.I’ll agree most people can stumble into relationships. I also do think most normal guys overestimate how much casual sex they think “Chad” is having. However even if it was not the intention of the girl to have casual sex, she did. Likely with a hot guy or a person in the right place right time. So if a guy has casual sex, so does the girl even if it wasn’t in her plans. There is no equation to casual sex but men are looking at the behaviors of the guys who get the most casual sex. And they are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 03:04 AM |
| 8 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.Fax. It’s unlikely for a girls to have a negative experience of a guy fucking her and leaving if she picks a guy who isn’t a fuck boi It’s like the girls who fall for the duck bous think their judgment of men is good but it’s not. So rather then change their thinking they treat all men like their fuck bois when that’s a small percentage of men. Recipe for 80/20 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 01:32 AM |
| 10 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.This is true. But men aren’t really telling girls that being just physically attractive won’t work. All men know a girl can walk outside in revealing clothes and automatically get prospects But for a guy there is nothing anyone can tell us that will automatically get any dating or casual prospects. And when u ask girls the answer varies very wildly and so does the behavior of the girls that give advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 12:59 AM |
| 6 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.Ehhh ghosting can depend on the reason. A guy may not ghost a girl just because he looks better than her or is out her league. Sometimes things come up or ur just not in the middle to play the game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:59 PM |
| 63 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.“They reward what their attracted to” I like this line. I also think sometimes women can’t control what they find attractive. So even if they consciously don’t want to be attracted to the cocky asshole guy, they can’t help it. It leads to some contradiction in actions vs what they tell “nice guys” to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 09:13 PM |
| 2 | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).Anytime any woman has said “I wish I could find a guy like you” That right there says everything you need to know. What they want is right in front of them but…for some strange reason they can’t make it happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Is romance dead?I meant spending alone by myself. Wasn’t flaming u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Is romance dead?Thanks for the idea big homie. Ur gonna make Valentine’s Day a lot easier to spend alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 07:16 PM |
| 2 | WGTOW Evidence?Who are these avg men ur talking about? And is this ur opinion because ur a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 07:03 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).Yea that list OP provided if being an emotional and interesting Superman is going to be very hard to find And there are very few women capable of meeting those standards if the roles were reversed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:59 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).It’s hard to listen to women internet comments,real life if you know the girl can be different, when some women say to simp and be a beta provider for them. Also some women be lying. Guys are told to be nice and the whole toxic masculinity things, but then see women get with guys who have the same traits they were talking down on. Obv this isn’t all women but you can only see women say one thing and do the opposite before you stop listening to them. Guys listen more to RP guys who they “think” a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHopefully the weight loss brings u what u desire ten fold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:09 AM |
| 5 | Do women believe that men not approaching is a lack of interest?I see what u mean. And yeah people who can be cool but have evil intentions are the worst, however a small population But awkward people in social situations should not be given the same characteristic of creepy which also applies to the guy who follows u home. Just such an overstatement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 04:17 AM |
| 7 | Do women believe that men not approaching is a lack of interest?Creepy = awkward is crazy Creepy is like ur worried a person would do harm to u or cause a significant amount of discomfort(following you, threatening you, out of their mind). But just being awkward gets u labeled like this is a bit if an overstatement and is not very conducive in trying to learn how to fix your awkwardness if people treat u like a creep for being akward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 03:16 AM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?Congrats Hope you end up with what u want. I assume ur a man btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?Notice any difference with the opposite sex in terms of dating or interactions after the change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 11:49 PM |
| 0 | Is it ok for a man to use prostitution, if it's legal? Can you compare it to casual sex?The person paying u, the one a prostitution has sex with, has no control or relation to her previous financial life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 10:38 AM |
| 0 | Is it ok for a man to use prostitution, if it's legal? Can you compare it to casual sex?How can u be coerced into sex as a prostitute? Especially in the case where it’s not linked to human trafficking like your example You cant be “coerced” into doing a job you willingly signed up for. Just quit the job if you don’t like it. (Only in reference to non human trafficking prostitution and escorting) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.I think it’s fair to say these women exist and that the behaviors they show is not just exclusive to them individually. Yes population wise it’s a small but it’s one show. You gave three examples in your post, all different women helping “prove” RP theory. These women exist, you can’t discount them. They have followers, some of the hundreds of thousands. It’s be dumb to say they have no reach, their tittle is literally influencer. Are the indicative of every women’s behavior? Not at all, but I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.I agree with that, however both things happened. And sadly that man Almost won. And sadly there is proof women exist who have the same mindsets as those on the show. Yes for debate purposes it’s disingenuous but the population of young modern women who act like this does exist. That’s another thing to take away from the content | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.I’m no girl but I assume the average woman has an instagram and has been to a club at least once in her life This aren’t crazy parameters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.I think the person means that we have to look at what percent of the population these young women fit in. Like if they can create hours of content in a weekly basis with different women every time, there is probably more than a few that display poor behavior by Rp standards. It’s a bit unfair to call this much content “cherry picking”. It for sure is bias but it isn’t uncommon in real life to run into these women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 02:09 PM |
| 2 | What opinions are you tired of hearing here and what dismissals are you tired of hearing?Conniving may be giving too much thought. I do generally agree tho women have their fun and then get that commited relationship with a guy who likely has a lower n-count than her. So yeah the avg women is in a relationship but she likely has more casual partners that her male counterpart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men.In the comment I responded to. U responded to the comment that men look for wives and girlfriends “see (women) as fuck toys” So I’m confused what man could possibly even exist after that. Is there any good man in ur head? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men.So if a guy is looking for a wife or girl friend he’s a fuck boi? What straight man isn’t a fuck boy then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Do you think some women are against sex work because it takes away a lot of their power over men?Then tell them quit. Or get a job You know how many women only shelters/scholarships exist? Women have ways out bruh. Stop trying to tell them what to do with their bodies. Oppressor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Do you think some women are against sex work because it takes away a lot of their power over men?I think this commenter thinks all clients are evil abusers who beat up the sex workers. Like these men aren’t boxing the girls. It’s not all extreme abuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 05:21 AM |
| -3 | Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blameSame for women. Unless assault which is unacceptable, women allow these guys to have sex with them. They should have some ability to judge character | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 05:03 PM |
| 0 | Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blameThose are bad traits that the women decided to sleep with if not be in a relationship with Btw women are not full to blame for drop in masculinity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | What predispositions a guy into becoming red pill?I think what warren might be trying to say is Women will take(have sex) with guys who are only attractive even if they’re not necessarily nice. But they won’t have sex with a guy who is only nice. Therefore it’s logical to put all your effort toward being attractive(red pill) and not work so hard at being nice, if your goal with women is sex which most young men is imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather add two inches in height, gain two inches in length, or add two figures to your income?Idk if ur joking but Adding two figures to 100 makes it 10,000 Which is 100x100 So it’s 100x ur income if u add two figures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 05:08 AM |
| 2 | It is just harder and therefore lonely and sad for a lot of guysThese comments man. The women just do not care. Try ur best guys but there is no empathy out here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?For context Was it the whole pod. Like the whole vape or just a few hits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Every pill fails at properly addressing the biggest issue guys face when dating. Anxiety.Kinda in the middle of this cycle. Anything help you get through? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 05:27 AM |
| 39 | what would you say after a hookup to ensure she'll let you sleep the night at her place?I’m a homeless-sexual | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadProb a realistic version between 1 and 2 2 is obv “editied” and hard to actually get a body like that. And one (also in pretty good shape” is a bit to small for preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 02:52 PM |
| 7 | How would you feel about your children struggling with dating?I think he’s saying accidentally doing dumb shit is how we advanced as man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 06:41 PM |
| 5 | Men dont have much to offer in datingDaylight crime rates are up🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:48 AM |
| 4 | What’s the solution?Forcing the event to happen in the persons bedroom Either come out or we’re bringing it to ya | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI made one of those picture montages for a girl I was down bad for If ur not down that bad then there’s still hope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:55 AM |
| 7 | How to get laid with new people consistently?Ima go out on a limb and say he’s referring to 5_7 pickup guy | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that in order for a man to be successful with dating that he has to know more about women than even women know about themselves?Would u recommend the doll? Asking for an acquaintance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 05:59 PM |
| 35 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?Just genuinely trying to be nice to girls It just doesn’t work out. This doesn’t mean slap them and be rude. But being nice will normally hurt your chances than help them | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Tips for touching her more during a date?***Lick | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby ArrangementsI kinda agree But sometimes it’s not in the cards. You can go on 1-3 dates and still not clap. I think it’s the lack of guarantee of anything happening with the girl, despite the guy putting in effort, that drive guys to just pay a lump sum and guarantee they hit an attractivish girl | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby ArrangementsCan you describe free? It’s probably financially cheaper to try with random girls doing coffee dates but your paying with time and other factors It’s always gonna cost something imo | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 11:50 PM |
| 8 | Can someone explain my fiances reaction to my investments?He’s the luckiest retard ever. His wife probably nervous because she thinks he gonna fuck it up and she dosent wannna deal with that. That’s why she still using coupons For real OP congrats. Be careful with ur life changing wealth. And u messed up telling your girl about that. Hope she isn’t too vile during the divorce | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | How much SMV do you need to have five girls lying on your bed simultaneously?Can confirm | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 11:54 PM |
| 2 | What do you talk about when talking with women?Well when you hear girls talk to other girls what does it sound like | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 01:48 AM |
| 10 | How to turn down requests for you to be "gentlemanly" the right way from a date?This is one of the most annoying parts to me Like even if you want to be nice genuinely, not because their a girl, we know that being nice will eventually ruin the relationship with a girl and cause more drama Sadly it’s better to be an asshole than a good human when dealing with girls | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 11:40 PM |
| 6 | Veteran redpillers, what are some of your regrets you wish you had (not) done when you were younger?Damn bro. Ur story went from cool field report to damn RIP | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 11:44 PM |
| 2 | How to ease nerves.Listen to his guy Had my girlfriends boyfriend do this to me and it’s been great | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 10:57 PM |
| 2 | What are some reasons why you SHOULD get married?O | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 11:00 PM |
| 6 | Protecting our mental health and isolation during COVID times.Diary of a wimpy kid /s | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 01:15 AM |
| 19 | Going to the gym for the first time, need adviceOmg. This sub man | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 11:11 PM |
| -1 | What does this meanHe ain’t lying | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 08:08 PM |
| 10 | I'm 21 yo, recently new to the red pill (about a year) and I still never got laid, considering hiring a hooker next week to finally loose my virginityHow have you kissed 20 girls but no sex with any. Did you open a kissing booth or something? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Any good books about leadership?He also dropped another one last year Called “leadership strategy and tactics” I think | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 10:28 PM |
| 2 | my text game has always been low effort and, ive never really been able to get into it. how do i fix this, where can i find the best advice on this.Ayyyyy yoooooo | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 01:19 AM |
| 10 | If you get a girl pregnant in a foreign country, what could she really do about it?Name checks out Edit: thought it was live for the pump and dump Guess I wan half right | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 2 | What’s a fun hobby you picked up recently?What happens when ur having sex. Socks all the time and strictly no shower sex?? Edit- A beach date??? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Meeting up with a plate tonight , she told me she’s on her period and I want to flake nowBAITED | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Need Advice for Continuing ConversationCrones too It’s Chron’s | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Tips for having more of a sexual date instead of a romantic date?Quick question What is “quick dry fucking” | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Escorts TipsLmaooo Tries to pull out foot slips off bed OH FUCK!! | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Where do you take tinder matches on first dates if she directly doesn’t wanna come to your place?Can you actually buy a van with a built in bleach spray system? Asking for a friend | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 12:43 AM |
| 130 | How To Exude Sexual MagnetismWhat if I get a boner in public? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/19 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Just had a panic attack, helpYou had a panic attack from an approach gone wrong??? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 02:01 PM |
| 2 | How should I pursue this?Ohhhh word Sephora here I come | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 12:54 AM |
| 2 | How should I pursue this?Why were you in a makeup store? | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Leadership.... | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 04:15 AM |
| 1 | I need to create a schedule to become more confident and interesting. What is your weekly schedules and the hobbies you recommend?Good honesty I guess | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 01:38 AM |
| 0 | Do you orbit her by watching her Snapchat/Instagram Stories?Yes is the short answer | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 05:42 AM |
| 1 | TRP YouTube channels?Arlin Moore | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Do video games lower sex drive?12k hours That’s a year and 1/3 of playing time How? | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 03:18 AM |
| 2 | There's absolutely no reason to be afraid of cold approachHow did the coffee go? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/18 03:11 AM |
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