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bluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:17 AM
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bluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:48 PM
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Question For Womenbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:12 PM
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bluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:52 PM
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Question For Womenbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:03 PM
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Question For Womenbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:23 PM
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bluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:52 PM
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CMVbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:38 AM
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CMVbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:59 AM
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Question For Womenbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:21 PM
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Question For Menbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:26 PM
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CMVbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:35 PM
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bluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:27 PM
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Question For Womenbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:20 PM
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bluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:25 PM
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Question For Menbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 01:27 AM
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bluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:12 PM
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bluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:32 PM
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Question For Menbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 11:08 PM
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bluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:59 AM
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bluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:36 AM
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CMVbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:30 PM
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CMVbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:56 PM
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Question For Womenbluefiremagic/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:35 PM
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They are not more pedohilic than women are lots of women love younger guys. The most attractive that men and women are is their 20s and afterwards it all goes downhill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 10:58 PM
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Only once I new a man who was rapes by a woman it rare but it happeneds
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 10:55 PM
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I think finically reasons wouldn’t gain sympathy form men since married people are expecting to work through it. Abuse is a sympathetic reason but it is more often the finical reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:48 PM
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Do you think that most of your success with women have been more about your looks or your game. I’m very blackpill leaning and suspicious of game. How attractive would you say you are are you a chad. I have never meet a guy that slept around with lots of girls and wasn’t a chad or chadlite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:31 AM
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They argue that the social and economic pressures of a traditional society will encourages people to marry younger and will make women less picky about looks.They will bring up the baby boomers generation and how any guys even uglier ones were able to easily marry off and increase the fertility rate.I don’t how to feel about I find difficult to believe unless we are talking about some type of arraigned marriage society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 10:26 PM
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It is very commonly accepted now to believe looks matter a lot. Almost everyone that I ask agrees only my parents say it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 01:03 AM
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Hmm so it is the single mothers that are keeping the fertility high interesting theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:43 AM
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thx for the link
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:40 AM
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We’re was that I couldn’t find it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 05:54 AM
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You do know that okcupid is not the only source to prove that dating is hard for men. Don’t you think the reason that men are messaging women more attractive then themselves it is because almost every girl is more attractive than they are and their are few women to even start with that doesn’t prove that men are more hypergamous.Also if women are Choosing men similar in their looks that doesn’t mean much since most men are not a similar looks level to women. I tired of people denying that men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 05:40 AM
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I think this sounds more unique for you. So if you meet a very attractive chad looking guy and he asked to hookup with you would not want to. I do think that it isn’t just sex drive but 3 other factors. 1 men are psychically stronger so raping them is more difficult. 2 there are few sexual attractive men and many sexual attractive women so women are unlikely to need to rape. 3 women prefer the more passive role off a male persuading them before they feel sexual attraction at which point the guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:08 PM
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From people watching I have seen that what people find attractive looking is near universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:29 AM
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Mostly similar but their sexuality are different only a few guys are attractive looking to women the opposite is the case for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:27 AM
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What about as a hookup would it still bother you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:44 AM
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Look up the articles they posted on negging and dread is literally just like a pua guideline. You will find it under RP tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 12:13 AM
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You haven’t read enough their is much more than that the tactics are equally as manipulative as any PUA just with different goals in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:02 PM
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Are you okay with gay men checking you out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:10 AM
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I don’t know I know many blackpilled alpha guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 01:26 AM
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I think the universal personality trait that is attractive in men is having masculine behavior and in women it is feminine behavior. However I feel looks matter much more to women than masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 11:12 PM
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The sexless is caused by economic reasons and also men just looking ugly their are few women that actually care at all if their partner watches porn or not unless they watch it to a very very excessive amount
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 06:07 PM
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How is it an incels fault that he is ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:36 AM
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When you are with a partner yes it is not it is similar because in both you are gaining stimulus from someone other than your partner. If you ask of your partner not to watch porn you should also give up Romance novels how is that to difficult to understand. Being unwilling makes you look like you want them to make sacrifices that you aren’t willing to make yourself. The romance novels aren’t real that much about romance as it a way for girl to imagine a tall muscular handsome to fuck her and en…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:33 AM
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It hypocritical to be against your partner watching porn and also read romance novels. Their is lots of violent Romance novel that do depict graphic material. Wear are you getting this 80% number it is probably only in the dark web that you find any of the this you just mentioned 99% percent of the porn that mainstream viewers can access are nothing live that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:17 AM
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If you walked in on her you may find out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:11 AM
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You could find out about eventual if you walk in on her while you she is doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:08 AM
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You aren’t going to convince in mass to stop having sex not realistic at all the most psychically attractive men will always find a large amount of women to sleep with them because it is hard to not have sexual temptation when a good looking man tries to sleep with I’m sure it is possible for some but not everyone. Their only few very wealthy men in the world and most women aren’t going to find a non abusive kind. Most likely only the most attractive women in the world have any chance of marryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:16 PM
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WTF?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 10:47 PM
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But like women are allowed to watch porn see isn’t fair enough anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:30 PM
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Why her being a cam girl give her pleasure but watching porn doesn’t I have known far more women that enjoyed porn than being a cam girl. Porn star don’t know anything about their consumer you can’t claim they are really gaining pleasure from them the enjoy getting money from like buy groceries from a clerk. She may feel pleasure from who she is preforming with but not the consumer. This also pretty meaningless argument since most women don’t even care if their partner watches porn and most wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:20 PM
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There a section on how to emotionally detach themselves after sleeping with guys that aren’t committing to them. It is strange because these same women claim to be above that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:20 PM
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No because the wife is pleasing other men the guy that is watching porn isn’t pleasuring the porn star. You can make the argument the wife can watch porn to but you can’t make this strange comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:11 PM
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Not what I meant but don't you feel good when they tell you they find you you attractive does it not improve your self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:39 PM
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Did you like the attention 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:15 AM
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Most incel don’t believe any of the things you just said
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:38 AM
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You like the attention right 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:04 PM
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What kinda muscles?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:54 PM
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Mental disability can be a hindrance their a thing called mentalcel. However that doesn’t mean that a chad level guy need an amazing personality just not a disturbed or Shitty one. Incels are about looks just accept and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:57 AM
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Are men better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:30 AM
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Not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:30 AM
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This post is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:22 AM
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It has always been that way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:34 AM
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This is very good question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:31 AM
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I have to ask for women who actually do believe this why aren’t you get a 19 year old right now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:24 AM
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I mean everyone hits the wall eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:22 AM
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Also in all this you never made a single point on why incels should be dismissed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:21 AM
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Both sides are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:19 AM
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Boi
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:14 AM
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Gay men are attracted to muscules and women are attracted to muscles. Women aren’t going to approach like a gay guy would because women want men to approach them before they feel that attraction but looks are very important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:12 AM
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He look natural
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:06 AM
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Hot!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:00 AM
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Not my experience here it seem very equal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:55 PM
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I mean I meet a nurse that sleeps around and that is a very demanding job. I guess being busy will take up a lot of time wouldn’t the same rule apply to men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:15 PM
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Are you saying women with good jobs aren’t having sex why would your job kill your sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:11 PM
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Yes on separate moments and at one at a time. I'm talking about things like 3-some.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:53 PM
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I don’t disagree but I don’t why this is the case if sleeping with one guy that is attractive feels okay. why wouldn’t more than one feel the same if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:09 PM
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But would you even sleep with them at the same time that is the question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:45 PM
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No because sleeping with multiple partners on separate occasions feels normal but doing so at the same time does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:44 PM
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Like threesomes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:42 PM
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Based on what do you think eastern women would act that much differently definitely not more submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:15 PM
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Would you fuck ever time she asked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:21 AM
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It would surprise me because he looks so natural
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:06 AM
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What makes you believe he took roids
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:57 AM
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https://youtu.be/G-OwsRdYXjo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:41 AM
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Yeah but wouldn’t it be like giving another guy your sloppy seconds and cucking him , would you feel a bit guilty about it or not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:28 AM
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Let’s say she does what do you do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:43 PM
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Blaire White
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:10 PM
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No you want a lot of sons so they can all grow up to be fuckboys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:07 PM
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Hard to claim that when women themselves claim this as true as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:01 PM
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The question is do you like it when women make you pay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:59 PM
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Orgasm gap happens because men don’t how to have sex correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:57 PM
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Awww thx 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:53 PM
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I will love you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:52 PM
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Does it work or no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:48 PM
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But are you attracted to that do you like it when a woman makes you pay even when married. Would you want woman that wants to be treated like a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:44 PM
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Men don’t care if you don’t look like a model the will date you as long as you are decent looking women will only date you if you look like a model you just can’t compare the two situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:40 PM
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For men more attractive looking for a LTR yes they can be very picky
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:49 PM
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If you did that but afterwards she found a guy who did pay for it and gave commitment how would it make you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:42 PM
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Desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:34 PM
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Honestly men don’t expect that much in women looks as long as a women is not obese they are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:22 PM
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I mean it isn’t abuse if she wanted and enjoyed it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:53 PM
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What doesn’t make sense though is that this from female dating strategy were women there claim that they are in complete control of men and choose only high value men and make men provide for them shouldn’t this problem never come up since they shouldn’t even be attracted to a fuck boy that doesn’t commit because they claim these men are low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:15 AM
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This isn’t even an incel joke
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:33 PM
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It proves that a relationship would be better for them than only sex but you can’t argue women do not gain pleasure from sleeping with a chad studies show the contrary. http://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.700.6600&rep=rep1&type=pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:23 AM
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Estrogen has correlated with rise in sex drive in women because in creates vaginal lubrication
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:10 AM
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Make up and clothing are only a small part of attraction they are used to make your form more attractive. Sure maybe women are expected to be more fashionable but this probably do to their being limits to how much fashion and makeup can actually improve a man form. But you don’t realize that how your body looks is far more important than the close you were. I know that women have it easier time dating precisely because beauty exception are far higher for men than women just not the fashion part …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 03:21 PM
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All of this seem like a fair enough criticism until you mention that women have a lower self esteem because of unrealistic standards of beauty. No men have a it much harder when it come looks when it comes to dating and develop a lot of self image disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 03:08 AM
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Yes but in major cities their are far more richer men then there are rich women it makes more sense to market it to men than women. Even in major cities were a chad is more common they are still outnumbered by women but that doesn't that their is not a market for it either many just assume that it wouldn't work but doesn't mean that a market couldn't potentially be their. Australia however has been very successful at this however. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HXCoBhvOS1k
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 03:01 PM
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Not true maybe not ugly women but average women yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 02:51 PM
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If that is enough for you to believe that why aren’t women aren’t making the first move for a relationship either. It isn’t just sex you need to make the first move it is love to. When women are pursued by men a attractive guy can get a good amount to have one night stands if they didn’t like sex out of relationship this wouldn’t happen at all it would be impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 10:30 PM
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All that you said seem to prove that that women want to be pursued before they feel sexual desire but doesn't prove that it is only in a relationship that they want sex. Just because you like guys to make the first doesn't mean that you don't like one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:36 PM
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Not there wouldn't not be more male prostitute with a demand for chad since there are only a very few chad level men. There are successful male gigolo that chads level but the thing most women wouldn't need to pay for it since they could get it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:32 PM
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FDS believes that men are fundamentally flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:23 PM
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This is objectively not true many redpillers do have an idea of a high quality women. Also just because female dating strategy like some men doesn’t mean they don’t have a general hatred for most of them. Plus they do attribute men with having a bad nature. What they see as high quality is usually whatever is useful towards themselves anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:22 PM
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Did the study say that men only contacted the top 33 percent of women and completely ignored the rest or did it just say it favored them. You say that women will still pursue them for other traits but how often does this occur I don't doubt that it happens but how often are we talking about. Are you trying to say the only reason that men struggle is because they choose women out of their league that sound just factually wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:43 AM
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I mean the TRP talks about sex but they are not against having a long term partner and you can find advice on that as well. Many advice against marriage because they fear divorce not because they think sex is all that matter. A lot of men would love to settle down and get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:15 PM
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If you want a female equivalent to the redpill look up female dating strategy and shera7 were she outlined being a gold digger. Look up lesbian separatism and turfs. the best channel I can think for this is Terri strange she literally made a shire dedicated to the author of the scum manifesto and believes in it wholeheartedly even the more violent elements. For laughs look up the pussy church of witchcraft they aren’t so much hatful as just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:20 PM
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So women have the same option to use men for there money without any feelings for them just because you don’t feel right using someone doesn’t mean you can’t. Besides men don’t really have the options to use women for sex unless they are very good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:43 PM
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Have you read the SCUM Manifesto
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:52 AM
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The phrase enjoy the decline is meant to be sarcastic be RP is not supposed to be pleasant. It can be argued that women can actually love men either. Don't know why you feel the need to give up on men why not try and get the most that you can possibly can from them. Endless you just prefer being single which is okay to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:42 AM
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Incels are BlackPilled. I feel more sympathy for them since they feel ugly and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:20 AM
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That is kinda true to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:17 AM
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what part
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:27 AM
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FDS is more like PUA. FDS is still pretty bad though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:26 AM
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High attention seeking and low inhibitions and being a Alpha Widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:19 PM
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Which ones
/r/BlackPillScience27/04/20 01:29 AM
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Why though
/r/BlackPillScience27/04/20 01:26 AM
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In order from greats to smallest looks,money,status,personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:42 PM
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That go back to my argument of different moment being more social acceptable to ask for sex. Maybe these guys need to do a bit more work impressing her because the setting was less acceptable however this really seem only a minor set back. Women what men to impress them but it has only a little to with behavior and more to do with looks. Men sex drive can also be hindered by self confidence that is way performance anxiety is so come and occurs even with a attractive women. Likewise the impressio…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:34 PM
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In this studies what was the definition of a attractive male. Men often overrate how attractive they are. Social setting matter only because their are some settings were it feel more social awkward than others for men to approach but I think even then if the guy is very good looking it wouldn’t make such a large difference. Also are you sure the reason that these women say that behavior is what is important to them may be so that they look less shallow than if they admitted that looks were what …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:07 PM
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Women reject men of different race far more than men reject women of different race look at Asian and Indian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:22 AM
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Men are just ignorant of how much looks matter that is why they place less effort on there looks. So your theory that men are grossly overestimating their attractiveness is the most accurate. This doesn't contradict the red pill is what I go with. Also it could be the it is less social acceptable for men to show that they worry about there looks and actuality know how important it is and are hiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:41 AM
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I think you are confusing not knowing with not caring
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:28 AM
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The WW3 wasn't meant to be taken as a serious advice no would actual ever want to do that just for the off chance to make more babies. The economic trend of the 50's were a result of the economic impact of WW2 that is why I made the analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:18 AM
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I don’t think you realize how untraditional the roaring 20s were. A sexual revolution was occurring with the flappers of 20s the women would sleep around a lot , look up petting parties most people don’t know the kinda stuff going while y’all gramma was alive. The 20s didn’t have a high birth rate either. You may say that traditionalism restricts hypergamy however the success of this with also depend on the socioeconomic of a nation. Every family wants there children to marry and have children b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:46 PM
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https://youtu.be/_kAC3R0o-Gc She wrote an books on being a excellent gold digger and how to manipulate men into giving you money. The books are ; “I’m to pretty to bills a gold digger guide “ and “I bring nothing to the table a level up concept.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:03 PM
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Basically the female equivalent of a beta male. Mostly use my women such shera7 that say it is a sign of weakness in women to not use men for there money that all self respecting women ought to be gold digger. That you should never split the bill with men but instead always make him pay for everything dates housing bill even if you make more than him. Also dating or marrying a poor man is also considered pickmeshia. Women like this tell women that pussy is naturally expensive and that you should…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:54 PM
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I don’t know we’re you got any of these conclusions from what I said and you are missing the point this post is making. No one is telling to be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:32 PM
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Actually I got this from the opposite source really my RP and BP instinct would say a chad would have no trouble with giving women orgasm. I got this idea BP types talking about the orgasm gap among women and women talking in the real world saying that men are not satisfying them and aren’t doing enough for women’s pleasure. So that drove me into thinking 🤔. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:00 PM
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How long did you try
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:33 PM
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A strange conclusion to make to say that If homosexual could change their sexuality they should. They enjoy the same sex if you can filled fulfillment with the same sex why should they care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:30 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 11:54 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 11:01 PM
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I not arguing against marrying a virgin if you want to by all mean do it. But don’t act like that this isn’t a sacrifice for you that you should not give her respect for doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:55 PM
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What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:45 PM
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You are the only one that gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:35 PM
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The only way that you can argue that there is no sacrifice involved in choosing to be a Virgin is if there is absolutely no pleasure involved in sleeping around like a little slut. But I showed that it is fun being slutty, therefore not being a slut is a sacrifice made for the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:25 PM
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Many women report have orgasms with attractive men it is not just down to being dumb. If sex was so unappealing women would stop after there first cock but the don’t because sex feels good. Here is a bit of evidence. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886915001002 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23006745/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:05 PM
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You really think men motivate for picking virgins is for the girl’s happiness. No they do it because the find it gross that other guys we’re giving her the D. Do you have any reason to believe that a women wouldn’t be happy in life if she doesn’t remain virgin until marriage seem like a stretch. It could be argued also that men that provide more to their wife and children are happier therefore by your logic they aren’t making a sacrifice because they are get happiness from it. Women remaining a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:15 PM
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I meant to say TO MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:53 PM
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Well doesn’t the fact that so many women become hoes prove that it is not always easy for women to keep her legs closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:02 PM
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It would be a sacrifice for men to be virgins if women felt as strongly about it as men. They don’t they care if he is a virgin or not that is a mans concern only. Therefore it is a women’s gift to men. Women on the other hand value and man that provides for her while men don’t care if their women provides for him. Therefore money is men’s gift to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:44 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:41 PM
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Women get aroused by visual stimuli they just usually need a guy that is making a move on them to trigger it first because they are more sexually passive. Look I’m not saying the men and women have the same libido but if a hot guy was trying to seduce a girl I don’t doubt that temptation is unlikely look at sorority girls. Even if there isn’t a strong inner need for sex in women to have sex doesn’t not mean that they wouldn’t find pleasure in sex with attractive men. Attractive men bring sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:36 PM
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If you are being tempted by a attractive man hitting on and he is arousing with he good looks but you deny him out of respect to your future husband that is a sacrifice of pleasure. She could be spend her youth experiencing having orgasms so how is that not a sacrifice. I’m not saying that it’s wrong to want a virgin but don’t act like it is always easy either. Especially because she doesn’t actually have to do it because she could always have the options of telling her husband that she is virgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:14 PM
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Social economic status help but I’m mainly referring to good looking men. Knight has some wealth but we’re tall and muscular. Casanova was rich but 6 feet tall and described as having the body of Hercules even at some point meet some emperor that noted his good look. I’m a strong believer looks matter In my examples women were not payed to sleep with them their was no marriage involved the women just want to fuck around with them even though their cultural and family had puritanical views on sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:30 PM
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But that sound more like a problem with women rather than feminism it self. Also I don't many women that want and old man unless it is a sugar daddy. They like and a guy around the same age as themselves usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:10 AM
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I'm not sure if I completely agree In the middle ages their was strong shame on sex and peasant women still frequently slept with knights. Remember Casanova he slept with many women including the wives of nobles and nuns was even arrested for this during the height of the Victorian era with highly restrictive sexual morality. I do think that more traditionalist culture restrict the extent that women are allow to congregate with men limiting the access to women but when high tier men will still b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:49 AM
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Gay men will pose as women in order to lore straight men into sending them nudes and sexting. When there is no chance for them to catfish there isn't a reason for them to want to pretend they are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:29 PM
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Out of any place in the world this is were you are least likely to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:43 AM
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Is that realistic option for men to have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:58 AM
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Yes but you still would her in her prime of attractiveness. You just got get over the fact a lot of guys out there have done the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:54 AM
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Its different for every guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:51 AM
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All you sure that isn't because they aren't to busy having sex to go do chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:03 AM
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You secretly love it though, guys love a tease
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:58 AM
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LOL what
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:54 AM
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go use tinder I'm assuming you are a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:52 AM
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I feel because under certain circumstance it make sexual advances is more expected and socially acceptable so women my we are receptive to it than. Do you really think that rapport matter that much at some level must initiate women and court impress them but isn't really just being attractive looking. Don't you think that by being good looking you can flirt with any girl and she will want you. Are you sure one night stands at bar are not frequent don't you think and good looking guy with very ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:49 AM
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Does that work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:43 AM
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Links I haven't found one yet I know It's true from common sense but I prefer to see a article that actually said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:55 PM
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I have never found a study mentioning were people are find one nightstand only that they are. I trying to see if anyone has any evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:52 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:47 PM
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At bars and on dating apps sex is brought up very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:46 PM
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Well if you listen to Incel's chad can't go anywhere without women throwing themselves at him grabbing onto his legs and being dragged about as he goes about his day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:44 PM
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At work at the grocery store Starbucks asking random people on the street the library etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:41 PM
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Would you marry a girl like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:07 PM
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I think the reason this maybe is that a women may still remember her past experience and remember them to fondly and now hold her husband to a standard that is to high to reach he need to be better than all the guys in her past combined. However I feel women still have a strong level of choice on how much she can let her past experience guide her current relationship if she choose to. Also do this studies say who placed the divorce the husband and the wife it maybe the case that in the beginning…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:51 PM
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My opinion on the matter is that while being a chad will increase the chances of you getting approach I still think regardless of what you look like men have to approach women to build attraction however when they do approach their success will depend 99% on their looks not how the chose to approach. While women are not being chased by chad they remain somewhat asexual and rarely think of sex or dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 02:25 PM
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Another thing I forget to ask what about when you are online but not on a dating app are you still hit by stranger like on Facebook Instagram or Even here on Reddit. Have you been hit on by people you knew on these places.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 02:30 AM
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Another thing I forget to ask was what about when you are online but not on a dating app are you still hit by stranger like on Facebook Instagram or Even here on Reddit. Have you been hit on by people you knew on these places.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 02:29 AM
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Another thing I forget to ask what about when you are online but not on a dating app are you still hit by stranger like on Facebook Instagram or Even here on Reddit. Have you been hit on by people you knew on these places.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 02:28 AM
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Another thing I forget to ask was what about when you are online but not on a dating app are you still hit by stranger like on Facebook Instagram or Even here on Reddit. Maybe even by guy you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 02:27 AM
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I see from what is said that catcalling is something done more in cities than anywhere else however I feel much of the guys that do catcall in cities tend to be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 02:07 AM
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In the past straight men would avoid going to gay clubs at all cost in fear of being seen as gay however now that being is seen less negatively more straight men go then they use to. Also alot of straight guys prefer to go there because they know that women are there and feel that they will better chances their than at a regular bar because there is less competition. I have also heard gay men complain about the fact that their are now to many straight men their and many of these straight guy wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:27 AM
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I’m a gay guy and I have never had trouble getting another guy from wanting to have sex with me. I know straight men that date girls that wouldn’t have sex with them I have never heard something like that happen in a gay relationship. The only way you struggle seducing if you are gay is if you are very ugly fat or old but if your just normal looking you fuck when ever you want. If your very attractive you border lined worshiped. The only draw back is while your young is you my live in a homophob…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:19 AM
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I’m just a poor boy, I need no sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:37 PM
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caught in a landslid no escape from reality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:30 PM
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I said in real life not online
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:27 PM
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Lol. Yah catcalling happens but how often do you see a cat caller that is a male model a lot are kinda ugly. I don't see catcalling happen that much either I think that it use to be more frequent but even than men seem afraid to do that. I don't know why that could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:01 PM
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Do women not enjoy sex Is because it’s painful or just Not enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:31 AM
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How do women behave differently are this differences what you find attractive anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:23 AM
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Men are psychical strong so are more likely to act violently and cruelly because we can get away with it more. European Queen have started wars as frequently as kings had the fact that wars have been mostly caused by men is do to women not have the power to do so in the past. Both men and women are both equally good and equally bad when on the same playing field. There isn’t this part of women that is inherently more moral than men. Regardless of what Valerie Solanas or Eliot Rodger say in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:21 AM
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The only deal breaker for me is that you are over weight other than that I wouldn’t have a problem sleeping and dating you not you’d want to since I’m a guy and all. Ever tell your more attractive friend about your problems maybe he can set you up with one of his women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:12 AM
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Average rate that you make is 4 dollars a minute now imagine a hour long session.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:00 PM
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If you tell them you are straight but still going cam for and they actually believe you they will pay you money for it fucking a straight guy is a big turn for them. However it really depends on how good looking you are it helps a lot if you have a deep voice some muscular build. However to make a lot of money you need a very good body. If a guy like Murphy tried this he wouldn’t need to work ever again these men can make money of it in the 1000s. I knew a case of a guy that made 35,000 after 5 …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:52 PM
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They are more accepting of looks. however not of beings to sexual if you give it up to easily been with many men in the past a lot of guy wouldn’t be as interested as in you. I don’t think it’s fair but men are like that. However I feel that a lot of men will catch feelings from sleeping with a highly attractive women regardless though not always. This is why I feel that women that sleep around have a higher tendency to catch feelings because the men the choose to sleep tend to be very attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:24 PM
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I mean you can do that just cater it to gay men and you will make lots of if you look cute don’t have to even sleep with or look at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:13 PM
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so then men are more introvert?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:21 PM
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How would feel about women trying to chase you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:02 PM
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This is my view on the matter no women don’t get the validation like men however the can still find pleasure with a guy they really liked and have fond memories of the psychical experience with him. Not in like a pornographic way but still in a way that makes her feel happy. What do other women think I’m I wrong did you enjoy your previous sexual encounters or do regret them all let me know I’m curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:53 AM
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For me it isn't that but for many guys it does. I think the matter should be seriously considered as a mental health concern and some level of compassion should be shown to men with sexual frustration. However its not like getting raped and murder a lot of these guy are freaks that don't know shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:13 PM
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Wrong because while money helps their are still limits to how much it can help not every man can be rich. Looks can still be a problem even with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:01 PM
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I'm what you would call a red pill/ black pill type of guy and I will say that their isn't anything wrong with either I will only have an issue if their is dishonest. I would oppose it if a the women lied about being a slut and about entering the relationship for money. Men typically don't want a woman that has been fucked by many chads but if he knows what he is getting into that's his choice. And if a woman can find a guy like that let her have her cake and eat it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:16 AM
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I'm IRL men will also try and hookup with women its just not as obvious. What exactly where looking for on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 10:21 PM
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Because there rich old men can get younger women. But honestly of course their are exceptions of beauty on men it just people don't talk about it cause its weird and depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 11:36 PM
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There are differences but but you have believe most women do want the same type of guy. Chad has a very specific definition its not just what you want to define it as it involves specific facial structure height frame and body proportion. The average women may know that she may not get a chad but that doesn't mean she would not still be willing to date down. Many would prefer to remain single there are a lot of women that are happily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:48 AM
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Reddit Why not try and sleep with her than decide if you still want her or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 08:50 PM
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You work at a stem company high income earners obviously that helps. As for the Indian part depending on we’re you live racist view are more prevalent than other area’s maybe were you live an Indian guy can get laid but not in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:29 PM
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How about men hitting on you online is that better or worse. I do understand how women will enjoy getting to know a guy before they decide to like them. However it’s harder to have girl try and get to know if you are physically repulsed by them which is very hard if you aren’t a jock. Even if it’s not with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:00 PM
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Honest question if he was very good looking do you think it would work for you or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:31 AM
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I feel that it will for many women but only if you are very attractive most women are very visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:30 AM
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The problem women have is that men are not as willing to commit to a women with a lot of sexual partners. This woman want to sleep around a bit with chads is and than marry later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 08:35 PM
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I think men want a girl with femininity as well as just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 03:07 PM
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Just because he wants to have sex eventually doesn’t make him a bad person. He can at the same want to love you and want to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 03:01 PM
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Every romantic relationship will eventually have sex in it even if you believe that sex should only happen when your married the fact that you are entering it a romantic relationship mean sex is at some point a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:54 PM
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Third one is not true men prefer not to marry sluts its just in their nature not saying sluts are bad people just guy aren't attracted to sluts for wife material. Though their are plenty of men that would marry slut. The last one being a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets that's accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:11 AM
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I"m a gay man and my biggest fear is falling for a straight guy so if I'm going to befriend a straight guy he has to be very ugly. I can't be friends with a chad I have had 3 chad friends and all of them where terrible experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 12:54 AM
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Would you be okay if you had a gay friend that that was attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 12:11 AM
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I have some questions on that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 12:09 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 01:19 AM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:41 AM
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I sympathize with the fact that women that sleep around will have a harder time getting a guy to commit to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 09:49 PM
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The first part you said is not true women can get sex from even high quality guys unless they are very ugly attractive men wouldn't mind sleeping with a average looking girl now commitment is a lot harder but not sex. As for TRP you can't really deny that masculine behavior is attractive to women in the same way that feminine behavior is attractive to men that isn't something that is contrast to self improvement. Lifting weights is something that is self improving that can help you attractive wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 09:47 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:44 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:37 PM
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Its not shock at all. What is shocking is so many deny this fact it true most women can about looks but unlike you they like to be denial that is what frustrates men. You are redpilled most women arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:49 PM
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honestly its hard to say. But I'm in inclined to say stacy only becuase the can find a rich husband and never have to work ever. But even chad cant profit from their smv like a stacy can women arent comfortable providing for more. Male prostitutes dont get as well paid as a stacy else it by other men gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:48 PM
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I think that both case can be true some women are single for riding the cc while other did have ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:44 PM
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no because if only a few high status men reproduce that their will be lower birth rates think of the 80/20 rule imagine only 20% of the population is having children their wont be enough labor to support society leading to economic failure. This is way arranged marriage has been practices for centuries to keep a balanced population. However with the start of the industrial revolution the birth rates have been on decline for the past 200 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:38 PM
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No not being good looking is the the main reason that they aren’t get laid it may not be impossible to get laid without being alpha but it sure is hard to without it. Plus most are only getting laid in commited relationship not casual sex like a lot of alpha are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:27 PM
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Hypergamy has 3 level look money and statues. Either way his argument is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:17 PM
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They are both factors that lead to promiscuity however because men most assure the parental certainty of their offspring the are inclined to prefer chaste women to prevent cuckoldry. Women can’t be cucked so don’t need to find a caste man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:14 PM
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It is because their are very few women that are truly ugly. Their is a wider variety of body types that men may find attractive than women. Most men are ugly few are attractive most women are attractive few are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:03 PM
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I have seen it happen many time even ugly girl refuse their looksmatch they would rather be alone than settle for a man that is not top tier. Plus their isn’t a equal number of ugly men to ugly women to find a true ugly women you really have to search hard for it. Femcels are a very rare thing. Most that claim the title aren’t actually femcels at all and probably could sleep with a chad without effort. Most men are ugly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 03:59 PM
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Unattractive girls also just want attractive men also men who are low value can’t even get ugly girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 03:50 PM
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Attractiveness Femininity being very ladylike Sexual purity men prefer virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 03:47 PM
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