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Maybe even better than "no worries" (which I agree is good), is "No worries, actually I ended up having the most amazing night!" ...THEN ghost :D
/r/seduction23/03/18 04:22 PM
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Don't try that fancy reversal stuff on me, "badass" hijacker winkie face! I cast level 2 self-amuse! But seriously, here is a new draft I'm gonna try that maximizes your emphasis on context. If you had been a true gentleman you would have simply drafted this for me in the first place! lol j/k. ---begin message--- Hi! I just saw you on tinder and I figured, hey, why wait for you to swipe me when I can appear even more desperate for your attention by joining the coterie of random douches who spam …
/r/seduction28/10/16 09:51 AM
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I was actually thinking that since girls love using their Instagram accounts whereas they often feel silly about or grossed out by Tinder-space, that the context would be better than talking on Tinder. But I do tend to agree the "effort" it takes to switch apps (lol) unfortunately does ruin the context. That is so funny when you think about it. Because it literally takes zero effort. You're totally right of course though. She doesn't have to look at her unsolicited messages if she is really gett…
/r/seduction28/10/16 09:32 AM
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You swiped her but chances are she never even saw your Tinder profile. Algorithms be damned. But more important is your point that she probably assumes, like you, that she did or would swipe left on you. "Tracked her down"... yeah, you can spin it that way and you're not wrong. But it's right there on her profile. She wanted you to have it. The thing is that it's just a text. It doesn't actually take time to do it. It does look like it takes time from her perspective, which I agree is the more i…
/r/seduction28/10/16 08:56 AM
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lol, believe me it's as difficult for us to approach women as it is for you to deal with us approaching you :) It's kind of amusing how different the masculine and feminine ideologies are with respect to dating. My whole post (and this entire subreddit) is basically about "how do i spam more girls more effectively.” Conversely, your idea that "we would've matched already" is a classic example of the feminine ideology which is “how do I run my life in such a way that the process of weeding out ba…
/r/seduction28/10/16 08:43 AM
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It's true. I mean, nobody likes being on Tinder because the context is so humiliating for that reason. The desperation. I do think you're underestimating how much heart and soul a young New Yorker girl will put into her Instagram though. And on top of that if she is a designer or a photographer or a writer with a blog linked, you can see her actual work, for example. So that's not nothing. And sometimes the girl's feed is legitimately cool and tells you about her style. Either way, I'm sure most…
/r/seduction28/10/16 08:01 AM
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Constructive criticism about the wording would be great if you have a suggestion. I'm hearing you say not to suggest the drink in the first message.
/r/seduction28/10/16 07:33 AM
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You should make a joke about it and set up the date.
/r/seduction23/10/16 05:30 PM
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It's a weird question since you're already in contact via Tinder and it could be an indicator of disinterest. Worst case scenario she does promotion for the nightclub and is just using you to put up numbers. I'd probably just say "but my darling, we're already in contact" or something teasing.
/r/seduction22/10/16 08:48 PM
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The best you can do is ask her about her hopes and dreams and hopefully share a vision. I think other than that and common sense, you can't really do anything too crazy to make any one particular woman stay. You can decide you want a girlfriend but not that you want that girl to be your girlfriend, is what I'm saying. Just like in game. That being said I did just link a pretty long list of stuff you can do to make a relationship work as best it can.
/r/seduction13/10/16 05:22 PM
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I mean, who is the better PUA, the guy with a bunch of numbers he's actively burning to the ground or the guy with a bunch of numbers only he texted 2-3x and then stopped? I'm not implying there is a clear answer here, btw. It's just a matter of perspective, I think. You see my approach as overly dependant on the woman and I see yours as possibly improvable by adding a dash of persistence. Or a lot. Both are important elements. Both are defensible strategies.
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:43 PM
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The flake rate seems nightmarish I mean. And everyone seems hyper aware of any shred of physical cuteness they may have going for them. I'm a hipster so I'd just live in Silver Lake or Echo Park and try to make casual meet ups happen there I guess.
/r/seduction12/10/16 08:16 PM
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Best she's got right now, yeah that's true. But I haven't had a chance to charm her in person yet! (I think.) If she invests in me at some point down the line then she'll fall in love with her investment, right? And then the fact she ignored me for so long will just be something we laugh about. I'm also really picky so I don't like to let the cute ones go too easily.
/r/seduction12/10/16 08:15 PM
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Your approach is perfectly valid. It's certainly in alignment with my heart to ignore them if they ignore me. At the same time, one could argue that you aren't "burning it down" with respect to the phone number the way RSD guys say to stick in the interaction til it's really dead and always try to close it. (Like, come on, you've never flaked on someone?) You can look for new people while burning all your numbers down with one hand tied behind your back. Sending a "let's meet up at x" text once …
/r/seduction12/10/16 05:51 PM
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Yes. Definitely. What's your schedule like this week? > When are you free?
/r/seduction12/10/16 05:37 PM
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LA sounds like a nightmare. My favorite line for this lately, which I read somewhere online, has been: "What's your schedule like this week?" If you're concerned or aware that she is truly busy, this is probably the question that aligns the most with the statement form in the way that it implies you do have shit going on. It's a bit serious and business-y if she doesn't have much of a schedule but if she does, then it's nice of you to understand that and I find it commands just enough respect to…
/r/seduction12/10/16 05:29 PM
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It's actually not as a bad a look as it should be. I was texting a girl who wasn't texting me back a lot of the time and wasn't agreeing to meet up. After a full month I finally got her to come meet up for the first time and kissed her. Then again recently I got another girl to come around from not responding at all for a full month to agreeing to hang out with me. No number is ever dead! As long as you act casual, it's still comfortable for her to receive attention from you now and then and she…
/r/seduction12/10/16 05:22 PM
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3-2-1 go. I appreciate your awareness of the subtleties of the ongoing interaction, but that shit comes later. As for what to say, don't ask an open-ended question such as "where are you from?" That puts the burden of the conversation on her before she actually wants talk to you. Instead, make an assumption/guess about her or her group. "You guys look like xyz... You look like you must be coming from xyz..." Then when someone corrects you, you do a huge roll-off. Say "Oh my god..." and physicall…
/r/seduction09/10/16 05:12 PM
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This paradox is kind of the reason to subscribe to the entire concept of game itself. What I mean is that, in your interactions, if you focus your trying energy on just running good game and enjoying/perfection the process of game, then you can snatch that trying energy away from the particular girl in front of you. Which should help your chances by reducing your investment in the individual girls. Without the concept of "game" there is no other place to divert this trying energy in the moment.
/r/seduction08/10/16 06:19 PM
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Tyler says you don't fall in love with the girl, you fall in love with your investment. If you want to feel casual towards her, invest some energy into someone else or into generating other leads.
/r/seduction08/10/16 05:57 PM
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Make an assumption about her. When she responds correcting you, do a huge roll off as if what you've just learned from her has blown your mind in a bad way and you have to escape. Then turn back, say "just kidding" and chat normally. You'll have about 1-3 mins depending on what city you're in.
/r/seduction08/10/16 05:55 PM
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In game, you're supposed to take everything that happens to you as funny and surprising, right? Did you still want to take her home that night after she kissed someone else? (I'm guessing yes.) If so then it was probably a mistake not to act like her behavior was hilaarrrrrious and then drag her away to show her something on the dance floor. Alternatively, you can just be stoked for her (as well as finding the situation "hilaaarrrious!") and tell her you want the "full report" tomorrow, and then…
/r/seduction04/10/16 05:34 AM
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The important thing, or a recent sticking point for me, is not whether you go direct or indirect, but if you are going to ask "the usual small talk" type of questions/assumptions (rather than running entertaining DHV routines like the 'best friend test') then it's really important to do a huge roll off to her first response. If they nice-to-meet you and eject, you just weren't entertaining enough probably. It's not about intent, I don't think. They don't want your filthy intent, right? Rolling o…
/r/seduction04/10/16 05:13 AM
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You're even more fun/interesting to people because of this! Write things when you need to on your phone. They'll love it. You have a non-problem. Enjoy it!
/r/seduction04/10/16 04:13 AM
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I mean, you can always have a conversation about "how little you have in common" i.e. how different you are, right? Get into it. Then snap her a little Opposites Attract by Paula Abdul, that song is fucking awesome. Once you've established the concept of her as "artsy girl" (as opposed to your "party dude"), do an impression of her to her face, based on this "artsy" concept of her. ("Should I use oil paints? Or acrylics? Hmmmm lalalaa" etc.) Infinite fun, by my calculations.
/r/seduction04/10/16 04:02 AM
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Just a guess, but... Gaming without a wingman can be really hard. (Especially on a train during the day, yikes.) I think if you'd had a wingman with you, you'd have made this approach. Agree or disagree? Last time I was in this scenario, I slowed down after passing a cute girl and said to my friend "Mannn, I reaaaally wanted to open that one." His mere presence got me over the hump. Sometimes you feel like superman and you can do cold approach during the day with no wing. But I've certainly chic…
/r/seduction04/10/16 03:52 AM
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Here's what you do. Say hi and then casually make an assumption about a girl to her. Maybe over your shoulder even. "You guys must be going to xyz..." (The important thing is to make a guess/assumption rather than to ask open-endedly.) Whatever she says, overreact massively to the information, as a joke. (You're teasing her.) Say "fuuuucking hell man that's so boring," throw your hands up in exasperation, physically turn away, and pretend to start walking away in emergency cringe mode. She will …
/r/seduction04/10/16 03:25 AM
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The means to meet people is a wingman and a pair of nuts.
/r/seduction04/10/16 03:12 AM
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