bluehands Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	My Oldest Mentor In Game Talks About Pickup Your response is delightful because it shows you are completely unaware of the heavy focus on inner game, you didn't spend any time watching the link and you personify exactly one of the things he mentions: get rid of people around you that will try to make themselves look bigger by putting you down.	/r/seduction	12/01/17 01:47 AM
1	My Oldest Mentor In Game Talks About Pickup something about this response reminded me of Donald trump getting a small loan of a million dollars to start his business. You are in an entire subreddit that is focused on trying to be more fluid with approaching women. If you are surprised that some people feel a need for more guidance than "have fun!" you are not paying attention.	/r/seduction	11/01/17 06:50 AM
1	Any sedditors over 40? A woman is going to pick the 175 lb guy over the 250 lb guy every time, all else being equal. So, i agree with much of what you are saying but this line stuck out as a common misconception that I think most people have. There was a study done a short while ago that demonstrated this. When people rate women in photos for attractiveness the number is fairly consistent, however the number for men has a wider range. We just don't agree as much fundamentally what an attractive man looks like. There a…	/r/seduction	21/04/14 01:45 AM
21	This Craigslist Missed Connection really captures the feeling of not being able to approach. It's only approach anxiety on the surface. This is about the fear of true intimacy. I can't help but wonder if the 2 aren't deeply related to eachother for many people.	/r/seduction	08/08/13 07:42 PM
7	The Process, a guide for newbies I think, as is almost always the case, the middle way is the optimal path. Your response remind me of devote Muslims that feel if a woman leaves her head uncovered by a burqa she is being provocative, let alone if she is by herself and showing shoulders or thighs. They are hyper-sensitized to a woman's flesh. At the same time if you spend any time at a nudist colony, you become desensitized to naked flesh - which personally is a bit of a shame. In this case, you concern is in this realm in relat…	/r/seduction	24/01/13 03:55 PM
6	It's like I Have Oneitis for Every Girl! damn Shyamalan.	/r/seduction	22/01/13 02:10 PM
3	A little trick for bad AA wanna see my SAM?	/r/seduction	23/05/12 09:38 AM
9	My girlfriend's thoughts on game All of reddit?...at once? Awesome.	/r/seduction	23/05/12 05:18 AM
1	THIS is why you should be out getting numbers and asking girls out To me, the post in here is about setting the frame for those of us who are having a hard time talking to women while we are out. I know when I think of talking to a girl while I am out, asking a girl out, I feel like it is something tough, something hard, something that is fraught with negative emotions. But the above frame is about the fun & joy that this should be for everyone involved. When this is done right everyone is happier.	/r/seduction	03/05/12 12:48 AM
1	I don't think I can do this. so, you agree with the statement women WANT men who take the initiative or are women not people? btw, nice trolling.	/r/seduction	18/01/12 08:08 AM
2	I just dumped an HB10 because... I would submit that caring about people is in fact alpha.	/r/seduction	29/10/11 05:40 AM
20	This was just posted on a girl's tumblr. Sedditors take note. I was taking that as "I understand what is going on now and that will never happen to me unless I choose it."	/r/seduction	19/10/11 09:53 PM
2	a long thread of people criticizing seddit on reddit I don't know about you but I find speaking/typing "AA" much easier than "approach anxiety".	/r/seduction	18/07/11 01:56 PM
12	a long thread of people criticizing seddit on reddit I live in SF, it happens all the time...	/r/seduction	18/07/11 01:44 PM
1	a long thread of people criticizing seddit on reddit NO, YOU SHUT UP!!.... wait, i may have gotten that wrong...	/r/seduction	18/07/11 04:43 AM
2	Beta behavior to avoid Our brains are plastic. Blind people and get a sense of vision from their TONGUE - I think we can all learn how to have more natural conversations.	/r/seduction	15/07/11 04:22 AM
1	How to sexualize your dates it is far from that simple. Do you consider taking someone's photo without their permission or knowledge grossly unethical? I think clearly, in a public place, an audio recording is not beyond the pale in any regard. If you stop and think about it you are recorded very frequently throughout the day by countless cameras, one guy recording his interaction with people is tame.	/r/seduction	14/06/11 02:09 PM
2	[FR] Being a trooper: Kiss close HB8 stranger. Same-night pull HB2. Yes, HB2. Both are first-times for me in my home city. I think it is because we are identifying with a culture here, or at least a common lexicon. If i say "HB9" to someone and they know what I mean, I now have all sorts of information about the person I am talking with.	/r/seduction	13/06/11 10:53 AM
1	ROISSY MAXIMS more ethnically (genetically) diverse sexual partners = better according to biology. Only sometimes. The whole point of diversity is for those edge case when all the moths of a certain color will live.	/r/seduction	13/05/11 07:38 AM
2	First ever [FR]. HB8+AFC BF. No close, maintained control. only online.	/r/seduction	21/02/11 12:44 PM
2	For those who don't quite get it: weaknesses and insecurities are the emotional equivalent of genitalia. why would he show her your penis? I am confused!	/r/seduction	05/01/11 04:16 AM
1	A girl is texting me but I honestly can't remember which one she is. She could be one of three girls (2 were cute 1 was a 'grenade'.) Reverse cell phone lookup? totally. Step up and direct.	/r/seduction	21/11/10 10:25 AM
1	Don't have a place of my own - how's this gonna work? ...you think intj must be beta? Why? I assume it is going to be the "i" in that is your first reason, but I am curious to know your rational.	/r/seduction	17/11/10 09:34 AM
2	Making out with HB8's comes like second nature to me, but I can't seem to close for my life. The value I see in the HB scale is that it tells you what the reporter thinks of the girls he is discussing. HB8 tells us what he thinks - that she is a fairly hot woman but not mindbogglingly hot. (HB10) In this case for example,an excellent follow up question is, "How do you do with HB7's? HB9's?" It is possibly that with an HB7 or HB9 he has better luck closing because he relates to them differently than the HB8. As a side note, there was a study done recently showing that men are far more co…	/r/seduction	07/10/10 08:22 PM
2	"Why your friends have more friends than you" - Do this exercise and fix things if you're a dead end socially ...but god DAMN that was a good burger.... wait, you don't know my ex....but i miss her...GREAT customer service....	/r/seduction	25/09/10 08:50 AM
12	Sedditor Locator San Francisco	/r/seduction	15/08/10 07:59 AM
2	Seduction, distilled. Here is a Marlon Brando clip from the 50's that displays ultimate manliness. many women have that very fantasy. Now, I am NOT suggesting that it should be done, but that primal urge - those symbols - are powerful. The challenge is to take what you can, what is good and healthy (the way he stand, his tone voice, the way he plays with her) and make them a part of you.	/r/seduction	15/08/10 07:46 AM
2	Seduction, distilled. Here is a Marlon Brando clip from the 50's that displays ultimate manliness. it is weird to look at that clip and be able to pick apart certain traits, body language and such, that go into that scene.	/r/seduction	15/08/10 07:40 AM
2	Coming off as the "Nice Guy" So, what seems to make sense for me (in part because my tendency is to be an IW as it were) A1 is starting the conversation, A2 is she showing she is interested, A3 you showing interest. If everything else hasn't happened, if she doesn't dig you sexually why have a prolonged conversation, aka C1? If she isn't interested in you, move on. Or rather, that is what i understand from the page...	/r/seduction	05/08/10 12:06 PM
6	Hey Seddit, I just took a bootcamp. ...I think it is considered an art on 4chan at least.... <sob>	/r/seduction	01/04/10 07:38 PM
3	What Women Really Think About Men Who Don't Approach Them keep your rationality to yourself mister!	/r/seduction	26/03/10 07:50 PM
1	Is this a good example of being "alpha"? .	/r/seduction	24/02/10 08:03 AM
2	She asks, "So, who is the prettiest?" This feels like the right answer. My first instinct was to do as many other suggest, make something funny out of it but if anything is clear to me it is that my instincts can not be trusted. Additionally, if you get pulled into their frame at all, then when they try and insist you give a straight forward answer it makes it harder to resist. The conversantional momentum is all wrong. Thou I do wonder if the response should be different depending on if it is your target or not asking the question.…	/r/seduction	12/02/10 05:07 PM
1	Only Ugly People Get Charged with Sexual Harassment "Unwelcome " is mentioned in the above text you posted. It is very reasonable to assume that attention by attractive people is more welcomed than from unattractive people. It is also reasonable to assume that it could be harder to prove it was unwanted even when it was. A casual comment in an email, a harmless flirt could wreck a case that someone had for a legitimate complaint.	/r/MensRights	26/08/09 08:04 PM
1	Only Ugly People Get Charged with Sexual Harassment does an episode of 30 rock count?	/r/MensRights	26/08/09 07:46 PM