blockgoblin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	A kind reminder to not focus on one girl A better dude in her opinion. I think a better way of thinking about this is about dimensionality. As a human you have 1000s of dimensions of characteristics (from basic stuff like height, weight, hair colour, job, to more obscure stuff like how you react to bad news, or the way you adjust your glasses when reading a good book) that define your attractiveness. If I am talking to multiple women, I have to try and distill 1000 dimensional point and compress it into a single dimension: "good" or "b…	/r/seduction	12/04/21 12:59 PM
1	She Apparently Has A "man" Nah I just find lying cheating girls like that unattractive and not worth my time	/r/seduction	11/04/21 08:53 AM
1	She Apparently Has A "man" You would because you would like others to let you know if your girl is pulling the same shit. Getting with girls in relationships is icky.	/r/seduction	10/04/21 07:47 PM
51	I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to. If I am honest, it sounds very much like you are focusing too much on pursuing women and not enough on being desirable. I know that sounds backwards, but people can detect insecurity or bad intentions from a mile away and as soon as you forget about the goal of getting 'anyone', people will be much more receptive to becoming your 'someone'. If, like you say, you've approached hundreds of women, something in the way you approach them may make them (rightfully) feel like a commodity. If you sit ar…	/r/seduction	05/11/20 11:01 AM
1	Which ways do guys normally find a girlfriend? I arrived early to an event so I cold approached my (now) girlfriend and her best friend on a bench, made a few jokes, giggled at her very posh french accent, gave her my number, and then went to meet my mates in the bar across the street. Cold approach is very unlike me (she doesn't believe it for one second) but I knew if I didn't say something I'd regret it.	/r/seduction	28/01/20 04:17 PM
1	Which ways do guys normally find a girlfriend? I arrived early to an event so I cold approached my (now) girlfriend and her best friend on a bench, made a few jokes, giggled at her very posh french accent, gave her my number, and then went to meet my mates in the bar across the street. Cold approach is very unlike me (she doesn't believe it for one second) but I knew if I didn't say something I'd regret it.	/r/seduction	28/01/20 04:16 PM
1	Which ways do guys normally find a girlfriend? I arrived early to an event so I cold approached my (now) girlfriend and her best friend on a bench, made a few jokes, giggled at her very posh french accent, gave her my number, and then went to meet my mates in the bar across the street. Cold approach is very unlike me (she doesn't believe it for one second) but I knew if I didn't say something I'd regret it.	/r/seduction	28/01/20 04:16 PM
2	A night out with a girl i'm 'seeing' and her friends - some Pickup thoughts from girls I read a post on here that in the UK social circle is EVERYTHING and, from my experience, that is totally the case. You'll have a much much better chance with someone you've bumped into a few times (to have you 'grow on them'). Not to say cold approach is impossible, though, just more difficult (anecdotally).	/r/seduction	01/10/19 06:38 PM