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bluebell_88/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 12:07 AM
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Yes he's gotten worse since we had kids. He's always been a bit argumentative and nit picky, there was no honeymoon period for us to be honest but since we had kids he just seems overwhelmed. He loves the children and is overjoyed with them, but sometimes we can't be intimate because I'm busy with the kids and he acts a bit frustrated. He gets stressed with the noise they make and says sometimes he just wants to be a bachelor again. I am not painting him as a good person here because I haven't s…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 01:26 PM
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I agree and I have been finding god myself recently although he's a hardcore atheist.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 01:04 PM
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I can't say they do because I know I'm not that stupid and I don't meet the criteria for being a retard. Nothing he says is true, so yeah. Most of the time when he blames me for things I also know that they are not my fault. I get annoyed with him more than anything for ruining the harmony of our relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 12:58 PM
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He thinks he also may have Aspergers. He's never been diagnosed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 09:56 AM
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He seems to get into these bad moods mostly when he's stressed with his work or when crypto currency is low. However he's strongly denied this so I'm not sure if he's imagining it. I don't see why someone would deny something like that or what their game would be if they did. He says it's all me and my stupidity. Yes he calls me the names if I ask him not to. In fact he does it more. We do have sex. Maybe not as much since the children came along and the one year old is co sleeping and nursing w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 09:46 AM
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We are quite isolated. Neither of us has any friends or family other than each other and the kids. We don't socialize with anyone at the moment. My husband has never cared about people's approval. He wears worn out clothes and tapes his glasses together. I think he told me that he would have a more intelligent wife if he could choose to. I don't think I'm that stupid. I just find it exhausting how he over analyzes small things and I feel overwhelmed by it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 09:33 AM
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I don't think my husband recognizes his emotions. I'm starting to think that he doesn't know how to communicate with me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 09:29 AM
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I'm ugly. I'm not going to beat around the bush about it. I'm overweight and my teeth are bad. However my husband doesn't seem to care about these things. I have wanted to get my teeth fixed and he can't be bothered to drive me to see the orthodontist. We live in the middle of nowhere and he works from home and has the time. I have been asking him if I can get it done since the start of our relationship but he hasn't helped me follow through and all the finances are under his control. I have los…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 09:25 AM
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It's always happened to be honest.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 09:06 AM
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I think so, too. I think he has mentioned that he would like a wife who makes money. It makes me a little disappointed to think about it. I was institutionalized and in special education throughout my later childhood, teens and early 20s and was never educated properly. I was never prepared for a life of independence and although I have autism I am very high functioning so this screwed things up for me. When I met my husband I was working as a cleaner for some offices. There is nothing I am part…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 02:31 AM
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Maybe that would be a good idea. I hope he's open to it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 01:17 AM
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I don't feel abused. He doesn't scare me and I don't feel like his words effect me. I just don't want to lose him and I want us to have more harmony in our relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 01:13 AM
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That makes a lot of sense. I think my husband probably has issues recognizing his emotions but I'm not too sure.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 01:11 AM
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I forgot to mention that he's a very intelligent man. His IQ was tested officially and he has an IQ around 140 or so.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 01:07 AM
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I think women are too. Most women have physical standards to some degree which do of course vary just like men's do. However men are more immediately sexually aroused by visual stimuli. A woman won't get aroused by a man immediately just because she likes the way he looks and he's showing off parts of his body. I think that's what people mean when they say that men are more visual.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/22 11:14 PM
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I would rather date a man that was equal to me. I'm not an attractive woman, I have always been overweight and never got my teeth fixed and I tend to date men who are very socially awkward and genuinely nerdy or quite effeminate. I think even if they are slightly more physically attractive than me this evens things out. My husband is better looking than me I would say but he's short and bad with people and I think this evens things out. I have only ever dated delicate looking asian men or neckbe…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/22 11:02 PM
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I live in Bulgaria and I can tell you that in my experience this isn't true. I see buff or slim relatively attractive men with obese women regularly. Most couples are matched, however.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/22 10:57 PM
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