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Rant/Ventingblokia_/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 11:41 AM
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5

Why the fuck would you do that? That's just ego stroking.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 09:57 PM
2

I enjoy watching tennis. Not because I have a favorite really but because I really like the sport. An hour later or the next day I'm on the court myself or in the gym. Watching the sport also motivates me more to play it myself. So tell me, how is watching sport bad?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 01:56 PM
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My time as an incel/mgtow was mainly due to laziness, a lack of proactivity and my quiet social life That sounds more of a choice than involuntarily. So no, no incel.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 03:30 PM
1

In my country there are plenty of people who do labor-intensive jobs and who are way out of shape.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 06:57 PM
7

Had a better dating life when I was a barely employed and weak 21yo loser. That's because at that age those things don't really make it or break it, you still have all kinds of opportunities to change that. If you're 35 and barely employed, it's a whole other matter.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 03:38 PM
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It was a good shift kinda weird, music was blasting and everyone were dancing with cool neon lights and the smell of alcohol and ciggarettes in the air, that sense of euphoria from the intoxication of alcohol and some drugs 2 woman came in through the dimmed dark crowd that was having fun dancing and shouting.. Sorry to say, but this kind of writing makes me think this stuff is made up. 90% of people sharing stories here write like they're amateur writers.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 10:27 PM
3

What if a man talking nicely with a woman suddenly ghosted her just coz she's slightly overweight? Society would call the man a womanizer, a dog,a bastard and what not. Girls would come up with slogans like 'All girls are beautiful in their own way' Well then are we men swines? I hate this double standard and this needs to change. So you discovered women want their cake and eat it too. And the way you discovered it is only the tip of the iceberg.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 10:21 PM
3

Yeah, he's talking shit. Also throwing out netflix sucks. You should relax, but OP want's to burn everyone out I think. Agreed on social media though.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/21 11:28 AM
1

Huh? You said yourself it would only take 100 hours to be decent at anything. After reading that I already wanted to say that you are not decent at programming after 100 hours, far from it. Lifting, you're far from decent after 100 hours. That's only 20 weeks if you put in 5 hours a week. But now I read this comment from you and I really wonder if you're contradicting yourself. Or if you made a typo or something.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/21 11:25 AM
2

The stubble tells a woman you are a grown man with testosterone. But the stubble gives that wolverine look that signals high testosterone. He says it like other things, like being fat, don't matter. He does not mention being fat at all. Don't post rude comments saying that we agree on something while we never even discussed that.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 08:56 AM
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Plus that stubble certainly does not give the wolverine/high testosterone look when it's on a fat guy with hardly any chin.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 08:52 PM
7

This really is an incel type of comment.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 09:33 AM
1

Haha, you'd store all the images server side, and you can probably get away with storing only facial info from each picture. You'd do the facial recognition server side as well. The profile pictures probably contain filters more often than not, with makes recognition harder/impossible or they are not good enough for facial recognition (too much from the side etc). The more pics you have, the better matching you can do. But yeah, it would be a start with profile pics. But you won't get far with o…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 12:03 PM
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You don't want to loop the site every time you want to check a girl. You want to download all the pictures and put them in a database. However, you can't loop all the pictures. Onlyfans is a paid service and all pictures are behind the paywall. You would really need to hack onlyfans to get your hands on all the pictures.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 11:51 AM
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Some of this isn't even really hard to do, for the facial recognition part there are open source libraries I guess. But what will be extremely hard is getting all the pictures and shit from onlyfans etc, and that is not accessible. A while ago onlyfans got hacked, so if you can get your hand on that dump you have a great start but it's not up to date of course. So if the girl started her onlyfans after the hack, you will not find her.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 09:12 AM
1

My god, you really are stupid.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:37 AM
1

You should really include that in your post. It makes a whole lot of difference if you're 16 and virgins or if you're in your 20's.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 10:51 PM
1

Haha I’m in an exclusive LTR right now. I’m saying my girl can go fuck somebody else right now anyway. And so can I. So you're not exclusive. I’ve lost a bit of freedom. Him pushing for commitment won’t get him anything except heartache, stress, loss of freedom when she sees she is above him. That's how you see it. An exclusive LTR does not need one or the other person above the other. And every relationship can cause heartache or stress. Don't tell me it wouldn't hurt you when your gf left you.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 10:48 PM
1

All without being in an exclusive relationship. Sure, but that's not how most people prefer a LTR. So as long as OP doesn't state otherwise, I assume a relationship means exclusivity as well. I really get the the feeling you have something against exclusive LTR. That's fine, but the goal of TRP is not to fuck as many girls as possible and can perfectly be RP while being in a relationship, even though being in a relationship means you sometimes behave beta.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:16 PM
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Tell me, my friend, what more does a man get in “the relationship experience” that this guy is missing out on? Love. It does exist, but I understand you don't believe in it. So let's agree to disagree.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 08:47 PM
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Exclusivity is a woman’s game. So why are men supposed to ask a woman for marriage? He is already getting everything a man could want from a relationship. You fail to understand he seems to want to have an exclusive LTR with her. He doesn't have that and she is also free to fuck other guys. He is not getting the relationship experience, that is something more than sex and her cuddling up to you and telling you things. RP maybe dictates she should start about the exclusive shit, but she hasn't do…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 07:19 PM
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Little shit that makes her basically a girlfriend but never had that talk. So, you're visiting each others parents together this Christmas? She tells you she loves you, or do you? If not, she's not basically your girlfriend, she's your fuckbuddy. And she knows that.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:31 AM
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How is this ideal? He's fuckbuddies with a girl he want's a relationship with and she's never asking him. This girl will move on at some point to a guy who does make it official and starts doing the relationship stuff with her, leaving OP with a broken heart. Might be that OP is too scared to open up and be vulnerable to confess his true feelings.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:28 AM
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I’m just saying I’ve fucked plenty of girls Doubt.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:23 AM
2

Ah great. Good luck with the recovery and I hope the therapist can help you.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:21 AM
1

You're reading way too much in some simple words. "I'm overwhelmed and I'll let you know :)" it just what it seems at first glance: she seriously is not interested. If she was a little bit interested she would lead him on for a while longer, trying to gain more information about him to make her final decision. She knows that after "I'm overwhelmed and I'll let you know :)" any guy worth pursuing would move on and might be gone for good a few weeks later. She is 100% somewhat interested. You're j…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 11:05 PM
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I am gonna see a therapist because I don’t want to go down a dark hole of depression. No one has mentioned this, but you should also tell that therapist that you went on dating apps while in a LTR. Your reasoning tells me that you are very insecure and this also fucked up your relationship. How would you have liked it if your GF was on tinder swiping guys? Her excuse was that she couldn’t take the disrespect. She should have ended the relationship as soon as she saw you swiping, of course that's…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 10:56 PM
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But she hasn't asked you for a year now, so what makes you think this will get different in the foreseeable future? If you really want a relationship with her, maybe you should take initiative because she will not be your fuckbuddy for the rest of your life. I don't think all RP rules are set in stone in all circumstances.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 10:50 PM
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Likely she’s somewhat interested I don't agree with this, 9 out of 10 times she's really not interested. wants to see what kind of guy you are (ie. How you react to this). I mostly agree with this though but it's not a test. She's not doing it on purpose to see how you react. However, you should indeed react the way you propose and maybe that will make her remember you and maybe sometimes that will result in them actually getting back to you some time. Simply because you're not being desperate. …
/r/askTRP05/12/20 10:44 PM
2

I’d say she’s a friend with benefits but she never asked what are we. If you don't do relationship stuff with her, she knows what the two of you are: fuckbuddies. I’d be down to be in a relationship with her she just never asked. Are you really down for that? Would you be hurt when she decides to not see you anymore? If you really want to be in a relationship with her, why don't you pursue that?
/r/askTRP05/12/20 10:37 PM
2

His gay comment sucks, he must feel insecure about his own sexuality. Ignore it. About 3: could very well be, even if you don't do it consciously. You said in your post you feel anxious about talking to them again. Maybe you are afraid to be rejected by them in some or another way, so you block them before they can reject you. Maybe you feel rejected already if you don't get a date with them or if you don't end up in bed with them.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/20 01:52 PM
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She was basically writing the sidebar herself as I sat there intrigued. She used words like “seems weak” and “doesn’t seem to be in charge” and “she wants a man who would dominate her” Also this, women are usually very vague about what they want, it's very strange language she used there. Also salsa dancing in the middle of the day?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 01:15 PM
1

Never heard about it in red pill context. Only in incel context when I visit their subs for a laugh. They talk about showermaxxing, gymmaxxing, looksmaxxing etc etc all the time. But I don't know, maybe it's a RP term.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 09:37 AM
2

Good comment, but damn looksmaxx sounds like such an incel term because they use it all the time.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 04:26 PM
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Went back to the table, brought her to my car with some dumb excuse (probably music) He knows all the details from 4 years back, but the ones from not that long ago he doesn't. The whole story reads like it was written as an assignment by someone in writing school, especially because the ending is something you totally didn't expect. But that's the case with a lot of field reports here.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 08:37 AM
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Yeah, this sure as hell sounds like fiction. It's written as fiction with all the details and important things perfectly written out to keep us hooked. It's a long story but I read it without getting bored for a second. But what made me sure about this being fiction is that this happened when he was 17 (and she probably around the same age). He writes like he's the king of the alphas and sex and practices bdsm like stuff in their parents houses. His 17 year old ass goes to bars where he's a regu…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 11:52 AM
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See r/niceguys to get an idea what he's talking about. Don't be like those guys.
/r/seduction16/05/20 10:58 AM
2

My god, after all this time you're still trying this? Seek help!
/r/seduction29/04/20 06:39 PM
1

Don't talk about heated things like that on first dates. And when I talk with women about it I keep it at "I fully support equal rights for women" and "I'm happy with the metoo movement but it also has it's flaws because it might stop men from being men (as in flirting, going for the kiss on a date etc)". I hardly ever talk about this subject, but I don't think I can go really wrong with this. If they want to discuss it deeper I tell them I haven't really thought a lot about it, but that I'm sur…
/r/seduction28/04/20 08:52 PM
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I was reading OPs post and I was thinking... Sure, good points, I've read them over and over again in the last few years, but good points. But one thing is missing: why is it all about our effort and why do we accept that she isn't putting in any? If she is making you jump through hoops just to stay ahead of the gigantic competition while she just replies with "ok" or "nice", she's not worth it in my experience. It's a pitty "text game" has become so big because texting and online dating is such…
/r/seduction28/04/20 08:39 PM
2

TRP is for hurt and/or searching men by definition. If your work/love life is doing great, if you handle life problems well, when you're true alpha by nature, you don't need TRP to begin with. I bet none of you (myself included) came here because life was going excellent.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 10:17 PM
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Where did OP say you have to become a dick? His whole story can be summarized with this sentence: don't put women on a pedestal. That does not equalize to: be a dick to women.
/r/seduction04/01/20 05:52 PM
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This, but I want to ad to it. Fapping in itself isn't bad, like OP already stated. The problem is the amount of free porn that is available nowadays. Porn isn't realistic, so if it gives you all your sexual pleasures it's really gonna screw your body/brain up and you're not turned on anymore by real life sex. Many who start on nofap are that far gone and it really fucks up your self esteem. So getting control back, getting rid of an addiction and doing something that is in fact pretty damn diffi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:43 PM
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boiz boyz Learn to talk normal.
/r/seduction28/12/19 01:34 PM
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I was exaggerating obviously about being a virgin at 30, but you get the point. Just now I see both your ages (they're in your original post as well I see, was that an edit or is it getting really late for me?), and I would even more strongly advice to forget about the bdsm stuff altogether for the foreseeable future. You're very young as well and I wonder how much real experience you can have with that. Sure, you can slap her ass a bit, but that's it. Choking, forced swallowing etc, all that st…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 12:00 AM
5

She thinks she want's to do that, she probably has heard all these things from friends/50 shades/internet/whatever and thinks it is the normal way to please guys. She is probably scared to death about it, but is even more scared about staying a virgin at 30 and having two cats. Tell her you won't do things like that to her, at least not the first few times you have sex with her. Explain her why, explain her that that kind of stuff requires lots of trust (that she probably doesn't, at least shoul…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 11:38 PM
1

Damn, your wife is not easily satisfied :D. But yeah, definitely different standards. You must have a great body with those lifts, by my standard. Anyway, good luck satisfying your wife and keep lifting!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:26 PM
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In that case its indeed a different standard on great. Are you pretty high in bf%? Maybe that's the reason girls don't turn heads? As a guy I would turn my head, because I'd recognize the amount of work you've put in your body. Don't get me wrong, I'm kinda jelly on your numbers and I applaud the insane amount of work you've put on to get that strong. But I have no idea what PPD is (google doesn't help either).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:54 PM
2

Thanks. Please speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:47 PM
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You are either making those numbers up (possible, because a squat that's higher than your dead is not the norm), or your do have a great bod. You're stronger than 99.9% percent of guys ever will be and you can have a body that makes girls crazy with only half those numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:40 PM
2

Psychology wise that is not really strange. Your character development is nature AND nurture. So this guy probably has submissive tendencies already from nature and the way he grew up only reinforced them. If he was nurtured the opposite way, he might have been way more dominant or just in between.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 10:15 PM
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There is now only one possible reply left for this guy: you throw this party or keep texting him, I throw you out of the house. Luckily the responses in the original thread tell the guy he should be worried.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 09:09 PM
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I think telling someone why you would get along if you met is really creepy. How would you feel if someone you don't like is insisting you should meet her because you have x and y in common? I get why you didn't accept her request, but maybe it wasn't the best thing to do, but now explaining it to her in a voice message is really too much. For this and the above: /r/niceguys is the other way.
/r/seduction08/09/19 12:10 PM
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You make a good point, but it seems OP is one of those people ;). He has two options: ask her out or ignore her because he's not interested in her. Wondering for days what she meant should not be an option. And I've been there, picking a girl's behavior apart to try to figure it what she want's will only stress you out and get you nowhere.
/r/seduction06/09/19 06:25 PM
1

Always assume attraction. You don't know what her real intentions are/where until you ask her out.
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:43 PM
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"Moving on" and "create a friendly relationship with her" don't sound the same thing in your case. Next her. If you see her someplace, you see her, if you talk to her sometime, you talk to her, other than that don't put energy in her.
/r/seduction06/09/19 01:47 PM
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Drawing and painting are no "loser" hobbies. Those things require lots of skill and people who can do those things well are often admired. I know I admire it when a girl can draw (all I can do is a stick person and not even well). If you can draw really well and you are dating a girl, you could always offer to draw her once, I'm pretty sure she'd really like that if she's into you. And if you're really passionate about something, girls (but not only them) like that in a man no matter what he doe…
/r/seduction05/09/19 09:53 PM
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That was easy to find, but here you go http://archive.is/oh7XE.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 10:25 AM
5

Exactly what I was thinking when I was reading OP's post.
/r/seduction24/08/19 02:09 PM
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"I totally get you, I don't either. But you should come to my place for a drink and I'll show you xyz".
/r/seduction23/08/19 02:02 PM
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If you feel the need to add "no homo" after such a sentence on the internet, you still care way too much about what other people think.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 12:50 PM
1

Ah, another link dump to get followers and make money.
/r/seduction20/08/19 03:39 PM
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You're right, seen it happen before. The amount of stupid posts/questions that should belong in r/askseddit is insane. Time to leave this sub, even though I wasn't active. The amount of up votes on this post says it all. Moderators are seriously lacking as well.
/r/seduction18/08/19 09:17 PM
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I wish I could tell you. At least keep it low key what you have with her, it's not a relationship and certainly not a lets make a yearly tradition thing. But for the rest, maybe not act any different than you did before? And maybe go for the kiss.
/r/seduction18/08/19 09:14 PM
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You didn't even kiss her yet (you should have, but maybe there are reasons) but you mention a new yearly tradition between the two of you? Yeah, you fucked up there. You showed that you are way more invested into her than she is into you.
/r/seduction18/08/19 07:59 PM
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If someone compliments your shoes, you say thank you while you look at them for a second. This is the same. In general though, a girl fiddling with her hair or jewelry is a good sign. But with anything body language related, you have to look at clusters of things. You can't pick one thing out and say "this means that".
/r/seduction18/08/19 12:04 PM
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Please don't turn this sub into anything related with incels. This is cringe level 100, work on yourself and practice.
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:58 AM
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Why put so many thoughts an emotions behind a reply for a girl he's never ever gonna see again?
/r/seduction16/08/19 08:59 PM
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He should set boundaries for himself. If he replies with "that’s alright have a good day :)", he does not. It's not for this girl, it's for his life. Boundaries are important. Girl: I'm walking all over you Boy: Yes, please give me some more Life: Let me fuck you up some more
/r/seduction16/08/19 12:33 PM
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If OP was really that high value to this girl, she would not cancel her plans with him for going out with the girls. A girl who cancels should offer to reschedule, else next her. OP should indeed not be phased by this, but he also shouldn't be like "ow no problem, have fun" to the girl (who knows she was rude).
/r/seduction16/08/19 12:05 PM
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Is it really? I mean, when she has a valid reason like "feeling tired", "sick", "stuck at work" (we all know those are lies though), that would be a good response. Because you kinda have to believe it. But in this case it's just rude. She makes plans with OP and later drops him for her girls. Saying something like "alright, no problem" feels very beta/walkover whatever. Now we all know that this means the girl is not that much into OP (else she wouldn't drop him for her girls who just wanna go o…
/r/seduction16/08/19 11:55 AM
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Although this is very likely the cause, I don't think 2-3 days will fix it. He has to stop porn and masturbation altogether and just only have sex with OP. Chances are that with enough time this will get better. And kudos to you OP for trying to figure out what is causing this, you seem pretty understandable. Hope it gets better.
/r/seduction13/08/19 02:30 PM
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This. The friend does not sound like a real friend. But OP, next time save yourself a lot of trouble and don't wait 6 months.
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:20 PM
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If a girl is really interested in you, she will reply. She will open your message, she will think of something to say, she will go out of her way to meet with you. Try to think like this, and life gets a lot easier. If she does not even open your message in 4 days, it's time to move on.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 10:48 AM
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You tried for a few weeks? Wow, talking about discipline! You should try for at least a year and work out all that time. Sounds like you're looking for the easy way to lose weight, but I doubt such a surgery is actually easy. It still requires a lot of work, more than you have ever put in by the sounds of it.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 02:27 PM
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Its funny that a lot of women I see on tinder don't even fit half of those rules.
/r/seduction26/07/19 01:26 PM
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Yet another texting guide. You would think all of seddit would be the worlds best texters, with so many guides and so much advice all over the place. Yet, somehow, there's need for another guide because the previous ones are 1 year old and the world of girls and women has changed so much.
/r/seduction15/07/19 02:30 PM
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Maybe I misunderstood you. But when you said she teased you I read that as sexually teasing you. Whatever the teasing was, you dropped the friendship right then and there. You showed her you didn't appreciate her antics. If she liked your attention, if she wanted you sexually, you dropping her like that is a blow to her ego. But maybe I read too much in between the lines.
/r/seduction07/07/19 09:23 PM
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My god, that article was written by a egocentric woman making claims about that coworker which she can't make because all she knows about him is one sentence. But the comments are even worse. One of the first few that I read: But is she cheating on her boyfriend? She’s thinking about it, sure, but is that a crime? In her letter she writes: ’We kissed at a work event and since then, he’s been giving me lots of attention. I know this is wrong for both parties, but I crave his next message.’ She’s …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 06:39 PM
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Really? "Hey, I know I can't fuck you but I'll keep orbiting you hoping you'll someday give me a piece of that ass". OP handled it perfectly, the girl knows whats up and gives an awkward response to try to save face. OP shows abundance mentality and it's now up to the girl to either go for OP 100% or let him loose. Above comment will reframe things alright, it will reframe OP into a bluepill beta.
/r/seduction07/07/19 12:49 PM
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The husband should just divorce her of course. But this is a classic example about women getting mad when things don't go their way. She knows she has beta bucks locked in, doesn't want to risk losing it.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 11:43 AM
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I try to do this most of the time, but not as strict as the book wants you to. I just try to look people in the eye to train myself in that it is not weird. I have a problem with looking them in the eye for too long though, feels like staring. But! If the other person does it back, it's absolutely not weird. From time to time you get smiles from women and I have to train myself to not be shy when smiling back lol.
/r/seduction22/06/19 11:57 AM
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This. And think about it, who schedules just hanging out with friends two weeks in advance, already knows it will take up to three days and can't find time for a date? Sure if they went to a festival or something, but just hanging out? Bail out gracefully like this guy said OP and just move on. She's not into you.
/r/seduction17/06/19 11:56 AM
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Gees, you again? I thought you were gone, but I guess you're back. I suggest you go hide in your cave or whatever you come from again. Guys, this guy is fake. Don't respond to him. He used to asked this question almost every day for a while with different accounts.
/r/seduction28/05/19 11:26 AM
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No mentally healthy girl is gonna build sexual tension by talking about boners and nutting in the open on instagram. She's either addicted to sex, joking or just insane. Think about it what you want, but it has nothing to do with you personally. I would next her though, big red flag.
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:58 PM
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Well, I suppose she came to his house with the intention (and hopes) to get fucked. His whole date idea was fun, but he overdid it. Besides him not making a move, the custom tokens with both their names on it dried her pussy in an instant. He was way too invested (and he showed his insecurities about his hobby). It's funny how no one in the original thread mentions sex to this girl. Does no one read in between the lines?
/r/seduction10/05/19 03:07 PM
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And this is why guys get told to not overdo dates. It was a third date, so she must at least like him somehow, he makes it a very special date and she clearly had fun. Yet, she tells us she might not keep seeing him. If the guy knows this, he must be flabbergasted and ask himself what you need to do to get a girlfriend. I would not be surprised if they didn't kiss at all during those dates. And if he didn't try to have sex with her either (she came to his house ffs), I guess that's the reason th…
/r/seduction10/05/19 02:32 PM
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Being short makes it easier to look big muscular wise, go lift. Balding sucks, but shave it off and own it. It breathes confidence if you're balding and say fuck it, I'm proud of it. Instead of nofap, maybe go on the noporn route. Masturbation is healthy, (too much) porn isn't.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 08:53 AM
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From your post it sounds like you never met this girl and got to know her through instagram? Anyway, it sounds like he has things to offer to her. His self confidence is very attractive to girls and the fact that he can cook well is a very big plus. Better even, he can teach her and she want's that. You're acting niceguy/blue pill chasing a girl from another city with a boyfriend and whom you've met on instagram. Move on, find another girl. You're not gonna get anywhere with this one. She probab…
/r/seduction14/04/19 06:24 PM
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(a chubby and short little fuck with bad manners that treats her often very poorly) something I decided to ignore because he clearly does not deserve her This made me cringe. Did she tell you that or is that your own interpretation (the one you hope to be true) of her words?
/r/seduction14/04/19 12:34 PM
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I don't even think it's risky. Your response was the perfect one imo. Politics and religion are two very tough topics to discuss when you don't know someone. She was "negging" you about your religion and instead of being but hurt about it you made fun of your own religion and exaggerated it. It show's you're not insecure about your religion and what other people think about it. If you responded like "Yeah, I think we all descent from Adam and Eve and I don't like it if you make fun of it", you w…
/r/seduction14/02/19 09:41 PM
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I think it looks pretty weak to try losing the guy and only then ask her for her number. If anything, it shows you're not afraid for rejection if you ask her number in front of her coworkers. Girls respect that.
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:24 PM
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I would not resend it on tinder, certainly not with the line you suggested about being sorry that you didn't see her bio update. If it really was an update she just made, it might look needy that seemingly you're looking at her bio all the time. You send it on snap, stick to that. If she has problems with that, she can let you know. You're overthinking things and it looks like you're insecure. Those two things make you act needy.
/r/seduction14/12/18 10:55 PM
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Always assume attraction. Besides, women know how it looks when they ask a guy out. I would be surprised if she's not attracted to you and only asked you to make friends at her new work place. Like /u/ortsnom said, just have fun and try things. Keep in mind things might get complicated since you two work at the same place.
/r/seduction17/10/18 09:32 PM
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I've always done that, for the same reason. It feels more like an actual conversation face to face that way. In real life you would pause for a few seconds in between those sentences (at least I would), and breaking it up in two texts gives you that "pause".
/r/seduction24/04/18 09:51 PM
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You have social skills and are not socially awkward, so you're gonna be fine! Just go and have fun, don't think about all the other things :).
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:22 PM
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You are putting her on a pedestal, you're overthinking this a lot. She's on tinder, so I would assume she lies a bit about that whole dating strangers thing. Secondly, just go on the date and see how it goes. You both agreed on a quick date, but who knows it lasts for hours. You're trying to be super chill, but you're failing. Why? Because you wrote a long post on reddit about it. Just go on the date and see what happens. And if you're like this on the date, you are not chill there and she'll no…
/r/seduction18/04/18 07:43 PM
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Do you hold eye contact and give a big smile to girls you're not into? I guess not. Do you want to marry every girl you do this with though? I guess not. Assume attraction, see it as an invitation to talk to her.
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:50 AM
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Sooo, how can you give us tips on messaging while at the same time saying your own text game sucks? It's the same as me learning someone else to play guitar. I can't even play myself.
/r/seduction02/04/18 01:08 PM
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It's 2018, they've been seeing each other for a month. OP could say something about it to her. Sex should be a reward for her as well, not a reward for him because he paid for everything.
/r/seduction17/03/18 10:28 PM
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How about you forget about this? It's illegal for her and could put both you and her in very awkward positions, even if she rejects you. If anything, wait until your class with her is over I guess.
/r/seduction13/03/18 04:14 PM
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I cross my arms and legs all the time. Not because i'm defensive, or feeling closed off in a certain way, but because it's just comfy and I feel like doing it. I believe I've read the following in The Definitive Book of Body Language. You could be really wrong about the reasons you close your arms and legs. You say it makes you comfy, so you're uncomfortable when your legs/arms are not closed. Meaning you could be nervous or whatever. If you are nervous, you do something to make yourself feel mo…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 06:59 PM
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only mildly interested How about not interested at all? She says "bye" as her second message and the first one wasn't any better. A girl that is even mildly interested wouldn't say that. @OP, if you're really wondering what she wants from you, you have a lot to learn. She is clearly not interested. And I agree with /u/iXbrian. You should have stopped with the role play after her first responses.
/r/seduction26/02/18 10:10 PM
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Please dont respond people, this guy is spamming his pics in all kinds of topics. He asked the exact same thing yesterday with a different username.
/r/seduction21/02/18 10:41 PM
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HSP is most certainly a thing. And your observation is most certainly true in my case as well. I'm HSP (I can identify with many of the symtons /u/Phiend4Phoes mentioned in his post) and probably because of it I'm low confidence and beta. I don't feel like being beta in nature, but because of overthinking anything and everything (nonconstructive thinking patterns like you mentioned) and feeling like I'm doing everything in my life wrong (because I take critique pretty hard sometimes) I want to h…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 01:14 PM
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Alpha Male Of the Group.
/r/seduction20/02/18 11:15 AM
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The best tip I think I can give you is to forget about seduction. Therapy and working on yourself is now the most important thing in your life. No woman is gonna fix you, like /u/digitalbitch2 said. You're very young, women will come but first you need to learn to love yourself.
/r/seduction18/02/18 07:04 PM
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Not everything is a shit test or whatever. She told you she was ready to crash, you should take that at face value and leave her alone. If she actually wanted you to stay, she wouldn't have said that. Sure she acted bitchy, but how would you react if the roles were reversed. You should have waited until the morning and see if you could to her again. You already put her on a pedestal after talking for just a bit, don't do that.
/r/seduction03/02/18 03:14 PM
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Maybe you should both decide on your status and what you tell other people, else it might get awkward. Imaging your aunt asking the both of you "so, the two of you are a couple?" and you respond with "yeah". Then she asks "how long do you two know each other" and you respond with "one week", I'm sure things might get a bit awkward. Sure you could tell them you're just friends, but both of you need to give the same answer. And don't tell them you're taking it slow like you said in your post. You'…
/r/seduction26/01/18 10:09 PM
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I want to add to this: go on every date you can get. Even if you're not that attracted to the girl, go on the date. Get the experience, do the things people normally do on a first date. Get comfortable talking to women, going for the kiss etc. Just make sure not to string the women along though if you don't feel anything for her. Treat her with respect. Join the gym, go swimming at the local pool, find websites like meetup.com and go do stuff. Don't beat yourself up if things don't go as you wan…
/r/seduction24/01/18 11:13 PM
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You're worrying about things you don't have to worry about. Maybe the date is bad and you don't even want to see her again. If the date goes well, tell her you'd like to see her again before she leaves. If she'd like that too, the both of you figure out a date together.
/r/seduction08/01/18 10:32 PM
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