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bluedolphin4/r/seduction23/10/13 10:16 PM
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bluedolphin4/r/seduction06/10/13 06:25 PM
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I agree with this completely. It easy to become frustrated with women as a whole when you have been in emotionally stressful or tumultuous relationships (which I know I have been in). But I think it is much more beneficial to direct this frustration towards achieving self-improvement rather than trying to justify your own negative actions and/or mentality.
/r/seduction21/01/14 07:53 PM
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I'm not sure directing him over to r/depression is the best solution. I'm bipolar and I'll visit r/bipolar for issues not related to seduction but when I want to improve my game, it helps me to be in a more positive state of mind. I feel like I can obtain that mindstate easier from here than from r/bipolar.
/r/seduction07/01/14 07:06 AM
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PM me if you want to know more.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 07:43 PM
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No and nope.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 07:40 PM
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It seems like other comments have covered this, but the main separating factor between "nice guys" and "good guys" is desperation. As long as you don't come off as needy and dependent on the girl you're talking to, being friendly and honest with them shouldn't hurt you. That being said, you still should make sure that you aren't boring and have an interesting personality.
/r/seduction27/12/13 04:27 AM
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Really good article. It's always good to show your alpha side but if you act too much that way when a girl already sees you as a man of high value, you can end up just looking like an asshole. Basically, act confident, but not like an overly pompous douchebag (girls will in fact pick up on that).
/r/seduction02/12/13 02:54 AM
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Each of the two times I've had a threesome, it was kinda a spur-of-the-moment thing. Alot of people would probably tell you that prior communication and planning is the way to go about having a threesome, but while I think everyone consenting to it is important, I think it is something everyone kind has to feel at the moment. Maybe next time you are with her and a friend you think she would be alright with in said threeway, escalate on both of them (be sure she doesn't get mad about this though)…
/r/seduction30/11/13 02:26 AM
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He said he had an average sized dick, doesn't sound overly smug to me.
/r/seduction12/11/13 01:39 AM
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Yeah, you are right about there being no "this side or that side". The one thing though is that it kinda sounds like you're saying that there is one tried and true method of winning all women, which I don't think I can really get behind. It's true, there are universal traits that women are attracted to (e.g. confidence) but I think everyone has their own style of game and that people should use whatever approach works for them. On top of that, at least from my experience, sometimes you do have t…
/r/seduction27/10/13 07:19 PM
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Glad I could help brotha. I just simply stop escalating and give her subtle signs that I'm not into her that way. If she doesn't pick up on this and keeps being too forward, I just tell her that I'm sorry, but I don't have any interest in her that way. Sucks to be that guy sometimes, but it's always better to be honest.
/r/seduction24/10/13 08:21 PM
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If you find it helps you, go for it. I personally like to masturbate about a day before having sex with a girl because it helps me last longer but if you're one of those dudes that has a hard time getting it up or aroused in general, nofap might be right for you. Also, I have a naturally high sex drive so things could be different for you. Most importantly though, try to have as much experience with women as possible and all this will be more natural for ya.
/r/seduction24/10/13 08:16 PM
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You gotta think about the benefits that come along with it amigo ;) Also, just because you're not attracted to someone, doesn't mean they can't have a positive impact on your life. Like I mentioned in this post, one of my best friends to this day is a girl I am not attracted to and not only has she hooked me up with numerous hot friends of hers, but she has helped me deal with some of my worst depressive phases (I am bipolar) and helped me overcome drug addiction. I don't know where I would be w…
/r/seduction24/10/13 03:25 PM
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It sounds to me that you just need to be more open about who you hook up with. In the third paragraph, it sounds like that girl who kissed you could've been alot of fun if you had given her the chance. You should have kissed her back, even if you ended up not wanting to fuck her, you could have held off on that. Don't assume that just because you don't know a girl very well or aren't initially attracted to her that you can't have a good time with her. As for the girls flaking on you, this is how…
/r/seduction24/10/13 03:20 PM
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Again, I'm not saying that either. Simply that if I had to choose between an attractive attention seeker and an attractive intelligent woman, I would choose the latter.
/r/seduction24/10/13 02:18 PM
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Yeah didn't think about that one, I could see that being very helpful for people that tend to get nervous around attractive women.
/r/seduction24/10/13 04:45 AM
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Has nothing to do with putting anyone on a pedestal. It's just about narrowing down options. Say you have multiple women into you and you've narrowed it down to the two women of the bunch you're most attracted to. More likely than not, you'll pick the one you connect with more as a person, unless literally all you care about is looks. Every man has preferences in a woman, I happen to prefer mature women to ditzy attention whores.
/r/seduction24/10/13 04:42 AM
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Yeah, that too is a possible outcome. The only thing about that is, while I'm fine banging any girl I'm attracted to, I would see some chick (regardless of how hot she is) having an immature reaction like that as no more than a casual fuck. That's fine with me alot of times, but in the end, I try to attract women I'm both attracted to physically and attracted to as people.
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:21 AM
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Make witty comments related to her costume. Especially for the ladies who are hardly wearing one ;)
/r/seduction23/10/13 10:23 PM
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Certainly some women are that way, but I would argue it depends what they are looking for. If a woman is comfortable being single and having fun on her own, then yeah, they're probably just looking for a guy to rock their bedposts. But if a woman is looking for a relationship, good sex, although probably important, won't be enough of a determining factor.
/r/seduction10/10/13 03:53 PM
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Thank you for putting this out there. The world doesn't need more jerks. It needs more confident dudes (and hey, ladies for that matter) who feel capable of accomplishing whatever they set their mind to. Both nice guys and jerks in my opinion lack self-esteem, jerks are just better at hiding it.
/r/seduction10/10/13 03:50 PM
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It looks like you deleted your comment but I just wanted to let you know that everything you said was really helpful. I could really relate to your 2nd paragraph (I think it was?) where you talked about how your mood swings affect your attitude towards women. And I've been trying to eat better and exercise more regularly. I snorted a few lines of blow about a week ago and looking back, I realize what a bad idea that was. So I'm trying to monitor my substance/drinking use as well.
/r/seduction08/10/13 07:26 PM
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And done, thanks for that.
/r/seduction07/10/13 04:10 AM
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To be fair, some phones allow you to see when someone has read your text or you theirs.
/r/seduction06/10/13 11:15 PM
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Just because he doesn't agree with what the guy is saying, doesn't make him some virgin loser. Everyone has a somewhat different approach when it comes to seduction.
/r/seduction06/10/13 05:54 PM
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I feel this article sums it up pretty well
/r/seduction26/08/13 12:24 AM
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My bad 77 cents, not 75... Edit: To further back my statistics
/r/seduction07/08/13 08:12 PM
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You are ignorant if you think sexism no longer occurs in first world countries and especially if you think men are raped as often as women. Sure, women tend to face much more oppression in third world countries, but even in America, men still enjoy certain privileges that women don't (e.g. for every dollar a man makes, on average women make about 75 cents for the same position). Men do have to deal with gender induced bullshit, but to say that men and women are treated equally now is like saying…
/r/seduction07/08/13 06:55 PM
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Well if you really want to get into the political aspect of it, the truth is, men and women are still not treated equally. This is not to say that all men are sexist pigs but in our society, we sometimes enjoy certain privileges that women don't. Plus, statistically, women are far more likely to be raped or sexually harassed than men, which is why some of them are always keeping their guard up. I believe that most men out there are good people and not violent rapists, but part of being a PUA is …
/r/seduction07/08/13 05:00 PM
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Maybe so, but those people don't reflect his views and shouldn't prevent you from enjoying his material. Besides, there are all sorts of extremists out there, but they are the minority. It is unlikely that most fans of Louis CK regard this to be true of all men.
/r/seduction07/08/13 04:46 PM
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You're taking the clip too seriously, Louis CK was only saying the things he said for comedic value. I highly doubt he believes that all men are 'dangerous rapists'.
/r/seduction07/08/13 05:42 AM
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Has nothing to do with liberal or conservative, it's meant to be comedic in nature and poke fun at certain social circumstances. What OP is trying to get at is that women will act cautiously around men they just meet because they know that some men only talk to them in hopes that they will get lucky and otherwise have no interest in them. And then there are others who are survivors of rape or other forms of sexual assault.
/r/seduction07/08/13 05:36 AM
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Some merit to this, but the guy who wrote it sounds like a majorly conceited douchebag.
/r/seduction14/02/13 07:19 PM
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