| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 66 | Female SpacesIf you're still unsure about how that works, just check out your typical mixed subreddit. Whoomp! They it is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Why are men do pedophiles 🤢. I am literally 17"But hey it was worth a shot [to make you and other women feel fear just for using the internet. Muh pEnIs, ya know...]". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:59 PM |
| 47 | From a thread where a man said that they need explicit instructions for them to do something for their SOs. Imagine being the wife of this man, how sad is this :("...I was delighted." Really, now? Is it your birthday or hers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 32 | Men that try to argue your sexual preferencesI think even cops aren't allowed to carry tasers until they have received a tazing, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 05:14 PM |
| 18 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.And where the hell is their actual gold?! Any scrote I've heard that's worried about hypothetical gold-diggers is also worried about hypothetical gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:56 PM |
| 71 | The actual trash taking itself out.At least 41 scrotes before the screen-shot. Also he wasn't just trying to scare her. He's embarrassed that she's got mad ninja reflexes from dealing with an ex-scrote and he got taken down effortlessly. By a gUrL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:39 AM |
| 2 | I have no wordsMy DH has been abusive in so many ways and I can't believe my knee-jerk reaction is to be grateful this wasn't a fetish of his. #thebarcantgetanylower I'll just be grateful that nursing my kids left me with nice memories of that time. I feel sorry for this lady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 07:45 PM |
| 57 | #MudSharkWeek is trending on Twitter. Apparently, White Scrotes are pressed over interracial relationships. Luckily, KPOP stans came to the rescue to drown out the racists. Controversial Opinion: Racism is a male sexual strategy to mate guard & discourage women from finding better deals elsewhere.Yeah it's a guy thing. As in 'guys own all the womenz' thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 35 | I mean... She's not wrongHold on to her and get your own twin-sized blanket! 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:10 PM |
| 35 | Step right up for LVM Bingo!BINGO! Except when you win... you lose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit the standards we hold men to here.Your attitude is awesome. You do what needs to be done. You are working on everything you think is wrong with you and then some. You are an awesome mom. You are high value and that designation isn't just there because you arrived there. It's because you are doing every thing it takes to get/stay there. Your trajectory is in an upward motion. Being high value means you should always be striving to be in an upward motion. You got this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:59 AM |
| 37 | Empirical evidence that men are more often assholes than womenThis needs to be published! And put on a billboard. And promoted on various man-baby subreddits and sites. I mean, I really don't think men are aware... we'd be educating them! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:44 PM |
| 6 | Yes, relationships REQUIRE effort...Yes, porn makes everything looks so easy /s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:26 AM |
| 24 | Being a self-proclaimed advocate and supporter of the MeToo but then choosing to lash out, deny, discredit or retaliate against any woman that shares their experience with you bc it hits too close to home to you makes you complicit in sexism and rape culture.First person I thought of was Lena Dunham. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Apparently it's Opposite Day on twitterHow did you wait for 3 decades? To be clear, I got engaged at 17 and married at 18. I'm 47 and still married to the same guy. I've stuck it out, so to speak, in a very difficult marriage. Bottom line - there are a few reasons why that was for the best (unless I could have divorced before the kids but I wasn't ready to and I really love and like my kids). My daughter did the same thing I did and it has not been easy. My son is 24 and recently broke up with a young woman he was not compatible with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Apparently it's Opposite Day on twitterYou mention teen girls. That's something I would expect. Dealing with romantic/ sexual feelings as a teen can be overwhelming. I remember having crushes that dried up if I learned they liked me. I was still feeling my way around, trying to 'adult' emotionally but still basically being a kid. I think there's a Britney Spears song about that. That's why decent parents try to protect and guide their kids when they start dating. Which is why getting engaged at 17 and marrying at 18 was not a great i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightAbsolutely! QUEEN 👸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:07 PM |
| 39 | New Flair Alert! FDS Translates Men. I speak fluent Scrotenese.There's men who genuinely care about the comfort of others... ... and then there's Hector Beaman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 01:25 PM |
| 30 | Put yourself first. Always.Same except I started learning at 43. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 07:02 AM |
| 16 | Put yourself first. Always.I was a doormat through most of my marriage but I put my foot down on BC pills - get cut or wear condoms. I was only 23 and pregnant with our second. I wasn't going to take pills that would do gosh-knows-what to my body for what would be, presumably, the next three or four decades. Nor was I willing to be the one to get cut open to avoid all that. You don't want to wear condoms? You can sit for a day or so with an ice pack on your jumblies! We viewed it as permanent and had regrets about the pro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 06:27 AM |
| 3 | When you send a LVM manchild to the grocery store...post saved! I'm still giggling! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 09:09 PM |
| 19 | Apparently I am too hash. Does that even make sense?I overheard him talking to some other friends how he goes silent for days after making plans with a girl. He won't respond to her at all and just shows up at the date location. He says if the girl doesn't show up it means she isn't into him enough This is beyond depressing. Why can't adults act like adults and then treat other adults like adults? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 04:12 AM |
| 34 | Apparently I am too hash. Does that even make sense?Not if I'm planning on meeting someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 04:06 AM |
| 25 | Apparently I am too hash. Does that even make sense?I think it's totally ok to be away from a phone for an afternoon. I agree as I believe my phone is for my convenience. But if I'm setting an appointment to meet someone, my phone stays in my pocket for the afternoon, just in case they need to get in touch to move the appointment, reschedule or cancel. Confirming a meet up is basic respect for another human's time. Clearly, OP has friends who'd put up with a guy on OLD being overly casual with their time. As much as I want to support my fellow wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 04:06 AM |
| 130 | “Law of consent” in Sweden forces men to describe how they verified consent rather than forcing women to prove the sex *wasn’t* consensual, resulting in more successful prosecutions of rapists.Will it ever go the other way?: Are you sure she wanted it? Uh huh, but did she say yes? So you gave her alcohol? Did you drink, too? That's a pretty strong reaction she had to the alcohol. Are you sure you didn't give her anything else? Is this the first time a girl has been ambivalent about having sex with you? You've got quite a rep on campus, you know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Nothing will change his mind if he’s decided he doesn’t want you.Please, for the the love of all that is good and holy, please tell me there is some context I'm missing here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 12:33 AM |
| 34 | HVM will not waste your time and know when games are gamesAlso, how young is his 'woman' at the start of the timeline if children will be in the picture. If the poor woman is 25 she'll be 36-37 by the time they're married. How many years together married (you know, to get to know each other as a married couple) before he allows for children to arrive? When the wife is already at an age to be considered high-risk for pregnancy? I guess if he always starts the timeline with an 18 yo (know matter how old and raggedy he is) then she'll be "safe". I went to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 01:10 PM |
| 35 | HVM will not waste your time and know when games are gamesOh there's lots of us leveling in a downward trajectory, unfortunately. All the agony-aunt columns are loaded with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 01:01 PM |
| 9 | Don't let anyone ever pressure you into saying yes to something you do not wantWith my own religious beliefs I'd be forced to embarrass him because if I'd been entertaining any doubts during the dating process I'd have to turn him down. According to my beliefs, accepting a proposal is binding. It would take gross behavior to occur or be discovered in order to break the engagement and still leave me 'in good standing'* in my congregation. So my guess is when someone does this, they know the answer will be 'No' and so they embarrass the girl into saying 'yes' by making it pu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Never let a man tell you what to do, it can turn out very badly. When you less expect, you can't even go out of your house without his permission 🤷♀️Illustrating the grooming process? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:06 PM |
| 42 | The people around you directly influence your state of mind. Dump his ass if he makes you feel inferior.Pretty rich coming from the guy rumored to have driven his 30 y/o ex to suicide... Just coming here to say this... Don't know about the mother of his daughter, Jane, but Lauren Holly and Jenny McCarthy seemed to have found men treating them with respect AC (after Carrey). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:52 PM |
| 31 | Looks like Grimes is doing a lot of unpaid emotional labor for her stupid boyfriend (answering a tweet abt him donating money to BLM)Hey not so fast... let him haul a bunch of useless earthling scrotes with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 02:16 AM |
| 8 | I’m tired of our culture celebrating Male Incompetence. Male incompetence isn’t funny and endearing, it’s childish, unattractive, and infuriating!!🤬He felt like a pet that drives? I guess? Gasp... gasp... lol... dying.... dead. Laughing soooooo hard... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 02:11 AM |
| 6 | Shit like this is such a slap in the face for those of us who dated a toxic man for YEARS, gave him the world, got attached, and never changed a thing.NO! NO! NOOOOOOO!!! There is no human (male or female) that can be the 'right human' that can make another human change. True change always comes from within! Reading that makes me want to kick a scrote in the scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 06:29 PM |
| 26 | Men who wear the "I tell truth, take it or leave it, I dont care if you dont like it!!!" badge. Honest or emotionally immature?If ones of that scrote's students or colleagues was needlessly, brutally honest with him, I'd love for them to raise their hands and say, "I'm just trying to be like John! Thought you of all people would appreciate that, sheesh..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 12:38 PM |
| 7 | My favorite OLD strategy is asking men about their weirdest date and letting them weed themselves out. He said he had a ‘perfect’ date with this girl then she turned crazy years later after no contact. Stay safe out there.gasp gasp gasp hyperventilating right now after reading this! 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:17 AM |
| 8 | Imagine having this level of audacityI hear there's vitamins in porn and Monster drinks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:14 AM |
| 27 | Ladies what do you think of this?is this FDS approved?Wow, did she create FDS? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:28 PM |
| 13 | It Seems Men Are Allowed To Have Their Financial Deal Breakers But We Aren't?Lol, all this time I though VOD was video-on-demand... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 10:56 PM |
| 41 | This is how pornstars are treated. It’s an abusive industry that also profits off of CP. HVM do not watch porn.I blame women just as I blame the man Then you're blaming the people with the least amount of power to do anything about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 09:01 AM |
| 15 | Always put yourself first, ladies.100% agree. That hurt to read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:25 PM |
| 5 | Oddly specific but soooooo spot onI love this comment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 09:42 PM |
| 6 | I was sexually assaulted last weekend. Cautionary tale in the time of a pandemic.And thank you for sharing your experience. You don't know how much you strengthened me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 05:22 AM |
| 9 | I was sexually assaulted last weekend. Cautionary tale in the time of a pandemic.No. You are incorrect. You are a bystander if you are not the victim that wrote this post. The OP is the victim. Anyone else, including you, is simply a bystander and being somewhat anonymous on a reddit forum means you (general you) can post what you want with little responsibility for the outcome. You're informed by your experiences, as am I, but you are not all experiences. This is FDS, actually, I'd be utterly shocked if most of the women who post here have NOT been, at the least, assaulted … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 05:20 AM |
| 24 | I was sexually assaulted last weekend. Cautionary tale in the time of a pandemic.Men don’t “become” predators because of circumstances. He was always a fucking predator, and this pandemic gave him his opportunity. I totally agree, thank you for pointing this out. Whatever you choose to do, please keep in mind that he will do this to someone else ~if you don’t take action some kind of action.~ No. Just no. He will not do this to someone else because she didn't take action. He'll do this to someone else because, as you said, he's a predator. It is NOT your job, OP, to go to th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 01:25 AM |
| 18 | A story about how my HVM showed his worth from the jump.OP, you knew your own value and he put in a lot of effort to show he recognized your value. Good for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 06:47 PM |
| 11 | I don't want you"Hitting the wall" doesn't necessarily mean you're unattractive, just that due to factors, you're not attractive to a certain demographic. For example there's a number of men who have no sexual or romantic interest in women in their 40's and 50's even though they're in the same age range. These women are very attractive, just not young. So if they're at a nightclub and there's quite a number of beautiful young women there, the men trying to pick them up dwindles significantly. No matter what, th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 04:56 PM |
| 17 | Opinions on this?Is it some kind of gift projection? She'd love flowers delivered so she has some delivered to him? Honestly, my DH would've only appreciated the flowers if it came with a card promising something special later. In which case, I could scrap the flower idea and leave a post-it in his lunch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 06:19 PM |
| 11 | I got this message on a dating site. What do you think, does this make you swoon?Evidence of LVM. No HVW is going after that. A man should make some effort. Shower, comb his hair, maybe a shave, dress like he got some self-esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 03:04 AM |
| 27 | Perfect example of a “50/50” relationshipYour sister is trying to inefficiently kill her husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:29 AM |
| 17 | Choices... The Pickmesha and Corona Virus editionShe can't actually be a parent. She must be talking about her poor hypothetical future children (I hope, I hope, I hope...). Unless she plans on making sure they don't know how to read. Even if she deletes tweets, nothing is ever really gone from the internets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 01:47 PM |
| 78 | Woman giving head after getting anal... just so she can get cuddles. I would rather hire a massage therapist to give me a massage for those oxytocin induced endorphins. LortttttttAnd it'll be a man on a throwaway, anyways... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 03:17 PM |
| 28 | Breakup StrategiesUnfortunately with a skilled manipulator or narcissist I'd do it over the phone or in public, ideally where neither of you would be relying on a ride home. Honestly, where and how you break up is more important than the actual words you use. They'll twist your actual words anyway. To a reasonable person 'I don't want to' is a reason to break up. It's THE ultimate reason to break up. Not wanting to date someone is an actual reason. Just like 'no' is a complete sentence. But for manipulators and n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 01:50 AM |
| 12 | The Unfortunate Truth! LOL Men expect you to sacrifice everything for them. I’m not sacrificing OR compromising anything; my wellbeing, my happiness, or my values.ding ding ding! I really lol'd! Maybe they 'hit the wall' or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 05:20 PM |
| 38 | The Unfortunate Truth! LOL Men expect you to sacrifice everything for them. I’m not sacrificing OR compromising anything; my wellbeing, my happiness, or my values.A Nice Guy™️ safehouse. They spawn Incels like mold on damp gym floors basement floors. They have a subreddit if you want to destroy whatever faith in humanity you have left. If you're quarantined you might have some time to kill. Mgtow - men go their own way Basic core belief - teh wemon are at fault for everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 01:46 PM |
| 5 | good boy will let her take a shitSoooooo... since they're divorced, that odd behavior did not keep the romance alive? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:04 AM |
| 3 | What is the most embarrassing thing you put up with as a former pickme?Oh gosh, sorry didn't mean to make you relive the shame. It was a learning experience and I'm sure you helped a lot of us who are trying to level up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 08:23 PM |
| 4 | What is the most embarrassing thing you put up with as a former pickme?Uh... yeah, you win. Or lost...jeez | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 07:05 AM |
| 2 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.User name most certainly does not check out. OP seems fairly determined to post on subreddits geared to hooking up with his own kind. His posts are cringey and pervy. <goes off to bleach my eyes after deleting my browsing history, removing the app and setting my phone on fire> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 06:46 AM |
| 4 | Sexual harassment sensitivity training for gamers with Jena Friedman. When they get to experience how it feels and what they have to say about it! (Jaw dropping)That was disturbing and difficult to watch. The inappropriate comments and mild negging by the experimenter towards the gamers was eye opening. I just can't treat other humans that way. I don't know how some men do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 07:18 AM |
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