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1	Thought experiment about arranged marriages I was exposed to arranged marriages when I moved to my husband’s country where most people have arranged marriages. He was the first in his family to get what they call here a “love marriage”. From what I’ve observed, the arranged couples I’ve met seem just as happy and loving as couples back home in my country (US) that chose their own partners without family input. The divorce rate is lower, but it’s because there is huge stigma around divorce here, much much more so on women. One of my husban…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/23 05:52 AM
43	Will plastic surgery harm my chances to find someone instead of help? As a married woman who had work done pre-marriage in my twenties, this is my take: Having cosmetic surgery will probably neither help nor harm your chances of finding someone to marry you in the general sense. It really boils down to the individual man, as there are plenty of men who: A) Don’t care about cosmetic surgery either way. B) Might prefer the changes you’d make, in this case, bigger boobs and less prominent nose. C) Are turned off by cosmetic surgery and will judge you for it. D) Simpl…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/23 05:51 AM
1	RPW Definition Thanks for taking the time to answer my question and for the link! I understand the dissonance between the ideologies now.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/11/22 06:49 PM
2	RPW Definition I have a question since you mention there are feminists here, as I’m sort of new. In the sidebar rule number five says, “No Feminism” and goes onto say this is an anti-feminist group. But if what makes a RPW is the goal of a male-led relationship, I don’t see why these two things would be mutually exclusive. My husband and I are both progressive, but our relationship dynamic is more traditional. I’d say our relationship almost “accidentally” follows RPW standards. So technically is it fine (and …	/r/RedPillWomen	20/11/22 03:20 PM
4	How to be a man's muse? When you say “controlling” and “mothering” do you mean like, how do you help your man be successful without nagging him to do things, maybe? I ask because I don’t see “mothering” as an inherent negative quality, and don’t really associate it with “controlling”, myself. Like, my husband shouldn’t be dependent on me as a child would be nor should I be anxiously micromanaging him, but I definitely implement the nurturing and softer aspects that may be associated with being “motherly” towards him. A…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/11/22 01:09 PM
2	I very much want to be a homemaker one day, but can’t bear giving up financial independence. I remember being 23 and feeling like I was old and my life was passing me by too! Funny enough, that is the age I met my now-husband, and we were only friends for the first year we knew each other! Things can change really quickly. I'm now 31 and pregnant with our first baby, so I will soon upgrade from being a housewife to a SAHM! Before I was married I had been working consistently since I was fifteen, so it was a weird transition for me at first. I'm happy with it though because my husband is…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/22 09:13 AM

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