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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Affection whore		blueeeekat	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/20 09:01 PM

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11	Beware of 'moody' men Oh my god. Me and and my friend both experienced something like this. Though in both cases, thankfully there were no abusive behaviour. But other than that, their up and down affecting their perception of the relationship, them being shockingly selfish when theyre in a bad state and how everything seems fine and almost amazing if theyre in a good mood. Also plus the emotional labour. Me and my friend were willing to be there for them when they had down days but they rarely did the same or when t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/21 07:17 PM
12	Things like this are becoming more and more common. Squeeze in the wrong area of the neck and she easily could have gotten real brain damage (from the lack of oxygen). Be careful out there ladies. Ok seriously this is fucking ridiculous. I am more dominant and ive had men ask me to put my hand on their neck. Out of EVERYTHING i have done, this is the only thing i am not a huge fan of because theres potential to actually harm the other person. And whenever i do it, i do it lightly to make sure its SAFE because if the other person wants me to do it harder, they can just ask. But i never want anyone to feel in danger or actually cause physical harm. ESPECIALLY to someone i care about. Like w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/21 01:57 PM
2	First, I laughed. Then, took a screenshot. Bruh... i read this like 5 times and it is still very baffling. 😂 Like i cant imagine how someone would think that this is "charming" or even a normal way to approach someone. Even if the guy is smoking hot, reading that message is gonna make my vagina disappear into nothingness.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/21 06:07 PM
1	Affection whore That is a good point and very true. I love him because he does meet my "needs" in every other area. He is very sweet and kind, fun to be around (personality compatibilty), he is a homebody and he has good family values. It is also very rare (for me at least) to meet someone like him. That is also why i ask myself whether im expecting too much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 05:15 PM
1	Affection whore Not ultimately. I thought it was telling women to set appropriate standards. Like some examples ive heard are like; If youre an average looking overweight woman, dont expect to have a high tier man That sorta thing. At least what i understood was like men like an attractive woman and they want sex. I admit im not 10/10 but i do have a high sex drive. A lot of red pill videos i watched spoke about men in relationships or marriages who cant get sex because the girl stopped caring etc. But yeah, th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/20 09:43 PM
1	Are age gap relationships like mine really that gross? Persobally i think it is alright since you are both adults. I can see that some people voice out the issue of manipulation and 1. That can happen the other way around as well if the woman is older 2. Manipulation can happen despite age differences. It can also happen that an older more financially stable man gets manipulated by a younger female. So all in all, i feel like you just need to be careful with. And in terms of mamipulation on your part, a stranger online wouldnt be able to give a viab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/20 09:13 PM
1	For feminist, blue pill, or pink pill women: How do the views that some of the men on this sub hold make you feel, and how does it affect your view of men? I think im kinda sympathize for them. Overgeneralizations are considered a heuristic. A mental shortcut so less brain power is spent. Not going to deny its an effective evolutionary survival tool in helping humans avoid dangerous animals like snakes and spiders. But like people hold such inflexible beliefs, i just feel like theyre either lazy to explore ideas or scenarios that dont come to mind as easily, or just havent had enough experience. While i do not deny, some people might have been unlu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 05:28 PM
1	If you could go back and give you're 12 year old self a talking on reality of sex and relationships/lifes insanity in general as you see it as an adult what kind of talk would you give yourself? I am very curious whether you have an interesting story about the sunscreen part xD. Same with me though. If I knew that was going to help with anti aging, definitely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 05:10 PM
1	If you could go back and give you're 12 year old self a talking on reality of sex and relationships/lifes insanity in general as you see it as an adult what kind of talk would you give yourself? Thats very good advice. I wish someone had told my bf that 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 05:05 PM
1	If you could go back and give you're 12 year old self a talking on reality of sex and relationships/lifes insanity in general as you see it as an adult what kind of talk would you give yourself? Id say: Its okay to be afraid, and this fear will never go away permanently but youll learn to control it as you get much stronger. Things will get better... stop hoping it will get better overnight. It will take around a decade but they will get better. Dont feel disheartened if you arent seen as pretty or beautiful. Puberty is going to hit you hard in the face. Only in the face tho, stop hoping for boobs. Edit: also, dont feel bad if theyre not interested in you just because of your looks. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 04:58 PM
2	Sex - Big Deal or not? How do you feel about it? Thats actually refreshing to hear. Some people on here are just spouting the idea that all men want is sex and the hotter the better. But i know this isnt the general population... or at least i hope not 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 04:31 PM
1	Sex - Big Deal or not? How do you feel about it? That is actually a good analogy. But when you said "if the food is good" allow me to propose mine: Its like eating at home and both you and the other person cooks. The food will depend on how well both parties can cook. If one person can cook well enough to save the mess caused by the other then maybe its not so bad hahaha. Anyway, i think to me its still something special. At first i felt that it was special and only wanted to do it with my first partner. But then no one really showed any inter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 04:28 PM
0	Q4W: If the burden of approaching, persistence and courting was on you, how would you handle it? Im going to answer in the perspective of dating because I 100% of the time reject hookups. Ive only said yes to people who want a relationship. It depends on if I have the knowledge I do now. As a woman, I've never actually outright rejected a man (not counting those people who are looking for one night stands in clubs because im not into that). Only 2, maybe 3 years ago i spoke about this to my friends and apparently there have been guys giving me "hints". I was just too dumb to notice. And at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 04:11 PM
2	The PurplePill Debate Matchmaking Thread Ikr! I like his style. Rewatched so much of his stuff i feel like i memorized too much. i blurt out george carlin references inappropriately at times	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 11:29 PM
3	The PurplePill Debate Matchmaking Thread Ah i love george carlin. 👌🏼	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 11:06 PM
1	Where do you disagree with the Redpill? Haha. Well it depends on what sort of women theyre trying to get. nothing against it though 😊	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 09:27 PM
2	Where do you disagree with the Redpill? Both. I like how those traits sort of (not always) drive people to do the sweetest things. Those are also traits i admire since being emotionally sensitive and some feminine traits is something that i wish i had more. Of course i understand that this is on a very individual basis. I dont believe that opposites attract but i do believe in balance and compatibility. So i can see that maybe the majority of women dont have my preference. And i dont mean submissive just in the BDSM sense. I mean like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 09:26 PM
1	Where do you disagree with the Redpill? That make more sense. Thank you for explaining. I think people just really want to use it but dont know how to haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 09:18 PM
1	18f ask me a question I agree 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 01:22 PM
1	Women 18-24, would a man having no online social media presence be a turn-off/dealbreaker for you? Nah. I kinda lead a double life so it'd be a good thing. Now my bf's parents added me on facebook and I just home they don't decide to start a conversation with my parents and let all hell break loose	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 01:19 PM
5	Where do you disagree with the Redpill? The part where men act like theyre too important for women. I dont know if this is redpill but i saw some redpill pick up artists talk about how negging works. I feel like it just comes off as rude. I actually like it when a male is more feminine (sensitive, more of a homebody, submissive). I agree with the general phenomena of how women want security and men want sex. And some of the mindgames and entitlement of women do make me cringe but i see it	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 01:16 PM
2	Hey Ladies, just a reminder to not post personal pics to your FDS username. The Scrotes are extra mad and are sending around “compilation” pictures of FDS members. 🙄 And theyre all really pretty women lol. I dont really get it. Reading the title, I thought this was supposed to somewhat mock fds. But when i saw the pics i was like... "okay cool... theyre pretty" Its funny like... compare this with an incel compilation 😂 wouldnt touch that with a 6ft pole.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/20 01:09 PM
9	Our expectations aren’t unreasonable In summary: do kind things. Urgh some guys cant even do the bare minimum 🙄. My ex felt like he didnt need to do this because he had a big dick . Not wrong but sex wasnt even good 🤦‍♀️. Hurt most all the time. I guess him being a cunt dried up mine	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/20 01:51 AM
3	32 ? His triple chin says 52😂😂 Omg Tbh a part of me wants to give him the benefit of the doubt. But only because i know a lot if men who age fucking terribly. They look 2 decades older than their same aged women counterparts. And this is so ironic since "men like younger women" 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/20 10:55 AM
1	Why do people use online dating to look for LTR partners? This is a good point. But this can also apply to dating people in your social circle. At first people put their best foot forward. Thats why its important to establish boundaries early on and look at the person and relationship (from acquaintance) with a critical eye. I think it was easier for me as a below average women because men who would want hookups wouldnt choose to talk to me anyway. Ps. Had been with my bf for more than a year. Spent time with hjs family. Going to live together soon. Me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/20 07:27 AM
2	I'm so sick of people who are ageist against women, even in their 20s and 30s! Lana del rey is 34! Wow 😲 Idk if its just my bi-ness but ive had crushes on older women because theyre still hot And i agree. I dont get the idea of hitting the wall at 25. I have friends in their late 20s and early thirties and they still get IDed buying alcohol. My mom is not 50 and the only sign of her age is her hair but she wears a headscarf so you can't tell. On the other hand I feel like men age faster. Its like for every year they age by 5 years 😂 I guess men who have the idea of women h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/20 02:27 PM