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9.doggy style so she/he can’t cough into your face
/r/seduction15/03/20 03:45 PM
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oh getting dates isn’t the problem but I feel like going on a first date with barely texting felt like a blind date and you never know what will happen and mostly the girls dream up what a wonderful and mysterious man you are and are disappointed at the end and won’t continue dates I mean the dates were nice dates - we had fun - but not more
/r/seduction11/03/20 05:18 PM
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I tried to set dates asap and now i’m trying to get a connection with texting a few days first getting the date asap worked okay - I got the first date but not the second let’s see how it works if you go on the first date with a connection already made tipps are okay but guys don’t follow blindfolded any rules - just date a lot of girls and the right one will be coming
/r/seduction11/03/20 05:15 PM
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hm the guessing game is nice - will copy that ty
/r/seduction10/03/20 09:51 PM
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actually I have ideas and using them - just thought if we combine all it can help everyone here but whatever if nobody is interested I will just delete this post - whatever
/r/seduction10/03/20 11:02 AM
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it’s not lieing if it’s 90% clear that it isn’t true - it’s joking around - not taking it serious
/r/seduction10/03/20 10:59 AM
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yeah and that’s the bullshit why so many people are single and unhappy lol
/r/seduction08/03/20 03:50 AM
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you can swipe tinder on the toilet every day and get dates out of it - you can’t approach girls while on the toilet = time used wisely I get the date and her number mostly at the first day and 5-8 messages - if she swipes you most of the time she wants the date or she isn’t messaging you at all (don’t know why they swipe then but that’s it) I have problem getting second dates but that’s another story and problem to solve for myself at least I get the first dates I guess haha
/r/seduction08/03/20 03:25 AM
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what of I own being half nice half ass ?
/r/seduction05/03/20 04:18 AM
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yeah I’m going on one date almost every week now with bad luck social circle I mean I have friends but not the really tight friends or best friends a lot of people have - I had friends and best friends in my school time but they moved or other stuff happened I couldn’t change at the time - then I had a friend group but it was not the friends I wished for because they didn’t invited me a lot of times and I just had the feeling I had to do stuff I didn’t wanted to be part of them - so one night it…
/r/seduction01/03/20 12:05 PM
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on this app we have to answer questions and the joke was about our answer of one these questions so it was not random
/r/seduction27/02/20 12:29 PM
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the funny thing is always when a girl tells me she isn’t feeling more than friendship I tell her it’s fine and that we can be friends and I never hear from them again xD
/r/seduction25/02/20 10:24 PM
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ty for the big reply yeah both dates were online dating - so it makes sense - and I’m not mad at them at all - I know there are a lot of men who are the worst yeah I’m improving my life right now - I go to the gym to get muscles (never had problem with fad) and try to get a more happy social life and I read a lot of tips and guides about dating etc. Im actually okay or good with conversations but had bad luck with my social circle so I have to start kind of from beginning but I know i’m not the …
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:03 PM
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yeah „shame“ is a bad translation - I said like „I feel sorry to hear that but 3hours are enough time to ...“ hard to translate but it was no „aggressiv“ move. what do you mean with logistics? Her daily routine? I feel like I have to get better at flirting and push/pull. I’m 80% extrovert - so I don’t have a problem with talking to anyone and finding topics - on my last date the girl laughed a lot but I fell like there was no sexual tension and I really forget about it too when I have good conve…
/r/seduction25/02/20 09:04 AM
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yeah I guess it’s training then :P but do you think I should try to get the kiss everytime or only if we have really good chem and touch each other before? I mean there are shy girls out there too who are shy at the date and want to be kissed at the end... what do you guys think?
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:27 PM
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hm good advice but can’t do that now because that looks then like on purpose I told her that it’s a shame but 3 hours are still enough to get to know someone a little bit
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:23 PM
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I can’t follow 100% of your text but I’m actually dating nice women - a few of them even have me half of the money back because they insisted that we split the bill - don’t know if it’s a good or bad sign - probably bad because they didn’t give me a second date - but they could still let me pay the bill and ghost me - and actually no one of the women I dated ghosted me - they all told me that they had fun but it’s not working - sometimes they tell me the reason but often they don’t - but that’s …
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:52 PM
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I don’t know - I just don’t get how much and when physical touch - I know the save areas to touch and so but when she doesn’t show me signs or is not coming near me on the bench one bit, I just assume touching her would make her feel uncomfortable - and yeah I’m aware that touching is important and is the different between friendzoned and not, also I have no problem with touching when I greet them and make the kiss kiss greet, I start touching the elbow for a short time or the save zone on the b…
/r/seduction22/02/20 01:42 AM
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that makes me even more sad. I’m not perfect but my dates are not that bad that they would run away. I listen, I talk, I joke, I can hold eye contact etc etc. Still a lot of them don’t want a second date. But I just think sometimes I think we can make a perfect date and engage confident etc. but still she won’t see you „more than a friend“. maybe I just don’t look maskulin enough yet - hitting the gym - don’t know how much women like thin men :P
/r/seduction21/02/20 02:02 PM
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yeah but men can be independent and like the girl/women that much that they show they like her and text the next day - but then he looks needy and girls/women don’t like that - so we have to actually wait even when we would like to text her right away so we seem like we don’t care about her that much - that’s fucked up imo
/r/seduction21/02/20 01:47 PM
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do you think there is a lot different between woman from europe and canada? or counties in general?
/r/seduction21/02/20 01:45 PM
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I meant they were 3 different girls the last dates -> all first dates just curious - from which country are you?
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:11 PM
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yeah it’s fine to message her - you can’t lose there are just 3 outcomes she wants to meet again in interest for a relationship she just wants sex - how disgusting ;) or she tells you she won’t want to see you or she ghosts you you just have to be prepared for the 3rd one - it’s possible but don’t think it will happen - be positiv ghosting can hurt a lot and the waiting can make you crazy - just relax and just do something else in the meantime and don’t text her again until she replies / maybe i…
/r/seduction19/02/20 08:23 PM
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how much time has passed since the date/sex?
/r/seduction19/02/20 08:09 PM
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hm then I probably fucked it up the last 3 dates lol
/r/seduction19/02/20 01:56 PM
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ok so you met again after or was it an ons?
/r/seduction19/02/20 01:54 PM
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but love is a feeling
/r/seduction16/02/20 08:24 PM
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well I translated directly from german to english - I mean she tried to seduce me but she said later that she noticed that I was way into her (what was not really true in reality) so she had no fun in seducing me
/r/seduction12/02/20 01:52 PM
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women are just so complex you never will know what works on them - the thousand of seducing tips and rules are just kind of directions you can use I just had a date where I loved her personality. She was not ugly but definitely not the best looking. And still she didn’t want a second date. Maybe I come over to needy because I made a move at the end of the date and told her I would like a second date but I had to do it because I also don’t want to get friendzoned. She waited one and a half day to…
/r/seduction12/02/20 12:23 PM
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okay then I will do that - I always thought it’s sexy if you keep eye contact when you are near someone - especially on a date
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:44 PM
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ok thanks a lot I will just wait if she makes a move
/r/seduction08/02/20 11:51 AM
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okay - thx for your advice I will send you a DM if you don’t mind
/r/seduction08/02/20 11:13 AM
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dude no offense but you start so awkward and creepy of course they call their dad - I mean I don’t know how old you are looking but even when you are looking 18 why do you start an approach with: hey - you are kind of nice to talk to „ and they don’t even look at you and you don’t even had a convo then when their dad is coming you still make it awkward so again - no offense and keep trying and look up guides or something try to start the approach on a positive wipe and even with the dad you coul…
/r/seduction08/02/20 09:43 AM
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yeah I can hold eyecontact the whole time except when I drink or look at stuff happening around - at one date we analyzed what went wrong at the date and she said I had way to much eye contact - she was half time holding eyecontact and half time she looked at random stuff while talking like an author on a book presentation so what should I do now ? keep eye contact or look away sometimes on purpose? I think it’s weird when you talk or one is talking to look away for longer time - I was just conf…
/r/seduction08/02/20 08:45 AM
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can you tell me why and if you are male or female?
/r/seduction07/02/20 07:47 PM
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or just say: I’m sorry to interrupt your xxxx but I noticed that you xxxx or something like that
/r/seduction07/02/20 03:38 PM
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yeah it’s probably that you give the one girl to much attention that you will get friendzoned one tip if you don’t already do it: don’t make space for her in your calendar if you have something planned already or else she thinks that you are needy or don’t have other stuff to do
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:07 PM
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just saying: squirting don’t have to be an orgasm - actually it’s most likely no orgasm - it’s near one tho
/r/seduction04/02/20 02:53 PM
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just keep in mind the girls don’t want assholes - they want a man who is confident and sometimes the girls take assholes cause they think he is nice but at the end he is an asshole - a confident assholes - but girls want a confident friendly man do you understand the difference? But I can relate to you sort of. I date a nice girl who is sort of shy but I think she is really into me but I don’t know yet if it ends in a relationship - so she told me her ex boyfriend used her and player around with…
/r/seduction04/02/20 01:57 PM
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yeah and it’s TRUE
/r/seduction04/02/20 01:30 PM
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Black Friday? isn’t it hard to approach girls when they all fight for cheap toilet paper?
/r/seduction04/02/20 01:24 PM
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did that ever work for you?
/r/seduction04/02/20 01:22 PM
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I like to wear pink t-shirt or polo shirt and I don’t mean the barbie pink - I mean the more skin toned pink - 95% of men think it’s gay but actually it takes balls to wear it if you really don’t give a fuck - also it looks really nice actually
/r/seduction04/02/20 12:55 PM
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what? I didn’t said you should grab her ass in front of her mom - pls read again engaging and asking for number is not harassment!
/r/seduction04/02/20 12:43 PM
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that’s true - also if you didn’t even see her face it could be a bad surprise and she will think you are just interested in her body
/r/seduction04/02/20 12:37 PM
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and what’s the problem? if you engage and she has a boyfriend just tell them „they are a cute couple - sry for the disturbance“ or „he is a lucky guy - have fun“ etc. and when she is with her mum and you don’t care, you even show bigger balls
/r/seduction04/02/20 12:35 PM
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run past her and wait 15 meters in front of her and engage her and make a joke about how it’s destiny that you both meet here lol I don’t know - maybe it will work
/r/seduction04/02/20 12:32 PM
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I do exactly this without even knowing Amante also I just arrange the day of the date and I will tell her that I will contact her about the location and time - then I have days to make up a good date plan and message her a good amount of time before the date day I don’t text with them between date and first contact except when they message me or about the location and time sometimes they even can’t hold the waiting and ask if I already planned something which is nice because it’s shows that they…
/r/seduction04/02/20 11:39 AM
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imo the time rule is not a rule I like - sometimes it’s good to wait a little bit or longer but then on the other hand sometimes it’s important to respond in a short time - depends on the messages if she is doing the same the date won’t happen until year 3000
/r/seduction04/02/20 11:32 AM
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Just go on a date and talk about anything except work but about something what you or she is passioned about or anything - if she is into you the topic is not important as long it’s not about a funeral
/r/seduction04/02/20 11:29 AM
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Im happy now thanks for the trick :D
/r/seduction04/02/20 09:48 AM
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well „quality women“ is a personal perception - someone likes the supermodel type and other like the nerdy girls I agree with the rest tho
/r/seduction04/02/20 09:44 AM
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I think it’s a combo between most men looking the best at 30 around and women feeling old at this age and at this time „all the „best“ men are in relationships already“ and all women will panic. but that’s just my opinion
/r/seduction03/02/20 10:22 PM
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nice job dude
/r/seduction03/02/20 10:20 PM
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NICE JOB MAN!
/r/seduction01/02/20 04:14 PM
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nice to hear - can you tell us the process how you managed it from 0 to so many - I assume it is difficult because without friends you can’t have the social circle to build on
/r/seduction29/01/20 02:32 PM
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could it be that you didn’t make a move? I mean 8-10 dates? did you kiss or sex or something like that?
/r/seduction24/01/20 09:16 AM
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good play dude but I think you should have tried kissing the second time when you split because I think the first time she just didn’t wanted to feel like a slut that she said something was a 50/50 chance
/r/seduction22/01/20 02:39 PM
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they will tell you that you have to be tall enough so she can wear her high heels and be as tall as you or that your dick is small or that you are the perfect match but it’s not possible cause she sees you as a friend or even worse as a brother and most woman don’t know what they want or can’t admit it - some want an alpha man but never could tell someone cause it’s better to have a nice guy but she likes to be ****** hard
/r/seduction21/11/19 02:46 PM
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chris hemsworth?? I call bullshit on this haha
/r/seduction14/11/19 07:14 AM
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yeah maybe that’s not really the dating „advices“ I need. you are correct. I was more looking for a reddit side helping me to find an equal and lovely partner. I don’t want to become like these men who are cheating or abusing. Like I don’t want to date one of them or be married to one. If criticizing cheating and abusing by men is okay on this side and to cheer the same thing when women do it is normal and wished-for on this reddit side, i’m sure about that this side is not the subreddit i’m loo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 02:53 PM
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One last question: your name is 666manhater666 - why are you looking to date men if you hate them so much that you even call yourself manhater?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 02:39 PM
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