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sounds like the pool party hasn't started then :P
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/22 10:50 PM
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I feel like a lot of this talk occurs on social media/instagram. These are places with completely distorted views of reality. Look critically around you, obviously everyone is shopping around for their best mate - and money is nice plus (as are good looks) - but human relations are a negotiation. If a woman says she really wants a rich guy, she's going to pay for that somewhere. If a guy says he really wants a hot girl, he's going to pay for that somewhere. It's just a negotiation of how much yo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/22 12:37 PM
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this is super interesting. What about the middle school guy? He just sat on his ass and didn't try to move on to find someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 12:26 PM
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Your question is about feelings ('turn on', 'turn off'). How can boners be hypocritical XD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:40 PM
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i bite my thumb at you sir
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:32 PM
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A lot of people here are going to give you a rationalization but tbh i don't think it's valid. It's just because they feel the need to have a rational explanation that will prevent them from being 'wrong' in a fight against 'team woman'. (this comment can probably be pasted to 99% of ppd threads btw) The reality is that is just triggers disgust. The higher the n count the more disgust. Why? idk, we can theorize about it all day. But it just does, and that's the end of it. There's something sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:56 PM
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To be honest, this question was only meant for “alpha males” guys who can get sex easly from women. and how many of those do you expect to find here haha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:51 PM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:39 PM
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you're welcome sweet cheeks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:36 PM
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wow we're all so proud of you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:33 PM
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but i'm not insulting you. i'm just saying you have an abysmal grasp on reality and you've made a terrible post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:28 PM
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And you are confusing your laptop with the stove
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:27 PM
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but i'm not angry. you're projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:17 PM
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something tells me you of all people would never run out of things to complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:14 PM
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tbh i would but i don't think i can correct in one reddit comment your abysmal grasp on reality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:13 PM
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i love how you added military service to this haha. I would say 2 years mandatory military or 5 years served in reserve as a lumberjack.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:51 PM
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That's funny, i was going to say the exact same thing about women XD. the delusion is strong in this one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:49 PM
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this is such a terrible post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:33 PM
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We can sit and theorize all day but the short answer is because some women never run out of things to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:27 PM
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pretty much. Men *usually* increase or stabilize in attractiveness as they age, women usually don't. I think it's more likely that women are the victim of dead bedrooms than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:18 AM
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that's interesting. I always wondered how deadbedrooms work. I feel if i were in that situation i'd just start chatting up girls and eventually just 'cheat' on my partner. Because would it really be cheating if we're not having sex anyway? edit: I wouldn't cheat on her emotionally, just sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:13 AM
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AMEN
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:08 AM
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they have been chosen to bring balance to the force
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:07 AM
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Yup. All that's missing is an identical post where you swap the words men and women and we can close PPD tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:03 AM
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I love those ideologies that tell you "we are the good people but we have to act evil, for a greater good". Always produces great results. My toothbrush mustache is tingling with excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:57 AM
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thank da lawd yeezus for dat upper back strength. long live the patriarchy!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:49 AM
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ITS THE TRUTH
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:46 AM
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As chief meat-gatherers of the tribe it is of primal importance for the men of the group to be happy. Otherwise everything would fall apart. This is an important thing to remember and women forget !!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:45 AM
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i'd reread my comment a few times and try to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:13 PM
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i'd reread my comment a few times and try to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:09 PM
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Oh goodness, you have to work to pay your rent. That seems really unfair. We need a woman president to fix this. And its almost as if you don't give a shit about understanding my point, despite conversing with me: as a woman your personal life is just that - your personal life. The cute girl at the cashier has no problem finding a fulfilling relationship, having a family etc.. once she punches out. The guy at the cashier? 'Hmm... he's nice sweetie, but don't you want a husband with a little more…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:39 PM
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I have yet to meet a man who is intimidated by a smart, accomplished woman. Here's the real mechanic at play: most women want powerful men power is relative to your station. it basically means look up the higher 'up' she is, the less prospects her inner sexual preferences allows her to have. that's grade 1 math. Men aren't going to approach her because they know they're just going to get rejected by her because of her insanely high standards. (which she is most certainly entitled to have, no cri…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:27 PM
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you have watch a youtube makeup tutorial or two, sit in front of the mirror for 15 min to put on a little makeup and maybe put on a cute pushup bra. What a crime. Men work like dogs to have good jobs because women are attracted to power. And as the disposable sex you either fight for that ladder climb 24/7 for *years* on end, or you just end up alone. How can you even compare the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:26 PM
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Interesting insights. Yes i think one day it will enter the popular mind how little us men are allowed to be 'ourselves'. Women also feel like they have to 'pretend' sometimes. For example when it comes to telling jokes, some of them try to avoid doing so in front of men because it makes them look unfeminine. However i don't think they realize how good they have it - with us holding up this veneer of their conception of masculinity is a 24/7 job. I mean just take how women are significantly more…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:10 PM
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super interesting. And yeah i think there's so much about being a man that women just don't understand. A lot of the more radical feminists are victims of putting the man's life on a pedestal. Trust us ladies - our dopamine neurons aren't firing any more or less than yours. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:54 AM
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you get them from your sexual partners whoever they may be ....... why are you gendering STDs XD. Do you take offense if I say syphilis is the "Jewish Disease?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:43 AM
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Yup. But to be fair, on your last sentence, you can't really blame women for it. It's just how their sexuality works. A big component of female sexuality is who you are as a person. Its just how their vagina's work, you can't really blame them for it. But you sure as shit don't have to put up with any woman giving you a holier than thou "i'm not the problem you are" attitude. (as we can see u/00Starved00 doing)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:40 AM
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you know men can also get STDs you little genius
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:33 AM
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It's more nepotism probably. It's all about group affinity. Which is why i think it's funny when women talk about the patriarchy as if they wouldn't have done the same if they'd only 'been given the chance', so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:29 AM
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yup. bi girl? awe thats cute. bi guy? disgusting what a sex-obsessed pervert. Elephant in the room. Never tell a girl if you're bi, its game over for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:25 AM
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OK - I think you nailed down the data but have the wrong conclusion. Everything you said is true but it doesn't have anything to do with gender (at least not in a blackwhite way that you put it.) Try an experiment: go on a tinder date with a girl that is below your standards. You'll realize that the real question is not gender but who in the couple has the power. If i'm on a date with a girl that i'm too good for (happens on tinder with bad pics unfortunately.) I'm immediately instinctively the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:16 AM
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the young millenials/gen z of the western world have a subpopulation that in fact do act the way he describes. But that's what it is, a small trend among certain young people. For 95% of women on the planet this is not true at all. I'm agree with you, wish it was true but wishing it ain't make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:54 AM
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i mean i get the behavior, i dont think its a bucket of crabs mentality. Every guy wants to a pretty girlfriend, if you're the guy that just pounces on every pretty girl he sees - you're doing that at the expense of your buddies. Its not 'friendly and as people' since you clearly are approaching her because she's pretty. If you spent as much time with her as you do with the fat ugly chick then you can say I'm wrong, but it's probably not the case. But at the same time i understand you that if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:42 PM
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"let's climb to the very top of this pile of ratbastards" haha this expression is epic. I wonder if these so called 'high conscientiousness" men have this thought once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:00 PM
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not necessarily. Approaching women is just such a costly behavior. You don't want to be 'that guy' that hits on every woman he sees. That shit gets tiring and the people around you will put you down for it. (whether they're justified in doing that is another question.) With tinder you can just set up 'prospective romantic' interactions with a flick of a button, which allows you to get on with your life and not think about it too much. Its not perfect but it really helps in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:52 PM
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Benevolent sexism includes the theory that "women aren't funny" (they aren't edgy/crass/male-minded enough to be so). Women not being funny isn't a theory. It's a subjective observation. Causal ones typically do. The same winds and precipitation elements that causes lighting in Australia will cause lightning in South Africa. this is really weak. i get where you're coming. And if we're studying some compound in a star 10k light years away or the flow of some neurotransmitter down some neural cave…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:09 AM
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The fact that women don't notice an unfair bias doesn't mean it isn't there. The study shows they perceive the anti-favoritism less often than the general public, that's the extent of what can be said. Err. Ok. Maybe idk, but the that seems a little off topic. I'm not sure how that demonstrates that women aren't treated unfairly. The study controls for skill and performance. It doesn't. I'm not going to argue with you that being male in those industries is not an advantage. But again, sticking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 10:23 PM
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Hmm I don't know if I believe you when you say you're at peace with being single, sorry. I too am not a fan of bullshit :) For your definition of HVM - sure whatever plays into your fantasy. Again, not judging. Every human has a different itch to scratch. For some women a 40 year old man who insists on paying for all her shit is creepy, for some its romantic. Whatever flows your boat. I guess that's the magic of human sexuality. But now that I know you target age - do you really think it's that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:28 PM
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that story about the woman in the club.. There's a difference between being honest and being a bitch. There's a nice way to say things in life without bullshiting. I'm 6'2 and I wouldve sent that bitch packing if I saw that bitch side of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:09 PM
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Yeah ok I get it. Your age kind of explains alot. Being a single woman in her mid 30s is a rough place to be if you fear being a single woman in her mid 40s. And this probably pushes you to more extreme viewpoints than you would have in your early 20s. I don't mean this in a hurtful way. Its just how life goes I guess. I don't know what your definition of HVM is though. I never pay and I've never had a shortage of chicks interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:19 PM
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sometimes you have to call a spade a spade ..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 06:46 PM
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Well first let me say, we probably live in two different worlds. So I respect your way of life, but you can't make general statements like 'in today's dating world, the onus is on the man to prove himself at first'. I would just worry about the kind of man that pays for you. (If you're still in college i would sort of get it even though its still dicey, but i'll assume you're old and have a job.) He probably has something like: A rather traditional view of men-women relations. Is that a good thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 06:06 PM
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It's weird. If she wants to know something she can ask. And if you don't want to tell her (yes boundaries are a fucking thing) you have the opportunity to say no. Going through people's stuff is creepy and shows a very basic mode of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:57 PM
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haha. made me think of that inglorious bastards scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:21 AM
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nah, trump-voter is a new flavor of crazy i'd like to sample, thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:18 AM
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In my experience, I think the answer you are looking for is: not all, but a lot. The hotter the chick the higher the likelyhood it is that any given male friendship from a dude who is of lower value, is some beta orbiting gig.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:11 AM
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what gives is that you've seen some data and drawn come conclusions from it but have not given a thought to how your sampling/sourcing is going to lead you to shitty conclusions if you don't take into account this bias. Should I ask Adolf Hitler his view on the jews and then judge the rest of humanity based on what he says? So what conclusions *should* you draw from the data you've sampled? Idk, idgaf, do your own fucking hw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:05 AM
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Ok but it's a good thing isn't it? Like i hardly fucking know the girl, why should i pay for her? What about you? are you not a strong self empowered woman? Why shouldn't you pay the bill? Are you showing me that *you* are not invested? What if I straight up said 'i expect the woman to pay'. I think your mind would melt ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 10:47 AM
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Your view of the world is just so twisted .. I'm not going to squabble with you about paying the bill. I'll just make a note that you are one or both of: too broke to pay for your own shit. entitled, because clearly the pleasure of your company is superior to the pleasure of mine. And don't get me wrong, you can get away me thinking these things about you, but you better be hot. Hotness is already something most women struggle with in the first place. Why raise the bar higher on yourself and mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 10:37 AM
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what kind of 'acting attractive' have you sniffed out in the past? any examples? just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:55 AM
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come on .... say it... say the magic words. you know you want to. "fraaaaaaaagile" "mascuuuulinityyyyy". Uff. Feel better? ^^ She'll get it, and know that YOU get it, and practically fall in love with you for just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:45 PM
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lol you don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 12:21 PM
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lol what is there to make fun of. You are the clown. Closing your eyes and pretending its the other way around doesn't make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:40 AM
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Did I say "grovel and get pushed over by whatever the tide of the time is, have no spine, say whatever it takes for the most meager amount of validation"? edit: also lol digging through my post history for a justification of *your* own behavior? wtf? you define your actions through the standards of others? again - grow a spine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:17 AM
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except we can't. because there's some very de-incentivizing laws. and there's things called martial arts if despite that you still for whatever reason feel vulnerable in your day to day life. I'm pretty sure half the dudes on the planet could kill me. You don't see me whinging about an extra muscle here and there. This has to be the most annoying fucking thing i hear
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 12:36 AM
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​ lol what a beta tip, showing empathy with a woman about her gender problems to get in her pants. You make me gag bro lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 12:33 AM
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sorry have a pretty bad flu. ​ Correction, in CSE the perception doesn't occur as often as the general public. That's not the same as saying it rarely happens Don't understand what you mean. From what i can see this study tells me sexism is not prevalent. thus cannot be considered a significant barrier for women in the field. Can you explain further? ​ Yes hedge funds/pe/ib/etc are a by and large a huge boys club, don't need a study for that :) But I think you would agree with me that the enviro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:04 PM
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Yes No. Not at all ffs. This is literally the worst fucking thing in the world. If you think about it -all this toxic masculinity shit that people keep spewing about is all hot women's faults. Look at the types of 'ideal selves' are promoted - athletes, youtubers, actors, musicians, investment bankers etc etc. If we lived in a world where hot women were just dying to snag that cancer researcher or that social worker or that dude that runs the homeless shelter, then hypergamy might be an amazing …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:59 PM
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Ver interesting. I learned something on ppd today, who would've thought :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:20 AM
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Ok well this is was really interesting. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:56 AM
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Hmm ok well now, correct me if I'm wrong, the thing we need to answer is: what attributes of an environment (eg workplace) can we agree on will allow us to generalize a study from one place to another. But on a separate note, i now read your cse study to see if it could help me answer the above question and it concludes that perceived sexism is a huge problem when it occurs, but it doesn't occur very often at all - it is the least of a womans concern when it comes to her success in cse programs.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:47 AM
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They talk about sex and women but not a out dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:58 AM
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Yeah you know its funny, several women in this thread say they are the group clown in female only contexts but then shut up around men because they say being funny hampered their femininity. So I wonder: is it men that see a female being funny as unfeminine and unattractive, or is it that these funny women are inherently unfeminine and unattractive and when they get the spotlight of men on them they are made aware of it so they shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 09:33 PM
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Well the reason i think this is because even when i ask my female friends what they think, and they think females are far more vicious and calculating. Probably because that is by and large the power game they play their whole existence through time. Men? just fight it out and arbiter things that way. A man can only push another man so far before things get physical. true crime comment - I don't think that is relevant to day-to-day cruelty and manipulation that I am referring to. the threads of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 09:25 PM
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I'm not sure I follow what you're saying. You claim sexism in the workplace is why females in in the context of female comedy struggle to rise to the top. You provide a study showing sexism in the workplace is real in another field as evidence. I say the work context is different so you can't use that study to prove it, because we know that in other work contexts sexism works against men so we know dynamics change across work context. what is your response to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 08:21 PM
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mmm i think you're going to have to flesh out the entire syllogism for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:56 PM
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Lol i dont think that's true. I can't recall a single dick joke by a good comedian.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:48 PM
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funny is relative. I'm showing an example that is specific to me. I didn't know i had to take you into account Mr.TwentyX4
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:48 PM
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Yeah its odd. There's something about making a pretty girl laugh/smile that i wonder if girls will ever understand. its like a shot of heroin through your body, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:39 PM
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A. Ok you cannot say 'that's not my experience' to a question that is asking you about your experience \<sup>\</sup><sup>.</sup> I'm just curious about sampling people. This is not a CMV. If you had to think of the top 5 funniest people across all your social groups in your life, what are their gender? that's all. The office is just a token example. B. Ok this is interesting. You clam up because you are traumatized by the threat of physical assault you faced when you were 12 when you tried to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:38 PM
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yeah sure. my question wasn't only tailored to female comedians, i meant women in general in your life as well. I think i talked too much about comedians in the description which sort of veered the thread in that direction. But yeah i mean the only thing i would say to you is to keep in mind 'funny' is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:23 PM
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Yes i was not saying no women ever is not funny. I have some girl friends that i think are funnier and cleverer than me, there's (admittedly a very select few) professional female comedians that i think are funny. The point of the question is just to sample by and large in your personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:21 PM
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if you ask yourself 'who is the funniest person in the office?' what is that person's gender. edit: why do you think it's habit?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 04:01 PM
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its a little funny, not very. But what is the point that you are making?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 03:41 PM
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Are you a man or a woman? There's this interesting line in 'The Game' by Neil Strauss. He says "Never let a woman take over the conversation, she'll make it boring and then blame you for it."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 03:19 PM
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ok but once you grow out of the jungle that is being 12 why does the phenomenon persist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 03:13 PM
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The Lord hath spoken
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 03:06 PM
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haha yes Bill Bur. You're talking about one of the greatest american comedians of all time. very very few men can be 10% as funny as this guy too you know ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:53 PM
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in my experience lesbians are the least funny people (to me) on the planet. I love that Jim jefferies bit where he makes a joke about lesbians and then says he's glad there's probably no lesbians in the audience because 'laughter isn't their thing ' XD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:51 PM
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You know (don't take this as a sexist remark) its odd - i would've thought that female humor is far more mean spirited than male since (and i maybe totally wrong with this but this is what i believe so far in life) women are more cruel than men and more often so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:50 PM
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hmm so the funny girl inside every female is this unicorn that needs to be coaxed out. am taking note
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:46 PM
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Idk where is the RCT that shows you your mom loves you, that the bus might be late etc .. I think its nice that you feel the need to fall on the other spectrum of this sub which is heavily skewed towards trauma-induced bullshit rants, but you make the mistake of being too close-minded. Before i run a regression i need to have a hunch of what data to gather. i don't understand what you mean by "difference of opinion" in quotation marks. But it isn't well reasoned, that's the point sorry. It just …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:44 PM
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hmmm sounds pretty sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:26 PM
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nice, very interesting. a follow up question. Did the men actually find you 'funny'? I'm sure the women did - but did the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:23 PM
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do you think because lots (much more than women) of guys embrace the 'funny guy' gimmick that it leads to some of them just getting good at it, thus leading to "men being on average a lot funnier than women"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:36 AM
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hmm ok so i'm learning something. Women sample woman humor more and men sample male humor more, so the likelyhoods they find more outliers in the data (very funny people) in their respective populations could be higher. Interesting consideration. Are you a man or a woman? Why is it irl women and in media men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:33 AM
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Yes but flashnews most knowledge we hold isn't backed by hard science. Don't you think its a little too easy to chalk it all up to sexism, cite a few unrelated sexism-in-the-workplace studies (that no-one is questioning, don't get me wrong) and call it a day? Do you think that men are on average a lot more funny than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:28 AM
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ok and in the rest of your life experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:16 AM
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People all over this thread are suggesting 'special or unique cases that would suggest that men are somehow naturally better than women'. What makes you think all those reasons are invalid? It's not like I'm asking 'Are you REALLY sure santa isn't hiding on the moon?'
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:58 AM
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you have to excuse my tiny sexist brain that cannot comprehend the wokeness of your syllogisms
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:55 AM
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CUZ WE GREW A PAIR. jk. hmm interesting no one in this thread has said something like this. you think girls have an inability to grow a thick skin? at least in a humor context? explain
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:54 AM
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haha clever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:52 AM
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yeah ok so i think we're sort of in agreement. I've been mentioning how guy groups have the guy clown and girl groups have the girl clown, but when the two mix the girl clown stays silent and the guy clown keeps at it. what do you think prompts this shyness, why do you think comedy hinders her outward appearing femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:52 AM
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something alot of ppl have brought up. There's a trend for top male comedians to go between male and female issues while top female comedians tend to put more emphasis on female only issues. food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:48 AM
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haha loving the conviction ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:45 AM
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Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:44 AM
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whats the theory, im curious. I think everything you said so far is pretty sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:35 AM
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maybe. but that doesn't seem very strong of a case to make. Different places different dynamics. Some workplaces have sexism against men, you cant transplant the study there. So idk if its that easy :/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:29 AM
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so explain to me why a study about cse programs can be copy pasted to any industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:14 PM
1

hahaha. Yes not enough women slipping on banana peels is the solution. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:06 PM
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Well I don't think i hate them but yeah there's always the possibility that i subconsciously (that magic word that you can use to convince anyone of anything ^^) hate them and that shines on the surface as my preference for males in comedic context.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:04 PM
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you know i'd type out a response to what you said but i don't think i'll get anything useful out of it. enjoy being dumb <3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:01 PM
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Yeah but i've noticed when girls are amongst themselves they make just as many jokes. I've seen this so much when they don't know they're being seen by guys or when its just them and their gay dude friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:53 PM
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well humor is subjective. And we all experience life a little differently. This isn't a pissing contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:48 PM
1

that's interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:45 PM
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yeah i guess thats always a risk that every social group i've been a part of coincidentally has that characteristic and i'm drawing a line where i shouldn't. If you believe that - why would you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:42 PM
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ok little miss feisty. How do YOU know why that is. how do you know is the same reason? Yeah i heard this too, which is why i put it up as a thought I am allowed to conclude that 'men are funnier than women' because it's a personal opinion. I am not crucifying anyone that thinks the contrary. Don't think you're smarter than you are please. Well idk, i would argue that they are funny. maybe instead of hiding (insecurely i bet) behind sarcastic phrasing you can make a clear point about what you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:36 PM
1

hmm that's odd
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:29 PM
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i've observed that the 'women clowns' stay quiet in intersex group situations while the 'men clowns' continue to try to be funny. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:26 PM
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hmmm why do you find women funnier than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:24 PM
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fair enough. Last question the class/office/<group> clown is almost always a man. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:18 PM
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agreed, being funny can give you a nudge upwards as a man, not true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:16 PM
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yeah but the class/office/<group> etc.. clown is almost always a man, how do you explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:15 PM
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hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:02 PM
2

haha was aware amy schumer had a bit on that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:02 PM
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What do you guys think about Mulaney in this context? he looks pretty preppy. Although for the record i don't think he's funny at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 07:16 PM
1

great. are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 07:12 PM
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ok that's interesting. Since humor is subjective - why did you think the males were funnier? can you recall?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 07:04 PM
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yes!! in social groups there's the clown in the female group and the clown in the male group, maybe the clown in the female group fades out in intersex situations because she knows the dudes aren't going to find her funny, while the male clown knows how to make jokes that are funny to both sexes? This is interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:50 PM
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you got a link? curious to see what this looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:47 PM
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fair enough. I somewhat agree with your first comment tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:47 PM
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i think you are an outlier in the data, will not take into account XD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:42 PM
1

ok. why do you think it is and what is your gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:35 PM
1

hmm yeah good points
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:34 PM
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ok that's interesting. So it's simply because you're a woman you find woman-humor funnier, and because I'm a man I find man-humor funnier?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:33 PM
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It is to a certain extent. And in a way i feel it sort of explains why humor is a guy thing and not a girl thing. Humor when applied properly: shows confidence, allows to control the conversation, can be used to attack status of someone else etc.. These things when applied to a man helps his status. But female status is mainly looks-driven. You can blackpill all you want, if there's a "10/10 looks" pretty boy in the group that is made to look like a bumbling ass via humor by a "8/10 looks" dude,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:30 PM
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I wonder if there are ugly female comedians who make jokes about the double-standard there is betwen ugly women and hot women. I'd watch that ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:20 PM
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>> women have no need to be funny. not true. I think alot of women groups have their own 'group clown'. Just this group clown stays quiet when men are present, while the male group clown operates in both single-sex and mixed-sex conditions. thoughts on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:17 PM
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lol you have to expand on the premises that led to this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:12 PM
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I mean the premise of racist/sexist/<offensive> etc.. humor is how fucked up it is, so is it really punching down when the premise is how not-OK the joke is? If CK makes a racist joke about black people and Chappelle makes a racist oke about black people is it not the same thing? Also you didn't really answer my question ..... just fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:11 PM
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that's interesting. Don't take this the wrong way - do you like most men in general? If you're being truly honest with yourself. The reason i ask is because if you don't like a person you won't find them funny so maybe that's the issue. And I find alot of people on this sub have a sheer trauma induced hatred of the opposite sex they aren't fully aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:03 PM
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ok but here's one of my favorite bits by a woman comedian: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2m2mkTsBs9w i do believe it falls under the " male-inaccessible aspects of the female experience " category. yet i find it funny. thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:01 PM
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Yes I agree with this. Here's a more interesting question: i've noticed girl groups also have their own 'group clown', just like male groups. (And probably this girl is playing this role for the same reason of her male counterpart in the other group.) *But* when the groups mix it's always the guy that takes the role of group clown for the new mixed group! why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:57 PM
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do you think there's a loose paradox for women to be top comedians: In order to be funny you need to have had something to compensate for. In order for people to want to watch you on TV/Live/Movies you need to be pretty. thus 1 and 2 rarely coexist! (I say 'rarely' instead of 'never' because you can have both, some pretty women have terrible self image thus you can be pretty AND feel like you need to compensate for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:50 PM
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Hmm ok so you think jokes/humor are/is gender neutral its just the 'hyper alpha' factor that you find in select few men that results in most top comedians being male (because they just worked alot harder at it.) So what's your perspective on this: the class/office clown is usually male, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:45 PM
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hmm i would disagree about incorrect feedback - ugly girls know what's up. Most girls don't suffer from the skewed feedback of 'hot girl syndrome'. So i don't think your thought is complete
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:07 PM
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ok perfect. That's what i was leaning towards then in my head: men prefer men making jokes and women prefer women making jokes. Is it a question of likeability then? We can hear the same joke from two different people and find the joke two different levels of funny. Or is it the source material itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:05 PM
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how can i rephrase? 'do you think men are on average alot funnier than women?'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:50 PM
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I think these men that you are referring to are just very out of touch with reality. Human beings are doing whatever they can in their best interest. Each individual man and woman plays the field to get their max outcome. How can you reproach them of doing this when you are doing the same? It's magical thinking that the 'women of this earth' are going to pile in a room and listen to your little 'woe is me' soapbox speech and you are going to make any change whatsoever. The 'modern world' is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:40 PM
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Sure they do. Just most men prefer hanging out with other men and most women prefer hanging out with other women. We're more attuned with each other. On average I find women alot less funny, less engaging and less likable than men. But i respect that women may feel that about men. Its just the way the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:26 PM
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If that's what flows your boat then sure why not. Personally the love/affection i receive is weighted by how much i wish to show that person love/affection. The love of several legions of low SMW girls doesn't hold a candle the the love/affection of one person i really care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:59 PM
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Depends where you live. In scandinavia its downright rude to pay more for a woman than she pays for you. In the rest of europe its usually 50-50ish for most people. In africa its 100-0. In america its somewhere between africa and europe. Depends on the person. Making 'all men' or 'all women' statements and not taking in any kind of context whatsoever you're kind of shooting yourself in the foot from the getgo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:42 PM
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If sex isn't important to the relationship, it's better off as a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:39 PM
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there's girls giving out free bjs in port-a-potties at festivals? wtf. how i was no clued in on this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:39 AM
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every. fucking. day. My homophobic slurs are now uttered out of sheer jealousy for those fgts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:32 PM
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dude, this is like the answer to almost every question on here. The problem is that finding data and* rigorously thinking about problems is difficult and gets in the way of people's pre formed opinions they are dying to vent out. I wish there was a sub where the focus was more on discussing actual papers that are being published on this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:04 PM
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ok that's your personal theory, where's the data for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:03 PM
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wat. can you expand on that last point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:57 PM
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another thread with shitty assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:16 PM
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nothing man. the power of the mind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:33 PM
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oh woops. forgot to check the username before commenting ^^. As you were, deaf pit of trauma induced hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 12:22 AM
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what kind of betas stick around with a girl that's too prude to have sex by the 3rd date wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:52 PM
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This is fucking stupid. I never took part in those subreddits but i respect their right to exist. They're trying to remove controversy. The world is not meant to be all peachy and roses!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:47 PM
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this sub is just one false dichotomy after another ..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 03:27 PM
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this is also a good answer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:55 PM
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I'm glad you put this idea forward! Here are my thoughts: (sorry its a bit long!) While I agree with what you are saying - i don't think your idea is complete. i would add that actually a very significant amount of blue-pill talk is merely virtue signaling (which i still categorize as 'malicious'). The mechanics behind this are as follows: Showing that you believe people are honest in their intentions shows that you are someone with honest intentions (therefore making people trust you more) Spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:51 PM
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I'm not patronizing you its just you refuse to acknowledge what I'm saying, as if you're talking to yourself. You can have a burger AND true love. You can have a career AND a wonderful relationship. The opposite sex is not here to fuck you and rob you out of your existence. You just need to learn to put boundaries around your life. Enough of this black and white bullshit please
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:49 PM
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Yes and so is eating a burger. I don't say "either i can find true love or i can eat this burger" Just admit you don't really have a point and were just venting and we can end this conversation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:15 PM
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i think you need to calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:16 AM
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yes but where can we find a community full of people who actually want to behave normally? is there another subreddit we can go to? i've been browsing this sub for 4 days and the hate filled pity parties are already too much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:07 PM
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i was in norway specifically for 3 months. Saw the most gorgeous girl in the world leave the bar with 3 black dudes that looked fresh of the senegalese boat. They don't give a fuck xD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:56 PM
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idk, i'm not here as an ambassador for what other ppl have said
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:36 PM
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disagree on the height thing actually, my friend in denmark is a younger prettier version of scarlett johanson. her boyfriend is shorter than her. and the dude's a freakin waiter. god bless him he warms my heart and gives me hope
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:30 PM
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Yes! people who have never been validated in a social context and have this totally distorted view on how other people feel/are!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:50 PM
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I think TRP is very useful for naive people who constantly put women on a pedestal. Learning game is really really important to a certain extent. But understand the limits of it (eg: context is everything). Even some blackpill stuff is interesting. But remember at some point you have to stop playing games and live your life. Is making your girlfriend feel like she's lucky to have you important? ofc. But is having a secure and loving person as your partner going to make you happier? yes as well. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:47 PM
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okok don't assum i'm saying WWIII is around the corner because of incels. But building a propensity towards nihilism (which is what blackpilling does) makes people do bad things. I think it's fair to say that. In what capacity? i'm not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:37 PM
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yup! look at japan!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:34 PM
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sure, now you're putting forth an argument of proportions. you phrased your earlier comment in terms of absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:34 PM
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your career is never going to wake up next to you and tell you it loves you either.. love involves risk. Why is this sub full of risk aversive people? why do you pit your career against love?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:30 PM
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>> bonobos are what lefties and poly people pull out of their asses to prove bullshit lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:28 PM
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which is hilarious to me as someone who spent some time in scandinavia where dead-average looking black dudes are picking up 10/10 blondes left and right bc being a young confident black dude is kind of a new 'in' thing in these countries. what a world we live in huh edit: this was not meant as a racist comment haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:26 PM
3

he is the chosen one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:21 PM
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yes but surprise surprise not just any dick will do. male prostitution and jigolos are a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:18 PM
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" remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore." The delusional cringe behind this statement. uff. See you in therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:15 PM
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idk tbh. i'm too young (27) to speak in terms of 'long term happiness' which is what i think we're all looking for. The only thing i'll note is that eventually all your friends that choose to partner up and start a family will have increasingly less time for you so it's worth bearing that in mind. I've just noticed that whenever i feel like shit about a girl situation, picking up the phone and talking to a friend for like an hour or two about something, any topic really, sometimes helps to stay …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:05 PM
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yup! Here goes my personal theory in case you care: we are including these 10/10 males as 'part of our tribe' in our head so the top 20% of the hierarchy is becoming more overcrowded and harder to get into. Before when our horizons were much more limited we found the people around us to be much more satisfying. This new shift is going to cause a fuckton of conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:14 PM
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I would add another level of dimensionality to the conversation which is even as a 10/10 gorgeous girl or as a 10/10 Dan Bilzerian you don't appreciate the things you have easily so actually one could argue that the basement dwelling lizard and Dan bilzerian can find equal amounts of happiness by being at peace with their status quo. Just a thought ...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:06 PM
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how dare you bring subtlety and nuance to the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:00 PM
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this is actually a question i think really defines our current times. I don't have an answer to this at all as i struggle with it myself. Some people bury themselves with work, some people start believing BS like chakras/energy/etc.., some people find comfort in building strong friendships, some people find power in their trauma and turn the opposite sex into a demon they must fight and it comforts them psychologically because they turned a lost battle into a potentially winnable war in their mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:39 PM
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the problem is that bitter people tend to have a distorted view of reality and come to internet forums to vent and throw themselves pity parties and as a 20yo with no life experience you might listen to some really bad advice. I find this subreddit is 10% interesting ideas 90% BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:32 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:19 PM
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haha ungrateful shrew is a new slur i should adopt ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:06 AM
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i was implying i know who the perfect woman is, not implying that i'm fucking around with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:54 PM
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yes internet stranger, you're the first person i thought of
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:51 PM
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yes but the data you use as examples are outliers .. sorry i guess i'm not familiar with your definition of 'pussy buffet' ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:49 PM
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Women are complicated creatures and hard to read when you start out. there's more than yes and no to them. Some days its yes with them, some days its no. ok well it's hard to tell you why that's the case *exactly* in your particular case but just know that it's not true. Maybe it's more psychologically comfortable for you to dismiss yourself as a victim of the world, i get it i do that too sometimes, but for what its worth: it's a lie bud. Are you ineligible for women that you deem attractive? m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:47 PM
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idk if you see life in realistic terms haha. pulling out examples of tiger woods and kobe bryant, talking about buffets of endless pussy (an exageration i get it, but still)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:29 PM
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Ok except (lucky for you i guess?) you have no fucking clue whether you have or not. This you can only know if you read the minds of every single girl that has ever looked at you. do you understand the nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:37 PM
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yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:19 PM
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it's 100% looks based for the preliminary screening. But then there's what comes out of your mouth that matters. If you're a stammering bumbling self-loathing misogynist you're not going to get very far. That's where the emotional intelligence part kicks in .. I'm using it as an umbrella term because idk what else to call it. redpill tactics are an example of this 'EQ'. but ofc they are super basic and lack nuance so obviously they don't work for everyone. They teach you how to sell a ferrari bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:00 PM
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Sure it does - the 5'3 400 pound quasimodos that have zero emotional intelligence. The rest of guys just lack resiliency, have too high standards and/or just enjoy throwing themselves pity parties. Which is fine, that's your right, it just annoys me because it's not true and understanding gender dynamics is tough enough without people saying things that are not true to make themselves feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:14 PM
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Idk - have you ever been in love? Doesn't it feel good to share your time and your life with someone? To promise with each other that you'll get through all the BS life throws at you together? Agreed that the whole legally dividing assets stuff is archaic, but most women i know in real life (and not on this apparently toxic traumatised part of the internet that i've just discovered) don't really want half your shit and find that concept shameful. edit: lol whoever downvoted me without commenting…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:07 PM
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An unattractive face is what will demand lowering standards and require increasing frequency of approaches (i know what i'm talking about) but does not in any way 'exclude' you from the dating market... Have you tried growing a beard? ( https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheMinoxBeardSpot/ )
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:55 PM
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2 and i already know her name lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:53 PM
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ah ok sorry. You know i think you're gravely mistaken on your views, not trying to throw you a pity party nor am i particularly invested in changing your pov - but i am curious what according to you does it take to be 'excluded from the dating market' as you put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:46 PM
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haha sorry i don't know what wizardom is ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:36 PM
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this has to be a troll..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:35 PM
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Currently seeing an 18yo girl and i'm 27. I'm pretty sure she looked very similar less than a year ago when she was 17. I think you shouldn't feel guilty about your sexual desires - just toe the line because it's there for a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:29 PM
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this. these redpill people tend to forget there's an investment in time and memories made with your partner. Those things slowly but surely become the most important things in your life as your age goes up. edit: downvote me without commenting and i will end ur mom
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:26 PM
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Stay skinny, hit the squat rack and become a makeup wizard - you'll be fine. Edit: I'd like to add if you're a 20yo virgin you should stay tf away from this subreddit. Go out and make some mistakes instead of seeking advice from a bunch of jaded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:23 PM
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yes nothing you said there is wrong - I'm just pointing out the fact that there's so much black and white thinking on this sub. Tom cruise is short af. People are package deals. And even some women don't care about height as much as other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:19 PM
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hmm not sure. i think they may feel this 'i feel protected' feeling in a sexual context and it is unrelated to how they actually feel in safety. Its like a nice illusory feeling to have, similar to as a guy i feel this 'masculine strength' feeling when a girl cuddles up to me - but it doesn't mean that i don't feel strong as a human being outside of this situation. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:56 PM
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hmm not sure. i think they may feel this 'i feel protected' feeling in a sexual context and it is unrelated to how they actually feel in safety. Its like a nice illusory feeling to have, similar to as a guy i feel this 'masculine strength' feeling when a girl cuddles up to me - but it doesn't mean that i don't feel strong as a human being outside of this situation. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:55 PM
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this sub is full of people who think that the majority view is the only view.. it's dumb. i wonder what the average age of the ppd person is ..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:49 PM
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Yeah you got it right. The problem is that people that think about gender issues generally do so out of trauma and makes them adopt a 'men vs women' mentality, forgetting that nobody really thinks about dynamics/mechanics etc in real life.. its just people looking out for themselves and succumbing to desires and feelings while navigating this confusing and short life we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:57 PM
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I think this is totally wrong and the biggest impediment guys have when it comes to getting laid. Can you expand more on this view?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:07 PM
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I mean it's a bouquet of a bunch of different feelings. I think different *people* *experience* love differently, and making the men/women division isn't really so useful. I think an interesting word is 'limerance'. People feel varying degrees of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:00 PM
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i don't mind that haha but they should at least comment something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:59 AM
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I'm curious what you mean by that, can you explain? Also what area of the world do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:37 AM
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I think you sort of answer your own question. You go ahead and describe different types of love (which seems valid to me) so doesn't that show that love is just an umbrella term for all sorts of emotions/dynamics that intertwine men and women? (no clue about what homosexual love is like) The only thing i would say is that long-term it seems those dynamics start to fizzle out and/or start to feel what /u/Aaren_Augustine describes. I'm only 27 so i can't speak about personal experience in that are…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:46 PM
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Well i'm sure you had some self-hate due to that, but thats besides the point. not playing psychiatrist here. I'm sorry I'm new to the sub and I see all these dudes who have this 'zero SMV' view of themselves which i don't understand. Maybe you're all 5'1 400 pound quasimodos and i need to wake tf up to my privilege, but somehow i don't believe thats the case. How many different social groups are you a part of? have you tried exploring different dominance hierarchies? long story short - no one d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:21 PM
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is it really that simple? When i have sex with girls that are actually cute it activates my dominant streak like fire. As if their femininity in turn stirs some dominant masculinity in me. Maybe the fact that people in this sub seem to struggle to have sex with somewhat attractive girls leads them into this 'monolithic view' on their own sexuality. (something that makes me think this is the case is that i only feel this irl and in porn submissive girls do nothing for me, idk)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:11 PM
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jesus do you really think that about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 10:53 PM
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Idk dude, everywhere? Again its hard to say why exactly you're struggling since I don't know you. I'm not attractive by any means but just by learning to sell myself a bit better, mixing up being 'nice' and 'disagreeable' and faking some confidence i've done pretty well for myself. I'm not a a blue pill guy, but this 'all the girls want chad' theory lacks so much basic nuance it's just outright wrong. I could say more on this but i don't want to overextend on advice giving haha edit: actually so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:51 PM
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It depends on your definition of desire, depends on the guy's sexual appetite and depends on how much he likes his girl. Personally: A hot girl is still a hot girl and i still want to have sex with her, but the girl I'm in love with has the package deal so having sex with other women loses its overall appeal since i have something more important in my life. I also found that once I grew older and slept with enough girls this became more and more true. edit: im new to this sub and to commenting o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:40 PM
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Hmm. Well that's unfortunate. Ofc i don't know what you look like and what your exterior personality is like, but it just seems to me like i'm sure you could find a 400 pound woman who would date you (as an extreme example). Also if you go older, women tend to lower their standards a bit. Maybe I'm wrong but i find this concept of sexless males to be hard to believe ..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:23 PM
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level 1sublimemongrel24 points · 1 day ago(More than 27 children) thats not true. I'm sure you're at minimum the chad of someone. You just don't acknowledge women of such low beauty standards as potential mates
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:33 PM
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i like this answer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 11:49 PM
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Idk what makes you or anyone in this thread think that this question can be answered without knowing more about you and about these girls .. there could be so many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:58 PM
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