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It'd be a no-go for me- I want something to hold onto!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:35 AM
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How uninvolved of a parent do you expect her to be? Managing school takes much more time- tutoring, helping with projects, checking in with teachers, etc. My mom spent multiple hours a week when my brother and I were kids to be involved with our schooling. And a proper dinner will take a while, if you want to make something nice or take the opportunity to begin teaching children valuable skills to prepare them for adulthood. I can chop an onion quickly, but it'll take ages if I'm trying to teach…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:27 PM
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I don't think so- the guy in talking to has the kindest eyes, and while I think he's freakin' adorable when he laughs, he's also more than capable of turning me on. I think it depends on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:34 PM
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It ended. I hated myself for years, felt like I was defective for wanting frequent sex. I've started talking to someone with a better libido, and he is healing the hurt my last relationship caused. I feel desirable again, and it's a heady, intoxicating feeling. It makes me put more effort into my appearance, and makes me want to be a more giving lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:54 PM
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Oh, I can agree that gender roles are outdated and overall harmful while still fitting quite nicely into them on a personal level. I've always thought it was about women's lib, not perfect equality. Why are men able to create laws regarding our bodies? Why is being a victim of sexual assault often viewed as shameful, when the only person who should feel any shame is the perpetrator?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:34 PM
3

Oh, I'm just an oxymoron- I'm generally quite feminist, but even though I know it's not a feminist choice, I still really want to focus on my future family. I hope to have the time to bake fresh bread every day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:17 AM
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I can be a feminist and still have part of me want a fairytale ending. Whether I date a man or woman, I enjoy being the traditionally feminine one. I enjoy cooking and childcare, but I also enjoy having access to birth control, the right to vote, and a bank account in my own name.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:43 PM
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Right? And not all women find the same things attractive. I would not sleep with Benedict Cumberbatch for all the tea in China- his face creeps me out. I prefer somewhat softer faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:41 PM
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I met someone really wonderful on reddit, and I'd like to think I'm at least decently attractive, especially with my recent weight loss. I think it's a matter of the stars aligning for anyone- I've had to let go of someone I loved dearly in the past because the timing wasn't right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:47 PM
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I mean, in a relationship, I normally try for daily sex. Perhaps libidinous women gravitate towards reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:32 PM
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Perhaps. I find it easy to become aroused, but I know some of my friends really struggle with it. It's not quite so straightforward as male arousal. Heck, even with my high libido, I sometimes struggle to bring myself to completion when I need some relief. I wish our arousal was as simple as men's
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:04 AM
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Oh, I'm sure they are, but if someone isn't, she should see a doctor or try to address the underlying relationship issues, not suffer silently as she does her best starfish impression
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:00 AM
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I'm aroused far more than that, but in not going to suggest that other women do something painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:55 AM
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I'm well aware of what turns me on, I have a high libido. My point was that his idea ignored the fact that if she isn't aroused, it's not as simple as just having sex anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:48 AM
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Sex when not aroused is painful for women. If we're not aroused, it can be very unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:48 AM
2

Exactly! I physically recovered very quickly, but the emotional betrayal is much harder to heal from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:33 PM
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I've been raped, molested, and emotionally abused. I can assure you the rape is the worst of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:38 PM
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Have you ever actually been raped? I can assure you that it's not just physical trauma. The pain is far from the worst of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:15 PM
1

We'll joke about it, but I'd never dream of asking someone for cash to spend time with me. Normally it's after a rough day. You know, "fuck it, I'm just getting a sugar daddy!" None of us have ever actually done it. We'll also make the joke if one of our bfs buys jewelry or takes us out to a nice restaurant for an anniversary, but we never expect anything expensive. Heck, I told my ex that if he ever proposed, I'd prefer garnet and silver to diamond and gold. Why spend a car's worth of money on …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:05 PM
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I wait until I at least get a second, preferably third date unless he seems very into me. I won't burn bridges if I'm not sure we're actually going to date. I won't sleep with anyone, but I'm not going to sit around waiting for someone who might not be as into me as I am into them. Now, if the first date goes really well and they set up the second before leaving, I'm much more inclined to move straight into exclusivity. It's not that we don't like you, it's that we're used to people not calling …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:01 PM
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Because I don't want to be a single mother. I don't want multiple baby daddies, unless I marry a woman and we use different donors. I guess I could be widowed young and remarry, but that would be tragic. I value a strong family unit that works together to give the children the best possible start to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:56 PM
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Try for a meet-cute! I love going to grocery stores that cater to cuisines with which I am less familiar (I love Thai, Korean, Indian, and Ethiopian food, but it doesn't mean I'm overly familiar with all the ingredients), and I'd be thrilled if someone started a conversation while I was trying to figure out what to get. Even if you don't know, puzzling over it together would at least be interesting. Plenty of smaller stores are attached to restaurants in my area, so you could suggest getting a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:55 PM
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I'm bisexual, and if I end up marrying a man, I'd like him to be tall. I'm a hair under 5'10 (I'm 177cm for you metric heathens), and all of my family is tall. My father (6'4), aunt (5'9), brother(6'1ish), and I all grew up playing competitive basketball, and the pressure is on to create the next generation of gangly freaks to play forward/center. If I marry a woman, I'd want a tall sperm donor, as it would make the situation more palatable to my homophobic father. I'd also likely insist on carr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:01 AM
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As long as he's clean and I'm not his first (been there done that, super awkward), we're good. Why should I worry when I can just do more kegels and reax my throat?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:16 PM
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Which is why I won't settle again. The last guy I dated had a low libido, and it was a mistake. I need someone horny who knows what they're doing. I'm never faking an orgasm again, no matter how sweet the guy is. The rest of my life is too long to go with bad or infrequent sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:11 PM
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I'm not marrying someone unless they are good enough in bed where that's not an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:34 PM
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My boobs grew so fast that the skin started to weep and itch along the stretch marks. My back has never recovered. I also had horrible, irregular periods that would come on with no warning. I'd stand up after class and my ass and the chair would both be red. Thankfully I get more warning with age and that hasn't happened to me in the better part of a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:52 AM
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I didn't mean propose to your bestie, I meant that you should be able to see yourself being close with that person even if sex wasn't involved. I'd never suggest dating an actual friend, because I don't shit where I eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:28 AM
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I'll start baking ring-shaped bread and bundt cakes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:28 PM
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What? Like you wouldn't want to lock down someone who could bring you that level of pleasure. I will absolutely simp for someone who can do that, they'll have no complaints about me, unless it's that they can scarcely keep up with my libido!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:03 PM
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Only one man has ever gotten me off. It's a pity he was a sleazy monster, but the sex kept me around for far longer than I should have. But with it not being uncommon for him to get me off five times in ten minutes, can you really blame dumb, horny, teenaged me? As long as they are a vaguely decent human being, I'm dragging the next person that good in bed down the aisle before they have time to realize what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:53 PM
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But our genuine O faces are ridiculous- I look like I'm having a stroke or something!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:54 PM
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I'd tell them to marry their best friend. Eventually we all start to resemble scrotums, so basing a relationship on nothing but sexual compatibility won't last. I'm not saying it's not important to be attracted to your partner, I'm saying it can't be the only thing holding you together.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:38 PM
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I'd date a widower if the kids were young, but not a single dad. I will gladly have pictures of a dead woman in the house and support their grieving, but I refuse to be a second class parent. I don't want to be told that I can't put them in a time out or that I'm not their real mom when they don't want to clean their rooms. I want to be accepted as a parent, not left in the limbo of "Well, you need to take care of my kids like they're yours but don't go treating them like they're yours when it c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:01 PM
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It sounds like she was a shitty partner regardless of sexual orientation. Idk, I get told I'm guaranteed to cheat by women and pressured for threeways by men. It's bizarre to hear the infidelity argument from a dude. For the record, I'm in favor of making infidelity grounds for losing custody in a divorce. I don't think it should be criminalized, but it should count very strongly against you in custody hearings. I can't trust a cheater to raise children properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:59 PM
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Am bi. Never made out with a friend. I value my friendships too much to risk making things awkward. I never understood hooking up with a friend- like, what if it ends poorly? Do you want to ruin a friendship over one horny moment? Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:40 PM
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Toxic masculinity- demands to be treated a certain way. High value- treats me in a way that makes me want to treat him the way he wants to be treated. At least, that's my opinion as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:55 PM
0

No, I tried it but I couldn't keep my iron up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:25 PM
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Yes. I was trained to never show negative emotions. I seem happy almost all the time, but I also know what the inside of a of a psych ward looks like from when I snapped and tried to end it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:46 PM
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I generally don't understand the purpose of violence. My feelings are not an excuse to hurt somebody or destroy something. I'd rather scream into a pillow or something
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:43 PM
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It's for kids, sharing a bed at night, home-cooked meals, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:14 PM
1

Most women won't stay long enough for the life extension without a ring. God knows I wouldn't. I also wouldn't do a lot things without it- move in, cook, etc. I have more self respect than to treat a boyfriend like a husband. Many women are similar
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:31 PM
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I'd much prefer the stability of marriage. "Forever girlfriend" sounds about as appealing as "forever alone".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:34 PM
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For me it was that I didn't have a job lined up there, and I'd have to drop out of school at least temporarily, and leave my dog, so I would have been heavily reliant on him. If he won't pop the question, how can I trust that he will take my happiness and stability seriously? I was expected to take a lot of risks for him, so I needed to know he was serious about forever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:34 PM
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Married men outlive single men, but single women outlive married women? That's a tangible reason, and one that outlines what a woman brings to the table- her life force lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:09 AM
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Preach! I left after 2.5 years because I had no ring, but he expected me to move to a different state for him. I'm not moving in without an assurance that I won't be a forever gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:02 AM
3

I'm exactly the same way!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:34 PM
3

I hope I won't!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:15 PM
2

Because I don't want a daycare worker to raise my children. I'd never forgive myself for missing their first words and steps. I'm a pretty solid cook, generally considered to be quite sweet, and will willingly do the lion's share of the housework for the privilege of being in charge of my children's upbringing. The only chores I won't do are ones reliant on physical strength, as one of my arms is a little wonky and weak. My dominant arm is fine and the weaker one is still perfectly usable for ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:10 PM
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A woman will always notice the makeup. My "natural" makeup in order is bb cream, concealer, powder, blush, light contour for my baby face, powder liner, white pencil liner in my waterline, a spritz of spray moisturizer to make it melt into my skin, mascara, and something to return color to my lips after the bb cream obscured them, well blotted. (25 minutes) My "idgaf if you can tell" is bb cream, concealer, liner, mascara, and a bold lip. (5 minutes) Men like makeup, they just like to be able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:43 PM
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I was dating him. After two and a half years, no ring. I want kids at some point, so I have a bit of a time limit on my relationships- if it's not going anywhere, cut them loose and try again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:29 PM
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In my case, he didn't want to settle down. I still like him as a person and we still talk about gaming and stuff, but our priorities didn't line up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:22 PM
2

Sometimes the venom is well deserved. Lord knows my dad deserves it (you know it's bad when multiple shrinks express shock over how normal you seem). That being said, I work damn hard to be a cycle breaker- even though I grew up with an alcoholic, irascible, at times violent father, I seldom drink, will remove myself from a situation when I feel my temper slipping, and wouldn't dream of hitting someone unless in self-defense. I was molested by an older child in the neighborhood, and that cycle e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:32 AM
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I prefer some experience. The last guy I dated was a virgin, and it was super awkward. I'm fine with a high body count, so long as they've never been unfaithful and have no STIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:13 AM
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More like a guy at my college knew I had a crush on him and then started having visa issues. He was hella hot, had a voice to die for (that accent!) and I was a hormonal freshman. Mistakes were made.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:24 AM
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I slept around after it came out my fiancé was just after a green card. I was trying to fill the void left by my self esteem when it came out that it had never been real and I was just being used. I don't think it lowers my value as a human being, but I won't lie about regretting it. I should have worked towards finding my own self-worth, instead of trying to prove that I was sexually desirable. What he did says more about him than it ever did about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:13 PM
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Arranged marriages are unlikely to pan out. You won't know if you're compatible, and you might end up miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:27 AM
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Watch lesbians? They are women who date women. They have an insider perspective on female desire, and there's a good reason for the uhaul stereotype- they give women exactly what they want to the point women fall head over heels in an unreasonably short period of time. It's not like all lesbians are aphrodite incarnate- they're just considerate, equal partners who are statistically better at bringing women to orgasm. Seriously, look at the orgasm gap, it's eye-opening
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:17 AM
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As someone who has been the victim of "wrong hole" more than once or twice, I find that it influences the sort of sex men expect. I don't want to be spit on, slapped, degraded, fucked in the ass, choked, or get held down deepthroating until I'm gasping for air. And yet, when I freak out when that is done to me, I'm somehow a prude. The last guy I dated wasn't into porn, and it was really nice. He cared about what I wanted, was gentle, and would tell me that he loved me instead of calling me a li…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:39 PM
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I mean, no. It was very early on, we hadn't even kissed yet, and he grabbed my tits without consent. By dated, I meant "had gone on dates with" not "entered into an exclusive sexual and romantic partnership". There's a difference between someone you've started seeing and your boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:37 PM
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And sending pictures frequently doesn't work, because somehow trying to show your innocence proves you have something to hide. There's no winning, which sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:13 PM
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It's a pretty sensitive topic for a lot of bi women, as people love to accuse us of infidelity, especially if we have male friends. If you don't trust him, trust me, and if you don't trust me, why are we dating? Bonus points if you're dating a man who gets insecure if you spend too much time with a female friend, even if she's straight. Staying above suspicion can be incredibly isolating, as we're expected to be able to provide proof we didn't do anything. How can I prove that I didn't have sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:07 PM
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An opinion on the matter would be "I believe it falls on the higher end of the reported range, as women are likely to underreport their infidelity" and not "I just pulled a number from my ass"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:38 PM
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Why would you have an opinion with no facts to back it up? It's not as though your opinion is on something like whether mayo is fit for human consumption (it's not), this is something that has been studied, and can be proven. It's as though you stated that you believe that up to 30% of men are rapists, with is empirically false and insulting to the vast majority of men who will never commit a rape. With a quick bit of research, you'll see that the higher numbers are from paternity tests which ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:31 PM
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So you're admitting your opinion has no basis in fact and was pulled directly from your unwashed ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:24 PM
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I don't like it because of privacy concerns, but it's better than someone asking for it. If someone accuses me of infidelity, it's over. I would pack my bags and be long gone before they register what just happened, because it would be a grave insult to my character, and one from which we would not recover. I would never be able to look at anyone who accused me of something so vile with anything remotely approaching affection ever again. Cheaters are the lowest of the low, IMO. Granted, regardin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:13 PM
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Where are you getting that number? Because I fit the stereotype of a cheater (bisexual, highly extroverted, enjoys parties,, has friends of opposite sex, etc) and yet I've never actually been unfaithful. That seems like an awfully high number to pull out of your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:07 PM
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See, I've dated men I found very, very attractive and intelligent, but their personality made it a no go. And by personality I mean glaring, unabashed misogyny, lack of boundaries, and overt rudeness. Seeing someone snap fingers at the waitress and then grope me on the way home makes him incredibly unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:16 PM
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I feel like it depends- did he know he is not the father from the start- i.e., was his wife raped and they decided to keep it? How old are the children? If they are old enough to love the man who raised them as their father, it is cruel to walk out on them. I could see a reduced financial responsibility in that case, but family is more than blood, and he should be disincentivized from just walking out. The children should not be punished for the sins of the mother
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:44 PM
1

That's good!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:13 AM
1

This isn't uncommon. Make sure to call out your buddies when they pull stuff like this, hold them accountable, and make sure the women they are preying upon are OK. "I'm sorry my asshole friend was being a creep. We are leaving now, please enjoy your night" Then make him leave and find better friends. When more men do that instead of siding with the predator, women will stop insulting men as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:57 AM
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When I was 18, someone in my friend group said that his gf had offes herself before he could lose his virginity, and threatened to off himself if I didn't sleep with him. I told everyone what happened and that I was not comfortable being around someone who would try to manipulate me into sex like that. Not a single person in that group took my side. I was told that I was dramatic, that he was a nice guy who should be given a chance, that I was making things weird. This had been a recurring theme…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:41 AM
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Men are fucked up, tbh. At this point I'm honestly numb to being groped. Like, it's a red flag and I'll avoid the guy, but I'm so desensitized to low level sexual violence that I just shrug it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:41 AM
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They stare at you like you're crazy. I've been told I'm "unladylike", which is comical to hear from someone at a bar. "You're not supposed to do that" Oh, and then they'll get handsy later and act like I gave them consent to grope me by asking them out, but all I did was suggest we get coffee. I now only go out with women because men are too much drama
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:08 AM
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Yes, I'm bold. I've made the first move many times. Unfortunately, many men find it intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:57 PM
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So? Kids are a lot of work. I'm childfree, but I've told my bf that if he ever wants kids, I'd better be able to stay home until they're in Pre-K. Breastfeeding is healthier for the baby, having one person focused on the baby instead of spreading their attention across the kids in a daycare is better for the kid. Would you rather the kid be fed takeout because you were both working late or be fed a nutritious, home cooked meal? I've taken care of kids since I was a kid. If you're doing it right,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 09:59 PM
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If they are too unequal, there is a higher potential for abuse. It'd be harder to leave an abuser if you are too dependent on them. You have more in common with someone of your own age. I'm only a little under four years younger than my boyfriend, and there's a big maturity gap as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:43 PM
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It can often lead to an unequal and unhealthy dynamic. A relationship is best when both partners are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:19 PM
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I just find it disturbing when people try to fuck someone young enough to be their kid, men and cougars alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:35 PM
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I'm dating someone who doesn't really work out, and I wouldn't change a thing about him. Much better than running hills with my ex for his birthday 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 07:15 PM
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Online dating! And he's the sweetest person on Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:57 PM
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Thankfully, I have no intentions of doing either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:27 PM
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Did I really describe him that cruelly? I genuinely adore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:16 PM
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He has mentioned a willingness to go on walks, but I generally view my time with him as a time to let my body heal, as I have a hypermobility disorder of some kind that can cause a lot of pain. He's just humoring me when he mentions a walk, and I'd rather save my ironically limited mobility for something more exciting. We've gone to the museum a few times, which is fun. But then I see children tapping on an animal's glass and I get so angry that we can't have much fun. I hate children and the wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:20 PM
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Be willing to go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:40 PM
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Dated a lot of douchebags. Currently dating the sweetest person ever. He just wants to cuddle and watch anime and cook together. I'll admit that I'm thoroughly bored, but I love him. I'll take being loved and bored over an exciting yet ultimately unhealthy relationship. I'll do my fun, dangerous things on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:51 AM
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Because women were stuck in terrible relationships in the name of marriage. Being able to leave saves lives. Imagine if you were smaller and weaker and you couldn't leave someone who hurt you. That was a reality for so many women. When we couldn't be legally raped by our spouses, even if we were bloodied and bruised and tried to fight him off. I feel so incredibly lucky to be alive today when I am safer than I would have been 50, 60, 70 years ago. Men fear that we will laugh, we fear that men wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:17 PM
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I asked out my boyfriend. And the two before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:21 AM
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Date a total sweetheart? I took my boyfriend's virginity on the first date and we're coming up on a year in February.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:07 AM
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He's so cuddly, too! And he doesn't want me to do any chores- I'm starting to think I'm going to get my organs harvested and he doesn't want me to get suspicious, so he's being too nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:36 AM
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See, but he's wonderful. I love him enough that I'm doing long distance, and honestly, I've never been in a healthier relationship. I genuinely adore him. Even if he's a little over the top- he just surprised me with tickets to see him next month. He did NOT have to spend that much on me, I would have happily bought the tickets myself without complaint. And I have bought the tickets to see him several times. Frankly, we've been dating less than a year, I don't know why he's spending that much on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:25 AM
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Are you kidding me? I'd kill for my bf to be direct? Do I look tired enough that I need makeup? Yes or no, I'm trying to see how long I can procrastinate before leaving for dinner!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:36 AM
1

Someone proposed in the afternoon after meeting me in the morning. I rejected him, if that counts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:27 AM
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My ex tried to use me for a green card. Dumped me over email when his mom moved to Canada and could sponsor him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 10:52 PM
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I think of it more as they don't like the thought of men treating them as fragile, but they understand that the men have no ill intentions when holding doors or whatever else. Frankly, IDGAF. I have better things to do than feel offended that someone held the door for me or called me sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 08:04 PM
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I mostly just want to keep him happy.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 12:44 AM
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What? We see each other once a month. It's not like 10-15 minutes a night is over the top. Sometimes it ends up being longer, but that's because we end up masturbating lol.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 12:33 AM
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It's been a few months, and it's not like I put him through much. Unless you count the fact I tend to want a phone call every night and cut him off if he starts being negative about himself. If he's ever had a complaint about my behavior or appearance, I've fixed it as quickly as possible.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 12:28 AM
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And I'm not a unicorn. Girls are capable of love. You should see how my friend dotes on her fiancé. It's adorable!
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 12:23 AM
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I don't think he's getting bored. Granted, the frequent nudes and enthusiastic blowjobs have to help. Deepthroat FTW. And the fact that he was a virgin when we met.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 12:21 AM
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But I adore him. It's to the point that I bought a bottle of the face lotion he uses because it smells like him and I miss him.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 12:16 AM
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I forwarded the picture of the kitty sleeping on a bride's dress and captioned it the perfect wedding guest. I followed that up with a picture of him and captioned it the perfect boyfriend. I started shopping for his next visit last week, and I'll see him the last week of June. It has to be the styles and colors he likes, and something new. Because he didn't like what I used to wear.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 12:13 AM
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And I'll admit to being an asshole in high school, but who wasn't? We grow up and learn from our mistakes. Then we fall head over heels and can't picture doing anything to make the other person unhappy.
/r/MGTOW09/06/19 11:40 PM
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I mean, I think we're doing pretty well. There's no point to thinking about the worst case scenario yet.
/r/MGTOW09/06/19 11:31 PM
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Also, I call him my unicorn which makes him smile.
/r/MGTOW09/06/19 10:22 PM
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I did dump someone for having erectile dysfunction. He was sweet as can be, but I needed sex. I needed to feel desirable. Indeed, with my current relationship, the biggest issue other than distance is that he seldom initiates sexual activity. I'm always the one starting things, and it'd be nice to have it change some.
/r/MGTOW09/06/19 10:18 PM
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Try again. My response to his vulnerability was to study the causes behind it, see how it affected others. I mean, if he turned into a weepy mess every five minutes it'd get tiresome, but I don't expect him to be any stronger than I am
/r/MGTOW09/06/19 10:13 PM
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No, I've never cheated in my life. If you feel the urge to cheat, you're clearly not in the right relationship, and so it's best to leave. Granted, that's only happened once, and he hit me when I dumped him without even mentioning why, so I guess my gut instinct was right. He thinks it's ok to hit people, and I don't want to think about how often that would have happened if I had stayed. I've been in a long distance relationship since February, and I've been nothing but faithful. Indeed, I think…
/r/MGTOW09/06/19 06:00 PM
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True on the last part, but I still appreciate romance. If I'm dating someone, flowers=my clothes on the floor. Anyone else does it and it's kinda weird, but if you're really into the guy, cheesy and sappy nonsense is a turnon.
/r/MGTOW08/05/19 03:40 AM
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