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9

Maybe look up self esteem mate. You clearly don’t get it. Also no guy has options ready unless the worked on them. Random hook ups happen to more appealing guys but they are just that, random.
/r/seduction11/08/22 07:33 PM
1

Most women don’t ever really learn how to communicate properly, when it comes to dating. Hugely because men have to carry conversations. This is because men pursue women and not often the other way around. Don’t look into it when you run into one of the billions of women who suck at messaging.
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:09 PM
56

Dating apps overall do more damage to the dating environment. Just don’t use them. You are competing against an abnormal set of men, men who wouldn’t even date the girl you are competing for. For the most part Its a massive wast of time. Meeting people at any activities with social dynamics is the best. Unfortunately this requires a lot of patience. There is nothing wrong with going on holidays to get laid, It’s easier on tours (Contiki etc.) and in general as a foreigner in another country.
/r/seduction01/07/22 02:49 AM
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😅
/r/seduction16/06/22 01:51 PM
82

He’s good with his dick and doesn’t want a relationship after he already got laid. Sounds like he does this a lot.
/r/seduction16/03/22 07:11 PM
7

Yeah this is true. No matter how experienced you are, if you get into bed and their attitude is wrong, sex will be bad. Which is why we shouldn’t care to chase sex with people who are unsure of hooking up.
/r/seduction15/03/22 02:52 AM
1

No shame. You did it! Congratulations! Fuck her for being too dumb to understand everyone starts somewhere. She’s an idiot. Doesn’t make her wrong for preferring experienced. She’s still just an idiot.
/r/seduction15/03/22 02:49 AM
1

Mate out of most girls the 10s like personality the most. Also the personality that attracts women, is not some average & nice personality.
/r/seduction13/03/22 12:45 AM
1

She’s fat, just genetics let her store fat in a favourable way. Still a hard pass. You want to be physically attractive to most guys just learn how to eat.
/r/seduction25/02/22 08:57 AM
1

Women are incredibly bad at texting (usually because they don’t have to be any good), if in your position they would say something far worse than your text; granted it was not great. If she already said she’s not attracted to you I doubt she would sabotage you due to conflicting interests. Women give bad advice because they don’t know what they are doing, more so than any guy.
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:13 AM
5

Mate you need to sit down and establish expectations and needs. This is a sexless failed long term relationship waiting to happen.
/r/seduction04/01/22 03:31 PM
1

It honestly sounds like she thinks she gives good head and is proud. They talked about her good bj, discussed the NSA, then she drops comments with the giggles all seemingly related…
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:00 PM
1

Yeah maybe she just feels comfortable to talk to you. That would be healthy. You should be able to talk about these things with a partner.
/r/seduction26/12/21 07:27 PM
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As much as I want to encourage this, we still have to address the fact that there are other demographics of women who have cause to lock eye contact and smile at random men and have 0 romantic interest. Just don't be disheartened if you are turned down. You will find one.
/r/seduction14/09/20 02:20 AM
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Every time I have been "propositioned" by a girl I have found it off putting. It made me further understand why it is important for uncertainty in the any courting process. Just like Its important for a guy to never outright say he's interested and ruin the fun, a girl should do the same and use hinting and teasing to proposition instead.
/r/seduction06/07/20 08:17 PM
2

I almost entirely agree except when you say "...reflection of them..." ..the only things this says about the other person is they are either not very educated/aware of the other persons situation or they can't be bothered dealing with someone else issues. Most women fit in this category, they would straight up not have the time of day for someone who doesn't have the communication skills to maintain or carry a conversation. Many men like to complain about this but its not the woman's fault. A wo…
/r/seduction16/06/20 03:27 AM
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This is super common. Exposure/practice is the best solution. Just make an effort to talk a bit more every time you can interact with a guy you like. Confidence and comfort comes from gaining the skills required to converse in this scenario. Just like anything in life practice makes you better and confidence is a byproduct.
/r/seduction16/06/20 03:10 AM
1

You can get a girl without being fit. Being well groomed and dressed is far more important to girls. Having said that your options will be more plentiful if you improved yourself in more areas. Thinking of it as "trying to be someone you're not" is the wrong attitude. If you focused on goals and pathways of improvement that you cared about, that would attract women more aligned with your personality. p.s. It is also important to understand how caring for your health is an indicator for a plethor…
/r/seduction31/05/20 08:38 PM
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Definitely a common behaviour for girls, to delete the messages and wash it from memory. The silly thing is its only a big problem in their head. Made up issues and insecurities about the events that took place.
/r/seduction15/02/20 03:32 AM
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She's young and dumb. She is the one making mistakes here.
/r/seduction15/02/20 03:28 AM
2

A lot of the time going into a relationship you don't have to talk about your status, in fact much of the time it is better if you don't until you are well and truly together. Just work on enjoying the dating process and everything will work out naturally.
/r/seduction15/02/20 03:16 AM
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step 1: don't be a cunt Step 2: done. But seriously learn to communicate, which is just being vocal and talking through every issue and you're pretty much done.
/r/seduction14/02/20 11:46 AM
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Women don't really have to have any conversation skills to get a guy, let alone any skills whatsoever. With that in mind its not surprising you will get contradictory signals across different interactions. You are right, just keep approaching. Only worry about what she says after you give it a good shot.
/r/seduction06/02/20 02:58 AM
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Tell me about it. 5 years later and I still love a girl from California that I barely speak to any more :'( I'm honestly a pretty logical person and I generally believe that you can have a loving relationship with almost anyone you choose. Yet to this day, she makes me feel like people do have soul mates. I think the notion is somewhat out there. Forever confused and missing her.
/r/seduction08/01/20 11:19 AM
1

Don't blame the player blame the game.
/r/seduction30/11/19 02:58 AM
27

So OP is a gay baby?
/r/seduction28/11/19 07:43 AM
5

This may be true for a certain demographic. It could even be an introverts POV, but that could be very wrong. I don't think its a good idea to project opinions on the 'why' someone would approach someone else in any situation. Having preset ideas is only going to stop you from finding out for real what the other person feels/thinks.
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:23 AM
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He's right. Keep in mind, the more you know about "game" the faster your learning curve towards success at one of the social events. It's just knowledge and practice. Guys often fall into the same trap, they get disheartened because it seems like no-one wants them. In reality many women would see them as a potential partner if they passed all the early tests. It's just a matter of having the right knowledge and experience. So get out there keep being sociable and keep learning about things like …
/r/seduction11/11/19 11:59 PM
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The sooner women learn that most men are like this and Hollywood relationships are unnatural the better for both people. You can build better common ground without preset expectations. P.s. I call it "the Hollywood relationship" but it is also just a social construct. Call it what you will
/r/seduction11/11/19 11:41 PM
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Don't waste your time with a woman who thinks like this or can't be convinced with logic. Tell them good luck and leave.
/r/seduction11/11/19 12:53 PM
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he probably just likes you in a more than friends way. Im sure he hopes for it to progress as far as you will let it go physically. As far as emotionally many guys will decide later after things progress a bit.
/r/seduction27/10/19 11:52 PM
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I have had plenty of women try to date me and several friends GF try to start something with me before they have left my friend. It says nothing about me. Its just stating that women of higher value have more options and often require persistence; if you disregard this fact you will miss great opportunities. Making this statement doesn't mean Im saying men can't be the same.
/r/seduction24/10/19 02:51 PM
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Don't only go out Saturday nights to approach women. That is just one night a week where you attempt to build on your skills and 6 to forget what you've already learnt. Also you will be completing against more men so you will get an unrealistic amount of rejection/resistance.
/r/seduction19/10/19 01:37 PM
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pretty sure they just assumed you were the same age because of being in the same class. 100% just move on and go for girls your age.
/r/seduction06/10/19 11:59 AM
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lots of women eventually do "pursue men" and it is extremely clumsy and as off putting as a man who is first starting. Why not start earlier? it should be more socially acceptable.
/r/seduction06/10/19 11:56 AM
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I think women should definitely pursue men more. I think women need to learn how to deal with that kind of rejection/understand what they put guys through; It will help them learn how to reject guys better etc. Also It is fair that they bear some of the load of breaking the ice.
/r/seduction06/10/19 11:54 AM
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Terrible advice. Generally the more value the girl has, the more you need to prove yourself to get a date; Its likely you need to be more confident, persistent and interesting than the other men trying to make something happen. If you listen to this kind of advice you might miss catching a really good woman because you didn't try hard enough.
/r/seduction03/10/19 10:51 AM
1

the best pick up artists guide the conversation to their favour, and will figure out how to win a girl over even with fairly definitive "no's"
/r/seduction02/10/19 09:42 AM
2

its pretty ridiculous to get angry then cold at someone, especially when all you are doing is sending signals out; may of which other women will use with completely different intentions.
/r/seduction28/09/19 11:20 PM
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Yeah she is playing stupid games. I would have given her a lecture on saying stupid things and ruining the chase with poorly placed definitive language. At this point cutting sick and ruining it is totally acceptable.
/r/seduction24/09/19 11:08 PM
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Treating it like it's surgery ahahaha. Yeah learning how to control a convo is too much work and a waste of time. You are right.
/r/seduction19/09/19 02:35 PM
1

You don't have to say bitch but I guarantee you this gets a response you can build on rather than a polite conversation ender. It is far better than just you are cute.
/r/seduction19/09/19 02:32 PM
1

old joke but still holds a lot of relevance. I think it is a parody of the correct type of response.
/r/seduction19/09/19 02:05 AM
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Oh nice. This partially covers stuff i said in a response. Though It is still good practice to work through all "I have a boyfriend" responses because it it used sooo often.
/r/seduction19/09/19 02:03 AM
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Next time don't just say she is cute. she will know you want to date her or sleep with her. This is bad because she needs to be unsure. The main reasons being, she will start thinking she has greater value than you. Instead say something like "you are cute, I want to fid out you are not a bitch" Secondly and probably more importantly, assume she is just testing you when she says "i have a boyfriend". She will find out 2 things from this: 1) if you are confident enough/socially competent enough t…
/r/seduction19/09/19 01:57 AM
1

contrary to popular belief texting 3 times in a row is very doable. You shouldn't constantly do it but if your messaging interval varies enough, you can do it often enough. Sometimes it is good to ghost her for a few days, sometimes it is good to reply hours later. And don't explain your absence, unless you missed a date or something promised. With this kind of texting she will start thinking your time is valuable to you, thus increasing her perceived value of you.
/r/seduction19/09/19 01:36 AM
1

Ok, so this is super important. That feeling of slight discomfort when you are talking to someone, that eases the longer you talk about boring stuff; yeah you want to keep a certain amount of that. The more you talk small talk (work, hobbies etc.), the less tension there will be. You have to often build more tension & sexual tension by teasing her, implying sexual things/innuendo, choosing to have opposite opinions etc. p.s. when talking about sexual things don't be too obvious. If you do say so…
/r/seduction19/09/19 01:30 AM
1

Probably the best places are the city centre, Town fairs/street parties, large weekend markets. Shopping districts are great because you can catch a lot of people with free time. p.s. don't be discouraged by people saying they are in a hurry, a lot of the time you just say something like "yeah me too, I have to be at X but you interested me so I had to find out if you are cool"
/r/seduction19/09/19 01:16 AM
1

It's this kind of attitude that stops you from getting anywhere. Im not saying to beg for invitations to social events. Im saying to invite people out or if the occasion is right (large party etc.) you can even start being forward and asking if you can come. Asking for an invite is more acceptable if you do the former and invite them to things first.
/r/seduction19/09/19 12:50 AM
2

100% not yor fault Tinder is a cancer to the dating world. It teaches people to have false egos and teaches terrible interaction etiquette.
/r/seduction06/09/19 07:05 PM
1

I was talking to a 9/10 who was also very boring. The most fun I had/most lively responses I got was when I made fun of her. 9s don't need personality socially, so make do with what you get until you find out if she is a decent person. Women like that will pick up a lot of their partners personality, so it could be good for a long term relationship; she may end up liking a lot of things you like.
/r/seduction05/09/19 08:10 PM
2

Absolutely anything. not like most women care about being polite. If men have to carry the convo then we have the right to drop it any way we like.
/r/seduction05/09/19 08:01 PM
1

don't play monopoly..
/r/seduction05/09/19 07:51 PM
1

If you are not getting invited to social things then put yourself out there and ask if you can join. if you are not super weird about it you will eventually get a yes. as with most things, you may have to learn how to give off the right vibe so don't be disheartened if you fail a few times.
/r/seduction05/09/19 07:47 PM
1

you are funny, just not all the time :) ...you can be almost anything you work hard enough to be. Life gets better for people like you and me as we move out of school.
/r/seduction05/09/19 07:44 PM
6

approaching girls anywhere else is better than at bars because you have 0 competition.
/r/seduction08/08/19 03:58 PM
4

Girls don't generally approach guys, especially If you are attractive they will be more concerned about being rejected. Either way don't worry about them making moves. You have to make most of the moves. Practice flirting with as many girls as possible, you are almost definitely making mistakes in conversation. Just keep learning ways to improve your flirting/teasing.
/r/seduction28/07/19 05:34 PM
1

probably just ask her to join you to coffee, ice-cream or anything after work next time. Tease her and let it lead to someones house, come on enough fapping around.
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:06 AM
4

dafuq
/r/seduction25/07/19 02:57 AM
1

You have higher social value now that her friend has kissed you and she hasn't. She needs to know she is as desirable as her friend.
/r/seduction25/07/19 02:51 AM
2

Its really dumb but so many women use the "boyfriend" lie. They don't realise it is the worst filter, it mostly filters out good guys. But yeah totally one of the most common early lies they tell. If you get told she has a boyfriend its best to pass the "test" however you like and keep teasing her.
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:53 AM
1

Being good at making one night stands happen is basically passing a whole bunch of tests in one night rather than over time. It requires you are very clued on, you need to be able to make the best decisions in a huge range of scenarios. If you are unable to do this then it becomes chance, some girls situation on the night make them just ready/easier that one time.
/r/seduction28/06/19 04:47 PM
5

Aint nothing wrong with just talking about something new on a new day. Be flirty maintain some tension and find out about her schedule to try again with a date.
/r/seduction23/06/19 06:43 PM
4

dude you don't have to be able to get it in the hole like a pro. If you are putting that pressure/stress on yourself, you're losing your erection for no reason. sex with some soft light so you can see what you're doing is acceptable.
/r/seduction15/06/19 10:27 AM
3

Don't ask her to dinner off the bat. You can definitely get her to do dinner for a first date but you have to put the idea out there across multiple messages. You'd be better off talking to her after class and during the convo casually ask her to come with you to get a coffee then and there. Say something like "if you are not in a hurry right now, you should come with me to starbucks. There is a starbucks (or whatever is close) just around the corner (or wherever it is), I was just about to get …
/r/seduction21/02/19 07:59 PM
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