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ROAST-A-SCROTEblonde-throwaway/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:22 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKblonde-throwaway/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 08:00 PM
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blonde-throwaway/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:11 AM
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Haha, I think you've misunderstood the terms buddy. But you very well could be, I have no way of knowing and it's none of my business either way lol
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 10:50 PM
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I feel like he at least acknowledged that FDS and TRP are not completely equal so that's something. There are many who seem to truly see women on FDS as incels (?) who have insane standards and are equally as fucked up as TRP and MGTOW. I agree that they can get a bit negative sometimes and don't have enough empathy for pickmes who are trying to get better, but on the whole the message is the right one.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 10:49 PM
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You seem to have a more measured approach/ perspective than the people who I'm thinking about!
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 08:26 PM
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This is what confuses me!
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 07:44 PM
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Idk... if you go through the tag 'How to High Value' or the other one to do with HVM, you'll see for yourself that these men are neither fabled nor crazily amazing. Sometimes it's as simple as someone's boyfriend buying them flowers or remembering something thoughtful. As a woman, I accept that I'm biased but although I've recently become a little turned off to the extremism of FDS, I still think it holds value selectively and in small doses. Most there still believe that good guys exist, and it…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 06:15 PM
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That's interesting. I've always avoided TRP like the plague but from the few times I'd been there, I got the impression that they generalised the whole gender, not that they viewed some women as good/ 'unicorns'. I'd assumed they had a similar perspective to MGTOW in that 'All women are the same'. What constitutes a 'unicorn' for them? Is the whole 18 yo virgin thing or more substantive than that?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 05:56 PM
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Yet uglier. The Maths doesn't add up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 12:09 PM
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This is what I tell my friends when they feel bad about rejecting a guy for a 'shallow' reason. This guy would be doing exactly the same thing to you if you weren't attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 12:08 PM
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That's absolutely horrible. I'm so sorry you experienced that. I had an experience when I was 12 watching a street show in broad daylight where a man pushed me up against the railing and was masturbating on my back and down my jeans. I stood there frozen for what felt like forever thinking surely someone is going to do something, to stop him but clearly everyone thought it was not their business. Lost some faith in humanity that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:10 PM
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My Mum always says 'I want so much better for you than I had for myself' and I'm like 'I wish you had wanted better for yourself sis then maybe you would've modelled a healthy relationship for your kids'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:46 AM
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She deleted her whole account after a few mild comments so unfortunately I think she's a lost cause for now. Hopefully she'll see the light soon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:15 AM
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Yup, deleted her whole account. She's going back to this man. Hopefully she won't have to learn the hard way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:21 PM
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Deleted the post... she wasn't ready yet sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:19 PM
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Crying over a new man is... a little alarming. Proud of you for taking this step but honestly you need to learn to keep more of a distance. I'm not really much of a multi-dater myself but if you get this attached this easily then try continuing your search until a guy has proven that he deserves this much attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:13 PM
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I've been working out for years, why would I want to date a fat girl? To me, this is the part that's key. You're not someone who doesn't take care of themselves expecting to land someone who prioritises fitness. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting someone who has the same values as you and yes, attraction is important in a relationship as long as people are realistic.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 02:40 AM
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I don't think you understand the quote. It doesn't say the most underprivileged woman is the black woman, it is not talking about socioeconomic opportunity. He was not talking about resources so that isn't relevant here. Disrespected. Unprotected. Neglected. Being part of wider society unlike native women, black women are subject to this more than any other race. Black women have the history in America of literally being owned, their bodies free to be used at the will of their slavers. Black men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:13 AM
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My source that most studies say the opposite? Simply Google 'domestic violence men women' and flick through. I would've gone more in-depth but you provided a Time article so I assume we're not exclusively considering peer-reviewed studies, although many are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:59 AM
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That is interesting as most studies assert a very different conclusion. But thank you for actually providing a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:22 AM
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Do have anything beyond your anecdotal experience to add to the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:20 AM
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But it’s also true that they’re roughly as common among women as among men. Do you have data on that? Because that is untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 10:36 PM
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The fact that OP thinks that domestic violence, adultery and other forms of mistreatment are extreme cases shows how utterly out of touch he is and renders this whole post useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 09:59 PM
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You don't want someone that unexcited about you, trust me! Plenty more fish in the sea :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:33 PM
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(It's almost as if the people posting there had forgotten how to read - they misinterpreted this sub so egregiously.) The funniest one to me is the incessant comparison to incels. I could get dick morning, noon and night every single day of the week if I wanted and that really is no exaggeration. Sex really is not hard to find for a woman so how exactly does that jive with involuntary celibacy... Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:16 AM
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The scary thing is that a lot of prominent white supremacists actually have Asian wives. It would be so easy to fall in with someone who was just smart enough to hide those views initially.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:26 PM
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Hey that's fine! But for future reference, 5'5 and 125 pounds is actually on the lower side of the healthy range for a woman :)
/r/ExRedPill25/08/20 12:09 AM
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I've got exactly your proportions and I'm a size 2 but a lot of guys just don't understand numbers/ weight distribution lol. Honestly, I've never had a positive encounter with a guy who approached me on the street for exactly the reason you stated. Guys who do that are solely doing so because of how I look, they really don't care about much else. It's a purely sexual draw. I literally had a guy run up behind me, make small talk and then propose a FWB the other day! I was gobsmacked. So bold. Now…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/20 03:18 AM
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This guy likely has no experience with women (plus he's 18) to inform his perspective. 5'5 125 is in no way overweight. Plus being approached on the street really isn't a bonus - especially when most approach from behind.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/20 02:24 AM
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Unfortunately upon Googling her name, her mother's 'art' appears. She is a real witch, it's fucking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:33 PM
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It's basically a British slur against women along the lines of s*** and w****
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:08 PM
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An older guy on an app once told me in so many words that younger women are good for fun but he wanted to settle down with someone close to his age. This man brought out statistics on how relationships of people closer in age are more likely to succeed. Ok. So why did you message me sir?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:34 PM
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Omg that is wild. I'm so sorry you've had to experience this fuckery but you sound soooo badass, it's unreal. I've just finished watching Dirty John: Betty Broderick and the story reminds me of yours. Not that murder is right but she killed her husband for fewer transgressions than you've endured and I got it. I really hope the best for you, you sound amazingly strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:58 PM
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Right off the bat, but I guess good since you don’t waste any more time. I'd be so relieved he saved me the time, effort and makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:39 PM
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Reminds me of the wrinkly scrote who fought a legal battle to change his age from 69 to 49 to improve his dating prospects. Link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:35 PM
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He’s literally luring women in on the pretense that he’s 24, with his age range set to probably 21-25, if not younger. I'd put money on it being set to 18 Wanna bet he doesn’t disclose his real age to most of his matches? I'd also put money on this. It's the 'less serious' app so he intends to fuck and chuck his way through these younger girls. No need to disclose. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:32 PM
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This lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:28 PM
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Right. Can't stand guys who put any variation of 'I'm picky' in their profiles e.g. 'I don't often swipe right'. 1) We all know that's a lie and 2) It's a transparent attempt to artificially inflate their value. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:54 PM
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And this is where you should've swiped left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:05 PM
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He's referring to his hiking suggestion when he repeats it, so basically gaslighting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:34 AM
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My brother is subscribed to this man's Patreon. Absolutely tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:41 PM
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Yuck. The other coffee date ghosted me, something that has never happened after a “real” date. The takeaway for me is that when a guy suggests a coffee date he is just not that excited about you. I've not thought about it this way but it makes sense! Guys who offer coffee dates will ask anyone and everyone out with no discernment because it's minimal investment. Guys who put effort in have to be choosier so the chances of things progressing are higher as they've already decided this girl is wort…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:57 PM
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I can't get the realised human expression of :p out of my head and it's creeping me tf out. This child needs to grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:40 PM
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Unfortunately that's more of her persona than reality. She's given interviews in the past where she's spoken about going back to trash exes to avoid increasing her body count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:25 PM
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I really can't think of how any HVM would be dating right now. Dine-in eating requires a cavalier attitude towards a pandemic It's crazy because the government in my country is actually giving discounts for eating out under a 'Eat Out to Help Out' scheme to boost the economy. So it actually incentivises people to go out to restaurants (while saving men money on dates). I'm sitting here confused like... aren't we still in a global pandemic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:05 PM
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It is a non-premium feature. Select the age range, but you gotta be sure to click dealbreaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:06 AM
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But do you see 'affectionate' or 'romantic' porn with black women? Porn is fucked up regardless but porn with black women absolutely does lack the balance that porn with white women does, perpetuating the stereotype seen in the OP. Similar (but opposite) situation when it comes to porn with Asian women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:26 PM
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Why is it ALWAYS OUR JOB to transform shitty criminal porn addicted men into functioning human beings? It's crazy! Do I look like Bob The Builder? I want a partner, not a project.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:21 PM
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Haha same! My brow furrowed in disgust until I saw the Green flag tag. In our defence, this scenario is much more common the other way round.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:39 PM
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Love to see it. These guys are so lacking in empathy that the only way for them to get it is to experience it first hand. Some will say you should've just blocked and yeah you could've but this was minimal effort for a lot of satisfaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:55 PM
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Few things more confident than a mediocre man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:04 PM
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Continue to let him naturally take the lead on planning but if you want to see him and nothing has been arranged then you ask to see him. He is your boyfriend, don't overcomplicate things. The key is to keep an eye out for complacency. A lot of guys think that once they have you locked down they can let the effort slide, especially if they know you'll pick up the slack. So as long as he continues to be proactive, then imo there is no problem in occasionally suggesting a date plan but he should r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:24 PM
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I think she meant more in terms of who red-pillers are more likely to target. They value youth and naivety so even the 40 something will probably still try and target 20 something yo women as opposed to an older, successful woman who is more likely to see straight through the BS. But yes, the shit does go through all age groups!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 09:10 AM
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I use Laura Mercier setting powder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:04 PM
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(dude is in his mid fucking fifties lmfao) What the actual fuck. The delusion makes my head hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:04 PM
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TIL appetiser = dinner...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:14 AM
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Reread your comments and then ask yourself who needs to relax. My issue was your victimhood, misrepresenting the sub and acting like everyone was against you when it was a significant minority. It wasn't cute. What does anyone mean to accomplish by commenting on Reddit? What did you mean to accomplish by posting your exchange here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:43 PM
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Are you serious? What do you mean 'women who are assuming the worst of [you]'? It was literally ONE poster and that had the least upvotes, and you were defended. No one else mentioned your legs (or even thought about it I'm sure) so I'm not sure why you're extrapolating 'disrespect' for maximum victimhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:05 PM
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Wow it's actually crazy that something like being against porn and recognising the damaging effects is bannable?? They're not even trying to conceal this agenda!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:01 PM
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I still haven't forgotten that video of him basically depriving her of sleep by making a noise in her ear. She secretly starts filming and even thought its caught on camera, he denies it and starts gaslighting her. He is abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:43 AM
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My online dating experience improved significantly when I started utilising height filters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:41 AM
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The ugly ones are often just as trash! Makes zero sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:15 PM
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Yuppp. Along with 'young at heart' I.e. I feel 20 so I think I deserve to date 20 year olds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:53 PM
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How did the date go? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 09:19 AM
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And what strikes me is that he is likely better for not having his toxic Dad around in his important teenage years. Having only the mother is a million times better than soaking up toxicity. This is why 'staying together for the kids' with a LVM is such bullshit to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:13 PM
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Of all the hills to die on. They also recovered footage of him raping unconscious women, so yes he is unequivocally a rapist and should have been charged as such. Happy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:30 PM
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"No." I'm so proud of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 12:28 PM
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Yeah I'm probably too far in the opposite direction but as soon as I get a message that doesn't require a response, the convo is done until they can come up with something better. I need effort and at the slightest hint of anything but, they get deprioritised. There are too many men on apps for me to be pushing someone who hits me with a 'Haha cool' for conversation. I accept that my way may be a little extreme though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 12:27 PM
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Reading this sort of thing scares the shit out of me. This man looks normal, the chances of dating a man who has a perverse secret life are fair. Out of the hundreds of matches I might have on a dating app, at least a couple of them are pedophiles. That is scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 12:12 PM
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What he seems to have completely forgotten is that growing up and to this day he treats my mother much, much worse and has even knocked her around in the past. I wonder where could my brother possibly have learnt that you get what you want in life by being an aggressive dictator? I have exactly the same experience and the lack of awareness is baffling. On the flip side, my brother hates my father but has turned into a carbon copy, down to his mannerisms but would never admit it. It's just a whol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:56 AM
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Oh believe me, me and my sister both say we pity the girl he settles down with. I do think he'll be one of those guys who doesn't settle down til they're 50 though (already saw him subscribed to 'Alpha Male Strategies' sigh) so it will be a while til we have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:56 PM
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Yup. In my Mum's case, having shitty father and a shitty husband (plus a people-pleasing character inherited from my pickme grandma) leads her to seek love from the only male left - her son - in a way that he means he can do no wrong in her eyes. Surprise surprise that without a good male role model, my brother is also a shitty person. Misogny is truly a generational curse and I'm trying so hard to break it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:17 PM
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This all day. As great as I am at them, I do not give out blowjobs willy nilly. The guy has to show himself to be deserving and a proven giver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:00 PM
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Nasty. I opened up about a previous sexual assault by an older man and later he hits me with 'He probably got confused from the mixed signals, like you give me'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:38 PM
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My little brother used my laptop to sign into his emails one time last year and when I tried to log into mine the next day I saw that he subscribed to these people. My heart dropped. But it makes sense given how bitter and aggressive he's become over the past few years. I feel sorry for any future partners of his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:22 PM
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My problem is always finding the motivation to put it effort to continue looking when I've found someone I like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:26 PM
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And he has a young daughter in his profile picture. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 08:01 PM
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'When someone tells you who they are, listen to them - the first time' Maya Angelou
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:13 AM
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I had the same thing. Culminated in the manager (who had a pregnant wife) shutting me in the office, trying to pull me to sit on his lap and telling me he couldn't resist me. My teenage brain rationalised his behaviour in so many ways but there is simply no explanation. Urgh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:39 PM
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Victimised by him because of her skin colour and victimised again by the legal system for the same reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 11:25 AM
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To be fair to her, although the paragraph did show weakness and she could have worded it better, I understand how in this instance silence may not necessary have been appropriate. That's her coworker and someone she has to see/ interact with on a frequent basis. Depending on her work situation, this could have had repercussions on her interactions with other coworkers. So I think it's right that she didn't ghost him but she could definitely had expressed that there'd be no more dates more succin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 11:23 AM
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They want to be the overweight schlub of a sitcom husband with the wife that is way out of his league. I was on a thread the other day where a man was trying to tell me that men get judged for dating out of their league. It completely baffled me but now I realise that since most of them don't believe in leagues, they simply see an ugly guy and a pretty girl as attainable not him severely reaching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:10 PM
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I've seen plenty of toxic subreddits but [...] I've never seen one in the wild with my own eyes about something like that. I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone... What on Earth is he being so dramatic about? I feel like the only men to get triggered by this sub (and be idiotic enough to compare it to MGTOW/incels ignoring all context) must be LVM but I didn't realised they were so damn rampant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:59 PM
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And trust me, he was nowhere near cute enough to rely on his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:01 PM
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I always tell my friends, whenever you feel compelled to write a paragraph to a man: Stop. Either send it to me and I'll listen to you rant or like you said, put it in your Notes. Very few men deserve that much energy and by the time it's got to the ranting paragraph stage, it's already dead in the water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:16 PM
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Don't shave. This one always works for me haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:17 PM
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Damn I'm glad someone gilded this because it deserves it. I've been struggling with sexual frustration so badly that I've been subconsciously fantasizing about some guys I've been speaking to that I don't even know yet. It's bizarre and unwanted. Most women who say they're missing sex aren't missing the sex they've actually had, they're missing the realization of a fantasy that they've never even experienced. But this! There's a reason this subconscious thinking isn't about guys I've already sle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:57 AM
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Co-signing as another Brit. Drinks are such a common suggestion that it actually surprises me when someone suggests otherwise initially. They are so unimaginative. Even for older guys who you'd think would know better, they really expect me to sit across from them dolled up sipping on a Vodka Coke with a near stranger. No thanks. One guy when I declined a drink suggested an alternative that he picks me up and we go for a ride and sent a picture of a car and a motorbike (idk if that was supposed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:27 PM
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I truly feel like this is the explanation for a lot of the men who whinge over at DeadBedrooms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:01 PM
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And the funniest thing is when they say I'm taller than they expected (I'm 5'5). No buddy, it's not my fault that you're vertically challenged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 11:38 PM
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Obligation for what and from who? A couple of my friends have expressed this 'I don't want him to feel like I owe him' sentiment and I've never understood it. I know I don't owe him and he can think what he likes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:10 PM
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I'm really not interested in anal at all (and I've heard every excuse in the book from men about why it's not so bad). The singular instance I would have tried it is if whoever I marry gets curious years down the line and wants to scratch the itch to see what it's like. But this post is making me reconsider even that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:36 PM
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Funny thing is that the recent spate of fake r/relationships posts 'My GF left her laptop logged into FDS, should I dump her???' have the opposite effect of the intended one. Yeah, the post will get a bunch of 'Wow, they are female incels' comments but more importantly, a lot of women who hadn't heard of FDS will resonate with what's here and voila, new members and more enlightened women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:55 PM
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Don’t be surprised if when you break up, he marries the very next girl. Yeppp. This happens so often. The example that I l most recently saw is Joshua Jackson dating Diane Kruger for 10 years and then marrying and impregnating his current wife within a year. You deserve a man that is falling over himself to marry you because you are the woman of his dreams. Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:59 PM
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Right! Love the positivity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 12:22 AM
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I saw one on Dead Bedrooms where the man was moaning about getting rejected by his wife with her complaining about pain. He neglected to mention that she had suffered from child abuse, was pregnant with 2 babies under 2 and had had a traumatic experience where she had almost died.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:23 PM
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