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A vasectomy is not usually on a wife’s will, that’s a bad faith exaggeration. Also a decision can’t be mutual if only one party suffers the long term consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:26 PM
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How it’s controlling to chose the amount of kids to have when you are the one risking your body and health for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:19 PM
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people generally dislike jordan peterson’s hipocrisy. that’s why we don’t care when he tries to pander to incel demographics to stay relevant. it’s not that hard to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:40 PM
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Nothing in that tiktok suggests she is a woman that wanted to ‘have it all’. It’s quite obvious she faced issues with infertility that are unusual for other women around her age, that’s why she froze her eggs at 30. Lots of women manage to have it all by the definition you gave-having a career and kids later in life is the norm in a lot of fields that are highly paid. The women that also managed to ‘get it all’ are also very adaptable individuals. Adaptability is a skill that will help the woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:02 PM
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y’all have to learn that just because people don’t agree with you that doesn’t mean they are triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:06 PM
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It’s not shaming to say something is sad. It was just an honest comment. And by the way you got triggered I know I’m right. Have a good night too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:45 AM
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For a dude so obsessed with the 2011-2019 period yet you have no idea of what emotional labour is. You also have no idea what a therapist is. Which makes it pointless to engage with someone that doesn’t even understand what he is so frustrated by (which is a sad state to be in).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:27 AM
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And the ‘polite and cold’ framing is often times just cope from people that want to evade displaying basic human decency in certain situations. Hence your first example being about not showing care or understanding towards a coworker. You were not sent to a consent class because you were assumed to be a monster. You were sent because it was a topic that starts playing a huge part in your life when you start your college years. You were already a wizard of consent and didn’t need it? Cool, I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:50 PM
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It was not the sales point. You’re intentionally leaving out the part that everyone gets something in return. Also no one is holding you at gun point to be friendly, you initiated a discussion about this sort of social dynamic and people responded to you. Be calm, I am not ever going to compliment your shirt. Your offense is irrational. I’ve made it clear many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:40 PM
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Being friendly to people doesn’t mean being manipulative or distracting them from doing their jobs. I don’t like being manipulated. But I like being friendly and interacting with friendly people. Crazy thing. That also signals to the majority of people that I have more things to offer other than my utility. Also crazy. You’re offended for an imaginary assumption you made? Sorry, no one can help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:28 PM
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The scenario I highlighted basically boils down to friendly people are more fun to be around to. I never mentioned it was about a conditional pleasantry but I see you are willing to die on that hill. It’s probably useless to mention a fourth time it was not conditional or one way but I guess that one female coworker that complimented your tshirt really scarred you for life. Seems like the pamphlet covered the basics. There are other situations in which consent comes into play. Maybe you are some…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:17 PM
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Do you think someone that’s a bitch in bar A is not also going to be a bitch in bar B? Impeccable logic dude. I didn’t explicitly said that, that’s just your own interpretation of what I said. I clarified a second time what I meant, you are just choosing to see my statement trough your ‘waHmeeN aRe ManIpuLaTiVe’ lens. I also said those type of classes help you protect yourself from certain situations. Also consent is more multifaceted then you are trying to paint it. Teens and young adults benef…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:02 PM
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Bruh this is such a word salad. You wouldn’t sniff shit because my example doesn’t mean positive behaviour it’s intentionally performed for getting something out of someone, the point is that it is rewarded by others. It’s a loop because I would also end up helping my electrician by recommending him to a friend. It’s a loop, not a one way street. Also I just gave you an example of someone displaying negative behaviours that is going to impact how others approach her in the future and then you we…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:48 PM
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There is a whole feedback loop you are ignoring in interhuman relationships. If I were to reject three guys in a cruel way, there wouldn’t be a fourth one asking me out. If I act friendly towards my electrician, I can develop a closer bond with him and maybe get some tips he wouldn’t give to some dude that just pays him. Harrasement is widespread and there are lots of unfortunate incidents that could be avoidable. Teaching young people about consent and how to protect themselves from certain sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:32 PM
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We all need other people to survive, edgelord. I’m afraid you are about to discover water is wet next. I get it now, you can’t drop the main character syndrome and think the fact you took rape classes because harassment and assault are pretty wide spread on campuses means you were considered an abuser by default. But what you fail to comprehend is that anti rape and assault classes are useful for EVERYONE regardless of gender. Everyone can be a victim. Everyone should know basic rules about cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:03 PM
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It’s not my logic, it’s YOURS. By your own faulty line of thinking all men are harassers and abusers. Do I need to pull a blackboard and show you that if a woman rejects 3 men in a cruel way, that doesn’t mean the majority of women engage in this behaviour? Jeez. No, everyone is not after their selfish motives. Most of us understand that the moment you step out your house you work towards common goals with a bunch of other people. So positive behaviour is how you facilitate both your work and pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:55 PM
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I’m not getting mad, I’m just genuinely surprised you act like you don’t see the inherent flaw in your point. I have nothing against being held to a certain standard if there’s also some logic behind it. You’re not proving with actual proof how it’s a dumb example. Show the actual proof most women do that and then you could have a counter argument to what I said. I alread said why I am ‘entitled’ to that. Reciprocating positive behaviours is what makes society works and as long as we all live in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:42 PM
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Every girl has a story about being harrased, so every man is a harasser. This is basically your logic. Yeah everyone displays immoral behaviour at least once. Doesn’t mean it’s the same behaviour for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:32 PM
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Most of women reject in decent ways. Maybe you need to reread my comment a few times in order to realise I never mentioned that ALL women do this because I kept things pretty genderless and neutral. Also you have zero proof every woman rejected someone in a cruel way at least once. I get people from more individualist societies like to have these edgy takes that ‘you’re not owed anything’, but that’s an attitude that at best doesn’t lead to progress and at worst can get pretty destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:26 PM
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There is a distinction a lot of the men in these spaces fail to make between what is entitlement and what is just basic human decency. Your first example shows exactly that-you are not a therapist just because you show understanding and care towards a coworker having a bad day, regardless of their gender. You’re just a decent human being. That can translate into dating-you are not entitled to attention from opposite sex. But you are ‘entitled’ to being treated with basic human decency (for examp…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:13 PM
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Dude it’s becoming sad that you have to project your gfs feral behaviour on all women. Get her to a gyno asap and see if she has any menstrual disphoria
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:59 PM
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He literally said he opens up to his female friends without spewing hot misogynist garbage and you intepreted that as being wOmeN aPprOveD lmfao. Guess what, men don’t like it either when you open up about a problem and spew misandrist takes. Does that mean men want women to open up only under male approved ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:35 PM
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I don’t hate men. You just entered drama queen mode because your points are null and ‘you hate men’ is the go-to defense of ppd dudes that can’t articulate a point. Please go help all the cheaters out there while the rest of the rational people know actions have consequences in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:17 PM
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I don’t think the majority of women that want something serious don’t vet for that from the beginning. We are searching for someone that has a combo of desireability and ability to be a good partner at the same time. And it’s not exactly hard to figure wether a man is a fuckboy or not after you get some experience in dating. So yeah I think it is beneficial to vet for those things early. But I don’t think it would be beneficial to vet based just on the ability of a dude to be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:03 AM
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I think preselection and desirability are more valued in the earlier stages. We don’t jump to having babies after we just met (not in the majority of cases) so the things we find most important in a partner tend to change depending on the stage of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:37 AM
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The point is not that he is more likely to get away, the point is that he has other things going on in his life besides your relationship. Only a minority of people (because this both applies to men and women) would want to be long-term with someone clingy and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:47 AM
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Oh wow, another hypocritical Christian telling me cheaters shouldn’t be judged. Thanks for the laugh, my mind still isn’t changed. It’s very on brand for men desperate to defend cheaters to pull out dumb comparisons like the one with the person that stole food. 20-25% is a high number no matter how you try to spin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:19 AM
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Why should I offer married men solutions? I’m no marriage counselor and I don’t know the specifics of each situation. But again-that doesn’t mean their actions don’t have consequences or it’s mIsAnDrIc to judge hypocritical ones that cheat or go to strip clubs. Like I said. Seen plenty of married Christian couples that pull their shit under the rug. Saying women shouldn’t be worried because just 20-25% of men cheat is quite the reach-that means roughly 1 in 4 men is a cheater. That’s damn high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:47 PM
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I’m from a country where 90% of the population identifies as Cheistian. Also I’ve seen plenty of miserable couples that didn’t divorce due to the stigma of it. So no, married couples aren’t happier by default. I think the statistics are shoddy because I googled men and women cheating and got different results than the one you linked. Cheating is a very hard phenomenon to capture using statistics since it can take many forms but the general consensus seems to be there is no gender that takes the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:29 PM
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No man is that useless he can’t put some forks and water glasses on a table on time, that’s just years of weaponized incompetence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:43 PM
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And it’s your personal responsability to determine what level of happiness is acceptable to you, your partner shouldn’t have to regulate that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:30 PM
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Always finding ways to dodge accountability from a man that is useless around the house. Stay classy ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:29 PM
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are you the 13 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:08 AM
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Or maybe her kids that are teens could make an effort for 5 minutes and help their mom. edit: oh wow she also has a husband that does nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:46 AM
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In theory, yes. In practice-that’s not something that fully depends on me. Also if he is not as happy or happier he can just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:40 AM
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I grew up in a conservative country so what I saw around me were ~90% traditional relationships. Just because people don’t divorce it doesn’t mean these relationships or marriages are happier than others. If the shoddy statistics you show me about this type of relationship would also be true people wouldn’t move on from trad relationships and pursue other options. I’d rather believe a toddler telling me they are superman than a traditional christian telling me how ‘happy’ they are. Actions speak…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:20 AM
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Plenty of men cheat just because they are horndogs-and there are also a lot of outlets for men to give their money and attention to women (OF, camgirls, strip clubs) while claiming they are not cheating in the traditional sense of the word. It’s something women should deffinetly worry about. Also the trope of the traditional man that protects and provide is a Disney fantasy-the majority of traditional men are not as great as you want to paint them out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:05 PM
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Besides the fact that she looks just as good as when she was in got, she’s far from being washed up. Don’t project your insecurities on her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:52 PM
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Yeah, that guy loves you so much that he’s going to have quickies with a rando in a motel and then gaslight you about it. Vomit inducing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:17 PM
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He obviously knows that from lonely dudes online
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:44 PM
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You could get the same experience going to a strip club anywhere in this world. Even you acknowledge in your post that these are almost all transactional situations-so yeah I would really wonder why my brother/uncle/cousin had to travel thousands of kms to do something he could have done at home just to try and own the western women. It’s funny how in your homecountry this type of behaviour would be labeled as gold-digging but it’s suddenly ok when a woman on another continent does the same thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:58 PM
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Right wing grifter is the easiest life path if you are a blonde, it’s understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:44 PM
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It was both my mom and my dad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:30 PM
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And in lots of places where 16 is considered sexually ‘adult’ there are still conditions about age gaps. Also I don’t want to get my son bailed out after he gets accused of being a groomer. And no, I won’t blame GIRLS that have few more years to be considered adults by law. You can try and say ‘law is not a moral compass yadayada’, but that’s just a cheap excuse coming from the brigade that is okay with grooming and would rather raise maladjusted boys and endanger girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:39 PM
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If my son ends up socially maladjusted and starts targeting highschoolers, I’m helping him get his shit together so he can be succesful with someone that can at least buy a beer. And that’s something any sane parent would do, not encourage his son to tiptoe around the sexual predator line when it comes to law.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:25 PM
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Yeah, the solution for inceldom is to go for highschooler. And you dare call others losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:14 PM
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A way to what? The dudes that were the most attractive in my first years of uni were not dating highschoolers lol. Also it’s not seething but using dramatic words like that helps with the victim narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:06 PM
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Because a dude that’s supposed to be dipping his toes into adult life dating a highschooler and not being able to get with someone in the same stage gets an obvious side-eye from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:04 PM
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It’s not necessarly wrong. We all seek partners that are better in some ways than us. But the way hypergamy is used in arguments here tries to paint that as some sort of revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:45 AM
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Please be for real, constant circlejerking and poor data interpreting skills is in no way better than ‘just feelings’. In fact for a lot of people that can google search the articles that redpillers just skim in order to win arguments online it’s pretty clear there in an innate desperation these dudes have for a certain version of reality to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:28 AM
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Come on, not the redpiller talking about circlejerking. Seen a lot of articles and data from TRP interpreted in atrocious ways or only have the parts presented that are favourable to men. So yeah, hard pass from anyone that wants actual reasonable interpretation of data.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:22 AM
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Those seem like real answers to you. To a lot of people they seem like cheap c0pe-it’s always convenient for redpillers to constantly move the bar on what is redpill or not and then demand they are shown proof for obvious things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:16 AM
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How could you not see that redpillers repeating the same three motives (redpillers ain’t a monolith/that’s not actually redpill/people haven’t read the sidebar) is interpreted rightfully so as low effort and not worthy of changing your opinion? But sure, these women must be biased or not open minded for not being swayed by low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:10 AM
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Or maybe the only two arguments that rp men here present in threads like those are unconvincing. You can be open to have your opinion change-but that also requires the other side to bring something convincing to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:54 AM
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So basically the same thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:33 PM
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So women should lie? Because functional adults regardless of sex don’t need a man or a woman. You are seen and owed basic respect just like any other human being. But that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:53 PM
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Thad is a caricature of a human. Of course the dude that says he doesn’t remember the last time he felt fear is going to come across as emotional unintelligent. It’s the exaggerated stoicism that makes people wonder if they are communicating with an actual human or a cardboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:25 PM
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I am european and I come across quite a few american women that are coupled up or married with swiss guys. Which I guess it’s a good thing for these women since men here are taller and less fat on average. So ofc american women won’t be as succesful if they look for partners in countries with a traditional dating culture but their chances and prospects are good in countries with a similar culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:27 PM
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You’re not courting just because you pay the bill for some chicken wings lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:54 PM
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I understand why she thinks the damage is already done. Hope you both will be fine in the end, it’s not easy to navigate a situation like this one. At the end of the day this could very well be a compatibility issue regarding communication styles. Doesn’t mean you have to change, maybe there is someone out there that will just get you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:48 PM
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Well she told you what you ‘did wrong’. Did you tell her that you’re not a person that’s usually open? I had the same problem after a few months in my relationship and we got over it after having a long talk about what opening up is, how our past experiences shaped up the way we act now and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:04 PM
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I can very well point to the dissonance. Just because you build up imaginary pressure in your mind it doesn’t mean we have to validate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:42 PM
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Holy shit dude, just don’t split the bill and stop with the victimisation. But I wonder why men gather here to whine about women that are independent or modern just to lose their shit if there is a bill in sight (actually I don’t wonder, it’s just a funny dissonance to witness).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:38 PM
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There’s no social stigma about a woman in her 20s going for a guy in his 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:31 PM
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You’re still not adressing the fact men have full choice to not date women that don’t split the bill. But we all know why men like to whine about this topic and act like there’s a burden on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:29 PM
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It very clearly is. Just go date women that split the bill. I’m sure internalising every lil tiktok you see makes you exhausted, not my fault tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:21 PM
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The masculine expectation is dismantled. Just because this dudes try to leverage paying for a date instead of just splitting the bill doesn’t mean we have to dismantle anything. The only unserious thing is you calling two dudes good and caring men just because they paid for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:15 PM
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why should she have fucked either? this whining is illogical, those dudes aren’t forced to pay or take her on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:07 PM
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How has this dude shows he is worthy of forgiveness? By going on the platform of two misogynysts cracking jokes about rape? I get your comment tries to have this hollier than thou attitude but it kinda fails because you never take into consideration these sleazy dudes have to earn forgiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:10 AM
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He’s going after what he wants. No man that actually pursues excellence shits on others preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:59 AM
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Everyone shames it. My stepdad is younger than my mom and since they’ve been together they keep hearing how she stole his chance to be with a younger woman that gives him a family (even tough he has kids from a previous marriage). Lots of people are triggered when a woman gets a second chance to have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:57 AM
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It’s commendable that you broke things off once you found out. I don’t want to make it seem like I’m defending her because cheating is disgusting and she obviously went to great lengths to cheat on her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:33 AM
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If someone is not a good option for me, I’m not entertaining them. It’s that simple. So don’t act surprised pikachu face when people are going to think they are good options for you because they judge your actions. The sus part is befriending someone for a year and getting romantic without knowing they’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:38 AM
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Maybe she tought she was a good option because *you * kept entertaining her? This is such an odd story with some questionable gaps I’m curious no one adressed by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:25 AM
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Nah, there’s deffinetly pressure for a woman to not be clingy, give a guy his space, not act overly emotional or-god forbid-crying when the man feels it’s inconvenient. It’s a red pill myth that men are understanding of the way women display their emotions when the reality is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:23 PM
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I wasn’t talking about financial stability. I was talking about that point that people reach when they learn stuff from their previous failed relationships and become more confident. It’s much easier to be in a relationship when you’re not insecure about very mundane shit (something young people largely do) and you can communicate in an effective way (something that people usually learn after a few failures).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:43 PM
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The most unstable people I meet are generally younger. This is why we don’t end up with our highschool sweetheart or first gf/bf. Once people learn how to navigate relationships better and handle their insecurities relationships become easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:13 PM
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Because having a relationship becomes much easier the more stable you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:05 PM
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What I’m saying is true. Lots of people move on from these sets of beliefs once they experience more things. And that’s a thing that’s generally true for both women and men. If that post had the genders reversed the RP dudes would just bitch about men always being blamed about the failures of a relationship and how they always have to entertain women and blablabla-but somehow because it’s a dude saying ‘men ain’t happy’ it’s supposed to be taken as a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:11 PM
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Why should they be stopped from spreading when people can just clown on RP dudes and we can all have a laugh at it? Any rational person knows that for a lot of these dudes this is going to be an edgy phase in a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:59 PM
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Maybe those women throw a fit because they never knew they were on a deadline to fuck some guy. Anyone regardless of gender would feel some type of way if they were ghosted for something they didn’t knew beforehand. Also I’m not surprised the only point of your comment was ‘women have no expectation placed on them when it comes to having sex with a guy’.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:31 PM
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You’re not expected to sit and wait if you don’t want to. Posts like yours on ppd are strange personally for me because they portray men as doormats that have zero expectations from women-and that has never been my dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:19 PM
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The appeal to nature is not my logic, it’s yours. I don’t think cheating is solely explained by what the lozard brain says but alas, the higher value man hypothesis was something I brought up just because you keep saying a woman cheating or having casual sex is against her imperative (which is a pretty weak imperative if we look at the ocean of exceptions around us).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:06 AM
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Maybe her natural imperative was to sleep with a higer value mate. And she did just that when a higher value mate propositioned himself to her-so by your train of thought it’s okay since the natural imperative criteria is checked. Seriously the appeal to nature is not a response in every situation. People don’t pick a book about evopsych and tailor their lives from that. Cheating is in a lot of cases more complex than ‘it was my imperative’, just like every thing we do since we’ve come a long wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:57 AM
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I didn’t say cheating is an innocent action. You can’t point to any instance of me actually saying that so please don’t start a tangent about it. She is not going against her natural instinct. It obvious she WANTS to cheat if she does it for fucks sake. How are you going to say in one pragraph to not paint her as a pssive participant and then in the other epically contradict yourself and say she is going against her instinct??? I’m just saying she is passive because she doesn’t have to seek othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:44 AM
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Our own biological imperatives would dictate to shit in the middle of the street when we feel like it. So instead of the appeal to nature fallacy, you can actually adress the point. Sally cheats after resisting temptations multiple times. John cheats after downloading and paying for tinder, being rejected by multiple women, paying for onlyfans and camgirls and escorts after he finally meets a woman that would sleep with him. He didn’t have to resist any temptation coming his way, he invested a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:36 AM
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Ergo, cheating WHEN YOU HAVE MORE OPTIONS INSTEAD OF GOING OUT OF YOUR WAY TO CREATE OPTIONS IS THE POINT. It’s like trying to give up chocolate while living near a chocolate factory and giving up chocolate while you don’t have access to it. Jesus. But ridiculous people like you make ppd entertaining. You can’t see the flaws in your arguments so instead of that you think you can call others weak minded. I won’t ever change my view when the alternative is so feeble as the one you have offered. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:50 AM
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Incorrect about what dude? He won an unofficial game, people recognized that. Of course people won’t say he is such an acomplished athlete for winning ONE game. An acomolished athlete is someone that won a Grand Slam for example, we can’t change what the general perception about that is just to fit your ever moving goalposts. Seriously what are you even arguing? You wrote a ridiculously long comment about nothing. You have a habit of misinterpreting everything people say and just pulling things …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:48 AM
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It’s not a self own since as I pointed out, a woman has to resist more temptation. Men have to go the extra mile to cheat-which makes it worse because they invest more effort in order to get access to cheating. I’m not explaining it for a third time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:42 AM
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He was the superior athlete IN THAT MATCH. For God’s sake, this is what people recognise him for. I get you want to move the goalpoasts constantly but it’s just getting boring. Also there where plenty of men saying how he is a much better athlete and how female tennis players are useless and yadayada but I don’t want to open that can of worms with a dude that constantly misinterprets comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:52 PM
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I’m also surprised because that’s now what we argued about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:54 PM
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They acknowledged he won the battle of sexes game, duh. Despite not winning a Grand Slam, he is remembered for this one accomplishment over the years, that’s the point. How many dudes have been the 203rd ATP player yet no one remembers their names or they never got any coverage?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:36 PM
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So it’s unfair to declare men winners if they actually win? That’s quite the logic there. I’m saying we can acknowledge him for beating them. In fact, there are articles written about that game 25 years after it happened. I get you want to move the goalposts by throwing ‘celebrate’ around, but he played an unofficial game against the sisters and got recognised for winning. What more should have happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:28 PM
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The winner is celebrated in any sport or competition. So what kind of question even is that? You’ll probably bring up the ‘men have biological advantages blabla’ but the point would be that the women signed up willingly in a competition against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:16 PM
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Then drop the iMmOraL angle and answer it-is a faithful women more praise worthy than a man? Or are you going to also argue being faithful is not a desireable outcome or moral?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:04 PM
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Dude, I already answered. You’re gaslighting yourself since we are like 10 comments deep and you still haven’t understood my point is that THE EFFORT BEHIND THE ACTION IS POINTLESS. So your murder example DOESN’T ALIGN WITH MY POINT. I’ll say it again-a cheater is a cheater. A murderer is a murderer. Someone having sex is just a person having sex. The hierarchy of those things is POINTLESS
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:02 PM
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Also I’m not going to cut and run since the effort angle is the one you advocate for. For me a cheater is a cheater. A murderer is a murderer. A person having sex is just a person having sex. You’re cherry picking one situation in which you account for the alleged effort it took a man to be promiscous yet don’t judge other situations by the same lens
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:58 PM
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Then answer it-is a faithful woman more worthy of praise since she put in more effort to stay faithful compared to a man? That’s a desireable outcome. The parameter of accomplishments is one that is subjectively set by men because they are the only one that define sex as an accomplishment for men but as a loss for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:55 PM
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Make it make sense. When it’s convenient to you-the effort matters, that’s why a promiscous man is cool. When it’s not convenient to your argument, cheating is just a breach of contract and the effort suddenly doesn’t matter. It’s not impressive that a woman has to put in more effort to reiman faithful. As I said, your logic is a wet tissue and very flexible depending on wether the context is favourable to your point or not. You still didn’t adress why a man that was born attractive has to be ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:48 PM
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No. I think it’s quite surprising you can’t see the flaws in your own logic. If cheating is a breach of contract and you don’t take into account the effort that was put into it, sex is also just consensual fornication and no one gets trophies for being a Casanova or stud. The point is not that people get hurt or not, the point is to apply the same lense of not judging the action in itself but rather look for justifications or possible scenarios for it. It’s a good comparison because it shows tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:36 PM
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Women should be judged less harshly for cheating if we’re not actually judging the action for itself but we rather take into account the ‘effort’ put into it. It’s two different situations and not applying the same logic to them shows the whole promiscuity debate is disingenous and inconsistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:19 PM
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You don’t measure up for a better reply
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:47 PM
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How can cheating be equally bad by your logic? A woman has to resist way more temptation than a man. And a lot of dudes have to actively search for an opportunity or chance to cheat while for women they can just mind their bussines and be propositioned. It’s the difference between an active and a passive thing-the analogy is perfect and it just shows the inconsistency of people that want to die on the promiscuity hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:47 PM
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It’s unimportant because you’re just another man complaining and doing the same things he claims women do. Nothing new to see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:40 PM
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Actually women should do better and not pay attention to men whining, bitching and complaining. Just because you ‘bring something to our attention’ it doesn’t actually make it worthy of our time and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:35 PM
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There is no logic and rationality when trying to portay men as being better for doing the same thing a woman does. Also the hipocrisy in not taking into account that the negative consequences (such as being more prone to cheating or more prone to experiment with different substances or higher impulsivity) are found in promiscuous and hypersexual individuals of both genders. Lots of promiscuous men are just dudes that won the genetic lottery and have good features. So they should be gassed for…be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:31 PM
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I am 25, started my residency in oncology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:05 PM
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Men judging bodycounts are the sore losers-they would jump in a heartbeat at the opportunity to have as many options as women. But since they can’t the obvious move is to berrate the women that partake in casual sex. That’s your assumptions. Bodycount is not a demand women commonly have. Pre selection is taken to absurd lengths by some people here. Women are indifferent at best to bodycount or they are turned off by it (since there are also conservative women out there).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:01 PM
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A man who slept with 20 women doesn’t become more attractive than a man that slept with 5. Bodycount doesn’t give you any special feat. By your basic premise society shouldn’t celebrate sore losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:54 PM
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It makes no logical sex. Higher body counts and hypersexuality correlate with the same things for BOTH genders. So it becomes hypocritical for men to berrate women for that while ignoring their side. A woman would rather be with a dude she likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:46 PM
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That is not a valid explanation. Basically it boils down to ‘we made up a rule and people should follow it because we want them to’. Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:42 PM
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It’s more enraging to see a double standard when it comes to female and male promiscuity. The women that actually care about being seen as non prmiscous by traditional standard take action, they don’t really participate in inteenet debates about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:37 PM
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The sidebar or sub is just as bad as the 30 sec tiktok videos
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:30 PM
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Or maybe you’re just insecure and there is no secret ploy behind making that observation about someone that displayed a certain behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:14 PM
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oh wow, you linked an article about the low percent of 50yo that do this yet your original comment talks about girls getting their brains fucked over or gobbling cum or career women that go to vegas
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:29 PM
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you totally lost me with that second pragraph. while i generally agree capitalism influenced mating dynamics, the whole ‘you bear his name and serve him’ is viscerally unappealing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:21 AM
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going on a holiday and attracting a man there is not really equivalent to ‘threatening’ all modern women you’ll go overseas because you get no play where you are. i have guy friends that hooked up while on a vacation, i don’t count them as sex tourists tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:15 AM
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On behalf of me and almost all models everywhere around the world, we thank you for showing solidarity for tall women🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:01 PM
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dude that covers crypto scams starting from a few hundreds of dollars. you know, people that get scammed seek justice in all the ways that are available to them. but anyway, i’m sure you can post that screen shot to prove us all wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:59 PM
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Damn you sound like a sweet summer child
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:45 PM
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Look, a 600k crypto scam doesn’t go unnoticed. Literally people lost way less in other scams yet they still seek aid. I know kids that are sensible enough to see this story is just a dude trying his best to write a revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:37 PM
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Do you really believe she was scammed of 600k and there would be no way to find this story online or some proof she reached to financial authority?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:30 PM
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Actually you can just tell her name so we can check when the coffezilla video drops about her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:27 PM
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Look, the creative writing exercise is not bad. It’s admirable you shoved all the redpill cliches in one story. Probably worth a 7/10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:23 PM
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out of all the things that didn’t happen, this didn’t happen the most
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:19 PM
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It’s not about ‘bad deals’, it’s about moms and dads having delusional expectations about what their kid deserves. They overinflate the value their son/daughter has as a partner while finding flaws with the vast majority of potential partners. It’s probably something a lot of them can’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:26 PM
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Totally agree. Also you have to identify the biases your parents might have just because they can’t be objective when it comes to their kids. I see how my mom acts when it comes to my brothers and their romantic life and I hardly refrain from telling her to get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:51 AM
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The point is that just because your mothers say most women are trash or low quality it doesn’t make them right. My dad says the same about men, it doesn’t mean he is right. It means just that our parents are pretty delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:28 AM
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Yeah, that’s what happens with a lot of parents. No one is good enough for their kid, but that doesn’t mean they are saying that from an objective pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:20 AM
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Or maybe she is just biased because she is your mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:14 AM
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so? doesn’t mean if you adopt you can’t work to fit the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:57 AM
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I think for a lot of them this is just a phase. Most of those comments are left by teenagers. Sometimes I look at their profile pictures and I’m wondering how Andy that seems to be 16 yo has so much insight on intersex dynamics. Also being misogynistic is nothing new or revolutionary. It’s quite a tired shtick. I see some women also try to jump and feed the trad fantasies of these dudes. But this space is going to get overcrowded with ‘creators’ and people will eventually get bored to hear the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:13 AM
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well each mom can decide for herself if she finds it disrespectful, disgusting or humiliating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:40 PM
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or maybe because most of us don’t think about the dating lives of our parents because they are...well they are our parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:07 PM
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Imagine making a wholesome tiktok about your mom and some dude starts doing his little redpill weirdo routine in the comments. Instant block
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:17 PM
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Oh no, giving a kid the chance to have a stable support system in his life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:01 PM
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If being childless is the source of depression and regret then you should think of what options you have to achieve your goal. Raising a kid in a difficult marriage might be even more difficult than doing it while single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:00 PM
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If being childless is such a problem there’s always the option to adopt. You don’t have to get married to go for that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:50 PM
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this type of attention whoring is fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:45 PM
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No, the point is to encourage for some contraceptive pill for men or some mechanical method that reverrsibly stops sperm from entering the ducts. You can’t change the anatomical facts that men don’t have wombs. But men can demand more research and investment going into individual contraceptive methods
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:40 PM
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This example is specifically about a man that WANTS the kid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:36 PM
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Then push for developing contraceptives for men. That’s the obvious solution
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:31 PM
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That just means you give up the parental rights. Doesn’t mean you are automatically exempt from paying or that the dad or kid in the later stages of life can’t take you to court if you don’t financially provide. Also the majority of countries put the kid first. So it’s not like you can just show up to court in the morning, telinquish custody and be done by 10 am.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:30 PM
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I am obviously not fine with it. But just like women have to prove to a court they were raped, men have to do that too. You just want to play the opression olympics and act like a woman getting an abortion because she was raped isn’t a big enough emotional trauma that could even render her infertile if something goes wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:24 PM
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We are talking about a scenario in which the dad is in the picture. You can’t put up a kid for adoption if the dad doesn’t consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:20 PM
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Well men don’t have to literally carry that child and they can just move to avoid paying child support like other men that do it. We can play the ‘which victim is more of a victim’ gane if you’d like, but it’s pretty tasteless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:13 PM
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Not that they are any more gracious towards women that were raped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:05 PM
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no. but if he was raped a court of law has to decide that just like in any rape case so this doesn’t become the go-to excuse for deadbeats
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:56 PM
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Yeah I think we all compete at some point for a partner. Especially before things become official and you’re in the testing waters phase. You dress nice, look at their instagram for clues about what they like or for possible conversation topics, compliments, flirting, give him an exciting peek into your life-these are all things I’ve done in the past for example. But I don’t think that a post like that understands we compete for men that are already into the type of women we represent. Because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:36 PM
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The law generally does a good job at defining an unfit parent-so you know, the basic stuff like endagering a kid’s life or abandoning your kid or abusing him. Yes, by parental obligations I mean child support. The kid and the father can sue her if she doesn’t comply. This is why in countries that have a legislation centered around puting the benefit of the kid first financial abortions are not totally possible. But they do make for a fun debate i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:20 PM
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No. She can’t relinquish her parental obligations, however if she is an unfit parent she should get her parental rights stripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:15 PM
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I can see a future generation that can chose the path of moderation without demonising things that have been part of human nature since this world was created
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:00 PM
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yeah thank god nobody is doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:45 PM
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So if somebody ever draws genitals they lose the right to custody? Or if they paint a nude?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:19 PM
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That’s not how you stop porn culture. Also she wasn’t even naked so even by your own definition the judge is not just.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:08 PM
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Who defines what is pornographic? This is a slippery slope and we all know how succesful purity culture is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:02 PM
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how tf is that justly? it’s not even a proper nude scene like i said. where is the line between making art and people just punishing others because they are sexually frustrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:58 PM
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it wasn’t even a proper nude scene but this is just insane. sexually frustrated people should stay away from jobs like these if they can’t deal with their biases
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:56 PM
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that happened
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:22 PM
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The expectation is not that they are going to use or need my money, the expectation is that 1.I am not with them purely for my own financial gain 2.we will have a balanced dynamic since we can afford the same things and can equally contribute to our common goals. It’s not the finances per se, it’s what those finances say about a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:02 PM
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Why wouldn’t the quantity also increase? The quality can be raised in certain cases (even tough just because some men are high earners or educated doesn’t mean they are good partners). From what I see around me people date their class match-I never see old money guys with partners that don’t match their status and background. I seldom see a self made guy that has a partner that isn’t matching his ambition. So that’s why in the end I got access to a group of men that wouldn’t have considered me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:40 PM
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Actually the answer it’s pretty obvious-I had access to more options and men that look for women that share their professional background.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:31 PM
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He probably doesn’t make the distinction between europe as a continent and the european union
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:20 AM
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They might not use the same words but how men constantly talk about modern/western women and how fat/entitled/old/nagging/golddigging/insert insult it’s basically the same thing. They’re writing constantly how modern women are not marriage material so it’s a reach to say men don’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:18 AM
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My God you think just because a woman wanted to have sex with her husband on her first date disproves what I said? She’s obviously not concerned about the things talked about in the post-but for the women that ARE concerned with this post (and I can’t believe I have to make that distinction) we all know what methods work to separate guys that have a genuine interest from guys who just want to smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:04 AM
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Please, ‘logical reasons’ is a bold choice of words for what is just repeating over and over what you and your friends do and claiming it’s the majority of men. Guess what, this topic is way more broad than you and your little bubble and it’s something women chime in and always reach the same conclusion (hint-it’s not the same conclusion as yours).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:44 AM
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Or maybe you didn’t signal you were phisically attracted to them and they dipped because of that. It’s not the fact you didn’t tell them ‘let’s fuck’, it’s the fact you didn’t give any sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:42 AM
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Just like making more money as a woman was a huge multiplier to my dating life as well and gave me access to more options. Water’s wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:26 AM
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Nothing ironic in saying portraying femininity by using words with negative connotations is icky. In fact I hope the ones that gather here and declare how much they love femininity could use the advice about the words they chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:22 AM
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That’s a lot of projection. Many of us realise what men mean by ’femininity’ and decide for ourselves it’s not that great of a deal. It’s not adversarial, it’s just eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:20 AM
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It’s something you don’t get. But for some of us imagining that a man looks at us and sees ‘emotional chaos’ or irrationality just because of our genitals is very icky. Those are phrases and words he used that have a negative connotation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:36 AM
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How are men expected to be breadwinners when women have their own jobs? Literally the expectations for men shifted towards being a helping hand when it comes to chores and being present in the raising of their kids. The other stuff you said is just mental gymnastics-you don’t have to entertain women that don’t reciprocate. In fact, if a woman likes you she will happily match your effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:34 AM
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It’s not unfortunate. Not all women identify with this brand of femininity and it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:31 AM
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I implied he won’t put up waiting for sex if that’s the only thing he is looking for. Literally this is the point of the post-that you can tell what a man intentions are by the way he approaches waiting to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:27 AM
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The only inconsistency you pointed is that you and your buddies are the exception. But hey, if you feel that’s an accomplishment I won’t burst your bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:21 AM
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The point is that the man is not providing in the traditional sense of the word. So all this whining about ‘men have to perform their gender roles’ is pointless when the minority of men do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:18 AM
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I was just responding to your claim that ‘I can either use the info or lose it’. If you want to interpret it as being defensive, you do you. I already adressed that there’s a small percentage of dudes that do this. So idk why it’s relevant that you and some dudes fit the exception I mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:15 AM
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Most guys looking for sex that don’t have other options will invest time and money into swaying the mind of a girl that didn’t want to initially hook up. Also I’m not single and he’s the type of man that has options but thanks again for the anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:02 AM
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Way to dodge an actual explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:58 AM
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Most guys that are actually attractive have options. Also my second paragraph covers the fact no vetting method is entirely foolproof but thanks for the lil anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:44 AM
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Provider of what? Headaches?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:37 AM
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Cap. The majority of women want a man that’s compatible with them and can match their lifestyle. Like I said men fail the core principle of traditional masculinity (which is not a bad thing, just facts about our modern world) so it gets really old and tiring to pretend you are held to some impossible standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:16 AM
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It’s actually good advice in practice. Because some dude that’s only interested to hook-up will give up if he doesn’t get what he wants in the majority of cases. If the point of your post would have been to say this is not a foolproof method because sometimes there is a dude desperate enough to just fake interest until he gets laid-yeah sure. But no vetting method is 100% foolproof. Basically your CMV can be summed up as ‘don’t use a condom, there’s a 2% chance it won’t protect you from pregnanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:51 PM
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I know what the rp stance is and I have my qualms with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:46 PM
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A flawed point. A minority of men nowadays are sole providers. You can’t say we expect the same or more gender roles from men when men don’t fullfill the basic role of traditional masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:06 PM
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You’re probably going to have the most original perspective here. But how does preffering someone that is sweet, gentle and attentive match with liking women that emotionally and phisically hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:00 PM
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This comment is a wild ride
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:53 PM
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totally agree. those people are either desperate or have some shitty traits that will bite you in the ass if you don’t keep them at a certain distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:37 PM
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Cool. Can you google medical stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:14 PM
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Any rational person would say we don’t know the finances of some strangers on reddit. But I won’t stop you from doing your little bitter routine
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:09 PM
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So marrying someone that can afford the same things as you is considered marrying up now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:52 PM
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This sub is funny when it comes to the finances of a couple. If a woman doesn’t go dutch on a 20€ date she is a gold digger looking for a foodie call but also career women must be avoided at all costs. Tough crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:20 PM
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Don’t know what to say. From my experience a lot of men go trough some breakup and then just adopt a ‘all women are hoes/cheaters/unloyal/blablabla’ attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:17 PM
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Lol I didn’t expect such a cheap cop out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:04 PM
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The thing is all his comments here are overly dramatic yet we should believe men don’t get baggage from ‘terrible heartbreak and chronic stress’. This is why I keep coming back to ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:01 PM
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How doesn’t it happen in reverse? You see it even here on ppd when a lot of guys take things past gfs did to them and apply them to all women. Stop being a drama queen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:58 PM
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Or you can cheat and use a condom. Or birth control. Or other contraceptives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:53 PM
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unlike the 30+ yo men that had the same past of failed relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:52 PM
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you: women don’t know the value of money also you: a woman that knows the value of money is a european liberal feminist Seriously you can’t make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:48 PM
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you don’t get it, that stray cat chose me so i had no other option
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:43 PM
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You don’t have to go trough a lot of relationship to figure some things out. Casual sex is less complex on the scale of human interactions and in a lot of cases it boils down to ‘right person at the right time’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:47 PM
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Maybe they just don’t have that much experience with casual sex? Unlike what the red pill preaches not every woman has a rotation of Chads. But I’m not the judge of how useful that advice is since I’m not the man and I don’t even follow this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:29 PM
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I don’t really think advice from women is meant to mirror the dating experience of a man. I think advice from women should speak about what worked for her and what a man should do to get with a woman like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:22 PM
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Men don’t uphold all their traditional masculine ideals since only a minority are the sole providers in a relationship or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:03 PM
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Ah yeah, I’ve shared my advice on how to have casual sex here a few times. But I guess I’m more likely to give my 2 cents regarding relationships since I have more experience in this field.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:55 PM
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I don’t complain when people speak in generalities about women. In fact, I expect that on a debate forum about dating and gender dynamics. Like I said, the starting point is just a reach. The age gap discourse is getting old so there has to be new fuel added by the ones that want to die on this hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:53 PM
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I can’t remember ever being asked about casual sex. My guy friends ask for my advice when they have their eyes on someone they want to impress or get serious with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:43 PM
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Be for real, I’m talking in generalities because that’s the whole point. The MAJORITY of women doesn’t go for age gaps. The Wall is not overly simplistic since people go for partners that share the same characteristics or background as them in the MAJORITY of cases. Yeah, so ironic because two people having a 3 yo age gap are more likely to be in the same life stage compared to-let’s say-a 30 yo that has a career and some life experience and a 20 yo barely starting to navigate adult life. Seriou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:11 PM
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Ofc guys who are 30 are ‘gross’ for someone that’s not even 20. I can’t believe such a simple thing has to be explained-when you are 20 what qualifies as a young person is more narrow than when you are 30 and you start noticing you are also aging. What’s the lack of self awareness when literally everyone points out the statistics show 1. age gaps 10+ are not that common 2. the bigger the age gap the more chances for a relationship to fail (and this is one argument the men here conveniently overl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:51 PM
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that’s a reach, i’ve never seen someone say all younger women are turned off by age gaps. we’re saying the majority of women don’t seek age gaps and that’s obviously true if you take into account the average age difference in a relationship is 2.5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:36 PM
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My take is that ‘hypergamy’ is often exaggerated in rp spaces. I have a partner that’s better than me in certain areas, just as I am better than him in other areas. Everyone wants a partner that adds something to their life, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:47 AM
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Please stop with the mental gymnastics, you’re typing the same thing for the third time. I get you don’t like hearing women they don’t need a man and you feel personally anatoginzed-that’s your problem. A woman is free to express a message about men just like the manosphere can make the same negative ass content about women being hypergamous/gold diggers/cheating sluts/divorce rapists and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:47 AM
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Yeah, the rational people on this sub keep saying it’s a segment of younger women going for older guys, not the majority. Then the deluded guys here say women date guys around their age due to ‘social pressure’ like this post does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:09 PM
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i just think she’s consistent with the men she chooses rather than going for a badder one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:52 PM
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idk, the only thing i knew about him was that he was involved with the ex disney chick and her friend. not exactly good guy material
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:43 PM
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is mod sun supposed to be a good guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:37 PM
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Acrually it’s more misandric to assume all men are dumb like that. But like I said, bad trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:20 PM
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Sounds like bad trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:12 PM
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Do you think he is that inept to not figure it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:58 PM
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The majority of them liking all that? The chances are not as high as men wished they were
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:49 PM
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I’d say those men profit from their status not their sexuality. That would obviously be very hard to measure in an objective way but I think it can be useful to see what the views regarding these dynamics say about an individual person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:48 PM
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I agree the theoretical POV would be interesting. But at the same time I think men are more likely to get involved in discourse like that when it comes to women that have profitted from their sexuality having a relationship or a kid. That’s when they gather the collective pitchforks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:33 PM
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Or I judt ascribed traits based on the replies you made here. Pretty simple to get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:05 PM
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neither do i have a problem with the preferences, but i can’t understand how they come online throwing shit at everyone that doesn’t fit their preferences then play the victim card
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:03 PM
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Leo is a meme at this point because no matter how you look at it, dumping someone because they reached a certain age is weird. And because he puts his bussiness out in the open people are going to express their opinions about it. A gold digger that would drop a dude based on some shallow reasoning and move on to another would get the same amount of ‘shaming’. People are not necessarly clowning the age gap per se, they are clowning the reasoning behind the age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:02 PM
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Look, I don’t expect you to ever admit I’m right. You’ll just pull up more excuses for the manosphere being prompted to talk about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:56 PM
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the ‘be kind to everyone else in the process’ is the part they fail at
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:52 PM
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I don’t care about winning. I mainly find the hipocrisy funny when I show certain men here they are also guilty of the same things they accuse women of. Have a nice day too. Also if men asked manosphere these questions, consider other women asked the ones that say they don’t need a man. Debate settled then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:50 PM
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Nobody asked the manosphere about dating and women, get real. Quit trying to save face just because the original point is weak and men are as guilty as women when it comes to complaining about the opposite gender without anyone asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:46 PM
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Of course a 10+ year age gap is not a ‘norm’ because the vast majority of women and men are not attracted to people that much older than them. But it doesn’t mean society was ever against them-especially when the man is the older partner since men are more protected from ageism. Apart from MSM telling women you don’t have to settle for a man, there’s nothing I would count as empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:45 PM
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I didn’t miss the point, I just think it’s a weak one. People talk about a lot of things, dating being a pretty important subject. Following this logic the manosphere is just full of insecure men since nobody asked them anything about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:39 PM
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Women still don’t choose how they want to live their life without any shame or judgement as it’s obvious from just spending five minutes on the internet. So men want something that they themselves as a group don’t offer to women. Also age gaps are not out of ‘social norms’.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:22 PM
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Nobody said women their age don’t want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:48 PM
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Don’t care if a man says he doesn’t need a woman because it’s his fucking bussiness. It’s that simple. Also I would appreciate the fact he is a self sufficient adult that can take care of himself without needing a woman. Pretty simple. Also why should these scenarios in which a woman says that to a specific man have any relevance to the point? It’s just more mental gymnastics from your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:09 PM
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Come on, that’s just mental gymnastics on your part. Sometimes it was the answer to a question, other times it was just straight up saying a man is not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:44 AM
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Never mind I know you can’t actually support these bs claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:58 AM
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How it’s not ‘mainstream’ or just a tiny area of the internet? Men choose whatever they want to do with their lives and the fact that some people are going to disagree with a man that makes a divisive statement (mind you, same thing happens to a woman making a divisive claim) doesn’t mean men are being restrained.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:44 AM
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Men have no rules placed on them as well. In fact everyone can see plenty of men making comments about women being fat/old/entitled/initiating divorces/not being mothers and so on. So how are men restraining themselves when basically 1.they can live their lives as they choose 2. they can comment on whatever thing women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:20 AM
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I didn’t say a younger person couldn’t get that since baggage is not a thing that has an age limit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:01 AM
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I said the point is to date someone that can understand your baggage and not piss on others just because life has been unfavourable in certain circumstances for them. Also expecting someone with no baggage to get and deal with yours is a tall order.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:55 AM
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The problem is that the men shouting from the rooftops about baggage are full of baggage themselves. Doesn’t take much scrolling trough subreddits like these to see it. The people coming from healthy backgrounds making healthy choices-they re not bothered by this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:45 AM
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It’s a big stretch to expect people to just be good partners without any prior experience. It’s also a big stretch to expect people to be good partners, understand the baggage you come with and also manage it in the proper way without any experience of their own. Also a big thing that it’s overlooked-and which I have unfortunately seen a lot happening around me with people that were ‘wallflowers’ and got into relationship that were unequal-you need to go trough certain things in order to learn h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:38 AM
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My fiance is a man. I don’t really think he would have been the same person without going trough those specific experiences. Our relationship would have been very different since he used to think he had to bottle all his feelings and not open up in front of a woman because he would appear weak. I would have certainly not married a man like his former self.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:26 AM
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I didn’t mean that a partner would have to go trough certain things in order to understand or deal with your baggage. My fiance was never a young immigrant in a country with a more progressive culture-yet we understand eachother because we both faced a certain degree of hardships in life and gained some experience from those.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:18 AM
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Just because women don’t use the same language to talk about the baggage men have it doesn’t mean it’s irrelevant. I think it’s logical to be reasonable about what ‘baggage’ is. Because men in these dating spaces overinflate and exaggerate basic human experience as baggage. Also it would be logical to want someone that can understand and deal with your baggage, not just want some emotionally blank partner to use as a crutch for your own shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:02 AM
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I don’t think I fully agree with you. Just like men, women come in two categories-there are women that would take the Mother Theresa role and try to save a broken man from his own demons (and that usually backfires in an epic way). And then there are women that are actively avoiding such men and go for ones that are actually likeable partners (and this is why there is a chunk of jaded dudes online bitching about dating).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:57 AM
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Let’s not even start on how much baggage these dudes have themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:41 AM
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Generally I agree-being an adult is not that impressive if you look at the large number of individuals that achieved the same thing. But the fun part is that there is a certain group of men that gets very bothered by women claiming their financial independence gave them the option to not settle in a relationship. So it’s pretty fun to see them getting worked up over random tiktoks with 500 views.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:28 AM
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If you went around my uni campus all the girls would tell you their career comes first and after that they can get a man later since there’s never a shortage. So if you go and look in places where career oriented women gather, you’re gonna find out their sentiments match with the ‘later 30s+ women’.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:23 AM
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Men worth their salt expect confidence, emotional intelligence, the ability to be a good communicator and a list of other things from women. Just because ppd thinks any man is desperate to just get with any woman doesn’t mean reality matches this delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:43 AM
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Yeah you’re blind. We put plenty of effort into being good partners for men that we deem high value. From being intelectually challenging, putting work into surprising a man sexually, being a supportive partner and communicating openly and the list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:52 PM
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Beware guys, the redpiller that works in fertility issues ‘as a hobby’ is here. Also it’s clear you haven’t even read the original post and you’re engaging with my comments just for shits and giggles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:05 PM
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She literally says she’s been trying for years. If you have any endocrine issue for example, you sure as hell also had it when you were 20. The point was that using that post was ignorant and claiming that just ‘some’ women are lucky to conceive at 34 is also ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:10 PM
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You know some women have fertility issues caused by other factors besides age, right? I read her post and it seems she falls in that category-plenty of women her age don’t have a hard time getting pregnant at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:49 AM
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I work as a pediatric oncologist and the amount of crazy right wingers that like to claim a kid getting cancer was punishment for what a parent did in the past would drastically change your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:01 AM
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The problem is that posts like this one just make men seem desperate to choose any woman without any actual criteria. Women put a lot of work into themseves and also reach a point where they are ‘a person their girlhood self wouldn’t even recognise’ (gosh the sheer cringe of that phrase). But hey, that will never even be acknowledged by a man because he sees you as this passive thing he gets to exercise his one liners in a strategically chosen bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:16 AM
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My point was that even tough MRA is just a small percentage of the manosphere, the youtubers that get a lot of press like to associate their discourse with systemical problems men face while not doing anything to raise awareness or draw support to these causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:40 PM
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I asked what the manosphere and redpill has specifically done. If they would support MRA causes, considering the fact they rack up hundreds of millionsnof views, they could raise awareness and money for these real causes that impact men. But they don’t. That’s the bottom line.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:41 PM
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Those girls just added their confessions because it became sort of a meme that the caleb dude got around. The ones that started the trend and connected the dots were lamenting because they dated only him. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:52 AM
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Except there’s no actual proof they were dating other men at the time. Most of them came to the revelations after they shared matching stories of going on a date and then getting ghosted by the same guy. For some reason they are not allowed to share they went on a date with this dude? They didn’t initiate any sort of campaign against him or made any callouts to threaten the dude in any way. It all started as ‘dating in nyc is trash’. They didn’t ‘stick any mob’-but guess what, people tend to not…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:04 AM
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They never get how ironic is that they are hailing a pimp as a supporter of traditionalist values. Also it’s ok for Tate to profit from the lonely men that pay his cam girls but God forbid women make OnlyFans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:23 AM
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Yeah, I might learn how women actually put more effort into getting more custody of their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:49 PM
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Point is how common is that? Because if you actually do the math-there’s no way dating in the same tax bracket means the majority of women date men that make 50k$ more per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:41 PM
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You have to be joking when the post mentions several systemic issues men face and your answer is basically ‘some youtuber made a video about making your ig enticing’. There’s nothing that can ruin your credibility more than that. Compare what feminism actually achieved for women to the achievements you listed in this comment. It’s damn laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:44 PM
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How were they doing the exact same thing since they were the ones getting lovebombed then ghosted? Unfortunately for him some women shared their dating experiences online which is their right and came to the conclusion they dated the same dude. How it’s hypocritical to be angry that you got ghosted by someone that agressively pursued you? They were not even the ones that contacted his employer-but I get it, it sucks for men when women come forward and say ‘this dude is sus’. I don’t think men wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:21 PM
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Yeah, because obviously that’s such a common example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:15 PM
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Moms also agressively pursue custody battles and spend a lot of money. But hey, whenever I don’t want to do something I also make up a bunch of excuses to justify my actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:14 PM
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The bar for attacking men is so low that y’all internalise any random woman that appears in a video that says what she would want in a partner. Also the fact that women gather on social media to tell their story on how they encountered a man that was deceitful (like West elm caleb) is shaming apparantly. But sure, it’s an ‘attack on men’ to say what you’d personally like. It’s not an attack when thousands of randos will screech that a woman has too much ‘baggage’ or that she is ‘objectifying’ me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:32 PM
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Literally anyone regardless of gender would love to be in a position that gives them access to money. They date in the same tax bracket. How does that count as dating up?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:55 PM
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People date and marry in their own tax bracket. Also the majority of men today can’t support a family just from their own income-so they fail at the basic requirement of trad masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:45 PM
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There was a user here that had a great comment debunking most of the myths about family court that rp peddles. Mainly how men that actually apply for split custody get it. Should have saved her comment for cases when questions like this one appear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:21 PM
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Probably because traditional marriage is a status symbol nowadays. You can only afford it if you have a certain income-so ofc women that want a life of leisure will be drawn to that edit: I remember having a talk with someone here about women from traditonal societies having much harsher expectations from men than your typical western woman. That’s why men often times like the idea of being perceived as this masculine leader but when time comes to rise to the ocassion they turn bitter fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:52 PM
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That was work inside the home that was not payed. So they had no financial indeendence. I also tend my garden and prepare lunch for my partner when I can-but that doesn’t make me feel like I can cosplay as a tradwife
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:45 PM
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Being a traditional man means being the sole provider of the family. The majority of modern men can’t do that so they fail at the most basic requirement of traditional masculinity. Paying for dates to signal your interest doesn’t make you some traditional man. You also have the option to not pay and find a woman that goes Dutch. It’s within men’s control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:21 PM
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How are men held to traditional standards when the majority of women work?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:11 PM
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Plenty of women have children in their 30s without any problem. It’s objectively false a woman can’t provide this hypothetical man with a family. If he wants to pass on that for whatever reason-then deal with the consequences of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:11 PM
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Or maybe they simply dislike or are inconvenienced by the idea. But where would the fun be if some men wouldn’t act like they know better what goes on inside a woman’s mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:42 AM
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Why would someome think it’s logical or completely reasonable to get this worked up over what a stranger wants in a partner? Those women just state what they want and the men online just like to catastrophize and say ‘men are treated like objects’ or ‘the man’s side is never considered’. Obviously those women are not forcing themselves on any man so that’s just stupid to say. And the majority of women still don’t have those high standards if you look at who they date or have relationships with. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:09 AM
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No, I hold the accountable for the shit they say or do since everyone can see what they comment online. You can’t hide behind the excuse of ‘it’s just content creators’. Also came across a few while I was still in my native country and they would just spam you on sm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:49 AM
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You have to question why there aren’t more economically accesible alternatives to get clothes. Ethical consumerism is something which is accesible only to people that can afford it. But I don’t expect any nuance from someone that’s hellbent to see the negatives in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:35 AM
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People can care about more than one thing at the same time, you know. Also it’s cringy men air their shit for everyone to see but can’t handle the reactions and victimise themselves. ‘stopping men from obtaining sex’ is the cringiest phrases on ppd-and the bar is high for that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:32 AM
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Better than your sample size of assuming shit just based on how people look.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:29 AM
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I got the timeline just right. Men have been whining about feminism and masculine women long before the passport bros gained traction online. Also it’s funny how the passport bros are so happy that they have to come back online just to run their mouths endlessly about women they claim to not like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:24 AM
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It’s very common knowledge and fast fashion and ethical consumerism have been debated plenty of times. Just because you don’t want to admit it and your only response is that ‘haha people buy iphone’ just shows you don’t actually care about the problem besides trying to own the other side. Or men come online, willingly say some gross shit and throwing fits about modern women and then they get surprised when people disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:22 AM
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how is it different? you said only a certain demographic of women cares and now you are backtracking on it also dicaprio is a meme at this point. i’m under 30 and while i don’t care for him, i see the memes everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:18 AM
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Yeah, exploitation of children is so low that Shein child working factories became common knowledge. Be for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:12 AM
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are the 30-40yo women also commenting about billie eilish and that dude she’s dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:04 AM
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Nice article that I’ve also seen shared on twitter a few times by people I follow with leftist views. Don’t care what your opinion of these spaces is, but it’s disningenous to act like these issues are not talked about at length.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:02 AM
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I am engaged to a man that’s very conventionally attractive. He hasn’t ever been with a woman that’s not nice looking or attractive by average standards. I know his thought process and I also know he wouldn’t have to go for women he deems undesirable since he gets plenty of opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:57 AM
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I can fanthom how a hot guy acts. I’ve dated quite a bit before settling down so I’ve seen all the stereotypes some ppd guys use to c0pe are mostly bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:49 AM
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Just go to any leftist space and you’ll see how women and men debate about capitalism, immigration, exploitation and all the issues you listed. Just because you’re biased to see only one thing doesn’t mean it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:35 AM
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It’s seriously deluded to think you can say modern women are shitty and parrot the whole passport bro discourse and expect no one to react to that. Perfect example of someone that can only throw it but can’t catch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:33 AM
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Attractive men with options don’t need placeholders. That’s among the dumbest mental gymnastics seen on ppd and that’s a high bar to reach. I’m not projecting the way women feel onto men. It’s much more plausible that a dude that tolerates you because he can’t get another woman would rather treat you like a placeholder instead of the dude that chose you out of the multiple options he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:21 AM
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I answered your question already, you just don’t like my answer. The choosing aspect is not irrelevant. And men might have whatever ideal they want, but the women they CHOSE is their current peak. Just like for the dude that’s short on options the woman he tolerates is his peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:42 PM
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How convenient to ignore some tasks are done literally everyday while others are things that have to be taken care of once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:36 PM
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The funny thing with inconsistent logic like this is that it starts with the premise that an unattractive man gets the best he can do but the attractive man with more options is ‘slumming’. Spoiler alert-the attractive man is with the woman he chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:23 PM
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How convenient you took the traditionally masculine role and said it’s expected from both genders and no longer exclusive to males but you draw the line at cooking and cleaning which are still feminine duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:20 PM
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That’s just projection. How a man treats you has no connection to how attractive he is, the only connection is to his character. But just like another user pointed out here, some men that don’t have as much success with dating have to c0pe by making up these scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:15 PM
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There are men that care about a woman’s career. I’ll take you to the hospital with me and you’ll see I have plenty of male colleagues that would never date a woman that doesn’t have a good career or a good credit score. Also people generally date and marry in their tax bracket and wealthy people generally care a lot about the financial background of their partner for a multitude of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:06 PM
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50 shades started as a twilight fanfic. that explains everything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:48 PM
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If outsourcing male tasks wouldn’t be as common there wouldn’t be literal bussinesses centered on that. Also women work and financially contribute to the household so they already took on the traditionally masculine roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:46 PM
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Cooking and cleaning are everyday tasks. Fixing the roof is a task that is easy to outsourced just like changing oil. The majority of men will never chase a burglar in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:04 PM
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not all sex is intimate by default. and not all physical intimacy requires sex. so while in a lot of cases they go together, i do think they are separate no no unless their sex drive affects their life in some way or they can’t function as an adult, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:43 PM
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Because it’s a stupid assumption. It’s like saying men with less options will treat you badly because they have gained a lot of resentment from past experiences. Generalisations are pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:32 PM
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I’ve talked only with one woman irl that was repulsed by sex. She grew up heavily influenced by purity culture and depictions of sex as being something that lowers your value and makes you dirty. So I think it’s a combination of them considering all sex partners as bad (due to some previous experiences in the past) or them not even considering sex can be good (due to a strict upbringing).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:39 PM
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I think it’s pretty obvious their dislike of sex is shaped by their previous experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:32 PM
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There is no queer theory that advocates for pedophilia. Also religious books are full of very questionable things because they were written during times where people conducted themselves in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:23 PM
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All it takes is just seeing how a lot of guys here say a dude that’s very attractive or a Chad will treat a woman worse than a dude that’s not as attractive. Just like you said, both genders like to categorise people based on their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:14 PM
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So if I find an example of a pastor that assaulted a kid that means religion supports pedos?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:05 PM
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I had the pedos mixed up. Thanks for pointing that out, after a google search I saw he was one of the three that wrote the article about the dangers of child sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:54 PM
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the fact you and other 2 people agree doesn’t mean much to me. i am arguing that men should be held to the same standards they enforce, something which they don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:52 PM
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Uh dude I was referring to the Chris Rock quote about only women being loved unconditionally which a lot of the manosphere guys like to spread everywhere. That was the point of the comment. I didn’y say ‘women can’t love’ was originated by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:16 PM
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And to my knowledge she was fired multiple times for being an outspoken feminist figure and ‘corrupting the youth’. I also consider you bring 0 proof for the claims you’ve made. I get you have a hateboner for her but unless you show some actual proof she was a rapist or broke any laws no one is taking you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:06 PM
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Actually it seems that men don’t consider bullying when they start jerking off dicaprio for not dating postwall women and congratulating him sitting next to a 19 yo. So if men don’t hold themselves accountable for all the ageist bs and the things they say about older women I have no reason to offer them any grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:55 PM
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I classify spreading stuff about her being a nonce as spewing bs, I don’t care if you consider her a good philosopher or not. I’m sure you are an active MeToo supporter since you are very keen to spread speculations about a woman that lived decades ago. I’m sure you don’t apply these weird mental gymnastics just because we’re talking about a historical figure you’re not fond of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:53 PM
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What’s hateful or agressive about people saying he is weird for dropping partners after a certain age? He could very well keep that to himself if he doesn’t like people expressing their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:41 PM
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Do you understand how sometimes people with ulterior motives attach themselves to a movement in order to push the standards on what is considered acceptable behaviour? That was the whole point-the pedos had to rebrand because literally everyone jumped from the boat when the discussion turned to 12-13 yo consenting to sex and shit like that. Your point is what every desperate atempt to discredit Beavoir does-make up some bs about her that nobody can prove because there’s no time machine to see if…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:36 PM
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Cool, now you can see why only three of the original authors rebranded with ‘The danger of child sexuality’ and lost the support of the other original co-signers. Hopefully you can link the dots.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:27 PM
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Bullying for stating their opinions and keeping him relevant? what a low bar
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:19 PM
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What female gossip bullying? He could just mind his bussiness and stop fishing for public attention. But since these relationships are PR stunts they have to be shoved down our throats.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:15 PM
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The question of the quote being accurate is dumb-because people co-signed the part about sodomy and age of consent for homosexuals relationships being higher than for heterosexual ones. Which you’d actually know if you actually read the paper instead of googling for some gotcha. Love has a pragmatic side to it no matter what gender you are. But I’m glad you’re able to say something that’s even vaguely on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:13 PM
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I admit the petition existed and that the concern was the articles about sodomy. And also the fact that the age of consent for homosexual relations was 21, which was the point of the discussion about minors consenting to sex. The point was that a bunch of French intelectuals at the time supported it because it aligned with the sexual liberation movement. They were even supported by intelectuals from a very wide spectrum of fields, even pediatricians. I have no idea why the hell am I supposed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:05 PM
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Because I have to search that for myself and see if that’s objective or not. Considering the fact you spewed bs about the age of consent debate in French, you’re not exactly a reliable source.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:44 PM
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I didn’t say youth is all that women find attractive, but he is objectively unattractive for a man his age. The clout is what generates the emotions and the dude that has money is easily replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:30 PM
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It doesn’t trigger women. It’s just funny to watch the mental gymnastics coming from men on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:05 PM
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Look for a guy that did the same thing and ask him. I generally believe we should look up to people that achieved the things we want before us and see what worked for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:50 PM
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You mean she advocated against the articles in the age of consent law that talked about sodomy and ‘relationships against nature’ that reffered to gay people? Because Foucault and Sartre supported the same petition she signed lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:49 PM
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I don’t disagree. They love clout-not necessarly the dude they have to date in a PR stunt to get clout lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:40 PM
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I can only tell you what I did, I’m no spokeperson for all women. I lead with what I consider to be my strenghts-being witty, having an outgoing personality and having artistic hobbies. Also acting a lil cold works great for guys that are used to not doing a lot of work to get women’s attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:39 PM
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Just because he dates some younger women that want his clout doesn’t mean he is actually attractive to them. PR relationships have been a thing since forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:31 PM
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And they can very well be if they play it smart. Just like men can land women that are hotter than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:28 PM
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how did he bend the knee? also it’s funny how you don’t consider the fact he really isn’t attractive nowadays. those titanic days are long gone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:20 PM
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You need to find only one person to break out of it in order to be succesful. And if going for people that are more conventionally attractive than you is your goal, nothing is really stoping you. Attraction works in a lot of ways and you just have to play your cards rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:17 PM
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Because ‘leagues’ are stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:56 PM
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if you don’t want your potential gf to go to a club without you-find some girl that wouldn’t mind that. but it feels weird to just comment endlessly on the different boundaries people have in their relationship and call other men insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:14 PM
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The obvious hole in your logic is that a man is not above a woman’s pay grade if he gets with her. He chose willingly to be with her because there is something about her that got him hooked despite what others think about it. The whole ‘above your pay grade’ point is just bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:43 AM
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Your statements have nothing to back them up. You keep clinging onto the fact that actions and feelings can be separable but obviously men that cheat or leave a woman they claimed to love UncOndItIonAlLy didn’t google the definition of the word. Or they don’t realise the fact they felt like ruining her self-esteem and trust is at odds with the ‘unconditional’ part. When your own momentary feelings come over the unconditional love you claim to feel for your partner-that’s when it’s not unconditio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:20 AM
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Don’t care with what mental gymnastics men come up with to avoid accountability. If you love someone unconditionally, you’re not gonna hurt their self esteem in ways that can be irreversible. If your unconditional love is not backed up by actions I’ve got some news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:19 PM
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He is a man. It’s funny how ‘look at what they do not what they say’ doesn’t apply to men here. Look at his actions and the actions of other millions of men that prove they don’t love women unconditionally. Hopefully I won’t have to make the same point for the fourth time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:12 PM
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Yeah, because pointing out the source can’t love a woman unconditionally is a fallacy. Please google what an ad hominem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:06 PM
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I’ve said it a few times here-RP took the ‘men are not loved unconditionally’ shtick from a comedian that cheated on his wife. That answere any questions about how serious that statement should be taken
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:35 PM
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The knickers flew over the head of guys with reading comprehension and social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:07 PM
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that would explain why you think cartoon filters resemble actual 19 yo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:08 AM
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how many 19 yo have you seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:54 AM
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The point flew over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:06 AM
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Whenever I read stuff like this here I have to remind myself lots of posters can’t comprehend women don’t treat all men the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:46 AM
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They care for a multitude of reasons. It’s much easier to date someone from the same background as you or who could afford the same things, trips and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:03 PM
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Wealthy men rarely marry or date broke women. They are not in their circles or proximity and in a lot of cases people from wealthy backgrounds either marry eachother or someone that is succesful enough on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:41 PM
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As long as the artistic mindset is still relateable or has something familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:06 PM
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Actually I think men like you that do a very niche thing don’t realise not a lot of people in general get what you’re doing. When someone tells you ‘be musical/learn an instrument’ they’re not saying learn to play something niche that the majority of people have no idea about. Sure-your stories are sweet and it’s cool you do your own thing. But it’s kinda obvious why harmonica and bongo are not chick magnets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:12 PM
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obviously the men that think american women are cool won’t gather here. and there are plenty of other places where europeans tell their dating woes if you search for them. so it does change the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:58 PM
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no shit we’re on a debate sub with 90%+ americans
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:54 PM
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Ignoring that the studies about pair bonding say there is also a correlation for high n men to pair bond less, ignoring that a higher body count also correlates with more drug consumption, cheating tendencies and instability in men too, showing just half of the 80/20 okcupid study (OLD has a gender ratio that heavily favours men; also men still ended up messaging the more attractive women).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:52 PM
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the way they interpret that empirical data is pretty laughable in a majority of cases. this is why pulling out studies you find online but lacking the ability to interpret them doesn’t give you legitimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:06 PM
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rarely. we have a family groupchat and whenever i send pictures from a vacation for example there’s always one or two with me and my fiance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:41 PM
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if a dude has some other thing going on for him that’s very attractive to said woman. at least from what i’ve generally seen happening around me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:23 PM
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How do you know how useful therapy is for ‘masculine’ people? It just sounds like you base your opinions on cliches.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:13 PM
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her point is that wanting to partner up with someone just because you’re desperate doesn’t mean you are actually attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:09 PM
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Strange men are treated with more caution because of the obvious physical imbalance. I have some chances in fighting against some random woman than against a random man. I’m wary of any stranger whenever I am walking by myself at night for example, regardless of gender. And I know for sure my brothers are also wary of a stranger man because they know they could get jumped or shit like that. Because they are aware of man on man violence being a thing. The boys are the minority but they have other…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:34 PM
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how can you cheat in an open marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:14 AM
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Yeah, you skipped the parts where countries ruled by queens were attacked more and had tougher political climates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:41 AM
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the obvious answer is to just act the same as you did before. if you don’t feel like going out of your way to be more friendly you don’t have to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:48 AM
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Well it’s just a few misguided americans that think the soviet union was feminist. Historians, people that actually lived those times and people that actually understand what feminism is all agree it was not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:28 AM
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Some younger women like older men. But generally people end up with fairly age matched partners. So does it happen? Yeah. Are all younger women attracted to older men? No. Does society tell a woman it’s wrong to date older men? This is a fairly recent thing-age gap discourse is pretty new. But I’m sure the women that are into older men don’t really care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:02 AM
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Well Joey Swolle (I think that’s his name) does a good job at showing that some women are unreasonable when they do that and he gets a lot of support. I used to see a lot of content on tiktok that fed some anxieties I had-but I just decided to stop engaging with crap because it was distorting my view of how common these events actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:17 PM
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that’s the pill they never want to swallow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:10 PM
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While I can relate to the tendency to assume the worst scenario will happen-if she won’t like your face she’ll just say ‘no’ and move on to other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:56 PM
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Then go and practice when you feel you are in a good mental place. There’s nothing to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:35 PM
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Honestly don’t know. There was a picture posted by the US Military if I remember correctly that showed their women and queer members and conservatives lost their shit about it and lamented that women and queer people are too weak to defend a country. It got me wondering how this topic becomes paradoxical because the side that mainly whines about feminism loses their marbles in a scenario like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:31 PM
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I’m sure that happens in some cases. I’m curious tho if the virginity question popped up because of a lack of chemistry, flirting or sexual tension. Because ime people just have sex, having some kind of talk about body count or virginity is not the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:14 PM
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do you really think a woman that finds you attractive enough to sleep with is gonna ask if you’re a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:52 PM
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i’m 25. for someone my age i’d say 15-20 is where a bodycount gets high.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:22 PM
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And that’s what qualifies as feminist for you? edit: they worked full time jobs and did the entirety of child raising and house keeping by themselves. that’s not feminist by any sane standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:28 PM
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bruh. you’re right those are empty buzzwords if we call the ex soviets states progressive and feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:14 PM
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If this were my first rodeo on ppd there might have been a chance to agree with you. But since it’s not and I’ve seen the way men act here and the things they say-there’s a low percentage of valid criticism coming from men. Mostly it’s just an echo chamber for men to whine and pat themselves on the back that they’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:00 PM
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There were lots of marriages of convenience because of the benefits that people got by having the married status. I wasn’t surprised by the high divorce rate because I alteady knew lots of people married young to get better access to jobs, housing or the chance to move to a bigger city. Not because they were compatible or in love. I always had an interest in the social dynamics in the past and how they influenced the present. That’s how I know life after a divorce wasn’t easy for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:41 PM
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Do you know what’s the average age of the girls that read those books? Because your average 15 yo girl ain’t concerned with things like power dofferentials or age gaps because she’s literally a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:35 PM
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hello there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:25 PM
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Women ain’t perfect, I will agree to that. But that doesn’t mean any criticism of us coming from men is valid. Especially since sometimes there is some truly bonkers shit men on this sub try to pass as criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:24 PM
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Maybe because they saw the catastrophic influence that decision had on Monica’s life, you know? Just like I had a former highschool mate that was sent to Afghanistan on a OTAN mission and after one of his mates died returned to our country and realised how ‘shit just got real’.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:23 PM
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Seriously dude-the fact that they were born BEFORE marriage doesn’t tell you anything at all? That social pressure meant you’re gonna marry the dude/girl you just had a kid with because that’s what society expects you to? Just because there were kids born out of wedlock doesn’t mean the mothers weren’t ostracised from society. If you google how hard to access safe contraceptives was in that time you’ll get your answers to these questions (sheep intestines weren’t that effective btw). I generally…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:19 PM
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it’s crazy how these extremely good looking people get surgery just because some features become trendy at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:08 PM
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Maybe the example of those young women in the military should tell you they didn’t realise the full extent of what they signed up for. Which should be pretty telling of how many teens think about things in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:03 PM
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Actually no. So many lives have been lost, millions of people left to other countries, the ones that will survive will be left with lifelong trauma that will mark generations to come, rebuilding the country will take a long time. All the scenarios are grim looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:59 PM
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And as I said before-the people that agree with me are no fans of making life and death decisions that young either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:57 PM
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Forming families was heavily encouraged trough granting certain advantages to married couples. Men still had more authority in their families than women had. Men represented the state. You can interpret patriarchy as you wish. Doesn’t change what the meaning of the word that is generally accepted by everyone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:56 PM
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Yes I know. I also see what men here claim is ‘valid’ criticism of women and how they are surprised they are going to be challenged on a (check notes) debate forum about gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:53 PM
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I think those questions are fairly stupid tbh. Adulthood is not something that happens over night; you don’t magically turn into an adult the moment you turn 18. Recognising maturing is a process and we should allow teens to come into it doesn’t mean we consider them incapable of body autonomy. It means we consider we should prepare them to exercise their body autonomy at one point. Plenty of people say age gap relationships are no biggie after both parties have reached some basic adulthood mile…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:50 PM
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I think there is a pretty big overlap of the mothers that agree to send their 20 yo to the military and the mothers that don’t care about age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:31 PM
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Maybe because having a kid out of wedlock or in a single parent home was heavily scrutinized by society? Maybe because other people would avoid you and the stigma would also be reflected on the kid that would get bullied for having a ‘whore mother’?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:29 PM
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I don’t have my genders wrong. You seem to forget how men also love to say ‘not all men’ but have a problem when women do the same. Interesting phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:26 PM
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I’m engaged so that obviously makes me not dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:25 PM
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Romania
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:24 PM
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It’s peak solipsisism to make a claim about ALL women and then expect people to accept it as valid criticism. This is why even a good chunk of men see why under the veil of ‘valid criticism’ red pill is actually just a bunch of misogynystic shite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:53 PM
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Well our little westerner friend insists on the fact that families were not even real lol. It’s always funny to engage with people that want to seem knowledgable on sth they know very little about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:22 PM
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Sorry but the amount of straight up bullshit in this comment makes it useless to enagage with you further. Cheating was not widespread and just because there was no Christian morality it doesn’t mean patriarchy didn’t perpetuate double standards about the purity of women. This is why single motherhood was social suicide and men had little to no responsability towards their own kids. They could just impregnate a woman and move on-the shame was only on the shoulders of the woman that had a kid out…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:20 PM
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The nuclear family was far from being destroyed lmfao. Fathers were the rulers of the families and women had little to no say in that. Just because you can send some quotes from the Bolshevik doctrine doesn’t mean that was ever actually achieved. Both the families and state were ruled by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:59 PM
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They are slightly more progressive than the older generations. But in no way do they come close to the youth in western countries. That’s just crazy to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:54 PM
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Very convenient that the abolition of personal property meant everything was subordinated to the men that were in power. Yeah, they were concerned with population growth-that’s why the rates for unofficial abortions made by some doctor with a wirehanger skyrocketed during that time period. Your theory about men dying is bullshit-in a nuclear family there were a man and a woman, both whom worked jobs but there was no distribution of tasks that concerned raising kids and mantaining the house. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:43 PM
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I think I know what I’m talking about. Just because the ukrainian youth is slightly more progressive doesn’t mean ukraine as a whole is feminist. A big part of their youth is very right leaning and the more you go to the rural areas the less progressive people are. This remind me a lot of my homecountry which was also under a communist regime.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:32 PM
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I can’t seriously believe someone is asking something like that. I’m from an ex communist country-who do you think represented the party and state? Who do you think died because abortion was illegal? Who do you think could have been beaten to death by a spouse without any legal consequence because domestic violence was no biggie? Who do you think worked a job and did everything related to housekeeping at the same time? But sure, nothing patriarchal about that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:08 PM
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So what about the wars that happened for thousands of years before capitalism was born lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:05 PM
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The point is that Ukraine was never feminist to begin with. So the argument is really dumb. Patriarchy stays because it never left.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:22 AM
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For the majority of women under 25 a man in the 35-45 range is very unappealing. I’m barely over 25 and a 45 yo feels like a geriatric. This advice has to be a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:32 AM
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sorry to crush your idealised image of how relationships were in the past. good night
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:22 AM
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i’m sure those happiness rates are very trustworthy. after all happiness is something you can obiectively measure and we shouldn’t take into account that the most common advice older women give to their younger peers is to never be dependant on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:36 AM
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have you ever heard the jokes older people make about marriage? all boomer humour is about having a nagging wife and how a man looses his freedom once he gets married. yeah, sounds very healthy and modern people should get back to that instead of having freedom to choose what they deem best
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:34 AM
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We’re either browsing different subs or you’re more solipsistic than you’d like to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:32 AM
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The point is that because of the rules at the place I volunteer at what we have to present girls and boys with all the available options of a career path, not just skip some because they aren’t generally liked by one gender. So this is why I see how the 60/40 is easy to explain by the fact there are a lot of majors that are not appealing to men so of course they won’t go for it. I’m asking again-how can the number of girls and boys be equal if they are not equally interested in the fields that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:30 AM
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Your are the prime example of what I said-men here dodge accountability for the actions of the majority by throwing buzzwords around. Yes, I’m happy to see my theory proven right once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:14 AM
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Don’t ask me-ask the people that complain non-stop how it’s not fair that men are obligated to fight for a country that has always been ruled by a patriarchal culture and that it’s the fault of feminists for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:04 AM
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See, this is one of the tactics men here use when I tell them men also do certain thing. They throw buzzwords like feminine men/soyboy/betas and try to exclude themselves from the group that does that. Funny how that goes. Also men do it here everyday too. Pay more attention
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:00 AM
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You keep saying badmouthing women is not done in polite society and keep pushing the misandry card when the reality is misandry isn’t and wasn’t ever as popular as misogyny. That’s the point. I used to think the same as you that we should crack on both but I got tired of men not making the effort. There are dudes (that despite the fact misogyny is verbotem or whatever c**e y’all tell yourselves) built platforms of millions of misogynystic dudes and heavily profit from that. So it’s not just tota…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:52 AM
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Even funnier is when you tell them Ukraine was never some feminist utopia. So whenever they whine about women leaving and men staying to defend their country because that’s not a feminist scenario I have to wonder if they even know where Ukraine is located.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:39 AM
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Wait until you see how men act here when you try to make a general claim about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:25 AM
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Yeah, that’s the healthiest relationship model. This is why everyone decided to move on from it and only a minority of people goes for this lifestyle now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:22 AM
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Wow, free food-what a win. So you can’t show me any actual misandrist creator but give me some examples of women that were involved in UN at some point? Cool, we can start that game and I can assure you that whatever number of women making these things you find, I can find 3x the number of men that are on twitter, facebook, social media and politics doing the same. Good that you are getting called out for it in real life-means people are not going to tolerate open misogyny. If you actually analy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:21 AM
1

Do you really think the people that think 20 is way too young for an age gap relationship support 20 yo boys going to wars? That’s delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:10 AM
1

The majority of the discourse about age gap and grooming explicitly says there is an expiration date. Generally when both parties have some life experiences, are established in some ways and have some maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:03 AM
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Why is it that the only options for people like you is for a woman to be a slut or marry some dude that’s 10+ years her senior? Think logically
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:51 AM
1

No, women don’t get anything out of wasted time on a siruationship or a date that didn’t lead anywhere. Please show me one ‘misandrist’ creator that racks up the views like the misogynystic RP ones do. Spoiler-you can’t. That’s proof whatever demonisation of men you say happened in 10 years ain’t even close to the misogyny-but whatever, everyone’s used to men here playing the victim card constantly. Also it’s not verboten to talk shit about women, another common complaint from men here that’s de…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:13 AM
2

Multiplying with someone whom you can’t rely on is among the dumbest things people can do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:23 PM
2

I can guarantee that if i post a suggestive pic my fiance would comment 🔥🔥 emojis. Stop assuming all men are getting worked up over shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:58 PM
5

none, but it’s fun for them to act like they are forbidden from dating certain women to seem like victims
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:18 PM
1

We throw that word for the category of men that claim it was a vindictive woman that kept them from being present fathers. When in reality things don’t work out like that and courts don’t decide who keeps the kid based on vibez or just because a woman said a man is violent. There is a great comment here that’s the second most upvoted that debunks the myths men conveniently entertain about family courts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:29 PM
5

maybe because the majority of couples already bonded over sharing hobbies or interests. so the common interests are already there and unaffected by the fact a woman lost her vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:24 PM
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Contouring that actually makes you look different is very noticeable in real life. It’s a practice that’s meant for photos and filters-in real life you can’y get away with the cake-lile texture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:48 PM
2

Or maybe men have more varied preferences but it wouldn’t be convenient for guys like you to admit that. Instead just call them beta because that’s the cheapest excuse in the book
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:46 PM
3

Lol the point is that their content gets monetised. They make money from people watching their videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:44 PM
-2

Who sees Cardi B as an inspiration? There is the false narrative peddled by men that she is some sort of rolemodel to women and not just a singer with catchy tunes (that was on trial for her actions btw). Sounds like the boomers that were against rap music.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:40 PM
8

Very little women actually wear a heavy layer of makeup that distorts their features. It takes a lot of time and money to achieve that-not to also mention skill that not all women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:20 PM
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More women invest in good grooming, skin care routines and nice clothes. Also I see plenty of good looking guys that were gifted their looks by nature-sure as shit it wasn’t gym that made them 6ft with light green eyes, sharp jaw and great teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:16 PM
0

What’s the point of having a partner if he can’t add anything to your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:56 AM
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Idk what’s so hard to understand that women also have to make the choice between being fair and treating men as individuals and not as a majorly flawed group. EVERYONE is based in results at the end of the day. Are only men wasting time in situationships? Wasting also their time and money? The majority of red pill is full of misogynistic bs, there is no denying at this point since everyone can see what kind of content gets the most traction in this community. I don’t really care what you decide …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:24 AM
1

This hardly relates to the fact that custody is decided in a court and based on evidence both parties bring, not on twitter. The ‘she was gonna say I abused her!’ is the favourite catchphrase of a deadbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:55 AM
1

You forgot to add that claiming abuse is effective when you also show proof for that. The victim fetish some men here have should be studied one day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:47 AM
1

And she had money?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:41 AM
1

I did the research on consent laws, that’s why I know only someone unaware of how the law works would come up with bs like that. Anyway, I’ll answer only when you’ll actually engage with a point. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:08 AM
1

I’ve seen her. She’s basically doing what I tought about when I first came across the manosphere. Parroting their talking points as a woman and profit from that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:03 AM
2

I’ve seen some of the most attractive dudes I met in real life date women that were older than them. Guess it’s time someone informed them they’re some beta sclubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:43 AM
1

You can’t google laws about consent to see for yourself how stupid your refutation is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:40 AM
1

So he would still judge a woman for doing things he wished he did but can’t acomplish? Still deeply hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:08 AM
1

Friendly advice-your gotcha about raising the age of consent doesn’t mean minors can’t have sex with other minors. Just like they’ve done since the beginning of humanity. Maybe next time you’ll think lf a gotcha that doesn’t have an asteroid hole in it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:07 AM
1

The percentage of women that ‘want to be sluts’ is vastly exaggerated by RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:59 AM
1

How can you seriously expect people to believe it brings you no pleasure? It obviously does since you have a myriad of other ways to go about things yet you chose the ones that emotionally hurt other people. Smh the lies you people tell yourselves to not face the fact you are responsible for your shitty actions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:54 AM
0

This is among the dumbest views expressed here-you’re not a victim of the market. Take some accountability for your actions and stop fueling the victim narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:53 AM
1

It’s hypocritical to expect women to have the self control you lack. That’s all and no amonut of mental gymnastics are going to convince people that it’s not. If you engage in a certain behaviour yet judge harshly others that do that too (and which make that behaviour possible for you since in order to have casual sex you need to find women that are down for it)-you’re a hypocrite and people are allowed to call you out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:47 AM
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Just like 46 is ancient to settle down by RP standards for women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:39 AM
1

If you read carefully my replies you’ll find the answer to your question laid very clearly and easy to understand. I know all the gotchas of people that want to die on this age gap hill already
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:32 AM
1

Just tell me you don’t read my comments so I won’t bother replying anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:20 AM
1

Generally a dude that has at least basic adulting experience-people generally get that at 24-25
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:17 AM
1

Why is limiting the rights of others the default response to people that say ‘hey, some situations are harder to navigate than others’? I had students at work that hit on me and they were 19-guess what, I didn’t advocate for their rights to be limited. I just told them they have six long years before they will get to where I am in life Ah and another thing I enjoy about this discourse-older men will parade all the studies and research that favour their point. But sweep the research that conclude…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:08 AM
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Both sides have made their arguments perfectly clear at this point because this topic has been run to the ground. Also the fact that people change a lot from the day they turn 18 and are barely out of highschool to the day they get their first steady job and gain a lil life experience-which is why age gaps can be icky. Also it would help the cause to see older men express their appreciation of younger women by listing other traits despite submissive/moldable/non damaged and the likes. It’s like …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:55 AM
2

she looks the same except for the weird hairline. don’t know what delights you enjoyed if you actually believe any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:34 AM
1

she just changed her haircut
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:28 AM
2

The problem is that whatever the man is bothered by is not explicitly stated-the women mainly say their atempt to communicate about the low points of a relationship are labeled as nagging. It’s pretty hard to understand what you’re doing wrong or why the things you do affect your partner if he doesn’t want to communicate about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:51 PM
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how can someone change a view that has no rational basis? it’s like asking someone to cmv that blue is the best colour
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:00 PM
1

Or maybe the guy bestie also had his fun and they just happened to synch at a later stage of their friendship. This is what happens in the majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:53 PM
2

there’s absolutely no way every woman here is dating a Chad when they are supposed to be like top 1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:34 PM
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is she angry or is she just observing a pattern of behaviour a lot of men in these spaces share?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:17 PM
1

I was obviously refering to the scenario in which your partner would be the one emotionally cheating and acting in a way that disrespects the boundaries you two have. But hey, don’t forget to let her have her social matrix!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:53 PM
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Also I can’t forget that a few years ago he said he doesn’t care about pronouns and that he is veeeery fluid or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:51 PM
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he has to rebrand himself because he can’t just lay low and enjoy the astronomical wealth he claims he has. he is a legit attention hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:41 PM
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No one ever used ‘emotional pregnancy’ or ‘emotional virginity’. I appreciate your commitment to the shtick of not getting some very obvious concept. It’s not armchair psychoanalysis, it’s just your faulty logic biting you in the ass. But I’m sure you’ll suddenly have an epiphany and understand what emotional cheating is if it ever happened in your relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:40 PM
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So you can come up with a definition yourself-you’re either a beta hubby or just the regular ppd dude that has to twist any obvious concept in something that can be blamed on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:14 PM
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So just because they didn’t add the phrase ‘someone you have romantic feelings for’ you decided to come up with that bs explanation? Is it really that complicated to realise the nature of feelings is what makes it cheating? No, you use the word gaslighting more freely than a 15 yo that went trough their first breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:44 PM
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Just because you fail to understand a simple concept it doesn’t mean it’s gaslighting. Also the way you use the term ‘gaslighting’ so freely makes you a prime candidate to be the editor of a magazine for teens
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:32 PM
2

Wow, you’ve observed only negative things about women and only positive things about men. Never change ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:27 PM
2

how jaded are you that even a simple concept like emotional cheating (which anyone that has worked in a big mixed group of people has observed at least once) is framed as a psy-op made by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:17 PM
1

we don’t know shit about their former relationship and who did what. just because they are celebrities doesn’t mean we have any idea what actually goes on in their personal lives
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:14 PM
1

just because you refuse to understand the concept of an emotional affair doesn’t mean they are a non-existent thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:12 PM
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Maybe because for the majority of people the word fuckboy has a negative connotation. Tell people you want to improve on something that is widely considered as a positive and then tell us if someone is against it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:26 AM
1

And why are we being bombarded with ads on what gifts or lingerie to buy for a man for vday?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:05 AM
1

did you actually read the comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:02 AM
1

Do you think the women that are on Drake’s roster (jesus what a stupid term) don’t know that? Or that they entertain only Drake?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:57 AM
1

I’ve seen your argument plenty of times here-still doesn’t account for the many negative corelatioks of a high bc or for the fact that average women still report a lower bodycount than average men (because having more options doesn’t mean you act on them).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:57 AM
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It’s irrelevant to the fact that there are many negative corelations that can be traced to men with high bc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:50 AM
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The literature finds that high bc corelates with higher chances of cheating, drug use or personality disorders for BOTH genders. I know the point that a man has to work for sleeping with more women but that doesn’t mean this double standard suddenly becomes acceptable to everyone. Also the same study that said pair bonding is lowered by a higher body count specifically says the same applies for men-so as you can see there are plenty of negative corelations of a high body count for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:15 AM
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It’s not a humans rights violation-these dudes are not detained without charges. They actually have three charges. But the prosecutors here are not obligated to present their evidence until the trial starts. They can decide to detain them from a maximum of six months to further work on the case (which they have been doing so far) and colaborate with the UK embassy (they are foreign citizens). Also they are an obvious flight risk-so how could they detain them from only 72h in this case? Every tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:54 AM
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I don’t think they are going to be found innocent. There are a few signs indicating that-the fact the department against organised crime got involved and not just the police and the main prosecutor of the case having a strong trackrecord against human traffickers. Also no prosecutor would want to embarass our country as some place were human rights are violated, especially since western media already paints our legal system as a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:32 PM
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They obviously have reasons to do so. They are just not obligated to present the evidence until the trial. Since the end of december the prosecutors have done even more digging on other people that were affilliated with the brothers. Add in the fact that these dudes are not romanian citizens and that our organised crime investigation is also working with the UK government on discovering what other things they have been investigated for in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:19 PM
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No. The law here works in a different way. He can be detained up to six months and evidence is usually presented at the trial. The prosecutors are under no obligation to make their evidence public before the trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:08 PM
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Lol he is getting a due process and the prosecutors are not doing anything out of the ordinary. They can detain him up to six months while the case is finished and this is what they have done since the end of December. They also questioned people that were affiliated with the brothers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:46 PM
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i understand that keeping up with the laws of a different country is hard but this is a very ignorant take. the police here haven’t done anything out of the ordinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:44 PM
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This is why rp guys shouldn’t be taken seriously. Plenty of women complain about dating for legitimate reasons but of course it’s easier to dismiss that using buzzwords like ‘accountability’ (a word which redpillers love to strip of any meaning).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:00 AM
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this is the way. but all the dudes complaining about afirmative consent act like you have to ask her father before looking in a woman’s direction. and she’ll also film that and post it on tiktok because women just randomly get their phone in your face
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:16 PM
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also consent and safe words are a big part of bdsm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:22 PM
9

That’s literally what you said or implied multiple times in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:02 PM
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The point that a woman that wasn’t in a relationship or committed to someone had casual sex and it wasn’t ‘in good faith’ is really dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:53 PM
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isn’t there some really tense climate going on in korea right now? with the president wanting to abolish the ministry of gender equality and sort of leaning anti feminist and feminists protesting? also the lowest fertility rate in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:44 PM
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Or maybe you’re just messy and you can’t accept that. Iron that freaking t-shirt in the time it takes to bitch on ppd that a lot of people came to the same conclusion about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:40 PM
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The men on this sub have completely devalued the notion of accountability, they just like to parrot that word because it counts as ‘women bad’
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:38 PM
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My comment was mainly about the west being more open about domestic violence towards men. Because other cultures are more patriatchal men are not seen as victims or believed when they suffer from dv. I know men in certain parts of the world kill their wives if they feel she was unfaithful. Bit that doesn’t stop infidelity since it’s something that has happened since the beggining of our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:18 PM
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Sure, all these different women have one thing in common and you expect us to believe they’re just obssesed with cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:37 AM
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Did you live outside the west? Because where I come from domestic violence against men is usually a meme, the majority of people laugh at the idea of a man being abused by a woman. Also infidelity still exists in comparable numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:26 AM
2

All house expenses are shared 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:21 AM
2

I love ppd because absolutely anything can be the fault of a woman if y’all reach hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:55 PM
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you can scroll and click on the links that will direct you to the superdrug and cdc studies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:42 PM
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I’m talking straight out of studies and surveys about the average number of sexual partners men and women report. Why are you so pressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:13 PM
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so the most thristed footballer in the world right now is not good enough for him? guess men have higher standards than women when it comes to men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:23 PM
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Me and my fiance live in a flat, not a lot of maintenance to do here and if something happens we pay a plumber or an electrician. I take care of my own car. If it accounts for something I loved cleaning the snow during the winter time when I was a kid or a teen lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:51 PM
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Honestly if I were in that situation I would chose the option that represents the smaller ick. Sex work is a popular topic right now and I think there are better chances to find women that are okay with men engaging in this under ethical conditions. I think the number of women that would be okay with a 40 yo virgin without making assumptions about him would be smaller compared to the ones that would accept you visited an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:38 PM
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yeah, i’m sure they are the same women saying that. it couldn’t possibly be different people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:05 PM
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don’t overestimate yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:50 PM
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c. i’m taking lilith on the best date of her life because she’s the spiciest here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:22 PM
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Do you think men don’t cheat on women? Also I’m not concerned about what trad-con men do since I don’t date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:11 PM
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You’re sure your comment has any connection to mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:58 PM
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Maybe they just didn’t want to be filmed by someone random. Not everyone is okay with this kind of thing and the fact someone found 6 women and 4 men that fit this scenario doesn’t prove anything. I gave a street interview last summer, but they were very respectful and honest about the whole process.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:03 PM
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And just because they didn’t want to shake the hand of a stranger with a camera means they think he’s an enemy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:21 PM
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The majority of people don’t even reach 10 sexual partners. If I remember correctly, women reported having something like 7 different partners over the years. The point that the majority of women have like 30+ bodies or are damaged by casual sex is another weird trope men here perpetuate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:06 PM
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The responses to his question contradict you dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:13 PM
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What you replied doesn’t contradict what I said. If men prefer women that are 5 years younger, 30 yo women can pair with 35 yo men. The point is the ‘tatted up’ narrative and saying how the 30 yo women spent their youth hooking up is a very tired trope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:01 PM
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The post mainly focuses on dating. That’s why OP talks about men that see women as their enemies in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:46 PM
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And a desirable man that’s 35 can easily date an early 30s woman. I just find it weird how dudes say they don’t want jaded women yet they are so jaded themselves they parrot stuff like this. There are plenty of women that are single at 30 and didn’t hook up in their youth, relationships just don’t work out sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:41 PM
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I don’t care for warning from randos on ppd, I care only about the women I see succeeding in real life and how to be like them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:34 PM
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in order for their arguments to hold water they have to generalise all 30 women as single moms with tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:33 PM
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The famous study that claims single women are happier than married women, duh. See how everyone can weaponise these surveys to fit their agendas?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:31 PM
2

I’m doing just fine. Just like the women I chose to mentor me on this path
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:30 PM
1

yeah, i really trust that the women who couldn’t own land or open a bank account or vote would openly admit they’re not happy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:29 PM
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are we supposed to hate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:25 PM
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So then what’s the point of men complaining women generally date up? Basically y’all are complaining about women you don’t generally want to date or consider bitchy by default
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:22 PM
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I never wanted a traditional relationship and I don’t have conservative views so I wouldn’t have been compatible with a trad-con. I always wanted a relationship that is 50/50 so I excluded all men that didn’t want to help with house chores or wanted to be the leader of the relationship. Also avoided the men that OP described in the post that are very jaded and have mainly negative views of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:31 PM
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I don’t see men as enemies. But when I was searching for relationships I quickly learned there are some types I should avoid at all costs since we are not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:54 PM
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Like I said in a reply to a comment here, men like to play this ‘women want high earners’ card when they can use it to their benefit to seem disadvantaged or say dating is unfair. But if they actually get to date a woman that earns more, the majority doesn’t like that. Anyway, for a man that got laid, had relationships and has more interesting hobbies than the average person, you seem to have a hard time understanding how your requirements shrink your dating pool. Also you use apps where people …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:10 PM
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Mainstream man is obese or overweight himself. At least in the US. He also seems to like pointing fingers at the other gender for shit he also does
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:49 AM
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Or people are free to have their own bpundaries in relationships. Want to watch porn? Find one of the millions of women who is okay with it. No sane woman will give up on her boundaries because men come up with pussy cartel conspiracy theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:41 AM
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And men don’t want a woman earning more than them. Been there, done that and I’m convinced men use this card whenever is convenient for them to seem like they are disadvantaged by the dating landscape. The majority of men is not supportive of a dynamic like this and don’t know how to be cheerleaders (kudos to the small percentage that know how to do that)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:30 AM
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Obviously the women that invest that much time and effort into becoming very skilled and powerful in their profession do it because they are passionate and driven. Some might not find romantic succes (just like some men won’t) but they have the means and freedom to fill their lives with different things. Society is just more forgiving of someone being unhappy and married than someone being slightly unhappy and unmarried (even tough they don’t drag down another man or woman with them in a dull re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:23 AM
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It’s actually because they’ve experienced the downsides of adhering to strict gender roles. I remember my grandma told me the day I graduated that she’s so happy I’ll get to experience the world because she had a very ‘small’ life. Also considering the fact that in the western world people generally get married around 28-29 it’s possible to have it all like in the scenario you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:14 AM
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Then why do women that lived this kind of lifestyle mostly tell young women to pursue the opposite of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:03 AM
1

unfortunately i met and know people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:17 PM
1

please leave me with this sentimental bullshit, i happen to know what these people feel. go die on another hill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:59 AM
1

that’s so random. i have tickets to see them on my bday next year, i can’t wait
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:42 AM
2

damiano david
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:19 AM
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that’s my personal boundary. i wouldn’t want to be with someone that develops parasocial relationships with other women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:54 AM
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I wouldn’t date him if he wants to continue to do that while being in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:49 AM
2

you’re right, asking does no harm. the thing is that i’ve seen some pretty extreme activists talking about these sort of things online and i want to navigate situations like this one with care
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:33 AM
1

yeah i understand some people might feel like they would be criticised for their weight. but i like to think i never come across like that because people i work with are already in a very fragile mental state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:25 AM
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we work with a lot of medication that is dosed based on weight, i think this is why i am a bit lost by these guidelines. but steping on the scale backwards is a good suggestion, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:22 AM
2

Q4A: have you ever encountered irl someone that talks about fatphobia or believe that fat people are opressed? i am just reading some protocols i got at work and we’re adviced to not weigh patients without consent due to the possibility of being fatphobic. this just feels very weird
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:06 AM
1

sorry, i wanted to ask how you knew how sbf’s ex tits look like. i know there were reports they were part of a polycule or some wild stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:41 AM
1

wait, how do they know how her tits look? they had a sex tape leak or something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:28 AM
1

think of the actual percentage of sex workers that actually make that much money. they don’t make six figures in most cases, that’s a rare occurence
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:59 AM
1

i have a coworker that struggled with my name and she asked me if it would be ok to call me sam for short. i liked it and decided to use it every time i meet someone new
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:03 PM
2

face, mainly the eyes and teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:50 PM
2

still broke and appearantly you don’t appreciate a woman that takes a huge swig of vodka
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:01 PM
2

then you have almost zero chances to get a eastern european wife
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:41 PM
1

Literally the proof is a few clicks away, you’re obviously arguing in bad faith. Or you’re unable to use a search engine, I would cut you some slack if that were the case
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:30 PM
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err no. and you also have zero proof to back up all the claims you have made in these comments so far. i genuinely wonder why people have this sort of blind belief that the opposite gender will just do some things and you have no control over that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:23 PM
8

women’s love is not ephemeral, some dudes just take it for granted and act surprised when they face the consequences of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:12 PM
1

The main narrative is against forced gender roles wether you are a man or a woman. There’s some people on the extremes of the spectrum that have a problem because society is shifting from just puting people into a box based on genitals and cry that masculinity and femininity are not automatically pedestalized. Teaching boys and men to have some social intelligence when approaching women is far from a bad thing. Lack of reading the room is what prevents a good chunk of people from having romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:50 PM
1

Maybe if you actually think who doesn’t support it you’ll realise it’s the right leaning people. So go have a chat with them about that. There’s no main narrative bullshit. Don’t be a creep and don’t approach people that don’t want to. Two very common sense rules to follow. I don’t see how the type of people that don’t respect others wish for private space need any support, but you’re free to die on that hill if that’s your wish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:14 PM
2

or people just think the pursuit of virtue and character is genderless and the culture is not stoping you from that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:03 PM
1

no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:04 PM
1

i’m more attracted to my partner than i was to my ex and we’ve nanaged to achieve some cool things together. also my ex grew out of his ‘bad boy’ phase and matured which i think happens in a considerable amount of cases
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:54 PM
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Literally dude, where did I say women tourists are better? I just said there’s less of them and they don’t have organised communities. The rest of your comment is pure rambling and you’re very determined to believe the narrative it’s ‘sexist’ to have critiques against sex tourism. And I didn’t live most of my life in a western culture. I don’t necessarly find it superior to my roots, I just think it’s fucked some dudes will not let their potential wives have the agency to decide for themselves w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:48 PM
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i don’t expect westerners to get why the fetishization and taking advantage of the fact others live in deep poverty doesn’t mean they ‘willingly’ engage in something. this comment thread was really long and i’m sorry, but i don’t feel like typing the same thing for the fifth time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:06 PM
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I lived for 22 years in a country where these dudes come for it. Again, you’ve got zero proof for whatever case you want to argue but somehow claim people’s documented deeds don’t count lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:41 PM
2

Yeah it goes both ways. Where I am from the scammers dream of finding a LBH (Loser back home) that’s gonna send them money without ever meeting. The issue will always be for me the power dynamic and the entitlement of westerners that exploit these inequality loopholes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:07 PM
2

Bruh I didn’t make no ‘grandiose psychological pathology’. This topic is about sex tourism in poorer countries and you and others play the whataboutism card that if you have critiques against it you ‘ham project it upon every guy who ever had sex with someone of a different nationality’. This is just arguing in bad faith when y’all don’t even want to stick to the topic of men purposefully going to poorer countries to get laid because they want to leverage their money. It’s not some vague forums,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:04 PM
2

Just like plenty of dudes here, you have a problem understanding what this topic was about. This is literally pointless since you’re moving the goalposts constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:46 PM
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Well, my bar for someone ‘criticizing’ is higher than yours. You just repeat the same word without bringing any sources or examples-this is hardly a critique, it’s more likely a kid pointing fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:36 PM
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It’s not unhinged projection. It’s funny how dudes like you that play the victim card and say people have a different attitude towards women engaging in this have zero proof to back it up. It’s crickets. Of course no actual source is good enough when you have nothing to back your point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:33 PM
1

I’ve never heard a secure person saying shit like ‘you never know completely if you’re played or not’. It’s not cuantum physics to learn how to test for that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:50 PM
3

Plenty of campaigns and social discourse about recognising and legalising sex work, you conveniently ignore those. Also there’s no law against approaching a woman without being a creep and against her wishes. Nothing problematic about that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:36 PM
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SIGN language offender right here. Also a geography offender
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:31 PM
3

Sure, nothing wrong with it. But there are plenty of cases where prostitution is a desperate solution for people in need. I’ve seen it plenty of times in my native country where these dudes think they’ll find their submissive cheap wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:29 PM
2

Lmao, feminine predation is constantly shamed. Y’all live in some fantasy bubbles
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:26 PM
2

lmao who actually believes this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:19 PM
5

Sorry, I’m not used up or bitter. But you use projections and insults instead of arguing a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:12 PM
5

What end goal? Taking advantage of the poor socioeconomic conditions of people that have been less favoured in life? Yeah, I consider my shit doesn’t stink as bad since I don’t engage in this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:10 PM
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How are you comparing Miami to people going to Zimbabwe or Thailand? You have no idea what sex tourism means in the context of these discussions and it’s pointless to argue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:07 PM
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And I’m saying this ain’t nowhere as common among women. I would be down with this cause if you and the guys commenting would want to bring awareness that this shit can happen also with a women perpetrator, but instead your goal is just to victimise men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:03 PM
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It’s absolutely pointless to argue when y’all can’t stay on topic and deflect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:02 PM
1

Sweetie, your comments don’t help that case lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:49 PM
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I’ve never seen any woman actually plot to marry a dude from an empoverished country and keep him there so he’s not exposed to western ideology. Sorry, we just don’t go to these lengths
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:47 PM
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Depends how neurotic you are about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:45 PM
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Not all women complain about that and not all women employ the same strategy. It doesn’t take an iq legel of 140+ to see when people of both genders do this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:43 PM
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disasterdude whines 24/7 about feminists, slim chances his comments about his wife are not creative writing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:40 PM
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Idk man, go look for yourself what shit goes down on those sex tourism and passport bros spaces. If you don’t find it problematic, that’s your opinion. But that doesn’t mean others are not free to have their own opinion too. As much as men like to parrot accountability here, it’s funny how they just can’t handle any negative opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:36 PM
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basically she says she feels worthless because she reads what men write here, how she figured out relationships are useless because men hate women and see them as inferior. she’s very doomeristic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:23 PM
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there are some great posters here, Eulenwatcher is just one example of someone that’s very empathetic. how was the Kandyapplez era? i wasn’t around here to witness it but i’m curious what i missed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:09 PM
1

sometimes i wonder how 29 yo people look where some of you live because the girl in her picture looks her age
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:57 PM
5

obviously math is hard for these dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:03 PM
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Let’s be honest, plenty of men also don’t enjoy working full time too. Many jobs are just means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:44 PM
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Absolutely no one, but it helps his case to pretend it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:39 PM
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communist flag parade=lots of red flags I don’t think you’re gonna teach her any lesson. Obviously she doesn’t think any of the men she sees right now are worthy of commiting to, so you’re most likely just her entertainment until a better prospect enters the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:29 PM
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No, I know some of them specifically seek those destinations because they have a bbc fetish for example. Sex tourism shouldn’t get grouped with random people that go on vacation and happen to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:27 PM
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They do it, they also get judged when they are exposed to the public that they exploit african men looking for a green card or ferishize asian men. These are recent examples I’ve seen online. They also don’t really gather online to shame the men from their own countries, talk about creepy encounters with minors and so on. It’s obviously they don’t engage in this practice as much since you don’t see them whining how they are ditching western men for others from poorer countries
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:25 PM
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I know there are women that do that and I already pointed out people perceive them as predators when they see what they are up to. I just stated their number is not as high comparable to men and they don’t initiate online smearing campaigns of the men from their home countries. You just want people to not have an opinion when men engage in this thing and air out the nasty details.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:21 PM
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Still amusing because you’re a communist flag parade. Of course she offers exclusivity after you see a condom on the floor, girlie is not braindead and knows your type
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:14 PM
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You’re missing the point hard
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:40 AM
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Y’all specifically leave out the pile of nasty things people discovered about the bankrupt guy in order to paint him as a victim. But whatever, let’s get to the point. This stereotype about sex tourism is one that men themselves contribute to. All the forums, lingo and online discourse about finding cheap and submissive women is free for anyone to see. Everyone is free to make their decision about these guys by judging what they expose about themselves. Women don’t engage in sex tourism at the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:08 AM
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Lmao she’s 24 yo and expected to want something exclusive or not entertain other options and you are a 33 yo still playing the field. This crap is just amusing at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:41 AM
1

yeah, smoking messes with your collagen production
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:58 AM
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No, people just cringe because of the reasons I already mentioned. Add to the story the fact ge was acused of gang rape in his home country and you got even less people willing to say ‘good job’ to this dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:51 AM
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Depends where you are in Eastern Europe. Big cities? Dating is pretty liberated, people get married later in life, dating apps are popular. Rural area? More conservative, people are generally more religious and have a traditional approach to dating and marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:40 AM
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Your first comment turns this issue into something deeper than it actually is. People don’t care an unattractive dude got laid in a foreign country. People just react to a dude that admits to being scummy and contributes to stereotyping women from a different part of the world. When you say shit like this publicly, don’t expect everyone to pat you on the back
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:32 AM
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I don’t get why everyone should just accept he talks about sex in a crass way. Probably the difference is that I come from a place where people are blunt, but what’s wrong in saying this dude says scummy things? Why the need to defend him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:14 AM
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The way they talk about it is scummy. These dudes never frame sex as an experience they shared with a foreign woman, they talk about it as an experience he bought from another woman. I’m Romanian and we have different acronyms for foreign dudes that come here hoping to fuck some submissive and cheap eastern women. The majority of us don’t like the attitude of these dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:04 AM
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Because workplace rules state the one that abuses the balance of power gets the consequences, your example just happens to have a male coach
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:28 AM
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there are plenty of subreddits where you can talk about all the red pill tropes and ideas and women being the problem in some cases. this is what mainly happens here. maybe the problem is all the redpill subreddits end up as misogynistic garbage fires
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:22 AM
1

who else got banned besides tate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:10 AM
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enjoy it while it lasts. i am already tired of buying expensive scented candles and it’s been just a year of living as an independent adult
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:35 PM
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24
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:29 PM
1

no, you see women with all kinds of men. women’s attraction is more holistic, something men don’t really get since they have only one main requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:46 PM
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Nah, it’s about guys that don’t understand not all women are attracted to the same specific type of man. The scenario you gave still doesn’t disprove the fact a woman can be attracted to multiple kinds of men. I think looking at someone’s dating history gives you a better understanding of what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:44 PM
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nope, it’s jealousy because men that don’t fit their definition of ‘attractive’ get attention
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:20 PM
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from what i’ve seen, it stems from jealousy. so i think it’s pointless to further engage with men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:10 PM
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Lots of excuses for guys that are shooting above their leagues. Those girls at least would think that after getting some actual attention from better looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:40 PM
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I think one of the best examples of a character that is considered to be ‘a man written by a woman’ is the priest from Fleabag. The point is not that he’a a hot, tall or rich Chad, it’s about the way he acts. The Swaddle has a short video on youtube that explains this better if you want to watch it Here it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:27 AM
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lol, did you actually read any incel 4chan stuff? be careful they don’t stumble over those posts because it will be more damaging to the way they see men than learning some men won’t share chores
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:43 AM
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most folks might know but there are ones out there that don’t want to. it’s not an ‘anti man’ thing to know what to look out for and femcel is a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:36 AM
1

why do you have to debunk it? it’s the reality that they have to be careful not to end up with someone like that because it will tank their relationship or marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:33 AM
2

what’s surprising about that, not everybody had a good childhood
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:52 AM
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but he is not trying to have sex with his looksmatch, that’s my point. men are constantly trying to get more than good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:39 PM
1

no need to pay since the leaks are going to be all over twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:27 PM
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You’d change your tune really fast if you looked at a woman’s DMs. Men shoot their shot indiscriminately
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:19 PM
2

because Klitschko doesn’t need the bravado, people respect and look up to him naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:34 PM
1

nah, they would stop posting bait and get together if that were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:33 PM
1

idk what she thinks she’s gonna acomplish with that, the comments will mainly come from bitter men telling her she’ll be a mummy at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:15 PM
2

love your flair. my back up plan is feet fetishists, seems like they are a bigger market
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:32 PM
2

she’s ptobably really good at finding guys with a fat fetish. i was shocked when i found out there are people that pay them to eat and get larger
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:27 PM
1

hey, don’t forget game of thrones was partly filmed in your country. people also know dubrovnik
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:58 PM
3

that’s the thing about sports, you can’t win everytime. but i understand the sentiment since my native country lost the dominance we had in artistic gymnastics. also rooting for Morocco, they could make history
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:57 PM
0

i get addicted to the rush of watching these games, i hope the netherlands score in these 10 extra minutes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:53 PM
3

eh, it was just one game. brazil is still one of the greatest countries when it comes to football and it’s worth being very proud of the team.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:41 PM
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brazil is the chad of the world cup, they won five times. croatia is an underdog compared to that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:24 PM
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I assume not many of you watch the world cup since ppd is very us centric but seeing Croatia win against Brazil was great. I love it when the underdog wins
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:03 PM
2

how are we going to share a small pack of chips? very unmanly of you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:01 PM
1

i can back up that i’m pretty balanced. nothing high and mighty about not falling into an extreme tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:04 PM
1

and your comments amount to what? getting worked up i told someone to give the misogyny a rest for the weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:44 PM
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your comment would make sense if i’d make lots of misandrist comments. i’m just wondering if he ever takes a break
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:29 PM
2

how don’t y’all get bored of this? it’s the weekend, take a break from the gender wars and do something fun
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:10 PM
2

that’s because they can’t handle even half of what they dish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:09 PM
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rule 14. i would like to ask women some questions. i get the rule supposedly prevents circlejerking but we have like 15 n counts thread per week
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:07 AM
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Appearantly to some people this comparison makes sense. And we’re supposed to seriously engage with it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:43 AM
1

Yeah, I am on PPD and I am aware men use any random internet comment to paint themselves as a victim of those age gap harpies. The burden on proof is on you when you try to equate age and race. If you want a crumble of the discrimination pie, at least do a better job at arguing for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:17 AM
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I didn’t move any goalpost, you just don’t have any refutation. An interracial marriage is still political ammo for the two parties, age gap relationships never were. You’re not providing any evidence of the ostracization of age gaps or any actual real life consequences that people face because they have an age gap relationships. Also the controversery is not ‘broad’ or ‘cultural’
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:05 AM
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I stay on topic but you’re not providing any actual examples. Are you following the news that they are voting in the american senate to have interracial marriage codified in the law? It literally happened on wednesday. No such thing for age gaps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:46 AM
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It’s not settled, because people went trough that. Why do you think america had to legalise interracial marriages? No such thing when it comes to age gaps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:33 AM
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Lol, my mom got plenty of comments about having three kids and remarrying a younger man and ‘robbing him of the possibility to start a new family and have new kids’. It’s clear you have no idea the opinions an older woman faces are harsher than the comments an older man gets and more frequent. Hell, the dudes here would call her a post wall used up harpy or whatever. People criticising your relationship =/discrimination. You don’t lose job opportunities or stand at the back of the bus because of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:28 AM
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i would like to introduce you to having sex with music playing in the background
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:17 AM
1

Your logic is faulty because that interracial couple isn’t embraced when the partners are the same age or have an age gap. Even if he dates someone from his own race, there are still other people of different races that will discriminate him based on his skin colour. Sorry, no reasonable person gets out the tiny violins because age gaps are discriminated. My mom is 6 years older than my stepdad (which is much more unusual than the reverse), but you’ll never hear them complain they are discrimina…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:11 AM
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What physical agression? There is no palpable discrimination against age gaps, just because not everyone agrees for various reasons that doesn’t mean there’s any actual discrimination. This sense of victimhood over people not agreeing with everything you agree with is very western centric you’re born black, it’s an inmutable trait. an age gap relationship? not something you’re born with. not comparable in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:49 PM
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i asked you to give me one example of someone getting actually discriminated for having an age gap relationship edit: ageism obviously exists but not in the way you’re framing it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:29 PM
1

What’s the actual manifestation of ‘ageism’ besides people disagreeing on reddit? People of colour still suffer actual discrimination even today in the real world. This is a very poor comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:23 PM
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No, no matter how hard y’all try ‘ageism’ doesn’t hold a candle to racism. Yeah, the gender can influence the answers people give. If the 26 yo was a woman, men would be the one having negative opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:11 PM
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how do you think that makes sense? those people would disagree if a white or black 26 yo would ask the same question. you are comparing apples with oranges
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:59 PM
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Also what I wanted to say is that they cover little racial diversity. Some of the features they list as a minus to a woman’s overall attractiveness work on other races. I found the system focused only on white people and what makes them attractive. Like the bulbous nose-nobody’s gonna say rihanna’s mid just because of the shape of her nose
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:34 PM
1

i agree with the principle and i also don’t think celebrities deserve to be rated high just because they are famous. but tbh the 8-9 category was totally interchangeable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:22 PM
3

because no one is going to stop us
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:54 PM
1

wow the amount of effort put into that is surprising but the results are inconsistent. to me a stacy/chad lite is an 8 and the 9 and 10 are full stacy or chad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:00 PM
1

how is a 7 considered a stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:52 PM
1

nah, kittens automatically love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:02 PM
1

i draw the line at chincillas, they’re just mindind their bussines and being fluffy. there’s no possible reason to hate on them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:01 PM
1

depends on what kind of dog people we’re talking about. do they kiss their dogs or some weird shit like that? those are crazy for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:54 PM
1

almost all pets require discipline. also i’ve had cats growing up that were very affectionate, it really depends on what an animal’s temper is like
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:52 PM
2

partly true. i have a very strict diet and i stopped craving junkfood and soda after two months. but some homemade chicken wings or an actual burger from a nice place? yes please
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:40 PM
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come on, the stereotype used to be about cat ladies. now i can’t even have a dog without men projecting their weird fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:34 PM
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Think of the kind of woman you would want to attract. It’s very hard to attract all women, so I think it’s more productive to find a niche and start from there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:59 AM
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how dare you suggest the logical option
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:57 AM
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It would have been great to meet her. But judging by what my grandma told me, her advice would be very different from what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:04 AM
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To put it simply, the good men I know are the ones that use their skills and resources in the pursuit of trying to help others. They impact their communities in a positive way. To give you two examples of men I know that I consider to be good: -a restaurant owner that always feeds stray animals and gives free meals to homeless people or sends extra ingredients he has to shelters -my work mentor that remembers the names and stories of patients he has even after 20+ years of working. He also keeps…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:11 AM
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I’m from eastern europe, you’ll find plenty of women that have jobs related to healthcare. STEM was big for women here even in the soviet times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:47 AM
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The women in their early 20s you interact with were raised by the older generations. If there is any equivalent red pill for a woman, it’s that point when your mom and grandma tell you femininity is great for others, but not necessarly for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:00 AM
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I don’t specifically seek to date people that make less money than me, the intent is what makes the difference. The fact that they are middle class in their country doesn’t change the situation that a foreigner from a western country is much richer than them and is levaraging this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:17 PM
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Traveling to profit from the poor socioeconomic standards of other people is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:06 PM
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Just because a woman doesn’t want to be with a man, it doesn’t mean she’s levaraging anything. If you would have told me ‘yeah but there are some white grandmas that go to jamaica’ you would have actually made a valid point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:53 PM
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How can you say people don’t complain when that happens in the west when the term gold digger gets constantly thrown? The majority of these dudes profit from the status whiteness gives them. Idk why you think there’s no critique to be given to men that specifically seek women in much poorer countries so they can leverage a relationship. Why do you think asians have acronyms like LBH?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:44 PM
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How are they not using money to attract wives if that’s the only thing that differentiates them from the local men in poorer countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:36 PM
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models are not selected because they are the hottest women. the tall, thin frames without curves are the easiest to dress and can wear basically any piece of clothing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:04 PM
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The dudes that tell you to go after women from a low socioeconomic class don’t care wether you have stuff in common with them or not. It’s more on the transactional side. But I understand from the details you gave why the college you went to was a competitive dating enviornment. I don’t know how many people here will relate to that tbh, that’s why you get replies from people that are surprised about your experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:24 PM
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I respect anyone that has been a long time Tate fan. Personally I liked him since he told a dude that he’s a failure because he’s poor and he might give him money for his ill daughter if he begs. I knew someone like him is going to make it big one day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:45 PM
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Well genius, you’re the one not making the difference between a teen commiting something illegal and an adult engaging in illegal relationships with a teen. Have you ever been inside the head of a teenager? All the girls I know that were involved in situations like these were manipulated that they were so ‘mature and special’ for their age. That’s the number one grooming tactic. You obviously lack the basic understanding of this phenomenon because you just parrot victim blaming points
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:26 PM
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I understand you can’t really see the background of the women you are asking out. But for me poor would mean someone that lives on welfare for example and would take the opportunity to financially secure their future. Also inviting a regular girl on a date on a rented yacht sounds very intimidating. I kinda get why they said no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:23 PM
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Yeah, raping someone compares to being gaslighted and manipulated by a dude 20+ older than you. Great examples, you are just deflecting the full accountability from these dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:32 PM
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So you never actually went after a woman from a poor background
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:30 PM
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Hiw can you claim buyers remose when this is literally illegal? I had hs friends that did the same because guess what-teenagers are very impressionable Also you clearly don’t grasp what grooming is, of course victims ‘love’ it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:22 PM
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why do you think there are laws in place against this? because a teenager is a competent buyer? of course years later when she gains some maturity and life experience she sees this fked up situation for what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:08 PM
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nah sweaty. you made the claim that’s not grooming, don’t deflect when you can’t deliver your arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:09 PM
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so you don’t have any actual arguments?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:58 PM
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Your example doesn’t relate to the topic. I was raised in the sort of conservative country american men dream to find their submissive wives. Then I moved to a western country. The variance in what men want and how they behave is much bigger than what a certain group of people wants us to believe. I am not dating the exception to the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:54 PM
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It was disgusting and the fact you are asking why an impressionable teenager that was probably not supervised by adults got in a situation like that is mind boggling. The answer is in your face. You still didn’t explain why it’s not grooming
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:50 PM
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Yeah, there’s no point in arguing when obviously not all men want the same things. Best of luck to you too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:08 PM
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No one ‘fetishizes’ experience. A woman doesn’t look at an ‘experienced’ man and project a bunch of her theories on him like men do with virginity. And you’re blatantly wrong in your last paragraph. On my first date with my current boyfriend we talked about the stuff we liked from the menu of that restaurant. Made recommandations to eachother. There are men out there that don’t live in this constant state of neurosis, don’t generalise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:39 PM
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The last thing you mentioned is probably the one that any man or woman with reasonable life experience finds funny in this whole debate. It’s the weakest argument in this whole age discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:30 PM
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Spot on. You can tell posts like these are made in such bad faith because OP denies a woman carries a conversation (we do that daily, it’s kind of a necessity lmao), has initiative, is funny, contributes financially (this is probably the most boggling thing he said since you can’t really support a household just on one income). There is no changing views for people that have this mindset, this should be labeled a rant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:05 AM
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the only one i ever saw was a chick on tiktok. her whole personality revolves around the fact her husband is a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:37 PM
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please explain how a 15 yo is not groomed by a 35 yo adult. enlighten us on the misuse of the word ‘groom’
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:25 PM
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lmao she was a 15 yo getting groomed by 35+ men. but sure i guess some of y’all can’t go one day without typing accountability no matter what the topic is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:09 PM
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It sounds like you have low expectations which is good. But I think a lot of the horror stories are avoidable if you have a tight filtering system. My rules with online dating were simple-find an enthusiastic texter and someone that plans a date early. Worked fine for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:38 PM
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shego and blackfire from teen titans were my bi awakening
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:08 PM
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I was cynical for a while, until I decided I can’t judge men for the things someone they don’t know did before we even met. I’m also sorry you went trough that. I know what I’ll say it’s a platitude, but it can get better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:37 AM
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because these guys don’t date men they don’t realise all the stuff rp talks about applies to both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:33 AM
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I’ve been cheated before by a man that shared plenty of his insecurities with me. I wasn’t turned off by the fact that he was openly vulnerable with me, I actually tought that was something that really legitimised we had a special connection. Turns out I was wrong lol I think sharing insecurities or talking about them shows a level of deep trust. And I would like my long term partner to trust me. I agree with what you’re saying that our feelings about the negative outcomes of a relationship don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:56 AM
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I totally get what you’re saying about watching your parents being super stressed and having major health problems. That’s why I am trying to make the best out of the circumstances I have because they never got the kind of opportunities we have now. I’m sure there are ways to still have a semblance of freedom in your 30s, even when you have kids. I’ve seen people around me achieve that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:34 AM
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mainly because i want to have a family in the future. i can’t really see how i would achieve that with a dude that thinks it’s just his turn, doesn’t open up emotionally, thinks i have to constantly be in his frame and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:11 AM
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why do you think that? i’m the same age as you and i’m kinda looking forward to turning 30
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:03 AM
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i don’t want to date a guy that shares the majority of views the dudes in the manosphere have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:53 AM
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it doesn’t change anything at the end of the day. for me it’s interesting to see the different viewpoints men have about dating and relationships. i also think it’s useful to know what to be careful of
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:54 AM
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it’s a decent haircut but i think a billionare lizard can do much better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:33 AM
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i’m not into lizards so no
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:13 AM
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just because women date down in terms of achievements doesn’t mean thise guys are idiots. i don’t really care about a dude’s achievements if i can’t relate to him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:54 PM
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i get the appeal but the fact she posted it on tiktok makes it a bit too manic pixie bpd gf for me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:39 PM
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this reminds me how a radio host here talked about the cheating controversery and said hans is accused of ‘using an anal device for unusual purposes’. it cracked me up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:11 PM
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who says women can’t truly love a man? checkmate redpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:42 PM
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i have a hard time believing women wouldn’t care about jon kortajenara. but men fashion doesn’t bring in profits like women fashion does, so dudes like him don’t really get mainstream exposure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:33 PM
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Gotta love when people outside your culture try to educate you on your own
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:37 PM
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I’m not on the spectrum but I’ve moved to a foreign country. Dating wasn’t easier just because people gave me passes due to cultural differences. In fact, some of them had some weird biases about me based solely on my nationality. I wouldn’t tell anyone to move just because your dating prospects might increase, there are many things you have to adapt to in a new enviornment. I ended up dating another immigrant and I finally felt like I found someone that I could relate to because we share the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:44 PM
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try r/twoxchromosomes i see some really dumb answers here like ‘they hate men’ or ‘because men like it’. truth is that even countries that have legalised sex work have some problems they sweep under the rug. i am generally supportive of sex work but countries where it is legal like germany or the netherlands have an influx of eastern european women that are brought there due to their lower socioeconomic situation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:03 PM
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Not that many and not all of them are against sex work. I just wanted to highlight you’ll get more answers asking in other subs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:53 PM
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It’s not even about the other woman. But in this guys world, women that expect men to honour their word or be truthful are ‘entitled to relationships’. Peak comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:49 PM
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Why don’t you ask them directly? I doubt we have that many radfems here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:48 PM
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Men that defend this type of behaviour do Biles levels of mental gymnastics to avoid accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:18 PM
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I think your post is very articulated and I agree with everything you said. There’s nothing wrong with not being passive in a way that is respectful of the boundaries set by the people around you. Masculinity has many positives that deserve to be highlighted. I don’t identify myself as a radfem, they have a very absolutist vision of the world and I think most of it stems from immaturity. Also because of intersectionality we are in a weird and confusing zone where people think gendering sets of b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:57 AM
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great job, i’m sure they are very happy to be reunited💜
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:58 AM
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I don’t know if you live together, but I also pick up my boyfriends emotions even when he tries to keep them to himself. I just know him very well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:59 PM
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i’ve read that story before but the names were different
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:03 PM
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please don’t grow ladies, i already have a hard time finding shoes and jeans
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:14 PM
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my future son will be a chad that’s going to date all the ppd ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:25 PM
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I remember one of their biggest market was actually Japan because of the lesbians dressed as schoolgirls shtick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:59 PM
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I addressed his point. Your mom gives you some basic advice, not a crash course on how to be a fuckboy and get every possible girl out there. Also mom gives you advice mostly about how she got with your dad, the man she married, had a kid with, takes care of and navigates life with. The examples he gave are just proof of how hypocritical his line of thinking is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:37 PM
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dudes that are mad at their moms for not giving them a tutorial on how to be a fuckboy will forever be a mistery to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:34 PM
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they’re also concerned about not having joint custody of their non existent kids and the mom spending the child support on nail appointments
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:23 PM
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We get it, women can’t possibly change or grow as people. The ‘choose better’ crowd is the same crowd that’s gonna shit on a woman that actually chose better and started a family. The sex life of a couple is a mutual responsability. It’s deeply hypocritical to blame just your mom or make some wild fantasies that she ‘gave her sexual best’ to some other dude behind a bin. Where’s your dad responsability in this scenario? How do you know their sex life wasn’t good in the beginning and after some y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:28 PM
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You’re just saying things she never even articulated in her post. It’s simple to reverse the question about ‘what men do to women’ and consider only the average dudes that don’t rape or assault women (just like you considered the average women). Hell, they’re not the ones saying we should have enforced monogamy. Even in this sub when some lost dude says something about state mandated gfs the average people tell him that’s unhinged. Considering young men are being fed misogyny from a lot of sourc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:00 PM
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you did everything you could do, it sounds like they weren’t ready for something like this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:12 PM
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do you know how much experience they had with stuff like this? edit: nvm i saw you already mentioned that. sounds like an akward experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:04 PM
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Her post is harsh because of some dumb statements like ‘men never cared about women’s issues’. Also the fact that she asks herself ‘what exactly women do to men’ doesn’t take into consideration the fact that there are women out there that treat men in shitty ways. Her wording downplays the possibility that certain men get mistreated by certain women. I’ve seen the post made yesterday by the dude that complained he ain’t getting pussy from his female friends. It was peak cringe BUT you’ve got to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:25 PM
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by his own admission he shacked up with a supportive partner. that’s pretty great
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:56 PM
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I don’t get why your post has to be this harsh. If you come on a forum where people are expressing their frustrations about dating and relationships, it can get pretty messy. The fact that you are expecting the opposite is pretty childish. And if you really don’t care in any capacity, it’s also pointless to be here or atempt to poke the bear. I’ll be sympathetic or at least try to understand the problems a man has when it comes to interpersonal relationships because the majority of dudes that st…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:27 PM
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Yeah, his comment is like the disney version of what actually happened. Also it’s not everything that is built, discovered or mantained by men and it’s pretty disingenous to act like it’s not understandable why the majority of inventions belong historically to males.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:06 PM
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Did they encourage you to do any extra curricular activities? Because this is where I see a lot of parents failing boys. Even if the classroom is a medium that can be more repressive of certain behaviours (and that can go with girls too), a kid needs to interact with his peers in other enviornments that are less formal. And also some encouragement goes a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:20 AM
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I work with kids of all ages. Parents that supress some type of behaviour do that in 99% of cases because of their inability to handle that behaviour, not due to some hidden gender agenda. The point were parents generally fail boys happens from what i’ve seen a bit later
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:47 AM
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how much experience do you have with kids that are as young as 5 and how they exhibit slightly masculine behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:15 AM
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no one told you that you shouldn’t make something of yourself or be masculine in a way that doesn’t affect others just like no one tells a woman to go be a single mom. but some men really like to be sold a fantasy and treat life like a video game. if you tell them ‘society doesn’t want you to be strong/masculine/whatever’ they eat that up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:09 AM
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I’m 5’11. My only problem with my height is having problems when I shop for clothes, especially for jeans. Besides that I’m pretty content with my height
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:02 AM
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proof that’s a general assumption and not just a questionable view some women/men have?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:34 PM
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If you work from home for example. Or in an enviorment where there are almost exclusively women. Or you’re an introvert/homebuddy and don’t go out and meet new people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:31 PM
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i can’t actually believe y’all can’t think of any reasons why a woman would use old and not have something wrong with her bY DeFauLt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:13 PM
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thx for context. i’ll never get why people air shit like that publicly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:03 PM
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they made thousands of podcast to say the same three things. gotta appreciate the perseverance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:48 PM
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how do you get he’s so needy from a 15 seconds declaration? maybe there’s some backstory about them i’m missing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:06 PM
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or she just doesn’t like saying all that stuff when other people are around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:01 PM
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It doesn’t matter where the dad is in all this, people that make this point are desperate to find a scapegoat for their lack of dating succes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:53 PM
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ex rolemodel of 14 yo boys vs current rolemodel of 14 yo boys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:24 PM
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I meant that we can celebrate both women even if they made different choices, I wasn’t refering to a singular woman that does both. But it’s absolutely possible to work a lot and raise good kids. My mom was not a CEO. She worked two jobs because our economical situation forced her and raised three kids to be amazing people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:25 PM
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This is like a girl that had a bad relationship telling other girls and women to never seriously date a man because they all take advantage of you. Some casual sex experiences are good, some are bad. It’s a mixed bag, just like everything that involves relationships and dating. Your post would have been actually useful if you would have listed the things you considered you did wrong so there was some actual knowledge in it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:36 PM
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Where’s the proof that being an amazing mother is not considered succesful? We can celebrate a woman CEO and an amazing mother, it doesn’t have to be a race between the two. Reasonable people don’t have a hard time understanding that or respecting women’s choices. In fact, there’s a crowd of people that is allergic to seeing women not choosing to be a mother because that’s the highest form of succes they think a woman can achieve. It’s easy to spot them because they have 3 overused lines they re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:37 AM
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I was craving my boyfriend’s mom special pasta with pistachio. She made it for me last weekend and I was so excited until I tasted it and realised she didn’t use tagliatelle. I was so disappointed but I obviously didn’t tell her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:10 PM
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I’m also bi but I think there are two categories of people in our community-the ones that can’t stop talking about how they love women and would want a gf on the side or whatever and the ones that try to paint us as a group that is heavily duscriminated and erased. Honestly both are tiring and wish they would tone it down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:05 PM
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Because those ‘bottom of the barrel’ guys are her type. Find what niche you fit when it comes to dating and you will be more succesful. My mom remarried in her mid 40s so it’s not impossible to find a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:44 PM
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tldr?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:25 PM
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it was quite the opposite, dude was saying you’re weird if you don’t look at a 19 yo like she’s a little sister or sth like that. but the mods shut it down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:25 PM
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imo everything you listed falls in the af/bb category. if i were to say what the 5 categories are-old, age gaps, n count, af/bb, women bad with lots of overlapping motives
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:13 PM
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don’t get his hopes up, we don’t even have 10 different topics. it’s 5 at best
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:56 PM
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it’s funny how dudes either can’t tell falsies from real lashes or they think any amount of makeup drastically alters the way a woman looks. there’s no middle zone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:33 PM
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or some contour
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:26 PM
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ppd wake up new age gap thread just dropped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:14 PM
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I understand that you’re a man so you didn’t deal with another man cheating on you, you just talked with the ones that cheated on other women. But to the partner they cheated on, they quickly drop the rational reality and go straight to appealing to emotion. Women justify their behaviour in an attempt to offer context that they consider important. Men will try to convince what they did is a design bug you have to accept because they couldn’t help it. A man will tell you he still loves you and li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:59 AM
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a few years ago these were the dudes making triggered feminist compilations and stuff like that. now the content changed to street interviews that they can edit or show only inebriated people or the ones that can’t articulate their point on the spot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:01 AM
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She’s a 9. I tried to be fair and not deduct points because i’m kinda salty she is more endorsed than suni lee
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:44 AM
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I listened to a lot of justifications men gave on why they cheated-while women will give you a particular reason on why they cheated, the men I personally spoke to gave a universal reason-they are males, they were neglected, the temptation was too strong, they can compartimentalise sex and love. It all boils down to biology and how men are wired to spread their seed. Probably the fact that I am a woman influenced what they told me because they were never unapologetic about it. There were always …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:30 AM
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Because the active effort men put towards cheating generally is more off putting when I think about the matter. For example, as a woman you avoid the multiple offers you get to cheat while your men would actively seek situations where he can cheat (for example messaging multiple women on social media, going to strip clubs, going to escorts, spending money on another woman). I think that adds an extra layer of frustration. I don’t see cheating in the same league as rape. The comparison with domes…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:32 PM
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Just because I have this bias when it comes to female cheating it doesn’t mean I support women being extempt from the consequences of their actions. Human nature is not perfect and as good as it would be for all of us to be responsible and accountable all the time, unfortunately it doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:03 PM
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I apply actionable prevention methods against cheating tho. This is more of a personal responsability, it’s not something that the government can do for me for example. That’s why I think the examples you gave aren’t really comparable. All the factors when it comes to cheating are under my control. I think our modern stance on cheating is a highly accepted one since there’s no initiative or discussion to criminalise it. There are a lot of people that ecoress for example that men should be allowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:25 PM
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Eh just because there is a discussion going on that gender is a social construct it doesn’t mean we have reached a general consensus on it like we have with crimes that are punishable by law or cheating (which we condemn as a shitty action but we don’t imprison people for it). You can discuss any subject, no one is saying gender is off limits. When you search for the justifications behind an action, you can understand the mechanisms and wonder if there is something that could have been done alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:58 PM
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I don’t think it’s fair to bring the fact that it was a crime in the past because we live in 2022. But since you were the one that brought the comparison, I tend to make a difference between someone that steals because they are hungry or poor and someone that steals due to their greed. I guess that’s how you can apply the same logic, by judging the circumstances that lead to an action
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:35 PM
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Is cheating even comparable with crime because one is an illegal activity while the other obviously isn’t. I already explained in another comment that my bias comes from the fact that cheating takes active effort for men in more situations compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:23 PM
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That’s the most basic list of redflags possible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:55 PM
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The vast majority of men on this sub declare they only care about looks and youth in women and don’t care about the status/money/popularity. Considering that, the women in the examples you give fit in the category of above average
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:35 PM
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And how are the girls/women in the examples you gave average? They represent the peak fantasy for a lot of men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:14 PM
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because p-length it’s something out of control that is very easy to use as a scapegoat for being unsuccesful with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:59 PM
4

The most important thing is actually getting out there. Expose yourself to other people and develop your social skills. I think there is some truth that it can get harder the older you are because you might not want to get out your comfort zone and invest a lot of time and energy in dating. I think a lot of things about having a relationship are easy to pick on if you look around yourself. You don’t necessarly need a lot of experience to learn or deduce the basics. And not everyone is treating d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:23 PM
3

that’s because they have some self awareness to realise how ridiculous some of their general talking points are but too much pride to admit those talking points are popular in their community. it’s always funny when their first argument is a ‘no true redpiller’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:11 PM
1

the guy around my age, i dated dudes shorter than me before
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:49 PM
2

how is she opposed to feminism, she just made a choice to be a sahm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:00 AM
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I already said I don’t condone cheating. But I do have a bias due to my past experiences and cheating stories I’ve seen around me. I judge people a bit harsher when they make an active effort to cheat (like messaging other people on social media for example). From my experience, that tends to be men. A woman usually turns down or avoids more opportunities so the disproportionate effort to be faithful tends to feel more frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:30 AM
1

i’m really curious about the age of people that try to make a point using deuxmoi threads
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:43 AM
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I don’t condone cheating and I don’t think being unhappy in your relationship is a good reason to sink the self esteem of your partner. But I do have a bias when it comes to women cheating because women have more opportunities to cheat than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:37 AM
1

I don’t really care if I find a man attractive enough to want to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:05 PM
1

then the point is bad and no reasonable person supports it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:04 PM
1

some told her the worst case scenario, others told her why trespassinh gets you in legal trouble. yall just have a hateboner for everything twox related
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:02 AM
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did you even read the comments? they’re telling her the reasons why this was stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:18 AM
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he was my boyfriend of six months. i was pretty scared that it’s going to hurt and i’ll bleed a lot so i couldn’t relax. it got better with practice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:55 PM
1

that’s exactly the reason we should be picky
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:07 PM
1

I have a cousin that is a sugar baby. She’s the only woman I know that is into that type of relationship. I would never want to try an arrangement like that but the perspectives she has on the nature of males is pretty interesting-I learned a few tricks from her on what buttons to press in certain situations to my advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:52 AM
1

for the sake of her nose i hope that’s just a filter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:51 PM
1

How did they try to ‘destroy’ him? I’m not familiar with all the details of the story, maybe your post could have used some elaboration. Also how is a guy like that ‘one social media post from being ruined’, did anything actually happen to that dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:19 PM
1

no, but there’s a small unhinged minority that has dumb takes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:25 PM
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It’s pretty obvious that between two men, a woman that cares about money would chose the one that actually spends money to improve her lifestyle. The fact that you are worth 8 figures in your late 20s makes you more financially literate and savy than the vast majority of the population. I don’t know what the exact percentage that would be, but this is going to make your dating life harder because your dating pool is pretty limited if you’re looking for someone with the same mindset. Those women …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:59 PM
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The economic situation was always unfortunate for the lower class people. This is one of the downsides of following the strict gender roles that people should be aware of. Divorce-get a prenup. Don’t be shocked if you’re gonna have to pay alimony for a spouse that stayed at home and has no means to financially support themselves after a divorce. This is another thing people should be aware of, because enforcing strict gender roles comes for downsides for both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:19 PM
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What’s stoping you from following more strict gender roles? The truth is that the majority of people are not the biggest fans of rigid gender roles, so you should be aware that if you chose the least popular option you’ll have a harder time dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:15 PM
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do you really expect people to make a detailed description about their lovers talents, quirks and dreams in a post on a relationship advice sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:05 AM
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The problem with using natural order as an argument is that natural order also planned for a lot of bad shit to happen to humans but we kept on searching for ways to escape that. Even if we’re not the ‘same’, we still deserve equal rights and access to opportunities which is what the vast majority of the people argue for. If the natural gender roles are what you see as the best option for you, no one is stoping you from fully embracing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:04 AM
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The people that argue against this don’t really have much respect for the time and work their partner does. So of course it boils down to some calculated assignment of chores
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:33 AM
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What’s the relevance to the topic of relationships tho? I’m not expecting my partner to compensate for the fact that I am a resident and I went trough med school (which I did it for myself and started before I even met him). That’s not a reason to not pull your weight at home if the agreement is 50/50 and both partners work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:54 AM
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All the things I listed about lifting or self improvement. But as I said, red pill didn’t invent those. Also those don’t necessarly help you mantain a long term healthy relationship, so they are pretty irrelevant if we’re talking about what a woman gains in a relationship with a red pilled dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:57 PM
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Red pill is not about giving women what they want in a relationship, it’s sexual strategy for men to maximise their outcome. If you want an egalitarian relationship as a woman, a red pill man is pretty useless. Not everything related to red pill is bad of course, but red pill is not the only source where you can get advice about lifting, taking care of your looks or other basic things like that. But I guess it can be a good tool to filter out potential partners by looking at the content they ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:25 PM
1

I wanted just to contribute to your claim so you can say you met only one 25 yo woman that said bieber is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:29 PM
1

I’m almost 25, bieber will forever be hot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:23 PM
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Because misogyny has a spectrum. If you’re not as radical as them, other dudes will call you a simp or beta
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:22 PM
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i answered because it was a question for all, obviously. there are mma fighters but their popularity can’t be compared to the male mma fighters. while there is a small percentage of women that would be into that, the vast majority are not really interested in being the strongest fighter and celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:05 PM
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that’s the appeal to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:55 PM
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second option, i don’t really see the appeal of the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:41 PM
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I know it’s a bummer but those are active choices made by an adult man. Not much that you or me can do in a situation like this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:14 PM
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My older brother is in the same situation. Trust me they know where the problem is, they just don’t want to make any adjustments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:54 AM
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All the Elliot Page and trans saga from last summer. And don’t cut half of the context I gave-his retoric is inflammatory to a certain demographic. If you are not part of that, you’re not gonna label it as ‘toxic’
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:08 PM
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come on, it’s not his ‘make your bed’ ideas that are inflammatory for a certain demographic. and that’s exactly the reason he gets no simpathy from them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:28 PM
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Have you heard him speak? Because if you actually did, I fail to understand how you don’t admit a certain set of ideas he has are inflammatory and unpopular with a certain demographic of people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:26 PM
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yeah, idk why it’s so surprising that the dude who spewed inflammatory rethoric for years gets no simpathy from the group he is unpopular with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:52 PM
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why don’t you ask some poly men or non monogamous ones? i doubt we have one here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:36 PM
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there’s nothing abnormal in wanting to talk about misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:39 PM
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that’s just a matter of time. i’m also from eastern europe and i’ve seen a lot of discourse this past year about misogyny in my native country
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:31 PM
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don’t take what men say that seriously, it’s not worth it. take care of yourself and your looks and you’re going to be fine for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:14 PM
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there are more sides than just two. also the guy she fucks in the end gets no actual deal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:56 PM
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it’s understandable why some men end up like that. there’s dudes that never had to improve or looksmaxx or whatever to get a woman that loves them. it’s easier to call these men average or project they are a second option instead of accepting the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:44 PM
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his mom is very succesful, i think that played an important part
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:57 PM
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mainly my career
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:40 PM
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Four things he likes about me: nurturing side, driven and ambitious, supportive partner, the fact that i am more extroverted and i know how to encourage him to step out his comfort zone Four things I like about him: he’s a supportive partner, intelligent and very creative, trustwhorthy, has a caring side that he’s not afraid to show to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:25 PM
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mid 20s. yes i know what i want in a guy. I found the type of guy that has the same long term goals as me, so i also know to what he is attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:08 PM
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That might work for some married couples, but I’d like to avoid any risk of drama associated with an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:40 PM
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he’s married, that’s a hard pass
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:27 PM
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There are a lot of stem people that can’t think outside their box
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:17 PM
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I don’t mean he never wrote the word ‘preferred’, but there is no further elaboration about what that preferred height was. I agree there is in certain situations a disconnect people have from what they want and what they say they want. But I’ve seen it go both ways-girls that wanted a guy with certain characteristics met someone that didn’t tick all those boxes and they were still interested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:36 AM
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Does he try and find other neurodivergent women? Or they are also turned off by his approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:35 PM
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This post never states what was the prefered height of the women and there is no breakdown on how that prefered height changed with the height of the woman. So if you want me to agree there is some psy op coordinated by women on reddit to trick guys below 6 ft that they can date succesfully, this was some sloppy breakdown of data.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:23 PM
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I didn’t leave anything out. He just gave us some statistics from speed dating and one of the conclusion was the men that had the lowest rejection rates were the ones that were 1 inch taller than the woman. To any person that is more particular about data all those conclusions would seem at least incomplete because we get no info on what was the average height of the male and female groups for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:02 PM
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We obviously collectively spend millions on sex toys just to practice faking it better for Chad. OP just found out our biggest secret
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:21 PM
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No, try again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:26 PM
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I gave that example because they are both incredibly good looking. But I don’t think it’s useful to look at celebrities and draw conclusions about relationships, they have their own very specific challanges.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:52 PM
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I don’t think involving parents is the best thing for your situation so first try to talk to your parents and tell them to get out of highschool kids bussines. Secondly the only real option you have is to ask her what happened that made her act like this towards you. Try to use a neutral tone. I get that you’d like to still be friends but if she isn’t willing to communicate there’s no point. Reciprocity is a big part of friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:40 PM
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We know men want to have sex, we’re not morons. There’s a difference between going on a date with a guy that says he is looking for something serious and one that lies about his intentions. Obviously, the first one is still looking for sex but that’s not his only goal. The second one is just lying because he wants to get another outcome. That’s the type of scenario in which women say they want honesty. Women like sex too. And they also like to make informed choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:20 PM
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Y’all throw settling around that if I didn’t know better I would think only a couple like Rihanna and ASAP truly has a happy relationship. Height is only one point of attraction. Obviously more conventionally attractive people are more succesful, but that doesn’t mean the average people can’t be succesful if they are realistic. If an average woman expects Stacy levels of succes for example, that’s on her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:56 PM
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And in this case you would see not only men that are 6 ft are dating or have girlfriends. Most women would like a man that’s taller than they are. Google tells me the average height of an american woman is 5’4, so judging by the study he linked the man that is 5’5 would have the lowest rejection rate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:55 PM
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Hard question but probably i’d choose a job i hate and a husband i love. I can’t imagine raising a kid with someone i hate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:27 PM
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You don’t need to necessarly have some type of trauma. The starfish girl can be a great person, but she doesn’t feel sexy enough to be more free and creative in bed. You can be a well adjusted individual that never really got to explore that sexual side, I met a few people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:24 PM
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How is it so rare? Did you never see a man complain that a girl is a starfish during sex for example? This is what being sexually open means-someone that had great experiences in the past and likes to be an active participant will be turned off by someone that’s passive. People are not always as adaptable as you’d like them to be. Someone that’s sexually inhibited won’t just ‘adapt’ to that situation, there’s a lot of work to do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:05 PM
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It’s ridiculous to deny sexual compatibility doesn’t exist. Everything else might work in a relationship but if two people have different libidos, kinks or have different levels of how sexually open they are, sex is not gonna work. Just because you’ve never personally been in a situation like that it doesn’t mean it’s impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:28 PM
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me too! but i just wish they would give us updates on the people that went on a second date
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:40 AM
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i’ve watched like 4 episodes in a row and she’s pretty chill compared to other people i’ve seen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:27 AM
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it’s a dating show on youtube. here’s an episode if you want to check it out I wouldn’t like to be on reality tv, mainly because they stage a lot of the conflicts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:07 AM
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Vibing with someone and getting rejected after they see what you look like is pretty brutal. But I think the majority of people wouldn’t do something like that because they wouldn’t want others to say they’re shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:53 AM
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Would you ever participate in a speed dating show like the button?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:39 AM
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also i’d bet all those likes are from fat people so what actual impact does it have?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:27 AM
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Calling it inspirational is a bit corny but from my experience it really depends on what dude you’re asking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:41 PM
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Her actions are not really the peak of feminism but I’m sure no one can argue her story telling doesn’t appeal to certain aspects of the female experience
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:36 PM
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How are healthy relationships gone when a lot of people have one without cheating on eachother? I’m not throwing a hissy fit, I am actually glad I have the chance to chose what kind of relationship to have and not be forced into a patriarchal cage. The ones throwing hissy fits are people that don’t want to adapt to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:11 PM
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By ‘male power fantasy’ I also imagine a guy is looking at tom cruise playing volleyball on the beach and would like to be that guy that has muscles and exudes confidence. There are women with agency in male gaze centric movies, sure. But we all like to look at media that centers our perspective and I wouldn’t say transformers or alien does that for women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:08 PM
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I think there’s some truth to female gaze. As I grew up I got really bored with media where women have no character development and need a guy to save them at the end of the day. I guess that top gun voleyball scene can be both a male power fantasy and some eyecandy for women. But that’s not the only type of dude women are attracted to and I think ‘female gaze’ media does a better job at showing that women are attracted to a more diverse range of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:52 PM
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Sorry, that’s just word salad. No matter how many much you want to blame feminists or other boogey men, no human being with healthy relationships experience will ever agree to that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:36 PM
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You’re not really getting your point across because you actually mean media that centers the female gaze. There is a lot of media made by women that is popular and just perpetuates dumb tropes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:23 PM
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Those are examples of media made by women but they don’t necessarly center what is called ‘the female gaze’. I get what she means because I read what examples she gave but I think it’s pretty useless to open this topic without clearly stating about what kind of content you refer to. Also it’s not like the majority of women highly select the media they consume so it aligns with a certain standard. I wouldn’t have known about female gaze if I didn’t have a special interest in the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:20 PM
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what you define as female media is very different from what these dudes think is female media
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:54 PM
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Attraction is subjective in the end. Ten people might find you charming, five might think you are good for a chuckle, you obviously concentrate on the ones that get your humour. Also my point is that grown women don’t hang posters of celebs on their walls. So unless your demographic is a pre teen that has bts posters, that argument is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:40 PM
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I said it’s not just about sex. Sharing your life means sharing many other things with your partner, not just sex. How is it not my bussiness if my partner cheats on me? Stds, lack of trust and breaking boundaries, possibly fathering other children are obvious reasons. No woman that is healthy loses her libido magically, these are cheap excuses from men that don’t bother seducing their wives anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:30 PM
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i used to have posters on my wall when i was 13, that argument is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:07 PM
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sorry, i already got other ten chads willing to dress up for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:06 PM
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only if you dress in a full leather catsuit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:43 PM
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new fear unlocked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:36 PM
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when i moved to another country my mom and brothers made a photo album for me and wrote little descriptions under each picture
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:26 PM
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go to the main page of the subreddit and you’ll see three dots on the purple bar. click on them and go to ‘change flair’
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:08 PM
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that’s because the members of the accountable gender are not as accountable as they like to project
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:03 PM
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I’m not a radfem and it’s just mad weird. Triggers my memories of creepy relatives
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:49 PM
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You’re the one that chooses to view it as a traditionalist saying that implies a woman has to ‘keep’ sex for only one guy or whatever. Many men and women use the saying just to express they found an extremely compatible partner with whom they want to live their life with. Sharing life doesn’t mean just sharing sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:38 AM
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Some do have kids that they show in the videos. But I always get the feeling these stay at home wife or girlfriend tiktoks are made just so they can show off they have nice things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:11 AM
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i got trad content like that and it’s basically women married with rich men that show how they wake up, journal, go to pilates, eat and go to sleep. and then there are the ‘femininity coaches’ that are like the equivalent of alpha guys selling courses
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:58 AM
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so after i read your comment i searched orange pie on google and found out it’s an actual thing. i do feel a bit of regret regarding my username now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:35 AM
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Anyway this deviated from the point. The condition to have sex is to be sexually attractive. Demanding sex just cause you are good without being attractive to the other person is like me asking for a Grammy even tough I don’t sing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:21 AM
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It really depends on the dynamics of your family. I heard that advice too from actual succesful people but their families were a shitshow so it was understandable why they viewed things that way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:36 AM
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Because one is the best fruit and the other one is just an apple
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:27 AM
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Idk, maybe Billy should be glad some crazy woman isn’t into him? Men around me say all the time ‘don’t stick your dick in crazy’.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:20 AM
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Firstly, sex is based on sexual attraction-if you remove that and treat it like a reward, you just get a BB situation. And judging from what people here say, men don’t like being bb. If a good man has passable looks, he’s not overlooked let’s be honest. Also maybe men should start having some kind of filter. Some crazy women with pathological tendencies wrote letters to Bundy. You never select for the quality of women while accusing women of the same thing. Also using this logic I should feel fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:02 AM
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You don’t consider the answers you get as clear because you think it’s legitimate to compare apples to oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:42 PM
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First one, there are other things you can do besides piv
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:52 PM
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Why are you triggered by a common saying that expressed two people are in a stable relationship tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:51 PM
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I’m not afraid they’ll cheat on me, I just wouldn’t tolerate it. If I really hated men I wouldn’t be sharing my life with one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:34 PM
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Thanks for the laugh. Men can win the award for the more sensitive gender if saying that qualifies as misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:26 PM
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Gaslighting is generalising behaviour like that for the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:13 PM
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No, this is cheap gaslighting. Why would you want to be married to a guy whom you deem capable to cheat on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:01 PM
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While we are in a relationship? Is that man a bit challanged?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:53 PM
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I wouldn’t marry a man that is neurotic about the fact he got no play in the past and thinks cheating can be acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:47 PM
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i have a hard time believing the dude that wrote this is older than 19
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:39 PM
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Shocking thing, break up if you don’t get sex and can’t seduce your wife/gf anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:38 PM
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She’s very hot, she has that runway model body
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:19 PM
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Shocking thing, people that are in a relationship expect fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:18 PM
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I didn’t say anything about control or owning anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:04 PM
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I dislike her for a number of reasons but you can’t say she isn’t a bombshell
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:03 PM
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Or if there’s a risk of him cheating you just leave his ass, no point to stay with a man that makes you question yourself and doesn’t sexually satisfy you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:31 PM
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you’re right, the justification for that is the kid not having a drastic change of lifestyle or opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:59 PM
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who would actually want their daughter to be a sex worker??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:54 PM
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Yeah. Also I read a reply of his saying that if she leaves him, he has no problem taking the kid from her. Gotta love these males🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:57 PM
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imagine recently giving birth to a kid and your boyfriend wasting his energy owning the feminists on twitter and spiting women that he’s not even involved with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:23 PM
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so why shouldn’t i divorce a cheating husband? women don’t get ‘bored’ of sex if it’s good. maybe he should try to seduce his wife instead of stranger women if he cares so much about the kids lives and his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:19 PM
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Yeah, we don’t comform to puritanical and impractical views on sex anymore, that’s why women deserve to be cheated on./s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:51 AM
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my point is not that they are entitled to sex. he was asking why fat women are on magazine covers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:35 AM
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Basically your question is ‘why are women mad they got cheated on??!??’
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:55 AM
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I’m just like you, I feel attraction only for one man at a time and I think it’s more productive to chanel my energy in one direction. When it comes to making the transition from talking phase to actually dating, I don’t think there are rules. The most important factors are how well you click and seeing that the other person is equally invested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:29 AM
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And men hypocritically use shaming tactics on women to try and dictate their dating preferences and strategies. I do have to give it to men-while women have a boring rotation of three words they use, men have a greater range. And they also have podcasts and try to use ‘science’ to justify many of the shaming tactics they have. Where’s the accountability for that? The biggest double standard is expecting the other gender to not resort to this sort of thing when your own gender still perpetuates i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:52 AM
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Obese people still exist. As much as I am against being fat because it’s unhealthy, I can’t understand why y’all are so hell bent on excluding some group of people from certain areas and human experiences. Obese people buy clothes-it’s kinda obvious they would like to see how those clothes would look on their frame. Obese people can be very photogenic-Ashley Graham has a great face. Also they can act, sing, dance and so on. So why should they be banned from any covers (unless it’s the cover of S…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:36 PM
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Accepting reality means that you can’t do nothing about ‘competition’. It’s always going to be there, there is always someone out there that’s better than you in some way. And a man’s exes might have been different from you, but their relationship ended for a reason. So the smart choice is not to be eaten away by the insecurity that he slept with 40 people before (like the example in this post). You make the best out of your current relationship, because there’s a good reason why he chose you an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:13 AM
1

westeroid behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:04 AM
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Your story reminds me of my mom and stepdad. They married when she was 47 and he was 41 and they are literally made for eachother. Best wishes to you and your husband
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:53 PM
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🇹🇩💪🏻🇷🇴💪🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:41 PM
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this is something i’m still salty about. we were just making fun of eachother while eating zacusca and then the party poopers shut it down🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:36 PM
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We don’t care less about it, we just accept the reality faster🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:19 PM
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you got the 14 yo asking about what colour is your bugatti and then you got kitten/kittenself in the same generation. i hope they grow out of these phases
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:08 PM
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that hairline deffinetly hit the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:36 PM
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yeah, if they stay around long-term highly depends on their character and values
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:50 PM
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Because of wider use of contraception methods, the education level of women affecting the number of children they’re going to have and family planning
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:43 PM
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spot on. also the scenario in which people have babies because they actually want them is preferable to the one in which people do it just because they’re supposed to. working with kids opened my eyes on how shitty and negligent some parents can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:35 PM
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thank you for your service. i’m going to watch the geriatric punk rockers now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:03 PM
2

Your response reminded me of the movie Ted where one guy gets to bring his childhood teddy bear to life. That teddy bear pulled a lot of ladies, but they didn’t show his LoL playing abilities lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:43 AM
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But was it really the attention? A dude with less interesting things to say wouldn’t have gotten the same results. When you’re attractive, there’s really no shortage of people to choose from
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:56 AM
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so you’re saying OP’s strategy doesn’t keep women around?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:33 AM
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I’m not agreeing with you. Lots of women projected the gay stuff on him before he wore the dress. A big part of his fanbase viewed him as having a relationship or being attracted to another dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:09 AM
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Literally people have shipped Harry Styles with his bandmate for YEARS. Just look up the insane amount of fanfiction there is on ‘Larry’. And he’s still the most thirsted dude. Women literally project that type on behaviour on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:02 AM
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Imagine talking like this and thinking others are the meme
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:44 PM
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It’s not hypocritical to be a cishet woman attracted only to cishet dudes tho. And if I am woman that sings a Katy Perry song or dances with a friend, that doesn’t mean I engage in homoerotic behaviour, just like a dude singing Call me by your name isn’t automatically not heterosexual. Also OP ignores the fact dudes like Harry Styles drown in pussy. People have literally developed an unhealthy obsession to ship him with another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:27 PM
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so you built some connection with them and then you were both horny at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:07 PM
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That’s because women don’t fetishize gay/bi men as much as men do it with lesbians and bi girls. If you are a bi woman you have to avoid the dudes that automatically assume you’d be down for a threesome with another woman. So generally men aren’t accepting of wlw because they are less hypocritical, they are more accepting because that behaviour turns them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:56 PM
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manic panic is really good. also the shade names are cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:51 PM
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I think open relationships might be more popular in the future. Or it will be more socially acceptable to try one for a while to see if you’d like it better than monogamy. Also don’t forget that open relationships can be just as hard as monogamy for different reasons. And there’s quite a lot of amount of c word going around the poly community. A lot of them say that ‘you don’t owe anyone’ while completely disregarding our natural predispotion to bond with others on a deeper level and not wanting…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:25 PM
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You’re taking ‘women crave attention’ to the extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:03 PM
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then there truly ain’t no justification for reaching this hard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:58 PM
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Dude the premise of your post is so weak that it’s easy to ask questions like that. I can’t imagine what mental gymnastics it takes to reach that but I’m going to assume you had a gf that turned you down because she was editing a photo to post on ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:49 PM
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You’re still not answering my question. If I have so many opportunities and outlets to get attention, why even have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:37 PM
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Then why don’t I just stay on instagram 24/7 since it’s psychologicaly superior to having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:29 PM
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If all women love attention soooo much why the ratio on old is something like one woman for seven males? If attention feels pSyChOloGicAlLy better than sex why are we even having sex with guys in 2022? There is a certain niche of women that knows that they can capitalise on attention coming from males. Usually you can spot them so if you are not into that then you can simply not swipe on them. Any sane woman that wants a relationship knows how to use a dating app to her advantage and filter for …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:16 PM
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When the album opened with Donda, Donda, Donda x15 I really felt that There are some tracks with decent lyrics but they get overshadowed by the ones where he just repeats random stuff 10 times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:34 PM
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I am sure self worth plays a big part in cheating. I remember one of the women that gave me a pretty poetic explanation about it. She said one raindrop in a bucket is no big deal, until the raindrops fill the bucket. I don’t really know anyone that wouldn’t be affected by constantly feeling like they are nr 2 in their relationship. Happy cakeday btw🎂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:22 PM
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This is why it’s so hard to challange your view because this is a topic that can be solely based on one’s experience. In my experience, the women cheaters I came across were the ones you least expected tbh. You know, the types that were very invested in their relationship, talked about how they sucked their men after cooking them dinner because they got such a great catch. The reason they gave me afterwards? That other dude simply showed them attention and wanted to woo them and they craved that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:02 PM
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Dude, I say this to you as a woman. No one is the prize in a relationship and people that have that mentality are not the ones you’d want to invest your time and resources into. The relationship itself is the actual prize if both partners put work into it. Nothing wrong in developing your communication skills and emotional intelligence. But that doesn’t mean you can’t work on yourself in other areas to become more interesting to the women around you. Develop your social skills. Have goals. Take …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:05 PM
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that’s why i think larry should be the next prime minister, at least he’s extremely cute
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:41 PM
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People use dating apps for multiple reasons. The ones that are actively looking for a relationship aren’t really the crowd that are responding to ‘wassup my place or yours’ messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:31 PM
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Ah yeah I understand what you mean in that case and that’s not okay on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:59 PM
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I think as long as two people can communicate in a common language, it’s not that hard to have a relationship or be married. People can learn about other cultures and it can be very fun to share your culture with someone that’s receptive. Also over time shared experiences are going to create a stronger bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:51 PM
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People (not just women) want honesty so they can make informed choices. If it doesn’t conform with what they want, ofc they’re gonna leave you and there’s nothing wrong with that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:41 PM
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Like you said, it’s common knowledge for a niche of men. The point was about women recognising that a marvel guy doesn’t look like that outside the movie set.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:58 AM
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To be honest I didn’t realise to what lenghts some dudes go just to shoot a shirtless scene until my bf showed me some yt videos on it. I’ll never forget the day I found out what ‘natty’ is lol. This is why I think it’s very important men also talk about it because it’s not common knowledge or as easily identifiable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:34 AM
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What’s the problem with complaining about unrealistic female bodies in media and why is it a lack of accountability? Just because men don’t call this out it doesn’t make it wrong when women do it. I can spot bullshit when a celebrity with a facelift tries to sell me some 80$ skincare because I’m a woman and that’s the stuff I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:04 AM
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I never really got this. I look up to my partner on certain stuff he knows better/is more skilled but that doesn’t mean I do it all the time. Just like he looks up to me when I’m the one that knows better. About other women that reward misogyny-not my circus, not my monkeys basically. I’m not the one that has to live with the consequences of that choice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:37 AM
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My mom worked two jobs because my dad couldn’t keep one for longer than a few months and at one point gave up trying. Also she did most of the chores so for most of my childhood I didn’t get to actually spend that much time with her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:08 PM
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come on, aren’t you jealous you didn’t land a high value male that can’t even close incriminating tabs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:34 PM
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i don’t think you necessarly have to be happy but being a balanced person can make having a relationship considerably easier. also you can avoid a lot of toxic shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:25 PM
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because ragebait gets them views and it’s low effort to go out in public and ask people questions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:42 PM
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they both look like they are in their late 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:55 PM
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No, female judges aren’t the bane of the justice system and no lawyer that doesn’t have any gender bias will tell you that. It’s funny how you can’t even acknowledge a case where women judge men in a more balanced way than other men (because they lack the ‘paternal bias’ that s reported in men judges giving more lenient sentences to women). Then also include violent assault of women and sexual harassment. See, we can keep on adding percentages. Also add the fact that rape victims rarely get just…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:37 PM
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Pardon me for forgeting what sub this is-of course men bear no responsability for their doomed marriages. Women’s families get crushed, they remarry at lower rates, raise the kids in the majority of cases and have to fight for child support. Also divorces are in the majority of cases wanted on both sides, but the women file the papers. And even in the case when men don’t want to get divorced, do you think the woman is leaving him cause he’s such a peach? If rape, sexual assault and pregnancy pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:41 PM
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Seeking help for your mental health doesn’t necessarly mean you have to take ‘drugs’. The discussion in this area can get tricky because there are legitimate illnesses that need pills to be kept under control and there are also therapists that just prescribe whatever. But admiting you have a problem and seeking help>pretending there’s nothing wrong and supressing your emotions. Shooting three pointers is the type of ‘positive’ risk taking. You can’t tell me you’ve never taken a risk succesfully …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:11 AM
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Just because you want it to be, risk taking is not irrelevant to emotionality. But for like the fourth time, men have a ptoblem admitting agression and impulsiveness are still forms of manifesting emotions. If the prevalance of atempt shows emotionality, then the prevalance of intent shows even more. There’s no ‘50% of women are on psych meds’, that’s bullshit pedaled with an agenda. According to the National Center for Health Statistics, it’s 25,6% women versus 14,6% men that took any sort of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:17 AM
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How can you say there ‘barely is’ academic discourse in 2022 when we’re just getting started to research covert depression in men or alexythimia? Negative risk taking is due to emotional dysregulation and positive risk taking is linked to chasing a thrill/emotional high. It’s obviously not irrelevant, but as I said men like to rebrand emotion when it suits them. When a study says ‘talking about emotions’ is a negative mechanism of coping you have to wonder what they would consider addictions (gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:26 AM
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you don’t go to a therapist just because you have a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:07 AM
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i’ve seen both terms used, they’re both dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:44 AM
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you were the one that didn’t give a reason to shame them so i’ll claim this one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:56 AM
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well i asked u first and i still got no answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:22 PM
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you said that ’even if she’s deciding to take that role, it’s the fact that you are attracted to someone because she will do as you say, as a pet’. that’s the extreme part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:47 PM
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doesn’t matter, you said he’s got a shitload of money. it’s over for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:26 PM
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what if your attractive gf monkey branches with your rich friend?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:14 PM
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the men that entertain them obviously think they are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:10 PM
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that’s a bit extreme. i could never be submissive in a relationship but i can’t deny there are some people that make it work. most of what you described is an exaggerated version of that dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:53 PM
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obviously no. unless the guy has dementia or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:44 PM
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thanks for assuring me i’m dating a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:29 PM
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you’re the one claiming they should be shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:23 PM
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this has been going on for almost a year, get with the times
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:07 PM
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why should they be shamed tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:36 PM
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Sure you can. Honestly I’m torn about it-the settlement is huge but also I think Bezos had access to top tier lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:30 PM
2

aren’t gold diggers shamed all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:12 PM
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my lovely aunties in no particular order: 1 that was the host of a food show on local tv. now she posts her stuff on tiktok and i had to block her because i cringe when she gets into fights with her ‘haters’ 1 that’s a sweetheart but married an alcoholic 1 that’s a sahm and has an online shop. pretty chill 1 that cheated on her ex husband with his brother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:10 PM
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It’s embarassing when everyone knows your husband cheated on you with your bestfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:13 PM
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i think this conclusion reflects reality better than saying ‘x is more emotional’. we are equal levels of emotional but we regulate and exhibit them differently. that’s why some coping mechanisms are regarded as being more ‘feminine’ or ‘masculine’
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:11 PM
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you can also have pleasure sex with your partner. don’t enter a monogamous relationship if you can’t respect its boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:54 PM
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Well the danger of cringe eboy thirst trap is that they’re gonna be on the internet forever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:52 PM
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if the relationship is not monogamous, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:38 PM
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because sex can be casual with a stranger or fwb or a very intimate experience with a lover that knows your body and with whom you share your life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:33 PM
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yeah what a great point, equating casual sex with a monogamous relationship where fidelity is expected
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:47 PM
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The point is that the way he rewarded her for that was by cheating on her with her best friend. Of course relationships are bilateral and he wasn’t a pos for the whole 20 years, but in the end what she got for doing her part was get publicly embarassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:58 PM
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I think the people that see the ‘moral’ divide between the two don’t use the ‘both are using their bodies’ angle. Athletes are regarded as striving to push the limits of their bodies to display impressive strength/agility/speed and so on and they see this as inherently more valuable than dancing, especially if that dance is provocative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:11 PM
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It doesn’t make me feel any type of way, it’s just an interesting discussion to have. I read the methodology of three studies and just as I expected, it’s just what we label as ‘feminine triggers’. Risk taking is not the pinaccle of analytical abilities, let’s not kid ourselves here. Also the intent for suicide is higher in male patients. If everybody already knew about this, there would be no academical discourse about it in 2022. The issue is more complex than it appears and dismissive attitud…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:05 AM
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Extreme displays of emotions as punching a hole in the wall, crying after a football game and so on. And that’s not women🤷🏻‍♀️. There is a certain standard about the emotions that women and men display-guess which gender gets labeled as showing the ‘negative’ ones. That’s why some analysis of studies from the 2000s won’t convince me, sorry. We’re supposed to have empathy for men for supressing their emotions, having higher suicide rates, getting in trouble more because they show more impulsivene…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:41 AM
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And just because that’s a conclusion reached by studying 46 people that won’t change my pov. I’ve yet to find any piece of research that sees this topic in its entirety-if men are less ‘emotional, why do most study show they process a break-up harder, have higher rates of suicide, exhibit more agression and violence just to give a few example?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:21 AM
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So one study has a sample of 25 people. I can take an MRI from work to a bbq party in my neighbourhood and replicate it. The article you linked gets interesting only in the end when it talks about the impact of socialisation on different cultures. I would take these findings more seriously if they detailed what they actually showed to the subjects. There is one gender that shows extreme displays of emotions much more frequently than the other but somehow that never seems to be adressed in certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:04 AM
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There’s always room for improvement in any field, but I’m sure my observations about men being equally emotional but socialised to show less of it will stay the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:33 AM
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I have trouble believing that because I’ve actually been around men my whole life and I’ve seen how they act. Also men like to rebrand ‘emotion’ when it fits them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:23 AM
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don’t forget the famous ‘what do you bring to the table besides looks?’
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:38 PM
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A good chunk of my hobbies are stereotipically feminine-baking, knitting, gardening, embrodery, thrifting for clothes or looking for vintage decorations for my home. Also I like making flower bouquets, my friends know I’ll always gift them bouqets made by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:08 PM
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i think around the time fat models became a thing-so around 2013
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:51 PM
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We all would like a fullfilling partnership. But if you look at divorce rates and people breaking up, it’s not a possibility for everyone. So just because someone can feel regret that it didn’t happen for them, there’s a slim chance they would have lasted with a guy that didn’t excite them enough to get a chance. People can lament and then move on doing other stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:07 AM
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So if I give you three examples of working mainly with men and them using gender bias to cover their incompetence and mediocrity instead of hiring a competent woman will you be convinced a ‘dick pass’ exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:04 AM
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As you can see from these answers taller women are not disadvantaged in dating due to their height. Men’s preferences are very diverse, but defeatist attitudes are not usually among them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:07 PM
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Why do you think only a taller guy would ‘make you appear normal’? I dated dudes that were shorter than me and nobody gave a fuck. It sounds like you need to work on your confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:50 PM
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I am a 5’11 woman and I never had any problems attracting men 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:38 PM
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why don’t you have the same criticism for men that make sex a bargaining chip too? making the promise of material goods to people in desperate situations doesn’t lay the grounds for an equal exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:28 PM
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my point is that she’s fat herself. or at least where i live people would call her fat🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:37 PM
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yeah i emphatise with them because i’ve seen the shit people do hoping to get out of poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:30 PM
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I don’t think being an ‘easy lay’ will help the older women that feel depressed and unfulfilled due to being single. Especially if you end up with a dude that has the logic this guy making the post has.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:00 PM
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Why do you care that women you find less desireable don’t want to be an ‘easy lay’?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:47 PM
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Maybe women see OnlyFans more acceptable because the creator is in control of their work and gets more revenue. Mia Khalifa got payed dust for being the nr 1 pornstar in the world. But that doesn’t mean women are more accepting of their husbands/bfs subscribing to onlyfans because there is a very strong parasocial relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:34 PM
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He is a ladies men. He dated many attractive celebrities, not just kim
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:49 PM
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