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Yesss!!! 🥳🥳🥳
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 09:23 AM
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Hoo girl, did I write this in my sleep? Make another Reddit account, and throw away the password? 😳😳😳 I COMPLETELY relate I see other people saying you need to match with someone who tops these traits in you, which I agree with and want for myself as well, however, I have the added problem of struggling with hypervigilance 😂😂 AKA- the sad reality is, if I got this I’m sure at THIS point in my life (I’m definitely dedicated to loving my man right so I plan to seek THERAPY when I can fiscally affo…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 09:20 AM
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I wasn’t even thinking that dude Obviously there’s a lot of nuance in the situation that I don’t understand and nobody on here will I forgot what the thread was about even
/r/MGTOW201/02/21 06:16 PM
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The irony
/r/MGTOW201/02/21 03:11 PM
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That doesn’t actually do anything
/r/MGTOW231/01/21 11:22 PM
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Yes, it is. This is the Internet, ever heard of leisure time 🤯
/r/MGTOW222/01/21 10:33 AM
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That doesn’t actually do anything
/r/MGTOW221/01/21 08:51 AM
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I had a feeling I did but felt it was too much of a first world problem to change
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 10:12 PM
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Your sentiment is valid and makes total sense and I think DEFINITELY plays a part in this story, however I have some miscellaneous things to say about it but you don’t seem the type to observe and to make good faith discorse, so you’ve inspired me to write it on a google doc or blog post instead of wasting it on you and Reddit
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 09:15 PM
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EXACTLY I almost posted exactly this in my comment. But OP seems like the type of fruit cake that you have to be extra compassionate and empathetic to get through to him because he’s a sensitive snowflake about his manhood. Might delete this comment later (this particular one, not my original comment) Édit: This isn’t to say him or bad people (I’m not saying he’s a bad person, we here don’t know him we can only speculate. Maybe he typed this up in a moment of rage but deep down knew better and t…
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 09:09 PM
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Absolutely agree with this comment thread. If she’s immature or nasty about it, bullet dodged. But part of being a good partner is showing up for people when they don’t ask you to, reading between the lines, having discernment and attunement and all around good people skills, common courtesy, & assuming the best of people and scenarios... OP are you doing this?
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 07:15 AM
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Absolutely agreed
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 07:13 AM
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Nun mode I was not messaging anyone
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/21 12:12 AM
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Yeah I get it. It does seem weird. I consider myself pretty opportunistic as I see value in everything and am skilled at resourcing everything to my benefit. (I wouldn’t like use guys or anything like that, because it would feel unethical to me, so I don’t really consider that “to my benefit”) Since I was young I’ve always figured I could meet my future husband or people otherwise important to me anywhere
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/21 04:05 PM
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Yes. Even if sex wasn’t of interest, either.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/21 04:04 PM
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Sounds interesting!! Yeah I’ll check out the book I’ve actually been in nun-mode and I was also going to maybe write here and ask about this: Nun mode has just left me feeling deprived. Yes I’ve gotten benefits from it and am not unhappy that I did it. How would a RPW handle this deprived feeling? I think I’ve seen here before it mentioned that it only hits at the beginning for most, but for me I was ELATED until pretty recently. Still enjoying nun mode, but starting to feel an antsy, “but wait …
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/21 04:03 PM
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I’m not desperate to call anyone my long term boyfriend or husband because I vet like a bat out of hell for that type of thing. I guess because I know I just want to possibly step my toe into dating, I feel like the stakes are low and don’t really matter because I know I’m smart enough to not just commit to just anyone long term. But I know that’s not the right way to be thinking either
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/21 03:58 PM
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An opportunist? i.e. I don’t mind talking to people from anywhere so long as I’ve gauged he’s decent enough
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/21 03:54 PM
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Ooh 😯 That is actually a good point and I do agree in a more, say, collective or general sense. I guess my issue is that the person I have the oneitis about doesn’t necessarily hold my greatest good. They’re not necessarily the most aggressive either, it’s more of a thing where... they’re kind of what a small part of myself that I’m dwelling on needs to meet a need I’m the exact OPPOSITE of this when it comes to people I’m vetting more for long-term platonic interests, but I guess I’m a bit of a…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 09:44 PM
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That is absolutely true, which is why I feel like me having it as a woman is more urgent and dangerous. And ooh, was the book list removed? 😲
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 09:39 PM
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Absolutely! I did a good job of healing through it a bit a few years back, but not nearly enough. I’m so lost as to where to start up again from here...
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 09:23 PM
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Ah, you’re right. I’m still healing from internalized misogyny due to mommy issues and have an immense fear of building female friendships due to it. I think they’re all going to bite me or secretly hate me. Typing this out, no wonder I’m like this. Of course if men are the only people I can trust on a platonic level I’m going to get feelings that are tempting to swim a little bit in
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 09:19 PM
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Thank you for that, I actually appreciate it more than you know! I used to be more of a poster on other accounts but kind of stopped because it seemed like the women were becoming more catty, though I’m not sure if that’s just my own projections. I figured, though, that even if I’m totally projecting that you guys are the ones who deserve better than, and now I only post when I really am in the mood to or have an open heart about it :) The reason I asked here is because I feel like a lot of RP v…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 09:17 PM
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Yeah so, sliiight etemology difference here, I’m very good at observation, but actual detachment, which you would think would be the same, I’m actually so bad at. Detachment is the most heartbreaking feeling to me since I never had many friends and grew up with emotional absense especially from the women in my life I’m basically watching myself cling and am smart enough to know I don’t want this long term, but it still feels gross in the short term
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 09:12 PM
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Lack of experience being intimidating Phone died but i wanted to make this edit!: the other part applied as well, but surprisingly I’ve managed to remain fiery fierce about it on that end because I know those people’s opinions never have and never will matter. I can clearly see in the way they think and hold themselves. Any residue from this I’ve already worked through with shadow work or still ENTHUSIASTICALLY plan to work through with shadow work
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 09:03 PM
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I get a lot of value from this sub while I don’t agree with every single part of it. I’m mainly a lurker these days
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 09:01 PM
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It’s FOR SURE both
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 09:00 PM
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I thought it was the opposite lol but now that you say that I can kinda see that too, hmmm. It’s either cultural or code switching, HONESTLY it’s really both
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 03:14 PM
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Same here 😄
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/20 04:07 PM
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Thank you, I hope you feel better 🥰🥰🥰 you’re obviously very sweet and the only one to ask me about my depression, so you’re obviously very smart and emotionally intelligent and worth a lot ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/20 02:42 PM
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It’s still so hard every day, thank you for asking. I’m only just starting to groom myself slowly now, and I want to buy some new outfits once I get a job which is why I asked. I still doubt anything will feel “right” on me or make me feel joyous, still struggling with anehdonia and just looking to do this for the sake of unemotional resiliency
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/20 04:17 AM
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Forest green
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/20 11:37 PM
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My question is how to remain feminine in these colors
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/20 11:10 PM
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Following!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/20 09:33 PM
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No, it is just something that comes up in conversation a lot, not just with men I am interested in but just naturally even in platonic group or one on one conversations with both genders
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 02:52 PM
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I have disorganized attachment
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/20 03:56 AM
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I’ve been thinking about this for this reason also, I honestly don’t know how to go about finding these groups
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 02:38 PM
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This is the advice I’ve been giving myself for 5+ years now and it’s only lead to burnout and feeling like I’ve overextended myself and transgressed my own boundaries... only just recently did I accept the fact that I need to implement some game, not for the sake of playing game, but for the sake of my prioritization, time management, and sanity. I feel like people will catch on though and assume I’m purposely being a bitch... and therefore I’ll attract the wrong kind of people
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 02:31 PM
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Yes, my inner trolls are rambunctious!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 03:32 AM
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Following
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 01:55 AM
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Exactly. It’s very anecdotal. Personally I get very easily desensitized but I also get grizzley-bear levels of adjectated when people make comments about it being inevitable and a set-in-stone FACT. My step mother was like that and it only made me want to defy her more despite her being right with my experience
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 11:20 PM
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Ive been doing this exact same thing since I was 7 and am 23 now, sex is a hell of a drug
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 11:18 PM
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Totally not counter intuitive. I think some people can JUST KNOW if they are cut out for it. I did ONLY intuitive eating and intuitive exercising when I lost 55 lbs the first time before I gained it back after I went down my terrifying spiral of self hate. I don’t know if that’s something I’ll be able to do the second time around now, though, I feel I need more structure and, sadly, discipline, which sucks because I am struggling to make disciple a priority despite wanting to, so I need to get o…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 02:04 AM
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Oh my God I need this movie in my life!!!!- WILL DO!!! When I « run » I also do an awkward shuffle, sorry excuse for a run or even a walk sorta thing. When I do any exercise at all, there’s no rhythm or form and I look like a child or something. I definitely was starting to think I was alone in this
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 01:52 AM
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