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Yeah you really should not be insecure. She's submissive. Fucks you all the time. Gave you her password. And you can't even name one reason to be suspicious? Thats pretty good, man. I think you're jealous and insecure because you have her password, which makes you curious. Your feelings are coming from the fact that you have access to any condemning information if you wanted to find it, so you're making it up in your head. What you've clearly stated is that it has nothing to do with her, but YOU…
/r/askMRP18/08/17 04:48 AM
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Are you fucking kidding me? Women play games with their availability as tests and she has barely gotten to know him. There is no reason he couldn't game her into his best plate if he wasn't so concerned on his place with her. Some of you are so terrified of rejection lol.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 05:44 AM
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Set something up that you want to do and ask her if she wants to join. Make it clear from the start you have no intentions to be an orbiter. Kino, etc. And be okay with getting rejected if it happens. Use amused mastery and stop giving her all the power.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 05:40 AM
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Don't just fucking "next" her. It's been 10 years. Take some time to think about the pros & cons (without over-idealizing her of course). You really better think long and hard about it. Nexting her means she WILL be fucking other guys in the near future. Don't try to be faux alpha here. Are you really ready for that? Ultimatums are a huge sign of weakness and will never truly work out in the way you want them to. Read Rollo Tomassi's info on them. It's basically like trying to negotiate attracti…
/r/askTRP11/08/17 05:33 AM
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Watch this for some inspiration https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oIrT1eHs1b0
/r/askTRP11/08/17 05:05 AM
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This is actually super smart. Congrats on finding that little work around. In what way has it created the expectation of AA and AM at home?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/17 08:22 PM
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For real man. Broke up with an NPD LTR a few months ago. If it wasn't for the absolute beautiful-mess-shit-show BPD girlfriend before her which later introduced me to TRP, I would have bought into her false persona and it would've really fucked me up. Girls like this are like sirens from the Odyssey. Beautiful and captivating, but get too close and they'll make sure you drown. Good luck brother. Message me if you ever need some advice with this one.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 05:34 PM
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There's no possible way this can work well for you. Best case scenario is you befriend her and eventually use her own social circle outside of the office to get laid.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:01 PM
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LTRs should be treated differently than plates. If you're the guy who needs advice to get this question answered, you are not the guy who could pull off "had a face like Rosie O'Donnell but an ass like Kim K" in a way that would lead you to the desired result. OVERT dread will blow up in your face unless your SMV is much higher than your LTR. You should answer like this: "She was pretty. Nothing special." This does two things... 1) Fuel her competition anxiety and gets the hamster spinning. She …
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:29 AM
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Nothing more alpha than to just glance at him, let out a laugh of disappointment at the pitiful little man trying to get your attention and ignore him. Amused mastery at its finest. And never get into a bar fight. You don't know who carries a weapon, who knows MMA, who's friend keeps a bat in their trunk, etc. Its NEVER worth it in any scenario unless you, your friend, or your girl is getting physically harassed. I learned this advice from one of the toughest and biggest guys I know. If the odds…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:09 AM
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You failed a big comfort test.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:30 AM
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I've experienced something similar before. It pretty much is a shit test but there is also some truth to it. A few theories: She's an artist so she's used to dating guys who are either skinny, skinny fat, or average. Guys who are ripped are usually not artists and in her mind she probably associates them with douchebags & players. Guys with dad nods make her feel less self conscious about her own body. It probably reminds her of her own dad who is a little chubby (given she has a healthy, normal…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:13 AM
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Red Pill is a good place to ask for advice about problems with women, lifting, and general self improvement. However, it is not a good place to ask about sensitive psychological issues. These question will usually not be taken seriously and will be (as you can see) met with hostility, jokes, and trolling. You are in the wrong forum my friend. If you think you have BPD or simply need a person outside of your interpersonal life to talk to, you need to reach out to a therapist who is skilled in wor…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 02:35 AM
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You can't do anything about your face. Lol. Please accept this. The only thing you can do is get braces if you don't have really white and straight teeth or maintain a skincare regimen to get really nice skin. My advice is to... 1) Change everything you have the personal ability to change about yourself. You have the ability to get an extremely attractive body. You have the ability to make 75k+ a year. You have the ability to develop your social skills to make yourself an extremely likeable & fu…
/r/askTRP07/08/17 03:50 AM
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I mean if she's gonna cheat, let her cheat. But don't go out looking to fuck other girls in relationships or go out of your way to wreck one. You're just contributing to the culture that you hate.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 03:24 AM
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Write down a list of every conceivable thing you don't like about her on a piece of notebook paper. Your scarcity-driven lower brain (hamster) is sending you pleasure chemicals to tell you to have sex with her and reproduce. You need to use your logical upper brain to stop this repetitive thinking in its tracks by replacing it with reality. Keep this list on you or available to you. Every time you think about her, read it and imbed those hard truths into your head. Also: Start building rapport w…
/r/askTRP07/08/17 01:53 AM
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Makes sense. Sounds like this set up heavily rests on the fact that your SMV is higher than hers. You're aware of it and so is she. On top of that you're showing zero weakness because you know she's replaceable. As the core law of relationships suggests, the one with the most power is the one who needs the other the least. Now that I think of it I've been in situations where I could have kept this dynamic going, but I usually found a better looking girl(s) to invest my energy towards and ended i…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 01:25 AM
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Can you explain how you created this dynamic between you and your oLTR? Did you expect exclusivity from her as well? And in what ways did she actively support your pursuit of other women?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 06:42 PM
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You're welcome. When you're back on your feet, pay it forward with what you learned next time you see a brother in need. Btw, best piece of instant advice I can give thats completely within your control is this: Write down a list of every conceivable thing you don't like about her on a piece of notebook paper. Your scarcity driven lower brain (hamster) is sending you pleasure chemicals to tell you to have sex with her and reproduce. You need to use your logical upper brain to stop this repetitiv…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 06:32 PM
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Sounds like you might have been dating a girl with NPD. Been there. If it feels like psychological and emotional torture, it probably is. Stop blaming a scorpion for stinging you when you. Wear gloves next time.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 05:49 PM
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You're blaming her for your feelings. Stop that. It's not her fault you don't understand women yet. In your head, you should be thankful she gave you an experience that you will learn from and become a better man which will lead to you getting better women. Women are solipsistic by nature, especially if they're attractive. She never "cared". She liked what you provided for her (emotions, tingles, resources). Evolutionary biology dude! Stop living in Disneyland. Also, wtf. "If she doesn't care, I…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 05:44 PM
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Instagram is a visual game. The key to it is in curating your page to be consistent and attractive as a whole, filled with images that look good by themselves. It works best if you have a lifestyle or creative career that will make your Instagram appealing. If not, you gotta actually start doing more interesting things and going to cooler places. If you're not famous for being extremely good looking or talented, the social proof comes from the fact that you have an appealing lifestyle. Follow se…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 09:39 PM
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Get a Roth IRA.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 01:13 AM
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Yeah man it's a very useful tool. Basically it allows you to show your woman that it doesn't affect you while staying playfully dominant.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 04:48 PM
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First of all, set major boundaries with your friend. Idk your relationship with him but you need to put him in his place. Thats a huge sign of disrespect. Bring it up to him in private that if he does something like that again you're going to smack the shit out of him or start fucking with him in front of his girl. No one would blame you for putting him in his place. Be serious with him about it. Let him know he was being a shitty friend for putting you in that situation and that you expect him …
/r/askTRP25/07/17 12:03 AM
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Hey man, just wanted to drop in and say you're not alone. I'm 23 years old and have been in long term relationships pretty much the entire time since I was 17. At this moment, I'm post break-up with beautiful mess #3 for about one month. Still think about her a lot, but its getting better and I know the only reason I'm making it through is from my past experiences. The girl before her was not nearly has pretty and cool as the most recent one, but honestly I am handling the ending way better than…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 08:38 PM
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