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| 3 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menMost K-pop fans are teenage girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Is there a certain looks level a guy can have that will automatically beat out any High Status/High earning male?Super attractive men who earn very little and have no professional skills have the option of basically being a trophy husband for a very rich woman, especially if the woman is older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | People underestimate the significance of body fat percentage on attractiveness.He’s a little chubby. You can be fit and in shape without having a six pack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Men should publicly shame and shun simps to gain back power in the dating worldYou’re addressing different issues. Guys already shame other guys who openly admit to paying for Only Fans. Being an actual simp is seen as shameful. Giving a compliment to a woman does not make someone a simp though. It’s just standard politeness. Following a model on Instagram isn’t simping, he’s looking at photos for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Do women value a guy’s status or overall looks more?In that case, I’m saying your statement isn’t necessarily correct, those features alone don’t make a man attractive. Those features would depend entirely on the individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Do women value a guy’s status or overall looks more?Are you asking me if that’s attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Seinfeld is proof that people were picky before OLDI measured from the side, why should you measure from the top? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Seinfeld is proof that people were picky before OLDMy husband is 8” (I measured it) so I assumed it wasn’t that uncommon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Seinfeld is proof that people were picky before OLD8 inch penises are rare but they do exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | People underestimate the significance of body fat percentage on attractiveness.That Jason Momoa picture is exactly what dadbod is supposed to mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 07:59 PM |
| 23 | Do women value a guy’s status or overall looks more?Looks, hands down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isI have a problem with your range of 16-19. Someone in their 30s-40s dating a 16 year old is a predator. A 19 year old is an adult who is out of high school and can make their own legal decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isWell obviously, no one here is defending adults dating children. The whole conversation is only about adults in age gap relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe body still changes because of the stomach stretching out. It’s hard to have a totally flat stomach after pregnancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you don’t find women attractive after giving birth, then don’t have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | People with non-traditional/unorthodox/alternative relationships, how do you make it work?We don’t have any kids, and we probably won’t either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | People with non-traditional/unorthodox/alternative relationships, how do you make it work?I married the first man I ever slept with, he had been with over 100 women before me. He’s also 7 years older. We are completely monogamous, and it rarely comes up as an issue. The only thing that leads to some resentment is that he has certain fetishes I don’t want to participate in, and one of my main reasons for not budging is that he had 100+ other women he could have tried that stuff with but didn’t. I have some fetishes he’s not into, which I’ll never get the chance to act on, but I accept… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:38 PM |
| 18 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.When it comes to slightly chubby women, there is a sizeable number of men who prefer that body type over slim. If a woman is a little chubby (not fat or obese) but has a defined waistline, curves, etc, she’s not going to have as much success as a slim woman, but she’s not going to struggle either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.Maybe so, but I’m 28 years old. If I haven’t found even one man with a beard attractive yet, it’s unlikely to ever happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.Why would someone’s family care if a guy is tall or not? I’m not claiming it’s never happened to anyone ever, but I can’t imagine anyone, even the most overbearing parents, caring about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.I cannot get into R&B at all. Some rap is alright, but R&B sucks imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.Not necessarily. Sometimes a guy will be attractive enough in every other department to cause someone to overlook one particular trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.I doubt that most women are getting pressure from their families to dump short men. I’ve never heard of anyone doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.Some preferences are requirements though, in the sense that they’ve never been attracted to someone that doesn’t mean that requirement. For instance, I’ve never been attracted to a guy with a beard. Even my biggest celebrity crushes who are 10/10, if they’re in a film and they have a beard in that film, I’m not even slightly attracted to them in that film. If i were single and I met a man with a beard and felt an attraction to him, I’d have gone out with him. But because I’ve never been attracte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 05:08 PM |
| 2 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.To me, it includes requirements and preferences. My “type” is white men with a non-American accent who are tall, clean-shaven/light stubble, have nice hair, and are muscular. That’s my ideal man, those aren’t all requirements. I’m kind of only into white guys (for the record, I’m mixed race), so that’s kind of a requirement. A non-American accent is a preference, I never made it a requirement since I live in the US. For height, the taller the better, but I’ve found a few guys shorter than me att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Just because most men are chubby, doesn't mean chubby is now an average 5 outta 10 guyIf you honestly find all female faces unattractive without makeup, that’s kind of the definition of having an unrealistic standard. I’d argue that everyone is better looking with makeup; but finding natural faces atrocious is kind of odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Just because most men are chubby, doesn't mean chubby is now an average 5 outta 10 guyEveryone defines 5/10 differently. To me, a 5/10 guy is someone completely inoffensive, their looks don’t stand out to me at all. I’d have never gone out with a 5/10 though. But to address your specific point, a chubby (dadbod type, not obese) man can be a 5/10 if his face is alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 01:21 PM |
| 7 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenA man can get one at any pharmacy, over the counter, for $25. He can test the kid without the mom ever knowing. If he’s the father, he can dispose of the test and never mention it, and his wife will never have any idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenA workplace of mine started mandating clear bags to prevent theft. I asked for a few extra weeks to get the bag, claiming I ordered it and it was coming from Amazon but the shipping got delayed. In the meantime, I found another job, and no call no showed the place mandating the bags. I won’t work for someone who treats me that way. Flying on a plane is optional, I accept the body scanner because I want to be able to fly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenI’m okay with more crimes being solved. A DNA database for that purpose is something I’d support. But it shouldn’t be accessed for any other reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:33 PM |
| 0 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenLess than 100 years ago, the Nazi regime tried to completely eradicate certain races from their country. Surely you can see how some ethnic minorities might not want their DNA on file by the government. All you need is some psychotic racist to come to power and check out the DNA database to decide who to target. Owning a cell phone and getting a covid vaccine are optional. Having DNA is not. If you argued that there should be a government DNA database to make it easier to find people who committ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenWe don’t need to waste government recourses on personal problems. A guy who suspects his wife of cheating is free to go out and pay for a DNA test. If he can’t afford it; then he shouldn’t have a kid in the first place. If he’s afraid it will lead to an argument, that’s his problem, not something the government needs to cater to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenI’ve never cheated in my entire life and never even considered it. If I had just given birth and my husband asked for a DNA test because he didn’t trust me, I’d consent to the test, no problem, but once he finds out the kid is his, he’s only seeing them once every other week, because I’ll be filing for divorce. If someone has such a hard time trusting their wife, then they shouldn’t be having kids with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Parental DNA test for all newly born children3-10% was probably correct prior to birth control pills and legalised abortion. These days I’d say it’s closer to 1% at most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenI don’t believe tests should be imposed on people without their consent (or in the case of a baby, without the parents’ consent. A father can already get a DNA test if he has suspicions, we don’t need to mandate tests for the 90-97% of babies who aren’t born to a different father. Also, we have to accept that there are men who would really prefer not to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Why is fertility and birth rates a non issue in the West?I’m talking about your average childfree socialists. Most are lower middle class people who can’t afford kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 06:20 AM |
| 12 | Why is fertility and birth rates a non issue in the West?A lot of people in the West, especially in the US, have to decide between having kids or having a comfortable lifestyle. It’s not surprising that a lot of the people not having children are socialists, not being able to have kids because you will never be able to afford it can easily push people into being critical of capitalism. I’m not going to be in a financial position to have kids during my childbearing years. I mean, I could, but it would mean living paycheck to paycheck and being resentfu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | what percentage of women would be willing to do a poly/open relationship?A lot of cars are driven by more than one person within a family, and the majority of families consist of a heterosexual couple. Your solution isn’t terrible, but it’s not cost-effective or the most efficient solution. A better solution would involve testing cars for safety at different heights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | what percentage of women would be willing to do a poly/open relationship?A lot of cars are driven by more than one person within a family, and the majority of families consist of a heterosexual couple. Your solution isn’t terrible, but it’s not cost-effective or the most efficient solution. A better solution would involve testing cars for safety at different heights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 10:22 PM |
| 3 | what percentage of women would be willing to do a poly/open relationship?It’s not entirely about distance from the steering wheel. Also, the average woman has shorter arms and legs than the average man. Even most guys considered very short are still taller than the average woman (5’3”). Women also have a different bone structure than men. I work in architecture. A design is supposed to conform to the user, rather than expecting half of the users to change their bodies to conform to the design. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 07:52 PM |
| 3 | what percentage of women would be willing to do a poly/open relationship?I’d never be a jerk to someone on a date if they said they were poly, or start debating the merits of their lifestyle, but it would be the last date, so yeah, I’d rather someone give me a heads up and not waste my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 07:47 PM |
| 3 | what percentage of women would be willing to do a poly/open relationship?I know more than 5 people in open relationships. For some of them, it’s a case of, they aren’t exactly sexually active with each other, but breaking up or getting a divorce would not be financially beneficial so they have an open relationship and do their own thing. For the others, they’re just very leftist people who consider monogamy to be oppression, but they always have some sort of relationship drama going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 07:45 PM |
| 5 | what percentage of women would be willing to do a poly/open relationship?If you’re looking for a relationship where she’s monogamous and you get to sleep around, or you get to select all her other partners or something, it’s going to be nearly impossible to find someone who wants to go along with that. Unless you’re a celebrity or multimillionaire (and the woman will put up with a lot of nonsense just to have that lifestyle), it’s not going to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 07:42 PM |
| 15 | Change.org Petition Against Reddit's New Block FeatureI support the new block feature. If I block someone, I don’t want them seeing my posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Dexa scan study comparing US Men/Women various agesI’m 28 and a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot really. She’s conventionally attractive, he’s not. He’s 5’4” and his face isn’t exactly handsome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Dexa scan study comparing US Men/Women various agesBecause of hips and ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Dexa scan study comparing US Men/Women various agesI’m not fat, but I find strong muscular men with large dicks attractive. Slimmer women can usually afford to be more picky, and most of them are going to choose stronger men with bigger dicks. There aren’t many slim women into weak men with small dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Younger women, do you agree with the pretty boy aesthetic being attractive to women at all? And to what extent do you think that redpillers are right about what women want?Henry Cavill has a lot of nerdy hobbies. Being handsome and fit doesn’t mean you’re not nerdy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 04:19 PM |
| 0 | Younger women, do you agree with the pretty boy aesthetic being attractive to women at all? And to what extent do you think that redpillers are right about what women want?Basically, long enough that it can be styled (I’m fine with the sides being super short/shaved), but not long enough that it hangs past the ears or anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Younger women, do you agree with the pretty boy aesthetic being attractive to women at all? And to what extent do you think that redpillers are right about what women want?It’s attractive to some women, that’s not my type though, I prefer more masculine looking men. My type is basically short hair (not bald or buzzed), muscular, and clean-shaven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Female beauty standards are not that hard to achieve.A man isn’t usually considered unattractive for not doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Female beauty standards are not that hard to achieve.There are lots of men with buzz cuts who wear t shirts and cargo shorts, and they expect women to find them attractive. Obviously it’s not successful for most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notSome women find him super attractive. He doesn’t do anything for me though, he’s very average to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notShe’s obese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notShe’s bald, that is a turn off to a lot of guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notI’m in shape, dress well, and have 20/20 vision, and he’s not my type, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notThat’s a bad example, JGL is in a suit, clean shaven, with styled hair, in good lighting, the other guy is in a t-shirt, bad lighting, and hasn’t done anything to dress up or prepare for a red carpet event. Put JGL in a plain t-shirt with messy hair and not shaving in a day or two, and they’ll be at the same level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notHe’s like a 5-6 to me. There’s nothing wrong with him, but he doesn’t really have any redeeming physical features either. I don’t consider him “moderately attractive”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 05:06 PM |
| 3 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckBeing sexually caused by someone you don’t want to have sex with is meaningless. I’m sure that most men could find obese old women who want to have sex with them. Are they going to take them up on that offer? To use your comparison, that would be like dropping a bunch of broken down junk cars that don’t start in someone’s front lawn and telling them they should be grateful that they have multiple cars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckNot if we use the same definition of success that you used in this post, which means being completely satisfied with sex and relationships, with people you’re incredibly attracted to, on the schedule/timeline that you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | If all women suddenly become equally really unattractive/ugly, how would society/dating change?Beauty standards would change. There’s a reason men are attracted to women with two eyes and not women with three eyes, that’s because that’s the norm. If every woman suddenly became obese, for instance, either men would develop an attraction to that, or the human race would die out in the next 100 years. There would still be some hierarchy in terms of more and less desirable or body types, but any man who only liked skinny women would be treated the same as men who have fetishes for 10’ tall wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 07:57 PM |
| 2 | A guy doesn't have to be handsome to be sexually attractiveHot guys aren’t on Reddit looking for dating advice. Also, I’ve noticed that hot misogynists never end up with more traditional women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | A guy doesn't have to be handsome to be sexually attractiveIt depends on the woman. If I don’t find a guy’s face attractive, he can have a 10” dick and six pack abs and I’m still not interested. A close friend of mine is the opposite, she cares more about the body. That being said, what I consider an attractive face might be different to what someone else might think is an attractive face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ?I’m just saying, objectively speaking, most people can’t tell the difference between such a small amount of weight. And I don’t mean in the sense of “it doesn’t matter if he/she gained a few pounds”, I mean, you literally wouldn’t even notice on most people. The exception would be short women (or very short men), or someone who was very skinny to begin with. On a taller woman or your average sized man, it’s not going to be noticeable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 12:59 AM |
| 3 | If you propose to your partner and they say no is the relationship over? Why or why not?I wouldn’t be opposed to a lifelong companionship without marriage in theory, but there are things I wouldn’t do with a boyfriend that I would with a husband. I’d never buy a house with someone I wasn’t married to, but I also wouldn’t contribute to a down payment or the mortgage of a house I didn’t own. And I wouldn’t want to rent my entire life, so the only way I’d even consider a non-marriage relationship would be if either he owns the house and doesn’t expect me to contribute to it, or I own … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ?15 lbs is barely noticeable on most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 07:01 PM |
| 4 | What's a belief you hold that the ideology you identify with would vehemently deny?But men should realise that a VP of a company is far less likely to seek or be granted alimony in a divorce. A guy married to a VP of a company isn’t going to get fucked over in divorce court. A guy married to a barista with little education will be the same one complaining about gold diggers in a few years after his divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketWomen do approach, but only if they’re incredibly attracted to the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 04:21 PM |
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