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| 2 | Coming to terms with my past & what it means for meFind a more interesting job. Parks, scuba stores, sport equipment depots, botanical gardens, kayak/canoe rental places. Bonus points for “mom and pop’s”/small businesses. Listen to more positive music and watch more positive/feelgood movies. Buy a slow cooker and follow easy slow cooker recipes. Buy a yoga mat or rug or blanket and do stretches every day. Maybe get a cheap prepaid phone to further separate from your parent’s phone plan if applicable. Maybe get a bike or car to further separate i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend doesn’t act attracted to meTrue. Wish I could telepathically flood an SO with love. Like I wish it was less maintenance, but people do need validation and reassurance every so often. So it’s important to keep up with that. Something something “communication is key”… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle your partner finding other women more attractive than you?It’s less “always someone hotter” and more that a woman is either attractive (to me) or not attractive (to me). All the attractive women are contenders. Ask your significant other if it was between you and Emily Rata he’d still have to feel out your personalities to choose. And if you mean just sex, he’d give everyone a try. You’re all equally in the attractive group. “You’re the most beautiful to me” is a guy phrasing this info in a way he hopes you’ll understand. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/22 11:29 PM |
| 11 | Where to meet men?Local businesses/mom-and-pop’s stores like family-owned grocery, butcher, baker, bbq place, etc. Small cafés and restaurants. Pawn shops, local tool supply/repair, local computer repair, bike shop. Places a dude might trust to work on his stuff when he can’t work on it himself. Bookstores, office supply, park (especially when there’s some small events going on), museums with war exhibits, pick-up volleyball at the beach, public basketball courts, soccer fields at the park when it’s off season/no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Why are women expected to “do it all”, nowadays?I’ve become better, and society has improved. I think that’s what we’re supposed to do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Why are women expected to “do it all”, nowadays?Thank you Boy Scouts for taking me all over the world and teaching me to be independent. Thank you, soccer, basketball, and swim team for keeping me strong and competitive. Thank you parents for giving me tools and free range to fix everything in the house lol. Thank you teachers who kept me motivated and believed in the good. Thank you parents for being role models – for never fighting in front of your kid – for providing me with everything I need to survive, but letting me be independent. Than… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | 23 and never had a relationshipLol, the people downvoting this either know who I’m talking about or are clueless. OP understands, though. Good luck, yo | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/21 01:39 PM |
| -2 | 23 and never had a relationshipWhat would Mullen do? Probably start exercising. Pick up a new hobby. Buy another Vitamix. Get a bit more comfortable with yourself and your environment – that’ll help attract some high quality guys your way. Then just being around them on some dates will get the dominos falling, before you know it you’ll find some happiness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/21 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Young mom feeling a bit socially isolated, would love to chat to others in a similar positionTry getting in touch with your local Cub Scout troop and ask them for help getting into a swimming class. Most of those parents did Girl Scouting and Boy Scouting themselves, so I would consider them nice people. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/21 11:34 AM |
| 6 | Young mom feeling a bit socially isolated, would love to chat to others in a similar positionIdea: Find a local pool that teaches your kid(s) swimming. I learned to swim in preschool – there was an indoor pool program across the street. Something about sports/activity-based environments attract good parents. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Young mom feeling a bit socially isolated, would love to chat to others in a similar positionLot of negative people out there in the world. They come in all forms including those envious other mothers. Just gotta focus on good vibes and find “your people”. All it takes is making one high value friend to unlock her world of other high value friends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How do conservative women convince men that they are not gold diggers?Thank you, Red_Mercedez. I really do appreciate it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/21 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Being submissive is so satisfying, I wish I tried this sooner.Rolling with the punches is a start. Consider letting him (your brother) demonstrate some of his masculinity. Is your car ready for an oil change? Fire alarm beeping every day for the past month? “Big strong brother, could you help me move this furniture.” Time to cash in on that good energy you’ve created. Anyway, time to kick back and pop champagne. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/21 11:56 AM |
| 6 | Being submissive is so satisfying, I wish I tried this sooner.Hell yea! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/21 11:19 AM |
| 3 | How to make up for what I didI would not feel emasculated. It’s nice when people do nice things for you. I do what I can to have enough money to participate in dating however might be appropriate at the time. If I’m wondering whether I should pay for a date or split it with her or let her pay, I’ll usually just find opinions on the internet and see if that aligns with the type of people and outcomes I want in my life. If you’re organizing and paying for a date, the mentality should probably be “I’m treating this person to a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Tea TimeThat’s very cool. No doubt this will be a top score for brownie points. Getting three friends is already pretty good. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Tea TimeI would greatly appreciate if you could prefix the Tea Time posts with a (chronological number) or the (date) to help keep track of which is which. Otherwise – glad y’all are keeping the subreddit active. Thank you | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/21 02:29 PM |
| 2 | How do conservative women convince men that they are not gold diggers?I appreciate that, thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | How do conservative women convince men that they are not gold diggers?Okay, so what do y'all disagree with here? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 12:17 PM |
| 24 | How do conservative women convince men that they are not gold diggers?Exactly! I was workshopping this same sentiment, but you got it first. I always feel like the woman I’d be out with (on the date) is already my dream girl, and things like looks and whatever are already a given. Instead, gotta focus on what’s important to us and how we want our paths to intertwine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 09:55 AM |
| 21 | How do conservative women convince men that they are not gold diggers?How convince men you’re not gold digger: Demonstrate an interest unrelated to money. I’m not sure being a conservative relates to wanting a wealthy man. Food, water, shelter, love, and purpose could be obtained without the use of money. He could hunt/grow food. Dig a well for water. Build a house. Show you love. Derive purpose from supporting his family. How did we manage before the invention of money? A high value man already provides for himself and he’ll provide for his future woman. Imagine … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 09:45 AM |
| 3 | How to make up for what I didIf he is a high value man, he would drop it. If you are a high value woman, you would make it up to him. In the same way that he would make it up to you (reversed roles). Because you respect each other. The red pill mentality is as simple as this, isn’t it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 08:58 AM |
| 0 | How do you stay fit?The easiest way to stay in shape (IMO) is running. There are two types: endurance running and sprinting. Endurance running will keep you lean and tone. Sprinting will build muscles. If you want to bulk up the booty and legs a bit, sprinting will be easy money. Above all else, begin with only basic stretches and light running. You need at least a week of “going through the motions” before you start pushing yourself. Endurance: Jogging around the field and park. Light running for multiple miles no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/21 09:16 AM |
| 6 | How do you stay fit?Don’t attempt any physical activities you can’t do right now after you’ve exercised. You might feel like a pro athlete once the blood is flowing. Make sure not to overexert yourself. Youtube some simple stretches. Easier than trying to decipher diagrams on google images. Follow along but just go through the motions - don’t push at all. Get the blood flowing. Stand upright, feet together. Reach for your toes. Don’t try to touch your toes just let gravity do the work. 16 seconds. Now reach for the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/21 08:49 AM |
| 19 | How do you stay fit?I just continued doing my soccer stretches and exercises long after discontinuing soccer. Even just stretching is enough to keep me feeling healthy every day. A teeny bit of exercise multiple times a week is better than a lot of exercise once a month imo. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/21 07:58 AM |
| 0 | When you’ve moved in together, and you aren’t engaged… I am not sure if I should be changing my approach, or what I should focus on in the meantime?Jokingly (but not jokingly) you’ll both have a better way to brag about yourselves to others. Easy to prove you’re a high value woman (or man) when you can point to that ring. He can “show off” to his friends that he’s a masculine man because he scored such a lovely woman like you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/21 01:52 AM |
| 0 | When you’ve moved in together, and you aren’t engaged… I am not sure if I should be changing my approach, or what I should focus on in the meantime?Your religious organizations will be proud of the both of you. You can ask your religious organizations about “why” this makes them proud and why marriage is important to them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/21 01:49 AM |
| 1 | When you’ve moved in together, and you aren’t engaged… I am not sure if I should be changing my approach, or what I should focus on in the meantime?People will respect him in the professional environment when he’s married. Married friends might want to “hang out” more now that you’re all on the same page. And have a shared experience of getting married. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/21 01:48 AM |
| 3 | How to dress feminine in cold weatherMade a little gallery: https://postimg.cc/gallery/Mvx9QMX | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/21 01:39 AM |
| 2 | When you’ve moved in together, and you aren’t engaged… I am not sure if I should be changing my approach, or what I should focus on in the meantime?You are an asset to him as much as he is for you. He built the house and brings in the money. He wants to build. He wants to work. You bring love and energy to the house. You cook and clean and maintain the relationship’s social status to the outside world. People see that you are a part of his life and that you are happy and content and that reflects on him. This motivates him to continue working and building. He wants to marry you because it symbolizes his trust and appreciation to you to the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/21 01:33 AM |
| 1 | How to dress feminine in cold weatherp.s. not sure why my postimg gallery got out of order, but they're numbered if u have questions about specific pictures | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/21 12:52 AM |
| 12 | How to dress feminine in cold weatherhttps://postimg.cc/gallery/fNkvPRp Mix of tight and loose clothes. Usually tight base layers that accentuate your neck, midriff, legs, or arms. Tight hair would be braid, bun, tucked into hat. And then aim for a loose neck like a big scarf or turtleneck. Tight jackets have a medium appearance (not loose not tight) and might best pair with a medium pant (like relaxed fit jeans). Mid and high rise shoes look pretty good. Cowboy boots, high boots, Chelsea boots are tight. Uggs, rubber rain boots, h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/21 12:48 AM |
| 2 | How do I peel myself off the wall?An inexpensive silk scarf or thin cotton scarf would probably be best for hair. Anything synthetic might cause your hair to get frizzy from all of the static generated. Also wool or synthetic would be too hot to wear all night. Silk pillowcases are pretty nice for long hair - theyre very slippery seems to help Ive had good luck with the very inexpensive silk stuff off Amazon | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/21 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on homeschooling?That subreddit seems to have some very intelligent criticisms of homeschooling. Seems like a must-read for those considering homeschooling especially for people with a red pill mentality. Good find Palestronggirl | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/21 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy is monogamy: breaking up over hypergamy is doing him a favor?Maybe I wasn’t being clear, but I agree with you that the time you spend on that car isn’t wasted. I felt like OP was coming across the first shortcomings of her current car… and was prematurely deciding if she should ditch this one and get a new one. My predisposition is that OP is smart and started dating this guy for a reason. Maybe she can correct some of his behaviors and rekindle that attraction to him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Am I just stupid?That is unfortunate | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/21 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy is monogamy: breaking up over hypergamy is doing him a favor?Analogy in terms that make sense to me: I get a vintage car that seems appealing to me at the time. As I progress through restoring it I find that there are aspects of the car I wish could be better. I continue the restoration. I keep doing it right because I enjoy working on and being with this car regardless of its shortcomings. And when it’s ready, I’ll either have a newfound desire to keep the car, or at least I’ll be leaving it in much better condition for whoever the new owner might be. Fo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/21 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Hypergamy is monogamy: breaking up over hypergamy is doing him a favor?Sounds like you’re more ambitious than he is right now. And it seems like you’re losing respect for him because he doesn’t seem to have his life in order. Example: the poor sleep schedule. Like he doesn’t value his sleep enough to change his work situation, and that might appear that he is allowing his work to take advantage of him. I don’t think you’ve got to throw the whole relationship away for this, though. Maybe, let him know that you don’t think it’s cool that he’s succumbing to his work. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/21 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Am I just stupid?I agree, but I think a lot of these relationships could be salvaged with some communication. And then the advice from these people could become helpful. Don’t you think this parental hostility is common in families where the kids are transitioning to that “all grown up” phase? I think resolving this relationship is smart because parents are important assets for guidance, support, and love. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/21 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Am I just stupid?Question: Am I just stupid? Answer: Probably not. Asking here demonstrates some existential awareness which shows intelligence. Okay she’s belittling you and that sucks. But parents don’t have it all figured out – they yell and be mean unfortunately. She shouldn’t, but focus on you. Remember that your parents love you and want what’s best for you. Make it clear to your mom that it will be best for you to be treated with more respect and talked to with less aggressiveness. Is she scared you’ll ru… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/21 01:55 PM |
| 1 | How long should I wait before sleeping with him?If the only thing stopping you from sleeping with this person is the blessing of us internet strangers I’d say go ahead don’t wait. At worst ya’ll will get that distraction out of the way and be able to focus on what you’re looking for in the relationship. The only information we’ve been given is that you really like this guy, are maybe infatuated with experiencing sex with him, and the only reason you might not do so yet is because there might be some made up number of days to wait before proce… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/21 12:52 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on homeschooling?I grew up in public school. Some of my fondest school memories included preschool, kindergarten, and elementary school. Our school had tonnes of things for us kids to do: - Arts and crafts classes for painting and pottery (lots and lots of arts and crafts) - Board games - Library and reading - Doing fun stuff for every holiday like Jack-O-Lanterns for Halloween - We had a morning “TV show” fully run by students to give morning announcements and stuff, and the student pool would rotate so we all … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/21 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Help with finding the right kind of men?I thought of more stuff So like… what to talk about on the date? I think you could and should just talk about what’s heavy on your mind. Recently for you it’s “finding the right guy.” I mean why not? Wouldn’t you have these kinds of food-for-thought convo’s with your boyfriend? “I feel like I’m being supportive and open about myself on dates but I’m just not being met with the same energy by guys…. What’s up with that?” Literally just dive into the topic like that, wouldn’t that be interesting? … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/21 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Help with finding the right kind of men?Question is “finding a good man” Maybe start describing your future boyfriend/husband. Are they a lumberjack, athlete, construction worker or something in your fantasy? Those can be places to look. It’s as simple as walking up to a dude and saying “hey you looked pretty good out there [playing soccer], would you like to go on a date?” (Date could be walk around that park and talk) Pretty sure most normal dudes would love bragging that they’re so good at soccer their gf asked them out. Just an id… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/21 11:01 AM |
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