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No, I’m not a woman. I’ve been in long relationships, one lasting 5 years at one point, and I’ve also had my time being single. I enjoy the single life now, let’s me focus on myself and I’ve been having fun improving my social skills and seeing lots of women. This type of lifestyle is not something someone should pursue forever tho, eventually I know I’ll have to grow up and be a man, not some boy running around and padding my numbers. There’s more to life than getting laid, and I’ve dreamed of …
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:20 AM
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Honestly, who hurt this man. By all means have your fun in your youth, like I am right now, but to say monogamy is a myth and marriage is shameful is honestly just sad. I foresee a very lonely existence in his future where his only comfort is reminiscing on his days as a stud, but as his looks fade with age and the validation from random women starts to dwindle, he’ll sit alone.
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:36 PM
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If you’re just starting to chat I usually just go with the following conversation to get them comfortable before asking them on a date. Hey, you’re sexy/pretty/gorgeous/etc. I’m ______, watcha up to? What do you usually do for fun? - respond to what they say What part of (where ever you’re from) are you in? I’m at (say which part you’re from) I like your vibe, we should chill and see if we vibe. - you then transition that into asking her out. Have a date in mind before you ask, it’s more direct.…
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:17 PM
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Texting or online messaging should be to setup dates and that’s it. If you continue to go on dates and she starts messaging you throughout the day that’s a different story, but until then keep it simple and be straight forward with the date arrangements. “Are you free Thursday night? I was thinking we could grab some drinks at _________ around 7pm” etc etc.
/r/seduction10/09/22 06:35 PM
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I’d say just having a nice haircut done professionally by a barber will make you stand out than most. A lot of men don’t follow any basic grooming at all, so having a clean haircut that fits you and rocking it with confidence would work. Luckily I’ve been blessed with a gorgeous head of thick THICK hair, but if I don’t do maintenance on it and have it cut by a barber I look like a wild man. So I keep it clean and cut it every 1.5 months or so. I’ve had multiple girls tell me that when they first…
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:04 PM
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I definitely underestimated how dumb and incapable you are.
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:36 AM
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He just said you learn to flirt by doing it. Trial and error. Social skills are like any other skill, you need to actually practice it, fail at it, understand the failures then learn from it. Simple process made not so simple by overthinking and a lot, and I mean a lot of growing pains.
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:20 AM
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I’ve been told I’m serious, but idk if that’s a total bad thing. Some girls find it cute they’ve told me, for others at particular times it has been a turn on. Idk just be yourself bro.
/r/seduction09/09/22 04:09 AM
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Be your most genuine honest self. They can see right through you if you’re not and they won’t be emotionally attracted to you at all. If your most genuine honest self sucks, then take a long painful look in the mirror and start prepping on how to fix that. Workout, eat right, read things that interest you, choose an interesting hobby etc. I find being genuinely passionate about something and expressing that to women has had the most success. Whether it’s my love for guitar, my passion for my car…
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:58 AM
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No that’s not what I mean. You don’t ask her what she likes outside of the bedroom, rather let her know she shouldn’t be afraid to be vocal while in the bedroom. It’s a benefit to both of you. You want to make sure you’re doing a good job satisfying her, and she wants to be satisfied. You can also take the lead. I’ve always been quite vocal while in bed and I find that girls will follow your lead. I let the girl know what feels good, what looks hot, what I like while I’m in bed with her and she …
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:18 PM
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It’s not a “while your doing it type of conversation” rather, it’s more like you should establish beforehand you want to do what she likes and reaffirm her she shouldnt be afraid to help guide you in the future. If that makes sense.
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:11 PM
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First, every girl is different, so communication is key. If you’re not communicating try to make a point of it to her that you want to for the best sex life possible between you two. Generally tho I like to make sure there’s eye contact while I’m doing it. You gotta find that special spot (hope you know where that is) and be gentle with it. I tend to flick it and suck it a bit. When she starts to give good physical or audio feedback to you, get one finger in there and do a “come here” motion wit…
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:54 PM
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Make sure your head game is on point
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:39 PM
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“Hey, you’re sexy. I’m _______, watcha up to?” It’s all you need really.
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:28 PM
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I’m not that tall but I guess I’m traditionally handsome. Just work on yourself. Eat well, workout, grooming, skin care. I never use to be this “handsome”, but I’ve been working on myself for years. It takes time. You’ll just look more confident if you take care of yourself which is the key to attraction. Then learn how you look best in pictures and get a good variety. One with friends, one with you smiling, a full body shot. Just be as forward as I am with those chat templates. Men lead, women …
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:42 PM
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Only had luck off of tinder and hinge. I’ll just copy my response to another guy: There’s just general guidelines you can modify to your needs. Open up by saying “hey you’re sexy, I’m _____, watcha up to?” Respond to what they say, then ask “what do you usually do for fun” Respond to what they say, then ask “which part of what ever area you’re from are you in? I’m near say your area Then you don’t wanna stay on the app long so after that I try to get their number just by saying “hey you’re chill…
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:27 PM
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There’s just general guidelines you can modify to your needs. Open up by saying “hey you’re sexy, I’m _____, watcha up to?” Respond to what they say, then ask “what do you usually do for fun” Respond to what they say, then ask “which part of what ever area you’re from are you in? I’m near say your area Then you don’t wanna stay on the app long so after that I try to get their number just by saying “hey you’re chill, I like your vibe. We should grab a coffee or drink and see if we click. I’m not …
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:26 PM
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Like anything it takes time to work on. Got no matches at first. Gotten laid 3 times this week off of dating apps after getting better photos and just learning how to communicate better online. Keep at it.
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:14 AM
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That’s never happened. Put yourself into uncomfortable social situations and you’d be surprised how well things work out
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:55 PM
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I started going to dive bars alone recently, since most of my outgoing friends had left the city I lived in. Best advice I could think of is to go with no expectations of anything happening, and to get a drink right away and finish it quick. With those 2 things in mind all I’ve done is that and just sit at the bar and try to strike up conversations best I can. I think the easiest way to do so is to find something you like about a stranger and compliment them on it. Saw a guy with orange crocs on…
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:27 PM
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Sauce?
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:42 PM
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