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7	[FR] another about date, 3rd one this week Things to NOT do: Don't tell her it was acceptable. It obviously was not. Things to do: Be careful. She might be crazy and waste your time, or worse. Tell her she has 1 more chance to redeem herself. And that she is on a short leash. Tell her that you don't appreciate rude / uncouth people. It doesn't matter if they have boobs and pussies, they still have to match the same criteria - YOUR criteria. And she can't make up for her bad behavior by bribing you will more pussy. But DEFINITELY BE FUN w…	/r/seduction	28/09/15 06:39 PM
2	[25m] How do I make a smooth transition from dating to FWB? Let's get some thing straight here - you do want to get laid, right? As in, your definition of "casual dating" includes "Casual sex", right? Or does it only mean "I'll wine her and dine her and spend money and time and effort on her and I am happy with that"? If you are already having sex with the girl, then it becomes a question of expectations setting. If you have told her "you are the one for me" or "you are so special" or anything of that sort, then you are setting those expectations. She is…	/r/seduction	23/05/15 06:19 PM
1	What do you do when the girl has read "The Game" and thinks it's disgusting? Don't know why you got downvoted. Thanks for your reply! I agree I did lose my frame there for a few minutes. Oh well, will be better prepared next time :)	/r/seduction	23/05/15 06:11 PM
-4	What do you do when the girl has read "The Game" and thinks it's disgusting? It's a "getting to know the girl" thing. It's called "the cube" or something like that. I think Neil Strauss had a video about it? Also, I am definitely about long term. I don't care for one-night stands much. I just have never had so many defenses go up so high and so fast, as when she thought I was running "the game" on her. And the irony was that I was not even running "game". I was just having a fun time, and I thought she was interesting.	/r/seduction	23/05/15 02:38 AM
1	Best responses to a "I'm bored. Entertain me." text? I get that this is a shit test. I don't want to engage her on her terms. I want her to play by my rules. But I also don't want to turn her off with something too heavily sexual or boring. I think the key here is to engage them, and even entertain them, but on my own terms. Asking her to come over, or saying I'm going over, is a REALLY bad idea. It just shows that you have nothing better to do than wait around for her. Not responding also does nothing. Sure, you didn't lose a huge number of point…	/r/seduction	27/03/15 09:10 PM
2	Best responses to a "I'm bored. Entertain me." text? So far, this has been the best response.	/r/seduction	27/03/15 09:01 PM
1	Girls at club Take her hand, lead her outside, say "now we are not in a club" and kiss her there.	/r/seduction	20/01/15 02:39 AM
1	FR: Day approach, text game, k-close with hb8 on first date AMWF Really good stuff there! The only thing I didnt get was the "really cheesy, non-dirty, but cute joke". Why was part even required? Couldn't you have made it a bit more dominating, maybe "if you can't make me laugh, you are gonna have to make it up to me in other ways <wink>" Maybe I am not getting what the joke was. Could OP (or others) give a few examples?	/r/seduction	10/01/15 07:36 PM
23	So Mark Manson's models is literally predicting my future here. How do I break out of this? Stop focusing on her and focus on you. Stop working on how to get the girl. Start working on improving your own life. Stop working on trying to sleep with her. Start working on becoming the guy that any woman wants to sleep with. Don't go full stop. Don't break up. Don't do anything. Not doing anything with her / thinking about her will open up a lot of vaccuum in your life. Fill it with productive stuff. Go run, go learn a language, do anything that you want to do. She may or may not initiate c…	/r/seduction	10/01/15 07:16 PM
1	FR - How to follow up on that <facepalm>	/r/seduction	05/01/15 05:48 PM
2	FR - How to follow up on that <Tring tring> You: "Hey, let's get a drink tomorrow night" Her: "Sure. But how come you did not respond back to my text the last time?" You: <grin on face> "I just wanted to give you a chance to miss me" <wink> If she persists in digging deeper: level 1: "I just got real busy. Life got in the way. But I had to call you now because I thought we had something special here." level 2: "Are you one of those girls who always brings up the past and forgets to live in the present?" Edit: Most importantl…	/r/seduction	05/01/15 09:31 AM
1	When its just sex do you change your standards? Practice makes perfect.	/r/seduction	05/01/15 08:21 AM
2	Solo gaming I have some lame friends too. I would go out to a place with them, and just start talking to girls as if I was alone. Sometimes, I would include a friend passing by into the conversation, but then I realized that I could do that with complete strangers too. It is damn funny, but if you are in control of the conversation 9"in state"), then you can bring anyone into the conversation at your will. That guy at the bar who is drinking alone, next to her? Ask him what he thinks about her shoes (if you…	/r/seduction	05/01/15 08:15 AM
9	[FR] How I learned to let go.... by letting out my inner child. (# close, my story) Good job getting her number! It was all because you were having fun, and you were the master of your world. You did many things right, but man you have a long way to go and a lot to learn! Don't text her anything other than just confirming the time for tomorrow. You are a busy guy and don't have time to keep entertaining her everyday. You already entertained her enough for the day, just back off and chill now. If she wants a conversation, tell her you are busy, and will talk tomorrow. If she cal…	/r/seduction	20/12/14 12:10 AM
2	Starting to date, first coming up (coffee dates) what do? I always find having something to do on a first date (or any date for that matter) always helps. It could be anything - a walk, a game of UNO or even Taboo - but as long as it gets the excitement going, it is usually a good date. The coffee / dinner / whatever should be the least important part of your date. In fact, challenge yourself to come up with absolutely cheap (read $0) activity dates, and you might surprise yourself :)	/r/seduction	10/06/14 03:38 PM
1	Okay guys, need help with isolating a target from a clingy group Could you please explain why you say so? This has worked for me in the past.	/r/seduction	30/05/14 07:25 AM
1	Okay guys, need help with isolating a target from a clingy group Big smile, look the blocker in the eye, and say: "X and I like each other. Give us a few minutes please." Do not make that a question. As in.. do not "Could you please give us a few minutes?" Also, do not forget the smile. If she still continues to block, look at your girl, and work her against the other girl. <big grin> "Is she always like this?" (the grin is important so that she gets on your side) Or if you are bold enough, just take her hand and make a run for it somewhere. Puts the girl in …	/r/seduction	29/05/14 03:14 PM
1	Girl has BF after #closing, how do I get her to introduce me to her friends? "Hey, I'm going to this ___ (cool common interest thing) with my friends. I think you'll like it too. Why don't you bring your friends? And we'll make a fun night / party of it" Or if you are slightly bolder: "Hey, I'm going to this ___ (cool common interest thing) with my friends. I thought of doing you a favour and inviting you to it. Bring your hottest single girlfriend, and we'll call it even"	/r/seduction	20/05/14 03:36 PM
13	Three tips you would give yourself on your first date Actually, that works too. Her: (after a silence) so what do you want to do now? Me: Let's fuck! Her: (giggling) Where? Me: Man, you are easy! Her: (more giggling) No I am not! Me: Tell you what. If you can find an amazing place here where you would like to fuck me (we were at a busy airport, we had met 10 minutes ago), a place which will impress me, because its imaginative or daring or just damn unique, then you get a treat. Her: (excited) Ok... how about... Didnt f-close her then, but 3 days la…	/r/seduction	14/05/14 03:04 AM
0	[FR] How to handle a super-alpha / what could I have done better? PLEASE HELP! Could you point out my mistakes, and how to avoid them in the future please? Also, how would you handle the other guy? Do you just give up?	/r/seduction	21/04/14 03:19 PM
1	Any thoughts on an app like this directed towards pick up? I don't travel as much as I used to, but I never had any trouble finding the best spots in any city. I would just walk up to the receptionist at the hotel I was staying at (or one of the clients, when we were chilling / having a smoke / whatever), basically someone local, and they would almost always direct me to the best nightclubs / jazz bars / amusement parks. And of course, if she was cute, I'd almost always go with her. The "trick" is to stop looking at places to pickup women, and just have…	/r/seduction	08/04/14 02:50 PM
7	[FR] #-Closed the Bartender Good examples there. Can we have some more?	/r/seduction	11/02/14 06:37 PM