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Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 12:36 AM
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Well said comeback response! I'm so sorry you and your daughter have to deal with this. I'm dealing with family issues too, and my heart goes out to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:00 PM
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My narcissistic ex had poor hygiene, like so bad he didn't even know how to wipe properly after using the bathroom. Anywho, because of his bad hygiene and bad health habits, when we had sex, I kept having bacterial infections (in places were body parts are used for sex, you know), and still hadn't put two and two together. Eventually, I get an awful and excruciatingly painful infection that resulted in medical attention and bandage dressings that needed to be cleaned daily for a week. Mind you, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:26 AM
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If only sigh, but it more than likely will fall off due to his extreme porn addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:46 PM
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Of course! I purchased it for $19 (USD) and it's adjustable, so you don't have stress about knowing ring size! Let me know if you want me to DM you the Etsy link! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:45 PM
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Thank you! It was nearly 4 years of abuse, and when I finally got out, I never looked back. What hurt most was my narcissistic ex boyfriend got his criminal charges dismissed. He believes he is untouchable. Yuck! Sorry you dated such an awful person -- makes me sad that there are so many scrotes out there. But so so happy you are doing well now too! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:29 AM
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Will do! It's on etsy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:21 PM
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Yes, 3.5 years of this. Glad I finally got out! 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:38 PM
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Facts! I think what I enjoy most is my ex is on stream, with all the furniture I had bought in the background. I miss my couch and my lamps lol, not him! (Long story but basically my ex was violently abusive and I left the home and most of my household items, and in return, got freedom and safety!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:45 PM
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Or Joe Budden and his narcissistic woman-hating ways!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:35 PM
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Do Twitch streamers count too? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:32 PM
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Same. Unfortunately my first sexual experience was sexually coerced. For 6 months, he constantly asked me to have sex. He wouldn't go a day without trying different questions, flirty conversations, or even forcing himself on me early in the morning. And I stood my ground saying no. I had never been with anyone and I wanted to have sex when I was ready. Of course he would say that he didn't believe me (that I never had sex) or that he had a reputation that he had to live up to (that he is very se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:00 AM
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☺️☺️ thank you! Days get easier, but oh wow it was so hard the first few months. Therapy is so helpful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:46 PM
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Thank you for this! I'm one year out of my physically and emotionally abusive relationship. These reminders always go a long way when I continue on this journey of healing and self-love. ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:10 AM
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Another important tidbit from this situation, not sure if anyone mentioned in comments: Because the friends would be so open about making those types of rude comments to her face, I'm curious what kind of trash talking her ex boyfriend and friends did behind her back. So glad she walked away! 👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:03 AM
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Another lie they tell in regards to phones: When I was with my ex of 3.5 years, I would always ask why he refused to sext or send sexy pictures etc. He was extremely against it, like even if I tried to budge by sending some flirty text message about having sex later that night, he would respond with "lol". I didn't get it. He always put up this facade with his friends that he was extremely sexually active, watched tons of porn, knew the difference between implants and real (I know, what was I th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:35 AM
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We were a few weeks into dating, and he was showing me some photos on his phone. As he is scrolling, he passes a few nudes. Because we we're officially dating by then, I asked if these were an ex girlfriend, to which I would assume he would need to delete, but nope, the convo turned into this: Me: So they aren't your ex's nudes...are they a celebrity crush, or someone you like? Him: No, she was just a classmate in high school. Me: So you never even did anything with her romantically? Him: No... …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:35 PM
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Sending you so much love! I dated someone pretty identical, with a huge video game and porn addiction. I would have never known until he started living with me (wasn't my choice, he forced me into, long story), and literally would play games all day, wait for me to leave, and jack off; I couldn't even leave my home for 10 minutes without him watching porn, and the worst part: he would not want to have sex with me if he already watched porn. We would go weeks without sex because he watched porn. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:06 PM
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Facts on facts on facts 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:57 PM
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Ughhhhh, I can't stand reading these stories. Like how do these idiotic men get away with this awful behavior 😖 My heart goes out to you! 💛 I hope you dropped him quickly and made sure to go no contact. He never deserves to access you ever again! My last straw (in the middle of him cheating, bruising/throwing me, and gaslighting me every day of our 3.5 year relationship), was him fracturing my finger. Even with the x-rays, photo evidence, police and doctor testimony at the emergency room, his fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:32 PM
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My goodness! That is wild...so we did have the same scenario...why are so many men the SAME!!! And more importantly, YIKES to the damn porn watching while you are home. Tell me why these men would very much jack off to porn rather than actually be intimate with an actual woman, it blows my mind 🤯 And yes, we literally would have sex in the morning (after me waiting days to have some, and him always saying, "you need to wait until I'm in the mood, we both have to want it", while he was masturbati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:32 AM
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Definitely cognitive dissonance at its finest. Just got out of DV relationship, and even though I was nothing but gracious and hospitable to his family and friends in all my encounters, they all doubted the violent abuse. Even when the evidence was in their face, it didn't matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:45 PM
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I'm so thankful I didn't give my den to my nex when we had gotten an apartment. Evidently he still took over our entire living room, but had I given him my den, he would have done the same = made into gaming room/porn everyday watching room (no sex for me). Kudos to you for turning something ugly into something so inspiring 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:13 PM
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Beautiful, beautiful! ✨✨✨✨🎨🎨🎨🌷🌷🌷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:04 PM
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I relate so deeply! Happy you got out 🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:00 PM
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I could spend all day giving many examples of all the abusive men I have encountered and fell "in love" with. Walking away is easier said than done, but once you are out, it is so freeing!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:47 AM
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After my narcissistic abusive ex broke my hand during an argument, and I had to drive myself to urgent care to get myself taken care of, his only apology 2 months later was... "I'm sorry for what happened to your hand. I really think if we both worked on respecting each other, we could make this work." Mind you, he has a pending court case due to this... And I just love how it's "what happened to your hand", still not taking ownership or responsibility for what he did by using the proper pronoun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:30 PM
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I can honestly say I received this apology several times by my ex... 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:23 PM
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LVM = Narcissistic abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:05 PM
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If that’s all they think they have, then get a divorce, and let them truly be alone with their beloved, better than putting up with such disrespect YES!!! "...truly be alone with their beloved"... 👏🏾 I wasn't married to my narcissistic ex but I did end up leaving him with his "beloved." My ex BROKE MY BONE over a damn video game!! It's been almost 9 months since I left, and watching this video, while it makes me feel sick inside, it's a very REAL reality for so many women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:25 AM
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