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A vasectomy is not usually on a wife’s will, that’s a bad faith exaggeration. Also a decision can’t be mutual if only one party suffers the long term consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:26 PM
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How it’s controlling to chose the amount of kids to have when you are the one risking your body and health for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:19 PM
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people generally dislike jordan peterson’s hipocrisy. that’s why we don’t care when he tries to pander to incel demographics to stay relevant. it’s not that hard to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:40 PM
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Nothing in that tiktok suggests she is a woman that wanted to ‘have it all’. It’s quite obvious she faced issues with infertility that are unusual for other women around her age, that’s why she froze her eggs at 30. Lots of women manage to have it all by the definition you gave-having a career and kids later in life is the norm in a lot of fields that are highly paid. The women that also managed to ‘get it all’ are also very adaptable individuals. Adaptability is a skill that will help the woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:02 PM
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It’s not my logic, it’s YOURS. By your own faulty line of thinking all men are harassers and abusers. Do I need to pull a blackboard and show you that if a woman rejects 3 men in a cruel way, that doesn’t mean the majority of women engage in this behaviour? Jeez. No, everyone is not after their selfish motives. Most of us understand that the moment you step out your house you work towards common goals with a bunch of other people. So positive behaviour is how you facilitate both your work and pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:55 PM
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I’m not getting mad, I’m just genuinely surprised you act like you don’t see the inherent flaw in your point. I have nothing against being held to a certain standard if there’s also some logic behind it. You’re not proving with actual proof how it’s a dumb example. Show the actual proof most women do that and then you could have a counter argument to what I said. I alread said why I am ‘entitled’ to that. Reciprocating positive behaviours is what makes society works and as long as we all live in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:42 PM
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Every girl has a story about being harrased, so every man is a harasser. This is basically your logic. Yeah everyone displays immoral behaviour at least once. Doesn’t mean it’s the same behaviour for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:32 PM
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Most of women reject in decent ways. Maybe you need to reread my comment a few times in order to realise I never mentioned that ALL women do this because I kept things pretty genderless and neutral. Also you have zero proof every woman rejected someone in a cruel way at least once. I get people from more individualist societies like to have these edgy takes that ‘you’re not owed anything’, but that’s an attitude that at best doesn’t lead to progress and at worst can get pretty destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:26 PM
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There is a distinction a lot of the men in these spaces fail to make between what is entitlement and what is just basic human decency. Your first example shows exactly that-you are not a therapist just because you show understanding and care towards a coworker having a bad day, regardless of their gender. You’re just a decent human being. That can translate into dating-you are not entitled to attention from opposite sex. But you are ‘entitled’ to being treated with basic human decency (for examp…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:13 PM
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He literally said he opens up to his female friends without spewing hot misogynist garbage and you intepreted that as being wOmeN aPprOveD lmfao. Guess what, men don’t like it either when you open up about a problem and spew misandrist takes. Does that mean men want women to open up only under male approved ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:35 PM
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I don’t think the majority of women that want something serious don’t vet for that from the beginning. We are searching for someone that has a combo of desireability and ability to be a good partner at the same time. And it’s not exactly hard to figure wether a man is a fuckboy or not after you get some experience in dating. So yeah I think it is beneficial to vet for those things early. But I don’t think it would be beneficial to vet based just on the ability of a dude to be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:03 AM
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I think preselection and desirability are more valued in the earlier stages. We don’t jump to having babies after we just met (not in the majority of cases) so the things we find most important in a partner tend to change depending on the stage of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:37 AM
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The point is not that he is more likely to get away, the point is that he has other things going on in his life besides your relationship. Only a minority of people (because this both applies to men and women) would want to be long-term with someone clingy and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:47 AM
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And it’s your personal responsability to determine what level of happiness is acceptable to you, your partner shouldn’t have to regulate that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:30 PM
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In theory, yes. In practice-that’s not something that fully depends on me. Also if he is not as happy or happier he can just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:40 AM
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Plenty of men cheat just because they are horndogs-and there are also a lot of outlets for men to give their money and attention to women (OF, camgirls, strip clubs) while claiming they are not cheating in the traditional sense of the word. It’s something women should deffinetly worry about. Also the trope of the traditional man that protects and provide is a Disney fantasy-the majority of traditional men are not as great as you want to paint them out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:05 PM
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Yeah, that guy loves you so much that he’s going to have quickies with a rando in a motel and then gaslight you about it. Vomit inducing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:17 PM
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You could get the same experience going to a strip club anywhere in this world. Even you acknowledge in your post that these are almost all transactional situations-so yeah I would really wonder why my brother/uncle/cousin had to travel thousands of kms to do something he could have done at home just to try and own the western women. It’s funny how in your homecountry this type of behaviour would be labeled as gold-digging but it’s suddenly ok when a woman on another continent does the same thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:58 PM
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It’s not necessarly wrong. We all seek partners that are better in some ways than us. But the way hypergamy is used in arguments here tries to paint that as some sort of revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:45 AM
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Please be for real, constant circlejerking and poor data interpreting skills is in no way better than ‘just feelings’. In fact for a lot of people that can google search the articles that redpillers just skim in order to win arguments online it’s pretty clear there in an innate desperation these dudes have for a certain version of reality to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:28 AM
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Come on, not the redpiller talking about circlejerking. Seen a lot of articles and data from TRP interpreted in atrocious ways or only have the parts presented that are favourable to men. So yeah, hard pass from anyone that wants actual reasonable interpretation of data.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:22 AM
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Those seem like real answers to you. To a lot of people they seem like cheap c0pe-it’s always convenient for redpillers to constantly move the bar on what is redpill or not and then demand they are shown proof for obvious things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:16 AM
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How could you not see that redpillers repeating the same three motives (redpillers ain’t a monolith/that’s not actually redpill/people haven’t read the sidebar) is interpreted rightfully so as low effort and not worthy of changing your opinion? But sure, these women must be biased or not open minded for not being swayed by low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:10 AM
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Or maybe the only two arguments that rp men here present in threads like those are unconvincing. You can be open to have your opinion change-but that also requires the other side to bring something convincing to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:54 AM
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So basically the same thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:33 PM
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So women should lie? Because functional adults regardless of sex don’t need a man or a woman. You are seen and owed basic respect just like any other human being. But that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:53 PM
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I am european and I come across quite a few american women that are coupled up or married with swiss guys. Which I guess it’s a good thing for these women since men here are taller and less fat on average. So ofc american women won’t be as succesful if they look for partners in countries with a traditional dating culture but their chances and prospects are good in countries with a similar culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:27 PM
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There’s no social stigma about a woman in her 20s going for a guy in his 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:31 PM
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How has this dude shows he is worthy of forgiveness? By going on the platform of two misogynysts cracking jokes about rape? I get your comment tries to have this hollier than thou attitude but it kinda fails because you never take into consideration these sleazy dudes have to earn forgiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:10 AM
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He’s going after what he wants. No man that actually pursues excellence shits on others preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:59 AM
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Everyone shames it. My stepdad is younger than my mom and since they’ve been together they keep hearing how she stole his chance to be with a younger woman that gives him a family (even tough he has kids from a previous marriage). Lots of people are triggered when a woman gets a second chance to have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:57 AM
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It’s commendable that you broke things off once you found out. I don’t want to make it seem like I’m defending her because cheating is disgusting and she obviously went to great lengths to cheat on her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:33 AM
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If someone is not a good option for me, I’m not entertaining them. It’s that simple. So don’t act surprised pikachu face when people are going to think they are good options for you because they judge your actions. The sus part is befriending someone for a year and getting romantic without knowing they’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:38 AM
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Maybe she tought she was a good option because *you * kept entertaining her? This is such an odd story with some questionable gaps I’m curious no one adressed by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:25 AM
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Nah, there’s deffinetly pressure for a woman to not be clingy, give a guy his space, not act overly emotional or-god forbid-crying when the man feels it’s inconvenient. It’s a red pill myth that men are understanding of the way women display their emotions when the reality is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:23 PM
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I wasn’t talking about financial stability. I was talking about that point that people reach when they learn stuff from their previous failed relationships and become more confident. It’s much easier to be in a relationship when you’re not insecure about very mundane shit (something young people largely do) and you can communicate in an effective way (something that people usually learn after a few failures).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:43 PM
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The most unstable people I meet are generally younger. This is why we don’t end up with our highschool sweetheart or first gf/bf. Once people learn how to navigate relationships better and handle their insecurities relationships become easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:13 PM
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Because having a relationship becomes much easier the more stable you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:05 PM
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Maybe those women throw a fit because they never knew they were on a deadline to fuck some guy. Anyone regardless of gender would feel some type of way if they were ghosted for something they didn’t knew beforehand. Also I’m not surprised the only point of your comment was ‘women have no expectation placed on them when it comes to having sex with a guy’.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:31 PM
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You’re not expected to sit and wait if you don’t want to. Posts like yours on ppd are strange personally for me because they portray men as doormats that have zero expectations from women-and that has never been my dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:19 PM
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You don’t measure up for a better reply
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:47 PM
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It’s unimportant because you’re just another man complaining and doing the same things he claims women do. Nothing new to see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:40 PM
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Actually women should do better and not pay attention to men whining, bitching and complaining. Just because you ‘bring something to our attention’ it doesn’t actually make it worthy of our time and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:35 PM
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you totally lost me with that second pragraph. while i generally agree capitalism influenced mating dynamics, the whole ‘you bear his name and serve him’ is viscerally unappealing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:21 AM
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going on a holiday and attracting a man there is not really equivalent to ‘threatening’ all modern women you’ll go overseas because you get no play where you are. i have guy friends that hooked up while on a vacation, i don’t count them as sex tourists tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:15 AM
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On behalf of me and almost all models everywhere around the world, we thank you for showing solidarity for tall women🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:01 PM
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dude that covers crypto scams starting from a few hundreds of dollars. you know, people that get scammed seek justice in all the ways that are available to them. but anyway, i’m sure you can post that screen shot to prove us all wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:59 PM
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Damn you sound like a sweet summer child
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:45 PM
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Look, a 600k crypto scam doesn’t go unnoticed. Literally people lost way less in other scams yet they still seek aid. I know kids that are sensible enough to see this story is just a dude trying his best to write a revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:37 PM
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Do you really believe she was scammed of 600k and there would be no way to find this story online or some proof she reached to financial authority?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:30 PM
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Actually you can just tell her name so we can check when the coffezilla video drops about her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:27 PM
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Look, the creative writing exercise is not bad. It’s admirable you shoved all the redpill cliches in one story. Probably worth a 7/10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:23 PM
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out of all the things that didn’t happen, this didn’t happen the most
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:19 PM
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It’s not about ‘bad deals’, it’s about moms and dads having delusional expectations about what their kid deserves. They overinflate the value their son/daughter has as a partner while finding flaws with the vast majority of potential partners. It’s probably something a lot of them can’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:26 PM
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Totally agree. Also you have to identify the biases your parents might have just because they can’t be objective when it comes to their kids. I see how my mom acts when it comes to my brothers and their romantic life and I hardly refrain from telling her to get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:51 AM
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The point is that just because your mothers say most women are trash or low quality it doesn’t make them right. My dad says the same about men, it doesn’t mean he is right. It means just that our parents are pretty delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:28 AM
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Yeah, that’s what happens with a lot of parents. No one is good enough for their kid, but that doesn’t mean they are saying that from an objective pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:20 AM
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Or maybe she is just biased because she is your mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:14 AM
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I think for a lot of them this is just a phase. Most of those comments are left by teenagers. Sometimes I look at their profile pictures and I’m wondering how Andy that seems to be 16 yo has so much insight on intersex dynamics. Also being misogynistic is nothing new or revolutionary. It’s quite a tired shtick. I see some women also try to jump and feed the trad fantasies of these dudes. But this space is going to get overcrowded with ‘creators’ and people will eventually get bored to hear the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:13 AM
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He probably doesn’t make the distinction between europe as a continent and the european union
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:20 AM
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They might not use the same words but how men constantly talk about modern/western women and how fat/entitled/old/nagging/golddigging/insert insult it’s basically the same thing. They’re writing constantly how modern women are not marriage material so it’s a reach to say men don’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:18 AM
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Or maybe you didn’t signal you were phisically attracted to them and they dipped because of that. It’s not the fact you didn’t tell them ‘let’s fuck’, it’s the fact you didn’t give any sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:42 AM
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Nothing ironic in saying portraying femininity by using words with negative connotations is icky. In fact I hope the ones that gather here and declare how much they love femininity could use the advice about the words they chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:22 AM
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That’s a lot of projection. Many of us realise what men mean by ’femininity’ and decide for ourselves it’s not that great of a deal. It’s not adversarial, it’s just eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:20 AM
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It’s something you don’t get. But for some of us imagining that a man looks at us and sees ‘emotional chaos’ or irrationality just because of our genitals is very icky. Those are phrases and words he used that have a negative connotation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:36 AM
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It’s not unfortunate. Not all women identify with this brand of femininity and it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:31 AM
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The only inconsistency you pointed is that you and your buddies are the exception. But hey, if you feel that’s an accomplishment I won’t burst your bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:21 AM
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I was just responding to your claim that ‘I can either use the info or lose it’. If you want to interpret it as being defensive, you do you. I already adressed that there’s a small percentage of dudes that do this. So idk why it’s relevant that you and some dudes fit the exception I mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:15 AM
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Most guys looking for sex that don’t have other options will invest time and money into swaying the mind of a girl that didn’t want to initially hook up. Also I’m not single and he’s the type of man that has options but thanks again for the anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:02 AM
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Most guys that are actually attractive have options. Also my second paragraph covers the fact no vetting method is entirely foolproof but thanks for the lil anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:44 AM
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Provider of what? Headaches?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:37 AM
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Cap. The majority of women want a man that’s compatible with them and can match their lifestyle. Like I said men fail the core principle of traditional masculinity (which is not a bad thing, just facts about our modern world) so it gets really old and tiring to pretend you are held to some impossible standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:16 AM
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It’s actually good advice in practice. Because some dude that’s only interested to hook-up will give up if he doesn’t get what he wants in the majority of cases. If the point of your post would have been to say this is not a foolproof method because sometimes there is a dude desperate enough to just fake interest until he gets laid-yeah sure. But no vetting method is 100% foolproof. Basically your CMV can be summed up as ‘don’t use a condom, there’s a 2% chance it won’t protect you from pregnanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:51 PM
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I know what the rp stance is and I have my qualms with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:46 PM
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A flawed point. A minority of men nowadays are sole providers. You can’t say we expect the same or more gender roles from men when men don’t fullfill the basic role of traditional masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:06 PM
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You’re probably going to have the most original perspective here. But how does preffering someone that is sweet, gentle and attentive match with liking women that emotionally and phisically hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:00 PM
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This comment is a wild ride
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:53 PM
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Any rational person would say we don’t know the finances of some strangers on reddit. But I won’t stop you from doing your little bitter routine
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:09 PM
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So marrying someone that can afford the same things as you is considered marrying up now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:52 PM
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This sub is funny when it comes to the finances of a couple. If a woman doesn’t go dutch on a 20€ date she is a gold digger looking for a foodie call but also career women must be avoided at all costs. Tough crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:20 PM
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you: women don’t know the value of money also you: a woman that knows the value of money is a european liberal feminist Seriously you can’t make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:48 PM
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My take is that ‘hypergamy’ is often exaggerated in rp spaces. I have a partner that’s better than me in certain areas, just as I am better than him in other areas. Everyone wants a partner that adds something to their life, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:47 AM
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Yeah, the rational people on this sub keep saying it’s a segment of younger women going for older guys, not the majority. Then the deluded guys here say women date guys around their age due to ‘social pressure’ like this post does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:09 PM
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The majority of them liking all that? The chances are not as high as men wished they were
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:49 PM
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Leo is a meme at this point because no matter how you look at it, dumping someone because they reached a certain age is weird. And because he puts his bussiness out in the open people are going to express their opinions about it. A gold digger that would drop a dude based on some shallow reasoning and move on to another would get the same amount of ‘shaming’. People are not necessarly clowning the age gap per se, they are clowning the reasoning behind the age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:02 PM
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Nobody asked the manosphere about dating and women, get real. Quit trying to save face just because the original point is weak and men are as guilty as women when it comes to complaining about the opposite gender without anyone asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:46 PM
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Of course a 10+ year age gap is not a ‘norm’ because the vast majority of women and men are not attracted to people that much older than them. But it doesn’t mean society was ever against them-especially when the man is the older partner since men are more protected from ageism. Apart from MSM telling women you don’t have to settle for a man, there’s nothing I would count as empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:45 PM
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I didn’t miss the point, I just think it’s a weak one. People talk about a lot of things, dating being a pretty important subject. Following this logic the manosphere is just full of insecure men since nobody asked them anything about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:39 PM
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Women still don’t choose how they want to live their life without any shame or judgement as it’s obvious from just spending five minutes on the internet. So men want something that they themselves as a group don’t offer to women. Also age gaps are not out of ‘social norms’.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:22 PM
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Nobody said women their age don’t want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:48 PM
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Don’t care if a man says he doesn’t need a woman because it’s his fucking bussiness. It’s that simple. Also I would appreciate the fact he is a self sufficient adult that can take care of himself without needing a woman. Pretty simple. Also why should these scenarios in which a woman says that to a specific man have any relevance to the point? It’s just more mental gymnastics from your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:09 PM
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Come on, that’s just mental gymnastics on your part. Sometimes it was the answer to a question, other times it was just straight up saying a man is not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:44 AM
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Never mind I know you can’t actually support these bs claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:58 AM
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How it’s not ‘mainstream’ or just a tiny area of the internet? Men choose whatever they want to do with their lives and the fact that some people are going to disagree with a man that makes a divisive statement (mind you, same thing happens to a woman making a divisive claim) doesn’t mean men are being restrained.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:44 AM
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Men have no rules placed on them as well. In fact everyone can see plenty of men making comments about women being fat/old/entitled/initiating divorces/not being mothers and so on. So how are men restraining themselves when basically 1.they can live their lives as they choose 2. they can comment on whatever thing women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:20 AM
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I didn’t mean that a partner would have to go trough certain things in order to understand or deal with your baggage. My fiance was never a young immigrant in a country with a more progressive culture-yet we understand eachother because we both faced a certain degree of hardships in life and gained some experience from those.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:18 AM
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Just because women don’t use the same language to talk about the baggage men have it doesn’t mean it’s irrelevant. I think it’s logical to be reasonable about what ‘baggage’ is. Because men in these dating spaces overinflate and exaggerate basic human experience as baggage. Also it would be logical to want someone that can understand and deal with your baggage, not just want some emotionally blank partner to use as a crutch for your own shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:02 AM
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I don’t think I fully agree with you. Just like men, women come in two categories-there are women that would take the Mother Theresa role and try to save a broken man from his own demons (and that usually backfires in an epic way). And then there are women that are actively avoiding such men and go for ones that are actually likeable partners (and this is why there is a chunk of jaded dudes online bitching about dating).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:57 AM
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Let’s not even start on how much baggage these dudes have themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:41 AM
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Generally I agree-being an adult is not that impressive if you look at the large number of individuals that achieved the same thing. But the fun part is that there is a certain group of men that gets very bothered by women claiming their financial independence gave them the option to not settle in a relationship. So it’s pretty fun to see them getting worked up over random tiktoks with 500 views.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:28 AM
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If you went around my uni campus all the girls would tell you their career comes first and after that they can get a man later since there’s never a shortage. So if you go and look in places where career oriented women gather, you’re gonna find out their sentiments match with the ‘later 30s+ women’.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:23 AM
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Men worth their salt expect confidence, emotional intelligence, the ability to be a good communicator and a list of other things from women. Just because ppd thinks any man is desperate to just get with any woman doesn’t mean reality matches this delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:43 AM
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Yeah you’re blind. We put plenty of effort into being good partners for men that we deem high value. From being intelectually challenging, putting work into surprising a man sexually, being a supportive partner and communicating openly and the list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:52 PM
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Beware guys, the redpiller that works in fertility issues ‘as a hobby’ is here. Also it’s clear you haven’t even read the original post and you’re engaging with my comments just for shits and giggles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:05 PM
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She literally says she’s been trying for years. If you have any endocrine issue for example, you sure as hell also had it when you were 20. The point was that using that post was ignorant and claiming that just ‘some’ women are lucky to conceive at 34 is also ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:10 PM
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You know some women have fertility issues caused by other factors besides age, right? I read her post and it seems she falls in that category-plenty of women her age don’t have a hard time getting pregnant at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:49 AM
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I work as a pediatric oncologist and the amount of crazy right wingers that like to claim a kid getting cancer was punishment for what a parent did in the past would drastically change your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:01 AM
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The problem is that posts like this one just make men seem desperate to choose any woman without any actual criteria. Women put a lot of work into themseves and also reach a point where they are ‘a person their girlhood self wouldn’t even recognise’ (gosh the sheer cringe of that phrase). But hey, that will never even be acknowledged by a man because he sees you as this passive thing he gets to exercise his one liners in a strategically chosen bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:16 AM
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My point was that even tough MRA is just a small percentage of the manosphere, the youtubers that get a lot of press like to associate their discourse with systemical problems men face while not doing anything to raise awareness or draw support to these causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:40 PM
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I asked what the manosphere and redpill has specifically done. If they would support MRA causes, considering the fact they rack up hundreds of millionsnof views, they could raise awareness and money for these real causes that impact men. But they don’t. That’s the bottom line.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:41 PM
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Those girls just added their confessions because it became sort of a meme that the caleb dude got around. The ones that started the trend and connected the dots were lamenting because they dated only him. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:52 AM
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Except there’s no actual proof they were dating other men at the time. Most of them came to the revelations after they shared matching stories of going on a date and then getting ghosted by the same guy. For some reason they are not allowed to share they went on a date with this dude? They didn’t initiate any sort of campaign against him or made any callouts to threaten the dude in any way. It all started as ‘dating in nyc is trash’. They didn’t ‘stick any mob’-but guess what, people tend to not…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:04 AM
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They never get how ironic is that they are hailing a pimp as a supporter of traditionalist values. Also it’s ok for Tate to profit from the lonely men that pay his cam girls but God forbid women make OnlyFans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:23 AM
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Yeah, I might learn how women actually put more effort into getting more custody of their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:49 PM
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You have to be joking when the post mentions several systemic issues men face and your answer is basically ‘some youtuber made a video about making your ig enticing’. There’s nothing that can ruin your credibility more than that. Compare what feminism actually achieved for women to the achievements you listed in this comment. It’s damn laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:44 PM
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How were they doing the exact same thing since they were the ones getting lovebombed then ghosted? Unfortunately for him some women shared their dating experiences online which is their right and came to the conclusion they dated the same dude. How it’s hypocritical to be angry that you got ghosted by someone that agressively pursued you? They were not even the ones that contacted his employer-but I get it, it sucks for men when women come forward and say ‘this dude is sus’. I don’t think men wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:21 PM
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Yeah, because obviously that’s such a common example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:15 PM
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Moms also agressively pursue custody battles and spend a lot of money. But hey, whenever I don’t want to do something I also make up a bunch of excuses to justify my actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:14 PM
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The bar for attacking men is so low that y’all internalise any random woman that appears in a video that says what she would want in a partner. Also the fact that women gather on social media to tell their story on how they encountered a man that was deceitful (like West elm caleb) is shaming apparantly. But sure, it’s an ‘attack on men’ to say what you’d personally like. It’s not an attack when thousands of randos will screech that a woman has too much ‘baggage’ or that she is ‘objectifying’ me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:32 PM
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Literally anyone regardless of gender would love to be in a position that gives them access to money. They date in the same tax bracket. How does that count as dating up?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:55 PM
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People date and marry in their own tax bracket. Also the majority of men today can’t support a family just from their own income-so they fail at the basic requirement of trad masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:45 PM
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There was a user here that had a great comment debunking most of the myths about family court that rp peddles. Mainly how men that actually apply for split custody get it. Should have saved her comment for cases when questions like this one appear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:21 PM
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Probably because traditional marriage is a status symbol nowadays. You can only afford it if you have a certain income-so ofc women that want a life of leisure will be drawn to that edit: I remember having a talk with someone here about women from traditonal societies having much harsher expectations from men than your typical western woman. That’s why men often times like the idea of being perceived as this masculine leader but when time comes to rise to the ocassion they turn bitter fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:52 PM
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That was work inside the home that was not payed. So they had no financial indeendence. I also tend my garden and prepare lunch for my partner when I can-but that doesn’t make me feel like I can cosplay as a tradwife
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:45 PM
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Being a traditional man means being the sole provider of the family. The majority of modern men can’t do that so they fail at the most basic requirement of traditional masculinity. Paying for dates to signal your interest doesn’t make you some traditional man. You also have the option to not pay and find a woman that goes Dutch. It’s within men’s control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:21 PM
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How are men held to traditional standards when the majority of women work?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:11 PM
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Or maybe they simply dislike or are inconvenienced by the idea. But where would the fun be if some men wouldn’t act like they know better what goes on inside a woman’s mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:42 AM
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Why would someome think it’s logical or completely reasonable to get this worked up over what a stranger wants in a partner? Those women just state what they want and the men online just like to catastrophize and say ‘men are treated like objects’ or ‘the man’s side is never considered’. Obviously those women are not forcing themselves on any man so that’s just stupid to say. And the majority of women still don’t have those high standards if you look at who they date or have relationships with. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:09 AM
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No, I hold the accountable for the shit they say or do since everyone can see what they comment online. You can’t hide behind the excuse of ‘it’s just content creators’. Also came across a few while I was still in my native country and they would just spam you on sm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:49 AM
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I got the timeline just right. Men have been whining about feminism and masculine women long before the passport bros gained traction online. Also it’s funny how the passport bros are so happy that they have to come back online just to run their mouths endlessly about women they claim to not like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:24 AM
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It’s very common knowledge and fast fashion and ethical consumerism have been debated plenty of times. Just because you don’t want to admit it and your only response is that ‘haha people buy iphone’ just shows you don’t actually care about the problem besides trying to own the other side. Or men come online, willingly say some gross shit and throwing fits about modern women and then they get surprised when people disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:22 AM
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how is it different? you said only a certain demographic of women cares and now you are backtracking on it also dicaprio is a meme at this point. i’m under 30 and while i don’t care for him, i see the memes everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:18 AM
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Yeah, exploitation of children is so low that Shein child working factories became common knowledge. Be for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:12 AM
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are the 30-40yo women also commenting about billie eilish and that dude she’s dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:04 AM
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Nice article that I’ve also seen shared on twitter a few times by people I follow with leftist views. Don’t care what your opinion of these spaces is, but it’s disningenous to act like these issues are not talked about at length.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:02 AM
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Just go to any leftist space and you’ll see how women and men debate about capitalism, immigration, exploitation and all the issues you listed. Just because you’re biased to see only one thing doesn’t mean it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:35 AM
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It’s seriously deluded to think you can say modern women are shitty and parrot the whole passport bro discourse and expect no one to react to that. Perfect example of someone that can only throw it but can’t catch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:33 AM
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I answered your question already, you just don’t like my answer. The choosing aspect is not irrelevant. And men might have whatever ideal they want, but the women they CHOSE is their current peak. Just like for the dude that’s short on options the woman he tolerates is his peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:42 PM
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How convenient to ignore some tasks are done literally everyday while others are things that have to be taken care of once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:36 PM
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The funny thing with inconsistent logic like this is that it starts with the premise that an unattractive man gets the best he can do but the attractive man with more options is ‘slumming’. Spoiler alert-the attractive man is with the woman he chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:23 PM
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How convenient you took the traditionally masculine role and said it’s expected from both genders and no longer exclusive to males but you draw the line at cooking and cleaning which are still feminine duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:20 PM
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That’s just projection. How a man treats you has no connection to how attractive he is, the only connection is to his character. But just like another user pointed out here, some men that don’t have as much success with dating have to c0pe by making up these scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:15 PM
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50 shades started as a twilight fanfic. that explains everything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:48 PM
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If outsourcing male tasks wouldn’t be as common there wouldn’t be literal bussinesses centered on that. Also women work and financially contribute to the household so they already took on the traditionally masculine roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:46 PM
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Cooking and cleaning are everyday tasks. Fixing the roof is a task that is easy to outsourced just like changing oil. The majority of men will never chase a burglar in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:04 PM
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not all sex is intimate by default. and not all physical intimacy requires sex. so while in a lot of cases they go together, i do think they are separate no no unless their sex drive affects their life in some way or they can’t function as an adult, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:43 PM
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Because it’s a stupid assumption. It’s like saying men with less options will treat you badly because they have gained a lot of resentment from past experiences. Generalisations are pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:32 PM
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I’ve talked only with one woman irl that was repulsed by sex. She grew up heavily influenced by purity culture and depictions of sex as being something that lowers your value and makes you dirty. So I think it’s a combination of them considering all sex partners as bad (due to some previous experiences in the past) or them not even considering sex can be good (due to a strict upbringing).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:39 PM
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I think it’s pretty obvious their dislike of sex is shaped by their previous experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:32 PM
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There is no queer theory that advocates for pedophilia. Also religious books are full of very questionable things because they were written during times where people conducted themselves in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:23 PM
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All it takes is just seeing how a lot of guys here say a dude that’s very attractive or a Chad will treat a woman worse than a dude that’s not as attractive. Just like you said, both genders like to categorise people based on their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:14 PM
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So if I find an example of a pastor that assaulted a kid that means religion supports pedos?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:05 PM
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I had the pedos mixed up. Thanks for pointing that out, after a google search I saw he was one of the three that wrote the article about the dangers of child sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:54 PM
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Cool, now you can see why only three of the original authors rebranded with ‘The danger of child sexuality’ and lost the support of the other original co-signers. Hopefully you can link the dots.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:27 PM
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The question of the quote being accurate is dumb-because people co-signed the part about sodomy and age of consent for homosexuals relationships being higher than for heterosexual ones. Which you’d actually know if you actually read the paper instead of googling for some gotcha. Love has a pragmatic side to it no matter what gender you are. But I’m glad you’re able to say something that’s even vaguely on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:13 PM
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I admit the petition existed and that the concern was the articles about sodomy. And also the fact that the age of consent for homosexual relations was 21, which was the point of the discussion about minors consenting to sex. The point was that a bunch of French intelectuals at the time supported it because it aligned with the sexual liberation movement. They were even supported by intelectuals from a very wide spectrum of fields, even pediatricians. I have no idea why the hell am I supposed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:05 PM
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Because I have to search that for myself and see if that’s objective or not. Considering the fact you spewed bs about the age of consent debate in French, you’re not exactly a reliable source.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:44 PM
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You mean she advocated against the articles in the age of consent law that talked about sodomy and ‘relationships against nature’ that reffered to gay people? Because Foucault and Sartre supported the same petition she signed lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:49 PM
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The obvious hole in your logic is that a man is not above a woman’s pay grade if he gets with her. He chose willingly to be with her because there is something about her that got him hooked despite what others think about it. The whole ‘above your pay grade’ point is just bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:43 AM
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Your statements have nothing to back them up. You keep clinging onto the fact that actions and feelings can be separable but obviously men that cheat or leave a woman they claimed to love UncOndItIonAlLy didn’t google the definition of the word. Or they don’t realise the fact they felt like ruining her self-esteem and trust is at odds with the ‘unconditional’ part. When your own momentary feelings come over the unconditional love you claim to feel for your partner-that’s when it’s not unconditio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:20 AM
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Don’t care with what mental gymnastics men come up with to avoid accountability. If you love someone unconditionally, you’re not gonna hurt their self esteem in ways that can be irreversible. If your unconditional love is not backed up by actions I’ve got some news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:19 PM
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He is a man. It’s funny how ‘look at what they do not what they say’ doesn’t apply to men here. Look at his actions and the actions of other millions of men that prove they don’t love women unconditionally. Hopefully I won’t have to make the same point for the fourth time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:12 PM
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Yeah, because pointing out the source can’t love a woman unconditionally is a fallacy. Please google what an ad hominem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:06 PM
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I’ve said it a few times here-RP took the ‘men are not loved unconditionally’ shtick from a comedian that cheated on his wife. That answere any questions about how serious that statement should be taken
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:35 PM
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The knickers flew over the head of guys with reading comprehension and social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:07 PM
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The point flew over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:06 AM
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Whenever I read stuff like this here I have to remind myself lots of posters can’t comprehend women don’t treat all men the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:46 AM
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They care for a multitude of reasons. It’s much easier to date someone from the same background as you or who could afford the same things, trips and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:03 PM
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Wealthy men rarely marry or date broke women. They are not in their circles or proximity and in a lot of cases people from wealthy backgrounds either marry eachother or someone that is succesful enough on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:41 PM
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As long as the artistic mindset is still relateable or has something familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:06 PM
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Actually I think men like you that do a very niche thing don’t realise not a lot of people in general get what you’re doing. When someone tells you ‘be musical/learn an instrument’ they’re not saying learn to play something niche that the majority of people have no idea about. Sure-your stories are sweet and it’s cool you do your own thing. But it’s kinda obvious why harmonica and bongo are not chick magnets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:12 PM
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Ignoring that the studies about pair bonding say there is also a correlation for high n men to pair bond less, ignoring that a higher body count also correlates with more drug consumption, cheating tendencies and instability in men too, showing just half of the 80/20 okcupid study (OLD has a gender ratio that heavily favours men; also men still ended up messaging the more attractive women).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:52 PM
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the way they interpret that empirical data is pretty laughable in a majority of cases. this is why pulling out studies you find online but lacking the ability to interpret them doesn’t give you legitimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:06 PM
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rarely. we have a family groupchat and whenever i send pictures from a vacation for example there’s always one or two with me and my fiance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:41 PM
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Yeah, you skipped the parts where countries ruled by queens were attacked more and had tougher political climates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:41 AM
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Well it’s just a few misguided americans that think the soviet union was feminist. Historians, people that actually lived those times and people that actually understand what feminism is all agree it was not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:28 AM
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Some younger women like older men. But generally people end up with fairly age matched partners. So does it happen? Yeah. Are all younger women attracted to older men? No. Does society tell a woman it’s wrong to date older men? This is a fairly recent thing-age gap discourse is pretty new. But I’m sure the women that are into older men don’t really care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:02 AM
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that’s the pill they never want to swallow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:10 PM
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Honestly don’t know. There was a picture posted by the US Military if I remember correctly that showed their women and queer members and conservatives lost their shit about it and lamented that women and queer people are too weak to defend a country. It got me wondering how this topic becomes paradoxical because the side that mainly whines about feminism loses their marbles in a scenario like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:31 PM
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I’m sure that happens in some cases. I’m curious tho if the virginity question popped up because of a lack of chemistry, flirting or sexual tension. Because ime people just have sex, having some kind of talk about body count or virginity is not the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:14 PM
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do you really think a woman that finds you attractive enough to sleep with is gonna ask if you’re a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:52 PM
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i’m 25. for someone my age i’d say 15-20 is where a bodycount gets high.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:22 PM
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And that’s what qualifies as feminist for you? edit: they worked full time jobs and did the entirety of child raising and house keeping by themselves. that’s not feminist by any sane standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:28 PM
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bruh. you’re right those are empty buzzwords if we call the ex soviets states progressive and feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:14 PM
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Do you know what’s the average age of the girls that read those books? Because your average 15 yo girl ain’t concerned with things like power dofferentials or age gaps because she’s literally a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:35 PM
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Maybe the example of those young women in the military should tell you they didn’t realise the full extent of what they signed up for. Which should be pretty telling of how many teens think about things in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:03 PM
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Actually no. So many lives have been lost, millions of people left to other countries, the ones that will survive will be left with lifelong trauma that will mark generations to come, rebuilding the country will take a long time. All the scenarios are grim looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:59 PM
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And as I said before-the people that agree with me are no fans of making life and death decisions that young either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:57 PM
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Yes I know. I also see what men here claim is ‘valid’ criticism of women and how they are surprised they are going to be challenged on a (check notes) debate forum about gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:53 PM
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I think those questions are fairly stupid tbh. Adulthood is not something that happens over night; you don’t magically turn into an adult the moment you turn 18. Recognising maturing is a process and we should allow teens to come into it doesn’t mean we consider them incapable of body autonomy. It means we consider we should prepare them to exercise their body autonomy at one point. Plenty of people say age gap relationships are no biggie after both parties have reached some basic adulthood mile…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:50 PM
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I think there is a pretty big overlap of the mothers that agree to send their 20 yo to the military and the mothers that don’t care about age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:31 PM
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I don’t have my genders wrong. You seem to forget how men also love to say ‘not all men’ but have a problem when women do the same. Interesting phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:26 PM
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It’s peak solipsisism to make a claim about ALL women and then expect people to accept it as valid criticism. This is why even a good chunk of men see why under the veil of ‘valid criticism’ red pill is actually just a bunch of misogynystic shite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:53 PM
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Well our little westerner friend insists on the fact that families were not even real lol. It’s always funny to engage with people that want to seem knowledgable on sth they know very little about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:22 PM
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Sorry but the amount of straight up bullshit in this comment makes it useless to enagage with you further. Cheating was not widespread and just because there was no Christian morality it doesn’t mean patriarchy didn’t perpetuate double standards about the purity of women. This is why single motherhood was social suicide and men had little to no responsability towards their own kids. They could just impregnate a woman and move on-the shame was only on the shoulders of the woman that had a kid out…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:20 PM
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The nuclear family was far from being destroyed lmfao. Fathers were the rulers of the families and women had little to no say in that. Just because you can send some quotes from the Bolshevik doctrine doesn’t mean that was ever actually achieved. Both the families and state were ruled by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:59 PM
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They are slightly more progressive than the older generations. But in no way do they come close to the youth in western countries. That’s just crazy to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:54 PM
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Very convenient that the abolition of personal property meant everything was subordinated to the men that were in power. Yeah, they were concerned with population growth-that’s why the rates for unofficial abortions made by some doctor with a wirehanger skyrocketed during that time period. Your theory about men dying is bullshit-in a nuclear family there were a man and a woman, both whom worked jobs but there was no distribution of tasks that concerned raising kids and mantaining the house. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:43 PM
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I think I know what I’m talking about. Just because the ukrainian youth is slightly more progressive doesn’t mean ukraine as a whole is feminist. A big part of their youth is very right leaning and the more you go to the rural areas the less progressive people are. This remind me a lot of my homecountry which was also under a communist regime.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:32 PM
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I can’t seriously believe someone is asking something like that. I’m from an ex communist country-who do you think represented the party and state? Who do you think died because abortion was illegal? Who do you think could have been beaten to death by a spouse without any legal consequence because domestic violence was no biggie? Who do you think worked a job and did everything related to housekeeping at the same time? But sure, nothing patriarchal about that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:08 PM
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So what about the wars that happened for thousands of years before capitalism was born lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:05 PM
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The point is that Ukraine was never feminist to begin with. So the argument is really dumb. Patriarchy stays because it never left.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:22 AM
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For the majority of women under 25 a man in the 35-45 range is very unappealing. I’m barely over 25 and a 45 yo feels like a geriatric. This advice has to be a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:32 AM
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We’re either browsing different subs or you’re more solipsistic than you’d like to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:32 AM
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Your are the prime example of what I said-men here dodge accountability for the actions of the majority by throwing buzzwords around. Yes, I’m happy to see my theory proven right once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:14 AM
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Don’t ask me-ask the people that complain non-stop how it’s not fair that men are obligated to fight for a country that has always been ruled by a patriarchal culture and that it’s the fault of feminists for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:04 AM
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See, this is one of the tactics men here use when I tell them men also do certain thing. They throw buzzwords like feminine men/soyboy/betas and try to exclude themselves from the group that does that. Funny how that goes. Also men do it here everyday too. Pay more attention
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:00 AM
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Even funnier is when you tell them Ukraine was never some feminist utopia. So whenever they whine about women leaving and men staying to defend their country because that’s not a feminist scenario I have to wonder if they even know where Ukraine is located.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:39 AM
18

Wait until you see how men act here when you try to make a general claim about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:25 AM
1

Do you really think the people that think 20 is way too young for an age gap relationship support 20 yo boys going to wars? That’s delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:10 AM
1

The majority of the discourse about age gap and grooming explicitly says there is an expiration date. Generally when both parties have some life experiences, are established in some ways and have some maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:03 AM
6

Why is it that the only options for people like you is for a woman to be a slut or marry some dude that’s 10+ years her senior? Think logically
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:51 AM
2

Multiplying with someone whom you can’t rely on is among the dumbest things people can do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:23 PM
2

I can guarantee that if i post a suggestive pic my fiance would comment 🔥🔥 emojis. Stop assuming all men are getting worked up over shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:58 PM
5

none, but it’s fun for them to act like they are forbidden from dating certain women to seem like victims
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:18 PM
1

We throw that word for the category of men that claim it was a vindictive woman that kept them from being present fathers. When in reality things don’t work out like that and courts don’t decide who keeps the kid based on vibez or just because a woman said a man is violent. There is a great comment here that’s the second most upvoted that debunks the myths men conveniently entertain about family courts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:29 PM
5

maybe because the majority of couples already bonded over sharing hobbies or interests. so the common interests are already there and unaffected by the fact a woman lost her vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:24 PM
7

Contouring that actually makes you look different is very noticeable in real life. It’s a practice that’s meant for photos and filters-in real life you can’y get away with the cake-lile texture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:48 PM
2

Or maybe men have more varied preferences but it wouldn’t be convenient for guys like you to admit that. Instead just call them beta because that’s the cheapest excuse in the book
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:46 PM
3

Lol the point is that their content gets monetised. They make money from people watching their videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:44 PM
-2

Who sees Cardi B as an inspiration? There is the false narrative peddled by men that she is some sort of rolemodel to women and not just a singer with catchy tunes (that was on trial for her actions btw). Sounds like the boomers that were against rap music.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:40 PM
8

Very little women actually wear a heavy layer of makeup that distorts their features. It takes a lot of time and money to achieve that-not to also mention skill that not all women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:20 PM
2

More women invest in good grooming, skin care routines and nice clothes. Also I see plenty of good looking guys that were gifted their looks by nature-sure as shit it wasn’t gym that made them 6ft with light green eyes, sharp jaw and great teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:16 PM
0

What’s the point of having a partner if he can’t add anything to your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:56 AM
-1

Idk what’s so hard to understand that women also have to make the choice between being fair and treating men as individuals and not as a majorly flawed group. EVERYONE is based in results at the end of the day. Are only men wasting time in situationships? Wasting also their time and money? The majority of red pill is full of misogynistic bs, there is no denying at this point since everyone can see what kind of content gets the most traction in this community. I don’t really care what you decide …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:24 AM
1

This hardly relates to the fact that custody is decided in a court and based on evidence both parties bring, not on twitter. The ‘she was gonna say I abused her!’ is the favourite catchphrase of a deadbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:55 AM
1

You forgot to add that claiming abuse is effective when you also show proof for that. The victim fetish some men here have should be studied one day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:47 AM
1

And she had money?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:41 AM
1

I’ve seen her. She’s basically doing what I tought about when I first came across the manosphere. Parroting their talking points as a woman and profit from that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:03 AM
2

I’ve seen some of the most attractive dudes I met in real life date women that were older than them. Guess it’s time someone informed them they’re some beta sclubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:43 AM
1

So he would still judge a woman for doing things he wished he did but can’t acomplish? Still deeply hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:08 AM
1

The percentage of women that ‘want to be sluts’ is vastly exaggerated by RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:59 AM
1

How can you seriously expect people to believe it brings you no pleasure? It obviously does since you have a myriad of other ways to go about things yet you chose the ones that emotionally hurt other people. Smh the lies you people tell yourselves to not face the fact you are responsible for your shitty actions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:54 AM
0

This is among the dumbest views expressed here-you’re not a victim of the market. Take some accountability for your actions and stop fueling the victim narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:53 AM
1

It’s hypocritical to expect women to have the self control you lack. That’s all and no amonut of mental gymnastics are going to convince people that it’s not. If you engage in a certain behaviour yet judge harshly others that do that too (and which make that behaviour possible for you since in order to have casual sex you need to find women that are down for it)-you’re a hypocrite and people are allowed to call you out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:47 AM
3

Just like 46 is ancient to settle down by RP standards for women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:39 AM
1

Or maybe the guy bestie also had his fun and they just happened to synch at a later stage of their friendship. This is what happens in the majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:53 PM
2

there’s absolutely no way every woman here is dating a Chad when they are supposed to be like top 1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:34 PM
3

is she angry or is she just observing a pattern of behaviour a lot of men in these spaces share?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:17 PM
1

Also I can’t forget that a few years ago he said he doesn’t care about pronouns and that he is veeeery fluid or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:51 PM
1

he has to rebrand himself because he can’t just lay low and enjoy the astronomical wealth he claims he has. he is a legit attention hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:41 PM
1

we don’t know shit about their former relationship and who did what. just because they are celebrities doesn’t mean we have any idea what actually goes on in their personal lives
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:14 PM
1

just because you refuse to understand the concept of an emotional affair doesn’t mean they are a non-existent thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:12 PM
2

This is why rp guys shouldn’t be taken seriously. Plenty of women complain about dating for legitimate reasons but of course it’s easier to dismiss that using buzzwords like ‘accountability’ (a word which redpillers love to strip of any meaning).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:00 AM
9

That’s literally what you said or implied multiple times in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:02 PM
11

The point that a woman that wasn’t in a relationship or committed to someone had casual sex and it wasn’t ‘in good faith’ is really dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:53 PM
1

isn’t there some really tense climate going on in korea right now? with the president wanting to abolish the ministry of gender equality and sort of leaning anti feminist and feminists protesting? also the lowest fertility rate in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:44 PM
1

Or maybe you’re just messy and you can’t accept that. Iron that freaking t-shirt in the time it takes to bitch on ppd that a lot of people came to the same conclusion about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:40 PM
2

The men on this sub have completely devalued the notion of accountability, they just like to parrot that word because it counts as ‘women bad’
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:38 PM
2

My comment was mainly about the west being more open about domestic violence towards men. Because other cultures are more patriatchal men are not seen as victims or believed when they suffer from dv. I know men in certain parts of the world kill their wives if they feel she was unfaithful. Bit that doesn’t stop infidelity since it’s something that has happened since the beggining of our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:18 PM
1

Sure, all these different women have one thing in common and you expect us to believe they’re just obssesed with cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:37 AM
2

Did you live outside the west? Because where I come from domestic violence against men is usually a meme, the majority of people laugh at the idea of a man being abused by a woman. Also infidelity still exists in comparable numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:26 AM
2

All house expenses are shared 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:21 AM
2

I love ppd because absolutely anything can be the fault of a woman if y’all reach hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:55 PM
0

you can scroll and click on the links that will direct you to the superdrug and cdc studies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:42 PM
-1

I’m talking straight out of studies and surveys about the average number of sexual partners men and women report. Why are you so pressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:13 PM
16

so the most thristed footballer in the world right now is not good enough for him? guess men have higher standards than women when it comes to men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:23 PM
9

Me and my fiance live in a flat, not a lot of maintenance to do here and if something happens we pay a plumber or an electrician. I take care of my own car. If it accounts for something I loved cleaning the snow during the winter time when I was a kid or a teen lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:51 PM
0

Honestly if I were in that situation I would chose the option that represents the smaller ick. Sex work is a popular topic right now and I think there are better chances to find women that are okay with men engaging in this under ethical conditions. I think the number of women that would be okay with a 40 yo virgin without making assumptions about him would be smaller compared to the ones that would accept you visited an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:38 PM
2

yeah, i’m sure they are the same women saying that. it couldn’t possibly be different people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:05 PM
3

don’t overestimate yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:50 PM
2

c. i’m taking lilith on the best date of her life because she’s the spiciest here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:22 PM
15

Do you think men don’t cheat on women? Also I’m not concerned about what trad-con men do since I don’t date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:11 PM
12

You’re sure your comment has any connection to mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:58 PM
8

Maybe they just didn’t want to be filmed by someone random. Not everyone is okay with this kind of thing and the fact someone found 6 women and 4 men that fit this scenario doesn’t prove anything. I gave a street interview last summer, but they were very respectful and honest about the whole process.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:03 PM
12

And just because they didn’t want to shake the hand of a stranger with a camera means they think he’s an enemy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:21 PM
3

The majority of people don’t even reach 10 sexual partners. If I remember correctly, women reported having something like 7 different partners over the years. The point that the majority of women have like 30+ bodies or are damaged by casual sex is another weird trope men here perpetuate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:06 PM
3

The responses to his question contradict you dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:13 PM
2

What you replied doesn’t contradict what I said. If men prefer women that are 5 years younger, 30 yo women can pair with 35 yo men. The point is the ‘tatted up’ narrative and saying how the 30 yo women spent their youth hooking up is a very tired trope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:01 PM
4

The post mainly focuses on dating. That’s why OP talks about men that see women as their enemies in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:46 PM
13

And a desirable man that’s 35 can easily date an early 30s woman. I just find it weird how dudes say they don’t want jaded women yet they are so jaded themselves they parrot stuff like this. There are plenty of women that are single at 30 and didn’t hook up in their youth, relationships just don’t work out sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:41 PM
2

I don’t care for warning from randos on ppd, I care only about the women I see succeeding in real life and how to be like them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:34 PM
15

in order for their arguments to hold water they have to generalise all 30 women as single moms with tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:33 PM
1

The famous study that claims single women are happier than married women, duh. See how everyone can weaponise these surveys to fit their agendas?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:31 PM
2

I’m doing just fine. Just like the women I chose to mentor me on this path
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:30 PM
1

yeah, i really trust that the women who couldn’t own land or open a bank account or vote would openly admit they’re not happy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:29 PM
8

are we supposed to hate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:25 PM
9

So then what’s the point of men complaining women generally date up? Basically y’all are complaining about women you don’t generally want to date or consider bitchy by default
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:22 PM
42

I never wanted a traditional relationship and I don’t have conservative views so I wouldn’t have been compatible with a trad-con. I always wanted a relationship that is 50/50 so I excluded all men that didn’t want to help with house chores or wanted to be the leader of the relationship. Also avoided the men that OP described in the post that are very jaded and have mainly negative views of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:31 PM
41

I don’t see men as enemies. But when I was searching for relationships I quickly learned there are some types I should avoid at all costs since we are not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:54 PM
21

Like I said in a reply to a comment here, men like to play this ‘women want high earners’ card when they can use it to their benefit to seem disadvantaged or say dating is unfair. But if they actually get to date a woman that earns more, the majority doesn’t like that. Anyway, for a man that got laid, had relationships and has more interesting hobbies than the average person, you seem to have a hard time understanding how your requirements shrink your dating pool. Also you use apps where people …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:10 PM
8

Mainstream man is obese or overweight himself. At least in the US. He also seems to like pointing fingers at the other gender for shit he also does
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:49 AM
0

Or people are free to have their own bpundaries in relationships. Want to watch porn? Find one of the millions of women who is okay with it. No sane woman will give up on her boundaries because men come up with pussy cartel conspiracy theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:41 AM
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And men don’t want a woman earning more than them. Been there, done that and I’m convinced men use this card whenever is convenient for them to seem like they are disadvantaged by the dating landscape. The majority of men is not supportive of a dynamic like this and don’t know how to be cheerleaders (kudos to the small percentage that know how to do that)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:30 AM
1

Obviously the women that invest that much time and effort into becoming very skilled and powerful in their profession do it because they are passionate and driven. Some might not find romantic succes (just like some men won’t) but they have the means and freedom to fill their lives with different things. Society is just more forgiving of someone being unhappy and married than someone being slightly unhappy and unmarried (even tough they don’t drag down another man or woman with them in a dull re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:23 AM
5

It’s actually because they’ve experienced the downsides of adhering to strict gender roles. I remember my grandma told me the day I graduated that she’s so happy I’ll get to experience the world because she had a very ‘small’ life. Also considering the fact that in the western world people generally get married around 28-29 it’s possible to have it all like in the scenario you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:14 AM
3

Then why do women that lived this kind of lifestyle mostly tell young women to pursue the opposite of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:03 AM
1

unfortunately i met and know people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:17 PM
1

please leave me with this sentimental bullshit, i happen to know what these people feel. go die on another hill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:59 AM
1

that’s so random. i have tickets to see them on my bday next year, i can’t wait
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:42 AM
2

damiano david
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:19 AM
16

that’s my personal boundary. i wouldn’t want to be with someone that develops parasocial relationships with other women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:54 AM
13

I wouldn’t date him if he wants to continue to do that while being in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:49 AM
2

you’re right, asking does no harm. the thing is that i’ve seen some pretty extreme activists talking about these sort of things online and i want to navigate situations like this one with care
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:33 AM
1

yeah i understand some people might feel like they would be criticised for their weight. but i like to think i never come across like that because people i work with are already in a very fragile mental state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:25 AM
2

we work with a lot of medication that is dosed based on weight, i think this is why i am a bit lost by these guidelines. but steping on the scale backwards is a good suggestion, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:22 AM
2

Q4A: have you ever encountered irl someone that talks about fatphobia or believe that fat people are opressed? i am just reading some protocols i got at work and we’re adviced to not weigh patients without consent due to the possibility of being fatphobic. this just feels very weird
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:06 AM
1

sorry, i wanted to ask how you knew how sbf’s ex tits look like. i know there were reports they were part of a polycule or some wild stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:41 AM
1

wait, how do they know how her tits look? they had a sex tape leak or something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:28 AM
1

think of the actual percentage of sex workers that actually make that much money. they don’t make six figures in most cases, that’s a rare occurence
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:59 AM
1

i have a coworker that struggled with my name and she asked me if it would be ok to call me sam for short. i liked it and decided to use it every time i meet someone new
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:03 PM
2

face, mainly the eyes and teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:50 PM
2

still broke and appearantly you don’t appreciate a woman that takes a huge swig of vodka
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:01 PM
2

then you have almost zero chances to get a eastern european wife
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:41 PM
1

Literally the proof is a few clicks away, you’re obviously arguing in bad faith. Or you’re unable to use a search engine, I would cut you some slack if that were the case
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:30 PM
3

err no. and you also have zero proof to back up all the claims you have made in these comments so far. i genuinely wonder why people have this sort of blind belief that the opposite gender will just do some things and you have no control over that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:23 PM
8

women’s love is not ephemeral, some dudes just take it for granted and act surprised when they face the consequences of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:12 PM
1

The main narrative is against forced gender roles wether you are a man or a woman. There’s some people on the extremes of the spectrum that have a problem because society is shifting from just puting people into a box based on genitals and cry that masculinity and femininity are not automatically pedestalized. Teaching boys and men to have some social intelligence when approaching women is far from a bad thing. Lack of reading the room is what prevents a good chunk of people from having romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:50 PM
1

Maybe if you actually think who doesn’t support it you’ll realise it’s the right leaning people. So go have a chat with them about that. There’s no main narrative bullshit. Don’t be a creep and don’t approach people that don’t want to. Two very common sense rules to follow. I don’t see how the type of people that don’t respect others wish for private space need any support, but you’re free to die on that hill if that’s your wish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:14 PM
2

or people just think the pursuit of virtue and character is genderless and the culture is not stoping you from that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:03 PM
1

no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:04 PM
1

i’m more attracted to my partner than i was to my ex and we’ve nanaged to achieve some cool things together. also my ex grew out of his ‘bad boy’ phase and matured which i think happens in a considerable amount of cases
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:54 PM
2

Literally dude, where did I say women tourists are better? I just said there’s less of them and they don’t have organised communities. The rest of your comment is pure rambling and you’re very determined to believe the narrative it’s ‘sexist’ to have critiques against sex tourism. And I didn’t live most of my life in a western culture. I don’t necessarly find it superior to my roots, I just think it’s fucked some dudes will not let their potential wives have the agency to decide for themselves w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:48 PM
2

i don’t expect westerners to get why the fetishization and taking advantage of the fact others live in deep poverty doesn’t mean they ‘willingly’ engage in something. this comment thread was really long and i’m sorry, but i don’t feel like typing the same thing for the fifth time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:06 PM
1

I lived for 22 years in a country where these dudes come for it. Again, you’ve got zero proof for whatever case you want to argue but somehow claim people’s documented deeds don’t count lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:41 PM
2

Yeah it goes both ways. Where I am from the scammers dream of finding a LBH (Loser back home) that’s gonna send them money without ever meeting. The issue will always be for me the power dynamic and the entitlement of westerners that exploit these inequality loopholes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:07 PM
2

Bruh I didn’t make no ‘grandiose psychological pathology’. This topic is about sex tourism in poorer countries and you and others play the whataboutism card that if you have critiques against it you ‘ham project it upon every guy who ever had sex with someone of a different nationality’. This is just arguing in bad faith when y’all don’t even want to stick to the topic of men purposefully going to poorer countries to get laid because they want to leverage their money. It’s not some vague forums,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:04 PM
2

Just like plenty of dudes here, you have a problem understanding what this topic was about. This is literally pointless since you’re moving the goalposts constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:46 PM
6

Well, my bar for someone ‘criticizing’ is higher than yours. You just repeat the same word without bringing any sources or examples-this is hardly a critique, it’s more likely a kid pointing fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:36 PM
5

It’s not unhinged projection. It’s funny how dudes like you that play the victim card and say people have a different attitude towards women engaging in this have zero proof to back it up. It’s crickets. Of course no actual source is good enough when you have nothing to back your point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:33 PM
1

I’ve never heard a secure person saying shit like ‘you never know completely if you’re played or not’. It’s not cuantum physics to learn how to test for that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:50 PM
3

Plenty of campaigns and social discourse about recognising and legalising sex work, you conveniently ignore those. Also there’s no law against approaching a woman without being a creep and against her wishes. Nothing problematic about that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:36 PM
6

SIGN language offender right here. Also a geography offender
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:31 PM
3

Sure, nothing wrong with it. But there are plenty of cases where prostitution is a desperate solution for people in need. I’ve seen it plenty of times in my native country where these dudes think they’ll find their submissive cheap wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:29 PM
2

Lmao, feminine predation is constantly shamed. Y’all live in some fantasy bubbles
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:26 PM
2

lmao who actually believes this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:19 PM
5

Sorry, I’m not used up or bitter. But you use projections and insults instead of arguing a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:12 PM
5

What end goal? Taking advantage of the poor socioeconomic conditions of people that have been less favoured in life? Yeah, I consider my shit doesn’t stink as bad since I don’t engage in this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:10 PM
4

How are you comparing Miami to people going to Zimbabwe or Thailand? You have no idea what sex tourism means in the context of these discussions and it’s pointless to argue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:07 PM
4

And I’m saying this ain’t nowhere as common among women. I would be down with this cause if you and the guys commenting would want to bring awareness that this shit can happen also with a women perpetrator, but instead your goal is just to victimise men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:03 PM
3

It’s absolutely pointless to argue when y’all can’t stay on topic and deflect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:02 PM
1

Sweetie, your comments don’t help that case lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:49 PM
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I’ve never seen any woman actually plot to marry a dude from an empoverished country and keep him there so he’s not exposed to western ideology. Sorry, we just don’t go to these lengths
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:47 PM
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Depends how neurotic you are about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:45 PM
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Not all women complain about that and not all women employ the same strategy. It doesn’t take an iq legel of 140+ to see when people of both genders do this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:43 PM
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disasterdude whines 24/7 about feminists, slim chances his comments about his wife are not creative writing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:40 PM
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Idk man, go look for yourself what shit goes down on those sex tourism and passport bros spaces. If you don’t find it problematic, that’s your opinion. But that doesn’t mean others are not free to have their own opinion too. As much as men like to parrot accountability here, it’s funny how they just can’t handle any negative opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:36 PM
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basically she says she feels worthless because she reads what men write here, how she figured out relationships are useless because men hate women and see them as inferior. she’s very doomeristic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:23 PM
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there are some great posters here, Eulenwatcher is just one example of someone that’s very empathetic. how was the Kandyapplez era? i wasn’t around here to witness it but i’m curious what i missed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:09 PM
1

sometimes i wonder how 29 yo people look where some of you live because the girl in her picture looks her age
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:57 PM
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obviously math is hard for these dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:03 PM
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Let’s be honest, plenty of men also don’t enjoy working full time too. Many jobs are just means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:44 PM
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Absolutely no one, but it helps his case to pretend it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:39 PM
2

communist flag parade=lots of red flags I don’t think you’re gonna teach her any lesson. Obviously she doesn’t think any of the men she sees right now are worthy of commiting to, so you’re most likely just her entertainment until a better prospect enters the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:29 PM
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No, I know some of them specifically seek those destinations because they have a bbc fetish for example. Sex tourism shouldn’t get grouped with random people that go on vacation and happen to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:27 PM
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They do it, they also get judged when they are exposed to the public that they exploit african men looking for a green card or ferishize asian men. These are recent examples I’ve seen online. They also don’t really gather online to shame the men from their own countries, talk about creepy encounters with minors and so on. It’s obviously they don’t engage in this practice as much since you don’t see them whining how they are ditching western men for others from poorer countries
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:25 PM
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I know there are women that do that and I already pointed out people perceive them as predators when they see what they are up to. I just stated their number is not as high comparable to men and they don’t initiate online smearing campaigns of the men from their home countries. You just want people to not have an opinion when men engage in this thing and air out the nasty details.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:21 PM
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Still amusing because you’re a communist flag parade. Of course she offers exclusivity after you see a condom on the floor, girlie is not braindead and knows your type
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:14 PM
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You’re missing the point hard
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:40 AM
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Y’all specifically leave out the pile of nasty things people discovered about the bankrupt guy in order to paint him as a victim. But whatever, let’s get to the point. This stereotype about sex tourism is one that men themselves contribute to. All the forums, lingo and online discourse about finding cheap and submissive women is free for anyone to see. Everyone is free to make their decision about these guys by judging what they expose about themselves. Women don’t engage in sex tourism at the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:08 AM
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Lmao she’s 24 yo and expected to want something exclusive or not entertain other options and you are a 33 yo still playing the field. This crap is just amusing at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:41 AM
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yeah, smoking messes with your collagen production
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:58 AM
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No, people just cringe because of the reasons I already mentioned. Add to the story the fact ge was acused of gang rape in his home country and you got even less people willing to say ‘good job’ to this dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:51 AM
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Depends where you are in Eastern Europe. Big cities? Dating is pretty liberated, people get married later in life, dating apps are popular. Rural area? More conservative, people are generally more religious and have a traditional approach to dating and marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:40 AM
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Your first comment turns this issue into something deeper than it actually is. People don’t care an unattractive dude got laid in a foreign country. People just react to a dude that admits to being scummy and contributes to stereotyping women from a different part of the world. When you say shit like this publicly, don’t expect everyone to pat you on the back
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:32 AM
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I don’t get why everyone should just accept he talks about sex in a crass way. Probably the difference is that I come from a place where people are blunt, but what’s wrong in saying this dude says scummy things? Why the need to defend him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:14 AM
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The way they talk about it is scummy. These dudes never frame sex as an experience they shared with a foreign woman, they talk about it as an experience he bought from another woman. I’m Romanian and we have different acronyms for foreign dudes that come here hoping to fuck some submissive and cheap eastern women. The majority of us don’t like the attitude of these dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:04 AM
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Because workplace rules state the one that abuses the balance of power gets the consequences, your example just happens to have a male coach
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:28 AM
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there are plenty of subreddits where you can talk about all the red pill tropes and ideas and women being the problem in some cases. this is what mainly happens here. maybe the problem is all the redpill subreddits end up as misogynistic garbage fires
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:22 AM
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who else got banned besides tate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:10 AM
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enjoy it while it lasts. i am already tired of buying expensive scented candles and it’s been just a year of living as an independent adult
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:35 PM
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24
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:29 PM
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no, you see women with all kinds of men. women’s attraction is more holistic, something men don’t really get since they have only one main requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:46 PM
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Nah, it’s about guys that don’t understand not all women are attracted to the same specific type of man. The scenario you gave still doesn’t disprove the fact a woman can be attracted to multiple kinds of men. I think looking at someone’s dating history gives you a better understanding of what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:44 PM
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nope, it’s jealousy because men that don’t fit their definition of ‘attractive’ get attention
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:20 PM
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from what i’ve seen, it stems from jealousy. so i think it’s pointless to further engage with men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:10 PM
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Lots of excuses for guys that are shooting above their leagues. Those girls at least would think that after getting some actual attention from better looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:40 PM
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I think one of the best examples of a character that is considered to be ‘a man written by a woman’ is the priest from Fleabag. The point is not that he’a a hot, tall or rich Chad, it’s about the way he acts. The Swaddle has a short video on youtube that explains this better if you want to watch it Here it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:27 AM
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lol, did you actually read any incel 4chan stuff? be careful they don’t stumble over those posts because it will be more damaging to the way they see men than learning some men won’t share chores
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:43 AM
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most folks might know but there are ones out there that don’t want to. it’s not an ‘anti man’ thing to know what to look out for and femcel is a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:36 AM
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why do you have to debunk it? it’s the reality that they have to be careful not to end up with someone like that because it will tank their relationship or marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:33 AM
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what’s surprising about that, not everybody had a good childhood
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:52 AM
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but he is not trying to have sex with his looksmatch, that’s my point. men are constantly trying to get more than good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:39 PM
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no need to pay since the leaks are going to be all over twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:27 PM
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You’d change your tune really fast if you looked at a woman’s DMs. Men shoot their shot indiscriminately
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:19 PM
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because Klitschko doesn’t need the bravado, people respect and look up to him naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:34 PM
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nah, they would stop posting bait and get together if that were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:33 PM
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idk what she thinks she’s gonna acomplish with that, the comments will mainly come from bitter men telling her she’ll be a mummy at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:15 PM
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love your flair. my back up plan is feet fetishists, seems like they are a bigger market
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:32 PM
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she’s ptobably really good at finding guys with a fat fetish. i was shocked when i found out there are people that pay them to eat and get larger
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:27 PM
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hey, don’t forget game of thrones was partly filmed in your country. people also know dubrovnik
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:58 PM
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that’s the thing about sports, you can’t win everytime. but i understand the sentiment since my native country lost the dominance we had in artistic gymnastics. also rooting for Morocco, they could make history
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:57 PM
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i get addicted to the rush of watching these games, i hope the netherlands score in these 10 extra minutes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:53 PM
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eh, it was just one game. brazil is still one of the greatest countries when it comes to football and it’s worth being very proud of the team.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:41 PM
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brazil is the chad of the world cup, they won five times. croatia is an underdog compared to that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:24 PM
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I assume not many of you watch the world cup since ppd is very us centric but seeing Croatia win against Brazil was great. I love it when the underdog wins
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:03 PM
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how are we going to share a small pack of chips? very unmanly of you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:01 PM
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i can back up that i’m pretty balanced. nothing high and mighty about not falling into an extreme tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:04 PM
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and your comments amount to what? getting worked up i told someone to give the misogyny a rest for the weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:44 PM
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your comment would make sense if i’d make lots of misandrist comments. i’m just wondering if he ever takes a break
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:29 PM
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how don’t y’all get bored of this? it’s the weekend, take a break from the gender wars and do something fun
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:10 PM
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that’s because they can’t handle even half of what they dish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:09 PM
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rule 14. i would like to ask women some questions. i get the rule supposedly prevents circlejerking but we have like 15 n counts thread per week
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:07 AM
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Appearantly to some people this comparison makes sense. And we’re supposed to seriously engage with it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:43 AM
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Yeah, I am on PPD and I am aware men use any random internet comment to paint themselves as a victim of those age gap harpies. The burden on proof is on you when you try to equate age and race. If you want a crumble of the discrimination pie, at least do a better job at arguing for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:17 AM
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I didn’t move any goalpost, you just don’t have any refutation. An interracial marriage is still political ammo for the two parties, age gap relationships never were. You’re not providing any evidence of the ostracization of age gaps or any actual real life consequences that people face because they have an age gap relationships. Also the controversery is not ‘broad’ or ‘cultural’
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:05 AM
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I stay on topic but you’re not providing any actual examples. Are you following the news that they are voting in the american senate to have interracial marriage codified in the law? It literally happened on wednesday. No such thing for age gaps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:46 AM
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It’s not settled, because people went trough that. Why do you think america had to legalise interracial marriages? No such thing when it comes to age gaps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:33 AM
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Lol, my mom got plenty of comments about having three kids and remarrying a younger man and ‘robbing him of the possibility to start a new family and have new kids’. It’s clear you have no idea the opinions an older woman faces are harsher than the comments an older man gets and more frequent. Hell, the dudes here would call her a post wall used up harpy or whatever. People criticising your relationship =/discrimination. You don’t lose job opportunities or stand at the back of the bus because of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:28 AM
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i would like to introduce you to having sex with music playing in the background
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:17 AM
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Your logic is faulty because that interracial couple isn’t embraced when the partners are the same age or have an age gap. Even if he dates someone from his own race, there are still other people of different races that will discriminate him based on his skin colour. Sorry, no reasonable person gets out the tiny violins because age gaps are discriminated. My mom is 6 years older than my stepdad (which is much more unusual than the reverse), but you’ll never hear them complain they are discrimina…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:11 AM
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What physical agression? There is no palpable discrimination against age gaps, just because not everyone agrees for various reasons that doesn’t mean there’s any actual discrimination. This sense of victimhood over people not agreeing with everything you agree with is very western centric you’re born black, it’s an inmutable trait. an age gap relationship? not something you’re born with. not comparable in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:49 PM
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i asked you to give me one example of someone getting actually discriminated for having an age gap relationship edit: ageism obviously exists but not in the way you’re framing it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:29 PM
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What’s the actual manifestation of ‘ageism’ besides people disagreeing on reddit? People of colour still suffer actual discrimination even today in the real world. This is a very poor comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:23 PM
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No, no matter how hard y’all try ‘ageism’ doesn’t hold a candle to racism. Yeah, the gender can influence the answers people give. If the 26 yo was a woman, men would be the one having negative opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:11 PM
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how do you think that makes sense? those people would disagree if a white or black 26 yo would ask the same question. you are comparing apples with oranges
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:59 PM
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Also what I wanted to say is that they cover little racial diversity. Some of the features they list as a minus to a woman’s overall attractiveness work on other races. I found the system focused only on white people and what makes them attractive. Like the bulbous nose-nobody’s gonna say rihanna’s mid just because of the shape of her nose
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:34 PM
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i agree with the principle and i also don’t think celebrities deserve to be rated high just because they are famous. but tbh the 8-9 category was totally interchangeable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:22 PM
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because no one is going to stop us
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:54 PM
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wow the amount of effort put into that is surprising but the results are inconsistent. to me a stacy/chad lite is an 8 and the 9 and 10 are full stacy or chad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:00 PM
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how is a 7 considered a stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:52 PM
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nah, kittens automatically love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:02 PM
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i draw the line at chincillas, they’re just mindind their bussines and being fluffy. there’s no possible reason to hate on them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:01 PM
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depends on what kind of dog people we’re talking about. do they kiss their dogs or some weird shit like that? those are crazy for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:54 PM
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almost all pets require discipline. also i’ve had cats growing up that were very affectionate, it really depends on what an animal’s temper is like
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:52 PM
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partly true. i have a very strict diet and i stopped craving junkfood and soda after two months. but some homemade chicken wings or an actual burger from a nice place? yes please
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:40 PM
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come on, the stereotype used to be about cat ladies. now i can’t even have a dog without men projecting their weird fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:34 PM
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Think of the kind of woman you would want to attract. It’s very hard to attract all women, so I think it’s more productive to find a niche and start from there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:59 AM
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how dare you suggest the logical option
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:57 AM
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It would have been great to meet her. But judging by what my grandma told me, her advice would be very different from what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:04 AM
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To put it simply, the good men I know are the ones that use their skills and resources in the pursuit of trying to help others. They impact their communities in a positive way. To give you two examples of men I know that I consider to be good: -a restaurant owner that always feeds stray animals and gives free meals to homeless people or sends extra ingredients he has to shelters -my work mentor that remembers the names and stories of patients he has even after 20+ years of working. He also keeps…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:11 AM
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I’m from eastern europe, you’ll find plenty of women that have jobs related to healthcare. STEM was big for women here even in the soviet times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:47 AM
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The women in their early 20s you interact with were raised by the older generations. If there is any equivalent red pill for a woman, it’s that point when your mom and grandma tell you femininity is great for others, but not necessarly for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:00 AM
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I don’t specifically seek to date people that make less money than me, the intent is what makes the difference. The fact that they are middle class in their country doesn’t change the situation that a foreigner from a western country is much richer than them and is levaraging this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:17 PM
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Traveling to profit from the poor socioeconomic standards of other people is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:06 PM
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Just because a woman doesn’t want to be with a man, it doesn’t mean she’s levaraging anything. If you would have told me ‘yeah but there are some white grandmas that go to jamaica’ you would have actually made a valid point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:53 PM
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How can you say people don’t complain when that happens in the west when the term gold digger gets constantly thrown? The majority of these dudes profit from the status whiteness gives them. Idk why you think there’s no critique to be given to men that specifically seek women in much poorer countries so they can leverage a relationship. Why do you think asians have acronyms like LBH?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:44 PM
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How are they not using money to attract wives if that’s the only thing that differentiates them from the local men in poorer countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:36 PM
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models are not selected because they are the hottest women. the tall, thin frames without curves are the easiest to dress and can wear basically any piece of clothing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:04 PM
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The dudes that tell you to go after women from a low socioeconomic class don’t care wether you have stuff in common with them or not. It’s more on the transactional side. But I understand from the details you gave why the college you went to was a competitive dating enviornment. I don’t know how many people here will relate to that tbh, that’s why you get replies from people that are surprised about your experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:24 PM
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I respect anyone that has been a long time Tate fan. Personally I liked him since he told a dude that he’s a failure because he’s poor and he might give him money for his ill daughter if he begs. I knew someone like him is going to make it big one day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:45 PM
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Well genius, you’re the one not making the difference between a teen commiting something illegal and an adult engaging in illegal relationships with a teen. Have you ever been inside the head of a teenager? All the girls I know that were involved in situations like these were manipulated that they were so ‘mature and special’ for their age. That’s the number one grooming tactic. You obviously lack the basic understanding of this phenomenon because you just parrot victim blaming points
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:26 PM
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I understand you can’t really see the background of the women you are asking out. But for me poor would mean someone that lives on welfare for example and would take the opportunity to financially secure their future. Also inviting a regular girl on a date on a rented yacht sounds very intimidating. I kinda get why they said no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:23 PM
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Yeah, raping someone compares to being gaslighted and manipulated by a dude 20+ older than you. Great examples, you are just deflecting the full accountability from these dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:32 PM
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So you never actually went after a woman from a poor background
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:30 PM
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Hiw can you claim buyers remose when this is literally illegal? I had hs friends that did the same because guess what-teenagers are very impressionable Also you clearly don’t grasp what grooming is, of course victims ‘love’ it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:22 PM
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why do you think there are laws in place against this? because a teenager is a competent buyer? of course years later when she gains some maturity and life experience she sees this fked up situation for what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:08 PM
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nah sweaty. you made the claim that’s not grooming, don’t deflect when you can’t deliver your arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:09 PM
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so you don’t have any actual arguments?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:58 PM
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Your example doesn’t relate to the topic. I was raised in the sort of conservative country american men dream to find their submissive wives. Then I moved to a western country. The variance in what men want and how they behave is much bigger than what a certain group of people wants us to believe. I am not dating the exception to the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:54 PM
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It was disgusting and the fact you are asking why an impressionable teenager that was probably not supervised by adults got in a situation like that is mind boggling. The answer is in your face. You still didn’t explain why it’s not grooming
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:50 PM
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Yeah, there’s no point in arguing when obviously not all men want the same things. Best of luck to you too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:08 PM
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No one ‘fetishizes’ experience. A woman doesn’t look at an ‘experienced’ man and project a bunch of her theories on him like men do with virginity. And you’re blatantly wrong in your last paragraph. On my first date with my current boyfriend we talked about the stuff we liked from the menu of that restaurant. Made recommandations to eachother. There are men out there that don’t live in this constant state of neurosis, don’t generalise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:39 PM
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The last thing you mentioned is probably the one that any man or woman with reasonable life experience finds funny in this whole debate. It’s the weakest argument in this whole age discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:30 PM
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Spot on. You can tell posts like these are made in such bad faith because OP denies a woman carries a conversation (we do that daily, it’s kind of a necessity lmao), has initiative, is funny, contributes financially (this is probably the most boggling thing he said since you can’t really support a household just on one income). There is no changing views for people that have this mindset, this should be labeled a rant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:05 AM
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the only one i ever saw was a chick on tiktok. her whole personality revolves around the fact her husband is a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:37 PM
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please explain how a 15 yo is not groomed by a 35 yo adult. enlighten us on the misuse of the word ‘groom’
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:25 PM
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lmao she was a 15 yo getting groomed by 35+ men. but sure i guess some of y’all can’t go one day without typing accountability no matter what the topic is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:09 PM
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It sounds like you have low expectations which is good. But I think a lot of the horror stories are avoidable if you have a tight filtering system. My rules with online dating were simple-find an enthusiastic texter and someone that plans a date early. Worked fine for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:38 PM
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shego and blackfire from teen titans were my bi awakening
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:08 PM
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I was cynical for a while, until I decided I can’t judge men for the things someone they don’t know did before we even met. I’m also sorry you went trough that. I know what I’ll say it’s a platitude, but it can get better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:37 AM
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because these guys don’t date men they don’t realise all the stuff rp talks about applies to both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:33 AM
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I’ve been cheated before by a man that shared plenty of his insecurities with me. I wasn’t turned off by the fact that he was openly vulnerable with me, I actually tought that was something that really legitimised we had a special connection. Turns out I was wrong lol I think sharing insecurities or talking about them shows a level of deep trust. And I would like my long term partner to trust me. I agree with what you’re saying that our feelings about the negative outcomes of a relationship don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:56 AM
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I totally get what you’re saying about watching your parents being super stressed and having major health problems. That’s why I am trying to make the best out of the circumstances I have because they never got the kind of opportunities we have now. I’m sure there are ways to still have a semblance of freedom in your 30s, even when you have kids. I’ve seen people around me achieve that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:34 AM
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mainly because i want to have a family in the future. i can’t really see how i would achieve that with a dude that thinks it’s just his turn, doesn’t open up emotionally, thinks i have to constantly be in his frame and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:11 AM
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why do you think that? i’m the same age as you and i’m kinda looking forward to turning 30
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:03 AM
1

i don’t want to date a guy that shares the majority of views the dudes in the manosphere have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:53 AM
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it doesn’t change anything at the end of the day. for me it’s interesting to see the different viewpoints men have about dating and relationships. i also think it’s useful to know what to be careful of
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:54 AM
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it’s a decent haircut but i think a billionare lizard can do much better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:33 AM
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i’m not into lizards so no
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:13 AM
1

just because women date down in terms of achievements doesn’t mean thise guys are idiots. i don’t really care about a dude’s achievements if i can’t relate to him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:54 PM
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i get the appeal but the fact she posted it on tiktok makes it a bit too manic pixie bpd gf for me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:39 PM
2

this reminds me how a radio host here talked about the cheating controversery and said hans is accused of ‘using an anal device for unusual purposes’. it cracked me up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:11 PM
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who says women can’t truly love a man? checkmate redpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:42 PM
1

i have a hard time believing women wouldn’t care about jon kortajenara. but men fashion doesn’t bring in profits like women fashion does, so dudes like him don’t really get mainstream exposure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:33 PM
0

Gotta love when people outside your culture try to educate you on your own
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:37 PM
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I’m not on the spectrum but I’ve moved to a foreign country. Dating wasn’t easier just because people gave me passes due to cultural differences. In fact, some of them had some weird biases about me based solely on my nationality. I wouldn’t tell anyone to move just because your dating prospects might increase, there are many things you have to adapt to in a new enviornment. I ended up dating another immigrant and I finally felt like I found someone that I could relate to because we share the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:44 PM
2

try r/twoxchromosomes i see some really dumb answers here like ‘they hate men’ or ‘because men like it’. truth is that even countries that have legalised sex work have some problems they sweep under the rug. i am generally supportive of sex work but countries where it is legal like germany or the netherlands have an influx of eastern european women that are brought there due to their lower socioeconomic situation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:03 PM
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Not that many and not all of them are against sex work. I just wanted to highlight you’ll get more answers asking in other subs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:53 PM
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It’s not even about the other woman. But in this guys world, women that expect men to honour their word or be truthful are ‘entitled to relationships’. Peak comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:49 PM
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Why don’t you ask them directly? I doubt we have that many radfems here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:48 PM
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Men that defend this type of behaviour do Biles levels of mental gymnastics to avoid accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:18 PM
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I think your post is very articulated and I agree with everything you said. There’s nothing wrong with not being passive in a way that is respectful of the boundaries set by the people around you. Masculinity has many positives that deserve to be highlighted. I don’t identify myself as a radfem, they have a very absolutist vision of the world and I think most of it stems from immaturity. Also because of intersectionality we are in a weird and confusing zone where people think gendering sets of b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:57 AM
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great job, i’m sure they are very happy to be reunited💜
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:58 AM
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I don’t know if you live together, but I also pick up my boyfriends emotions even when he tries to keep them to himself. I just know him very well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:59 PM
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i’ve read that story before but the names were different
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:03 PM
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please don’t grow ladies, i already have a hard time finding shoes and jeans
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:14 PM
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my future son will be a chad that’s going to date all the ppd ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:25 PM
2

I remember one of their biggest market was actually Japan because of the lesbians dressed as schoolgirls shtick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:59 PM
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I addressed his point. Your mom gives you some basic advice, not a crash course on how to be a fuckboy and get every possible girl out there. Also mom gives you advice mostly about how she got with your dad, the man she married, had a kid with, takes care of and navigates life with. The examples he gave are just proof of how hypocritical his line of thinking is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:37 PM
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dudes that are mad at their moms for not giving them a tutorial on how to be a fuckboy will forever be a mistery to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:34 PM
2

they’re also concerned about not having joint custody of their non existent kids and the mom spending the child support on nail appointments
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:23 PM
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We get it, women can’t possibly change or grow as people. The ‘choose better’ crowd is the same crowd that’s gonna shit on a woman that actually chose better and started a family. The sex life of a couple is a mutual responsability. It’s deeply hypocritical to blame just your mom or make some wild fantasies that she ‘gave her sexual best’ to some other dude behind a bin. Where’s your dad responsability in this scenario? How do you know their sex life wasn’t good in the beginning and after some y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:28 PM
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You’re just saying things she never even articulated in her post. It’s simple to reverse the question about ‘what men do to women’ and consider only the average dudes that don’t rape or assault women (just like you considered the average women). Hell, they’re not the ones saying we should have enforced monogamy. Even in this sub when some lost dude says something about state mandated gfs the average people tell him that’s unhinged. Considering young men are being fed misogyny from a lot of sourc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:00 PM
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you did everything you could do, it sounds like they weren’t ready for something like this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:12 PM
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do you know how much experience they had with stuff like this? edit: nvm i saw you already mentioned that. sounds like an akward experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:04 PM
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Her post is harsh because of some dumb statements like ‘men never cared about women’s issues’. Also the fact that she asks herself ‘what exactly women do to men’ doesn’t take into consideration the fact that there are women out there that treat men in shitty ways. Her wording downplays the possibility that certain men get mistreated by certain women. I’ve seen the post made yesterday by the dude that complained he ain’t getting pussy from his female friends. It was peak cringe BUT you’ve got to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:25 PM
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by his own admission he shacked up with a supportive partner. that’s pretty great
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:56 PM
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I don’t get why your post has to be this harsh. If you come on a forum where people are expressing their frustrations about dating and relationships, it can get pretty messy. The fact that you are expecting the opposite is pretty childish. And if you really don’t care in any capacity, it’s also pointless to be here or atempt to poke the bear. I’ll be sympathetic or at least try to understand the problems a man has when it comes to interpersonal relationships because the majority of dudes that st…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:27 PM
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Yeah, his comment is like the disney version of what actually happened. Also it’s not everything that is built, discovered or mantained by men and it’s pretty disingenous to act like it’s not understandable why the majority of inventions belong historically to males.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:06 PM
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Did they encourage you to do any extra curricular activities? Because this is where I see a lot of parents failing boys. Even if the classroom is a medium that can be more repressive of certain behaviours (and that can go with girls too), a kid needs to interact with his peers in other enviornments that are less formal. And also some encouragement goes a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:20 AM
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I work with kids of all ages. Parents that supress some type of behaviour do that in 99% of cases because of their inability to handle that behaviour, not due to some hidden gender agenda. The point were parents generally fail boys happens from what i’ve seen a bit later
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:47 AM
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how much experience do you have with kids that are as young as 5 and how they exhibit slightly masculine behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:15 AM
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no one told you that you shouldn’t make something of yourself or be masculine in a way that doesn’t affect others just like no one tells a woman to go be a single mom. but some men really like to be sold a fantasy and treat life like a video game. if you tell them ‘society doesn’t want you to be strong/masculine/whatever’ they eat that up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:09 AM
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I’m 5’11. My only problem with my height is having problems when I shop for clothes, especially for jeans. Besides that I’m pretty content with my height
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:02 AM
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proof that’s a general assumption and not just a questionable view some women/men have?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:34 PM
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If you work from home for example. Or in an enviorment where there are almost exclusively women. Or you’re an introvert/homebuddy and don’t go out and meet new people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:31 PM
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i can’t actually believe y’all can’t think of any reasons why a woman would use old and not have something wrong with her bY DeFauLt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:13 PM
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thx for context. i’ll never get why people air shit like that publicly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:03 PM
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they made thousands of podcast to say the same three things. gotta appreciate the perseverance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:48 PM
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how do you get he’s so needy from a 15 seconds declaration? maybe there’s some backstory about them i’m missing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:06 PM
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or she just doesn’t like saying all that stuff when other people are around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:01 PM
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It doesn’t matter where the dad is in all this, people that make this point are desperate to find a scapegoat for their lack of dating succes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:53 PM
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ex rolemodel of 14 yo boys vs current rolemodel of 14 yo boys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:24 PM
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I meant that we can celebrate both women even if they made different choices, I wasn’t refering to a singular woman that does both. But it’s absolutely possible to work a lot and raise good kids. My mom was not a CEO. She worked two jobs because our economical situation forced her and raised three kids to be amazing people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:25 PM
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This is like a girl that had a bad relationship telling other girls and women to never seriously date a man because they all take advantage of you. Some casual sex experiences are good, some are bad. It’s a mixed bag, just like everything that involves relationships and dating. Your post would have been actually useful if you would have listed the things you considered you did wrong so there was some actual knowledge in it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:36 PM
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Where’s the proof that being an amazing mother is not considered succesful? We can celebrate a woman CEO and an amazing mother, it doesn’t have to be a race between the two. Reasonable people don’t have a hard time understanding that or respecting women’s choices. In fact, there’s a crowd of people that is allergic to seeing women not choosing to be a mother because that’s the highest form of succes they think a woman can achieve. It’s easy to spot them because they have 3 overused lines they re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:37 AM
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I was craving my boyfriend’s mom special pasta with pistachio. She made it for me last weekend and I was so excited until I tasted it and realised she didn’t use tagliatelle. I was so disappointed but I obviously didn’t tell her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:10 PM
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I’m also bi but I think there are two categories of people in our community-the ones that can’t stop talking about how they love women and would want a gf on the side or whatever and the ones that try to paint us as a group that is heavily duscriminated and erased. Honestly both are tiring and wish they would tone it down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:05 PM
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Because those ‘bottom of the barrel’ guys are her type. Find what niche you fit when it comes to dating and you will be more succesful. My mom remarried in her mid 40s so it’s not impossible to find a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:44 PM
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tldr?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:25 PM
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it was quite the opposite, dude was saying you’re weird if you don’t look at a 19 yo like she’s a little sister or sth like that. but the mods shut it down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:25 PM
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imo everything you listed falls in the af/bb category. if i were to say what the 5 categories are-old, age gaps, n count, af/bb, women bad with lots of overlapping motives
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:13 PM
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don’t get his hopes up, we don’t even have 10 different topics. it’s 5 at best
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:56 PM
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it’s funny how dudes either can’t tell falsies from real lashes or they think any amount of makeup drastically alters the way a woman looks. there’s no middle zone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:33 PM
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or some contour
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:26 PM
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ppd wake up new age gap thread just dropped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:14 PM
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I understand that you’re a man so you didn’t deal with another man cheating on you, you just talked with the ones that cheated on other women. But to the partner they cheated on, they quickly drop the rational reality and go straight to appealing to emotion. Women justify their behaviour in an attempt to offer context that they consider important. Men will try to convince what they did is a design bug you have to accept because they couldn’t help it. A man will tell you he still loves you and li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:59 AM
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a few years ago these were the dudes making triggered feminist compilations and stuff like that. now the content changed to street interviews that they can edit or show only inebriated people or the ones that can’t articulate their point on the spot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:01 AM
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She’s a 9. I tried to be fair and not deduct points because i’m kinda salty she is more endorsed than suni lee
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:44 AM
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I listened to a lot of justifications men gave on why they cheated-while women will give you a particular reason on why they cheated, the men I personally spoke to gave a universal reason-they are males, they were neglected, the temptation was too strong, they can compartimentalise sex and love. It all boils down to biology and how men are wired to spread their seed. Probably the fact that I am a woman influenced what they told me because they were never unapologetic about it. There were always …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:30 AM
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Because the active effort men put towards cheating generally is more off putting when I think about the matter. For example, as a woman you avoid the multiple offers you get to cheat while your men would actively seek situations where he can cheat (for example messaging multiple women on social media, going to strip clubs, going to escorts, spending money on another woman). I think that adds an extra layer of frustration. I don’t see cheating in the same league as rape. The comparison with domes…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:32 PM
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Just because I have this bias when it comes to female cheating it doesn’t mean I support women being extempt from the consequences of their actions. Human nature is not perfect and as good as it would be for all of us to be responsible and accountable all the time, unfortunately it doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:03 PM
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I apply actionable prevention methods against cheating tho. This is more of a personal responsability, it’s not something that the government can do for me for example. That’s why I think the examples you gave aren’t really comparable. All the factors when it comes to cheating are under my control. I think our modern stance on cheating is a highly accepted one since there’s no initiative or discussion to criminalise it. There are a lot of people that ecoress for example that men should be allowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:25 PM
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Eh just because there is a discussion going on that gender is a social construct it doesn’t mean we have reached a general consensus on it like we have with crimes that are punishable by law or cheating (which we condemn as a shitty action but we don’t imprison people for it). You can discuss any subject, no one is saying gender is off limits. When you search for the justifications behind an action, you can understand the mechanisms and wonder if there is something that could have been done alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:58 PM
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I don’t think it’s fair to bring the fact that it was a crime in the past because we live in 2022. But since you were the one that brought the comparison, I tend to make a difference between someone that steals because they are hungry or poor and someone that steals due to their greed. I guess that’s how you can apply the same logic, by judging the circumstances that lead to an action
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:35 PM
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Is cheating even comparable with crime because one is an illegal activity while the other obviously isn’t. I already explained in another comment that my bias comes from the fact that cheating takes active effort for men in more situations compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:23 PM
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That’s the most basic list of redflags possible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:55 PM
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The vast majority of men on this sub declare they only care about looks and youth in women and don’t care about the status/money/popularity. Considering that, the women in the examples you give fit in the category of above average
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:35 PM
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And how are the girls/women in the examples you gave average? They represent the peak fantasy for a lot of men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:14 PM
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because p-length it’s something out of control that is very easy to use as a scapegoat for being unsuccesful with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:59 PM
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The most important thing is actually getting out there. Expose yourself to other people and develop your social skills. I think there is some truth that it can get harder the older you are because you might not want to get out your comfort zone and invest a lot of time and energy in dating. I think a lot of things about having a relationship are easy to pick on if you look around yourself. You don’t necessarly need a lot of experience to learn or deduce the basics. And not everyone is treating d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:23 PM
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that’s because they have some self awareness to realise how ridiculous some of their general talking points are but too much pride to admit those talking points are popular in their community. it’s always funny when their first argument is a ‘no true redpiller’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:11 PM
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the guy around my age, i dated dudes shorter than me before
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:49 PM
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how is she opposed to feminism, she just made a choice to be a sahm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:00 AM
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I already said I don’t condone cheating. But I do have a bias due to my past experiences and cheating stories I’ve seen around me. I judge people a bit harsher when they make an active effort to cheat (like messaging other people on social media for example). From my experience, that tends to be men. A woman usually turns down or avoids more opportunities so the disproportionate effort to be faithful tends to feel more frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:30 AM
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i’m really curious about the age of people that try to make a point using deuxmoi threads
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:43 AM
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I don’t condone cheating and I don’t think being unhappy in your relationship is a good reason to sink the self esteem of your partner. But I do have a bias when it comes to women cheating because women have more opportunities to cheat than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:37 AM
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I don’t really care if I find a man attractive enough to want to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:05 PM
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then the point is bad and no reasonable person supports it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:04 PM
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some told her the worst case scenario, others told her why trespassinh gets you in legal trouble. yall just have a hateboner for everything twox related
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:02 AM
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did you even read the comments? they’re telling her the reasons why this was stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:18 AM
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he was my boyfriend of six months. i was pretty scared that it’s going to hurt and i’ll bleed a lot so i couldn’t relax. it got better with practice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:55 PM
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that’s exactly the reason we should be picky
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:07 PM
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I have a cousin that is a sugar baby. She’s the only woman I know that is into that type of relationship. I would never want to try an arrangement like that but the perspectives she has on the nature of males is pretty interesting-I learned a few tricks from her on what buttons to press in certain situations to my advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:52 AM
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for the sake of her nose i hope that’s just a filter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:51 PM
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How did they try to ‘destroy’ him? I’m not familiar with all the details of the story, maybe your post could have used some elaboration. Also how is a guy like that ‘one social media post from being ruined’, did anything actually happen to that dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:19 PM
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no, but there’s a small unhinged minority that has dumb takes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:25 PM
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It’s pretty obvious that between two men, a woman that cares about money would chose the one that actually spends money to improve her lifestyle. The fact that you are worth 8 figures in your late 20s makes you more financially literate and savy than the vast majority of the population. I don’t know what the exact percentage that would be, but this is going to make your dating life harder because your dating pool is pretty limited if you’re looking for someone with the same mindset. Those women …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:59 PM
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The economic situation was always unfortunate for the lower class people. This is one of the downsides of following the strict gender roles that people should be aware of. Divorce-get a prenup. Don’t be shocked if you’re gonna have to pay alimony for a spouse that stayed at home and has no means to financially support themselves after a divorce. This is another thing people should be aware of, because enforcing strict gender roles comes for downsides for both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:19 PM
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What’s stoping you from following more strict gender roles? The truth is that the majority of people are not the biggest fans of rigid gender roles, so you should be aware that if you chose the least popular option you’ll have a harder time dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:15 PM
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do you really expect people to make a detailed description about their lovers talents, quirks and dreams in a post on a relationship advice sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:05 AM
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The problem with using natural order as an argument is that natural order also planned for a lot of bad shit to happen to humans but we kept on searching for ways to escape that. Even if we’re not the ‘same’, we still deserve equal rights and access to opportunities which is what the vast majority of the people argue for. If the natural gender roles are what you see as the best option for you, no one is stoping you from fully embracing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:04 AM
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The people that argue against this don’t really have much respect for the time and work their partner does. So of course it boils down to some calculated assignment of chores
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:33 AM
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What’s the relevance to the topic of relationships tho? I’m not expecting my partner to compensate for the fact that I am a resident and I went trough med school (which I did it for myself and started before I even met him). That’s not a reason to not pull your weight at home if the agreement is 50/50 and both partners work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:54 AM
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All the things I listed about lifting or self improvement. But as I said, red pill didn’t invent those. Also those don’t necessarly help you mantain a long term healthy relationship, so they are pretty irrelevant if we’re talking about what a woman gains in a relationship with a red pilled dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:57 PM
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Red pill is not about giving women what they want in a relationship, it’s sexual strategy for men to maximise their outcome. If you want an egalitarian relationship as a woman, a red pill man is pretty useless. Not everything related to red pill is bad of course, but red pill is not the only source where you can get advice about lifting, taking care of your looks or other basic things like that. But I guess it can be a good tool to filter out potential partners by looking at the content they ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:25 PM
1

I wanted just to contribute to your claim so you can say you met only one 25 yo woman that said bieber is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:29 PM
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I’m almost 25, bieber will forever be hot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:23 PM
1

Because misogyny has a spectrum. If you’re not as radical as them, other dudes will call you a simp or beta
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:22 PM
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i answered because it was a question for all, obviously. there are mma fighters but their popularity can’t be compared to the male mma fighters. while there is a small percentage of women that would be into that, the vast majority are not really interested in being the strongest fighter and celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:05 PM
1

that’s the appeal to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:55 PM
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second option, i don’t really see the appeal of the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:41 PM
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I know it’s a bummer but those are active choices made by an adult man. Not much that you or me can do in a situation like this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:14 PM
2

My older brother is in the same situation. Trust me they know where the problem is, they just don’t want to make any adjustments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:54 AM
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All the Elliot Page and trans saga from last summer. And don’t cut half of the context I gave-his retoric is inflammatory to a certain demographic. If you are not part of that, you’re not gonna label it as ‘toxic’
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:08 PM
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come on, it’s not his ‘make your bed’ ideas that are inflammatory for a certain demographic. and that’s exactly the reason he gets no simpathy from them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:28 PM
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Have you heard him speak? Because if you actually did, I fail to understand how you don’t admit a certain set of ideas he has are inflammatory and unpopular with a certain demographic of people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:26 PM
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yeah, idk why it’s so surprising that the dude who spewed inflammatory rethoric for years gets no simpathy from the group he is unpopular with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:52 PM
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why don’t you ask some poly men or non monogamous ones? i doubt we have one here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:36 PM
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there’s nothing abnormal in wanting to talk about misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:39 PM
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that’s just a matter of time. i’m also from eastern europe and i’ve seen a lot of discourse this past year about misogyny in my native country
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:31 PM
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don’t take what men say that seriously, it’s not worth it. take care of yourself and your looks and you’re going to be fine for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:14 PM
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there are more sides than just two. also the guy she fucks in the end gets no actual deal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:56 PM
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it’s understandable why some men end up like that. there’s dudes that never had to improve or looksmaxx or whatever to get a woman that loves them. it’s easier to call these men average or project they are a second option instead of accepting the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:44 PM
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his mom is very succesful, i think that played an important part
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:57 PM
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mainly my career
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:40 PM
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Four things he likes about me: nurturing side, driven and ambitious, supportive partner, the fact that i am more extroverted and i know how to encourage him to step out his comfort zone Four things I like about him: he’s a supportive partner, intelligent and very creative, trustwhorthy, has a caring side that he’s not afraid to show to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:25 PM
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mid 20s. yes i know what i want in a guy. I found the type of guy that has the same long term goals as me, so i also know to what he is attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:08 PM
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That might work for some married couples, but I’d like to avoid any risk of drama associated with an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:40 PM
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he’s married, that’s a hard pass
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:27 PM
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There are a lot of stem people that can’t think outside their box
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:17 PM
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I don’t mean he never wrote the word ‘preferred’, but there is no further elaboration about what that preferred height was. I agree there is in certain situations a disconnect people have from what they want and what they say they want. But I’ve seen it go both ways-girls that wanted a guy with certain characteristics met someone that didn’t tick all those boxes and they were still interested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:36 AM
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Does he try and find other neurodivergent women? Or they are also turned off by his approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:35 PM
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This post never states what was the prefered height of the women and there is no breakdown on how that prefered height changed with the height of the woman. So if you want me to agree there is some psy op coordinated by women on reddit to trick guys below 6 ft that they can date succesfully, this was some sloppy breakdown of data.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:23 PM
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I didn’t leave anything out. He just gave us some statistics from speed dating and one of the conclusion was the men that had the lowest rejection rates were the ones that were 1 inch taller than the woman. To any person that is more particular about data all those conclusions would seem at least incomplete because we get no info on what was the average height of the male and female groups for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:02 PM
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We obviously collectively spend millions on sex toys just to practice faking it better for Chad. OP just found out our biggest secret
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:21 PM
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No, try again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:26 PM
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I gave that example because they are both incredibly good looking. But I don’t think it’s useful to look at celebrities and draw conclusions about relationships, they have their own very specific challanges.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:52 PM
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I don’t think involving parents is the best thing for your situation so first try to talk to your parents and tell them to get out of highschool kids bussines. Secondly the only real option you have is to ask her what happened that made her act like this towards you. Try to use a neutral tone. I get that you’d like to still be friends but if she isn’t willing to communicate there’s no point. Reciprocity is a big part of friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:40 PM
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We know men want to have sex, we’re not morons. There’s a difference between going on a date with a guy that says he is looking for something serious and one that lies about his intentions. Obviously, the first one is still looking for sex but that’s not his only goal. The second one is just lying because he wants to get another outcome. That’s the type of scenario in which women say they want honesty. Women like sex too. And they also like to make informed choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:20 PM
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Y’all throw settling around that if I didn’t know better I would think only a couple like Rihanna and ASAP truly has a happy relationship. Height is only one point of attraction. Obviously more conventionally attractive people are more succesful, but that doesn’t mean the average people can’t be succesful if they are realistic. If an average woman expects Stacy levels of succes for example, that’s on her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:56 PM
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And in this case you would see not only men that are 6 ft are dating or have girlfriends. Most women would like a man that’s taller than they are. Google tells me the average height of an american woman is 5’4, so judging by the study he linked the man that is 5’5 would have the lowest rejection rate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:55 PM
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Hard question but probably i’d choose a job i hate and a husband i love. I can’t imagine raising a kid with someone i hate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:27 PM
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You don’t need to necessarly have some type of trauma. The starfish girl can be a great person, but she doesn’t feel sexy enough to be more free and creative in bed. You can be a well adjusted individual that never really got to explore that sexual side, I met a few people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:24 PM
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How is it so rare? Did you never see a man complain that a girl is a starfish during sex for example? This is what being sexually open means-someone that had great experiences in the past and likes to be an active participant will be turned off by someone that’s passive. People are not always as adaptable as you’d like them to be. Someone that’s sexually inhibited won’t just ‘adapt’ to that situation, there’s a lot of work to do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:05 PM
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It’s ridiculous to deny sexual compatibility doesn’t exist. Everything else might work in a relationship but if two people have different libidos, kinks or have different levels of how sexually open they are, sex is not gonna work. Just because you’ve never personally been in a situation like that it doesn’t mean it’s impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:28 PM
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me too! but i just wish they would give us updates on the people that went on a second date
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:40 AM
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i’ve watched like 4 episodes in a row and she’s pretty chill compared to other people i’ve seen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:27 AM
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it’s a dating show on youtube. here’s an episode if you want to check it out I wouldn’t like to be on reality tv, mainly because they stage a lot of the conflicts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:07 AM
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Vibing with someone and getting rejected after they see what you look like is pretty brutal. But I think the majority of people wouldn’t do something like that because they wouldn’t want others to say they’re shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:53 AM
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Would you ever participate in a speed dating show like the button?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:39 AM
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also i’d bet all those likes are from fat people so what actual impact does it have?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:27 AM
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Calling it inspirational is a bit corny but from my experience it really depends on what dude you’re asking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:41 PM
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Her actions are not really the peak of feminism but I’m sure no one can argue her story telling doesn’t appeal to certain aspects of the female experience
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:36 PM
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How are healthy relationships gone when a lot of people have one without cheating on eachother? I’m not throwing a hissy fit, I am actually glad I have the chance to chose what kind of relationship to have and not be forced into a patriarchal cage. The ones throwing hissy fits are people that don’t want to adapt to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:11 PM
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By ‘male power fantasy’ I also imagine a guy is looking at tom cruise playing volleyball on the beach and would like to be that guy that has muscles and exudes confidence. There are women with agency in male gaze centric movies, sure. But we all like to look at media that centers our perspective and I wouldn’t say transformers or alien does that for women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:08 PM
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I think there’s some truth to female gaze. As I grew up I got really bored with media where women have no character development and need a guy to save them at the end of the day. I guess that top gun voleyball scene can be both a male power fantasy and some eyecandy for women. But that’s not the only type of dude women are attracted to and I think ‘female gaze’ media does a better job at showing that women are attracted to a more diverse range of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:52 PM
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Sorry, that’s just word salad. No matter how many much you want to blame feminists or other boogey men, no human being with healthy relationships experience will ever agree to that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:36 PM
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You’re not really getting your point across because you actually mean media that centers the female gaze. There is a lot of media made by women that is popular and just perpetuates dumb tropes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:23 PM
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Those are examples of media made by women but they don’t necessarly center what is called ‘the female gaze’. I get what she means because I read what examples she gave but I think it’s pretty useless to open this topic without clearly stating about what kind of content you refer to. Also it’s not like the majority of women highly select the media they consume so it aligns with a certain standard. I wouldn’t have known about female gaze if I didn’t have a special interest in the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:20 PM
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what you define as female media is very different from what these dudes think is female media
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:54 PM
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Attraction is subjective in the end. Ten people might find you charming, five might think you are good for a chuckle, you obviously concentrate on the ones that get your humour. Also my point is that grown women don’t hang posters of celebs on their walls. So unless your demographic is a pre teen that has bts posters, that argument is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:40 PM
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I said it’s not just about sex. Sharing your life means sharing many other things with your partner, not just sex. How is it not my bussiness if my partner cheats on me? Stds, lack of trust and breaking boundaries, possibly fathering other children are obvious reasons. No woman that is healthy loses her libido magically, these are cheap excuses from men that don’t bother seducing their wives anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:30 PM
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i used to have posters on my wall when i was 13, that argument is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:07 PM
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sorry, i already got other ten chads willing to dress up for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:06 PM
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only if you dress in a full leather catsuit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:43 PM
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new fear unlocked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:36 PM
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when i moved to another country my mom and brothers made a photo album for me and wrote little descriptions under each picture
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:26 PM
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go to the main page of the subreddit and you’ll see three dots on the purple bar. click on them and go to ‘change flair’
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:08 PM
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that’s because the members of the accountable gender are not as accountable as they like to project
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:03 PM
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I’m not a radfem and it’s just mad weird. Triggers my memories of creepy relatives
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:49 PM
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You’re the one that chooses to view it as a traditionalist saying that implies a woman has to ‘keep’ sex for only one guy or whatever. Many men and women use the saying just to express they found an extremely compatible partner with whom they want to live their life with. Sharing life doesn’t mean just sharing sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:38 AM
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Some do have kids that they show in the videos. But I always get the feeling these stay at home wife or girlfriend tiktoks are made just so they can show off they have nice things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:11 AM
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i got trad content like that and it’s basically women married with rich men that show how they wake up, journal, go to pilates, eat and go to sleep. and then there are the ‘femininity coaches’ that are like the equivalent of alpha guys selling courses
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:58 AM
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so after i read your comment i searched orange pie on google and found out it’s an actual thing. i do feel a bit of regret regarding my username now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:35 AM
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Anyway this deviated from the point. The condition to have sex is to be sexually attractive. Demanding sex just cause you are good without being attractive to the other person is like me asking for a Grammy even tough I don’t sing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:21 AM
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It really depends on the dynamics of your family. I heard that advice too from actual succesful people but their families were a shitshow so it was understandable why they viewed things that way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:36 AM
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Because one is the best fruit and the other one is just an apple
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:27 AM
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Idk, maybe Billy should be glad some crazy woman isn’t into him? Men around me say all the time ‘don’t stick your dick in crazy’.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:20 AM
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Firstly, sex is based on sexual attraction-if you remove that and treat it like a reward, you just get a BB situation. And judging from what people here say, men don’t like being bb. If a good man has passable looks, he’s not overlooked let’s be honest. Also maybe men should start having some kind of filter. Some crazy women with pathological tendencies wrote letters to Bundy. You never select for the quality of women while accusing women of the same thing. Also using this logic I should feel fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:02 AM
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You don’t consider the answers you get as clear because you think it’s legitimate to compare apples to oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:42 PM
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First one, there are other things you can do besides piv
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:52 PM
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Why are you triggered by a common saying that expressed two people are in a stable relationship tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:51 PM
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I’m not afraid they’ll cheat on me, I just wouldn’t tolerate it. If I really hated men I wouldn’t be sharing my life with one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:34 PM
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Thanks for the laugh. Men can win the award for the more sensitive gender if saying that qualifies as misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:26 PM
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Gaslighting is generalising behaviour like that for the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:13 PM
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No, this is cheap gaslighting. Why would you want to be married to a guy whom you deem capable to cheat on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:01 PM
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While we are in a relationship? Is that man a bit challanged?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:53 PM
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I wouldn’t marry a man that is neurotic about the fact he got no play in the past and thinks cheating can be acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:47 PM
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i have a hard time believing the dude that wrote this is older than 19
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:39 PM
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Shocking thing, break up if you don’t get sex and can’t seduce your wife/gf anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:38 PM
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She’s very hot, she has that runway model body
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:19 PM
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Shocking thing, people that are in a relationship expect fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:18 PM
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I didn’t say anything about control or owning anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:04 PM
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I dislike her for a number of reasons but you can’t say she isn’t a bombshell
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:03 PM
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Or if there’s a risk of him cheating you just leave his ass, no point to stay with a man that makes you question yourself and doesn’t sexually satisfy you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:31 PM
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you’re right, the justification for that is the kid not having a drastic change of lifestyle or opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:59 PM
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who would actually want their daughter to be a sex worker??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:54 PM
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Yeah. Also I read a reply of his saying that if she leaves him, he has no problem taking the kid from her. Gotta love these males🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:57 PM
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imagine recently giving birth to a kid and your boyfriend wasting his energy owning the feminists on twitter and spiting women that he’s not even involved with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:23 PM
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so why shouldn’t i divorce a cheating husband? women don’t get ‘bored’ of sex if it’s good. maybe he should try to seduce his wife instead of stranger women if he cares so much about the kids lives and his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:19 PM
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Yeah, we don’t comform to puritanical and impractical views on sex anymore, that’s why women deserve to be cheated on./s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:51 AM
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my point is not that they are entitled to sex. he was asking why fat women are on magazine covers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:35 AM
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Basically your question is ‘why are women mad they got cheated on??!??’
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:55 AM
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I’m just like you, I feel attraction only for one man at a time and I think it’s more productive to chanel my energy in one direction. When it comes to making the transition from talking phase to actually dating, I don’t think there are rules. The most important factors are how well you click and seeing that the other person is equally invested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:29 AM
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And men hypocritically use shaming tactics on women to try and dictate their dating preferences and strategies. I do have to give it to men-while women have a boring rotation of three words they use, men have a greater range. And they also have podcasts and try to use ‘science’ to justify many of the shaming tactics they have. Where’s the accountability for that? The biggest double standard is expecting the other gender to not resort to this sort of thing when your own gender still perpetuates i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:52 AM
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Obese people still exist. As much as I am against being fat because it’s unhealthy, I can’t understand why y’all are so hell bent on excluding some group of people from certain areas and human experiences. Obese people buy clothes-it’s kinda obvious they would like to see how those clothes would look on their frame. Obese people can be very photogenic-Ashley Graham has a great face. Also they can act, sing, dance and so on. So why should they be banned from any covers (unless it’s the cover of S…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:36 PM
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Accepting reality means that you can’t do nothing about ‘competition’. It’s always going to be there, there is always someone out there that’s better than you in some way. And a man’s exes might have been different from you, but their relationship ended for a reason. So the smart choice is not to be eaten away by the insecurity that he slept with 40 people before (like the example in this post). You make the best out of your current relationship, because there’s a good reason why he chose you an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:13 AM
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westeroid behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:04 AM
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Your story reminds me of my mom and stepdad. They married when she was 47 and he was 41 and they are literally made for eachother. Best wishes to you and your husband
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:53 PM
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🇹🇩💪🏻🇷🇴💪🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:41 PM
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this is something i’m still salty about. we were just making fun of eachother while eating zacusca and then the party poopers shut it down🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:36 PM
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We don’t care less about it, we just accept the reality faster🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:19 PM
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you got the 14 yo asking about what colour is your bugatti and then you got kitten/kittenself in the same generation. i hope they grow out of these phases
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:08 PM
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that hairline deffinetly hit the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:36 PM
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yeah, if they stay around long-term highly depends on their character and values
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:50 PM
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Because of wider use of contraception methods, the education level of women affecting the number of children they’re going to have and family planning
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:43 PM
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spot on. also the scenario in which people have babies because they actually want them is preferable to the one in which people do it just because they’re supposed to. working with kids opened my eyes on how shitty and negligent some parents can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:35 PM
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thank you for your service. i’m going to watch the geriatric punk rockers now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:03 PM
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Your response reminded me of the movie Ted where one guy gets to bring his childhood teddy bear to life. That teddy bear pulled a lot of ladies, but they didn’t show his LoL playing abilities lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:43 AM
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But was it really the attention? A dude with less interesting things to say wouldn’t have gotten the same results. When you’re attractive, there’s really no shortage of people to choose from
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:56 AM
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so you’re saying OP’s strategy doesn’t keep women around?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:33 AM
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I’m not agreeing with you. Lots of women projected the gay stuff on him before he wore the dress. A big part of his fanbase viewed him as having a relationship or being attracted to another dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:09 AM
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Literally people have shipped Harry Styles with his bandmate for YEARS. Just look up the insane amount of fanfiction there is on ‘Larry’. And he’s still the most thirsted dude. Women literally project that type on behaviour on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:02 AM
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Imagine talking like this and thinking others are the meme
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:44 PM
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It’s not hypocritical to be a cishet woman attracted only to cishet dudes tho. And if I am woman that sings a Katy Perry song or dances with a friend, that doesn’t mean I engage in homoerotic behaviour, just like a dude singing Call me by your name isn’t automatically not heterosexual. Also OP ignores the fact dudes like Harry Styles drown in pussy. People have literally developed an unhealthy obsession to ship him with another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:27 PM
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so you built some connection with them and then you were both horny at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:07 PM
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That’s because women don’t fetishize gay/bi men as much as men do it with lesbians and bi girls. If you are a bi woman you have to avoid the dudes that automatically assume you’d be down for a threesome with another woman. So generally men aren’t accepting of wlw because they are less hypocritical, they are more accepting because that behaviour turns them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:56 PM
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manic panic is really good. also the shade names are cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:51 PM
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I think open relationships might be more popular in the future. Or it will be more socially acceptable to try one for a while to see if you’d like it better than monogamy. Also don’t forget that open relationships can be just as hard as monogamy for different reasons. And there’s quite a lot of amount of c word going around the poly community. A lot of them say that ‘you don’t owe anyone’ while completely disregarding our natural predispotion to bond with others on a deeper level and not wanting…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:25 PM
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You’re taking ‘women crave attention’ to the extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:03 PM
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then there truly ain’t no justification for reaching this hard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:58 PM
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Dude the premise of your post is so weak that it’s easy to ask questions like that. I can’t imagine what mental gymnastics it takes to reach that but I’m going to assume you had a gf that turned you down because she was editing a photo to post on ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:49 PM
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You’re still not answering my question. If I have so many opportunities and outlets to get attention, why even have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:37 PM
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Then why don’t I just stay on instagram 24/7 since it’s psychologicaly superior to having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:29 PM
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If all women love attention soooo much why the ratio on old is something like one woman for seven males? If attention feels pSyChOloGicAlLy better than sex why are we even having sex with guys in 2022? There is a certain niche of women that knows that they can capitalise on attention coming from males. Usually you can spot them so if you are not into that then you can simply not swipe on them. Any sane woman that wants a relationship knows how to use a dating app to her advantage and filter for …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:16 PM
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When the album opened with Donda, Donda, Donda x15 I really felt that There are some tracks with decent lyrics but they get overshadowed by the ones where he just repeats random stuff 10 times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:34 PM
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I am sure self worth plays a big part in cheating. I remember one of the women that gave me a pretty poetic explanation about it. She said one raindrop in a bucket is no big deal, until the raindrops fill the bucket. I don’t really know anyone that wouldn’t be affected by constantly feeling like they are nr 2 in their relationship. Happy cakeday btw🎂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:22 PM
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This is why it’s so hard to challange your view because this is a topic that can be solely based on one’s experience. In my experience, the women cheaters I came across were the ones you least expected tbh. You know, the types that were very invested in their relationship, talked about how they sucked their men after cooking them dinner because they got such a great catch. The reason they gave me afterwards? That other dude simply showed them attention and wanted to woo them and they craved that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:02 PM
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Dude, I say this to you as a woman. No one is the prize in a relationship and people that have that mentality are not the ones you’d want to invest your time and resources into. The relationship itself is the actual prize if both partners put work into it. Nothing wrong in developing your communication skills and emotional intelligence. But that doesn’t mean you can’t work on yourself in other areas to become more interesting to the women around you. Develop your social skills. Have goals. Take …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:05 PM
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that’s why i think larry should be the next prime minister, at least he’s extremely cute
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:41 PM
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People use dating apps for multiple reasons. The ones that are actively looking for a relationship aren’t really the crowd that are responding to ‘wassup my place or yours’ messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:31 PM
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Ah yeah I understand what you mean in that case and that’s not okay on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:59 PM
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I think as long as two people can communicate in a common language, it’s not that hard to have a relationship or be married. People can learn about other cultures and it can be very fun to share your culture with someone that’s receptive. Also over time shared experiences are going to create a stronger bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:51 PM
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People (not just women) want honesty so they can make informed choices. If it doesn’t conform with what they want, ofc they’re gonna leave you and there’s nothing wrong with that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:41 PM
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Like you said, it’s common knowledge for a niche of men. The point was about women recognising that a marvel guy doesn’t look like that outside the movie set.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:58 AM
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To be honest I didn’t realise to what lenghts some dudes go just to shoot a shirtless scene until my bf showed me some yt videos on it. I’ll never forget the day I found out what ‘natty’ is lol. This is why I think it’s very important men also talk about it because it’s not common knowledge or as easily identifiable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:34 AM
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What’s the problem with complaining about unrealistic female bodies in media and why is it a lack of accountability? Just because men don’t call this out it doesn’t make it wrong when women do it. I can spot bullshit when a celebrity with a facelift tries to sell me some 80$ skincare because I’m a woman and that’s the stuff I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:04 AM
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I never really got this. I look up to my partner on certain stuff he knows better/is more skilled but that doesn’t mean I do it all the time. Just like he looks up to me when I’m the one that knows better. About other women that reward misogyny-not my circus, not my monkeys basically. I’m not the one that has to live with the consequences of that choice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:37 AM
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My mom worked two jobs because my dad couldn’t keep one for longer than a few months and at one point gave up trying. Also she did most of the chores so for most of my childhood I didn’t get to actually spend that much time with her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:08 PM
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come on, aren’t you jealous you didn’t land a high value male that can’t even close incriminating tabs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:34 PM
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i don’t think you necessarly have to be happy but being a balanced person can make having a relationship considerably easier. also you can avoid a lot of toxic shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:25 PM
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because ragebait gets them views and it’s low effort to go out in public and ask people questions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:42 PM
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they both look like they are in their late 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:55 PM
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No, female judges aren’t the bane of the justice system and no lawyer that doesn’t have any gender bias will tell you that. It’s funny how you can’t even acknowledge a case where women judge men in a more balanced way than other men (because they lack the ‘paternal bias’ that s reported in men judges giving more lenient sentences to women). Then also include violent assault of women and sexual harassment. See, we can keep on adding percentages. Also add the fact that rape victims rarely get just…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:37 PM
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Pardon me for forgeting what sub this is-of course men bear no responsability for their doomed marriages. Women’s families get crushed, they remarry at lower rates, raise the kids in the majority of cases and have to fight for child support. Also divorces are in the majority of cases wanted on both sides, but the women file the papers. And even in the case when men don’t want to get divorced, do you think the woman is leaving him cause he’s such a peach? If rape, sexual assault and pregnancy pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:41 PM
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Seeking help for your mental health doesn’t necessarly mean you have to take ‘drugs’. The discussion in this area can get tricky because there are legitimate illnesses that need pills to be kept under control and there are also therapists that just prescribe whatever. But admiting you have a problem and seeking help>pretending there’s nothing wrong and supressing your emotions. Shooting three pointers is the type of ‘positive’ risk taking. You can’t tell me you’ve never taken a risk succesfully …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:11 AM
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Just because you want it to be, risk taking is not irrelevant to emotionality. But for like the fourth time, men have a ptoblem admitting agression and impulsiveness are still forms of manifesting emotions. If the prevalance of atempt shows emotionality, then the prevalance of intent shows even more. There’s no ‘50% of women are on psych meds’, that’s bullshit pedaled with an agenda. According to the National Center for Health Statistics, it’s 25,6% women versus 14,6% men that took any sort of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:17 AM
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How can you say there ‘barely is’ academic discourse in 2022 when we’re just getting started to research covert depression in men or alexythimia? Negative risk taking is due to emotional dysregulation and positive risk taking is linked to chasing a thrill/emotional high. It’s obviously not irrelevant, but as I said men like to rebrand emotion when it suits them. When a study says ‘talking about emotions’ is a negative mechanism of coping you have to wonder what they would consider addictions (gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:26 AM
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you don’t go to a therapist just because you have a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:07 AM
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i’ve seen both terms used, they’re both dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:44 AM
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you were the one that didn’t give a reason to shame them so i’ll claim this one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:56 AM
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well i asked u first and i still got no answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:22 PM
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you said that ’even if she’s deciding to take that role, it’s the fact that you are attracted to someone because she will do as you say, as a pet’. that’s the extreme part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:47 PM
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doesn’t matter, you said he’s got a shitload of money. it’s over for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:26 PM
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what if your attractive gf monkey branches with your rich friend?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:14 PM
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the men that entertain them obviously think they are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:10 PM
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that’s a bit extreme. i could never be submissive in a relationship but i can’t deny there are some people that make it work. most of what you described is an exaggerated version of that dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:53 PM
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obviously no. unless the guy has dementia or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:44 PM
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thanks for assuring me i’m dating a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:29 PM
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you’re the one claiming they should be shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:23 PM
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this has been going on for almost a year, get with the times
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:07 PM
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why should they be shamed tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:36 PM
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Sure you can. Honestly I’m torn about it-the settlement is huge but also I think Bezos had access to top tier lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:30 PM
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aren’t gold diggers shamed all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:12 PM
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my lovely aunties in no particular order: 1 that was the host of a food show on local tv. now she posts her stuff on tiktok and i had to block her because i cringe when she gets into fights with her ‘haters’ 1 that’s a sweetheart but married an alcoholic 1 that’s a sahm and has an online shop. pretty chill 1 that cheated on her ex husband with his brother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:10 PM
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It’s embarassing when everyone knows your husband cheated on you with your bestfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:13 PM
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i think this conclusion reflects reality better than saying ‘x is more emotional’. we are equal levels of emotional but we regulate and exhibit them differently. that’s why some coping mechanisms are regarded as being more ‘feminine’ or ‘masculine’
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:11 PM
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you can also have pleasure sex with your partner. don’t enter a monogamous relationship if you can’t respect its boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:54 PM
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Well the danger of cringe eboy thirst trap is that they’re gonna be on the internet forever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:52 PM
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if the relationship is not monogamous, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:38 PM
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because sex can be casual with a stranger or fwb or a very intimate experience with a lover that knows your body and with whom you share your life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:33 PM
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yeah what a great point, equating casual sex with a monogamous relationship where fidelity is expected
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:47 PM
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The point is that the way he rewarded her for that was by cheating on her with her best friend. Of course relationships are bilateral and he wasn’t a pos for the whole 20 years, but in the end what she got for doing her part was get publicly embarassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:58 PM
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I think the people that see the ‘moral’ divide between the two don’t use the ‘both are using their bodies’ angle. Athletes are regarded as striving to push the limits of their bodies to display impressive strength/agility/speed and so on and they see this as inherently more valuable than dancing, especially if that dance is provocative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:11 PM
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It doesn’t make me feel any type of way, it’s just an interesting discussion to have. I read the methodology of three studies and just as I expected, it’s just what we label as ‘feminine triggers’. Risk taking is not the pinaccle of analytical abilities, let’s not kid ourselves here. Also the intent for suicide is higher in male patients. If everybody already knew about this, there would be no academical discourse about it in 2022. The issue is more complex than it appears and dismissive attitud…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:05 AM
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Extreme displays of emotions as punching a hole in the wall, crying after a football game and so on. And that’s not women🤷🏻‍♀️. There is a certain standard about the emotions that women and men display-guess which gender gets labeled as showing the ‘negative’ ones. That’s why some analysis of studies from the 2000s won’t convince me, sorry. We’re supposed to have empathy for men for supressing their emotions, having higher suicide rates, getting in trouble more because they show more impulsivene…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:41 AM
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And just because that’s a conclusion reached by studying 46 people that won’t change my pov. I’ve yet to find any piece of research that sees this topic in its entirety-if men are less ‘emotional, why do most study show they process a break-up harder, have higher rates of suicide, exhibit more agression and violence just to give a few example?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:21 AM
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So one study has a sample of 25 people. I can take an MRI from work to a bbq party in my neighbourhood and replicate it. The article you linked gets interesting only in the end when it talks about the impact of socialisation on different cultures. I would take these findings more seriously if they detailed what they actually showed to the subjects. There is one gender that shows extreme displays of emotions much more frequently than the other but somehow that never seems to be adressed in certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:04 AM
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There’s always room for improvement in any field, but I’m sure my observations about men being equally emotional but socialised to show less of it will stay the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:33 AM
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I have trouble believing that because I’ve actually been around men my whole life and I’ve seen how they act. Also men like to rebrand ‘emotion’ when it fits them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:23 AM
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don’t forget the famous ‘what do you bring to the table besides looks?’
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:38 PM
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A good chunk of my hobbies are stereotipically feminine-baking, knitting, gardening, embrodery, thrifting for clothes or looking for vintage decorations for my home. Also I like making flower bouquets, my friends know I’ll always gift them bouqets made by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:08 PM
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i think around the time fat models became a thing-so around 2013
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:51 PM
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We all would like a fullfilling partnership. But if you look at divorce rates and people breaking up, it’s not a possibility for everyone. So just because someone can feel regret that it didn’t happen for them, there’s a slim chance they would have lasted with a guy that didn’t excite them enough to get a chance. People can lament and then move on doing other stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:07 AM
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So if I give you three examples of working mainly with men and them using gender bias to cover their incompetence and mediocrity instead of hiring a competent woman will you be convinced a ‘dick pass’ exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:04 AM
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As you can see from these answers taller women are not disadvantaged in dating due to their height. Men’s preferences are very diverse, but defeatist attitudes are not usually among them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:07 PM
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Why do you think only a taller guy would ‘make you appear normal’? I dated dudes that were shorter than me and nobody gave a fuck. It sounds like you need to work on your confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:50 PM
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I am a 5’11 woman and I never had any problems attracting men 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:38 PM
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why don’t you have the same criticism for men that make sex a bargaining chip too? making the promise of material goods to people in desperate situations doesn’t lay the grounds for an equal exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:28 PM
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my point is that she’s fat herself. or at least where i live people would call her fat🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:37 PM
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yeah i emphatise with them because i’ve seen the shit people do hoping to get out of poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:30 PM
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I don’t think being an ‘easy lay’ will help the older women that feel depressed and unfulfilled due to being single. Especially if you end up with a dude that has the logic this guy making the post has.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:00 PM
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Why do you care that women you find less desireable don’t want to be an ‘easy lay’?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:47 PM
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Maybe women see OnlyFans more acceptable because the creator is in control of their work and gets more revenue. Mia Khalifa got payed dust for being the nr 1 pornstar in the world. But that doesn’t mean women are more accepting of their husbands/bfs subscribing to onlyfans because there is a very strong parasocial relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:34 PM
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He is a ladies men. He dated many attractive celebrities, not just kim
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:49 PM
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Yeah I get why people outside romania don’t see him as a hero but I think showing his full story might make people understand he was shaped to be an evil warlord by the events in his life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:52 PM
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i moved to switzerland two years ago. i really recommend visiting romania, we’re very friendly and we have a mix of balkan and eastern european culture. vlad was cool, idk why no one jumped on the opportunity to make a series about him since game of thrones is so popular
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:30 PM
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that’s debateable. beat it off when i’m not in the mood? do your thing. ignore my needs and overdose on porn? that’s when a woman usually gets salty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:01 PM
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lol there are couples that watch porn together or even upload their tapes online
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:54 PM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:45 PM
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It’s the fact that she’s criticising others for not working on their appearanve while also…not working on her appearance herself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:48 AM
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Congrats for changing your lifestyle. I just think it’s hypocritical of her to put down other people when she’s in the same boat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:19 AM
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i didn’t find the exact snippet that was popular on tiktok but if you search for her name on yt and something like fat/obese/unattractive there are plenty of videos
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:12 AM
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I don’t disagree with what you’re saying but why isn’t she actively trying to lose weight? If you start packing on lbs in your early 20s the future ain’t gonna be bright for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:07 AM
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He came from a very religious family. I was born in the same village as him and there is a plaque in honour of his dad that was a priest in our local church
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:47 AM
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My opinion is that she’s a grifter. I can’t forget the video where she said fat is unattractive while looking like that in her early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:19 AM
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please leave the cat out of this😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:05 AM
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It’s funny how 30 yo women are left crumbs on a plate but of course you as a 30 yo man have some sort of excuse for why you aren’t already married. I am thankful every day I got snatched in my 20s because I’m sure dating after a certain age is just a cluster of people that are ready to justify why others suck and they don’t. Which is very unattractive and the opposite of wholesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:27 AM
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Because obviously a guy fucking a plastic corpse is very secure, duh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:33 PM
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It’s going to be hard to beat Mulan for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:50 PM
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there is so much talk about beauty and the beast here that i am actually going to watch it for the first time tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:18 AM
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It’s amazing how normies think they can scold pro athletes on their jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:00 AM
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Look up Aaron Taylor Johnson’s wife, literally the whole internet calls her a groomer for starting to date him when he was 19. The thing is this phenomenon is not as common in older women. How many older women do you hear of that leave their husbands of 10+ years for younger meat? Drive around highschools or say shit like ‘i get older, they stay the same age’?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:35 PM
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Question for the married people of ppd-what’s one piece of advice you’d give about marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:25 PM
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Just like the dudes that you reject and start saying ‘ok bitch you’re not even hot’
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:38 PM
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Also I’m sure it’s mainly her young fans discussing the subject on twitter and social media, not ‘post wall’ women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:51 PM
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Try and have a talk to him and he might unsave them if he’s a decent guy. Also stop doing dumb shit like this in the future no matter how ‘fun’ it seems on the spot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:15 PM
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Goat is an acronym for ‘greatest of all time’. If you want an example of a traditional family unit, Coda won best picture this year and the focus is around a nuclear family and how its members support each other trough hard times. Also cinema is very diverse, just like real life. There are many archetypes of men that can represent good role models and they are not limited just to movies that center a nuclear family.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:45 PM
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Are y’all seriously making the argument there are no positive male role model movies being made? In the age of superhero movies, Top Gun topping the box office, best actor going to a movie about a father that shaped his daughter into the goat of tennis just to list a few examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:07 PM
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I don’t have a hateboner for him. You’re the one implying a stranger girl will cheat without any logical proof. The one with a hateboner for her is you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:45 AM
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Context is not irrelevant and he is just perpetuating something that’s harmful for himself and for his relationship in the long run. There’s absolutely no way to tell she’s gonna ‘sleep around on him’
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:40 AM
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A non-exclusive fuckboy doesn’t deserve the ‘one man woman treatment’. He should reverse the roles and ask himself how he’d feel if she were the one doubting his loyalty without any actual proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:15 AM
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How did she make it clear she’s not a one man woman? He explicitly said they were not exclusive and he was acting like a fuckboy in the beginning. Also she voluntarly told him about the other guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:56 AM
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Turkish guys are simple-tell them that greeks are fools for claiming they invented the baklava and he’s yours
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:21 AM
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I think there is a lot of advocacy for a safer enviorment for women. The thing is there are more groups under the feminist umbrella that view things related to sex work in different ways (i won’t get tehnical or use scholarly terms, it would be besides the point). But generally the two main groups would be: the sex positive camp that advocates for a safer enviornment for sex workers. Selling sex is something that has always been around and not everybody finds it degrading so in this camp’s view …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:00 AM
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Now that’s what I would rate a 10+
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:56 PM
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Literally every ‘staple’ of redpill gets butchered and we reached the point where everyone has their own interpretations. I remember having a discussion with someone here that said he wanted a ‘submissive’ gf and detailed how she should also take into account his opinions when making decisions. It’s an uphill battle to try and debate these points sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:58 PM
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7.5/10. My misogymeter is triggered more by quotes about men having rich interior lives and women being empty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:44 PM
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The boiled frog comparison is spot on. I’m really worried for the next generations of russians tbh, they’ll grow in a world that’s gonna be very hostile to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:44 PM
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It’s hard to make outsiders understand that tolerating bad times is the norm for the vast majority of eastern europeans. I hope this ends soon and your family stays safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:37 PM
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Savage x fenty has plenty of fat male models on their website🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:22 PM
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Do you think guys that are tall, look good or are rich don’t pick what they want in a partner? Who is forcing them to pick fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:00 AM
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it reminded me of a post i read here that was about ‘ugly women want to be wooed like hot women’
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:36 PM
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I met enough people to know there is no clear dichotomy. I saw people facing plenty of adversities stuck in the same place and ‘blessed’ people that made it their mission to strive to be even greater. edit: fdr came from a pretty blessed family btw
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:30 PM
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the hot one growing up without ‘adversities’ doesn’t mean you are automatically soft. I grew up with plenty of adversities and I reached a place in my life where I’m sure my future kids will never go trough that. I’d rather my son be ‘blessed’ and take advantage of the multiple opportunities that he’ll have access to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:15 PM
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Financial abuse and men leveraging money are the most common critiques about the tradcon lifestyle. So people do complain about scenarios where men are sole providers or making significantly more money than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:58 PM
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Shawarma is also very popular where I am from but we eat it wrapped 99% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:54 PM
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This is the craziest complaint I’ve read here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:17 PM
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I was on Enpresse for three years which is a combined pill. It helped a lot with finally getting regular periods and decreasing blood flow. When I stoped taking it my periods returned to being heavy and irregular and my acne came back. I didn’t experience any change in behaviour or sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:24 AM
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it’s so annoying when the answer is obvious but they select only what the dumb people said
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:48 PM
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I might have mixed up his username with a dude that talked about being a swinger. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:43 PM
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Yeah, the right panders to the traditional view on masculinity. But just like you said, when you take into account the fact that different backgrounds can influence your view on the world, a high T man can find appealing things on the left. Just like there are women that identify or vote for the right too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:39 PM
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i was thinking high T men can name some actual social and economic policies. ‘accountability’ mentioned in a discussion about politics is just laughable, no matter if it’s about left or right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:51 PM
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That’s one policy I can respect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:48 PM
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out of curiosity, what’s appealing to men over 200 T?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:18 PM
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Maybe look for the show where he explicitly says he was awful and he cheated because he tought he could get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:22 PM
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Chris Rock cheated on his wife multiple times, maybe it’s time y’all choose another poster figure for the ‘men are not loved unconditionally’ movement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:07 PM
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Dudes like this just want to victimise themselves and engineer some movie plot to feel special
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:59 PM
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These were the things I was looking for before meeting my partner and I think it worked great for us: Attractive and takes care of their looks Has goals and works towards them Views relationships as a team effort and wants to have a family in the near future Also I was looking for someone that can balance my personality well. I never cared much about sharing the same hobbies, I think that is just a nice bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:16 PM
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maybe because women don’t just swipe on every man on an app
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:08 PM
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so you just had casual sex, why would this be different than just having ons with women in your country?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:33 PM
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Sounds rough but I hope you get the results you want after the healing of the tissues is done
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:37 PM
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That’s a very vague example-because there’s a difference between a sentence like ‘I like surfing’ and ‘I am hyperfixated on the inexperience of women and have tantrums when people question that’. Guess which case can be labeled as making blind assumptions about someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:21 PM
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Literally what did I do to stop them? This is a forum where we discuss perspectives-if you don’t want your worldview challanged then just don’t share it with other people. Also usually people lump someone in a group after they see that person and their behaviour. Doing it blindly is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:39 PM
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Dating is about identifying red flags in the person that is in front of you at one specific moment. And more things can be weird, not just this one, I don’t know how you arrived at this conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:30 PM
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It’s weird to play armchair psychologist like that. Also the obsession to repeat how damaged other people that are not part of your preferences are is very weird and indicative of ‘baggage’. Well adjusted people just date who they want without puting down others
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:24 PM
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It’s not controversial to say that you like women that are attractive. The point of her post is that some older dudes keep on saying how damaged/used/unfit/full of baggage the women their age and that’s when things get weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:15 PM
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Can y’all even stop and think for a minute what post you are responding to? Maybe nobody would call your preferences predatory (because not all age gaps relationships are) if y’all wouldn’t seethe about how damaged/used/whatever cliche people that are not included in your preferences are. And yeah if a woman that gets a Chad would call average looking guys uggos not worth mating I would deffinetly call her a weirdo. Just like all y’all jaded dudes that play armchair psychologists are weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:11 PM
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The amount of dudes that can’t even comprehend the point of a post like this and go on their basic tirades about women is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:42 AM
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And I am free to say ‘eww’ whenever an older guy hits on me. That’s my normal sexual impulse, stop judging me and other women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:37 AM
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how’s the recovery going?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:02 PM
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It’s a no brainer that women use those insults because men care about getting laid. That’s literally the purpose of an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:22 PM
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I am bi but I don’t get why this is a double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:00 PM
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Maybe it’s not all those bad feminists on campus that will brainwash her, maybe it will be the realisation that some dude proffited from her family’s poor financial situation and she had no actual say in this marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:30 PM
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I used to do that a few years ago when I was a barista, it helped with tips lol. That’s the last time I can recall complimenting a dude that’s not my bf or brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:39 PM
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The comment implies the fact she toned down her career to have a family and raise the kids even tough she was on top of the industry. She said on multiple occasions she would want to get back to walking more fashion shows in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:12 PM
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Modelling is not necessarly about being the most conventionally attractive. The #1 model is the one with the best work ethic that gets the most campaigns and walks the most runways. Before retiring from walking runways to have a family she was the most booked model in the industry
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:55 PM
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Depends on the views a guy expresses-sure, there are some economics of dating. There are conventionally attractive people that have an easier time being partenered up and there are transactional relationships between men and women. It’s undeniable. But if he relies solely on this set of views on dating and romance that highly commodifies human interactions, i would cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:19 PM
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yeah i don’t see it too in the pictures where she s makeup free
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:47 PM
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I didn’t say ‘men were the bad guys all along’, I said he just cherry picked a narrative that fits his skewed point of view. This victimisation that ‘we can’t say women are arrogant’ is especially funny when he literally made a post about that. I would like to have a discussion about actual realities between genders-this was just the emotional rant of a dude that thinks attractive men get put down (absolutely laughable btw) while women are praised 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:38 PM
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so…religious nutjobs? we have them in the west too but because out society is more stsble their only strategy is to whine about change
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:21 AM
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This is also something I never really understood-you can reject gender roles without changing pronouns. That would be a much bigger F u than implying that people that don’t fall into the traditional man/woman dichotomy are a different group
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:05 AM
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yes, they can be agressive when they talk on a podcasts about tanning your ballsack and eating beef. any actual and actionable example?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:02 AM
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what do the masculine men do that makes them so hard to be controled? how do they revolt in any way besides making podcasts?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:33 AM
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So you’ve seen women call a man ‘stuck up/player’ if he dresses well but have never seen men commenting ‘slut’ on a video or post of a woman simply doing stuff or put down her looks? The problem with people like you that try to victimise their entire gender is the fact that they don’t regard the fact that none of the two gender are saints. Also it’s pretty funny how posts like this say it’s okay for women to do one thing (that you clearly judge them for and say it’s unattractive) but men are not…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:33 AM
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She has the face structure to look good bald
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:56 PM
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Well this dude’s reaction to the fact that a woman that wrote some songs about her experience dating a much older dude saying maybe it wasn’t a bright idea is ‘take her rights away immediately!!!’. Some men are so sensitive they can’t accept the fact women talk about shared experiences or warn eachother about certain situations. Nothing new under the sun here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:34 PM
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And who buys the most onlyfans, uses webcam sites, slides into the DMs of those average girls (I literally get married dudes that message me)? Stop acting like it’s some russian roulette and men don’t cheat, because they do at a slightly higher rate than women if you check studies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:09 PM
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What guarantee does a woman get that a man will be faithful? Especially when it doesn’t take much these days for a man to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:03 PM
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I like men enough that the crazy stuff I read here doesn’t change my opinion about the male gender as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:52 PM
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damn i really want to know how this one ended up, he seemed cornered by her energy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:43 PM
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do they give updates on what happens after they match?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:41 PM
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It also depends what demographic you are asking. Harry Styles and BTS guys take the cake from all those dudes. edit: if you look at what younger people lust after
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:11 PM
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Y’all are using Henry Cavill as some legitimate example of why some women don’t want age gap relationships. He was just as hot when he was young
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:01 PM
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I can say a 40 yo dude looks good, that still doesn’t mean I’d want to date him tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:56 PM
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Charli has a super magnetic look and style, I understand why you feel like that about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:54 PM
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I try to make them meet eachother without telling them before that I know someone that could be a good potential match for them. I think this is the easiest option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:51 PM
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How many 40 something dudes look like Henry Cavill irl? So far I’ve met only one dude near 40 that had the body and the face to compare
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:45 PM
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lol i’ve seen only one female user here saying she’s a virgin waiting til marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:09 PM
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Padma Lakshmi and Cillian Murphy are perfect 10s for me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:52 PM
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He’s a literal rando that approached her on a night out, not her date or a dude she wants to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:13 PM
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Is she on a date with this dude? Does she have any interest in him? The answer is no and he should be thankful she’s geting him views
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:07 PM
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Why should she tell an intimate detail to an attention seeking dude with a microphone?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:02 PM
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I agree, it gets confusing to see people that label themselves as asexual/demi and their justification is ‘because i don’t have sex on the first date’
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:31 PM
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I agree it shouldn’t be a term to describe one’s sexuality. But it holds legitimate value when someone communicates what their boundaries and needs are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:26 PM
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It’s very easy to spot the ones that don’t have much experience with kids. At young ages they try to understand the dynamics between adults. I work with kids and inevitably they start to ‘ship’ two adults that they see together or ask about your spouse/partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:54 AM
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So in the first scenario I die at 25 and don’t get to actually enjoy parenting and my kid ends up traumatized. In this case I choose the second scenario because I could have the chance to be a cool aunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:57 PM
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It really depends where you are from. I was a sweet summer child until I stepped into the nyc subway
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:30 PM
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Maybe I pestered only you because I like you more👀 Yeah the conversation was pleasant, have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:30 PM
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After being turned down three times by the same woman I would have probably said something similar
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:08 PM
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I just think it’s weird to draw conclusions from the divorce of two strangers. We will never know what truly went down between them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:04 PM
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I asked you how you know she didn’t offer more because they were/are together for 13 years and have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:47 PM
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How can you say ‘she was not worth it’ tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:06 PM
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I was the one that showed interest first so I’m sure I would have also dated him in that scenario. I was never the type that developed feelings over time but I’ve seen it work for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:31 PM
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maybe worry about his family?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:43 AM
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Learn how to shut down any impact those opinions might have on you. Just because a man said something it doesn’t mean you have to actually take that opinion seriously. You’re not an ‘old hag’ by any means at 26 and as long as you look after yourself and get out in the world you will always find cool dudes that will like you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:18 PM
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Lol I grew up in a religious community-the hoe phase happens after they get married
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:55 PM
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yes there are absolutely less desirable women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:28 PM
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To me there is a difference-you could pander to an audience of people without necessarly being part of that group. You might do it intentionally to gain their approval for example or because you dated and got married in a very different dating climate compared to the current one (which might be JPs case)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:20 PM
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I see people calling him an incel hero, I think there is a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:02 PM
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they just don’t make them like that anymore😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:00 PM
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Because retroactive jealousy is rational to these dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:15 AM
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In the majority of cases the dude says some dumb shit about women first. So maybe those men should learn actions have consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:00 PM
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No. You just want to believe women ‘despise’ trolling because you don’t want to accept they are actually trolling you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:52 PM
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You’re grasping at straws. We absolutely know men are hurt by those words and that’s the intention. Remember the ‘0 bitches’ memes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:43 PM
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Or maybe women use those insults because they know men are hurt by them. You know, that’s kinda the point of insults
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:32 PM
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that’s right. those were the only reasons to live😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:14 PM
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Also idk how they are supposedly taking womens nudes down. There are tons of deepfakes of female celebrities for example. Some people are that shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:13 PM
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yeah how dare they live past 30 and try and be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:00 PM
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I genuinely don’t know about the nudes situation. I just remember that nsfw Skai Jackson video that was everywhere on twitter a while ago
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:50 PM
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I’m sure the same kids bullying him would also bully a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:46 PM
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Apparently it’s a EU wide study. That changes the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:39 PM
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I get that it can be a common thing and I’m sorry that happened to you. However women also have experiences with certain types of men that are very relatable. Unless you stay with your highschool sweetheart, dating means you reboot your system after every failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:36 PM
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Well if that’s the type of partner you are choosing, I guess you have to adapt to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:13 PM
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Yeah, appearantly these gorgeous succesful women are not being approached by the succesful men with interesting hobbies that work in the same field as them. Quite strange
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:48 PM
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And I was also talking about your friends, you didn’t make this post about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:42 PM
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I have a succesful career-that literally means I get to meet plenty of succesful men that work in the same field. You can’t tell me these women met only losers. There are lot of men that do something. If you don’t meet any that means 1.you live only among women 2.they are actively avoiding you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:36 PM
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Why your succesful and gorgeous friends don’t meet men with good careers and with interesting hobbies? Sure, attitude can be subjective (just as your evaluation of your friends) but this post has some paragraphs that read like fanfiction. I support the general idea that a man has to add to your life and be a pleasant company. However, that doesn’t make you a prize. The prize is the relationship a man and woman can build together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:25 PM
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That’s great. Doesn’t mean women aren’t capable of offering emotional support which your post implies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:24 PM
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I would make a wild bet and say you are a good partner that knew how to choose a compatible woman. But these dudes can’t comprehend anything besides ‘women bad’.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:48 PM
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I really don’t know. I will admit that when I started dating I didn’t know how to handle a guy being vulnerable. Over time I worked on that and I became a better potential partner. I think people like these just get stuck at the point where an ex hurt them and don’t move on from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:40 PM
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Do you want to have a stable and longer relationship at one point? Because while I can understand why a man that went trough a bad experience after opening up to a woman might say this, I really don’t get how you would ever have a longer healthy relationship without ever opening up to a partner about your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:21 PM
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I agree with what you are saying. Where I currently live government assistance is offered to all single parent households and I think that should be the norm everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:28 PM
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Love letters can be an eyeroller for many people and not everyone has the writing skills to tone down the cringe. But whenever my partner leaves for work before I wake up he leaves me a sticky note on the fridge. That instantly makes my day and it’s much more easier to write than a love letter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:47 AM
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Oh how I regret being born a woman and miss out on the chance to jam out to Maroon 5 on Mars😔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:41 PM
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I highly respect him for everything he’s doing right now but he also looks like your typical slav uncle. Not my thing, but I’m sure he’s attractive to many other people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:10 PM
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The people around Hitler took a lot of the concepts Nietzsche talked about in Thus spoke Zarathustra and On the genealogy of morality and twisted them. The most popular examples are how ‘the state is the coldest of all monsters’ and how when talking about ‘will to power’ Nietzsche uses the words ‘force’ and ‘violence’. The Ubermensch reaches the transfiguration of his existence trough power and violence-and the Nazis took that as actual power and violence. OP got the jars mixed-there was a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:19 PM
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Yeah, he is a buthisface now. I am not the type that’s into the rugged look
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:09 PM
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I think only his body is attractive now. But he was pretty handsome when he was younger
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:07 PM
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as a eastern european i also wonder why 30s are the supposed age where you get wrinkles. i don’t really see that around me here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:47 PM
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I love it how the subject of these ‘accomodations’ rarely comes in actual irl conversations. It’s mostly talked about on the internet with strangers. Confront your female friends if you think they ‘take it for granted’. Validation from three random dudes on reddit aint gonna change the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:35 PM
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Congrats for making positive changes, it will totally change the way you feel
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:18 PM
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So what should a woman do if she ‘cries’ stop slut shaming but still gets slut shamed? It’s not like the majority of women call random men on the street incels, they mostly mirror the behaviour of the ones that still slut shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:26 PM
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Do you realise in this example equal treatment means a woman also gets to shame a man for his sexual past? Stop yelling hipocrisy when you get the same treatment back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:55 PM
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I would tell him his family loves and supports him even tough he might be going trough a rough patch. My most important recommandation would be for him to not isolate himself. I don’t know how open he would be to extensively talk about the situation with his mom, but I would encourage him to ask a trusted friend/dad/male relative. Also another recommandation-be selective with the content you consume. Avoid spaces that trigger too many negative emotions. I wish you the best going trough this and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:43 PM
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It depends on how open he would be to me helping him. But I would deffinetly keep an eye on his mental state
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:04 PM
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As I said, they are trying to send the message that ‘no good/high value men’ would date/marry a promiscous women. When in fact, if you actually look at what men do, there are plenty of scenarios when attractive men end up with high n women because people tend to match their sociosexuality. Sure, nobody holds actual power over a high n woman, but some desperately want to make it seem like that. If they only cared about stating their preferences, they would just call it a day and not play fortunet…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:07 PM
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I remember liking a few comments you made here. But I draw the line at mint flavoured ice cream apologist, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:49 PM
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charming. but he has to be aware i’ll judge him on the flavour he gets. i trust no man that likes frozen toothpaste
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:41 PM
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Damn you hit the nail on the head. Different women have different preferences and it’s valid. It’s always funny to see dudes on the internet claiming the women that crush on celebrities that are not the obviously masculine type lie (kpop stars, Chalamet, Pete Davidson for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:00 PM
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Eh that’s just partly true. The discourse I see in these spaces regarding men are mainly about rigid and traditional gender norms being the root causes of their problems. So they do have an explanation on how the system makes mens lives harder because of the expectations projected on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:19 PM
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Access to marriage and being worthy of comitment or being treated good by a man, labeling a promiscous woman just for ‘pumping and dumping’. Basically the old trope of ‘no good man would want you’.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:08 PM
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I explicitly said plenty of men talking about their n count preferences insult, judge and make crude generalisations about the women that don’t fit their box. And it’s still surprising to you that a woman would have a comment to make about that? Sorry, no one has to tolerate disrespect for the sake of your dating preferences. ‘Criticising’ (as you like to name it) someone for not fitting your dating criteria is literally teenager behaviour. And I don’t agree of ANYONE trying to shame people that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:58 PM
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I have no problem with men choosing what they think is best for them-I have a problem when they are going to label everyone that doesn’t fit their criteria a certain way. There is a difference between ‘being praised’ (which we don’t demand) and just stating respectfully why you don’t want a certain type of woman (which plenty of men talking about n count fail to do). And as long as they use their preferences as a means to shame the ones that don’t fit their box, me and any woman has the liberty …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:24 PM
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Again, you keep on insisting that women want to be unanimously praised when, in fact, they just don’t want to continiously hear judgments being made about them. If men want to keep on talking about this, women are allowed to express their opinions because this topic is literally about them and their sex lives. We always have a choice to speak up against people that try to use shaming tactics on us. Especially when a lot of the dudes that speak about n count can’t state their preferences in a res…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:56 AM
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the price i have to pay for knowing how to read is too high sometimes. i felt bad for his neighbour tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:35 PM
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that’s me and my bf except he is the artsy type and i am more athletic and extroverted. works out the best out of all the relationships i ve had
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:48 PM
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So a dating sub is full of reactions on a topic related to dating? Who would have imagined that. Why should a woman simply accept the double standard and the fact that men try to leverage the topic of n count? Especially when the men that are so preoccupied with the sexual past of women think they can atribute common naratives to all of them? If men think they can talk in general terms about certain groups of women, women can do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:36 PM
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Considering the fact plenty of women still have casual sex, they are not easily shamed. The thing is that the discourse around n count is very repetitive and at one point any woman would ask herself why there is a certain kind of man that heavily preoccupies himself with the sexual habits of women he finds undesirable or unfit to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:43 PM
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I don’t hate him but I just find it funny how he turned into a snowflake that has meltdowns over who gets to be on a magazine cover. He poked the bear for years and stayed relevant by making multiple inflammatory statements about a wide range of topics. I have a lot of simpathy for the unfortunate circumstances in his life but this is just proof that his very very basic life advice is not enough to help you in a bad situation. To sum it up, he is just a butt naked emperor. Unfortunayely all he i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:50 PM
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it can be in a man too, that’s what i’m into
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:03 AM
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i do have a type when it comes to personality and interests, that’s why all the dudes i dated had an artistic side. there are also some physical traits i like more than others but i am less strict about those
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:35 PM
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how do you even find 7y old posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:09 PM
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There are also plenty that were born into religious families and were never promiscous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:36 AM
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Unpopular response because I am pretty desensitized to people acting like they are intelectually superior. Most of the time you can just google their claims and they get humbled. But people that act morally superior are more insufferable because they lack nuance. You can’t really get them to agree life isn’t always black or white, their comeback will always be something along the lines of ‘i just know i’m a good person’.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:32 PM
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curly hair stands out more for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:23 PM
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The term is hybristophilia. I remember that part of tumblr too. Also from what I remember there were also a lot of teen girls that were part of it. There’s a high chance they grew out of that edgy phase
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:01 PM
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Do you think it would be hard to find a religious woman that meets your criteria?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:28 PM
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Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:21 PM
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I wanted to emphatise with the fact you were surprised about the cruel language some women have when they talk about men-I am a woman and I am sick of the small penis insults for example or comments on height or baldness. I can understand why you would label women as ‘more cruel’ for that or what was the sentiment behind your post. But you also make a lot of claims in this post that are laughable. The worst you ever heard a man say about a woman was a fat joke? Totally believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:22 PM
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him being a bad partner hurts their common brand. if you watch their videos his whole shtick is ‘i m married i love my wife sm’. also the wife is very loved by their fanbase
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:41 PM
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why is it weird? his whole image was being ‘the wife guy’ and he blew that up. he cheated on his wife in a public place-if i were his friend i’d be rightfully pissed that he fumbled the bag like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:25 PM
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How would a highly intelligent homeless man insert himself into the dating pool of a beautiful and succesful woman? She has to know he exists first in order to seek a love connection. Intelligence, just like any advantage in life, doesn’t guarantee your succes if you don’t market it. You can be extremely beautiful but that doesn’t mean if you don’t care for your looks or just stay inside people are gonna notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:21 AM
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From what they tell me and what I observe on my own. Also they are 29 and 35 so if you do the math it’s not actually very hard for someone with a lot of options to reach 100 partners if they are hypersexual people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:14 AM
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one is my older brother, the other one is my cousin that is also a sugar baby
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:08 AM
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How is that an argument? Ofc if you are highly intelligent you eventually find a way to be succesful at something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:06 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:04 AM
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She was always more wealthy and I am sure her dating pool has men with way more status.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:59 AM
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You gave the example of a disabled genius. And some women are defffinetly going to ignore looks for a highly intelligent man. I’m sure Padma Lakshmi didn’t marry Rushdie because he was a looker. Women’s preferences are much more diverse than men’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:54 AM
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He was still able to cheat on his first wife and be married twice. Also there are plenty of average looking men that are highly intelligent and get drop dead gorgeous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:41 AM
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the most distrspectful part is that they didn’t even care enough to hide from their wife and fiancee🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:28 AM
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Ideally yes-but what are you going to do if you abort the first one and the second one would also be unattractive? Or not very bright? I will help my kids discover their strenghts and maximise their potential. That’s the most realistical option.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:25 AM
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absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:15 AM
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Did you ask him why things fizzled out when he reached out to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:35 PM
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a versatile king
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:32 PM
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why would you agree on a date if he already ghosted you once?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:27 PM
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Lol she was more troubled because he spoke in worse terms about women, what’s so hard to get? She still mentioned his language about men being unfavourable too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:11 PM
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I’m not turned off if it’s something he watches in moderation, knows how to separate real life sex from the exaggerated stuff represented in porn and our relationship is not affected by it. Also, the views a guy has on porn and people working in the industry can be a good filter for a partner imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:12 PM
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That’s not the attitude the majority of people have. Single fathers are praised a lot of times for simply raising their kids. Single moms don’t get the same treatment because society thinks they should be doing that by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:58 PM
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You’re just half right. Sure-stating statistical facts shouldn’t hurt your feelings. But a lot of people will unleash their vitriol when a topic like this is open and go beyond just ‘stating facts’. When you mention ‘no one said women are ugly after 25’ you’re wrong because I came across a few examples today on this sub. This is just a young girl that gets to see the nature of some jaded males. The fact that she asks herself something like that is not some sort of ego defense-we are social being…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:30 PM
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Or people just have preferences that don’t match yours. I am sure poor Harry Styles couldn’t do better than a woman 8 years old his senior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:10 PM
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I’m not saying it’s bad, it’s just extremely rare. Marriages and relationships between people from different countries or cultures are more common than this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:49 PM
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so…one example? what about the countless celebrities marrying other celebrities?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:38 PM
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lol what 6 figures guy marries a macy shift lead? people mostly marry in their socioeconomic background and a lot of them gravitate naturally to the partners in the same field. stop spreading fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:20 PM
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Scandinavian countries are the opposite of what these guys are looking for. These guys want traditional women, not a similar culture
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:45 PM
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She’s almost 60, she looks insanely good. These multimillionares have the resources to age like that, comparing regular people to them and say ‘ha! men/women age like that’ is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:42 PM
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I assume you two met organically due to working in the same industry. Of course it wasn’t predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:28 PM
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Stop the cap, it’s like using Salma Hayek as an example to say women age like wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:53 PM
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I am happy about the state of dating because I get to have a choice and I don’t have to play housewife by default. The tools are far from perfect (and they will always be like that) but at least they are a good filter for the people that don’t have the same intentions. Some people play a very defensive game or are jaded by previous experiences-there is no way to avoid meeting them but there are ways to not let them into your life or get involved with them. All in all, I think having a partner th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:36 PM
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The OP gave also the example that ‘if they wanted to spend time with you, they would’. Sure, at some point only one person asks ‘are we bf/gf’ or ‘do u wanna be my partner’ but that doesn’t mean both people didn’t invest their effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:56 AM
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It’s a weird and exploitative industry. I think OF is a much better option than doing actual porn because of the shitty contracts the studios have-I saw some interview with Mia Khalifa and she said she didn’t get much after literally being the number one pornstar in the world. But OF also has its ugly downsides-it is very glamourized and people fail for the bait that it’s easy and quick money for everyone. So there are high chances you have to resort to spamming multiple other platforms to build…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:04 AM
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You can always ask someone what they are looking for if you are unsure. Also, analyze if they reciprocate your efforts-that is the best sign someone likes you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:38 PM
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You are interpreting this in the wrong way. It means ‘if he wanted to be in a relationship with you he would’. It refers to a guy she is seeing-if he would want something serious with her, he’d make things official and not keep it in limbo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:30 PM
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Dude, just because the pronoun he was used to give advice to a hetero woman it doesn’t mean the principle can’t be applied by everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:19 PM
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This advice doesn’t go against anything you said and it’s not gender specific. If someone is truly interested in you, they will want to talk, spend time with you, plan dates, be receptive to what you like and so on. The post literally says ‘if he WANTED to be in a relationship with you, he would’. How does that sound like ‘incredible levels of entitlement’ lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:32 PM
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The advice doesn’t say men can’t have other options. It just tells you that if someone isn’t showing interest in direct ways then you shouldn’t waste your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:19 PM
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y’all make the wildest assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:01 PM
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no, you can find a good relationship off an app and not compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:32 PM
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The fact that there are other desires besides sex doesn’t make sex less important. There is a difference between being ‘willing’ and ‘enthusiastic’-and nobody would like to hear their partner say ‘i am willing to have sex with you’ instead of ‘i want to have sex with you’.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:18 AM
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And that reason is not something the majority people want. The majority wants to be desired by their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:32 AM
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Well the majority of people don’t want partners that have sex with them for ‘practical reasons’.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:11 AM
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By ‘visibly older’ I mean you obviously know they are not in your age group. And for a lot of 19-20 years old it doesn’t matter if they appear 25 or 30, the percentage that goes for same aged or closed aged peers is bigger than the percentage that goes older. I get that you’re a dude that takes care of himself, I do that too and think anyone should. But we are talking here about the majority of people, not about your specific example.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:55 AM
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Gisele is the only one that can say how ‘blessed’ she is. And stop saying she’s ‘henpecking’ him, we know shit about their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:48 AM
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I didn’t say there are no girls that would like older guys, I said there’s no way some 30+ older dude passes out for a literal 20 year old (not a guy in his 20s, a literal 20 yo).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:51 AM
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to our children. even tough i would trust my partner that he can find a healthy balance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:24 PM
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What she means is that you can easily identify the ones that look older than your peers. Of course you’re not gonna hyperanalyze them and say woah this man is 27 years old and 10 months. You just see he is visibly older. And to very young people 30 sounds old. As you age a bit you realise you shouldn’t be so harsh because you’re also getting there lol. But when you are 19-20 for example, you view 30 years old differently
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:32 PM
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Vienna has the Musikverein which is more diversified (they have a Brahms hall from what I remember) but their main selling point is Mozart. It has more attractions but they get pretty repetitive. I haven’t visited it during winter when they have the Christmas market. In Prague I liked the arhitecture more and the fact that it didn’t feel as somber.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:00 PM
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i liked prague more, felt more lively
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:26 PM
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i love the comment on the first video that says ‘he inhales oxygen and exhales genius’. dude really found his crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:22 PM
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Well the woman in the post sounds like a true prize. And if that is what you and any guy that thinks in ‘black and white’ wants to get, more power to you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:34 PM
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Is there no distinction for y’all between an assertive person and one that ‘pushes the envelope to the fullest legally permissible extent’?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:23 PM
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the point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:18 PM
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Honestly, lots of the dudes complaining about women have the same amounts of issues and are just as bitter. It’s a vicious cycle at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:08 PM
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I don’t think handsome men get even half the advantages a woman that takes care of her looks does. Also they are the main factor in dating, so the answer is obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:46 AM
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it means you should stop talking. hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:20 AM
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‘model tier friends with A level game’ that are unsuccessful with dating-this is reaching wattpad levels of fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:57 PM
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Oh, the argument about hybristophilia. Which being a paraphilia, is obviously an atypical thing. So it’s unrealistic to think the majority of women would have written letters to Bundy if they had his address. Obviously, nice guys don’t exhibit assertiveness when they approach women. A charming man knows how to present himself as assertive and confident. Edit-actually what you mean by ‘genuine’ psychopaths? you think a psychopath isn’t legit if he isn’t a criminal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:40 PM
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I was the same until I saw a guy in one of my classes when I was 16 and went from ‘ew, a boy’ to ’oh, a boy’.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:32 PM
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Yes they do hide it-they are charming, pathological liars that are good at deceiving other people around them. Look at the list of traits of psychopaths-you can’t genuinely tell me you can’t find the combination of traits that makes them appealing in the beginning. Women with BPD lead with their highs when they get in a relationship-and just like a man is willing to go trough the lows and have some poop in his bed due to his maladaptive attachment, so do women that get involved with psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:13 PM
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Why don’t you think the explanation is that they hide it in the beginning? After all dudes that have ex gfs that suffer from BPD say the same thing and after some time passes they show their true colours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:28 PM
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No. In fact I think the threads here offer some pretty interesting insight on how some people want everything to follow a certain pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:08 PM
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Yeah, there’s some inconsistency. I don’t think Drew Afualo deserves a ban because her discourse is not as violent at Tate’s but i think she deserves to be suspended for a while for bodyshaming. Maybe the ‘punching up’ crowd can shut up that way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:16 PM
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There are a lot of alpha podcasters saying the same shit or even worse and they are not banned. I think his ban was about something else and they just decided to pinkwash it so the woke/feminist crowd approves. Also there are a lot of misogynistic songs, lots of dudes have fans after doing worse shit than Cardi B.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:45 PM
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No idea if the reason is the same for everyone. But during our first vacation I thought to myself ‘hmm, spending all our time together is much better than spending it on my own’. I suppose people that break up reach the opposite conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:13 PM
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that’s why my bf told me we are not going to rome on our first vacation because he knows too many couples that went there and broke up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:49 PM
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make your intentions clear that you’re looking for sth serious so you don’t waste your time, don’t be afraid to ask the big questions after a while (their stance on kids and finances), try and live together for a bit or go on a vacation to see how you two function as a team.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:30 PM
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sweaty, it’s obviously an exaggerated statement because the topic is a man throwing a temper tantrum about the baby’s gender and blaming the mother
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:50 AM
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I am always amazed by males that are mad about the gender of the baby. It’s literally their fault that the Y chromosome didn’t win the race
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:27 AM
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