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| 5 | A new problem with approaching that happening to often this days, how do you guys manage your way around itYea, but Russel be an easy 10, plus he’s already been validated by society. Little matey here has not. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 12:38 PM |
| 2 | A new problem with approaching that happening to often this days, how do you guys manage your way around itIf they’re not giving eye contact they’re not interested. Leave them alone. Fuck, are you 12?!! | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:49 AM |
| 3 | A new problem with approaching that happening to often this days, how do you guys manage your way around itNo you breasticle. Maintaining eye contact is very sexy, as long as you are not creepily staring. There’s a fine line and if you creep, you ain’t getting anywhere. Practice. A penetrating gaze with a soft or cheeky smile, then approach as soon as you are able. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:49 AM |
| 7 | A new problem with approaching that happening to often this days, how do you guys manage your way around itDo you just say Hi and then stand there all gormless waiting for her to say something? Fail. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | A new problem with approaching that happening to often this days, how do you guys manage your way around itDude… “excuse me for bothering you, I had to say hello.” Something fun, something cheeky, something interesting, “I would love to get a coffee/drink with you some time. Here, take my number. Have a great day, it was a pleasure to meet you.” | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:45 AM |
| 5 | How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl?A friend told me recently he can tell within 5 sentences whether a girl wants to kiss him, and his 5th sentence is along the lines of, “I’d like to kiss you.” He does VERY well. Helped me realise just how easy it can be when you get your head out of this shit! | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?Go ask them | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | How do men like to have sex initiated?Breathe on him | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.You should tell her. Obviously there is no obligation to go into any detail, same with her, but it’s a healthy, responsible, adult thing to do. The whole stigma behind men who seek therapy being “weak” is complete and utter bullshit, and it makes me angry when people assume that. However, I’m in Sweden where virtually everyone sees or has seen a therapist, and mental health is very much a topic of discussion. America seriously needs to catch up. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Am I a Sugar Daddy?Yeahhh, there’s quite a few red flags in there… ask her upfront, tell her it makes you uncomfortable and want reassurance. Nothing needy about wanting someone you’ve dated for 4 months to message first, at least some of the time. It feels nice! | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Is going out alone even productive/worth it?Yes | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 12:25 PM |
| 5 | What does it feel like to be attractive?It’s lonely. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?Yup, right here. I know my profile is pretty shit, but I just really don’t like having pictures taken of myself. I get maybe 1 match every 2-3 months. I’ve had one meet-up. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Biggest confidence boost?Currently, my lack of confidence is due to my low salary. This is changing in 2 months. It’s sad that money is affecting my confidence, but unfortunately, we live in a world that demands it in order to live. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How to be more sexual/be the person girls want to have sex with in your early 20’s?Wait until you’re in your 30’s | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What? | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 11:03 PM |
| 2 | How many here are tall, attractive, successful, but still struggle to land the girls you want/target?Right here. But, I know why. I’ve had a series of setbacks which have massively destroyed my self confidence. Last few days have been better, this year gonna be good! | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 08:00 AM |
| 43 | [deleted by user]Dude, are you 12 or something? She was just being friendly. Fuck. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 07:51 AM |
| 2 | I’m 23 years old and have wasted my life….You’re not even an adult yet. You have everything in front of you. You got this, son ;) | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | I’m 23 years old and have wasted my life….Dude, it is an excuse, and that’s fine. Confidence is the number one aspect. If you don’t feel good about yourself, you’ll never get anywhere. With anything. Random compliment: you’re a good person. Keep being you and enjoy being you :) | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 10:50 PM |
| 3 | I’m 23 years old and have wasted my life….Haha thank you for the helpful award :) I mean, it is that simple. Regardless of whatever issues you may be struggling with, (one of) the only way(s) to extend your social circle and improve yourself is by going out and meeting people. Without getting into the psychology of it, everyone has the exact same reservations over meeting new people (read: challenging your comfort zone), but they normalise/justify it in different ways. End of the day, you’re not scared of meeting new people, you’re scar… | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 10:34 PM |
| 28 | I’m 23 years old and have wasted my life….Wasted your life? Stfu, just go out and meet random people. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Is it a turn off for woman if a guy doesn't drink alcohol?If she’s a sensible, stable woman, she shouldn’t give a shit. I much prefer sober nights as I can keep my head, meet the people I want to and actually remember the conversations! The other extreme is women not liking men that are drunk, or drunk all the time. It’s all well and good to pick and choose, but you do what’s best for you. Always. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 03:18 PM |
| -2 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…Dude, you’re 21. Stfu and live life. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 08:28 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Meet at a bus or train station in the afternoon then walk somewhere to get coffee | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Looking for wingmen in North Texas for daygame.Stay at home. There's a fucking pandemic. | /r/seduction | 19/12/20 04:35 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys tell which women want casual sex and which ones genuinely want only a relationship?Ask them. | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 01:24 PM |
| 10 | Realized I want to save myself with someone I care about and have no desire for hookupsI know what you mean. I used to think this up until fairly recently, but now am changing my mindset. The chances of finding "the one" these days is incredibly slim. You have to go through a lot of interactions to find someone you truly connect with, unless you are extremely lucky or have very low standards. Think of each interaction, whether it is talking, closing, having sex or dating for months as practice for when you do finally meet the person you want to spend your time with. The other side… | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 12:24 PM |
| 10 | Get a load of this 💩Just gotta clear all your ad preferences on Google, then you can embrace the weird and random ads you'll get! | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Get a load of this 💩Precis | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 01:39 PM |
| 20 | Does not having social media make me appear creepy?Good that she's your ex. Issues!! | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 11:00 PM |
| 10 | Does not having social media make me appear creepy?No. Not at all. If anything, it gives you an interesting edge. Plus, it saves your sanity! I got rid of my SM (was only ever on FB anyway) just after New Years and I haven't missed it at all. Still communicate with people important to me, I just cut out a lot of the bullshit that comes with it. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How are we supposed to to spit game, date, or have sex during social distancing?Stay at home. | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | #1 KILLER of Female AttractionJason? | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Am I too thin for a 6ft tall male? Get stared down often U.K.Come on, bro. You look fine. If you're getting started on (is that what you mean by stared down?), then something else is probably wrong. Get some self-confidence and start being YOU. | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Am I too thin for a 6ft tall male? Get stared down often U.K.You've asked this question multiple times. It's getting a bit tedious... | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps a good idea for someone who just sarted getting into the dating game?No. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 02:54 AM |
| 2 | How to Accept a ComplimentYup. Simple, isn't it? Says a lot about your confidence if you don't deflect or attempt to put yourself down. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 10:26 AM |
| 11 | This is how bars really workWhenever I go out and the occasions I have met good people that have led to relationships, I have not been looking for women. Just out, having fun with myself or friends. If someone gets involved in that fun, well, great! | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 09:35 AM |
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